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Simple, close, sweet and very professional. This is Pilar Rubio, a woman with many faces that you can get to know better in this honest interview we had with her for CLARA. Pilar didn't lose the charm she showed at the beginning. She always followed her own path and not looking too far. Life is short and time is limited, and she knows how to use them.

If you look back, what do you see? I see the same woman as always. After so many years, the only thing that has changed is that I have learned to attach importance to things that really make sense and that nonsense must stay on the road. You've learned to send your energy in the right direction. I have never set long-term goals. I always knew very clearly that everything I decided to do, I did the best I could. I am very perfectionist and I believe that this effort has made progress. Well, this way of focusing your life has had brilliant results ... Ultimately, this is the result of a series of decisions taken along the way. When you took them, you didn't know where they would take you or what their significance would be. I always support myself in the values that my parents gave me which I try to give to my children. Walking through life without haste, with joy and optimism, but striving for full effort at every step I make, are probably my best signs of identity. I imagine then that having three children in a row was not planned either ... If you told me 10 years ago that I would have three children, three children in a row, do you know what I would say to you? Well, really, no ... That you are completely crazy! Me and children? I don't have time for children ... I never thought about having children ... If you didn't have time, how did you organize it? I'm not sleeping. Since I am a mother, I sleep very little and I miss it very much ... But I'm organizing myself because I'm joining forces with my husband. The children go to school and then I plan everything I have to do to be able to spend time with them after returning in the afternoon. I love bathing, I play with them, and when they give up and go to sleep, I have some time for myself. They grow very fast. In addition to three children, a television, a blog ... you also have an Instagram account with 4,100,000 followers. How do you choose the content you share on Instagram? I act on impulse. Whatever comes out that day. And if it's something I prefer to keep for me, I don't publish anything. In my case it's much more real and less forced. In addition, there are moments when you feel that the social media are saturated and you see a lot of publications that have no content. And to put something like that, I don't publish anything. "I only watch programs that have fun and contribute to me, and if there is music in them, it's better". This is what you said ... So many negative things are happening in the world that television must have programs reflecting the good, in which the viewer learns things, relaxes and enjoys. Do you watch a lot of television? I don't have much time for it, and because I am a very practical person, I try to watch documentaries that provide me with knowledge on various topics that interest me, artist biographies and entertainment programs for the whole family. You know how to distinguish a powerful TV character from the simple and sweet person that you are ... Yes, sometimes my character is more open and I am calmer, there are even situations in which I can become "antisocial" because I am very embarrassed and I don't like to be in the spotlight when I am out of work. If there was such a possibility, in moments when I don't work, I would like to be unnoticed. To my knowledge, there is no guide on how to be the best mother in the world ... I would like to know how some women clone and stay in two places at the same time, how they can work and take care of their children at home. Sometimes I was criticized because I had dinner with friends because they don't realize that in addition to being a mother, I'm a woman, a friend, a professional person and a companion. You fight for equality, in which we are not equal? I didn't suffer from inequalities at work, remuneration or the fact that I was treated as an object. However, if I think it exists, there is a great inequality in fundamental rights. Can you give us an example? One day I was interviewed and one of the questions made me embarrassed: "What about Sergio, does he help you with children?", I ask myself, and I said : "Would you ask Sergio this question? How about Pilar, does she help you with children?". We need to learn to take care of the language this is a very "machista" question but also very common. Or when my husband publishes a picture where he is not with the children, no one questions him, and if I do, yes. In these 24 years that you have been working, what question would you have liked to be asked and have never been asked? There are not many questions to ask about me ... Now, with social media, we show almost everything, we have no secrets.