#Understanding the Child’s Unique Needs

[forensicfield]

Child Custody Battles: Psychological Assessments and Their Impact on Court Decisions

Child custody evaluations play a crucial role in court decisions. These evaluations assess the mental and emotional aspects of families involved in custody cases. Through various assessment tools and tests, mental health professionals aim to understand..

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[beryllineart]

uncle gaster??? i dontbthink ive heard of this au, or ive been in hiatus for too long

I've only mentioned the idea once, but it has been living rent-free in my head for a long time. Prepare for a ramble.

Gaster is distanced from his family and has thrown himself into his work at the Lab. He isn’t happy, but at least he’s content with the way things are, and has no interest in changing things. Even when he hears that his older sister, Dana (full name Verdana) has fallen down, he hardly reacts.

A few days/weeks? later, Gaster hears a knock on the door. It’s Sans (9) and Papyrus (4). Apparently Dana wanted Gaster to take care of her sons when she passed away. Is Was she crazy? Gaster doesn’t know how to take care of a couple of kids, and he doesn’t want to, especially a couple of kids that look so much like his dead siblings. He moved to Snowdin to get away from those feelings of guilt, regret, anger and grief. These boys aren’t exactly helping in that respect.

Sans isn’t enthusiastic either. His mom died, so now he has to uproot his entire life, move away from all of his friends, etc and move to Snowdin to live with this grouch. And so. Many. Rules. Is this because of his 1 hp? Ugh, he hates being restricted just because he’s a bit more fragile than most monsters are. As a result, he gets a little rebellious, which leads to even greater friction between Sans and Gaster.

Papyrus is more okay with this turn of events since he’s young, but he’s adjusting too. Being in a new place is scary, and it doesn’t really sink in that he’s never going to see his mother again until he has a nightmare and she… isn’t there? She isn’t there to help him get back to sleep or to tell him that everything is all right, and that really puts a damper on his optimism. Also, Sir Snuggles is canon in this universe. I’m considering giving him a cameo in all of my universes because I grew attached to him (I'm a sucker for stuffed animals), but Papyrus tends to wander off and he gets lost at some point in the story, so Sir Snuggles is a clue to where he went.

Eventually they start to become a family. Sans opens up to Gaster about some of his doubts and fears, and Gaster comforts him because hey, he had the same fears when he was young too. And Papyrus is a little ray of sunshine that Gaster can’t help but get attached to. Their similarities to his siblings starts to become a blessing rather than a curse. Uncle Gaster has a lot of similarities to Ebenezer Scrooge, I’m realizing.

There is a lot more to this AU, but that's the basic premise. I'm willing to answer more questions and do some more doodles, but I already feel like I overloaded this post a bit, sorry. Of course, I can't help but overshare, so I'll provide a few more fun facts under the cut.

Dana's passing was not a surprise. She was sick for two years before she fell down. She actually went all the way to Snowdin when she was diagnosed in hopes of mending broken relationships with her brother. He wasn’t around, but luckily it wasn’t a complete waste of time…

Some doodles to show the other little secrets of this AU.

And finally, the theme of this story is "Memory."

[stmarychampionschool]

Tips for Choosing the Right Preschool for Your Child

Selecting the right preschool for your child is one of the most important decisions parents make during the early stages of their child’s development. The right environment nurtures curiosity, builds foundational skills, and instills a love for learning. With numerous options available, especially when exploring nursery school admission in Indore, it can be overwhelming to make the best choice. Here are some essential tips to guide you through the process.

1. Understand Your Child’s Needs

Every child is unique, and their needs differ. Consider your child’s personality, learning style, and social skills. If your child is active and thrives on interaction, look for schools with ample opportunities for group activities. On the other hand, if they are more reserved, a school with smaller class sizes and a nurturing environment may be better.

2. Research Curriculum and Teaching Philosophy

Preschools follow different teaching philosophies such as Montessori, play-based learning, or academic-focused approaches. Research the curriculum offered by various schools and evaluate whether it aligns with your expectations for early education. Many reputable CBSE schools in Indore incorporate preschool programs that balance academics, creativity, and holistic development.

3. Visit the School Campus

A visit to the preschool is crucial. It allows you to observe the environment, infrastructure, and overall ambiance. Check whether the classrooms are clean, safe, and age-appropriate. Ensure there are ample play areas, both indoors and outdoors, as children need a mix of physical activity and structured learning.

4. Assess Teacher Qualifications and Ratios

The quality of teachers plays a significant role in your child’s learning experience. Inquire about the qualifications and experience of the teaching staff. Additionally, the teacher-to-student ratio is critical. A low ratio ensures that each child gets adequate attention, which is particularly important during early education.

5. Evaluate Safety and Security Measures

Safety is a top priority when choosing a preschool. Ensure that the premises are secure, with controlled entry points and proper supervision. Fire safety protocols, first aid availability, and hygiene standards should also be assessed. This is especially vital when considering nursery school admission in Indore, as ensuring your child’s safety is non-negotiable.

6. Consider Proximity and Accessibility

While quality is essential, proximity matters too. A preschool that is closer to your home or workplace reduces travel time and ensures your child is not fatigued by a long commute. Many parents in Indore prefer preschools attached to a CBSE school in Indore, as they offer the added benefit of continuity into higher education.

7. Talk to Other Parents

Speaking with other parents whose children attend the school can provide valuable insights. They can share their experiences regarding the teaching methods, facilities, and overall satisfaction with the preschool. Parent reviews often offer a realistic perspective on what to expect.

8. Check Extracurricular Activities

A good preschool should offer activities beyond academics, such as art, music, dance, and sports. These activities enhance creativity and physical development, fostering a well-rounded growth environment for your child.

9. Inquire About Fees and Flexibility

Understand the fee structure and ensure it fits your budget. Inquire about any additional costs for activities, meals, or transportation. Some schools offer flexible timings or part-time programs, which can be beneficial for working parents.

10. Trust Your Instincts

Finally, trust your gut feeling. If a school feels right and you’re confident it aligns with your values and expectations, it’s likely a good fit for your child.

Choosing the right preschool sets the stage for your child’s future learning journey. Whether you’re considering nursery school admission in Indore, take your time to research and make an informed decision. A nurturing preschool can ignite a lifelong love for learning and provide your child with the best possible start.

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[willyhoos]

whenever i see stuff abt "we need more tails and sonic dynamic where they're SIBLINGS!" and it's just them being rude to each other i get so sad. they do NOT talk to each other like that!!

sometimes they tease, yeah, BUT:

sonic knows better than anyone that tails is still a child, that he's been through a lot (and thus has some particularly sensitive spots,) and the usually brusque/brash sonic very clearly adopts a softer tone with his lil bro! he's also willing to slow down and (gasp) take care of himself a little better for tails' sake. we also see he gets pretty protective of him...

he has absolutely no problem indulging tails' interests and needs!! sonic thinks tails is adorable!! sonic thinks tails is incredible!!

and TAILS thinks his brother is the coolest thing in the world!! he wants to emulate and be more like him! so while he's inherited some of sonic's attitude (and he's earned the right to use it) he would NOTTT just. straight up insult sonic to his face, much less mean it. don't forget that tails canonically thinks this blue energy rat is incredibly cool

why would u want to make this relationship into a stereotype? they're not typical brothers, they formed this special unbreakable bond themselves!! its unique! its built off of understanding and perfect synchrony!! fundamentally it is sonic gently taking tails in and showing him kindness for the first time, and tails striving every day to emulate his hero! there's no want, no need, and no room for needless cruelty!

[blubunz]

FAVORITE CHILD

— dad! leon s. kennedy x f! daughter! reader

《MINORS DNI!》

Tags: incest, reader is mentioned to have siblings, spit kink, praise, slight breeding kink, choking, breath play, semi-public sex, pet names.

A/N: freaks.

“Shh, shh, princess.” Leon coos, one hand clasps over your mouth. He watches your eyes rolling up as he continues snapping his hips into you, practically making you lose control over his thick, slimy cock. “Keep your voice down. Those things your siblings are watching won't be enough to drown your pretty noise.”

You can't help it, how the fuck can you be quiet when your dad's cock is drilling inside you? It's his fault anyways! His fault who tempted you, who praised you, who favored you above the others. You can't help it if your dad is this sexy.

A single whine escapes your lips and, Leon doesn't want to risk having the rest knowing he's fucking his daughter on the bed he used to share with his wife.

His lips crash down to yours, muffling your screams and cries, but the sound of the bed creaking is increasing, he's so scared, just as you are. The idea of having sex in a room with your family sitting right outside is enough to have your pussy squeezing his cock. You don't know, maybe you want it, to see your siblings face scrunched up in disgust. But in your mind, you already knew that they would be jealous. Jealous that Leon is fucking you, not them. Jealous at how he's calling you sweet names. A tiny part of you wants that just to inflate your ego a bit more.

Leon is fucking you dumb, you don't understand why mom left him for someone else when his dick is right here! Big, thick, so alive and he can maintain for so long. You had been drooling for a man like this, and now you have it, you just didn't expect it to be your own flesh and blood, but you can't complain, not when he has been fucking the thoughts out of that little brain that he can grab and pull back to have your back arching.

“Dad—!” You cry, hands clenching the bedsheets, the look you're giving him is something he never expected coming from his daughter, but he loves it, he loves you.

He never doubts you, you're the favorite child for a reason, even if you're now old enough not to care, he always make it like a competition between you and your siblings, and you won every time.

And every time, he rewards you with his dick.

“Shit, my princess is squeezing me tight. Hngh— Honey, are you scared? Your siblings won't know, baby.” Leon whispers, rutting up until his tip kisses your womb. “They don't get to see this, sweetie. It's just between us two, right, my special girl?”

He calls you special with a purpose, you know that. He puts you above others, pleasing your needs not only financially but sexually as well, he's better than anyone you've met when you were out there surviving all by yourself.

Now, all you need to think about is his cock, and how much you two will go tonight.

With the sounds he's letting out, you know he's going to risk your sleep just to fuck you full. You could've expected that, you've been away long enough to leave him aching and frustrated, of course he's risking it.

Like, you two are having sex with your family sitting out in the living room to watch TV right now.

“Sweet girl. My sweetest puppy, god, your pussy is made to fit me.” He praises you, never once stopping and instead keeps thrusting into you. His grip is firm and tight, you can feel him shaking from how much he's feeling. “My perfect pussy that belongs to my favorite girl.”

Leon chuckles, looking at your fucked out face. He grabs your chin, prying your tongue to stick it out with his thumb pressing down on it.

“But of course, you can't prance that title around your sibs, can you? They'll know, baby. It will ruin the surprise and our...secret time together.” He spits in your mouth, thick glob running down your throat, you can taste his uniqueness, the degrading act mixing with his praises are making your arousal doubled.

You can see his satisfaction when you drink his spit like fine wine, trailing fingers around your neck, he squeezes it just enough to have you see stars and your hole clenches.

“My perfect daughter—” He grunts. “—with the sweetest cunt, you're so perfect...” He kisses you again, restricting your airflow just a bit more. Leon can feel your breath rapidly going to try and find a way in and out, through his lips blocking yours and his large hand around your throat.

Leon's pace never falters, he only seems to go even rougher on you, it's like he's begging to be seen with how much sound you two are making because of him.

He told you to be quiet, but he's the one making the bed creak. Leon doesn't give a damn really, your tight cunt is a drug so addicting that blinds his rational thoughts. You just lay there, shivering and skin flushed, hot to his touch. You're too good, and Leon doesn't know if he should be proud, do you take after your mom? Or him with the whole being too attractive thing?

Nonetheless, he's got to have you, he can't share this lovely girl to anyone else. The thought of you even wanting to have a boyfriend would be enough tk have his dick pound into you just to remind you that daddy's the best.

“D-Daddy, I-I can't...” You trail off, words disolve into nothing when he slams into a practically good spot, tip nudging your fleshy wall. “Hngh— fuck...”

“I know, baby.” He moves to your clit, circling it with his finger to get you higher to your climax. “I know. Come on, princess. Be a good girl and—”

“CUMMI—mph!” Your scream is cut off with his palm, Leon groans, feeling your juice washing over his cock as his hips repeatedly thrust into you, his little moans slip out, high pitched with needs as he sucks in a deep sniff of your hair. His eyebrows furrow and he releases himself deep inside you womb, filling you up the way you like it.

He doesn't pull out, staying there just to feel his warmth seeping inside you. He's also afraid some would leak out, he wouldn't want that.

But, he knows he has to eventually. Slowly pulling out, the tip of his cock connects to your pussy by a thin trail of white cum, then more starts pooling out.

“Bred you good, huh, baby?” Leon huffs out a laugh, playing with the cum that's been leaking out. Meanwhile, you lay there, panting and flushed, getting yourself back together piece by piece.

You feel his lips on your sticky forehead, with a small murmur of "good girl". He stands up only to pull you along as well, pushing your panties up back to its place.

“Want to join the others downstairs?” He offers, and laughs when you gave him a deadpan look. “Alright, princess, we'll stay here just a bit longer.”

With that, he hugs you close and kisses your cheek, whispering praises to you, compliments he only gives you and no one else.

