#South Shore Real Estate

[lizbone]

Avoiding Common Mistakes When Buying South Shore Real Estate

The South Shore is a highly sought-after location for homebuyers. Renowned for its charming coastal towns, top-rated schools, and convenient access to Boston. However, navigating the real estate market can be daunting, particularly for those new to the area or the home buying process. But before that you have to avoid certain things while buying your dream home. From underestimating the costs to failing to do your due diligence, plenty of pitfalls can derail your purchase. By educating yourself and working with trusted professionals, you can avoid these mistakes and find a home that meets your needs and budget.  In this article, we'll cover common mistakes to avoid when buying real estate on the South Shore, helping you make informed decisions and secure your dream home.

Not Researching the Area

Before buying a home, it's essential to research the area thoroughly. Look into the town's schools, crime rates, property taxes, and proximity to amenities like shopping, dining, and public transportation. Taking the time to research the area can help you avoid surprises down the road.

Not Employing A Local Real Estate Agent

Partnering with a local real estate agent with experience in the South Shore market is essential. They can provide valuable insights into the local housing market, help you navigate the buying process, and negotiate on your behalf.

Not Getting Pre-Approved for a Mortgage

Before you begin house hunting, getting pre-approved for a mortgage is essential. This will give you an idea of how much you can afford and make you a more attractive buyer to sellers.

Overlooking Hidden Costs

When buying a home, it's easy to focus on the sale price and forget the additional costs. Don't forget about expenses like closing costs, home inspections, property taxes, and homeowners' insurance. Make sure to budget for these expenses upfront.

Not Having a Home Inspection

A home inspection is a crucial part of the buying process. It may uncover problems with the property that are not apparent during a walk-through. Don't skip this step, even if you're buying a newly built home.

Not Considering Resale Value

Even if you're planning on living in your new South Shore home for many years, it's essential to consider its resale value. Factors like location, school district, and home features can all impact a property's value in the future.

Overlooking Small Repairs

When touring South Shore homes, it's easy to get caught up in the bigger picture and overlook small repairs. While these may seem insignificant, they can add up quickly and impact your budget. So be sure to take note of any small repairs needed and factor them into your decision-making process.

The Final Words

Buying South Shore real estate can be an exciting and rewarding experience, but avoiding common mistakes is essential. Sticking to the above point will increase your chances of finding your dream home on the South Shore. If you're looking for South Shore homes for sale or need assistance with the buying process, consider working with South Shore Sotheby's International Realty. For further details, visit this website- Lizbone.com.

[dudethatsmyundeaduncle]

Tim Drake's Mom is actually Lara Croft! AU

After getting pregnant Lara Croft disappears off the face of the earth, takes up a shell company in Gotham left to her by her father, and assumes the identity Janet Drake.

(DC made Timmy's parents archeologists! so Sis it was between Indiana Jones or the Tomb Raider and well here we are!)

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Lara Croft has a daring archeological adventure/world saving mission with a dashing man she only knows as N. Drake (if u know u know) and finds out she's pregnant weeks after.

Lara Croft did not expect to be Pregnant. Lara knows that she shouldn't have a baby. She knows this intellectually and emotionally, she doesn't have any family left and after nearly 10 years of traveling the globe and putting herself in life or death situations she knows her life can't accommodate children. Lara knows the responsible thing to do, she makes an appointment with NHS/MSI and focuses on her next project. (TW: Discussion of Abortion)

Lara never gets her appointment. She misses her abortion date in London when she gets caught up in another mad expedition that takes her half way across the world.

On this mission she nearly looses everything, her friends, her own life, what's left of her father's legacy, all for a semi cursed magical artifact that nearly blows up the South American Coast.

Lara's tired, scared, she's been running from Trinity (evil org) for nearly a decade now . She's 29, she's 5 months pregnant, and she's stuck floating on her back in the middle of the South Atlantic sea watching the sky burn.

Lara's rich she could always get the abortion, legally or otherwise, her father left her a billionaire and the souvenirs she'd collected from her travels do nothing but add to that wealth.

Trinity wants Lara Croft dead, they'll never stop chasing, and Lara just wants respite. She wants her quaint childhood in the English countryside with her father, she wants to curl up and sleep for a thousand years. She wants to be someone else, just for a moment.

Her heart beats wildly in her chest and she can almost feel another heart beating alongside it.

Lara Croft makes a decision. She sinks into the sea and doesn't come back up for air even when it burns.

On the shore a nameless woman washes up, water logged and looking for passage to America.

The Croft's have had shell companies for years, one can't be a billionaire these days without at least a few, Medi-industries is an unassuming medical supplier located in Gotham, New Jersey the crime capital of North America. It's the perfect place to disappear.

Janet Drake Lands in Gotham on a gloomy morning in March, she's got enough money to throw around that people forget to ask what family she's from, this is Gotham new money is nearly unheard of.

By mid April Janet has reestablished control of Medi-Industries, Now Drake Industries, and purchased an old English style mansion in Bristol, which the real-estate agent has assured her is a great neighborhood.

Timothy Jackson Drake is born July 19th at nearly 3 in the morning squalling high into the night like a banshee. He is perfectly healthy and perfectly safe in Janet's arms.

It is only in the safety of their home, in the house Janet picked, because it was high on a hill for tactical advantage and had bullet proof glass nestled between quaint wood paneled windows, It is only in the heart of Drake Manor that Lara dares to Whisper her son's name

"Timothy Jackson Croft"

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AU ALSO INCLUDES!

Badass Lara Croft being the cool mom TM

A family portrait of the Drakes, Including Janet, baby Tim, and a mysterious Jack Drake (who was a very discreet and well paid member of Gotham's theatre society, and who was also more then happy to pose as a rich ladies dead husband for a day)

A Socttish Nanny/Housekeeper with a very keen eye and discreet mouth who will not tell a soul that she is fairly sure she's employed by Lord Richard Croft's, eccentric billionares, missing daughter.

precocious and slightly British accented baby Tim who gets to have his Mom with him for 10 whole years! before she inevitably runs back off to save the world

Tim being unaware of his mother's past life beyond her name until the age of 13 when he becomes Robin and is able to actually find out what his mom's been protecting him from his whole life.

I imagine in this AU that eventually Trinity finally catches wind of where Lara is hiding and she has a big confrontation with them in New Jersey. It's way too close to Gotham and Tim for her comfort, she knows this is the only chance she'll get to control the chaos.

So she packs Tim up to move him into the dorms at Gotham Academy and promises she'll write and be home for his birthday in the summer. After she's finished her "company" business first of course.

Tim's confused but he trusts his mom, he gets unsigned postcards from all over the world and pins them above his bed in the dorm and goes to sleep trying to guess what country she's in every night.

The move to the dorm is kind of cool to Tim as well because it means he can start his plan to follow Batman and Robin in the city! (in this AU there's no way Lara wouldn't have noticed him sneaking out at 9, but Gotham academy security? totally oblivious)

Tim celebrates his 10th birthday with his mom at home, he has so many freaking questions about where she was! and she tells him outlandish stories about daring fights and cursed artifacts that he rolls his eyes at but enjoys none the less.

it isn't till he's 15 that his Robin work and his mom's adventures cross paths.

After so many years of close calls, of hiding bruises from his mom with same concealer she uses to hide her own wounds, of wondering if it was selfish to wish his Mom cared a little bit less about the world and would stay with him for more then a few weeks at a time. Finally it all comes to a head in the worst way. Lara Croft's latest adventure puts her right in the middle of a Bat Level investigation. It has Tim near loosing his mind with worry hoping his mom is alive and Lara having the worst freakout/Blow up of her life realizing her son has been putting himself in Danger every night she thought he was safe.

The Drake/Crofts are messy! Bad at communicating! And unfortunately the exact same kind of reckless and self sacrificing!

Fun food for thought:

Lara canonically is a killer, if you've played any of the reboot Tomb Raider series she can be pretty gruesome and efficient! Very cool! Jason would stan! Tim is kind of appalled! Lara is glad Tim's never killed, that he's never had to.

Lara still dies in this AU but it's in a big Trinity X Obeah Man X Captain Boomerang Cluster fuck where Lara finishes off Trinity and Obeah Man for good but looses her own life in the process. Tim is devastated, he feels like they were just starting to really be 100% transparent with each other before her death. Que Tim's not good very bad year!

if you've made it this far in my rambles here's a treat! I actually wrote a lil fuckin blurb for this!

preface: This the first time Robin and Lara Croft have ever met/are on the same mission.

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" mom!" Tim shouts, running before Bruce can even properly land the BatJet.

