#Proverbs Daily reflection

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Proverbs Daily Reflection – February 19 , 2025

Today's proverb surrounds James Farmer. God bless you all, around the world! here's just another spiritual tidbit for Black History Month. Blessings be upon you! #josephmekaelpageministries

Proverbs 19:1 (KJV)“Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool.” Reflection:James Farmer was a champion of civil rights. He was a founder of the Congress of Racial Equality (CORE). Farmer embodied integrity in the face of oppression. His commitment to nonviolent protest and equality speaks to the wisdom of Proverbs 19:1. Despite societal…

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Practical steps to help you grow in your faith. (via. ChatGPT)

1. Cultivate a Personal Relationship with Jesus

• Daily Prayer: Make time to pray each day. Share your thoughts, fears, and gratitude with Jesus as you would with a trusted friend. Remember to listen as well, seeking His guidance.

• Scripture Reading: Dive into God’s Word regularly. Start with the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John) to understand Jesus’ life, teachings, and heart for humanity. Reflect on how His words apply to your life.

• Be Honest with Him: Jesus already knows your heart (as seen in John 2:24-25). Don’t hesitate to bring your doubts, struggles, or joys to Him.

2. Strengthen Your Foundation in Faith

• Study the Bible Deeply: Go beyond surface-level reading by studying the context, background, and meaning of passages. Use study guides or commentaries to gain deeper insight.

• Memorize Scripture: Commit key verses to memory. This will help you rely on God’s truth in challenging times. For example:

• Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…”

• Philippians 4:6-7: “Do not be anxious about anything…”

• Understand Theology: Explore the core beliefs of Christianity to deepen your understanding of God’s character and His plan for humanity.

3. Build a Life of Worship

• Worship Regularly: Worship isn’t just singing—it’s a lifestyle of honoring God in everything you do. Make time to express your love and gratitude to Him through worship, both privately and in a church community.

• Live for His Glory: Seek to glorify God in your daily actions—whether at work, in relationships, or in how you treat others.

4. Be Part of a Community of Faith

• Join a Church: Being part of a local church allows you to grow alongside others, receive support, and learn from experienced believers.

• Participate in Bible Studies or Small Groups: These provide opportunities to discuss scripture, share experiences, and gain accountability.

• Serve Others: Jesus modeled servanthood. Look for ways to serve in your church, community, or even your own home. Acts of service help us reflect God’s love to others.

5. Trust God in Difficult Seasons

• Life isn’t always easy, but faith grows strongest in trials. Surrender your struggles to Jesus, trusting that He will guide you and work all things for your good (Romans 8:28).

• Develop a habit of thanksgiving, even in tough times. Gratitude shifts your perspective and reminds you of God’s faithfulness.

6. Share Your Faith

• Tell others about Jesus—not just through words but also by living a life that reflects His love and grace. Let your actions speak of your relationship with Him.

• Pray for opportunities to share your testimony. Your story can inspire and draw others to Christ.

7. Pursue Continuous Growth

• Read Christian Books: Authors like C.S. Lewis (Mere Christianity) or A.W. Tozer (The Pursuit of God) provide deep insights into faith and spiritual growth.

• Attend Workshops or Seminars: Look for events or conferences in your area focused on deepening your spiritual life.

• Embrace Discipline: Set spiritual goals, like fasting, journaling prayers, or taking quiet retreats to focus on your relationship with God.

8. Rely on the Holy Spirit

• The Holy Spirit helps us grow in faith and gives us the strength to live as followers of Christ. Pray for the Spirit’s guidance and empowerment in your daily life.

• Galatians 5:22-23 reminds us of the fruit the Spirit cultivates in us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

Reflective Questions to Deepen Your Faith:

1. Do I truly believe Jesus knows my heart and loves me unconditionally?

2. How can I make more room in my daily life for prayer and scripture reading?

3. Am I trusting God fully, or am I holding back in certain areas of my life?

4. How can I serve and encourage others in their faith journey?

Closing Encouragement:

Remember, growing in faith is a lifelong process. Don’t rush it or feel pressured to be “perfect.” God is patient and delights in every step you take toward Him. Trust in His love, seek Him wholeheartedly, and allow Him to transform you from the inside out.

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Hi! I'm an (adult!!) woman who has always identified as a lesbian but has recently realised it isn't right for me. However I really have no experience with... well, anything!! Do you happen to know what kinds of places I would be able to find support on my journey? Secular or traditional are welcome!

