#stop being mean to bisexuals
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Ok to reblog, in fact you should reblog this!
This is for lesbians and other sapphic folx
#dottie speaks#wlw post#wlw love#wlw#wlw blog#wlw community#bisexual#bisexual support#stop being mean to bisexuals#it’s not a flex#if you are mean to bisexual people#I hate you#STOP BEING BIPHOBIC
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“peeta is bisexual” you guys are losing the vision. peeta isn’t even straight. katniss INVENTED sexuality for him. whatever katniss identifies as, he’s like “yeah, i’ll take that one” no questions asked
#katnissexual#i’m joking btw#and i agree with yall#he says you’ve ruined all other women for me#yeah twink we know#the hunger games#katniss everdeen#thg#nightlocked-in#everlark#peeta mellark#hunger games headcanon#hunger games incorrect quotes#thg incorrect quotes#bisexual peeta#peeta what’s your sexuality?#idk#what do u mean u don’t know#i’ve never thought about it#well i mean… do you like guys? do u like girls?#he thinks for a second…. girl#just one#katniss he says#i’m convinced in modern au’s when he’s dating someone else he just pictures katniss when fucking and then feels horribly guilty for it later#peeta why don’t you look at me during sex?#huh? oh glimmer uh… i just get distracted by how uh… good it feels. yeah that haha#katniss was his first love in every thing and not only was she his first love she was his ONLY love#so he’s never even considered being attracted to girls besides her#so when he tries to date he finds girls that are objectively attractive but on a scale of 1 to katniss they are still 1’s to him#and that never stops being a problem
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actually can we be normal when we talk about characters who are in the closet
#sincerely a guy who is in the closet irl#idk there is something super jarring about the way ppl talk about closeted dean#like yeah he knows he's in the closet#if he's attracted to guys and KNOWS THAT then he also knows that he's in the closet#so unless you're hcing that he doesn't know he's bi (which ain't my cup of tea but go off) than pls stop acting like closeted ppl are stupi#or repressed#thats the OTHER THING#closeted ppl aren't always repressed#being in the closet is for safety it doesn't mean you're pushing down feelings you have bc of internalized homophobia#ughruahg idk i just would genuinely like to see bisexual dean hcs that don't devolve into biophoia#or some form of ignorance#watch the sodium intake
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"we cant have bi women calling themselves lesbians, thatll just make predatory men think they can get with lesbians!"
predatory men* already think that regardless of any information out there and have for a very long time. because theyre predatory and dont care about boundaries.
predatory men are also assuming they can get with women who identify as bi or both bi and lesbian. those women will still have the same assumptions thrown at them when they tell predatory guys theyre lesbians. just because they like some men** doesnt mean they like all, they are not any safer than you.
why are you blaming it on bi people and not the predators? you realize youre outright saying associating with bi people is putting you in more danger? dont you realize how fucked up that is?
bi people always have and always will call themselves lesbians. lesbian has always included them, and it was the common perception that lesbian included both mono- and bisexual people until lesbian separatists (aka radfems) used this exact rhetoric to make it seem like bisexual people are a danger to "real TRUE" lesbians for daring to associate with men. they labeled (and continue to label) bi people as traitors that cant be trusted.
tldr; you are being biphobic as hell, spreading radfem rhetoric, and you can kiss my fat bi lesbian ass.
*obviously by "predatory men" i mean men who are predators. im not saying all men are predatory because thats dumb bullshit.
**of course some people also use bi without being attracted to men, but for somewhat-brevitys sake im focusing just on the ones who are here.
#bi lesbian#bi#lesbian#bisexual#i am arospec ace and sex repulsed with very weird and very uncommon attraction#not to mention my attraction generally being fuzzy and confusing#just because the best way for me to label my specific identity doesnt fall neatly into one category#doesnt mean im putting people in danger jfc 🙄#stop attacking your fellow queers just bc theyre the easier target to let out your pain and fear on
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"Your bout with Hoary Boulder was more stirring than a hundred lines of my most passionate poetry. Mayhaps I should arrange a sparring match of my own..." "Poetry, eh? So the bard act isn't just for show, after all. Fancy reading me a verse or two sometime?"
