#USUALLY that is the order!!!!

[needyoulikeaheartbeet]

A List of the Eras Tour Surprise Songs

Surprise songs from each show!

mirrorball (Glendale - March 17th, 2023)

Tim McGraw (Glendale - March 17th, 2023)

this is me trying (Glendale - March 18th, 2023)

State Of Grace (Glendale - March 18th, 2023)

Our Song (Las Vegas - March 24th, 2023) 

Snow On The Beach (Las Vegas - March 24th, 2023) 

cowboy like me with Marcus Mumford (Las Vegas - March 25th, 2023)

White Horse (Las Vegas - March 25th, 2023)

Sad Beautiful Tragic (Arlington - March 31st, 2023)

Ours (Arlington - March 31st, 2023)

Death By A Thousand Cuts (Arlington - April 1st, 2023)

Clean (Arlington - April 1st, 2023)

Jump Then Fall (Arlington - April 2nd, 2023)

The Lucky One (Arlington - April 2nd, 2023)

Speak Now (Tampa - April 13th, 2023)

Treacherous (Tampa - April 13th, 2023)

The Great War with Aaron Dessner (Tampa - April 14th, 2023)

You’re On Your Own, Kid (Tampa - April 14th, 2023)

mad woman with Aaron Dessner (Tampa - April 15th, 2023)

Mean (Tampa - April 15th, 2023)

Wonderland (Houston - April 21st, 2023)

You’re Not Sorry (Houston - April 21st, 2023)

A Place In This World (Houston - April 22nd, 2023)

Today Was A Fairytale (Houston - April 22nd, 2023)

Begin Again (Houston - April 23rd, 2023)

Cold As You (Houston - April 23rd, 2023)

The Other Side Of The Door (Atlanta - April 28th, 2023)

coney island (Atlanta - April 28th, 2023)

High Infidelity (Atlanta - April 29th, 2023)

Gorgeous (Atlanta - April 29th, 2023)

I Bet You Think About Me (Atlanta - April 30th, 2023)

How You Get The Girl (Atlanta - April 30th, 2023)

Sparks Fly (Nashville - May 5th, 2023)

Teardrops On My Guitar (Nashville - May 5th, 2023)

Out Of The Woods (Nashville - May 6th, 2023)

Fifteen (Nashville - May 6th, 2023)

Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve with Aaron Dessner (Nashville - May 7th, 2023)

Mine (Nashville - May 7th, 2023)

gold rush (Philadelphia - May 12th, 2023)

Come Back... Be Here (Philadelphia - May 12th, 2023)

Forever & Always (Philadelphia - May 13th, 2023)

This Love (Philadelphia - May 13th, 2023)

Hey Stephen (Philadelphia - May 14th, 2023)

The Best Day (Philadelphia - May 14th, 2023)

Should’ve Said No (Foxborough - May 19th, 2023)

Better Man (Foxborough - May 19th, 2023)

Question...? (Foxborough - May 20th, 2023)

Invisible (Foxborough - May 20th, 2023)

I Think He Knows (Foxborough - May 21st, 2023)

Red (Foxborough - May 21st, 2023)

Getaway Car with Jack Antonoff (East Rutherford - May 26th, 2023)

Maroon (East Rutherford - May 26th, 2023)

Holy Ground (East Rutherford - May 27th, 2023)

False God (East Rutherford - May 27th, 2023)

Welcome To New York (East Rutherford - May 28th, 2023)

Clean (East Rutherford - May 28th, 2023)

I Wish You Would (Chicago - June 2nd, 2023)

the lakes (Chicago - June 2nd, 2023)

You All Over Me with Maren Morris (Chicago - June 3rd, 2023)

I Don’t Wanna Live Forever (Chicago - June 3rd, 2023)

Hits Different (Chicago - June 4th, 2023)

The Moment I Knew (Chicago - June 4th, 2023)

Haunted (Detroit - June 9th, 2023)

I Almost Do (Detroit - June 9th, 2023)