Hello! Thank you for opening up and sharing such a significant step in your journey. It’s clear that you’re seeking a life aligned with truth, love, and purpose, and that is such a beautiful thing. You are not alone in this, and there are so many resources and people who can walk alongside you. I’ll do my best to encourage you and point you to some helpful tools and communities for traditional living, faith, and relationships! (I will include Christian and secular resources 🤍)

Types of Christianity: Protestant, Catholic, and Orthodox

Each Christian tradition has unique practices and teachings, but all center on Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Here’s a quick overview and resources for exploring these branches of faith:

Protestant: This includes many denominations like Baptists, Methodists, and non-denominational churches. They emphasize a personal relationship with Jesus and studying the Bible directly.

• Resource: The book Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis is a wonderful starting point.

• Website: GotQuestions.org provides clear answers to many theological questions.

Catholic: The Catholic Church places a strong emphasis on tradition, sacraments, and the leadership of the Pope.

• Resource: Scott Hahn’s Rome Sweet Home is a beautiful introduction to Catholicism.

• Website: Catholic Answers is a rich resource for understanding the Catholic faith.

Orthodox: Orthodox Christianity emphasizes liturgy, the Church Fathers, and deep spirituality.

• Resource: The Orthodox Way by Kallistos Ware is an excellent introduction.

• Website: Ancient Faith Ministries offers podcasts, articles, and books.

I encourage you to visit different churches and see where God is leading you! ❤️

Romantic Relationships (Christian Based)

Godly relationships reflect His love: they are selfless, patient, kind, and rooted in mutual respect. They encourage growth in faith and prioritize purity and honesty. Ephesians 5:25-33 beautifully describes how love in marriage mirrors Christ’s love for the Church.

From my personal experience, I also once identified as a lesbian and felt confused about love and relationships. It wasn’t until I fully surrendered my heart to God that He gently reshaped my understanding of love. Through prayer and seeking Him, He led me to my now husband. Our marriage is filled with joy and purpose because it’s centered on Christ. God is so faithful, and He will guide you too!

Traditional Living and Homemaking (Christian based)

Living a traditional lifestyle and embracing homemaking can be deeply fulfilling and aligned with God’s design. Here are some resources to guide you:

Books:

• The Life-Giving Home by Sally and Sarah Clarkson: A lovely guide to creating a Christ-centered home.

• The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace: A biblical perspective on being a godly wife.

Content Creators:

• This Lovely Little Farmhouse on Instagram: Practical tips for homemaking and traditional living.

• YouTube channels like Farmlife Outfitters and The Transformed Wife provide inspiration and encouragement.

Websites:

• Homemaking Ministries: Resources for Christian homemakers.

• Proverbs 31 Ministries: Encouragement for living a Christ-centered life.

Traditional Living and Homemaking (Secular)

Books:

• The Little Book of Hygge by Meik Wiking: Focuses on creating a cozy, intentional home life.

• Atomic Habits by James Clear: Helps establish routines and habits that support a balanced lifestyle.

• The Modern Guide to Homemaking by Louise Perkins: A practical guide to homemaking for modern women.

YouTube Channels:

• Darling Desi: A focus on slow living, homemaking, and romanticizing daily routines.

• The Feminine Fancy: Offers content on elegance, femininity, and traditional values in modern contexts.

• Inspired by Nikki: Encourages traditional homemaking and creating a peaceful home

Podcasts:

• Simple Life Project: Discusses homemaking, sustainability, and creating a fulfilling life.

• A Farmish Kind of Life: Explores rural living, homemaking, and self-reliance.

Healthy Traditional Relationships

Books:

• Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray: A classic on understanding and improving relationships.

• Boundaries in Dating by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend: A Christian book with principles that are widely applicable.

• The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman: Learn how to give and receive love effectively.

Articles and Blogs:

• The Gottman Institute (gottman.com): Science-based relationship advice and tools for building healthy partnerships.

• ModernMrsDarcy.com: A blog about relationships, homemaking, and personal growth.

YouTube Channels and Influencers:

• Feminine Not Feminist: Discusses relationships, femininity, and

Encouragement and Support

Know that this journey is not about perfection but about drawing closer to God daily. He sees your heart and loves you deeply. Surround yourself with others who will support your faith and values.

• Local Churches: Many offer women’s groups or Bible studies where you can find community and mentorship.

• Podcasts: Journeywomen and Set Apart Girl are wonderful for encouragement.