The old temple is ablaze, the ancient structure already half crumbled in on itself with what's left of it is spewing out clouds of jet black smoke.

Tim's mother limps out what was once the front entrance clutching at her ribs.

She's filthy, covered in a thick layer of dirt and grime. but she's got on a triumphant smile like the cat who got the cream.

" Mom!" Tim yells again watching as she does a double take at his choice of moniker.

Her mouth twists in a grimace as she stumbles and Tim dives under her arm quickly moving to support her left side.

Lara Croft meets the white lenses of Red Robin's eyes in confusion

" What'd you call me?" She slurs trying to blink away the smoke inhalation that makes it hard to focus and leaves her lightheaded.

Lara's right ankle which took the brunt of a very nasty dive from a very high perch, not 20 minutes earlier as she raced out of the Dead Kings Tomb, finally gives up the ghost and she pitches forward taking Red Robin with her.

He's young, she thinks, he's very young.

Before either of them can hit the ground Batman intercepts their fall hefting Lara into a secure hold.

Red Robin catches himself and latches onto Lara's hand.

He yanks off one of his gloves and tries to wipe some of the grime out of her eyes.

" Mum" he croaks this time, voice breaking nearly in half on the last syllable.

Lara furrows her brow, the cowl covers so much of this young man's face, from his nose too his brow bone, but his chin is startlingly familiar as is his absolutely atrocious British accent.

He reminds her terribly of Timothy.

" Tim" she says deliriously, Lara tries to smile but her eyes start to droop and her head lolls slack against Bruce's arm. She's clean out.

Tim makes an odd lunge and jerk movement pressing his fingers into her carotid artery to feel her pulse.

He's shaking, more wrong footed and anxious then Bruce has ever seen him.

Batman is extremely grateful when Nightwing comes up behind him and gently pulls his younger brother's hands away from his mother's comatose body.

" She's fine Red. We need to get her on board so we can get her some oxygen though, the smoke inhalation is getting to her. "

" Right" Tim says, still frozen in place. He shakes it off quickly " Right." he repeats pivoting in place and leading their small party through the remains of the ruins and back to the jet.

" I'll prep the med bay."

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pics or it didn't happen! (ps, if u wanna write, draw, or HC anything for this AU feel free my lads)

[desertmountainapothecary]

Tidepools of La Jolla, California – Nursery of The Pacific Ocean Marine Life - Torrey Pines, California – San Diego Pacific Ocean Beach Adventure

To the north and east of the beach Los Peñasquitos Marsh Natural Preserve is one of the last remaining salt marsh areas and waterfowl refuges in southern California. The marsh, coves, and tidepools are rich in sea life: limpets, shore crabs and hermit crabs, mussels, barnacles, sea anemones, and many species of snails and cast-off shells.

This is the perfect place to watch the annual gray whale migration. All year round, you can see Seals, dolphins, porpoises, and sea lions in the ocean. About two hundred species of birds are protected at the reserve, including migratory ones.

Year round Resident shore birds include brown and American white pelicans, black-bellied and snowy plovers, American avocets, western sandpipers, willets, whimbrels, sanderlings, great egrets, and longbilled curlews. Occasionally, visitors may see gray foxes, bobcats, coyotes, and mule deer. Reptile residents include rattlesnakes and various other snakes and species of lizards, including the endangered horned lizard.

The Torrey Pines 2,000-acre reserve contains about 300 endangered and protected species of native plants. These vanishing habitats are home to sand verbena and beach primrose on the beach, as well as California sagebrush, California buckwheat, black sage, and coastal barrel cactus. On the cliffs other high elevations there are many chaparral plants, including chamise, manzanita, ceanothus, California scrub oak, toyon, and mountain mahogany. Many of these scrub plants in particular provide the refreshing herbal fragrance that mixes so incredibly with the ocean breeze.

Before this area was colonized by Spain, the Kumeyaay tribes migrated lived here, and migrated between here, the deserts, and the mountains throughout the seasons. The land was bountiful, and the Kumeyaay would have fished, hunted, collected crustaceans, and gathered seeds, fruit, roots, to create probably a very healthy and tasty diet. The Kumeyaay have left an indelible archaeological and cultural legacy here in San Diego county and they continue to be a strong tribal nation today both here and south of the border in Baja Norte state.

The water is usually so clean and clear here, and because of the lack of shoreline development, and the underwater marine reserve, this constantly ranks as one of the 3 cleanest beaches in SoCal. This is a wonderful rare instance of extremely valuable real estate, both being a wildlife refuge and habitat, and a beautiful escape from civilization for people to enjoy for the most part in harmony.

It’s been an incredible day on the coast here in Torrey Pines and La Jolla, and I’m so glad that we were able to explore my favorite beach together. You can enjoy my series: Torrey Pines – La Jolla, California – San Diego Pacific Ocean Beach Adventure, full length, 3 glorious days on the North County coast, and experience all of the different moods and landscapes from the ever-changing interplay between the coastal inversion and sunlight.

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[nancypullen]

Heading to California

The mister and I are driving to California tomorrow. It's not nearly as exciting as you might think, it's just a town in southern Maryland.

We're going on a fact-finding mission. We might want to live there. It's early days yet, NOTHING is happening, but we'd like to have a look around. It would offer a lot more than what we have here in Denton (restaurants, shopping, medical care, etc) and we'd still be about an hour from the Edgewater gang. Bonus, we wouldn't have to worry about Chesapeake Bay Bridge traffic all summer. Not gonna' lie, when I google the town and see that they have everything from Belk to JoAnn's to Sally Beauty, it sounds like every convenience I left behind in Mt. Juliet. Man, do I miss that ease of living. There's a Lowe's, a Home Goods, a movie theater, a couple of malls, five grocery stores, a Target, and so on. The reason that this small town offers so much is that it's rubbing shoulders with Patuxent River Naval Air Station. Unfortunately, the closest airport is Reagan National in D.C., about 65 miles away. I think BWI (Baltimore) is 75. Not ideal, but not any worse than what we're dealing with now. I've been looking at real estate online, and at the moment it's in our price range. Before I build this up in my mind as the answer to everything that is wrong here in Caroline County, we're going to have a look around. I know the grass always seems greener elsewhere, but folks, we hardly have grass here. Literally and figuratively. If nothing else tomorrow I get to stop at a Home Goods (Halloween stuff!) and a Sally beauty (hair stuff!). I miss civilization so much. Our plan is to ditch Denton first thing in the morning and head over the bridge and turn south.

We'll explore, have a little lunch (so many restaurants to choose from!), and then head back home. Feels like the Amish on Rumspringa. I'll report our findings here on the ol' blog and let you know if it was much ado about nothing or has some potential. Our choices in Maryland seem to be dense urban or the sticks. This might be a happy medium. Scratch that, I do like Easton (here on the Eastern Shore) and really like their Talbot County property taxes. There's plenty to consider, and we're willing to explore the possibilities. We've been in Maryland just over two years, and I really think there's a better life for us outside of Denton. It's sure worth a look. On that note, I'll wrap this up. I hope that you keep your hearts and minds open to change. Don't be afraid to admit that you need to make changes. This may or may not be something we'll pursue, and if we do, it won't be right away. We're just in the talking stages. We do know that we need more than this. We also know that although we worked hard to make this house very pretty, it's not a house we can live in at 80 or 85. Ideally we'll need a one story house, or at least a home with the primary suite on the first floor. We're not at that point yet, but we also don't want to have to make that move when we're really old. Is it silly to think of that at 60? I don't think so. Better than 80. Those are the thoughts rattling around in my head, so I just dumped them all out for you. Pick through the mess and keep what you like. Sending out oodles of love tonight, I hope you feel it. If you need to make any changes, I'll be your cheerleader. Do it! Follow your dreams! Get what you need! Be brave!

There's always one.

I'll let you know how our adventure unfolds. Until then, stay safe, stay well. XOXO, Nancy

[burlingtonvttransportation]

   Important Tips for Moving to Burlington, VT

Burlington, Vermont, a picturesque city nestled on the shores of Lake Champlain, is a vibrant and charming place to call home. Known for its stunning natural beauty, vibrant arts scene, and friendly community, Burlington offers a unique blend of urban and rural living. If you're planning to move to Burlington, here are some important tips to make your transition smooth and enjoyable. Additionally, we'll explore transportation options, including the Burlington to Stowe shuttle and car service in Burlington, VT, to help you navigate your new home.

1. Understanding Burlington’s Climate

Burlington experiences a humid continental climate with four distinct seasons. Winters can be long and harsh, with average temperatures in January hovering around 20°F (-6°C). Snowfall is common, so be prepared for snow removal and winter driving conditions. Summers are warm and pleasant, with average temperatures in July around 70°F (21°C). The fall foliage is spectacular, making it a popular time for outdoor activities.