All You Had To Do Was Stay (Detroit - June 10th, 2023)

Breathe (Detroit - June 10th, 2023)

Mr. Perfectly Fine (Pittsburgh - June 16th, 2023)

The Last Time (Pittsburgh - June 16th, 2023)

seven with Aaron Dessner (Pittsburgh - June 17th, 2023)

The Story Of Us (Pittsburgh - June 17th, 2023)

Paper Rings (Minneapolis - June 23rd, 2023)

If This Was A Movie (Minneapolis - June 23rd, 2023)

Dear John (Minneapolis - June 24th, 2023)

Daylight (Minneapolis - June 24th, 2023)

I’m Only Me When I’m With You (Cincinnati - June 30th, 2023)

evermore (Cincinnati - June 30th, 2023)

Ivy with Aaron Dessner (Cincinnati - July 1st, 2023)

I miss you, I’m sorry with Gracie Abrams (Cincinnati - July 1st, 2023)

Call It What You Want (Cincinnati - July 1st, 2023)

Never Grow Up (Kansas City - July 7th, 2023)

When Emma Falls In Love (Kansas City - July 7th, 2023)

Last Kiss (Kansas City - July 8th, 2023)

dorothea (Kansas City - July 8th, 2023)

Picture To Burn (Denver - July 14th, 2023)

Timeless (Denver - July 14th, 2023)

Starlight (Denver - July 15th, 2023)

Back To December (Denver - July 15th, 2023)

This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Things (Seattle - July 22nd, 2023)

Everything Has Changed (Seattle - July 22nd, 2023)

Message In A Bottle (Seattle - July 23rd, 2023)

Tied Together With A Smile (Seattle - July 23rd, 2023)

right where you left me with Aaron Dessner (Santa Clara - July 28th, 2023)

Castles Crumbling (Santa Clara - July 28th, 2023)

Stay Stay Stay (Santa Clara - July 29th, 2023)

All Of The Girls You Loved Before (Santa Clara - July 29th, 2023)

I Can See You (Los Angeles - August 3rd, 2023)

Maroon (Los Angeles - August 3rd, 2023)

Our Song (Los Angeles - August 4th, 2023)

You Are In Love (Los Angeles - August 4th, 2023)

Death By A Thousand Cuts (Los Angeles - August 5th, 2023)

You’re On Your Own, Kid (Los Angeles - August 5th, 2023)

Dress (Los Angeles - August 7th, 2023)

exile (Los Angeles - August 7th, 2023)

I Know Places (Los Angeles - August 8th, 2023)

King Of My Heart (Los Angeles - August 8th, 2023)

New Romantics (Los Angeles - August 9th, 2023)

New Year’s Day (Los Angeles - August 9th, 2023)

I Forgot That You Existed (Mexico City - August 24th, 2023)

Sweet Nothing (Mexico City - August 24th, 2023)

Tell Me Why (Mexico City - August 25th, 2023)

Snow On The Beach (Mexico City - August 25th, 2023)

Cornelia Street (Mexico City - August 26th, 2023)

You’re On Your Own, Kid (Mexico City - August 26th, 2023)

Afterglow (Mexico City - August 27th, 2023)

Maroon (Mexico City - August 27th, 2023)

The Very First Night (Buenos Aires - November 9th, 2023)

Labyrinth (Buenos Aires- November 9th, 2023)

Is It Over Now? x Out Of The Woods (Buenos Aires - November 11th, 2023)

End Game (Buenos Aires- November 11th, 2023)

Better Than Revenge (Buenos Aires - November 12th, 2023)

“Slut!” (Buenos Aires - November 12th, 2023)

Stay Beautiful (Rio de Janeiro - November 17th, 2023)

Suburban Legends (Rio de Janeiro - November 17th, 2023)

Dancing With Our Hands Tied (Rio de Janeiro - November 19th, 2023)

Bigger Than The Whole Sky (Rio de Janeiro - November 19th, 2023)