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You’re someone who has undergone nostalgia, apathy, discontent and boredom in the past, and has come out of it. Due to this, you try to be present and know how to leave the past behind you. You’ve undergone a lot of growth emotionally and have accepted the situations that occurred as well as yourself, and your own nature so you’re ready to move forward and know your responsibilities. There’s awareness of how regretful you are about having wasted your time in discontent and negative focus instead of being present because those days, that time won’t come back again. You’ve released so many negative emotions and have had to deeply reset your mindset which is not child’s play. Most people stay stuck in the way they are their entire life because they simply can’t bring themselves to change and would rather live in ignorance, and misery but you have pulled yourself out of such a rut and have a desire to truly live. The thing about living is that, the past is gone, the future is not here yet, the only thing we have is the present moment so living is about being in the present moment. “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans” as they say. You’re aware of this and try to be present. That’s your active focus. You’re also someone who knows when change may be needed and you try to bring it about despite discomfort because you’ve already changed yourself very deeply, and overcome what had you consumed, stuck, and trapped. You don’t have the heart to put the one who’s actively choosing you and loving you below anyone. You’re not going to think of some great past love that could not even stick through the test of time as the greatest love you’ve ever had. You’re going to let them go completely, cherishing and loving only the one who is right in front of you because you now know that you deserve a love that is present, and chooses you over and over again, and want to offer the same love to your partner. The concept of ‘exes’ is not a real thing for you anymore. You tend to be grateful for what you already have and who you already have because you seek contentment and enlightenment in life after all the negativity that you’ve put yourself through. You see the positives in any negative situation and simply just possess a zest for life. You’re self aware in many ways because having experienced such negativity, you understand your own negative tendencies and you try to be self aware, and focused. Due to this trait of yours, when you get with someone, you’re still focused on yourself and the person in front of you rather than having your energy be all over the place. You’re also extremely contemplative because you had undergone a phase of negativity, nostalgia, overthinking, boredom, discontent and apathy, and have a lot of capacity to think and many interesting insights on life. You’re also someone who understands love in its most divine and sacred form. It is not just about love, you possess a lot of unique knowledge about many different matters because most people don’t have access to such divine knowledge or are just ignorant.

You’re a very intuitive partner and likely untouchable even when you’re single. You understand your partner and connect with them in a way in which you understand, and feel them on an almost psychic level. You understand their psyche, the conscious, subconscious and unconscious very well, and tend to be very in-tune with their higher needs. You experience love as something very divine and might even hold it as being sacred. I don’t think that you’re willing to share or experience such love with just anyone. You are the very definition of a divine feminine and if you don’t hold yourself, romance, and connections in general to a divine, and sacred standard, you’re either being nudged to do so, will grow into this as you tap into your love nature, should pick another pile or need to accept your true love nature based on your needs, desires and what you can give out. You’re very intelligent and wise, and what I find to be incredibly fascinating is that people might not get this side of you to its fullest or even be aware of its existence unless they get really close to you one on one, or especially unless they’re married to you. I am putting a very big emphasis on marriage here because some of you might be naturally hesitant to share certain things, certain moments of intimacy with those who you are not closely bonded with on a soul and life level, and even if you do, your present partner, your life partner will hold the highest place and will get access to your unique insights, and wisdom the most because they’ll be sharing their life with you and the amount of depth you have, the thoughts, the philosophies, the wisdom, the knowledge, everything that you possess is not something that people can experience and understand in a few months or years plus because of your desire, and ability to live in the present moment and your willingness to change for the better even if it’s hard, you tend to learn more and more from life, and attain more and more wisdom, and knowledge so people of the past don’t even know you. The ones who leave you do not really get to know, understand and experience you, and life with you in the way that the one you share your life with will. You are very feminine and possess a depth, and duality that may seem contradictory but that’s just the way you are. You end up channelling different sides of you depending on what side of you is needed but all of these sides exist in you so even if you may look really cute on the outside, on the inside, you can be the biggest freak or even if you present yourself as being dumb on the outside, you can be very intelligent, wise and aware on the inside, or even if you look very serious and stoic, you have a very playful, fun loving and cute side or even if you present yourself as very intelligent and strategic, you can be very innocent and naive on the inside because you function from genuineness and divinity, or even if you look or present yourself as being mature, emotionless and emotionally controlled, you possess a very sensitive, empathetic and crybaby side.

Honestly, you could relate to all of the above because you have experienced being who you are and that includes the contradictions, and the different views that people have had of you based on the image that you ended up projecting depending on what side of you you were channelling at that time. Those who stick around get to see and experience all of these sides. You’re also very observant and intuitive, recognising your partner’s needs and patterns. You can be a bit passive and not voice out all that you observe instead trying to help them through actions in whatever way you can, and even so, there’s some level of passivity. Many of you are untouchable and unattainable despite your desirability. Also, there’s likely a deep desire for sex and intimacy but in a sacred way in which you do it with the same person again, and again? I’m getting that you tend to be curious and seek knowledge not just about life, divinity or/and academics but also about sex and human connections. You want to do right by your partner at all times and know how to take accountability. You’re fair and accepting of whatever mistake you made, and you don’t mind having to take responsibility and apologise. In fact, if you have to deal with the consequences of your actions, you’ll be willing to do so too. However, you’re someone who desires such fairness for yourself as well. You’re not swayed by external factors, love or affection, you use your mind to make fair decisions and let people deal with the consequences of their actions rather than negotiating every single time. You also have this odd ability in which you can subconsciously pick up on something being off and the future of the connection being not so bright. For example, if you’re being deceived, even if you’re not aware of it yet, you might suddenly get the urge to block them and never talk to them again. You treat your partner as an equal and don’t mind compromising for the greater good. You have a lot of integrity, causing you to try to fulfil your duties within the relationship to the best of your abilities. You usually don’t betray your relationship and partner in any way but even if you do something that you’re not proud of or could cost you the relationship, you are honest with them. You won’t take away their right to make a decision for themself. You’ll give them all the factors needed for them to make a choice for themself, by themself. You deeply desire and require such fairness from your significant other too. You’re a truth seeker and do not appreciate or enjoy being deceived and blindsided. You’re also very decisive and once you decide that you want someone, you stick by it. You feel a great deal of love towards them and you’re clear in that. You also make the right decisions with fairness and integrity. You know how to communicate effectively and you place a really strong emphasis on understanding. You know that communication will do nothing for a couple unless they possess a basic understanding of each other, a desire to understand each other and want to do right by each other.

You have had a breakthrough, a realisation that people in the world are not as honest and fair as you are, and that there will always be people who will deceive you. Some of them may lie to you while the others may just leave details out, either way, it is deception. So you seek clarity and truth in relationships, and have grown a certain resilience. Breakthroughs and realisations about other people’s deception towards you used to hurt you deeply in the past, and they still will if you find out but you’d rather have that over living in a lie, in deception, in an illusion. You have developed a certain resilience around such matters and will be glad to have clarity, and enlightenment and will make the best possible choice for yourself, choosing to be fair with yourself in such situations. You will also attain knowledge and wisdom from these situations. You’re very playful and pure in romance. You likely need a partner who you can admire and look up to but also makes your inner child feel safe because you have a tendency to act very childish in relationships. You love in an innocent manner with a lot of genuine emotional involvement. You tend to be smitten when in love and get flustered easily. The type to have a crush on your partner years into the relationship. This is honestly so adorable. You value intimacy and emotions, and enjoy doing things to display affection such as writing love letters, romantic messages, etc. You’re very affectionate and tender, and honestly a bit vulnerable, sensitive, and almost naive? Due to how genuinely and purely you love, you have zero tolerance for deception, and lies in your relationship. You will not even tolerate deception through leaving details out. When you love someone and when they hold the space for you to feel safe enough to be as childish, affectionate, pure, and tender as you want, you naturally open up and treat the connection as something sacred, intimate and pure, you just open up, and give all of yourself away without reservations, just pure love. You also treat your partner with a lot of reverence. You’re very childlike and sensitive, and very affectionate and tender, and might cry easily with your partner as well as joyfully joke, dance and laugh around with them. You tend to play with your partner, as in, have light hearted fun like an actual child and find new ways to communicate with them in witty, and affectionate ways. For example, notes around the house, notes in their locker or textbook, discussing different topics ranging from playful jabs and jokes to deep, and insightful conversations and even your tone might change. You might speak in a sweet but high pitched tone with a childish cadence sometimes but a grounded, deeper and more serious tone at other times. You’re also very romantic, flirty and almost obsessive but unattainable, and they’re the only one who gets access to this side of you.

When it comes to your cons, you’re someone who worries a lot. In the past, you had connections that ended suddenly or didn’t progress past a certain point, or things were just moving awfully slowly despite you providing a lot of value and service to the other person, and it has left deep wounds in your psyche. You tend to be fearful and paranoid. The other person was not taking action and just lacked the passion, energy, and drive to try with you and you were left directionless. This situation or possibly even multiple situations was very stagnant. They could have fed off your comfort and assistance just to pull the “I’m busy” card when they found someone else, and many of you weren’t even given the truth in that situation, you had to find out by yourself so well, you felt deceived, used, discarded and you couldn’t even complain about it because you felt like you had put yourself into that situation by sticking around for so long. You were craving both comfort and stimulation at that time so you connected with these people in a very fun, almost childlike manner and were not taken seriously. I don’t think that it was a you problem at all but the only con that I’m personally getting here is your negative thinking due to your past experiences. You have intense negative emotions come up from a very deep seated place. You overthink a lot and have your mental health fall apart when in a relationship. You seem to have dealt with public/social humiliation, having people gang up on you or gossip about you because of someone you were involved with. It could have been that others decided that you were not good enough for your partner or your partner publicly betrayed you causing you to be the butt of the joke. Either way, it was incredibly humiliating and left a very toxic effect on you. It’s like, supposing you ate something toxic, even if you took an anecdote, the toxins remained in your system, that’s how it is with you. I got so many qualities for your pros but for your cons, there’s a big focus on your fears, paranoia, anxieties and deep seated negative beliefs, and the other cards are only there to support it. You seek and desire the truth, and have been left scorned in the past so you are a bit bitter about it still and tend to be very critical of your partner. In fact, before you even get with them. you’re already criticising them. “You found someone more exciting, the next second, you were gone and you left me there crying, wondering what I did wrong. You said I’m never satisfied but I don’t think it’s true cause all I ever wanted was to be enough. Don’t you think I loved you too much to be used and discarded? Don’t you think I loved you too much to think I deserve nothing?” By this point, you’re aware that not all your thoughts and beliefs are true but you still fear that the history will repeat itself. You fear that people will not take you seriously but will still use you for what you can do for them and what comfort you can provide for them just to not even be honest with you, and lead you on while you were simply just trying to respect their pace. You fear that you’ll feel discarded, used, scorned, naive, unimportant, unwanted, undesired and undesirable. Your only con is that you will either keep this to yourself, sabotage the relationship and hurt yourself silently, or will drive your partner crazy with all this negativity and intensity.

Pros:

i) Tries to be present because you have dealt with not being so

ii) Notices when and where change is needed, and brings it about even if it is hard or takes time

iii) Has already dealt with being stuck in the past and the nostalgic “I’ll never get over this”, “I’ll never love anyone like that again”, “I’ll never forget ___” or/and “what if I never find love again?” phase and regrets having wasted time like that, and desires present love in the present moment and is capable as well as willing to give it back

iv) Cherishes present love and leaves the past in the past, possibly considering past love to not have been real because of the discontent, pain and the feeling of being lost that it caused

v) Has grown significantly emotionally and continues doing so

vi) Is unwilling to be consumed by anything unless it’s present and shows the promise of being present in the future but even so, if it leaves, you’re willing to leave it behind and find something that is present, and cherish it wholeheartedly instead

vii) Your main priority is the one right in front of you and you are present with them, cherishing, and loving them wholeheartedly, not putting them beneath anyone else in your heart and life

viii) You know how to be grateful or at least try to be and seek contentment, pleasure, and enlightenment in the present moment

ix) Sees the positives in negative situations and tries to maintain a positive focus

x) Self aware about one’s negative tendencies and a willingness to gain more self awareness

xi) You try to keep your focus on yourself, your life, being present and your own partner, wanting to cherish them, and actively fulfill your responsibilities towards them

xii) Extremely contemplative and has interesting, and insightful philosophies and thoughts on life due to having contemplated deeply in the past

xiii) Possesses a strong capacity to think

xiv) Has many interesting insights on life

xv) Someone who understands love in its most divine and sacred form

xvi) Understands partner and connects with them in a way in which you understand, and feel them on an almost psychic level

xvii) Divine feminine and a very deep personality

xviii) Highly intelligent and wise

xix) Depth not easily accessible to others: only fully revealed in close, soul-level connections (especially in marriage)

xx) Selective with intimacy and emotional sharing

xxi) Continuously evolving through a commitment to self-growth and living in the present

xxii) Deeply feminine with a rich inner world

xxiii) Embody contrasting traits, such as:

- Cute appearance vs. deep internal complexity

- Seeming naive or playful vs. being actually strategic and insightful

- Stoic exterior vs. emotional sensitivity

- Intelligent presentation vs. innocent inner nature

- Multifaceted personality, channeling different sides as needed

xxiv) Those who stay close get to experience your full depth

xxv) Observant and highly intuitive

xxvi) Supportive through actions more than words, with a tendency toward passivity

xxvii) Desirable yet emotionally or spiritually unattainable to many

xxviii) Craves deep, sacred intimacy, particularly with one consistent partner

xxix) Curious and seeking knowledge across diverse areas (life, divinity, human connection, sexuality)

xxx) Accountable and fair, willing to admit mistakes and accept consequences

xxxi) Desires mutual fairness in relationships

xxxii) Emotionally grounded, makes decisions based on reason rather than being swayed by affection or manipulation

xxxiii) Able to detect misalignment or deception even subconsciously with instinctive urges (like cutting off contact)

xxxiv) Deeply genuine, operating from a place of authenticity and spiritual alignment

xxxv) You treat your partner as an equal and don’t mind compromising for the greater good

xxxvi) Strong sense of integrity and fulfill your relationship duties to the best of your ability

xxxvii) You are honest, respecting your partner’s right to make their own decisions by being fully transparent

xxxviii) You deeply desire and need the same level of fairness and honesty from your partner

xxxix) You are a truth seeker and cannot stand deception or being blindsided

xl. You are decisive in love - once you choose someone, you remain loyal and clear in your affection

xli. You make relationship decisions with fairness, clarity and integrity

xlii. You communicate effectively and value deep mutual understanding over surface-level conversation

xliii. You believe that real communication requires the will to understand and do right by one another

xliv. Have had a breakthrough about the dishonesty of others and learned to accept painful truths over comforting illusions

xlv. You’ve built resilience around deception and now choose clarity, even if it hurts

xlvi. You grow wiser and more grounded from such experiences, always choosing fairness toward yourself

xlvii. In romance, you are playful, pure-hearted and emotionally genuine

xlviii. You need a partner who you can admire but who also nurtures your inner child

xlix. You tend to act very childlike in love with innocent affection and emotional sincerity

l. You get easily flustered and smitten, having a crush on your partner even years into the relationship

li. You value intimacy, affection and emotional expression through romantic gestures like love letters and messages

lii. You are extremely affectionate, tender and emotionally vulnerable in love

liii. Your love is so pure that you have zero tolerance for lies, even lies by omission

liv. When someone makes you feel emotionally safe, you open up completely and love without reservation

lv. You treat the connection as sacred, giving your all with purity and reverence

lvi. You enjoy lighthearted playfulness with your partner

lvii. You find creative and witty ways to connect, such as leaving notes or using playful tones in conversation

lviii. You’re deeply romantic almost obsessive in your love but emotionally and spiritually unattainable to most, making your partner feel uniquely chosen as the only one with access to this side of you