God has such a beautiful plan for your life, and He will walk with you every step of the way. If you’d like prayer or more guidance, I’m here for you! Wishing you the best in your traditional journey, regardless of your faith 🙏❤️

With love,

Thatgentlewife

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Phrases that will keep you from maturing

“You only live once”

“If it's thrilling, it's worth it”

“Now I’m too old for this”

“It’s better to regret it than not do it”

“I’m too young to worry about this”

“ I don’t need anybody”

As long as you let your life be guided by these phrases that you repeat because you heard someone saying it in a tone of wisdom, freedom or detachment, you will continue to be a childish woman and fall into the same holes without even realizing that you fell...

Little by little they’ll take place in your heart and justify your worse choices

Please take into account Proverbs 4, 23 “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it”

My Dear, imagine that you are holding two spheres, one in each hand, they are joined by an elastic band. A sphere represents your actions. The other, your values.

If what you think starts to become very distant from what you do on a daily basis, you start to change your VALUES — what you keep in your heart — so that what you do becomes a little closer and so the elastic does not break. You know that breaking this elastic brings a kind of pain and weight...

We often make these "catchphrases" excuses for not noticing our own failures. I've used some of these myself, lol But acting like this only takes you away from reality, from maturity and, consequently, from femininity. Stop today, look into the mirror and reflect about whether you've been keeping any of these as a pet...

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(I have argued before that Éomer has skill in poetry, as is shown by the lines he composes in the middle of Battle of Pelennor fields. The way he talks often implies a witty sense of humour and affinity for words. But with @konartiste 's recent posts on the subject, I began to think about it more: what kind of poetry would he have composed, did he share it, and how did it evolve during his life? Eventually, my thoughts turned into a pseudo essay, presumably written by a scholar in Minas Tirith in the time of Éomer's grandchildren.)

These Blessed Words: Excerpts from Treatise on the poetry of Éomer Éadig of the House of Eorl

"That the Rohirrim had no written records of their songs, poetry and stories was indeed a cause of great astonishment to the scholars of the Houses of Learning in Minas Tirith. Our wise men and women, nourished and educated on books with a tradition extending all the way back to Númenórean origins, could scarcely believe that an entire culture could exist and thrive in the living memory of a people. But since then we have learned much of the sophisticated techniques Rohirrim use to memorise vast quantities of lore, poetry, songs, tales, histories, proverbs and so forth. These are shared on daily basis, between guards standing on long watches, Riders making their patrols, the herders following their horses and cattle over the vast green fields, the ordinary folk in their chores, and most of all, sitting around the hearth fire - the heart that beats at the centre of even the smallest homestead of Rohan. It is believed that poets like King Éomer could clearly recall works they had composed many decades ago, and perform them as fluently as the moment they were first made."

"Some of the king's children inherited this understanding, but especially those of his offspring that were married in Gondor developed both a keen appreciation for their sire's poetry, but also a fear that it would one day vanish from the world utterly, if not penned down."

"King Éomer was not easily persuaded to recite his poetry for the scribes: he believed until the end of his life that living words were not meant to be captured by dead ink and lifeless parchment. It is not known how or why he eventually relented and bequeathed some of his work to posterity, unless his queen had a hand in it. And it is believed indeed that the words that were written down include only a small part of all the words he composed in his life. "

"The poetry of King Éomer contains themes that clearly tie with the phases of his life, and though he did not usually inform his scribes of when a particular poem was composed, much of his work contain hints and traces that help us to date them, or at least estimate to which period of his life they belong. As the king aged, his poetry also matured and acquired finesse. It is believed that some of his works contain traces of collaboration with King Elessar, another lover of poetry and the close friend of King Éomer."

"His early works are intensely concerned with his profession as a warrior, but the changes in tone have lead us to believe that he was deeply affected by the many losses he experienced. As a young warrior, King Éomer spent much of his life upon the free fields of Rohan, and from this period we can trace his great love for the nature of his homeland, reflected with exquisite words in his poetry. Meeting his wife to be, Lothíriel of Dol Amroth, introduced another shift in his poetry, and he became more and more occupied with life's great questions: finding his life's purpose in his family and people, the measure of a man and how to live a good life. His later poetry as a mature, experienced king are filled with more abstract reflections. What does it mean to be a king, and what is the sum of his life? What of the nature of power, and how can one wield it without being corrupted? Where is his realm, his Rohan, headed after he is gone? It seems that in his final years, King Éomer often wondered about what his life amounted to, and whether he could stand proud next to the great kings of his House. We, the posterity, know the answer to that final question."

