#Transgender drink

[my-jewish-life]

Let's play a game! Guess the comments!🙃

Even a trans frappino is murder?! And the antisemitism in the comments.....

[ofieloafi]

[myfriendgoo94]

Going out for some drinks ☺️

[jollycryptid]

2024 - Art vs Artist

[its-robyn]

Why is my apartment 26° 🥵??? It's October!!!!

@catboybiologist @actinicoctarinegirl @zerosuitsammi3 @sarah-ankh @lxladies @germanknifemommy @nyala82nya-girl @siobhannotshane @godless-of-the-hunt @slimebot-puppygirl @theinimitablefuckstormkilligan

[menacewithawolfcut]

are these kinds of memes still prevalent?

[stefisdoingthings]

some dumbass vashwood sketches from yesterday !!!

[rebchen]

slurrRrrp! *sucks*

[emuwarum]

reblog this to give a trans person a really good cookie

[gaystims]

Love me for Who I am

x x x | x x x | x x x

[fruitytboy]

exploring an intox kink is fun and all until every time you've ever gotten drunk your girlfriend has railed you senseless so when you're decently tipsy and she ISN'T around you become the most needy frustrated horny pathetic mess who can't even get himself off properly on his own cause he wants to be taken advantage of

[flapjacksboi]

Hay, what with the election and all I hope everyone is doing okay (as okay as you can be) (alive, and I'd like you to stay that way)

I'll be posting more trans art in the next few days as I feel like it's an appropriate time for it,,

It's not fair and things shouldn't have turned out this way, community, wherever you find it is more important than ever right now

[deadboystims]

★ ┊ day one of my event : stimboard based off of my queer identities!!

1 , 2 , 3 ┊ 4 , 5 , 6 ┊ 7 , 8 , 9

[tmaismyhyperfixation]

A message for my fellow trans ppl <3

A few years ago, while trying to track down an old friend of my dad's, we realized she was trans. I was obviously ecstatic to find out that my dad had an old trans friend, who he thought was simply gay and in drag for their college years, because I thought he might finally try to understand how awful it can be sometimes. But, no, and he continued to call the old friend by her deadname and use he/him pronouns for her. When I told him that he should probably stop deadnaming her (he wasn't actually talking *to* her, as we have no idea what her phone number or address is, but he was talking *about* her) but when I mentioned the term, 'deadname' he laughed. It shocked me that he could so easily dismiss something we find so sacred in the trans community. I told him, 'yes, its called a deadname, because the person who used to use it is dead.' He simply dismissed me. I felt so violated, but it was one of the first times I realized just how disconnected cis, and many sexuality-wise queer ppl are from the trans experience. My parents strongly believe trans women are ugly and rapists. Which is not only a disgusting opinion, but shows just how little they know. In the trans community, we hold each other's hands and hearts, both of which have been peeled of their outer skins, and have had their nerves pinched and prodded. We caress the wounds of our siblings, avoiding the abused nerves, spreading love on their scarred flesh. No cis person can relate to that feeling, of being completely unknown by those around you, but finding someone who can know exactly what you are feeling with just a look. When a trans person stares down at their own chest, we know exactly what they are feeling, down to the marrow in their bones. But a cis person might simply think they are checking for stains, or at the most, register that the person is uncomfortable.

No matter how much we teach the cis community, they will never completely understand what dysphoria is like. However, we can still accept the small victories. If an opportunity where you are able to educate ever arises, please take it. Together, we will create a new world. One where not so many of our siblings are killed by themselves or others. Remember, there will always be the community to come back to, no matter how bad it gets. TRANS PPL ARE BEATIFUL. Period. Remember that. Please. We are an endangered group fighting for our lives, but we are always beautiful. Every act of loving yourself is a piece of the revolution. Stay alive. Having you here is more important than ever. STAY SAFE <333

[gor3sigil]

Sometimes, I wish that my therapist understood that no, I don't need to learn how to "sit with the feelings."

If I started drinking and getting high, it was precisely because I sat with them for so long it started eating me alive.

Like doctor, I'm traumatized and autistic, you can't just tell me to sit with the feelings. IT. WON'T. WORK.

My glass of emotions doesn't empty itself every night. It stays half full. If I keep pouring and pouring, it overflows, and the relapses are so worse than what I would've done if I didn't just try to go through the feelings instead of making it more bearable.

That's the issue I have with most addiction therapy. They think all you ever do is run away. It's like they do see that substance abuse, self-harm, or any form of harmful addiction we pick up to stay the fuck alive. My brain is a hornet nest that everything, every second of every day, pokes with a stick. So excuse me if sometimes I need a time out from it. It's not always "the easy way out". At times, it's the only one that doesn't mean disappearing.

And if it's the thing that keeps my heart beating for a few more hours, it'll have to do.

I tried breathing exercises, medication for anxiety AND cravings, AND neuroleptics that turned my mind into mush, meditation, exercise, going out to walk, vitamin supplements, yoga, stretching, hypnosis, cardiac coherence. Nothing works.

At the end of the day this shit became a full time job I kid you not. How can I live if I spend hours everyday to JUST function ? What if I funtion better while using ?

But there's no options in my case, you're just seen as a lost cause and left to rot because everyone think that you, inevitably, will.

I have to do harm reduction unsupervised on myself to keep goin. That's not fun nor living. I'm exhausted.