#ffxiv gpose#a realm reborn#thancred waters#wolcred#warrior of light#florian belanger#elezen#inb4 thancred delicately implies that he reserves his poetry ~for the ladies~ (and florian's eyes roll into the back of his head)#“ohhh. so you got hot watching me fight but the poetry's just for the ladyfolk. *i* see how it is.”#arr replay is making me insane about them i'm sorry i cannot stop#vayne's screens tag#vayne's oc yapping#tune in for more of these two assholes flirting i mean being respectful coworkers while thancred struggles with his bisexuality 💖
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unfriendly fucking reminder that bisexuality means and has always meant attraction to all genders, has in fact historically been so firmly entangled with the trans- and genderfucky communities that it's been used synonymous, and also that there is no productive way to differentiate it from other mspec labels. which is fine in fact i think it's on brand for all us mfers incapable of choosing ever to have more than one possible label even if they are effectively the same thing and pick the one we wear by vibes or associated history or simply because we like the damn flag better, but also trying to clearly define labels is bullshit and we're past it it just makes you sound politically and effectively conservative not everything is cookie cutter cleancut you'll survive stop telling people what their labels mean i swear to god
#queer stuff#it should be illegal to make me see this shit before i had coffee#bisexuality#like. it's. so. ''oh but it means x'' well to hundreds of thousands people it doesn't#are you going to tell all of them that they are using labels wrongly (lol) or are you growing tf up and move on#these aren't scientific categories stop Being like this jesus CHRIST#anyway
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God just blocked some bitches on being weird about martyn
#just saw a person go 'gynosexual my ASS what does that even mean!' on a post calling martyn bisexual#like oh fucking sorry i didnt you were just allowed to say that about other peoples sexualities dickhead#now youre going to be saying that martyn is too gay to be bisexual.. BiSExUal mY AsS he's CLEARLY gay#shut the fuck up man stop being weird#like i think headcannoning CHARACTERS is fine. id prefer if it didnt erase already existing queer sexualities but whatever im not the fuckin#police#but also this was a post talking about martyns WIFE AND CHILDREN.#like bro piss off its not cool to erase an real queer's sexuality for the sake of your shipping like i dont CARE#anyway theres my piece of queer and online discourse for the week#i blocked them both
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meta is such a good episode for the rubin & karow dynamic so far. "kriegen wir das hin, nicht nur kollegen zu sein? sondern ... kumpels oder sowas? irgendwann?" "sicher. gerne. aber heute glaub ich nicht mehr, oder? ihr essen wäre nichts für mich." "sie wissen gar nicht, was es gibt." "nudeln mit tomatensoße?" and " wenn ich das jetzt mache, dann stecken wir beide mit drin. dann gibts kein zurück mehr." "ich bibbere vor angst." and "sie werden nicht locker lassen, oder?" "sie können mich ja melden." "nein." "also glauben sie mir doch?" "ganz sicher nicht. aber irgendjemand muss auf sie aufpassen. und der idiot bin leider ich."
#they're soooo special to me you see#berlin episodes are just like:#karow: says something crazy that no other human being would suspect yet alone believe and yet he is inevitably going to end up#being right about once again#everybody else: karow what's wrong with you. stop that.#karow @rubin: do YOU believe me#and nina says no and means i hope to god you're wrong but against all my common sense i'm starting to believe you're right#and then they're both disasters at life in general and it's really good#do i ship them? questionable. is it really fun to watch them together? absolutely#tatort berlin 2: bisexual boogaloo#should i change my new berlin tag to tatort berlin 2: bisexual boogaloo#hm i'll think about it#(edit: i shall <3)
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sometimes the plurality mood is u do anything and the guy who lives in ur brain and makes u drink water goes "do you Have to do that"
#voidposting#i think anything whatsoever and they look at me judgementally.... so mean to me forever#before i post this they are asking me to add a note from them saying 'stop being so bisexual then it makes it hard to front'#in my defense. Fuck you#<- /silly
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oh by the way in honour of pride month i feel that it is mandatory to state that the nature of chilapis is entirely up to reader interpretation.