The path of a warrior: from glory to grief

"Like many poets of Rohan, as a young man King Éomer was fascinated with the ideals of warriorhood. His early works deal with the glory of battle, the heat of the fight, and riding home accompanied by victorious songs. His words almost seem to echo with the sound of clashing swords, the thundering hooves of the charging éored and the battle cries of his fellow Riders. Here emerges a young, fierce Rider delighting in his skill, eager to join the ranks of the famous warriors. Many poems were made in this triumphant mood. Most famous of his battle poetry are, of course, the unforgettable lines he composed in the middle of the Battle of Pelennor fields. Like a true warrior poet, he was able to rapidly transform his experiences into evocative words even in the heat of battle."

"Gradually, his tone changes. His battle poems deal less with the glory of the warrior: he becomes more and more concerned with the grimness of war. He speaks of friends who rode with him to battle but did not return, the terror of the victims, his grief and despair when he was not able to save lives, and the bleak aftermath of burials that follow even victory. As the situation in Rohan worsened and the threat of Isengard grew closer, King Éomer would compose some of the darkest lines of his life: lament fills his words, but also rage. It is still startling to read his poetry from this period, and one wonders that he consented to reveal it."

"It is telling that the deaths of his beloved uncle and revered cousin are not preserved in any of the King's surviving poems."

The hills are alive

"Training and riding patrols in the great wide fields of Rohan was not just battles or bloodshed. There were also periods when young Riders were left idle, and it seems that King Éomer spent much of his spare time observing his natural surroundings and weaving words that described his wonder. His natural poetry fills with a deep, enduring love, finding countless ways to describe the colour of the sky, the glory of dawn, the majesty of the mountains, the fires of sunset, the rolling hills, and glittering rivers. Seasons come and go, representing the cycles of life and death."

"Nature seems to form a part of the king's keen love for his land and his will to defend it. He finds the faces of his people in the rocks and mountains, the river reminds him of the tails of horses streaming in the wind, and the curves and valleys of the hills are as the bodies of his lovers."

"Some of the king's nature poetry indeed seems too sensual to be talking about the land. In fact, some lines border on keenly erotic. It is a fascinating glimpse to his views on being incarnate, of having a body that feels and desires and experiences the world. Some have argued that these sensual poems hint at the existence of other similar lines, which were not shared with the scribes. Doubtlessly, the old king recited only those poems that he deemed appropriate; perhaps feeling his age, or not wishing to be remembered for his more explicit poetry."

Treasured words

"Interestingly, we know only one single poem by King Éomer where he speaks of his wife, Queen Lothíriel. His grandchildren believe that this does not mean that many poems about her did not exist; he just chose not to share them. If this is true, then the world has perhaps lost the works of one of the great romantic poets, for the lines of this one poem are some of the most beautiful in all his poetry. It is easy to believe his offspring in the matter of whether there were other love poems dedicated to the queen, for it is well known that King Éomer and Queen Lothíriel shared one of the great romances of their time. One may picture them in the privacy of their rooms, or walking together in the fields as they often did in their free moments, and the king wooing his lady with tender words, crafted with special and loving care for her."

"Even if the king's words for his queen are now lost to us, her impact on his poetry can still be seen. There is a sense of profound sadness in the poems he composed before meeting her, and it seems at this time, just after the War of the Ring had ended, he was struggling with his losses and his sister's departure. We may only guess at the desperate loneliness of the newly crowned king, responsible for the almost impossible task of rebuilding a war-torn kingdom. The arrival of Queen Lothíriel, first as a potential bride and then as a young wife, marks the turn of a tide in King Éomer's life. A more hopeful mood takes over his poetry as well."

"King Éomer shared a few more poems about his family and children, but again his readers are confronted with strange taciturness in the poet who usually spoke so openly. As with his queen consort, we believe that the king kept much of the poetry about his family life to himself, although in the oral tradition many poems attributed to him on this subject have survived. These were the jewels in the hoard of words, meant to be treasured in private, and shared perhaps only with those he most loved. One can understand his unwillingness to reveal the poems composed quite literally with his heart's blood, although we also feel the loss of this treasure trove."

"One remarkable exception is made in the poem over fatherhood: the king attempts to make sense of his own past as an orphan, the two fathers he loved and lost, and how this has impacted his understanding of raising a family and being a father. One can sense the immense love he has for his children, but also the immense fear of losing them. The tone and subject of the poem are raw, personal and familiar to any parent."

