#STOP BEING BIPHOBIC

[stellophile]

trying to claim that jayce couldn’t have loved mel if he loves viktor OR that jayce couldn’t love viktor if he loved mel is negating the reality that he can absolutely have love for both of them and is also, dare i say it, extremely biphobic.

[bunnygirl-titties]

Hot dykes aren’t biphobic

Hot dykes aren’t biphobic

Hot dykes aren’t biphobic

HOT DYKES ARENT BIPHOBIC

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Ok to reblog, in fact you should reblog this!

This is for lesbians and other sapphic folx

[aiscapades]

if this person in my dms is the same person i argued with had a very annoying discussion with on reddit i think i'm going to get cancelled

the touchstarved cast are canonically bisexual (homo and hetero attraction; the attraction to people of the same and different sex as you). you can use pansexual too but i identify as bi myself so that's what i prefer.

how do i know this? how can i say this with such conviction?

because you, playing as the MC, can be whatever fucking gender identity + sex you want. and the LIs will fall in love with and fuck you.

it is not a difficult concept to grasp. this is so fucking normal for dating sims. stardew valley? they're all bi. the arcana? all bi. fields of mistria? bi. every last one of them. this is the industry fucking standard for dating sims.

"but if I'm a man and I'm dating kuras then isn't he gay" a bisexual person doesn't change their sexuality depending on whom they're dating. they are still bisexual. i am not suddenly straight because i'm dating a guy. i'm not suddenly a lesbian because i'm dating a woman. i am always bisexual. kuras is always bisexual. the entire cast is always bisexual.

stop asking what sexuality they are. stop complaining about it. stop hiding your biphobia and homophobia behind stupid questions! if you hate queer people just say you hate queer people and stop harassing queer folk under the guise of curiosity. no, you're not genuinely wondering. yes, you meant to offend. because (if you are the same person who left this question several times on the subreddit) YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN THE ANSWER ALREADY! accept it. move on with your life. get out of this fandom. i don't care. you've bothered me enough. you've bothered plenty others enough.

if you get dms or anonymous asks posing this question, please just block the user.

[the-scarlet-witch-22]

Whenever I think the Agatha fandom couldn’t possibly get any weirder, I just log onto twitter and see the actually insane things people will tweet out of their own free will.

What do you mean you took a picture of a stranger’s ass and posted it online without their consent?

What do you mean you publicly make super weird and parasocial and honestly really gross remarks about Kathryn and other cast members just to get likes and attention?

What do you mean you stalk the cast online because you have no shame or sense of boundaries?

The obsession with AI in fics and fanart, being super weird to Joe Locke, turning a blind eye to a cast member’s Zionism as well as her being a Depp apologist because you think she’s attractive, overall acting like a Salem Seven hive mind type of group. Just weird fucking behavior.

[new-austin]

Romancable Companion Sexuality Headcanons!

Lae'zel: Bi

Wyll: Bi

Gale:Bi

Shadowheart: Bi

Minthara: Bi

Karlach: Bi

Astarion: Bi

Halsin: Bi

[frogsottersandbees]

it’s bi visibility day and i am not in a gender cascade

[painedpen]

[cerise-means-cherry]

Lesbians can fuck whoever they want <3

I gather this is a reaction to my previous reblog ?

Yes, lesbians can have sex with whoever they want, but if they have sex with men and enjoy it (not talking about forcing yourself to have sex with men in order to fit in) then they are simply not a lesbian.

Bisexuals can also have sex with whoever they want you know, there's nothing wrong with aknowledging your sexuality for what it is.

[kyoosoup]

in honor of bi awareness week, which starts tomorrow for me, here are some reminders about bi people/being bi.

(and this is coming from a bisexual person, so it's basically just things I wish I was told sooner, or told more often.)

apologies in advance for any yap, I'm just a bit fed up with all the biphobia I've seen and experienced in general this year.

1. you can be bi.

starting off with what seems like a no-brainer- you can be bi! you're valid. shockingly, a lot of bi people get told that they need to "pick a side" and be either "fully gay" or "fully straight" or that they actually need to be pan/some other sexuality, otherwise they're homophobic in some way. It's not homophobic/transphobic/nonbinaryphobic/etc to be bi and we don't have to "pick a side". that's the whole point.