Tip: Invest in high-quality winter clothing and gear. A good pair of snow boots, a heavy-duty coat, gloves, and hats are essential. Also, ensure your vehicle is equipped for winter driving with snow tires and an emergency kit.

2. Finding Housing in Burlington

Burlington offers a variety of housing options, from historic homes in the Hill Section to modern apartments downtown. The South End is known for its artsy vibe and proximity to Lake Champlain, while the Old North End offers more affordable options with a diverse community.

Tip: Start your housing search early, as the rental market can be competitive, especially in the summer months when students return to the University of Vermont. Websites like Zillow, Craigslist, and local real estate agents can be helpful resources.

3. Navigating Transportation

While Burlington is a walkable city, having access to a car can make life more convenient, especially if you plan to explore the surrounding areas. Public transportation is available through Green Mountain Transit, which offers bus services around the city and to neighboring towns.

Tip: Consider using a car service in Burlington, VT, for reliable transportation. Local car services provide comfortable and efficient travel, whether you're heading to the airport, a business meeting, or a night out.

4. Utilizing the Burlington to Stowe Shuttle

Stowe, a popular destination for skiing and outdoor activities, is just a short drive from Burlington. The Burlington to Stowe shuttle is a convenient option for those without a car or who prefer not to drive in winter conditions.

Tip: Check the shuttle schedule in advance, especially during peak seasons, to ensure availability. The shuttle provides a hassle-free way to enjoy a day trip or weekend getaway to Stowe’s renowned ski slopes and hiking trails.

5. Embracing the Local Culture

Burlington has a thriving arts and music scene, with numerous galleries, theaters, and live music venues. The South End Arts District is a hub for creativity, featuring local artists and makers. The Flynn Center for the Performing Arts hosts a variety of performances, from Broadway shows to concerts and dance performances.

Tip: Get involved in the local community by attending events, joining clubs, or volunteering. The Burlington Farmers Market, held year-round, is a great place to meet locals, enjoy fresh produce, and discover handmade goods.

6. Exploring Outdoor Activities

Burlington’s location on Lake Champlain offers endless opportunities for outdoor recreation. Boating, fishing, kayaking, and paddleboarding are popular activities in the summer. The Burlington Bike Path, which runs along the waterfront, is perfect for cycling, jogging, or leisurely walks.

Tip: Take advantage of the numerous parks and natural areas around Burlington. Oakledge Park, North Beach, and Red Rocks Park are just a few places where you can enjoy the outdoors and stunning views of the lake.

7. Understanding the Cost of Living

Burlington's cost of living is higher than the national average, particularly in terms of housing and utilities. However, the quality of life, safety, and access to amenities often justify the higher costs.

Tip: Budget accordingly and explore cost-saving measures, such as carpooling, using public transportation, or shopping at local markets and thrift stores. Consider energy-efficient appliances and practices to reduce utility bills.

8. Getting Involved in the Community

Burlington is known for its strong sense of community and civic engagement. Numerous organizations and initiatives focus on sustainability, social justice, and community development.

Tip: Attend city council meetings, participate in local events, and join community organizations to stay informed and get involved. The sense of belonging and contribution will make your transition smoother and more rewarding.

9. Accessing Healthcare and Education

Burlington is home to the University of Vermont Medical Center, providing high-quality healthcare services. The city also has excellent educational institutions, including the University of Vermont and Champlain College.

Tip: Establish a relationship with a local healthcare provider and explore educational opportunities, whether for yourself or your children. The city offers a variety of programs and services to support lifelong learning.

10. Enjoying Local Cuisine

Burlington’s food scene is diverse and vibrant, with numerous restaurants, cafes, and breweries offering a wide range of cuisines. From farm-to-table dining to international flavors, there’s something for everyone.

Tip: Explore the local food scene by visiting popular spots like Church Street Marketplace, where you can find a variety of dining options. Don’t miss out on trying Vermont’s famous maple syrup and cheese.

11. Staying Informed and Connected

Staying informed about local news and events is crucial for new residents. Burlington has several local news outlets, including the Burlington Free Press and Seven Days, that provide comprehensive coverage of local happenings.

Tip: Subscribe to local newspapers, join community social media groups, and sign up for newsletters to stay connected and informed. Engaging with local media will help you integrate into the community and stay updated on important issues and events.

12. Preparing for Emergencies

Burlington is a safe city, but it’s important to be prepared for emergencies. Familiarize yourself with local emergency services, including fire, police, and medical facilities. The city also has resources for natural disasters, such as flooding or severe weather.

Tip: Create an emergency plan for your household, including contact information, meeting points, and essential supplies. Stay informed about local emergency alerts and weather updates.

Conclusion

Moving to Burlington, VT, is an exciting adventure filled with opportunities to explore new landscapes, cultures, and communities. By understanding the local climate, housing market, transportation options, and community resources, you can make a smooth transition and fully enjoy all that Burlington has to offer. Whether you're using the Burlington to Stowe shuttle for a weekend getaway or a car service in Burlington, VT, for your daily commute, you'll find that this vibrant city has something for everyone. Embrace the local culture, get involved in the community, and take advantage of the natural beauty that surrounds you. Welcome to Burlington!

[otter1962crystalball]

Experiencing Narcissism 101 - Part 3

June 24th, 2024

Here we are nearing the end of Pride Month. I’ve challenged myself to write everyday and I’ve found it very useful in examining my past and realizing that I am actually very resilient. Yesterday I wrote about events leading up to the point of coming back from a trip with John. Today, the story continues.

I put my plan into action and began taking steroids above and beyond what I needed for Testosterone Replacement Therapy. I was taking injections because my testosterone was low due to my HIV medications. I supplemented with street testosterone as did John. In the course of my doing so, I put on more than 25 pounds and ended up at 250 pounds at my maximum. I continued abusing them up until 2013 when I moved to Nova Scotia with John.

John convinced me that I should be reducing the amount of time that I worked. At that time, I was a full-time teacher, a group fitness leader at a community centre and also a mentor for a master’s program at a university. The only real solution he suggested was to move from British Columbia to Nova Scotia. The reason was due to other cities didn’t seem inviting for either of us. I did suggest Montreal, but John didn’t speak French and thought it wasn’t a good idea. That summer, we jumped on a plane and took a quick trip to Nova Scotia. We explored a place called Annapolis Valley, which is fertile area of the province. We even looked at homes, but didn’t find anything that we liked. We returned home and made our decision.

We decided we would move to Windsor, Nova Scotia in October 2013. We also got married as it seemed the right thing to do. I resigned from the school board and put the house up for sale. It sold while we were enroute. We climbed into my truck with two dogs and a cat, travelling across Canada to Nova Scotia. During the trip, we argued a lot. The shouting continued and I decided that it was just part of my new life and bit my tongue. John did berate me for being quiet, which in my mind was better than screaming back at him. We found an apartment - literally on the fly - as we went across Canada. The hardest part was finding a rental unit that accepted dogs.

We lucked out and stayed in a place in Windsor until early 2015 when we found a house on the South Shore - which later became known as Otter Cottage. During the time in Nova Scotia, John had problems finding a job. I was accepted as a substitute and started working. He didn’t and that left him open to do other things. In fact, I caught him cheating on me several times. So, we negotiated an open relationship where we would explore together to fulfill everyone’s needs.

During our time there in Windsor, I got a phone call from my doctor. She told me to go to the hospital immediately because my bloodwork indicated that I had had a heart attack. We went to emergency immediately and I discovered that I had an enlarged heart due to the large amount of steroids. I spent four days in the hospital while they did tests. John visited everyday, but complained constantly about having to drive into the city. With supervision, I weaned myself off the steroids and reduced my testosterone to the appropriate level and quit the street steroids. It was clear that I had almost killed myself. I began kicking myself for having been so stupid to abuse steroids that much to satisfy the wishes of another person.

Once into Otter Cottage, I got a job in the Halifax and ended up with a permanent position teaching French Immersion. John then decided to become a real estate agent. So, I paid for his education. During the time of moving to the South Shore, our relationship was really strained. John was constantly getting angry at just about everyone - of course, including me. He constantly seemed frustrated and I did everything I could including buying antiques for him and giving him a room to decorate. That didn’t help and we argued constantly. Several times, I told him that I had had enough. Suddenly, John would turn back to a charmer and everything was great - for a few short weeks or month.