Cons:

i) You worry excessively and tend to overthink, often allowing fear and paranoia to dominate your emotional landscape

ii) You’ve internalized guilt for staying too long in unhealthy dynamics, blaming yourself for trusting and giving too much

iii) You are deeply scarred by emotional deception, especially when others masked disinterest with excuses like being “busy” while entertaining someone else

iv) You often weren’t given closure or truth; you had to uncover it yourself, further intensifying your trust issues

v) Your negative thinking, stemming from these past experiences, is your greatest con, it clouds your perception even when things are going well

vi) Intense, deep-seated negative emotions can surface suddenly and powerfully, often overwhelming you

vii) Your mental health may decline during a relationship due to these unhealed traumas and emotional instability

viii) You’ve experienced public or social humiliation related to a partner perhaps being gossiped about or made to feel inferior

ix) You may have been betrayed publicly or treated as less-than, becoming the subject of ridicule or pity

x) These humiliating experiences linger like toxins in your system, creating emotional reactivity even when the current situation is safe or different

xi) While you are highly self-aware, your lingering bitterness and unresolved pain can make you critical of your partner even before they’ve done anything wrong

xii) You tend to project fears from your past relationships onto your current partner, expecting betrayal, abandonment or replacement

xiii) You question your worth and fear you’re not enough that others only value you for what you offer, not who you are

xiv) You doubt your desirability and fear being viewed as naive, unimportant or disposable

xv) Despite knowing your thoughts aren’t always rational, you struggle to fully trust love again and fear history repeating itself

xvi) This fear may manifest in two ways:

- You suppress it and suffer silently, slowly sabotaging yourself and the relationship, or

- You express it with overwhelming intensity, which may emotionally exhaust or alienate your partner

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Your pros are that you are intolerant to bullshit and have high standards for yourself, and others. You’re a bit ruthless when it comes to your standards even with yourself. You know how to be patient and build upon a connection with consistency, effort, and hard work. You’re perseverant and don’t give up easily. Once you’re invested, that is it, your commitment is unwavering. You also become so focused on building upon the connection through your own effort that in the past, you used to not notice that the other person was not doing the same. This is why you’ve developed such high standards as well. You are very keen on your own growth and want to live up to your own standards so you persevere in that way too. You are naturally a provider regardless of your sex. You prefer long term connections that are grounded and can be depended on, and naturally take on the role of someone reliable who can be depended upon. You value certain traditions and old school ways of doing relationships, and do not entertain dusties looking for a grounded, mature, wise provider who’s a reliable partner in every way. You genuinely can’t bring yourself to do so. You try to consistently better yourself and look for the same quality in your partner too. You are guided by values, principles and ethics, and want a partner like that too. I keep on getting that your standards can be considered really high by many but they’re actually completely grounded in reality. Why is it wrong of you to want a mature, loyal, ethical and responsible provider? You are someone who is naturally more focused on building yourself and your life i.e. money, character, career, all of it so you want a partner who’s similar in nature. Someone who is focused on looking after themself, their family, career, character and growth rather than looking at random girls everywhere. You cannot tolerate the mere idea of wandering eyes. You want to be respected and respectful of your partner so it’s very important for you to find someone who’s rich in character, focused on building themself, their life, money and career, values long term relationships, and does not have wandering eyes because otherwise, you’d not be able to respect them enough to be with them. However, you try to maintain as strong of a character as you can and are naturally a provider. You’re also someone who has already worked a lot on yourself so when you are in a partnership, you have a lot to offer to the person in front of you. You have every right to be demanding and picky honestly because when you connect with someone, you risk breaking and losing all that you’ve built for yourself. Be it your character, money, life, values, etc. I’m saying this because it’s been proven that it takes only a few days for humans to start getting influenced by their environment and that includes the people around them. You’re also someone who compromises in relationships so it’s important that you find someone who’s rich in character, well meaning towards you, mature, wise and wants to provide for you so you’re not at a loss.

You are accepting of people’s differences and might enjoy some level of fighting, and aggression but you have a more peaceful personality. You enjoy the making up part of fighting 😭. The energy that I’m getting here is so adorable and funny. You will only be with someone who can you respect, admire and look up to because you have a lot of self respect, and wouldn’t want to risk losing all that you’ve built for yourself and all the progress that you’ve made so supposing something happens and they’re correcting, and scolding you, you will either silently take it or try to fight back but will still end up listening to them and taking it in the end xD. You seek peace but you have an ability to find passion and beauty even in conflict, and have it strengthen your bond with your partner rather than break it. You have a lot of integrity and are incredibly honest. Supposing you did something that most people would hide or lie about, you’d just expose it because it’s just a natural part of you. If it is concerning past matters, I’m getting that you would talk about these things in a more unapologetic manner but if it is something that is happening in the present moment or could harm the connection, you would be more remorseful with your speech but you feel like someone who wants to love you should know you and someone who wants to understand you will do so. You quite literally have nothing to hide. You also understand the nuances of emotions and human relationships, if you do anything to hurt your partner. You try to make up for it and build trust back again gradually rather than getting mad at them for not forgiving or trusting you. Most of you wouldn’t really do things that would betray or hurt your partner but I’m getting certain things coming through. You have high standards and before you get with your partner, you don’t trust their intentions and are naturally secretive. You try to be cautious and strategic not to manipulate but to protect yourself, and not fall victim to manipulation and mind games, and this is not a con, it is a pro but this can also create a bit more of a distrustful dynamic between you and your partner initially. So once you trust them enough, you’re honest with them about how you felt and how you feel, and all of that. You don’t hide much if anything from your partner once you feel safe enough. In fact, you don’t mind showing them your uglier sides or talking about the worst things that you have done, you want them to know you deeply, even the ugly parts and be able to accept, and love them. You have no intention of putting your partner through anything ugly but you just want them to know how shitty of a person you have been or can be. You don’t want them to love the ugly parts of you as in, put up with them but to have faith in you as a person despite what you may have done in the past. The thing is, you seem to be a person of a lot of integrity naturally so the ugly things that you’ve done in the past were mostly reactions to what other people were doing to you? But even so, you were treated as and seen as the villain in such situations but you don’t really care to explain your side to anyone.

However, with your partner, you do. I think that it’s a subconscious thing for you actually, you might not be aware that this side of you exists until you actually get into a relationship. Also, you have dealt with a lot of fights, competitions, aggression and conflicts, and do not want to deal with these anymore. You want a more understanding and peaceful dynamic with acceptance of differences, and fights that add passion into the bond and strengthen it rather than weaken, and break it. You are tired of being misunderstood :(. You know how to be alone and don’t act desperate for connections so when you do connect with someone, it’s not out of desperation but from a place of grounded place of truly choosing someone and connecting with them. You have likely experienced money or even if you haven’t, you are not money hungry. Yes, you do want money, it’s very obvious that you’re interested in building a life full of abundance for yourself and you see it as a valuable asset that can make life more beautiful but you think that character and true connections are beyond value. Even though you’re pretty self regulated when you’re single or try to be, you rely on your partner and want them to rely on you. You let them rely on you and work as a team with them. You do not want to burden your partner initially maybe so you’ll try to keep up appearances of stability but overtime, the more comfortable that you get with them, the more that you rely on them. You’re very candid and don’t try to be elegant for no reason, you’re just real. Obviously, you will still want to self regulate sometimes but you’re so grateful to have someone to rely on and want to be the same for them. You seem to have mixed feelings about dependency in a connection but you know how to maintain a fine balance. You want a provider and are a provider yourself, and would love the finer things in life but you are fine with not having it. Even if your partner’s finances were to fall apart, you’d stick by their side because you have faith in them and you enjoy the down to earth moments of comfort just as much as you may enjoy a luxury retreat. What matters is your constant companion :,). How sweet. Also, you’re the type to tire yourself out by working for your relationship and partner, trying to be everything for them, trying to be the one that they can depend on at all times. You go above and beyond for them, and your relationship with them. This is why you need a partner who is well meaning and wants to work for the relationship too because you’re not going to care if you’re tired, hungry, whatever, you’re just going to work, work, work for them. I think that you’ve developed high standards and certain demands, and requirements that you need your partner to meet because in the past, all you did was work, work, work and for people who couldn’t or just didn’t do the same for you. You didn’t even ask for anything. You just kept on doing. You deserved so much better than that. I’m glad that you can see that now.

Moving onto your cons, once you’re invested and committed, that is it. Your devotion reaches the highest point possible and you’re so busy fulfilling, managing, and balancing the relationship that you don’t notice or take into account your own happiness or lack of it. You’re very flexible and keen on seeing, and understanding your partner’s perspective and manage your emotions well in order to fulfil your role in the relationship, and plan and prepare for the future but you’re often too patient, and understanding. You try to find balance and happiness even if the relationship is unfulfilling for you. There are times when you are so busy balancing, understanding and maintaining the relationship by doing for it that you don’t notice how you’re being deprived of your wants and needs until it hits you really hard or even if you know that it’s not bringing you happiness, you continue trying because you’re borderline addicted to the person and are willing to put your needs, and wants in the backseat. You try to be understanding instead of leaving the relationship. “Not everything is about me.” “Not everything has to be how I dreamed of it to be.” You are able to find satisfaction in situations that are not satisfactory and you deserve so much better than that. You continue maintaining an image of being happy and fulfilled on the outside even if you’re dying on the inside due to how the relationship is not doing much for you. Your connections tend to drain you and in fact, rob you off your happiness and abundance, and you let it. You go through phases in your relationships but throughout it, you try your best to be understanding and patient, and maintain and fulfil the relationship. You think of the relationship as something divine and fulfilling initially, and try your best to fulfil it as such but then you start noticing that the connection is not what you dreamed of it to be but even so, you maintain optimism and continue doing for it because you understand that people are different, and that not every dream needs to come true but the more time that passes by, the more you lose your inner sense of abundance because you start bringing addicted to the other person and the lack of satisfaction only becomes more evident. Even so, you continue doing your best, you continue maintaining the relationship and being understanding, and patient but then you start becoming sadder, and start feeling lonelier. Then, you start mourning the relationship while you’re still in it. After that, you start thinking about things more logically. You start using your reasoning skills and enter a period of analysis. By this point, you’ve felt and mourned enough, you become more mind oriented than heart oriented and seek mental clarity, and truth above everything.

Then you enter a period of dissatisfaction, boredom, contemplation and nostalgia. Until the sorrow phase, you are very understanding. Starting from the thinker phase onwards, you start becoming more and more dissatisfied. After this phase of dissatisfaction and contemplation is over, you realise that the connection was not even that solid, stable and grounded, and you finally have the courage to break it. You are someone who maintains the relationship in such a way that you handle both the feminine and masculine parts because you genuinely don’t mind doing for love which is actually a really good trait but in this case, it’s a con because you wouldn’t have to fulfil both the roles if your partner was not complacent in the first place. You also give away your dreams in order to find happiness in whatever the relationship is and whatever your partner has to offer. You are not someone who gives up simply because your partner and the relationship is not living up to your wishes, instead you try to make the most out of the relationship by doing your best and remain patient, understanding, and satisfied through it all until you absolutely cannot take it anymore. I feel like if you’ve had past relationships, situationships, whatever, they wouldn’t have lasted as long as they did if it wasn’t for you. They lasted as long as they did only because of the effort you put into them, all the roles you took on and all the understanding, and patience that you showed. There could also be a history of getting deeply involved in situations that were not even grounded in the first place i.e. the person you were involved with was not committed to you and you were not leaving these situations despite dissatisfaction, and sorrow until you absolutely couldn’t take it anymore. If it’s not a history, it could be a tendency that you’re not even aware of yet. Be careful because you will get deeply wounded by these situations due to how much you give away. You cannot and should not try anything not committed because that’s not how you’re programmed, that’s not what you’re made for. In fact, if you feel or have felt used by friends of whatever sex you’re attracted to (because many of you have or will), I suggest that you make a firm decision to not be friends with them, not on a personal level at least i.e. no texting, no calling, no sorrow sharing, etc. because due to your natural provider tendencies, you might end up giving them more than you should. ‘You’re losing me’ by Taylor Swift is coming through. I’m glad that your pros showed that you’ve become more demanding and have developed high standards because it will truly protect you from so many low quality experiences.