ME! (Rio de Janeiro - November 20th, 2023)

So It Goes... (Rio de Janeiro - November 20th, 2023)

Now That We Don’t Talk (São Paulo - November 24th, 2023)

Innocent (São Paulo - November 24th, 2023)

Safe & Sound (São Paulo - November 25th, 2023)

Untouchable (São Paulo - November 25th, 2023)

Say Don’t Go (São Paulo - November 26th, 2023)

it’s time to go (São Paulo - November 26th, 2023)

Dear Reader (Tokyo - February 7th, 2024)

Holy Ground (Tokyo - February 7th, 2024)

Eyes Open (Tokyo - February 8th, 2024)

Electric Touch (Tokyo - February 8th, 2024)

Superman (Tokyo - February 9th, 2024)

The Outside (Tokyo - February 9th, 2024)

Come In With The Rain (Tokyo - February 10th, 2024)

You’re On Your Own, Kid (Tokyo - February 10th, 2024)

Red (Melbourne - February 16th, 2024)

You’re Losing Me (Melbourne - February 16th, 2024)

Getaway Car x august x The Other Side Of The Door (Melbourne - February 17th, 2024)

this is me trying (Melbourne - February 17th, 2024)

Come Back... Be Here x Daylight (Melbourne - February 18th, 2024)

Teardrops On My Guitar (Melbourne - February 18th, 2024)

How You Get The Girl (Sydney - February 23rd, 2024)

White Horse x coney island (Sydney - February 23rd, 2024)

Should’ve Said No x You’re Not Sorry (Sydney - February 24th, 2024)

New Year’s Day x peace (Sydney - February 24th, 2024)

Is It Over Now? x I Wish You Would (Sydney - February 25th, 2024)

Haunted x exile (Sydney - February 25th, 2024)

Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve x ivy (Sydney - February 26th, 2024)

Forever & Always x Maroon (Sydney - February 26th, 2024)

Mine x Starlight (Singapore - March 2nd, 2024)

I Don't Wanna Live Forever x Dress (Singapore - March 2nd, 2024)

long story short x The Story Of Us (Singapore - March 3rd, 2024)

Clean x evermore (Singapore - March 3rd, 2024)

Foolish One x Tell Me Why (Singapore - March 4th, 2024)

This Love x Call It What You Want (Singapore - March 4th, 2024)

Death By A Thousand Cuts x Babe (Singapore - March 7th, 2024)

Fifteen x You’re On Your Own, Kid (Singapore - March 7th, 2024)

Sparks Fly x gold rush (Singapore - March 8th, 2024)

False God x "Slut!” (Singapore - March 8th, 2024)

Tim McGraw x cowboy like me (Singapore - March 9th, 2024)

mirrorball x epiphany (Singapore - March 9th, 2024)

Paris (Paris - May 9th, 2024)

loml (Paris - May 9th, 2024)

Is It Over Now? x Out Of The Woods (Paris - May 10th, 2024)

My Boy Only Breaks His Favourite Toys (Paris - May 10th, 2024)

Hey Stephen (Paris - May 11th, 2024)

Maroon (Paris - May 11th, 2024)

The Alchemy x Treacherous (Paris - May 12th, 2024)

Begin Again x Paris (Paris - May 12th, 2024)

I Think He Knows x Gorgeous (Stockholm - May 17th, 2024)

Peter (Stockholm - May 17th, 2024)

Guilty as Sin? (Stockholm - May 18th, 2024)

Say Don’t Go x Welcome To New York x Clean (Stockholm - May 18th, 2024)

Message in a Bottle x How You Get The Girl x New Romantics (Stockholm - May 19th, 2024)

How Did It End? (Stockholm - May 19th, 2024)

Come Back... Be Here x The Way I Loved You x The Other Side Of The Door (Lisbon - May 24th, 2024)

Fresh Out The Slammer x High Infidelity (Lisbon - May 24th, 2024)