John finished his real estate school and managed to sell at least three properties, using a car that I had bought for him. At the same time, I discovered that he was still cheating on me. In late 2016, John mentioned that his former employer in Montreal had suggested offering him a job. I had had enough of all the nonsense. When I heard that, I told John that I wanted him to take the job and be out of the house by next week. So, he packed the car with everything he could and then moved everything he thought belonged to him into the antique room he had decorated. He went to Montreal and suddenly I felt a real relief - until the divorce proceedings started.

In the six years we were together, John paid rent three months in the time we were in my house in Vancouver. He bought groceries maybe twice. In Nova Scotia, he paid for nothing. I didn’t see any of the profits from the sales of the properties he had sold. I got a lawyer and proceeded with the divorce. We had to live apart for at least a year before we could legally divorce. That year was a year from hell for me.

John, now in Montreal, would contact me and screamed at me for not moving the stuff he wanted to Montreal. I told him that the lawyer told me to do that until we had settled the divorce.  His request was half of everything. I provided all my receipts for everything, showing that John had paid little. He never paid for heating, mortgage payments, gym fees, and much more. During that time, John began a classic narcissistic pattern - he tried to show me how he was a victim. He sent me pictures of him in the hospital. He sent me pictures of his empty fridge. He called me constantly asking for money. I had to continue to say no. He turned several local friends against me saying I was withholding his belongings. I told those local friends that they didn’t know what was really going on. Needless to say, I didn’t continue those friendships.

The calls continued along with emails, texts until I had to block him. He even called my school during a lesson and interrupted. He called me at the gym as well, asking an attendant to find me. I put a stop to all of that. At the end of the year apart, I made him an offer and let him know that he would get nothing more. He begrudgingly accepted it and immediately demanded his things sent. I had packed them into a pod as I was sick of seeing the pile of things in the living room. In typical fashion, he demanded that I allow one of his friends to sit and watch the pod be repacked so that his belongings would be safe. Ironically, the movers told me that I had done an amazing job and that repacking wasn’t necessary! At this point, I didn’t care; he had to pay for the moving costs.

Even after the papers were signed and we were officially divorced he continued to harass me with phone calls and texts on anonymous lines. I was so tired of it that I went to the local RCMP and lodged a complaint and asked the calls, texts and emails stop. The Sûreté du Québec (the provincial police in Quebec) paid him a visit and told him that if he contacted me again, he would be arrested. That was the last time I ever heard from him. In that year and a half, he contacted me more than 668 times by various methods.

In 2018 I was officially free of John. Otter Cottage was in my name, the car payments for John’s car were now his responsibility and I began my new life as a divorced gay man. As a side note, that fall as I was cleaning the gardens, I found a pile of broken mugs, coasters and John’s medication all thrown into the bushes. It seemed that whenever he was angry, he would throw things off the verandah - just like when he used to go out and scream at the top of his lungs at the people he hated.

So what was it like to live with a narcissist? Looking at the 9 points of Special Me, I saw countless examples of all 9 points and more from him. He always though he was the most important person at all times. He felt entitled to everything without having to work for it. He was exploitative, arrogant, lacked empathy and always showed off so that others could admire him. He also was easily able to play the victim and everything that he did was turned back on my so that it was all my fault. Anyone who didn’t agree with him immediately became the enemy - me included.

I saw a counsellor and learned to deal with the aftermath of living six years with John. The counsellor suggested I buy a book called “Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder.” All what was discussed in the book, I found in John. The only thing the book didn’t help me with was getting along with him and thankfully I never wanted to do so. In the end, I believe he was also obsessive compulsive as well.

During my counselling time, I came to acknowledge my part in those six years. I had been codependent and allowed him to do all of those things. I also discovered that I had to learn to love myself, always take care of myself first before helping others and learning how a narcissist latches onto a caregiver such as myself. I forgave myself for almost killing myself on steroids to please John. I watched my health and have not abused them since.

At that point, I was really sure that I knew what the signs were and vowed to never get involved with a narcissist. Did I succeed? I’ll leave that to tomorrow’s blog… For Pride, I am celebrating my inner self and my self love. Now that I have worked on myself, someone like John would never be able to pry their way into my life. 

Carpe diem, everyone.

[brookstonalmanac]

Holidays 5.17

Holidays

Bugloss Day (French Republic)

Children’s Day (Norway)

Constitution Day (Nauru)

Dia das Letras Galegas (Spain)

DIPG Awareness Day

Discovery Day (Cayman Islands)

Dogbert Day (Dilbert)

Dressed to the Nines Day

Falling Off a Log Night

Famine Memorial Day (Ireland)

Firefighters’ Day (Latvia)

Galacian Literature Day (Spain)

International Art of Giving Day

International Child Helpline Day

International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia

International Internet Day

International Twm Sion Cati Day (UK)

King Arthur Day

Liberation Day (Democratic Republic of the Congo)

Merry-Go-Round Day [also 7.25]

Minecraft Day

National Book Day (Indonesia)

National Curves Day (Illinois)

National Cyber Safety Awareness Day

National Day Against Homophobia (Canada)

National Donkey Welfare Day (Kenya)

National Emo Day for Women

National Famine Memorial Day (Ireland)

National Graduation Day

National Graduation Tassel Day

National Idaho Day

National Linda Day

National Numeracy Day (UK)

National Pinkfix Day

National Real Estate Day

National VA2K Walk & Roll Day

National Work From Home Day (UK)

Navy Day (Argentina)

Pack Rat Day

Peasant Day (a.k.a. Agrarian Reform; Cuba)

Pink Shirt Day (New Zealand)

Railroad Day

Raja Day (Perlis, Malaysia)

Royal Ploughing Ceremony (Thailand)

Rubber Band Day

Slottsplassen (Norway)

Spinal Cord Injury Awareness Day (UK)

Supermodel Day

Tell An Umpire "I Love Your Outfit" Day

Uff Da Day (North Dakota)

Walk Safely to School Day (Australia)

Watch A Baby Fall Asleep Day

Wear Your Life Jacket to Work Day

World Horticulture Day

World Hypertension Day

World Information Society Day (UN)

World Necrotizing Enterocolitis Awareness Day

World Neurofibromatosis Awareness Day

World Orienteering Day

World Recycling Day

World Stationary Day

World Telecommunication Day (UN)

Food & Drink Celebrations

National Cherry Cobbler Day

National Mushroom Hunting Day

National Walnut Day

Pinot Grigio Day

Independence & Related Days

Constitution Day (Nauru)

Constitution Day (a.k.a. Seventeenth of May or Syttende Mai; Norway; 1814)

Kappan Empire (a.k.a. Holy Empire of the Kappa; Declared; 2022) [unrecognized]

Syttende Mai (Constitution Day; Norway; from Denmark, 1814)

3rd Friday in May

Arbour Day (Prince Edward Island, Canada) [3rd Friday]

Asakusa Sanja Matsuri begins (Geisha parade) [3rd Friday]

Ascension Friday (Belgium) [Friday closest to Ascension]

Bike-to-Work Day (US) [3rd Friday]

Endangered Species Day [3rd Friday]

Flashback Friday [Every Friday]

Fountain Pen Friday [3rd Friday]

Fry Day (Pastafarian; Fritism) [Every Friday]

International Virtual Assistants’ Day [3rd Friday]

NASCAR Day [3rd Friday]

National Bike to Work Day [3rd Friday]

National Defense Transportation Day [3rd Friday]

National Pizza Party Day [3rd Friday]

National Wear Blue Day [3rd Friday]

Native Nonprofit Day [3rd Friday]

O. Henry Pun Off Day [3rd Friday]

Teacher’s Day (Florida) [3rd Friday]

Wear Red for VEDS Day [3rd Friday]

World Meditation Day (UK) [3rd Friday]

Weekly Holidays beginning May 17 (2nd Full Week)

Mike, the Headless Chicken Weekend [3rd Friday & Saturday]

Festivals Beginning May 17, 2024

Aalborg Carnival (Aalborg, Denmark) [thru 5.25]

Anderson Valley Pinot Festival (Anderson Valley, California) [thru 5.19]

Arizona Restaurant Week: Spring (Statewide, Arizona) [thru 5.26]

Bath Festival (Bath, England) [thru 5.20]

Bayou Bon Vivant Cajun Music, Food & Art Celebration (Norfolk, Virginia) [thru 5.19]

Beaufort Music Festival (Beaufort, South Carolina) [thru 5.18]

Chocolate Fest (Long Grove, Illinois) [thru 5.19]

Crawfish Festival (Fountain Valley, California) [thru 5.19]

Fort Worth Zoo Annual Beastro (Fort Worth, Texas)

