#THANKS FOR THINKING OF ME!!

[primamchorus]

Getting to Know Me (Today, anyway)

Tagged by @valdiis thank you! ♥

Tagging: @blossomblade, @lal-ffxiv, @ubejamjar, @sylaurin, @ainyan, @sasslett, + anyone that wants to do this!

last song: A/V by Red Vox (I've been eating up this single that got released recently)

favorite color: Maroon. Hasn't changed. However... have you seen Amaranth Red?

last book: Uh... So I've been reading a lot more fanfiction lately. I've been trying to chip away at my backlog of FFXIV Write 2024 entries that I still have open in, like 50+ tabs right now. Whichever is the last one I reblogged, that one.

last movie: I was about to say nothing, BUT...I remembered my partner and I went and watched Sonic 3 earlier this month as a birthday / Valentine's present to ourselves!

last tv show: Dan Da Dan!

sweet/spicy/savory: I am a sweet tooth by far. :'D I love me my sweets.

last thing I searched for online: "kid prompto argentum anime camera" (I was looking for reference for art >_>)

current obsession: SO HEY, HAVE YOU HEARD OF MY REIMAGINED PROJECT WHERE I TAKE FINAL FANTASY XV AND REWRITE IT?

looking forward to: I indulged and commissioned myself a musical piece for Primam a couple days before my birthday earlier this month -- a character piece from a musician that I follow and really enjoy. I really don't treat myself to stuff that often, but this was worth it, and I'm looking really forward to what the end result will be after hearing the work in progress.

[sermna]

I don't know how much visual novels you play, but I think you could really enjoy the game "along the edge" :) just something to look into if you have time!

I'll look into it! Always happy to explore new media :]

[tawnysoup]

Found my fav Slay the Princess route recently. Dragon my beloved. Your horrifying beak mouth was an impossible-to-refuse lip syncing challenge 💖

Shoutouts to @blacktabbygames for making such a cool game!

[varilien]

am i blanchin?

girl we blanchin!!

HI HIII happy birthday to everyone's favorite mystery twins!! how did they grow up so fast!!!!

Palestine: Funds | Action | eSims | Info Sudan Resources | Congo Resources

[mroddmod]

they are like puppies. 2 me

[junglejim4322]

do you think a 5'4 and 6'2 height difference is predatory?

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[donothello]

click for better quality/enlarged images!

and they'll be together forever! :]

foreshadowing

[i-will-physically-fight-you]

I'm so happy! Literally the greatest gift I could receive for my birthday--now we just need the ability to send asks from our sideblogs and I will be set for life

oh thank god you can now reply/comment on posts as a sideblog

[stealingpotatoes]

I was absolutely befuddled when I saw someone say they loved your Eunuch so I went on your page and saw it was your cat and I was like "oh okay that makes sense now." I must say your Faithful Eunuch is exceedingly adorable.

LOL honestly it's really funny seeing how much tumblr loves my cat bc he has that effect on people irl too, including but not limited to the vets

[andstuffsketches]

girl who lives in a cave

[hansoeii]

🥚❤️🪨!

[wormturned]

It is scientifically proven that Dungeon Meshi will cause one of the characters to manifest in your head and tell you how to improve your life. You either get:

Senshi: eat well, rest, nourish yourself

Chilchuck: labor rights, advocate for yourself, scrutinize everything

Marcille: take care of yourself, study necromancy, be a lesbian

Laios: respect everything, learn about the world around you, be autistic.

[arttsuka]

I've been thinking about this clip a lot

[hinamie]

happy gojoday to all who celebrate

[sardonicdoll]

wanted to do my photo project this semester on the notion of mobility aids being extensions of our bodies, the yarn was done by a friend

edit: the shibari comments are one thing but if you put these non-sexual photos of me in my wheelchair on your porn blog i'm blocking you 👍🏻

[bean-spring]

Hot take and not to be a killjoy or the shipping police but people treating Viktor or Jinx's aroace headcanons as if they were canon is not the revolutionary take people think it is.

Headcanons are always all right but we have to acknowledge that they are somehow damaging when they apply to stereotypes. It might not be the case for everyone but most of the time people unconsciously assume that disability/mental illness=asexuality. These headcanons erase the freedom of attraction from people who are already seen as unable to have sexual/romantic experiences/desires, when it's completely untrue and harmful.

You can headcanon Viktor and Jinx as aroace, but I have seen people changing their minds once Viktor is no longer disabled (s2 with all of his other forms) and Jinx is no longer as mentally ill (alternate universe Powder). And it speaks wonders of how people see these characters.

"I never thought about Jinx being able to feel romantic/sexual attraction until s2!" To believe she's actually only capable of that when she's not "damaged" is incredibly disturbing. Especially since Jinx has always had a bit of a flirty personality too.

"I've always seen Viktor as asexual, I don't know why!" That's fine. You can headcanon him as ace. But I believe there is a reason behind it, most of the time, if for some inexplicable reason the "vibes" of the disabled character are making you think he's ace.

I say all of this being aroaspec myself, by the way. Headcanon all you want but going to people's posts commenting how "it's weird for you that they have romantic/sexual plots when they're clearly aroace" is not a win at all. It's a headcanon, after all, and it should be treated as such, and that's fine. But it also is damaging to spread stereotypes like these.

Of course the disabled character is asexual. Of course the mentally ill character is aromantic. It's not as revolutionary as you might think, tbh.

Fandom is not activism and it's all right to have any headcanons you want BUT some of them are filled with damaging stuff and perhaps we should look into ourselves more before treating these assumptions as something canon.