due to the fluidity of my gender — read: my lack of care or consideration of it — chilapis is very much also: yaoi. splendid job everyone, let’s kill ourselves swiftly within the next 4 hours
#✧.*🌹#i am a beautiful bisexual woman who girlconquers and girlwins.#but i am also: world’s worst fucking twink. i hate pride month because this reality is scary. to me.#i mean mlm but yaoi as a casual term will never stop being funny to me.#yaoi marriage. yaoi divorce. yaoi husband. so on and so forth
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What are peopls thoughts on this. Commenter is transfem.
#The commenter is transfem.#Like. I think there's a commonality among women who identify as bisexual and are in a straight passing relationship#And this isn't all bi women#But too often these women just. Do not have the ability to deal with being treated as a queer person#Like they need the ability to pass as straight in order to be comfortable#And like. Is that necessarily bad. I'm not going to come on here and say you have to willfully expose yourself to homophobia#But like. Let's just not play then. Don't come into gay/lesbian spaces and talk about our issues like you experience them.#AND I KNOW! I know this isn't all bi women. But you can't deny that there are a good amount of bi women that just cannot deal with the#Realities of what it means to be visibly not straight#All the ''i can't talk to women they scare me'' ''i can talk to all men and 1 woman''#Like it's fine it's innocuous it's nothing but at the same time. Just be honest. Be honest with yourself and others that what you want from#The world and the attraction you experience are not always the same.#It is FINE to want a cishet relationship and be straight passing. You are allowed to choose safe options.#But like. Stop Fucking Speaking Over Us then.#Bisexual#Lesbian
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Dude I can’t help it I just like having someone to worry over too much. Like apparently it doesn’t matter if I’m actually attracted to someone, my desire to have someone to check in on and take care of is too great. Like maybe I can tolerate being completely sexually disinterested if it means I get all the soft stuff
#context I am talking abt men specifically#I mean like…that same man#I’ve been talking about#I like taking care of AND fucking women#and taking care of women via fucking them#but there are no women who want to do soft things w me#and that is what I’m craving rn#so I’ve got myself in this mess#where I tolerate the parts that make me uncomfortable for the mutual affection#ik it’s bad#and I should stop#but I can’t seem to#who knows maybe I will want to fuck him#who am I to say#maybe I’m just scared of new experiences#update from future me I was being stupid I did in fact want him like that#I really am just very bisexual guys never listen to me if I say otherwise
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oh my god i got so emotional SHUT UUUUUP
#911#911verse#evan buckley#so this is what crying about a character is actually like#like i do be crying at times dont get me wrong#but i just love buck so much. i kept stopping the episode and going. omg omg omg#omg its happening. omg idk if i can actually watch this. omg its happening !!!!!!!!!!!#jesus christ JESUS CHRIST#like i know we throw the word around a lot but this is MY SON#and everything that happened in the episode. it was like it was happening to me#i felt actual physical damage and actual butterflies as the kiss moment approached#like theY DID THAT#THEY MADE MY BI SON CANONICALLY BI#idk to have this shift in a characters perception this late in a procedural….. 911 you gods#i really hope they can somehow make more seasons cause they would deserve ti#it. and like. this doesn’t have to be the end of buddie??#they could get them together at any time bc buck realizing hes into men is a lot other worm can than buck realizing hes in love with#his best friend. i just dont know how they would do it with eddie bc they would have to pull a lot of focus over there too with a big#chance of feeling repetitive with their narratives#maybe they just show them together after a timejump and say they worked some stuff out idk lmao#ANYWAY I AM STILL CRYING BECAUSE BUCK MY SON IS A CANONICAL BISEXUAL JEALOUS DISASTER JUST LIKE HIS MAMA ❤️#THIS IS WHAT REPRESENTATION IS ACTUALLY ALL ABOUT (and i mean his horrifying handling of the feelings of being left out of course lmao)#THE LOOK EDDIE SHOT HIM TOO#i am too frazzled rn i just need to scream i think#hi. im sorry this is me coming out of the 911 closet now that wwdits is on hiatus#evan buckley!!!!!#SON OF MY SONS#LIGHT OF MY LIFE#APPLE OF MY EYE