Pros:

i) You are highly intolerant of nonsense and uphold firm standards - both for yourself and for others.

ii) You are ruthlessly self-disciplined, holding yourself accountable to your own values and goals.

iii) You are patient and understand the importance of building a connection with consistency, effort and long-term investment.

iv) You are extremely perseverant, once you commit, you’re all in and don’t back down easily.

v) You’ve learned from the past to value reciprocity and have developed high standards after noticing imbalanced efforts in previous relationships.

vi) You are growth-oriented, constantly working on yourself and striving to meet your own evolving standards.

vii) You are naturally a provider, regardless of gender, and take on a role of dependability and support in relationships.

viii) You value stability and long-term commitment, and prefer grounded connections over fleeting ones.

ix) You have a traditional side when it comes to relationships, valuing maturity, wisdom and reliability

x) You do not entertain people who aren’t serious or grounded, you seek meaningful and stable partnerships.

xi) You consistently strive to better yourself and want a partner with the same mindset and drive.

xii) You are guided by values, ethics and principles, and desire a partner who is equally rooted in integrity.

xiii) While your standards are considered ‘high’, they are realistic and rooted in experience and self-awareness.

xiv) You seek a partner who is mature, loyal, focused on growth, and respectful - not one with wandering eyes.

xv) You cannot respect someone who lacks discipline or character, as your self-respect wouldn’t allow you to stay in that dynamic.

xvi) You have every right to be discerning in love because you risk your whole foundation i.e. your values, character and peace when entering a relationship.

xvii) You compromise in relationships but require someone whose character is rich, intentions are pure and who wants to contribute as much as you do.

xviii) You are peaceful by nature but enjoy occasional conflict if it adds passion and depth, when followed by reconciliation.

xix) You value peace but can find beauty in passionate, emotionally charged moments that strengthen your bond.

xx) You possess a deep sense of honesty and integrity. Even when you mess up, you are transparent.

xxi) You don’t hide your flaws, you reveal even your ‘ugly’ sides because you desire to be deeply known and authentically accepted.

xxii) You are unapologetically open about your past mistakes, seeing them as part of your truth, not something to be ashamed of.

xxiii) You’re remorseful when your actions hurt your partner and put effort into rebuilding trust, showing emotional maturity.

xxiv) You’re cautious and strategic at the beginning of a connection, not to manipulate but to protect yourself.

xxv) Once trust is built, you are transparent, candid and willing to reveal your deepest truths.

xxvi) You want your partner to love and understand you as a whole, even the parts of you that you’ve struggled with yourself.

xxvii) Despite being misunderstood by others, you long for a partner who will hear your side and see the full context of who you are, and will express your truth to them.

xxviii) You are tired of conflict, competition and misunderstanding, you now seek peace, understanding and calmness in love.

xxix) You are emotionally independent - you do not chase relationships from desperation but choose them from clarity and groundedness.

xxx) You have likely experienced wealth or comfort yet are not materialistic. You value character and deep connection above material things.

xxxi) While you can self-regulate, you value mutual dependency in relationships and welcome shared vulnerability.

xxxii) You don’t put on a polished act, you’re real, raw and authentic, even if that means being a little messy at times.

xxxiii) You strive to balance independence with healthy dependency. You are reliable and incredibly grateful to have someone to rely on.

xxxiv) You are willing to stick by your partner through both abundance and scarcity, valuing emotional constancy over material security.

xxxv) You work tirelessly in your relationships - providing, nurturing, supporting, always beyond what is asked of you.

xxxvi) You require a partner who can meet you in effort and intention, you’ve likely learned from exhausting one-sided relationships.

xxxvii) You’ve developed your high standards as a response to past imbalance where you gave endlessly without asking for anything in return.

xxxviii) You now recognize your worth, the value you bring, and that you deserve a partner who matches your energy and effort.

Cons:

i) Once you’re emotionally invested, your devotion becomes absolute, even to your own detriment. You over-prioritize the relationship, often neglecting your own happiness.

ii) You’re too patient and understanding, sometimes to a fault. You’ll sacrifice your own needs in favor of maintaining harmony and ‘doing the right thing.’

iii) You tend to internalize dissatisfaction, trying to make peace with unfulfilling situations by convincing yourself to be grateful for whatever little you’re receiving.

iv) You’re so focused on making the relationship work that you don’t realize how deprived you are until it crashes down on you emotionally.

v) You continue giving your all and keeping up appearances even while emotionally dying inside, carrying the entire emotional load silently.

vi) You minimize your needs and abandon your dreams to find satisfaction in whatever your partner is able or willing to offer, even if it’s not enough.

vii) Your emotional resilience becomes a double-edged sword allowing you to stay too long in connections that are unbalanced and hurtful.

viii) You shift into a caregiving role and unconsciously take on both the masculine and feminine energies in a relationship, trying to do everything yourself.

ix) You tend to become addicted to the person rather than the reality of the relationship, which clouds your judgment.

x) You mourn the relationship while still being in it, silently grieving the emotional starvation while continuing to serve and stay.

xi) You delay walking away from a connection that isn’t working, hoping your emotional labor will somehow transform the dynamic.

xii) You rationalize subpar treatment by telling yourself, “not everything is about me” or “it doesn’t have to be perfect,” slowly eroding your own boundaries.

xiii) You try to remain optimistic and patient even as the joy and emotional richness of the connection disappears.

xiv) You experience phases in relationships: deep emotional commitment → subtle dissatisfaction → silent sorrow → mental detachment → heavy dissatisfaction → eventual clarity and breakup.

xv) Once you hit emotional burnout, you switch from heart-led to logic-driven, seeking mental clarity and analyzing everything in retrospect.

xvi) Your pattern often leads to eventual heartbreak not because you were blind but because you delayed acting on what you already knew inside.

xvii) The relationship sometimes only lasts as long as it does because of your effort, sacrifice and emotional labor, not because of equal contribution from the other side.

xviii) You may have a pattern or history of being deeply invested in connections that were never fully committed or grounded to begin with.

xix) You could be prone to entering or staying in ambiguous dynamics (e.g. situationships) even though they do not align with your true needs for security and commitment.

xx) Your natural provider energy makes you give more than you should, even to friends or casual connections, leaving you feeling used or emotionally drained.

xxi) You are deeply wounded by experiences where you gave your all and received inconsistency or emotional neglect in return.

xxii) You are not built for emotionally casual or undefined relationships and trying to engage in them could be damaging to your well-being.

xxiii) You might unknowingly attract people who take advantage of your loyalty, patience and giving nature, especially if they sense your emotional endurance.

xxiv) Even though you have now developed higher standards, there’s still a lingering vulnerability to fall into old emotional patterns if not constantly self-aware.

xxv) If your history includes being used by emotionally intimate friendships with those you’re attracted to, it may be necessary to establish stricter emotional boundaries.

xxvi) You have a tendency to perform emotional labor for others, taking on their pain, worries, and chaos, even when it harms your peace.

xxvii) You’re often too understanding of poor treatment, interpreting it as ‘human flaw’ rather than a red flag which slows your exit from unhealthy dynamics.

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Starting with your pros, you are someone who seeks to learn and teach in a romantic relationship. In fact, you’re always learning from everywhere and so, you want to be with someone who you can look up to and learn from, and who looks up to you and learns from you as well. You’re very happy go lucky in many ways and have different sides to you. You’ve likely experienced the ups and downs of life but most people see you as having experienced only the ups because you can act very happy, and bubbly. You’re also someone who can accept both the positives and negatives that come your way, and will stick with your partner through the ups and downs of life. You won’t let life come in between you and your partner, instead you’ll go with the flow of things and try to turn life around with them. You see love as a commitment, you value certain traditions and old school ideas, and naturally live by them and aspire to live by them, and do not let your commitment waver. Also, whether people know it or not, you bring a lot of luck into your romantic partner’s life. It doesn’t have to be that good things start happening to them after you enter their life (though it very well could be) but instead that simply just having a partner like you itself is very fortunate. You understand love and commitment very deeply, and love in a divine manner. You’re traditional and old school in many ways, and it makes you very dutiful and responsible. You do not leave your partner when they’re going through an emotional low or a low point in their life instead you remain patient, understanding and try to see things from their perspective. You instead try to maintain the connection and work with your partner in harmony, and cooperation by understanding their emotions and taking on their usual role if you have to. You’re flexible and don’t mind changing when life calls for it. People don’t give women enough credit. When people think about a traditional relationship, they immediately think about a working husband and a stay at home wife but they forget that life is not that simple for everyone. Even the most traditional couples from our parent’s generation and before that, the women have worked to provide for their family if they had to.

That didn’t make their relationship any less traditional. It’s similar with you, you value old school and traditional relationships but your idea of a traditional relationship is a lot about ethics, values, and responsibilities rather than the typical traditional roles alone. You do not mind stepping up for a while if the relationship calls for it but you are definitely not willing to provide for a bum for the rest of your life. You still expect your partner to want to be a provider and if they stop trying, you’d frankly lose a lot of respect for them. You don’t mind changing and transforming deeply through your partner, relationship or for them but you’re also okay with endings. You’re not someone who keeps on holding onto a connection just because the start of the relationship was beautiful. You’ve learned healthy self regulation by now and have changed a lot, in fact, you’re always learning, and always in the process of change and also like I said earlier, you’ve experienced the ups and downs of life which includes losing connections, and people and all of it has caused you to be more comfortable with endings. You don’t care about how much potential any connection has, if you feel slightly disrespected or realise that it’s not what you want, that you’d be disrespecting yourself by staying in the connection, you will leave. You’re a very ethical person who truly tries to watch your character and empathise, understand, and work with your partner so if you don’t receive the same, you’ll leave. For you, losing respect and feeling disrespected is enough of a reason to leave because you value integrity. Character is a big thing for you and I’m so glad that you seem to have more of a self assured approach to connections, and know what you want and can offer. You’re also okay with not exploring the potential of connections at all and not taking them to the next level if it requires you to lose integrity, turn a blind eye to disrespect, turn a blind eye to lack of values of the other person, etc. You know how to experience relationships in a divine manner in which you become one with your partner and work as a team with patience, understanding, and love but when relationships end, you are able to see and accept that it was clearly not as grounded, stable and deep as you may have wanted it to be.

Moving onto your cons, there’s a big emphasis on your past for those of you who have it. Your past experiences could cause you to have a more negative view of love and I mean, overwhelmingly negative. A fear of history repeating itself, a belief that whatever happened in the past will happen again, I’m getting sleepless nights or nightmares kind of stuff but that’s not the case for most of you and even if it is, you are able to move past it. The real problem is your partner’s past. You want a divine and devoted love in which you pretty much become one with your partner, and you hold commitment and love to a very high standard as well as caliber. You would not get with just anyone and even if some of you have in the past, those experiences were not real, they weren’t grounded and you accept, and understand that so they hold no meaning to you but for your partner, it could, you fear that. You want to be the only one for them. It would not be a con but you’re someone who will legit break down to tears, lose sleep or wake up deeply sad at the thought of your partner having been with and loved someone else :,). I’m the same so no judgement. You’re also very naive and pure, you love in a young, and innocent manner and fear not receiving love in the same way. When you love someone, they’re the only one for you and you fear that that’s not the case for them. The mere thought of them having memories of someone else, being able to remember their touch, voice, intimate moments with them, romantic moments with them, the feeling of being with them, all and any of it is enough to break you down into tears, make you overthink and lose sleep. This is interesting, you have always been a risk taker in relationships, often ending up rushing into them and your innocent nature caused you to be taken advantage of. You were honestly very naive and still are but now you’re aware of it, and you fear having to experience such moments again. It doesn’t even have to have happened regarding romance but your past seems to have made you feel naive causing you to be afraid of taking risks now.

You’re incredibly childlike and naive, having faith and believing in your partner without questioning things much if at all 🥹. It’s funny because you could give them hell about their past and drive yourself insane by thoughts of it but you love them so purely, and have so much faith in them. You lack assertiveness and become very soft, too soft. You’re sensitive and are ever loving. You become too empathetic and too caring. You’re extremely sensitive and vulnerable as well though, and despite lacking assertiveness, you tend to be very sharp and reckless when hurt. You possess a duality in which you can be out of control sometimes but are mostly not this way, in fact, you’re more subservient and meek, not expressing much assertiveness most of the time. You are instead very soft and sensitive, and loving and understanding. You experience the relationship as something very deep. It causes you to change a lot internally and question your beliefs, and change them and despite your comfortability with change, it is very intense and extreme so you try not to show the effects of it externally. However, this intensity, extremity, transformation and resistance has its way of showing up externally so you end up showing very vulnerable sides of yourself in the process of trying not to do so? Also, a very romantic thing is coming through, you try to avoid falling or showing that you’ve fallen and in the process of doing so, you fail even harder or when you realise, or show that you’ve fallen, there’s just no way of getting over it. It’s just so profound and deep. What’s that Mariah Carrey song that’s been trending recently? The one that goes “I give my all to him, just one more night with you. That song is coming through and also ‘hopelessly devoted to you’. You get deeply involved with your romantic partner and will have a hard time moving on from them due to how sensitive, soft and vulnerable they made you feel. You love deeply even if you are emotionally well regulated on the outside and can have a very hard time moving on. Being haunted by your past romantic partner for a really long time. Those of you who have loved someone this deeply are likely aware of this side of yourself.

Pros:

i) You approach love as a mutual journey of growth, you want to both learn from and teach your partner, creating a dynamic of shared wisdom.

ii) You are genuinely happy-go-lucky with a lighthearted spirit that coexists with emotional depth. You’ve experienced real lows but carry yourself with joy and resilience.

iii) You’re emotionally adaptable, able to accept both the highs and lows of life without letting them disrupt your connection with your partner.

iv) You’re committed and grounded in your view of love. For you, love is not a fleeting feeling but a deep-rooted responsibility and choice.

v) You believe in traditional values but not in a rigid or outdated way. Your version of tradition is based on ethics, responsibility and mutual respect, not gender roles.

vi) You bring genuine emotional abundance into your partner’s life. Simply being with you is a source of good fortune, stability and growth for them.

vii) You love in a divine, spiritual way- your love is loyal, enduring and deeply respectful of the sacredness of commitment.

viii) You do not abandon your partner in their low moments. Instead, you become more understanding, empathetic and willing to help carry the emotional weight if needed.

ix) You’re emotionally flexible and can adapt to life’s changing circumstances, taking on more or less in the relationship depending on what’s needed.

x) You honor and admire traditional structures, but you don’t cling to outdated norms. Your version of tradition is modern, realistic, and rooted in character and values.

xi) You don’t shy away from responsibility when love calls for it but you have clear boundaries. You’re not willing to support someone endlessly if they’re not putting in effort.

xii) You expect your partner to have the drive to provide and contribute. If they stop trying altogether, you lose respect which is a clear dealbreaker for you.

xiii) You’re capable of deep transformation through love and relationship, and open to evolving alongside your partner, while still maintaining your sense of self.

xiv) You have developed strong emotional maturity and self-regulation, which allows you to navigate endings with grace and clarity when needed.

xv) You no longer chase potential. If a connection disrespects your values or self-worth in any way, you are confident enough to walk away, no matter how beautiful it once was.

xvi) You are grounded in integrity and character. You offer understanding, empathy and accountability, and expect the same in return.

xvii) You do not tolerate disrespect, even in subtle forms. Respect is a non-negotiable for you and you trust yourself to walk away when it’s compromised.

xviii) You are not interested in ‘fixing’ or ‘seeing potential’ in people, you know what you want and you don’t waste energy on connections that can’t meet you there.

xix) You’ve accepted the impermanence of relationships. You’ve known loss, and it has made you wiser, stronger and more discerning with your energy.

xx) You seek a divine, team-oriented connection - one where both people contribute with patience, understanding and love. You strive for harmony, not hierarchy.

xxi) When something ends, you are able to reflect with honesty and accept that the connection wasn’t as deep, stable or reciprocal as you hoped, and you let it go.