The Tortured Poets Department x Now That We Don’t Talk (Lisbon - May 25th, 2024)

You’re On Your Own, Kid x Long Live (Lisbon - May 25th, 2024)

Sparks Fly x I Can Fix Him (No Really I Can) (Madrid - May 29th, 2024)

I Look In People’s Windows x Snow On The Beach (Madrid - May 29th, 2024)

Our Song x Jump Then Fall (Madrid - May 30th, 2024)

King Of My Heart (Madrid - May 30th, 2024)

The Prophecy x long story short (Lyon - June 2nd, 2024)

Fifteen x You’re On Your Own, Kid (Lyon - June 2nd, 2024)

Glitch x Everything Has Changed (Lyon - June 3rd, 2024)

Chloe or Sam or Sophia or Marcus (Lyon - June 3rd, 2024)

Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve x I Know Places (Edinburgh - June 7th, 2024)

tis the damn season x Daylight (Edinburgh - June 7th, 2024)

The Bolter x Getaway Car (Edinburgh - June 8th, 2024)

All Of The Girls You Loved Before x Crazier (Edinburgh - June 8th, 2024)

dorothea x It’s Nice To Have A Friend (Edinburgh - June 9th, 2024)

Haunted x exile (Edinburgh - June 9th, 2024)

I Can See You x Mine (Liverpool - June 13th, 2024)

Cornelia Street x Maroon (Liverpool - June 13th, 2024)

This Is What You Came For x gold rush (Liverpool - June 14th, 2024)

The Great War x You’re Losing Me (Liverpool - June 14th, 2024)

Carolina x no body, no crime (Liverpool - June 15th, 2024)

The Manuscript x Red (Liverpool - June 15th, 2024)

I Forgot That You Existed x This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Things (Cardiff - June 18th, 2024)

I Hate It Here x the lakes (Cardiff - June 18th, 2024)

Hits Different x Death By A Thousand Cuts (London - June 21st, 2024)

The Black Dog x Come Back... Be Here x Maroon (London - June 21st, 2024)

thanK you aIMee x Mean (London - June 22nd, 2024)

Castles Crumbling with Hayley Williams (London - June 22nd, 2024)

us. with Gracie Abrams (London - June 23rd, 2024)

Out Of The Woods x Is It Over Now? x Clean (London - June 23rd, 2024)

State of Grace x You’re On Your Own, Kid (Dublin - June 28th, 2024)

Sweet Nothing x hoax (Dublin - June 28th, 2024)

The Albatross x Dancing With Our Hands Tied (Dublin - June 29th, 2024)

This Love x Ours (Dublin - June 29th, 2024)

Clara Bow x The Lucky One (Dublin - June 30th, 2024)

You’re On Your Own, Kid (Dublin - June 30th, 2024)

Guilty as Sin? x Untouchable (Amsterdam - July 4th, 2024)

The Archer x Question...? (Amsterdam - July 4th, 2024)

imgonnagetyouback x Dress (Amsterdam - July 5th, 2024)

You Are In Love x cowboy like me (Amsterdam - July 5th, 2024)

Sweeter Than Fiction x Holy Ground (Amsterdam - July 6th, 2024)

Mary’s Song (Oh My My My) x So High School x Everything Has Changed (Amsterdam - July 6th, 2024)

right where you left me x All You Had To Do Was Stay (Zurich - July 9th, 2024)

Last Kiss x Sad Beautiful Tragic (Zurich - July 9th, 2024)

closure x A Perfectly Good Heart (Zurich - July 10th, 2024)

Robin x Never Grow Up (Zurich - July 10th, 2024)

the 1 x Wonderland (Milan - July 13th, 2024)

I Almost Do x The Moment I Knew (Milan - July 13th, 2024)

Mr. Perfectly Fine x Red (Milan - July 14th, 2024)

Getaway Car x Out Of The Woods (Milan - July 14th, 2024)

Superstar x invisible string (Gelsenkirchen - July 17th, 2024)