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Hi 💛 I wanted to ask you something, it's been bothering me lately: I've always known that I'm attracted to people regardless of gender. At 15 I called it bisexual. At 17 I started using the label pansexual. Came out as a trans man at 23. I'm now 26 and I'm not sure if bi or pan work for me anymore. I know that I'm still attracted to people regardless of gender, but my experiences as a man in society have made the label gay resonate a lot more with me. Is that okay? What does this mean? Confused
It means whatever you want it to mean. People all across the queer community have used "gay" as shorthand for decades now (maybe including queer people you love). If you just don't vibe with bi/pan on their own, then you don't have to have them on their own. There's nothing wrong with being bi or pan, but there's also nothing wrong with feeling like that doesn't quite encapsulate your relationship with your queerness.
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#ask#anon#queer#lgbt#lgbtq#described images#image description in alt#reminds me of freddie mercury saying he's gay as a daffodil when an interviewer asked if he was gay#and how i saw people offended he said that when he was ~really bisexual and not gay~ and it's like...#...does it truly harm people saying they're gay as a daffodil because that's just iconic#queer people have been borrowing and using terms from each other for as long as we've been a community#and while there are certain words that are very specific to a specific type of queer person/group that doesn't mean every word is like that#or that every queer word has a neat and tidy little wall around it that includes everybody but you specifically#if you take your feelings and run with 'i just label my experiences as gay/queer' then that's fine#like the label serves you and if it stops serving you then you don't need to keep it#i call myself gay and bisexual because i have a very complex experience due to being trans + a bit of my past#and that's as much as i think people '~need~' to know (though i don't owe even that to others)#and i get the whole 'do what you want forever 🤗' can feel unhelpful...#...the point isn't to wave off how you feel or discount it. the point is to remind you that...#...ultimately your desires and comfort MATTER and essentially 'if it's shit hit the bricks'#you aren't obligated to live for everybody ELSE'S contentment. is that even living when you are only alive at the behest of everybody else?#to deny the self and to deny yourself the chance to have actual complex experiences can be the bane of life itself if that makes sense
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my toxic trail is that i wholeheartedly believe barry would be the kinda guy who threw around the words gay and faggot and then would turn to alice like "not that there's anything wrong w/ that yknow" because really, he's an #Ally. alan thinks its the funniest shit and alice wants to explode him with her mind, as usual
#barry finally coming to terms w/ being bisexual like 🙌🙌 bc he can say faggot again (he had to stop. because of Woke)#sdkjhkjsdfhjd i do hc both alan and alice as trans so i mean it barry is An Ally#tani's personal shit#anyway having fun writing barry ft internalized homophobia
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> someone says a comic character is canonically queer
> I ask if they're shown as queer in the canon timeline or an alternate reality
> they don't understand
> I explain the difference between official, canon timelines and elseworld/alternate reality stories
> they laugh and say "it's canon, friend"
> their example is an au
#this is about wolverine#i am completely unfamiliar with wolverine and xmen comics but the person who made a post saying he's canonically bisexual#was then asked where that's shown and they were like 'there's an alternate reality where...'#dude.#i'm not saying that means NOTHING but stop being so loosey goosey with the word canonical#anyways wolverine is old as balls of course he's bisexual. in practice if not in identity
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