Georgia Mountain Fire & Smoke Cooking Festival (Hiawassee, Georgia) [thru 5.18]

Hangout Music Festival (Gulf Shores, Alabama) [thru 5.19]

Hermann Maifest (Hermann, Missouri) [thru 5.19]

Karneval der Kulturen (Berlin, Germany( [thru 5.20]

Magnolia Blossom Festival & World Championship Steak Cook-Off (Magnolia, Arkansas) [thru 5.18]

Manchester Jazz Festival (Manchester, United Kingdom) [thru 5.26]

Moers Festival (Moers, Germany) [thru 5.20]

Morel Mushroom Festival (Muscoda, Wisconsin) [thru 5.18]

Motor City Comic Con (Novi, Michigan) [thru 5.19]

New Jersey Seafood Festival (Belmar, New Jersey) [thru 5.19]

North Carolina Potato Festival (Elizabeth City, North Carolina) [thru 5.19]

OC Greek Food Festival (Anaheim, California) [thru 5.19]

Oregon Homebrew Festival (Corvallis, Oregon) [thru 5.18]

Palm Beach Ribs, Wings & Rock Festival (Palm Beach, Florida) [thru 5.19]

Picklefest (Atkins, Arkansas) [thru 5.18]

Preston Trout Days (Preston, Minnesota) [thru 5.19]

Rhubarb Festival (Intercourse, Pennsylvania) [thru 5.18]

Stockton Flavor Fest (Stockton, California) [thru 5.19]

Taste of Maplewood Street Festival (Maplewood, Missouri) [thru 5.18]

Temecula Valley Balloon & Wine Festival (Temecula, California) [thru 5.19]

Wave-Gotik-Treffen (Leipzig, Germany) [thru 5.20]

The WhiskyX (Brooklyn, New York)

World Expo of Beer (Frankenmuth, Michigan) [thru 5.18]

Feast Days

A.J. Casson (Artology)

Antonius (Positivist; Saint)

Bruno of Wurzburg (Christian; Saint)

Cathan (Christian; Saint)

Dave Sim (Artology)

Dea Dia (Goddess of the Cosmos; Ancient Rome)

Eugene (Muppetism)

Falling Off a Log Night (Shamanism)

Feast of ‘Azamat (Baha'i)

Gio Nicola Buhagiar (Artology)

Giulia Salzano (Christian; Saint)

Karl Burman (Artology)

Laval Homeboy Day (Church of the SubGenius; Saint)

Let Your Star Shine Day (Starza Pagan Book of Days)

Maden of Brittany (Christian; Saint)

Madron (a.k.a. Madern (Christian; Saint)

Maxime Emile Louis Maufra (Artology)

Mifune Matsuri (Boat Festival; Japan)

Neo-Pagan Fertility Ritual (Philippines; Everyday Wicca)

Ogham (Celtic Book of Days)

Paschal Baylon (Christian; Saint)

Restituta (Christian; Saint)

Silave (Christian; Saint)

Single Malt Whisky Day (Pastafarian)

Sjofn’s Blot (Pagan)

William Hobart Hare (Episcopal Church (USA))

Lucky & Unlucky Days

Prime Number Day: 137 [33 of 72]

Sensho (先勝 Japan) [Good luck in the morning, bad luck in the afternoon.]

Tycho Brahe Unlucky Day (Scandinavia) [23 of 37]

Unfortunate Day (Pagan) [25 of 57]

Un Giorno Nero (A Black Day; Italy) [Friday the 17th] (1 of 1 for 2024)

Premieres

About a Boy (Film; 2002)

All Men Are Mortal, by Simone de Beauvoir (Novel; 1946)

At Dawn We Spley, by Gordon W. Prange (Historical Novel; 1982)

Babel-17, by Samuel R. Delany (Novel; 1966)

Bad Blood, by Taylor Swift (Album; 2015)

Blurryface, by Twenty One Pilots (Album; 2015)

Bon Voyage! (Film; 1962)

Catch-22 (TV Mini-Series; 2019)

Cinderella Goes to a Party (Color Rhapsody Cartoon; 1942)

Comic Cuts, by Alfred Harmsworth (UK Comic; 1890) [1st regular comic published]

Don’t Look Back (Documentary Film; 1967)

Five Puppets (Terrytoons Cartoon; 1935)

Gentle On My Mind, recorded by Glen Campbell (Song; 1967)

Godspell (Off-Broadway Musical; 1971)

Grin and Share It, featuring Droopy (MGM Cartoon; 1957)

Groove Me, recorded by King Floyd (Song; 1970)

The Guns of Avalon, by Roger Zelazny (Novel; 1972) [chronicles of Amber #2]

History of Modern Art, by H. Harvard Arnason (Art History; 1968)

Hobo Bobo (WB MM Cartoon; 1947)

If (Animated Film; 2024)

The Importance of Being Earnest (Film; 2002)

In a Lonely Place (Film; 1950)

Information Please (Radio Quiz Show; 1938)

The Inimitable Jeeves, by P.G. Wodehouse (Novel; 1923)

John Wick: Chapter 3 — Parabellum (Film; 2019)

King Porter Stomp, recorded by Teddy Hill, featuring Dizzy Gillespie (Song; 1937)

La Planète des Singes (The Planet of the Apes), by Pierre Boulle (Novel; 1963)

Le Quiet Squad (The Inspector Cartoon; 1967)

The Love Boat (TV Series; 1976)

Mesmerize, by System of a Down (Album; 2005)

Mr. Big Stuff, recorded by Jean Knight (Song; 1970)

My Mortal Enemy, by Willa Cather (Novel; 1926)

The Omnivore’s Dilemma, by Michael Pollan (Book; 2006)

Pink of the Litter (Pink Panther Cartoon; 1967)

Puss in Boots (Ub Iwerks Cartoon; 1934)

Random Access Memories, by Daft Punk (Album; 2013)

A River Runs Through It, by Norman Maclean (Novella’ 1976)

The Rookie Bear (MGM Cartoon; 1941)

See You Yesterday (Film; 2019)

Shéhérazade, by Maurice Ravel (Song Cycle; 1904)

Shutter Bug (Woody Woodpecker Cartoon; 1963)

Stay (I Missed You), by Lisa Loeb (Song; 1994)

The Sultan’s Cat, featuring Farmer Al Falfa (Terrytoons Cartoon; 1931)

Swiss Ski Yodelers (Terrytoons Cartoon; 1940)

Thank God It’s Friday (Film; 1978)

The Tree of Life (Film; 2011)

Tommy, by The Who (Album; 1969)

Uthal, by Étienne-Nicolas Méhul (Opera; 1806)

Wacky-Bye Baby (Woody Woodpecker Cartoon; 1948)

What About Bob? (Film; 1991)

The Wonderful Wizard of Oz, by L. Frank Baum (Novel; 1900)

Today’s Name Days

Dietmar, Pascal, Walter (Austria)

Gizela, Heraklije, Paškal, Paško (Croatia)

Aneta (Czech Republic)

Bruno (Denmark)

Taido, Taidur, Taimar, Taimo, Taivo (Estonia)

Maila, Maili, Mailis, Maisa, Rebekka (Finland)

Pascal (France)

Antonella, Dietmar, Pascal (Germany)

Andronikos, Iounia, Junia, Solon (Greece)

Paszkál (Hungary)

Pasquale, Restituta (Italy)

Dailis, Herberts (Latvia)

Bazilė, Gailė, Paskalis, Virkantas (Lithuania)

Harald, Ragnhild (Norway)

Bruno, Herakliusz, Paschalis, Sławomir, Torpet, Weronika, Wiktor, Wiktoriusz (Poland)

Andronic (România)

Gizela (Slovakia)

Pascual (Spain)

Rebecka, Ruben (Sweden)

Pascal, Pascha, Pascual, Turner (USA)

Today is Also…

Day of Year: Day 138 of 2024; 228 days remaining in the year

ISO: Day 5 of week 20 of 2024

Celtic Tree Calendar: Huath (Hawthorn) [Day 6 of 28]

Chinese: Month 4 (Ji-Si), Day 10 (Xin-Si)

Chinese Year of the: Dragon 4722 (until January 29, 2025) [Wu-Chen]

Hebrew: 9 Iyar 5784

Islamic: 9 Dhu al-Qada 1445

J Cal: 18 Magenta; Foursday [18 of 30]

Julian: 4 May 2024

Moon: 72%: Waxing Gibbous

Positivist: 25 Caesar (5th Month) [Antonius]

Runic Half Month: Ing (Expansive Energy) [Day 8 of 15]

Season: Spring (Day 60 of 92)

Week: 2nd Full Week of May

Zodiac: Taurus (Day 28 of 31)

[whatthehelloh]

An actor known for a character who hunts ghosts on the show "Supernatural" has a new house in the state of Connecticut — also famous in pop culture for alleged “haunted” happenings.