Cons:

i) Your past romantic experiences, especially if painful or unfulfilling, still linger in your emotional body and may cause you to approach love with an underlying fear of history repeating itself.

ii) You have a deeply idealistic and divine view of love, so any reminder of your partner’s romantic or intimate past can deeply distress you, even to the point of sleepless nights, sadness or emotional spiraling.

iii) You want to be your partner’s one and only, not just in the present but in emotional and spiritual history. The thought that you may not be, even if irrational, can cause you overwhelming sadness and insecurity.

iv) You love in a deeply innocent, childlike and devoted way. You fear not receiving love in that same pure and all-encompassing form from your partner.

v) The mere idea of your partner remembering someone else’s voice, touch or presence can break you down because you love with your whole being.

vi) You’ve always been a risk-taker, rushing into things with open arms but this innocent approach has left you vulnerable to manipulation or being taken advantage of.

vii) Your past has made you question your judgment. Now, even though you crave deep love, you’re afraid of taking emotional risks and getting hurt again.

viii) You still carry a very innocent and trusting heart. You often believe in your partner fully, without questioning much.

ix) You lack assertiveness in romantic relationships, becoming soft, overly gentle and self-sacrificing. You tend to put your partner’s emotional needs above your own, often to a fault.

x) You’re extremely sensitive and deeply empathetic. While this is beautiful, it often leads to emotional overwhelm and an inability to set healthy emotional boundaries.

xi) Despite your gentle nature, when you’re hurt, you can become sharp, reactive and even reckless. You swing between emotional softness and sudden, unexpected intensity.

xii) This emotional duality - being mostly meek and self-sacrificing but occasionally eruptive when deeply wounded creates inner turmoil, and can confuse both you and your partner.

xiii) You go through deep internal transformations in relationships, questioning and shifting your core beliefs but you try to suppress or hide the external signs of this emotional upheaval.

xiv) Even though you try to appear strong or unaffected, the emotional weight of your romantic transformation leaks out, making you appear vulnerable, exposed or even fragile.

xv) You try not to show when you’ve fallen in love, but the more you resist, the deeper you fall. When you do fall, it’s intense, absolute and all-consuming.

xvi) Once you’ve fallen for someone, there is no easy way out for you. The love is profound, spiritually binding and not something you can detach from easily or quickly.

xvii) You are the type to give everything in love - your time, energy, emotional presence and when that love ends, it can haunt you for years.

xviii) You can carry emotional imprints of past relationships long after they’re over.

xix) You have a hard time letting go because of how deeply the relationship affected your emotional and spiritual identity. You mourn lost love in slow, aching ways.

xx) Your emotional vulnerability is a double-edged sword, it allows you to love deeply and purely, but it also leaves you feeling devastated and fragmented when that love is not returned in kind.

xxi) Despite appearing emotionally composed or even mature on the outside, your inner world is tender, volatile and very much affected by love, even long after the relationship is over.

[celebrity-tarot]

PAC - What will your next partner like most about you?

calm your mind, breathe deeply & focus on what photo(s) you feel most drawn to. don’t rush, then, when you’re ready, and only if you truly feel drawn to a photo, read the corresponding pile. feedback is greatly appreciated

this reading is can also apply to current partners!

pile 1:

your current or next partner likes that you are someone with the rare ability to notice beauty where others don’t; whether you’re an artist or just a creative person in general. you may have a way of helping people shift their perspective, & they’ll admire this about you. you’re unconventional & unpredictable at times, with unique interests that keep things exciting. you introduce them to new experiences, take them to places they wouldn’t have considered, & constantly “put them on” to things they end up loving. in that way, you’re unlike anyone they’ve been with before.

they’ll be drawn to your sense of style such as your clothes, your makeup, your accessories. they might even describe you as “high maintenance,” but it’s something they find incredibly attractive about you. they love your purity, your child-like spirit & your openness to the world. there’s something fresh about your energy that lights you up to them.

they also love how you know how to see the beauty in yourself. this confidence radiates outward, making you naturally good at empowering others. your compassion doesn’t just make people feel seen it makes them feel capable of doing things. you uplift those around you not by trying, but simply by being who you are. your partner benefits from this trait greatly.

they’re also touched by how protective you are of them, of your loved ones, & of what matters most to you. overall, your partner sees you as a breath of fresh air in a chaotic world. you’ll become someone they look to often, not just for comfort, but as an escape.

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pile 2:

your current or next partner will like your healing, selfless nature. they see you as someone who understands that life is bigger than the individual & they admire your courage to sacrifice for something greater when it truly matters. this doesn’t just apply to big picture ideals; it shows up in the small things too. even in something like a friendship conflict, you might be the one who gives up more than your share just to keep less generous or less socially aware people comfortable. there’s also something deeply spiritual about you, whether you’re religious & act in god’s name or are simply guided by a strong inner light. they find this connection to the divine beautiful & it makes you feel incredibly pure in their eyes.

they love how deeply you cherish your loved ones & admire how much you value family/community. you’re the kind of person who stays through the highs, the lows, & all the complications. you don’t give up easily, & that loyalty means everything to them. they like that you are generous in every part of the relationship; emotionally, spiritually, (& especially in the bedroom) they’re deeply appreciative of how giving you are & how intuitively you care.

to them, you’re someone who’s genuinely improved their life in every way. & they see you as a partner who brings warmth, depth, & devotion into everything you touch.

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pile 3:

your current or next partner will like your dedication to learning & growing your mind. whether it’s through taking your formal education high or simply from how you spend your free time, they admire how committed you are to sharpening your brain. you come across as someone who’s openminded & willing to receive new information without resistance. you don’t feel the need to always be the teacher in the room & you know how to sit back and be a student. you listen, absorb, apply, & execute.

you’re ambitious & in a grounded way. you don’t just dream it or talk about it, you plan it, build it, & follow through. your ideas have weight & you know how to bring them to life even if you don’t know where to start, your base somehow always turns out solid. in their eyes, it feels like everything you touch turns to gold at times. they see you as someone who can move mountains if you’re locked in enough. you’re the type of person who not only meets expectations but often exceeds them, all while never forgetting the people around you.

your integrity also stands out. you’re not a sellout or a soul-seller, you won’t trade your morals. even if something looks like a great opportunity, if it compromises who you are, you’ll walk away with your dignity intact. this is something they will take note of and respect a lot.

in general your partner sees you as someone with an entrepreneurial energy and as someone who gets things done no matter what. the energy of the cards is very clear: you know how to make things happen. they’re in awe of your drive, & your follow through & your refusal to settle. to them, you’re their personal superstar & with this person you’ll have someone in your corner at all times, cheering you on and truly believing in you.

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pile 4:

your current or next partner is drawn to your intense allure & they likely noticed how seductive & attractive you are before anything else. their physical attraction to you didn’t need any time to grow, they likely knew immediately they were into you. they see a natural beauty in you, one that doesn’t rely on or need any heavy makeup or fancy clothes. to them, you’re stunning in your most effortless state and they love this about you. maybe you’re even someone who doesn’t wear a lot of makeup.

they also really admire your practicality & problem solving skills. you’re not afraid to take the lead, get things done, & figure things out when others may hesitate or start to panic & this is reassuring to them.

they also like that they can trust you deeply. loyalty matters to you & it shows which is why they may even often confide in you, sharing stories & gossip about their family, friends, & social circles. they know you’ll never betray their trust & that you always try to understand things and where they’re coming from before judging, even if their criticisms towards others can sound harsh.

along with this they admire your pride & resilience. you’ve had to fought for what you want & have overcome so much a lot In life. you’re a warrior in their eyes.

[unadulteratedsoulsweets]

A DC X DP IDEA #39

Timeline, which timeline?

Imagine dis…

It is always with the future going to the past, even with the limited time travel fics I see in the DC x DP tags it is always the future going back to the past to prevent something whether it is the end of the timeline or it is when Dan went back in time to ensure his younger self does the same thing to create him.

Flash family members going back in time to prevent another apocalypse, but let me offer you another idea here that involves my favorite tags.

….

Danny finds himself on another time-related mission in courtesy to Clockwork also known lovingly by the gremlin child as CW. At this point, Danny was no longer a stranger to the impromptu missions and errands by CW to fix timelines or to ensure a certain event happens. It happens too frequently to the point it turns Danny into an expert in exploring the past without creating a stray butterfly effect. As he got older, though 16 years old is still not adult whether you came from a related mission Danny.

Danny knows the importance of blending in choosing, rather than stealing, clothes that are time and period-accurate/authentic both in and out of the appearance of the clothing despite irritating his skin. Rather than buying clothes from the modern era aka his timeline he quickly saw how vastly different clothes feel and were created during such time. Danny even took the time by using CW’s medallion to stop time briefly to learn period-specific slang and mannerisms that made him look like he was part of their time.

Danny learning? Something that isn't about space, what’s more, it is about history?

Let’s just say, it was after a particularly embarrassing slip-up during his mission in a Victorian timeline.

As Danny went to more missions he began to understand how delicate time is, how Clockwork gambled with Fate in terms of him despite it was even before he had CW’s time medallion.

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It was the early 1600s, and it was another time mission by CW to accompany some guy named Samuel Wayne and his wife toward an unnamed part of the US. Sorta became their guide and defacto bodyguard to the couple as CW gave him a brief explanation of how the couple is important in modern times.

As he waved goodbye to the couple that had just settled down to their newly built mansion, just as he was to open a portal home the ground below him began to open like some sort of portal. It wasn’t any portal the Ghost Zone could naturally form. As he fell through the mysterious portal he cant help but sigh a relief as the portal opened below him without any people to witness this.

…

It sent him tumbling across time, as moments later he landed hard on the concrete which after taking a quick feel and looking around the place he concluded to be in his time. It was a fight, between the JL heroes and some guys dressed in white. Not the GIW but scientists if he sees those formulas correctly.  

Before he could even think of going ghost or even turning invisible he was scooped up by a hero that he didn’t much recognize and fled from the fight with him in tow.

Even after the battle he tries to sneak out but for some reason, the entire JL is looking at him, especially Batman.

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 To understand what on earth Is the JL doing, let’s go back a week prior.

The JL faced multiple threats from both in and out of their home planet so believe me when I say they have seen it all. This time, it is unique, they had heard in the form of vague rumors. Some scientists preach about their knowledge in creating a working time machine without any alien tech or magic to help it power it o, they only needed a sponsor to do it. Of course, all brush them off, after all, all bright minds are either already required by the heroes or by the villains themselves. When they hadn't heard from those wacko's for a while they just thought that those quacks stopped when they noticed nobody was going to take them seriously.

The heroes thought wrong, someone gave those scientists the funding they needed and was able to create a time machine fueled by one of Earth’s most toxic naturally occurring substances known by mankind.

Though the benefactor of the said scientists mysteriously vanished, the scientists on the other hand hired goons to be their bodyguards from anyone who dared to try to steal their work, as goons also cost less than hiring an actual bodyguard. The heroes were only summoned as the substance that was used not only did they have no proper certification but also they were following another lead thus leading some of the JL heroes who are in charge of the case towards the said scientist's headquarters.

They had just pulled the lever to test their machine, fearing for the worst and the thought of a rather large explosion due to the hazard around them started an immediate and forced evacuation as some of the scientists lifted a chair to defend their work, when it suddenly spat out something.

A young man dressed in what looked like a 1600s era of fashion, black hair and blue eyes. Looking bewildered at the sight around him, before anyone could even stop and think at what had just happened they immediately scooped out everyone outside just in time for an explosion to occur.

Of course, the scientists who were rescued are crying at their life’s work being blown up to nothing but ashes.

The rest of the heroes on the other hand are panicking, not only do their machinery work but they manage to pull someone from the past.

At first, they thought that he was just a civilian but when he uttered his name all eyes turned to Batman for help.

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Danny didn’t like being interrogated while also maintaining his 1600 persona, as much as he would like to geek out to the heroes he still needed to maintain his mask. He didn’t come out to a portal that was made by CW add the fact that the majority of said heroes also saw him come out of that weird portal, so when they asked him for his name he gave them Samuel’s name to throw off them.

Still maintaining his persona, now adding Samuel’s lore to his acting, asked who are they and that he needed to get back his carriage to his now wife to find themselves a home.

Now he is surrounded by the vigilantes mainly from Gotham, with each of them being his bodyguard and his babysitter as Danny tries to exaggerate and be surprised and in awe of practically everything, from the floor to the glass to the food he ate.

As much as he would like to just swallow up the greasy cheeseburger he was given, he needed to gag and be horrified as he remembered the actual food he tasted during the times Samuel and his wife shared their food with him.

He just hopes the Robin with the sword would stop at subtly tell him about how great his linage would be, he barely has time for both the time missions that CW sends him and also his school work he does not want this about his love life in front of a kid.

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PS: If someone out there wants to continue or make a fic about this you are free to do so, don’t forget to tag me though.

[sotiredofendos]

A system is a collection of alters. Alters are chronically dissociated self states, with different neurological pathways that often are accompanied by a varying degree of amnesia. Dissociation is caused by stress/trauma. Alters are a byproduct of dissociating from trauma. You can’t dissociate from trauma you do not have. You cannot dissociate without trauma. You cannot have alters without trauma. You cannot have a system without alters.

You cannot be a system without trauma.