"Slut!” x False God (Gelsenkirchen - July 17th, 2024)

Speak Now x Hey Stephen (Gelsenkirchen - July 18th, 2024)

this is me trying x Labyrinth (Gelsenkirchen - July 18th, 2024)

Paper Rings x Stay Stay Stay (Gelsenkirchen - July 19th, 2024)

it’s time to go x Better Man (Gelsenkirchen - July 19th, 2024)

Teardrops On My Guitar x The Last Time (Hamburg - July 23rd, 2024)

We Were Happy x happiness (Hamburg - July 23rd, 2024)

the last great american dynasty x Run (Hamburg - July 24th, 2024)

Nothing New x Dear Reader (Hamburg - July 24th, 2024)

Fresh Out The Slammer x You Are In Love (Munich - July 27th, 2024)

ivy x Call It What You Want (Munich - July 27th, 2024)

I Don’t Wanna Live Forever x imgonnagetyouback (Munich - July 28th, 2024)

loml x Don’t You (Munich - July 28th, 2024)

mirrorball x Clara Bow (Warsaw - August 1st, 2024)

Suburban Legends x New Year's Day (Warsaw - August 1st, 2024)

I Can Fix Him (No Really I Can) x I Can See You (Warsaw - August 2nd, 2024)

Red x Maroon (Warsaw - August 2nd, 2024)

Today Was A Fairytale x I Think He Knows (Warsaw - August 3rd, 2024)

The Black Dog x exile (Warsaw - August 3rd, 2024)

Everything Has Changed x End Game x Thinking Out Loud with Ed Sheeran (London - August 15th, 2024)

King Of My Heart x The Alchemy (London - August 15th, 2024)

London Boy (London - August 16th, 2024)

Dear John x Sad Beautiful Tragic (London - August 16th, 2024)

I Did Something Bad (London - August 17th, 2024)

My Boy Only Breaks His Favourite Toys x coney island (London - August 17th, 2024)

Long Live x Change (London - August 19th, 2024)

The Archer x You’re On Your Own, Kid (London - August 19th, 2024)

Death By A Thousand Cuts x Getaway Car with Jack Antonoff (London - August 20th, 2024)

So Long, London (London - August 20th, 2024)

Tim McGraw x Timeless (Miami - October 18th, 2024)

this is me trying x Daylight (Miami - October 18th, 2024)

Should’ve Said No x I Did Something Bad (Miami - October 19th, 2024)

loml x White Horse (Miami - October 19th, 2024)

Out Of The Woods x All You Had To Do Was Stay (Miami - October 20th, 2024)

mirrorball x Guilty as Sin? (Miami - October 20th, 2024)

Our Song x Call It What You Want (New Orleans - October 25th, 2024)

The Black Dog x Haunted (New Orleans - October 25th, 2024)

Espresso x Is It Over Now? x Please Please Please with Sabrina Carpenter (New Orleans - October 26th, 2024)

Hits Different x Welcome To New York (New Orleans - October 26th, 2024)

Afterglow x Dress (New Orleans - October 27th, 2024)

How You Get The Girl x Clean (New Orleans - October 27th, 2024)

The Albatross x Holy Ground (Indianapolis - November 1st, 2024)

Cold As You x exile (Indianapolis - November 1st, 2024)

The Prophecy x This Love (Indianapolis - November 2nd, 2024)

Maroon x cowboy like me (Indianapolis - November 2nd, 2024)

Cornelia Street x The Bolter (Indianapolis - November 3rd, 2024)

Death By A Thousand Cuts x The Great War (Indianapolis - November 3rd, 2024)

My Boy Only Breaks His Favourite Toys x This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Things (Toronto - November 14th, 2024)

False God x tis the damn season (Toronto - November 14th, 2024)

I Don't Wanna Live Forever x Mine (Toronto - November 15th, 2024)

evermore x Peter (Toronto - November 15th, 2024)

us. x Out Of The Woods with Gracie Abrams (Toronto - November 16th, 2024)