Jensen Ackles, his wife Danneel Ackles and their Stone Park Trust Agreement purchased the historic Gold Coast mansion at 1143 Sasco Hill Road in Southport in July for $9.375 million, according to mortgage and warranty deeds that are publicly available for viewing by the town of Fairfield. The property had previously been on the market for $14 million.

Jensen Ackles portrayed Dean Winchester on all 15 seasons of the drama series "Supernatural" and its 2022 spinoff, "The Winchesters." Dean Winchester alongside his brother Sam Winchester hunt a variety of malevolent entities on the show. Some of the villains have been inspired by Connecticut legends, such as season one's Woman in White, a ghost who appears in the center of roads to lure in victims. The fictional brothers also traveled to the Nutmeg State to face ghosts during season two and a shapeshifter in season 10.

Aside from his over 15-year-long role as Dean Winchester, Jensen Ackles recently appeared in "The Boys," a show about villainous super heroes. He portrays Soldier Boy, a World War II veteran and father of Homelander, the show's main antagonist.

The Ackles’ new property was once the centerpiece of one of the most expensive estates along Connecticut’s Gold Coast. Real estate company William Raveis told Hearst Connecticut Media in February that the estate was split into seven lots. The complete property last sold for nearly $50 million in 2001 and was listed at $62 million in 2013. This most recent sale was for the main house.

The Elizabethan Renaissance-style mansion sits on 3 acres of land and has more than 30 rooms across four stories and more than 19,000 square feet. It has nine bedrooms and 15 bathrooms. An elevator transports residents between levels from the basement — with a safe room, large recreation area, storage rooms and halls — to the third floor and its numerous bedrooms, gym, game room, study and more. The grand entrance on the first floor leads to a library, movie theater, wine-tasting room, grand ballroom and more.

New York architect Henry C. Pelton built the estate for Benjamin DeWitt Riegel and Leila Edmonston Riegel in 1923. DeWitt Reigel was a mill owner and businessman who split his time between Manhattan and Ware Shoals, South Carolina, according to preservationists at Historic New England.

The home stayed in the Riegel family for decades. In 1997, Katherine Riegel Emory, daughter of the original owners, deeded a conservation restriction to the Aspetuck Land Trust protecting nearly 2,000 feet of waterfront from development to serve "as one of the last remaining examples of the gracious and expansive open spaces on Long Island Sound that were traditionally a part of the large estates that formerly flourished in the area," according to the deed.

"The views of this open space have given pleasure, not only to generations of owners and their families, but also to generations of the public, who enjoy the sight of the scenic, undeveloped shoreline from two nearby public beaches, from the public road past Southport Beach, and from the waters of Long Island Sound,” Emory wrote in the deed. “In an area as rapidly and as intensively developing as the Connecticut shore, this remaining, highly-scenic open space is a unique treasure which provides pleasure and spiritual renewal to many, as well as sanctuary to birds and animals."

[genesisreach]

My personal ranking of homes in Skyrim:

Lakeview Manor: Easily #1. Fairly secluded with a wonderful view of Lake Ilinalta. In the woods, so you can go hunting right out your front door. However, troubles include a neighboring conjurer (possible necromancer?), occasional bandits, and occasional giant.

Breezehome: #2. Would place at #1 if not for LM's seclusion. The OG starter home. Whiterun as a whole is beautiful. Farms and wild game all around so you don't have to worry too much about food. Very competent and wise government with Balgruuf as Jarl. Just don't get involved in the Grey-Mane/Battle-Born dispute. Trust me. Also, house is made of wood and in a dry environment. Be wary of stray flames.

Heljarchen Hall: #3. Basically on Whiterun/Pale border. Again, be wary of flames. Wide, open land so you can hunt fairly well. Or start a farm (Heljarchen Farm mod is right beside Heljarchen Hall).

Proudspire Manor: #4. Beautiful architecture. In Solitude, so you are arguably in the safest city. Real-estate price is egregiously high, though. Politics are fairly mild aside from the war, and Falk is a pretty competent steward. Just avoid Erikur at all costs. 100% recommend attending the Burning of King Olaf festival.

Windstad Manor: #5. Hjaalmarch is mostly swamp to the North and snowy mountains to the South. Windstad Manor is on the Northern end of the swamps on the coast, so be ready for exceptionally cold winters. Beautiful view of Solitude and the Sea of Ghosts, though. (Additionally, neighboring the Windstad Mine mod area.) Be wary because it has the High Gate Ruins on one side and Ustengrav on the other. The swamp is also filled with frostbite spiders and the occasional chaurus.

Severin Manor: #6. Large, spacious interior with wonderful Dunmer architecture. All utilities you could need. House Redoran is a fairly competent local government. However, almost no work since the mine closed. Ash is everywhere from Red Mountain, so be sure to have something to cover your mouth and nose. Also, try not to wake up working on some strange shrines against your will.

Hjerim: #7. Beautiful architecture. Windhelm as a whole has wonderful architecture and rich history. However, it is very cold and the other residents are very unpleasant. If you're looking for an empathetic population, do not come to Windhelm. Additionally, beware of a killer on the loose.

Honeyside: #8. Only below Hjerim due to the presence of the Thieves Guild and the Black-Briars in Riften. Otherwise, very nice home. Back door leads right out the the shore of Lake Honrich, so prime fishing spot. Most likely humid with occasional rotting wood, though.

Vlindrel Hall: #9. Dwemer architecture is fascinating. However, doesn't really have anything else going for it. Forsworn are all throughout the Reach, including inside Markarth (don't let the guards lie to you). The Silver-Bloods are arguably worse than the Black-Briars. More likely to get killed than in Windhelm, and more likely to end up in prison than Riften. Plus, Thalmor actively reside in Understone Keep. Avoid Markarth unless absolutely necessary.

Winterhold: No home in Winterhold. Residence at the College doesn't count. 0/10.

[meeeeeeese]

Introducing my mesmer character: Grace Alderspin

Nickname: Abyss Lady

Grace is third scion of a noble krytan family, her early year were very sheltered, growing up on her families estate and learning to read, write and practice magic from her mother. While talented at mesmer magic, her real love was writing. As her elder siblings were slated to take over the estate, she was free to practice her passion, becoming a bestelling author of several mystery novels including 'Murder on the road to Lion's Arch' and 'The monster of Viathan Lake'. However, her success left her dissatisfied with her lot in life and she began to wonder if there was more she could do. She recieved her answer when, on a research to to Kessex Hills she witnessed the destruction of Fort Salma by mordremoth. Horrifyed by the destructive potential of the dragons, she returned home to Divinity's Reach and joined up with the pact, leaving her final novel unfinished.

Training hard, she was eventually selected to be among those aboard the pact fleet as it took on mordremoth, and just like the rest the pact she was torn from the sky over Tangled Depths when mordremoth retaliated. In the chaos she was thrown from her ship and down a sink hole and into a deep watery cavern, just about managing to swim to shore before blacking out completely. She awoke alone, in a dark hostile environment where EVERYTHING wanted to kill her. She should have died, in every other world she would have died but somehow, she managed to survive and learn to live in the cavernous abyss se found herself in.

Her magic began to change too, before she relied on tricks and deceptions but she found them unsuitable for the beasts roaming the depths, she began to favour more direct mental assaults, firing phantasmal thorns to tear apart the minds of jungle beasts and mordrem alike, becoming something akin to a virtuoso.

She started being sighted by pact soldiers as they recovered and prepared to move south to take on Mordremoth, and rumors began to circulate about a woman rising from the caverous abyss to fight attacking mordrem before vanishing back into the depths just as quickly, earning her the nickname of 'Abyss Lady'. Grace stayed in the jungle for a year, honing her survival skills, not knowing that mordremoth had been slain and only finding out when she made contact with the Nuhoch who told her the good news and giving her supplies to make her way back home.

Returning to Divinities Reach she found that home no longer appealed to her. She wasn't the novelist who left home over a year ago and she could no longer sit still in the comfort of her house. So once again she left, deciding to seek out further challenges and hone her craft in the most dangerous environments on Tyria

TL:DR: Novelist turned Bear Grylls style survivalist wanders Tyria seeking out challenges

[iyla-devar]

Iyla lives in a classic, 1893 New England style home on World's End Isle. She could have paid full price for it, but instead she came to a deal with a client soon after she moved into town. It was her first job as a fury in White Crest and Iyla forgot to get a pool out of the deal.