Do you have to know about the trauma ? No. Does it have to be a certain type of trauma ? No. Does it need to be a certain severity ? No. It just needs to have occurred during critical developmental period of the brain. Before the ego states have stitched together, it must be chronic, and beyond the child’s stress threshold, otherwise it will not disrupt the developmental growth. This is different for everyone. The reason trauma cannot be listed as a diagnostic criteria, is because there is no “xyz trauma that causes dissociative disorders”. It’s completely unique to each person suffering from the disorder. And in often cases, the person suffering from the disorder isn’t aware of their trauma. That’s the point of the disorder. This does not mean you don’t need trauma to suffer from a dissociative disorder. Systems are byproducts of dissociative disorders, you cannot be a byproduct of a disorder you do not have.

Endos are not systems. What do I mean by this? I mean that, by definition, that term is not suited for them, and is not meant to describe them. Just like kinning doesn’t mean you’re a system, just like roleplaying doesn’t mean you’re a system, just like religious practises such as tulpamancy isn’t a system. You are perfectly free to do whatever you please, truly. But do not compare it to being a system. You do not share our experiences. You are a different community entirely, and that’s ok.

But please, for the love of god, stop invading our community, and stop spreading misinformation about an already stigmatised and misunderstood disorder.

I understand if you didn’t know better. But please, educate yourself, and stop spreading this misinformation. Being a system isn’t an identity. It’s not a label. And please, stop comparing it to being queer. This is a mental illness. Being queer is not a mental illness.

[natalchartnurtures]

PAC: What Do People Find Pretty About you?

I'm backk (oh and happy new year, people)

Pile 1:

The reading starts with the message- "marching to the beat of your drum," so I'm guessing you love to do your own thing? This quality/essence of yours is exactly what people find pretty about you. You EXUDE this airy-fairy kinda ethereal energy, laced with an almost Aquarian and Gemini-like quality. You have your own blueprint, set of beliefs, and ideas that you LIVE by, and your beauty is inspired by your individuality.

For example, say you grew up in a culture where most people are fair-skinned, but you have darker skin. You absolutely love and adore your skin for what it is, and because you embrace it, others love it by extension. Whatever stands out about you in the society you live in right now is what people find pretty about you. Say you have long hair when the norm is short hair—well, that's what people find pretty about you. They find your unique features breathtaking. It’s otherworldly.

You know, you give me Maeve Wiley vibes from Sex Education. She had her own style going on, and didn’t we absolutely love her for it? Her edgy vibe contrasted against the more simplistic vibe of the rest of the town. Yeah, there’s something about that which STANDS OUT and beckons for people’s attention (even if you’re not out here actively seeking attention). And boy, is it refreshing AF. You don’t know just how much you bring to the table by being yourself 😊.

You may like to dress "intelligently," or your natural style simply makes you look really smart, and this adds to that Aqua/Gemini quality that others find so pretty about you. Maybe you’re into graphic tees? Or your clothing simply makes people think, you know? Your style is different, and gosh, it’s so, soooo pretty (I really hope you understand that by the end of this read, haha).

You seem to take on a more carefree and blasé approach to your physical appearance, and it’s MAGNETIZING.

Side note: I don’t think you realize the effect you have on people, lmao. It’s so funny because that’s such an Aqua quality, hahaha.

Moving on—it seems like you’ve never let go of your connection to your inner child, and this keeps you fun, joyous, and energetic. This is something people instantly notice about you, and they LOVE IT SO MUCH. You brighten people’s days with your little giggles, pranks, and jokes (even if they’re dark).

Again, there’s something deeply unconventional about you that’s soooo pretty. Like, it’s almost as if you are your own beauty standard, you know? Haha, you’re a trendsetter, aren’t you? It’s reminding me of Rihanna’s energy—how different she looks from Western beauty standards, but boy, does she make WAVES with her presence alone.

What’s pretty about you transcends the material realm. It’s your faith in the divine shining through your eyes when you walk past a stranger on the street, or the endless energy you contain because you’re so connected to source (or whatever “god” you believe in). This openness to anything or anyone that comes your way is what makes you OH so pretty ✨️.

Thanks for reading, sweet Pile 1! Have a good rest of your day/night 😊

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Pile 2:

Your spirit message to open your reading said- “CUTE AF.” Haha, people seem to find you cute AF, Pile 2! That’s what makes you pretty. You may be the type of person who has the perfect ratio of cute and pretty, like Lisa or Rosé from Blackpink. You have a certain charm about you that people can’t seem to shake off, and boy, it sticks for a while. You’re unforgettable.

You’re incredibly physically attractive too (you might be very aware of this 😏), and boy, need I say more?

Side note: People find your chest area, boobies, and décolletage really freaking pretty 😍.

You have a side to you that you NEVER show people—your softer, mushy, gushy, sensitive, unconditional-love side (for obvious reasons, hello?). And people seem to sense that you’re hiding SOMETHING. Usually, they can’t guess what it is, and they find this super mysterious, enchanting, and ALLURING. They want to know this other side of you. They want to bring it out (and by "they," I mean anyone interested in getting to know you deeper). This makes you irresistibly pretty, Pile 2.

I see that you’re an incredibly humble person, and this only adds to the magnitude of PRETTINESS I already told you about! Sheesh. Could you be any more charming and awesome?

Side note: People really appreciate the random acts of kindness you bestow on them when no one’s looking. If you have a habit of smiling at people (no matter who they are), this is perceived as reeeeeeally pretty 👀. (Also, it makes you all the more lovable?!)

You seem interested in bringing as much kindness as you humanly can into an inherently unkind world, and this honestly takes your physical beauty to another level! Your heart is so generous and pure, kind of like Leo or Cancer energy. You don’t stand for injustice, and you MAKE IT KNOWN (quietly or not 💅🏾). It’s almost as if you have the ability to love people’s hearts back to life again if they’ve been through injustice, which is honestly so precious. You’re a national treasure, Pile 2!

What’s beautiful and pretty about you is how you naturally allow people to feel safely vulnerable around you. You seem like someone who can listen to people’s woes and almost make them disappear 😶‍🌫️. Haha, I love that.

People can slow down around you (because of your energy, bruh) and let down their guard, even if it’s only for a moment. It’s a beautiful gift you have. I’m happy you exist. BIG HUGS, Pile 2!

I love you so much, and have a wonderful day/night!

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Pile 3:

Message to open your reading- "You GIVE Sabrina Carpenter vibes." "You serve MOTHER vibes." Lol, a lot of people seem to thirst after your maternal vibe, Pile 3. You’re out here taking care of people, huh? Let’s get into it—

What people find pretty about you is your cozy, emotionally healthy, and prosperous energy. It’s almost like people feel “taken under your wing,” as if an angel is taking them in to help heal and rejuvenate them. You have angel vibes, Pile 3, and that’s what’s PRETTY about you.

You might have really pretty (and really watery?) eyes with big natural lashes, and they look very glossy and big—lowkey like anime eyes 👀. Tehe ✨️. Love that!

You seem very protective of the people you love, and they really appreciate that about you. That’s what makes you so pretty. Maybe when you defend someone close to you who’s been wronged—say you’re arguing with the offender—you might come off really attractive to people. The passion with which you protect is SEXY, baby. Keep 👏🏾 it 👏🏾 up 👏🏾.

You’re like this stable figure in your life to a lot of people. So many of them lean on you for support and come to you with their problems, and you happily help them.

Side note: I hear this incredibly helpful and giving nature of yours is going to bring A LOT of abundance into your life, so keep an eye out for it, hehe.

Also, a slightly off-topic message keeps coming in STRONG—there’s a specific person (romantic) who wants to dedicate a song to you. It’s called “Made For Me” by Muni Long. Maybe it’s how they’re feeling about you right now? Take this only if it resonates :)

Moving on with your reading now, you seem to be a guiding light in people’s lives, kind of like a lighthouse for lost boats, so to speak. Your beauty follows closely with this wisdom of yours, and that’s what people find pretty about you. You wear your wisdom like a warrior wears armor, and gosh, that’s very beautiful, almost in an enchanting way.

You have seer energy about you, and maybe it reflects in how you present yourself? Maybe you seem very calm and grounded? Maybe you have great hygiene or look really put together? If so, this is really pretty, Pile 3 :).

It’s like your energy is medicine to people who are naturally anxious. You allow them to seek respite from their own minds, and boy, does that make you so PRETTTTTAYYYYYY, ugh.

Thanks for reading, my sweet Pile 3. Have yourself a wonderful day/night, and keep being the stable, sexy baddie that you are, hehe 😊🫂. Love you! <3

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[mimble-sparklepudding]

OC Language and Vernacular Questions.

Is your OC a confident speaker? Do they find it easy to express themselves verbally? Or do they stutter or perhaps easily lose their train of thought?

Does your OC use any expressions or slang terms that are unique to the area in which they grew up, or a specific community of which they were once a member?

How often does your OC swear? Is it something that punctuates their everday speech? Or is it so unusual to hear them use "bad" language that it would shock those around them?

Does your OC have a particular accent? Do other people ever judge or stereotype them on the basis of their accent? How do they feel about this?

Can other people recognise when your OC is angry or serious by the tone of their voice? Or does their language become coarser? Or perhaps more formal?

Does your OC show courtesy in their language around others - do they routinely thank others, or do they only do so if they percieve that person as being of a higher social status?

Has your OC much experience of public speaking or any formal training in rhetoric? Do they find such things easy or intimidatingly difficult?

Did your OC's parents or other caregivers use any specific terms of endearment for them as a child? Do (or would) they use similar terms for their own children?

Does your OC consider their voice particularly "sexy"? Do they try to adopt a more seductive tone in romantic situations? How successful are these efforts?

Does your OC often punctuate their speech with filler sounds, such as "um" or "er"? Or words such as "like" or "you know"?

Has your OC ever made a conscious effort to change their voice? Perhaps by trying to rid themselves of a particular accent or making themselves sound more assertive?

Are there any particular words that make your OC cringe? Is this due to negative associations? Or second-hand embarrassment? Do they try to conceal their dislike?

Is your OC talented at creative writing, whether poetry or prose? Would they ever show their work to anyone else?

Are there any concepts or activities which are taboo in your OC's culture of origin, which they prefer to refer to euphemistically? How do the respond to others who do not share these taboos?

What is your OC's favourite or "go-to" swearword when under duress?

Does your OC's body language sometimes give away what they might prefer to conceal? Or are they practiced at ensuring that their physical presentation matches their stated positions?

Has your OC ever found other people struggle to understand them because of their accent? How did this make them feel? Did they resent the listeners? Or feel bad about themselves? Or both?

How does your OC feel about other people with "posh" or "upper-class" accents? Do they feel a natural deference to them? Or a resentment? Or do they not even notice?

To what degree does your OC amend their language and/or tone when speaking to children (or in front of them).

Does your OC ever use technical or academic language when discussing their specialist interests? Do others ever need them to translate these terms?

Does your OC like to ascribe nicknames or pet names to other people? How well does this usually go down?

What is your OC's singing voice like? Does it surprise other people by being better (or worse) than they expected?

How confident is your OC at writing? Do they regularly write letters or even academic papers? Or is their writing stilted, awkward - or even a source of embarassment to them?

How does your OC's voice change when they are trying to persuade someone else to let them have their own way? Is this particularly persuasive? Perhaps only to certain people?

Has anyone ever mocked or made fun of your OC's accent or the words they use? What was the impact of this upon them?

What kind of compliments might your OC bestow upon another person? Elegant flattery? Crude sexual banter? Measured, but positive feedback?

Does your OC ever use deliberately offensive or abusive terms towards particular social or cultural groups?

How easy does your OC find it to say "no"? Do they prefer to prevaricate? Is this out of courtesy? Or from a fear of rejection?

Are there any words or terms that your OC finds particularly offensive? Is this unique to their own experiences or something on which most people would agree?

Is your OC particularly vocal during sex? Do they tend to use actual words or even full sentences? Or just noises? How much control do they have over this?

How often does your OC raise their voice? Is this always deliberate or can they sometimes not help it?

Does your OC ever make idle threats? Or do they only state very precisely exactly what the consequences will be?

How long are the sentences your OC usually uses in conversation? Do they tend to communicate in brief, or even terse, pieces of dialogue? Or are they prone to flowery language - or even outright verbosity?

Does your OC yell or scream during arguments? Or do they become quiet and withdrawn?

Does your OC ever talk to themselves? How aware of this are they?

What is your OC's laugh like? Is it a genteel titter? A hearty belly laugh? Or a snorting noise like a constipated donkey?

How wide is your OC's vocabulary? Do others consider them eloquent or well-read?

If confronted by someone who cannot - or will not - speak how would your OC respond? If they cannot - or will not - speak themselves then how do others respond to this? How do they make themselves understood?

Is your OC particularly loud in combat? Do they yell? Roar? Or are they a silent and deadly presence?

Does your OC challenge others for perceived discourtesies? Or are they unwilling or unmotivated to cause a scene?

Does your OC ever wish that their voice was different? Are they ever embarassed or ashamed of their accent or the volume of their voice?

Does your OC find any particular voices or accents especially alluring or stimulating?

How often does your OC add new words to their vocabulary? Do they hungrily pick up new terms and words? Or do they struggle to remember such things?

How eloquent is your OC? Is their use of language beautiful, or at least skillful? Or do they struggle to communicate without sounding clumsy or awkward?

Does your OC ever change their language or tone when moving between different cultures or social settings?

What (if any) are your OC's go to "polite" expressions of disappointment or frustration? Do they ever substitute words like "sugar" or "darn" for stronger language? Under what circumstances might they do this?

Does your OC find it easy to talk about sexual activities or bodily parts? Or can they only speak about them using twee euphemisms or obscure slang terms? Or can they not speak about them at all?

What would be the most offensive word or term to use about your OC? How would they respond to this being used towards them? Would it matter what the intent or understanding of the person using it might be?

Was your OC quick to learn how to speak as a child? Was their grasp of language encouraged by those around them? Did anyone read with them? Or recite poetry or stories to them?

Does your OC ever revert to baser, perhaps even coarser, ways of speaking when under stress or anxiety? Or are they consistently poised and self-controlled, no matter how difficult the situation?

[velvet4510]

We all knew Rio was Nicky’s other parent but it’s glorious to see it firmly confirmed and so no hater is able to deny it anymore.