You're On Your Own, Kid x long story short (Toronto - November 16th, 2024)

Mr. Perfectly Fine x Better Than Revenge (Toronto - November 21st, 2024)

State Of Grace x Labyrinth (Toronto - November 21st, 2024)

Ours x the last great american dynasty (Toronto - November 22nd, 2024)

Cassandra x mad woman x I Did Something Bad (Toronto - November 22nd, 2024)

[bacchuschucklefuck]

no more fan-ta-sizing about it! everything's already changed~

[raphaerolo]

Zack and Cody (2005)

[pangur-and-grim]

I'M GOING BACK TO SCHOOL!

it's exciting, I have so much hope for what it'll do for my career, but it is also.....pricey. so, please enjoy 25% off EVERYTHING at greerstothers.shop with the discount code 'university'

there are stickers, iron-on patches, keychains, enamel pins, zines, and risograph prints. take a look, and see if anything catches your eye!

[sergle]

the best commission client you can ever get is always going to be this specific guy: he wants you to draw an oc he's had for like 16 years, he has a folder of references, she's like a catgirl who is also a magician or something, he has 3 paragraphs of her lore that he gives you + an exact pose, he's extremely polite and tells you to take as long as you need, and then he tips like $160 on top of the asking price at the end. and he always looks exactly like this

[abstractfrog]

Happy 1 year anniversary to Mr Sherlock Holmes! Here's a litttleee celebratory comic from me

[twistedswd]

just little guys

[pineapple-frenzy]

Book 2 au: and there was only one bed!! :00

Because of course I just had to do this trope

This is the first and last time they decide to sleep in an inn and they have an unspoken agreement to pretend this never happened

[amarriageoftrueminds]

View on Twitter

Since it came up recently, link to that therapist on twitter 👆 who was discussing Bucky's terribile therapist in TFATWS and how they should’ve been. 

Transcript:

"As a therapist myself I've had a lot of feelings about Bucky's therapist on TFatWS, and have decided I need to rant a little to let it all out. I've worked w/active duty, trauma survivors, and court ordered clients, so here's some therapeutic conjecture on Bucky's therapy:

Aesthetically her office and presentation don't fit for someone who has been through the trauma that he’s been through. A client like this would need something non-threatening and safe- the whole vibe is overly formal and official in an office building, not at all therapeutic.

6 months working together she calls him Mr. Barnes and then James-he has identity issues and is struggling with who he is, so I think that one of the 1st things they would have done is figure out what he is comfortable being called, by whom and what that means for him.

He is still full out lying to her about pretty much everything including PTSD sx—I’m not saying clients never lie if they have good therapists, but if after 6 months he still doesn’t feel like he can be truthful at all then they haven’t built any trust/ solid therapeutic rapport

The pen and notebook thing-that’s clearly a trigger for him, there’s no reason to antagonize him and take notes in session like a punishment, it’s a power play on her part and it only emphasizes his lack of control in being forced into therapy (she should know his hx w/notebooks)

The whole little arm motion she made when she said “they need to make sure you don’t…” – that made so much light of what has happened to him, he probably feels like his arm is only good as a weapon and things like that will not help him accept it as part of his body

The rules, UGH the rules—from how they were talking about them clearly not something he actively created for himself, more like directives that he’s been ordered to adhere to—something fed to him and reinforced, feels like a way to sign off on liability only

THE AMENDS—this is probably my biggest issue. Amends are for people who need to take accountability for their actions and the repercussions of those choices. He had NO choice. He was a victim of horrific crimes against him, and framing it in a way that he needs to make up for

the crimes that others used him for is abhorrent. The lack of trauma informed care as astounding in the way it is being framed that he has to atone for sins that weren’t his. Its clearly reinforcing the idea in his head in ep 2 when he says “HYDRA were my people".

NO, HYDRA were your captors. They were not your people. That type of thinking needs to get deconstructed and challenged. He can dedicate himself to bringing good into the world and righting wrongs that happened WITHOUT taking on the responsibility of those actions.