The home boasts 11 bedrooms and 10 bathrooms and has a perfect view of the south shore of the Island. A certain real estate agent undervalued it at 7 million a few years ago.

Her favorite thing about the house is the winding, almost overgrown path down to the beach. If she ever catches her neighbor's yippy papillon doing his business on her stretch of beach, she will not hesitate to annihilate it.

[glittercyborgprincess]

Chapter 1: Ketterdam - It's in the Blood and This is Tradition

The story started with Joost.

It always did.

There was a moon. A moustache. A girl. A problem. Though, in Ketterdam, you were never too far from one of those.

Joost never signed up to be a part of a story, much less this one. He was simply in love with a pretty lady and had finally believed in something greater than himself. Something bigger than Ketterdam and the secrets laid into its cobblestones. He and Anya were supposed to have traveled south to Belednt–they were supposed to beat the odds and escape the stench of the city. Perhaps become farmers while they saved money to bring Anya back to Ravka.

The thing about fate, though, is that no matter what your pretty dreams were, it haunted you. It laid in wait until the moment you felt the teeniest bit comfortable that you had evaded it. Then it struck like lightening.

Anya’s powers were discovered, and she was trapped in a contract by Councilman Hoede. He promised he would take care of her. He said that he would ensure she didn’t end up in any of the less savory contracts down in the Barrel. Hoede even offered Joost a position with the Stadwatch so that he and Anya could remain together. He was an expert at making promises. Less so at keeping them.

Hoede’s charade had lasted only a few short weeks. Though, who could blame him? Jan Van Eck could be very persuasive when he wanted.

Joost died at Anya’s hand, his mind still trying to compose pretty rhymes for her as he waited for a command that would never come. Anya suffered far more than Joost, her rationality leaving her long before the sea could numb her limbs. She died not long after she escaped Hoede’s estate, her fingers still stained bright orange as she fell victim to withdrawal in the middle of the True Sea.

She wasn’t the first–or the last–Grisha indentured to the Merchant class to earn such a fate. However, she was the first body that had washed back up onto the shores of Kerch. Her death sparked a slew of conspiracies and gossip that the city thrived on.

But before long, new scandals broke and new gossip circled the city. Sightings of a siren off the docks of Third Harbor. A shootout between rival gangs in the Barrel. Rumors of Ravka’s impending spiral into bankruptcy.

Everybody forgot about poor Anya and her jurda-stained hands. Or everybody but Kaz Brekker forgot.

And that was where the real story began.

--

(Prologue's so short you get the whole thing!)

[pointreyesjournal]

Portofino : ep197

I feel kissing on my neck and ear lobe to gently wake me up.

Cheyenne: Baby, wake up. I think we died at sea. The boat must have sank last night.

I’m really groggy trying to wake up, but I’m not buying her story. Me: I don’t feel dead honey, come back to bed.

Cheyenne: Look out the porthole, we died and went to heaven.

Me: Shy, we’re living in sin. If we died in a shipwreck, we’d wake up in hell.

Cheyenne: There’s no way that there is any place on earth that is actually this beautiful. I’m pretty sure we’re in heaven.

Me: That’s just Portofino honey.

…

Tucked into a tiny spit of land about 10 kilometers south of Genoa along the northernmost coast of the Ligurian sea, Portofino is one of the most scenic ports in the known universe. The actual port covers land equivalent to a few football fields (or over here, football pitches) and nearly every square meter is occupied with a yacht. Three sides of the port feature high walls, like an amphitheater, and the northern wall has a picturesque waterfront with buildings in Mediterranean hues of yellow, burnt orange and gold.

Our sailing yacht is huge, so we’re anchored just outside of the harbor in about 30 feet of warm crystal blue water.

I throw on shorts and a t-shirt and tell Cheyenne to put on her bikini under her exercise gear as I dart out the door.

“I’ll be right back”

I return a minute later and get some running shoes on, gather up Cheyenne and head for the deck. By the time we emerge from our suite, Filet has pulled together a tiny breakfast picnic for us and put it into a shopping bag. I tuck breakfast into a rucksack, then we hop in the dinghy and the captain whisks us off to shore.

Cheyenne: What are we doing?

Me: We’re going to hike up to the lighthouse before everyone else wakes up.

Cheyenne: This is breathtaking. I honestly didn’t know that places this beautiful actually existed in real life. I thought it was just in screensavers and photoshop.

Me: Remember Henrik’s Ferrari? The one called the California? When they discontinued it, do you know what they replaced it with?

Cheyenne: No. What?

Me: A model called a Portofino.

Cheyenne: Gawd … can you imagine driving Henrik’s Ferrari around here?

Me: Somebody at Ferrari obviously did.

Cheyenne: Wow. Apropos!

…

The land on the little peninsula above Portofino is ultra-premium A+++ real estate, but somehow it hasn’t been overdeveloped with mega-mansions. There is a rustic trail that ascends to a ridgeline. Each cobbled stair step is two steps deep, but only about one half step up. So it creates an odd cadence. Step forward, step up, step forward, step up. So you’re always stepping up with the same foot. We pass terraced gardens of grapes and olives, and an ancient castle called Castello Brown before reaching the lighthouse.

The Faro di Portofino is a bright white lighthouse that sits proudly on the rocks at the end of the peninsula. From their terrace bar, there are nearly 360 degrees of sweeping ocean views. It’s beauty that defies description. There’s a cocktail bar that opens for tourists at 10am, but we’re here well before they open, so we commandeer a table and enjoy our breakfast picnic of yogurt parfait, fresh fruit, and orange juice.

Me: You know what baby?

Cheyenne: What?

Me: You may have been right.

Cheyenne: Told ya’ …

We died and went to heaven.

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Best Places to Live in South Jersey

South Jersey is emerging as one of the most popular areas for relocation. It’s a region packed with scenic landscapes and has a treasure trove of idyllic towns waiting to be explored. But how do you decide which town is right for you? Read on to learn the best towns in South Jersey to consider and what makes each of them unique.

Best Towns in South Jersey

Haddonfield

Haddonfield is one of New Jersey’s oldest towns, with roots tracing back to the 1700s. The beautifully preserved colonial Victorian homes of the town offer a sense of timelessness that’s hard to find elsewhere.

Haddonfield is a clear magnet for families with community-centered events, like the annual Fall Festival. Kings Highway, the heartland of the town, is layered with many boutiques, shops, cafes, etc. Plus, Haddonfield has a close proximity to Philadelphia. That makes it an idle choice for those who wish to enjoy suburban peace without sacrificing an urban life. 

Cinnaminson

Located along the Delaware River in Burlington County, Cinnaminson is a great example of the perfect combination between scenic beauty and suburban comforts. Families love living here due to the popular parks like the Wood Park and so on. 

What makes Cinnaminson way better is its peaceful atmosphere. Yet, you can enjoy the urban convenience as Philadelphia is just a 20-minute drive away from the location.

Cherry Hill

Cherry Hill is the largest town in South Jersey. Located along major highways like I-295 and Route 70, it offers easy access to both Philadelphia and the Jersey Shore. So, the region is abundant with many amenities, from the popular Cherry Hill Mall to the Garden State Discovery Museum. You will never run out of things to do.

The town’s public schools are highly rated, especially Cherry Hill East. The educational system strikes a perfect balance between academic performance and extracurricular activities. Above all, Cherry Hill even has a reputation for being a welcoming community for people from all backgrounds.

Delran

Delran is one of the fewest towns in South Jersey that offers a strong community sense to the newcomers. The town also hosts events like Delran Night Out and holiday parades, which bring the community together.

As it is located near Rancocas Creek, the town has waterfront access. Therefore, it is a good match for those who enjoy activities such as kayaking, fishing, and so on. Still, the city is an affordable option for homebuyers. 

Moorestown

If you are preferring more luxurious living standards, Moorestown could be a good choice. It is consistently ranked as one of the best places to live in New Jersey. The tight-knit community feel makes the place stand out from other areas.

Another thing that makes the town unique is its ban on liquor stores. So, you can expect a more quiet and family-oriented environment. Its downtown area, centered on Main Street, is a mix of upscale shop establishments. Even though the real estate prices of Moorestown are a bit higher, the town’s high-quality living standards make it a worthwhile investment.

Haddon Heights

Haddon Heights is like stepping into a postcard. Its streets are lined with beautifully maintained colonial homes. There’s always some events like concerts and festivals happening to bring residents together. So, you can expect a more active, community-driven life over there. At the same time, you need not sacrifice your professional life as major city centers like Philadelphia are just 10 kilometers away.