And now we can really bask in just how deep and unique the writing is for that final episode.

From conception, Nicky was half-life, half-death.

Death isn’t supposed to create life. It’s a total paradox that explains why Nicky was meant to be stillborn. How could the child of Death live? Agatha becoming pregnant must’ve turned Rio’s world upside down.

Also Rio doesn’t see death as a tragedy. How could she when it’s her job? When it’s the natural order of things? Before meeting Agatha, it never crossed her mind that death could be seen as bad.

But it’s when she fell for a living human, a mortal, that she finally saw what death means for humans. How much pain and fear and grief it brings.

And suddenly here’s Agatha pleading and pleading for her to NOT do her job, to NOT take their child with her. If she does this, she’ll break Agatha’s heart - the antithesis of her understanding of death. Rio suddenly comprehends that as long as Agatha lives on, there’s no way for the three of them to ever be together as a family. No wonder she chokes back tears.

As for Agatha, she only has the living person’s perspective. How could Rio want THEIR child to die? It’s the antithesis of parental instincts to want or allow your child to die. Death or no Death, surely Rio can see why this would be wrong?

Agatha and Rio are looking at the situation through totally different and incompatible lenses.

So out of love for Agatha alone, Rio lets Nicky’s “life” half take over not just for a few hours or days, but SIX WHOLE YEARS.

Then when Rio can’t stretch the rules any longer and she comes for him, Nicky knows her. He does not fear her, or where they are going. How can he, when she is his mother, when she needs him home?

Then Rio pays the price, as Agatha cuts ties with her and wants nothing to do with her anymore.

I also think this explains why Rio is so determined to kill Agatha herself or to let the Salem Seven do it, during the rest of the show. Again, as Death, she doesn’t see death as bad, or a harm, or a pain. If Agatha dies, then Rio can take her to Nicky and they can finally be a family. But Agatha doesn’t want them to be a family together. She still sees what happened as a loss and betrayal that Nicky would never forgive her for - the opposite of how Rio views it.

Ultimately, Agatha makes herself into a ghost who can’t cross over to where Nicky is, and Rio’s dream of her family being together is shattered.

Truly one of the greatest and most profound tragedies in television history, let alone MCU history.

[icanseethefuture333]

Asteroid Born (13954) 🍏🍎: “Why the apple doesn’t fall so far from the tree 🍄‍🟫”

How you were conceived + Why were you born into this lifetime 🏡♥️🥧

Aries Born / Born in the 1st House:

You are very courageous and bold when it comes to your self expression. Your parents might have considered you as a “busy body” and always had to keep you entertained as an infant. Probably one of those babies who would make funny expressions when they were mad. During pregnancy, your mother could have dealt with a lot of kicking, heartburns, and/or tummy aches. Childbirth as well may have hurt or been difficult due to you having a larger head as a baby (oops!). I see the parents being relatively active during pregnancy, perhaps your parents went to the gym or played sports still. You were born into this world to discover your unique individuality and coming to terms with your identity. Some of you must learn how to embrace all parts of yourself whether that is your physical appearance, sexuality, or personality. Were you raised to feel shame or had to hide some parts of yourself? How can you approach these factors in everyday life? Practicing self validation instead of seeking it from an outside source would be helpful. Focus on establishing a routine of self love and confidence in everyday life, this will attract the most success. Engaging in exercise activities for children such as dodgeball, double dutch, or hopscotch could help you reconnect to your inner child.

Taurus Born / Born in the 2nd house:

Ahhh the spoiled babies. You guys had it all when you were born. Very lavish and comfy childbirth. Your mothers could have gained a lot of weight and ate very yummy foods during pregnancy. Refined palettes with the exception of late snacks and cheeses (I bet these moms would ask people to have a glass of wine for them lol). Your mother could have been feeling very lazy and lethargic, very much so a couch potato. I also see them receiving compliments on how beautiful they look pregnant. I even see the dads gaining weight and getting a dad bod out of support for the mom lol. It is likely you were sensitive to touch when you were born, needing a security blanket or something soft to make you feel safe and protected. Your purpose in life is to understand that money is a wonderful tool but it cannot solve all of your problems. You have to reflect on your values and how you can provide a secure and stable home to yourself. It also important to realize what you are prioritizing in life. Do you have a follow a diet? Are you putting others before your own needs? Do you want to be successful in life but are not implementing healthy habits into your routine? Write a list of goals that you would like to accomplish and figure out methods to make these things come to life, while also keeping your mind stimulated so you won’t fall back in laziness and self sabotaging habits.

Gemini Born / Born in the 3rd House:

Yappers! These babies learned to speak at a few months old. It is likely they were very vocal as infants and could express themselves very easily. Your parents could have had a duality to themselves, which may have resulted in uneasiness or not sure which side of them you were seeing that day. I also interpret this as having parents that switched roles or don’t follow gender stereotypes (E.G: stay at home dad / working mom or having queer parents, etc). You may also have a twin! During pregnancy, your mother could have had many mood swings or experienced a lot of anxiety. I also see this as experiencing butterflies and talking a lot out of nervousness. Their conversations were engaging and interesting. Your parents could have even spoken to you while you were still in your mother’s tummy or played music for you to hear. In this lifetime, you were tasked with developing a community. Some of you are very smart but have difficulty forming connections with others or you are so comfortable speaking your mind that you don’t realize it can come off as blunt at times. Listen, we know you’re intelligent but sometimes you need to hear wisdom from other people in order grow in certain areas. If you have a sibling, you can rely on that bond with them to seek advice, they can help you understand a situation better. Since you have a dynamic personality, you can use your gift to communicate with individuals with different identities.

Cancer Born / Born in the 4th house:

The need to retreat and be at home is a prominent theme here. During pregnancy, your mother could have needed time alone or preferred to stay in the comfort of their home. Your parents could have prioritized privacy and shied away from being around new people besides family members. The childbirth was an intimate and emotional moment for your parents. Your birth could have been at home as well. Whoever was considered family was also in the room when you were born. As an infant you may have needed more physical touch and cried consistently. These babies are likely to be at the hip or maybe even slept in the same room as their parents. There is a strong attachment to your family. In this lifetime you are meant to discover your ancestral lineage and establish a strong connection with relatives. Parenthood could be significant in your life as well if you choose to have children. You are meant to act as a nurturing figure in other people's lives. If you are not close with your family, then it is likely you need to understand what family means to you. Sometimes family can be our friends, pets, or our partner, whichever you decide - there is no right or wrong way to love someone.

Leo Born / Born in the 5th house:

The star of the family. I'm seeing this placement as having social media parents or your mom going viral for pregnancy vlogs. Your birth could have been very talked about or you were adored by family for being popular or cute as a baby. Maybe some of you even did commercials or modeled when you were really young, I also see this apply to your parents. Your parents could have felt even more creative during pregnancy, like maybe your mother painted, sung, or danced more. I also see this as a surprise baby or the way you were conceived was considered a blessing. For some of you, your parents could have been trying for a baby and were so excited to finally have you. There is a lot of focus on joy and celebration. Some of you had parents who threw a gender reveal party or had a big baby shower. You were born into this world to play, I feel that this could be difficult for this placement, since the world can bring us down at times but your energy is whats needed. You need to express yourself and let go of the worries that is holding you back. Have fun, play games, be silly, and just do whatever hobbies that allows you to be be free. I also see that working with children or interacting with the children in your family will increase your happiness. Lastly, take a lighthearted approach to love, enjoy the wonders of romance without the over complications of it.

Virgo Born / Born in the 6th house:

Health was an important factor to your parents when it came to conceiving a child. Perhaps one of your parents was infertile? Or suffered from some kind of illness that made the pregnancy difficult. Your mother could have been more prone to morning sickness such as vomiting or nausea. I also see that they had a routine, they could have had to balance work while also being pregnant. Animals were significant as well. So your parents possibly turned to a pet for comfort or realized they were pregnant because of a pet. For some of you, your mother could have been the type to clean before giving birth. Something about cleaning or being tidy to feel more prepared. As a baby, you could have sneezed a lot or gotten colds. Your immune system was often compromised and this concerned your parents. You could have had your immunization shots early on. This is something your parents were not going to argue about lol. In this lifetime, you need to take care of all aspects of your health - physical, mental, and emotional health. You also need a routine, you can be disorganized at times, and require a set system to keep you on the right track. Also romanticizing the little things would help you appreciate life. You could often overlook what's right in front of you and disregard living in the moment, you have so much abundance right in front of you. Having plants or keeping a pet would help provide a safe space. Also engaging in light exercise, offering to be of service to people, and meditation will ease your anxiety.

Libra Born / Born in the 7th house:

Made with love lol. Your parents were very much so enamored with each other when you were conceived. Its giving "I know their parents high five every time they see what they made". You could have been considered a very beautiful baby or received a lot of compliments from people. Your parents as well had a nice maternity shoot. Your mother was very radiant and glowing, probably had rosy cheeks and everything. You may look to your parents for when you need an example on love and what to look for in relationships. Your parents saw each other as equals or followed traditional roles. Some of you could also have parents who work in law so they could care a lot about appearances and maintaining a good image. It is important that you learn the difference between love and superficial attraction. You are adored by many but because of that adoration it could potentially lead you to not go past a surface level. Share the parts of yourself that is most beautiful, such as your kindness, and fairness towards others. The way you treat people makes them feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Your relationship with others as well as yourself is important to your self development. Working in business or giving back to your support system could give you a new perspective.

Scorpio Born / Born in the 8th house:

This placement has an interesting aura to it. Some of these babies could be an only child or something about the way they were born was transformative. It is possible a family member died before or after you were born, there had to be a loss before you could be conceived. Your mother could have felt that childbirth was traumatic and could of put her in a state of shock, or even dealt with a near death experience. The overall experience of pregnancy was very intense for your parents. It was definite that you would be the last baby to be born because of such factors. You could have also been given an inheritance or were indebted to someone or something. It is possible that you were next in line such as an heir to a family business or lived in a home that passed down for many generations. There might have been paranormal activities when you were born or you were like those babies that would laugh randomly when nothing was there, possibly seeing spirits. Being accepting of change will make things easier in your life. It is likely that you resist transformation due to how deeply you feel your emotions, it can be triggering and exhausting. Try to have a positive outlook on the changes of your life and realize the blessings in the lessons you have experienced. Sex could be a healing factor in your life or it is a way to find pleasure in engaging with your senses.

Sagittarius Born / Born in the 9th house:

It is likely that these babies were born while their parents were traveling or they even could have been adopted. Your mother was likely traveling when she gave birth to you or had to give birth in public. For some of you, your mother was pregnant as she went to college or often went to church. Your parents were very wise and philosophical. There could have been a midwife or doula present during your birth. You may also be of a diverse background, so you may have lived in different places as infant or was exposed to different identities. I also interpret this as possibly having older parents or your parents have an old soul. You are an intelligent person. It is time for you to practice the wisdom in everyday life. You are philosophical, wise, and multi-cultured but you lack in practicing what you preach. You have to be open minded and optimistic when it comes to learning new things. Traveling, reading philosophy, praying to spirit or a deity, or having in depth conversations with people would provide clarity in your life. You need to experience spiritual refreshment in order to continue to feel peace. Study more!!! The answers you seek is in the knowledge that you already have. You are missing out on great opportunities when you choose not to use your resources.

Capricorn Born / Born in the 10th house:

You may come from a prestigious family or they are known for having a reputable reputation. Your parents could work for a well known company and have a higher position. Very business savvy individuals. Your mother could have worked despite being pregnant and had to face discrimination for it, or I see her taking a comfortable maternity leave thanks to the other parent being the financial provider. Your father could be someone who is strict or has high expectations as well. As a baby, you were self sufficient and independent. You did not require as much attentive care as other babies did. Although, this may have affected your attachment style. You could be avoidant when it comes to expressing emotions and when it comes to difficult feelings you focus on work instead. You were meant to be the boss in this lifetime. Your work ethic comes from your genetics. You have the drive and motivation that many people don’t have. It is important that you learn to follow your intuition and realize that you need to also seek what provides emotional fulfillment. You are responsible and dedicated to those around you as well as your career. Make sure to not overly sacrifice your well being for the sake of others. It is okay to take breaks and focus on your own happiness. Being more grounded with reality and your emotions is necessary for your self development and creating discipline.

Aquarius Born / Born in the 11th house:

The way these babies were conceived could be non-traditional. Your parents could have had a one night stand or had sex after only knowing each other for a weeks (or even months). Definitely an unexpected child or you were not planned. Your mother would have weird cravings or eat odd food combinations. Her personality was also deemed as quirky or her behavior seemed peculiar. Your mother also could have dressed differently or had unique maternity clothes. Your parents’ social life could have boomed after having children, making connections with family, or met new friends. Some of you could have parents who are well known on the internet. These babies have the potential of being internet stars or memes. Growing up, you may have felt ostracized and did not feel welcome in most places. Your goal in life is to learn how to rebel again the norm and embrace being unique by tapping into your individuality. Also learning how to make friends or establishing connections with others, even if it seems difficult. You were meant to have a social circle that will be there to teach you wisdom and give you guidance when needed. The longevity of these friendships is not what’s important but the lessons that comes with them. Once you are able to accept yourself and all the perks that comes with it, you will be able to reach better opportunities. Using technology as a tool could assist you with your goals.

Pisces Born / Born in the 12th house:

Childbirth could have been a spiritual experience for your mother. It is likely she already knew she would be pregnant before she even realized. Your parents are very intuitive, they even had dreams about you before you were born. When your mother was pregnant, she felt very emotional and in tune with what you were feeling. I believe these parents would go to Lamaze together or some sort of meditative exercise to make sure that the birth was at least peaceful and safe. Some of you had a water birth or were born near watery places such as the ocean, a pool, etc. A doula or midwife was likely to be present as well. As a child, you were very dreamy and creative. You are very expressive and have a great imagination. You were blessed in this lifetime with psychic abilities or great empathy. You are able to read the room and give people the safe space that they need. Your energy is very comforting and serene. I believe because of your sensitive nature it is likely for you to fall in codependent relationships. It is crucial that you learn to set boundaries and separate fantasy from reality. Take your time to get to know people before you see the “best” in them. You also need to realize you are not a victim but a person who has overcome hardships. Whatever you went through in the past does not apply to you now, you have the freedom of choice, and you get to decide who you want to be. Use your intuition and manifest your goals by connecting with your higher self. Do not allow people, especially partners to “manic pixie dream girl” you.