2. it's not "just a phase".

okay sure, there's a lot of people who identify as bi at some point in their lives and eventually come out as lesbian or gay or pan. but just because some people find other labels they are more comfortable with, doesn't mean all bi people will. not to mention, a lot of those people really do feel as though they were bi at one point. preferences change. for many, being bi is the label they identify most with, and will continue to identify with for the rest of their lives. let bi people be bi and don't pick on people for changing labels or for questioning.

3. being bi doesn't necessarily mean "liking both boys and girls"

being bi just means being attracted to two or more genders. this is a huge umbrella (one under which other sexualities such as pan and omni typically fall under) that doesn't necessarily mean just "liking both boys and girls". Some bi people aren't attracted to men at all, some aren't attracted to women at all, etc. Many bi people are attracted to non binary people, gender non conforming people, etc. the bi label means different things for different people. (personally, I find it hard to identify what I'm attracted to, but I'm more comfortable with bi than with pan or another similar label, so I stick with bi because that's what I feel fits me best)

4. you can be bi and date someone of the opposite gender.

I don't know why this is such a controversial thing, but a lot of people will pick on bi people who date people of the opposite gender in what is dubbed a "straight passing" relationship. A lot of people will then assume that those bi people are "faking" it. I see this a lot specifically with bi girls who date cis guys. If bi people were only allowed to date people of the same gender, what's the point of having the bi label??

5. you can be bi and celebrate pride

okay this one also seems like it should be obvious, but I saw a LOT of biphobia this past pride month. a lot of people saying that being bi is a phase so it doesn't count, or that if you're bi in a "straight-passing" relationship, you shouldn't bring your partner to pride events. biphobia is insanely dumb, especially coming from the lgbtq community itself. THE B STANDS FOR BI!!! WE ARE VALID!!!

conclusion.

I could make a lot of different points on this topic, but these are just a few based on what I have personally seen biphobia related to.

I'm bi. I like men, women, nonbinary people, and many other lesser-known gender identities. No, I've never dated anyone. But that doesn't make me any less bi. I'm allowed to, in the future, change my label, if I so feel like it. Right now, being bisexual is what I am most comfortable with, but it's possible that one day, through more life experience or relationships, I'll learn more about my preferences. But that doesn't make me any less bi now. And I'm allowed to celebrate pride and celebrate being bi! Blah

Happy bi awareness week to all the bi, bisexual, and biromantic people of the world! you are valid.

[princeboysal]

People being upset and surprised that most bisexual people end up with the opposite gender is the height of stupidty (and biphobia) because statically speaking it's much more likely to end up with opposite gender than the same gender. Like most bi people aren't actively looking for males or females. We just end up with we get. And there are more straight people and than lgbt people so it makes sense that we are more likely end up with straight people.

[troycattribunny]

You ever notice that people only let characters be bi when they're interested in the opposite sex.

Like if it's a wlw story but the main character was bi but ended up with a girl they would just call her a lesbian.

Yes this is about Utena being bi. Of course she's not shown interested in men (except she is) but she's also not shown interested in women either, she's interested in ANTHY because THATS WHO HER LOVE INTEREST IS.

[bratzboykai]

When people try to distinguish p*n from bi by doing that whole obvious "gender blindness" posturing shit, I just-

[dovahvhenan]

"zevran was originally written to just be gay, but was changed to be bisexual for the games release. therefore he is actually still just gay and romancing him with a woman is wrong. and i will shame anyone who does m/f romance with him because of this. i am good and righteous."

jesus fucking christ i thought these types of takes were left in 2014. does the da fandom ever change.

[sleepymrshmllow]

idk why we can't just accept that people will interpret media/characters differently and that it isn't inherently an attack on you personally (obviously if people are directly fighting you/harassing you/trying to invalidate you or are generally being bigoted that is different and you should be able to defend your thoughts/block people!)

[ourladyoftheflytrap]

I remember the good old days of communalbong where I made waves as a biphobic bisexual

[dykeceit]

It’s been 2 days into pride month and y’all already bringing in label discourse. Can y’all touch grass? I’m more worried about getting bombed by a neonazi by a qanon nut than i am by a queer woman who uses a label I don’t understand

i wouldn't need to if "bi lesbians" weren't coming into the only space i have where attraction to men isn't expected of me and talking about how much they wanna fuck men. go literally anywhere else