Maple Shade

Maple Shade may be a small yet an attractive destination for those who seek relocation. If you are a first-time homebuyer looking for a more affordable option, this town could be your perfect pick. You need not even compensate for the amenities as it is situated just minutes from major highways like Route 38 and I-295.

Medford

Medford is a town that feels as if it was built specifically for outdoor enthusiasts. It is surrounded by the natural beauty of the Pine Barrens. You can explore plenty of options for hiking and kayaking. That’s not the end; you can even enjoy various events like the Medford Art, Wine, and Music Festival.

Collingswood

Collingswood is a Camden County town that is well-known for its dining culture that draws foodies from all over the world. Haddon Avenue, the main thoroughfare, is lined with award-winning restaurants. Everything, right from Italian to Cuban cuisine, is offered. No wonder why the area has become a hub for youth, especially foodies. The close proximity to Philadelphia is also an attractive factor.

The town even hosts annual events like the May Fair and Book Festival. All these events attract thousands of visitors to the area. The weekly farmers’ market is yet another major highlight.  

Marlton

Marlton, part of Evesham Township in Burlington County, offers the best suburban living with easy access to nature. The Black Run Preserve in the town gives residents plenty of opportunities for hiking and birdwatching.

The town’s commercial district is yet another highlight— The Promenade at Sagemore. It is really a major shopping hub attraction with many high-end retail shops and top-notch dining options. 

If you are professional looking for work in major cities like Philadelphia, Marlton is a great option for residence. The town offers close proximity to major highways like Route 73 and the New Jersey Turnpike, for an easy daily journey. 

Mount Laurel

Mount Laurel is the sub-urban hub of South Jersey that offers a close proximity to every amenity that you need. It’s close to major highways like the New Jersey Turnpike and I-295. So, if you’re a professional tired of the to-and-fro traveling everyday, this town is a pretty nice pick. You can even enjoy the Laurel Acres Park— a local favorite with walking trails. 

Riverton

Riverton is one of South Jersey’s most charming towns. It was established in the 19th century as a summer resort for Philadelphia’s elites. Even now, that legacy could be seen in the beautiful Victorian architecture. Moreover, the town’s aesthetic streets and friendly atmosphere make it a good choice for those who prefer a quieter pace of life.  Content Source: https://homesbyoneteam.com/blog/2024/11/21/best-places-to-live-in-south-jersey

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The Allure of Sea-Facing Houses in Goa: A Dream Investment

Imagine waking up to the gentle sound of waves crashing against the shore, with the sun rising over the Arabian Sea right outside your window. Sea-facing houses in Goa offer this idyllic lifestyle, combining natural beauty with the charm of coastal living. Whether you’re considering a vacation home, a rental investment, or a permanent residence, owning a sea-facing property in Goa can be a dream come true.

Here’s why these properties are so sought after and what you should know before diving in.

1. Unmatched Scenic Views

One of the most compelling reasons to invest in a sea-facing house in Goa is the breathtaking views. From the vibrant hues of sunrise to the serene sunsets, living by the sea means you can enjoy nature’s beauty every day. The constant sight and sound of the ocean can create a calming atmosphere, perfect for relaxation.

2. Access to Beaches

Owning a sea-facing property typically means easy access to some of the best beaches in Goa. Whether you prefer the lively atmosphere of Baga and Calangute or the quieter vibes of Palolem and Agonda, a sea-facing house places you right in the heart of Goa’s coastal paradise. You can enjoy morning strolls on the beach, evening bonfires, and countless water activities just steps from your doorstep.

3. Potential for High Rental Income

Sea-facing properties often command higher rental prices, making them an attractive investment option. Tourists flock to Goa for its beaches, and many are willing to pay a premium for a property with ocean views. This can lead to significant rental income during peak seasons, allowing you to offset your investment costs.

4. Lifestyle Benefits

Living in a sea-facing house enhances your lifestyle significantly. The coastal climate, fresh sea breeze, and vibrant community make everyday living feel like a vacation. You can enjoy outdoor activities such as surfing, snorkeling, and beach volleyball or simply relax with a book on your terrace, soaking in the sun and the view.

5. A Sense of Community

Goa has a unique cultural blend of locals and expatriates, creating a warm, welcoming community. Owning a sea-facing house allows you to immerse yourself in this rich culture, from local festivals to delicious Goan cuisine. You’ll find that neighbors become friends, and there’s always something happening nearby.

6. Investment Potential

Real estate in Goa has shown steady appreciation over the years, and sea-facing properties are no exception. With ongoing infrastructure development and an increasing number of tourists, the value of such properties is likely to rise. Investing in a sea-facing house can be a smart financial move, providing both enjoyment and long-term returns.

7. Choosing the Right Property

When looking for a sea-facing house in Goa, consider the following tips:

Location: Different areas of Goa offer varying vibes. Research locations that suit your lifestyle, whether you prefer the hustle of North Goa or the tranquility of the South.

Property Type: Decide if you want a villa, bungalow, or apartment. Each has its pros and cons in terms of maintenance, space, and investment potential.

Amenities: Look for properties with modern amenities, such as pools, gardens, and security. These can enhance your living experience and attract renters.

8. Navigating the Buying Process

Purchasing property in Goa can be straightforward with the right guidance. Here are some steps to follow:

Engage a Local Real Estate Agent: A knowledgeable agent can help you navigate the market, find suitable properties, and understand legal requirements.

Understand Local Laws: Familiarize yourself with property laws in Goa, especially if you’re an NRI or a foreign buyer. This includes understanding ownership rights and any necessary paperwork.

Visit Properties: Whenever possible, visit potential properties in person. Photos can be misleading, and seeing the property firsthand will give you a better sense of its condition and location.

Conclusion

Owning a sea-facing house in Goa is more than just a real estate investment; it’s an opportunity to embrace a unique lifestyle filled with beauty, relaxation, and adventure. Whether you seek a vacation retreat, a rental property, or a permanent home, the allure of coastal living in Goa is hard to resist. With careful consideration and the right approach, your dream of living by the sea can become a reality, allowing you to enjoy the best that Goa has to offer, day in and day out.

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Top 5 Locations in Australia for Granny Flat Investments

Granny flats are fast becoming a popular investment option in Australia. The demand for these small and affordable homes is on the rise, especially in big cities where house prices are skyrocketing. Granny Flats Australia not only provides a separate living facility for the elderly in the family, but it can also be a good source of income for investors.

This blog will tell you where the best places to invest in granny flats in Australia are.

Sydney, New South Wales

Of all Australian cities, Sydney is the largest and most expensive city by far, and real estate prices are soaring. In suburbs like Western Sydney and North Shore, compared to most other regions, Granny flats Australia investment tends to produce higher returns. Given the tightness of an increasingly affluent and expanding area and its overwhelming demand for homes, Granny flats Australia investments in this market are likely to prove lucrative.

Melbourne, Victoria

Melbourne is Australia's fastest-growing city, and renting prices are very high. Granny Flats investments in outer Melbourne, like Frankston and Dandenong, can be extremely profitable. It is simply the perfect location for investment, featuring grammar schools and golf clubs every now and then. You won't ever need to worry about buying something at a high price in a reality where land density is easy and offers potential.

Brisbane, Queensland

Brisbane is an excellent location for granny flat investments. The Queensland government has recently relaxed regulations to encourage people to build more granny flats, making it an attractive market for investors. Brisbane is expected to be a place where population growth and real estate demand will grow in the coming years; savouring what it's like right now requires nothing less than Granny Flats Australia investments here for your own good.

Perth, Western Australia

Granny flats will be another major market to grow in this place. Right now, house prices are still quite cheap here but rents are expected to rise because the growth of population in Perth continues. Investing in granny flats in the suburbs of Perth can bring in good rent and the advantage future property value appreciation enables.

Gold Coast, Queensland

The Gold Coast is famous for its beauty and tourists, but it is also an important market for investors. There is always a need for rental properties from both holidaymakers and locals. Investing in granny flats in Australia around the Gold Coast can provide you with a stable income source.

Conclusion

These five options are the best for investing in granny flats in Australia. Whether you want to invest in Sydney's high-end areas or Brisbane and Perth's emerging markets, granny flats can be an affordable and profitable option of investment. The choice of location can make your investment more lucrative, it can also ensure that rental income and property value appreciation are as good as going up.

Paradise Portable Homes is the perfect choice for constructing the ideal Australian Granny Flat. You can find our building Constructors Sutherland provide the ultimate in Portable Homes, Granny Flats, Tiny Homes, 1 & 2-Bedroom Accommodation and Caravan Park Cottages.