[matchatarot]

My dear Bunny, this reading is all about the community you’re attracting at the moment. Who are you energetically manifesting and who’s manifesting you? To pick a pile don’t overthink it; choose the one that draws you in the most while thinking about the reading’s intent. Only take what resonates! & Don’t forget that you have free will, you’re not forced to accept anyone in your life if you don’t see fit. Love, Matcha ♡

☆ masterlist

Pile 1 ₊˚.༄

You’re attracting people you’ve been manifesting since a child, the friendships you’ve been dreaming of. You’re also attracting old friends from childhood or people you’ve been in school with who want to come back to you, possibly some people with whom you had a falling out a long time ago but from whom you still cherish good memories. The type of people you’re attracting are successful and reliable. They’re young and if not they’re in spirit! They’re very smart level-headed people, the type of people that pursue knowledge no matter their life situation, they’re humble. They’re confident in their unique qualities and their aura is powerful. They’re also understanding and loving, they truly care about the people around them and the spirit of community. The people you’re attracting don’t shy away from emotions, they’re empathic. These individuals have a sensitivity that makes them highly aware of any shift in the moods of the people around them. The reason why they’re so attentive to other's emotions is because they’ve been through some trauma that heightened their perceptions of other’s vibrations. The friends you’re attracting are well-liked, they’re social and fun. The collective you’re drawing towards you is similar to you energetically, they’ve had a similar life story to you, and when you meet them you’ll notice how you mirror each other in your mannerisms. With your energy, you’re pulling in artists, artisan creators and creative people overall. The people you’re attracting went through a major transformation at some point in their life and they’ll never be the same anymore. If you decide to let these people enter your life, they’ll change the way you see life and vice versa. You’ve probably been good to the people around you because you’re getting your good karma with these people. I see that you’ve been yearning for relationships like these and that a recent spiritual awakening you went through is making them come in faster. To attract this wonderful collective continue following your heart. Trust that this is for you and do not dwell on your social or romantic life if it’s not what you want for yourself right now. Understand that you’re the one who has the power to move in their direction by following your intuition and that growing relationships need action on your part. Work on your discernment when you meet people, and observe their shadow side for any alarming red flags. If after your assessment you realize that someone from your past might have done the necessary work, let yourself consider letting them in again, especially if it’s been years.

The year of the dragon in the Chinese zodiac might be relevant to this pile; 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024.

2, 333, 10, unicorn, deer, owl, 417hz

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Pile 2 ⊹˚˖ ☆

The people you’re attracting in your life will bring you happiness that you once thought you didn’t deserve. You seem like you’re someone that can be pretty hard on yourself but the people you’re attracting will help you heal that. You might feel like you’re not quite in your element right now, doing a job you don’t wanna be doing, going to school with people who don’t understand you, having a style completely different than other people who share similar interests etc. You’re manifesting people who are similar to you in that sense and with them you’ll realize that you can create a sense of home in any environment as long as you’re comfortable in your skin. This realization will make you see how you’re actually very flexible and this community also is! The group of people you’re attracting have a powerful aura. They have a go-getter quality to them; finding opportunities everywhere they go and being able to be quick and jump on those opportunities. However, they can be very chill and sweet at the same time with their clan, looking out for any danger but not being too intense or alarming when there’s no need. You’re manifesting people who will feel fated for you, you’re manifesting a group of friends that will lowkey feel cult-like because the friendship will feel so sacred. You’re manifesting people that have a lot of knowledge that goes beyond what school teaches you, like having knowledge in the occult, in history, skills that are evolving in real-time (like producing, DJ, any computer stuff, new scientific studies) etc. You’re attracting people that refuse to bend to the status quo and that want to create their own path in life! You might meet these people in the city, they’d rather live a fast entertaining city life, to be honest. You’re manifesting people who dive headfirst into solving their issues instead of being avoidant. They might be workaholics but it’s just because they're building the foundation of their life and they can’t wait to impact the world with their findings, art, craft or whatever it is! If you’re in a period of your life where you want to evolve and find who you are and start taking action towards what you want, you’re manifesting the right people for that. However! You’re attracting another type of people as well that on the outside can seem similar but that aren’t as well intended. The first group of friends and acquaintances I talked about could attract a lot of … fans? Some people will want to integrate this because it’s so high vibrational but they are actually here to sabotage the people doing better than them. You’ll recognize these individuals because they’ll try to make you go back into vices you’ve let go of (partying, drugs, cigs, etc), they won’t believe in your plans and they’ll flake on you when you need them. This is just a little warning about these kinds of people that could create drama in this friend group, you know it can’t always be sunshine and rainbows! These people might already be part of your life and you’ll maybe sacrifice them for the group you’re manifesting right now. Anyways, you’re protected by your guides and you’ll have good discernment. The good people will see through it as well. The right people you’re attracting will make you feel so warm and happy, like summer all year long! You’ll help each other blossom in your authentic self and it’s gonna feel so ethereal and surreal because they will let you be who you always were deep inside out in the open!

blood moon, 3, 44, 55, 10, leopard, hummingbird

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Pile 3 ‧₊˚ ♡

It seems like you have been consciously manifesting new people in your life, Bunny! I think you’re tired of making compromises in relationships and you wish to meet people that view the world like you. That’s what you’ve been wanting and that’s what you’ll get! You’re getting it pretty soon as well. You’ll meet people who match your strengths, and that are courageous and loving leaders. You’re attracting people that are really good at holding conversation, people that are really interesting but also interested. You’re attracting people that are considered as popular in their social circle and that are seen as attractive. They’re the type of people that are aware of their good features and they highlight them. The friends you’re attracting are the type of people that bring love and joy into the world, others are easily influenced by them because of their positive vision. You’re attracting friendships that are healing, helpful and loyal. However, they can be vicious to their enemies, luckily they don’t seem to have many, they just don’t have patience for anyone opposing their good vibes. That’s a little bit hypocritical I am not gonna lie, the shadow aspect of the people you’re attracting is that they seem to care about what others think of them, making them a bit superficial at times. Let’s not judge them though, we all have our shadow side, and I wouldn’t want to be too rough because they seem to be connections from past lives you’ve had. I think you are also attracting romantic interests and if so they might be a loverboy/lovergirl or someone that had a lot of relationships. The friends you’re attracting also have a lot of friends. Yet, when you meet these people you’ll feel so pulled to them like you’ve always been searching for that feeling, when you’re having conversations it seems like you already know each other so deeply! You might be sexually attracted to them initially, even if it doesn’t end up becoming a romantic connection, I think it’s because it’s going to feel so intense … Haven’t you ever felt like you’re a little bit in love with your best friend, Bunny? Something like that. You also might end up falling in love with someone that starts as a friend. The energy is just so strong, the union of this group is positive for the collective, you guys will bring a lot of love and light into the world together. There’s a big potential of building a strong supportive peaceful community here. You’re manifesting people that are gonna make you feel comfortable in your skin… even though meeting them will make you go through a major shift and completely shed the old skin. You might travel with them or meet them while travelling! You’re manifesting people who are very independent and emotional. The people you’re manifesting can be a bit impatient and overwhelmed, maybe they have anxiety, so be careful about how you talk to them to not hurt them, that could impact the connection and it goes both ways. You’re going to be vulnerable with them and they’re going to be vulnerable with you, sharing things you’ve never shared with anyone before, so you must be patient with them and yourself for everything to go smoothly.

2, 3, 7, 8, tiger eye, lotus, beetle, dolphin

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decks used for this reading : modern witch tarot deck by Lisa Steele, animaux totems by Else Oreve & Pricilla Moore, art oracles by Katya Tylevich, modern witch tarot deck by Lisa Steele, oracle of heaven and hell by Travis McHenry

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— 𝐭𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐢𝐤𝐞𝐲'𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐞 (𝐡𝐜𝐬)

INCLUDES | toman members [mentioned: draken, hakkai, mitsuya, pah-chin, peh-yan, takemichi, kazutora, chifuyu, baji.], bonten members [mentioned: takeomi, koko, kakucho, sanzu, ran and rindou haitani]

NOTE | headcanons for toman are set in the final timeline! everyone is in their mid/late 20s, happy & alive :) | request

— TOMAN.

When Mikey shows up with a pregnant lady at his side, most of the gang is stunned into silence. Curious gazes are exchanged, then everyone start whispering among each other, trying to make sense of the situation.

At first, nobody really connects the dots. They all assume you must be a friend in need or someone Mikey found and decided to help. They imagine that Mikey took you under his wing and promised to keep you safe – which would explain why he brought you here. Typical Mikey.

Imagine the absolute whiplash when Mikey starts the meeting by introducing you as his wife.

For some of them (especially Draken), it's kind of a hard pill to swallow.

A wave of realization hits him hard and he suddenly feels like he never really knew Mikey after all. His best friend, whom he hangs out with pretty much every day and has been looking after his whole life, has been married this entire time? He can't help but wonder how he missed all the signs and feels a mixture of emotions as he tries to process those unexpected layers of Mikey's life that he never knew existed.

But once he starts to grasp the reasons why Mikey did it, he begins to feel better about it.

He knows that Mikey has always been a responsible and thoughtful young man. The fact that he kept his wife hidden from the gang because he knew your presence might've made you a target for rival gangs or enemies seeking to exploit the slightest vulnerability in his life only made Draken more admirative of Mikey.

Over time, everyone in Toman gets accustomed to the situation and they all grow closer to you, much to Mikey's delight.

Hakkai has yet to get used to seeing you around all the time, but he tries his best. He really likes you and tries not to freeze completely when you talk to him. It's not easy for him, but he does manage to get a few words out when you start a conversation. It's cute to see him make the effort and face his shyness just to be able talk to you.

Baji and Chifuyu are like your personal bodyguards. They treat you like a younger sibling, always looking out for you and stealing you from Mikey to hang out or help with shopping for the baby.

As for Mitsuya, he'll put all his energy into making his own unique pieces of clothing for the baby. Before your child is even born, he's is already envisioning the most adorable designs to keep the little one cozy and stylish at all times. He'll design all sort of cute outfits, knit baby blankets, baby booties, and maybe even craft some nursery decor, because why not.

Everyone quickly realizes that you are an essential pillar of support for Mikey and they, too, end up finding comfort in your presence.

In moments of stress and anxiety, you always know how to calm them down. A gentle touch on the shoulder or a quick pep talk is all it takes to ease the burden from their shoulders. It's as if you have this innate sense of knowing when people need support the most, and you're always there to lend a listening ear or a shoulder to lean on.

You've practically become Kazutora's best friend and confident, and he often seeks your advice on important decisions. Your bond with him runs deep, forged through shared experiences and the understanding that you have for each other. He knows that you genuinely care about his well-being and will always have his best interests at heart.

After the baby's arrival, Pah-Chin and Peh-Yan turn into the typical pair of bickering uncles, always competing to hold the baby first (because of course, everyone gets to hold your baby at least once a day).

One day, their playful argument escalates and their voices disturb the baby's peaceful sleep, leading to Mikey landing a friendly kick on them, while Draken settles to giving them a rather harsh slap on the back of the head.

In the midst of the chaos, Takemichi eventually gets the privilege of holding the baby first. You could tell he was practically dying to ask, but simply didn't dare to.

You share a special connection with all of Mikey's friends, like a close-knit found family, and each of them wholeheartedly reciprocates your affection.

— BONTEN.

When Mikey holds a meeting to introduce his pregnant partner, the news doesn't really come off as a shock to anyone. Everyone in Bonten is used to sleeping around, and, well, they know that accidents can happen.

Mikey decided to be responsible and keep a prostitute and her baby? Okay, good for him. Maybe not the best decision, but that's none of their business.

What genuinely shocks them however, is finding out that you and your baby are actually far from being a mere accident or casual fling gone wrong.

In fact, you've been Mikey's wife for a little over a year now, and the main motivation behind his decision to introduce you to his gang is to ensure your safety at all times. He can't risk an enemy finding out about you before his allies do, especially now that you're pregnant.

They're not exactly thrilled by the idea of playing babysitter for their boss - but they quickly get used to having you around. (It's not like they have much of a choice anyway)

Takeomi handles you like literal porcelain. He doesn't leave your side, always following you around to make sure you don't trip, fall down the stairs or hurt yourself in any way shape or form.

His attentiveness is primarily driven by your position as the boss's wife rather than personal affection or genuine concern for you, though. He's just doing his job, knowing that any harm happening to you while he's in charge of watching you will result in him getting reprimanded by Mikey. You're a very nice woman, but he'd rather be tasked with more important business - hence the constant huffs and sighs when he's around you.

Koko, on the other hand, grows particularly fond of you and buys pretty much everything you need for yourself and the baby. Whether it be clothes, plushies, furniture for the nursery or your weird pregnancy cravings, he'll get you anything you desire. This baby is going to be spoiled rotten whether you like it or not. (Mikey complains about it more than you do)

Similarly, you and Kakucho develop a significant bond over time, the third-in-command becoming almost like an older brother to you. Among the gang, he stands out as the friendliest and least intimidating, Introducing a comforting and accessible presence in your life, something you've been missing for a while. Although you love Mikey dearly, being his wife presents its own set of difficulties and often leaves you feeling isolated.

Sanzu mostly minds his own business. He does his job and keeps an eye on you, but he has too much respect for Mikey to even consider befriending you. He wouldn't want his boss to get the wrong idea.

He mostly leaves the wifesitting job to the others, preferring to stay by Mikey's side and obey his more thrilling orders.

(And let's be honest, you're not complaining)

The Haitani brothers aren't big on befriending, and yet from time to time they'll buy some stuff for your baby, like little shoes or plushies. (That's mostly Rindou's doing, as he tends to be friendlier than his older brother).

When you find yourself alone at home, they're usually the ones assigned to stay by your front door, ensuring your security.