Her whole attitude and demeanor were condescending and demeaning. I know some people have said “I love how she calls him out on his bullshit!” That’s not what I see happening. I call my clients out on their shit all the time—this was not that.

And I can only do that with clients ONCE we’ve built the type of relationship where it’s going to be therapeutic for them to hear it, and it’s done intentionally and with purpose. She just came off shaming and mean because they don’t seem to have any form of therapeutic rapport.

She said “you have no history, no family”- there is no therapeutic reason for that, and she’s wrong. He most likely has family alive (he used current tense when talking about his sister) and he was close to Shuri and TChalla, his history is vital to understanding him

When she said “Look, I know that you have been through a lot, but you’ve got your mind back. You are being pardoned. These are good things. You’re free.”—Yeah this feels really dismissive and like toxic positivity. “I know you’ve been through a lot BUT BE HAPPY!!??”

He certainly doesn’t seem to feel like he’s free (especially having therapy mandated), and you can’t just tell someone they’re free. I felt like she was pretty much just like, “shake it off, look to the future!” which feels really shitty when you’ve experienced excessive trauma.

HELLO breach of confidentiality, just introducing herself to Sam as his therapist and confirming it to Walker and the whole police station, it doesn’t matter if they know he’s in therapy you do not break someone’s privacy like that, he still deserves some control over his tx.

Ordering Sam into a session, NO, he’s not your client and you don’t know him well enough to know if that’s appropriate or if it would be harmful to either, and you haven’t asked your client for his consent to have another person in his session

Forcing a trauma victim who was stripped of his bodily autonomy for 70 years into a physically intimate exercise with a coworker that he’s barely interacted with in the last several months? NOPE, just reinforcing to Bucky she has control over him the way his handlers used to

To me, I think she is more focused on signing off on his psychological eval that he isn't a liability rather than any actual healing or attention to his trauma. This unfortunately isn’t unusual in the military where “mental health treatment” is focused on being mission ready.

They are making sure he’s ready to be an “asset” w/ mandated therapy, which he shouldn’t even be forced to do as part of his pardon because he shouldn’t have needed a pardon at all because he was a victim of horrific war crimes, brainwashing, and dehumanization for 70 years.

I’m just saying, if that was me he would be on my big squishy couch, bright open windows, bowl of Hershey kisses, random fidget toys, and two therapy dogs laying all over him while we work through that trauma and he builds back his identity and finds the calm he wants so badly.

And yes he would probably need someone who would see through his BS, call him out when he needs it, not be overly "touchy feely", but only if he feels safe and there is trust, where he gets to work on what HE wants, not what others think he needs.

Anyway thanks for coming to my TEDTalk, I❤️my work and I think being a therapist on retainer for the Avengers would've been a fucking trip, they all needed a team of mental health professionals at their disposal 24/7 and things would've been so much better🤣

ps. They can be a good therapist and just not be a fit for the client, that happens regularly. We know when to make it part of the conversation and when to refer out. Nothing good is going to come out of a contemptuous therapeutic relationship, mandated or not.

pps. That whole situation and the scene with Zemo was so rough. I can't imagine how much it brought back the violation, humiliation, anger, and helplessness of when he was the WS. I'm just imagining him having a therapist he trusts and being able to process that afterwards 😭😭😭"

[peanuttoffee]

Fallen Order Cal is a cinnamon bun and has a precious place in my heart forever

but Jedi Survivor Cal...

thanks for the reference to the dearest @flammabel!

[fisherrprince]

more scribbles including stuff based on this post!

[bacchuschucklefuck]

she turns, makes direct eye contact with you, smiles,

[cobaltfluff]

rei papa...

[claraoswalds]

#mrs flood who are you: time lord edition

[calamarispiderart]

everything i do is derivative

[maulfucker]

racism in star wars will have wikis saying shit like "this species that is inspired on a real life non-white people is just too stupid to use the Force"