"In another famous poem, he speaks to his son, Prince Elfwine, later the King of Rohan, although it has been argued that the prince stands in for all the people of Rohan; the king addresses his words not just to his heir, but all the youth of the land of the horse-lords. He pleads his heir to take care of the legacy entrusted to him. The poem is filled with his love for the land, but also a sense of anxiety, as if he felt personally responsible to teach the young Rohirrim what it had cost him and his generation to preserve the future and freedom of Rohan."

The sum of a man

"As stated before, King Éomer's later poetry shows that he spent much time pondering the nature of kingship, and whether he was a good king or not. To this period can also be traced the one poem where he speaks directly of his uncle and predecessor, and his cousin, Prince Théodred - although it must be noted that their phantoms do haunt many other poems. Slain in the vicious battles of the War of the Ring, King Théoden and his only son were the last of the Second Line of the Kings of Rohan, making King Éomer the heir for the throne and changing the course of his life utterly. The poem dedicated to these two fallen lords reads almost like a self-imposed reckoning, as if needing to reassure his kinsmen that he has filled their roles as well as he can, and done all that he could to guard and guide their people. Even with his success as a king and the ease he showed in this role in his later years, he seems to have sometimes wondered what his life would have been like, had his cousin lived."

"While King Éomer did share much of his poetry while he lived, passing the time with friends during campaigns or sitting at his own hearth fire in Meduseld, these later works are not recalled in the oral traditions attributed to Éomer Éadig. They seem to be a man's private reflection of his life - a tally of sorts, even. But unlike his poetry for his wife and family, this was a legacy he did not mind sharing."

The warrior poet

"The image of an accomplished warrior, skilled both in battle and in poetry, seems the stuff of legends to us now, and some scholars have even challenged the concept. However, considering the fateful times that Éomer Éadig and his generation witnessed, it is easy to believe that in such age an oral culture intensely concerned with battle prowess, warrior poets were not uncommon. Other skilled wordsmiths may now be lost to us, although their words live on in the rich spoken tradition of the horse-lords. For them and for King Éomer, shaping and understanding their lives and experiences through poetry, composed in keen and evocative lines, was as natural as breathing. Poetry gave sense to the senseless violence and horror they witnessed under the threat of the Shadow. It let them deal with their grief and gave shape to the lives they built from the ruins of war, and eventually, celebrated the joys of peace and prosperity. In their minds, poetry was a living thing and an extension of their own selves: some parts are for the world to see, others are meant only for the poet to know."

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Things what I have learned

Now that my first novel is done, I'm reflecting on what I learned in the last 2-3 years. Tagging @theladyelizabeth @boleynqueenes @annabolinas because they are the fic writers that spring to mind.

Don’t try and write in one document because you can’t do it.

You just can’t. It’s too long. The document will get unwieldy very quickly. You don’t have to have a new doc for every chapter but please. Chunk. Make it easy to find scenes again without having to wade through pages and pages and dozens of keyword search results.

Highlight placeholder text so your eye doesn’t skip over it upon rereads.

I speak from painful experience here.

Start with a timeline of all the events

You are never going to remember every single little thing that is happening. You cannot memorise the order everything happens because things change on a daily or even hourly basis. Who died first on 17 November? Mary or Pole? Don’t force yourself to remember. WRITE IT DOWN. “Oh I’ll just compile my notes on that event when I come to it” NO. Start with the foundations. Otherwise you’ll be talking about the Pope and be like “SHIT I forgot about the Sack of Rome and him being the emperor’s prisoner because I was busy writing Henry’s intense tennis match”.

Organise your FUCKING notes

“I don’t need to organise my notes because I won’t be citing anything”. FOOL. Fool fool fool fool fool. That’s the Devil talking.

Events can be organised by the aforementioned timeline. It doesn’t matter if the timeline is excessively detailed because you can always remove irrelevant facts as you write the story. Information about people goes in the character profiles: appearance, character traits, favourite food, favourite books, etc. you never know when these little personal details may get mentioned. I also organise by location: information on church interiors, London, Rome, Hampton Court, Greenwich, the Mary Rose. And by theme: War, Trade, Proverbs, Catholicism, Protestantism, Agriculture, Disease.

Also organise your literal notes. I wrote snippets of dialogue on the backs of receipts. Worse. Down the sides of receipts. The FRONT of receipts. Take time to move notes from your phone to your computer.

Bibliography as you go along

It just saves time. And it’s nice to watch the list get longer.

Write a summary as you go along

Having to summarise at the end is just too daunting because either you worry you missed something out or you have to read the whole thing over again. Whereas if you write a detailed summary as you go along, adjusting it as you change things, it helps you to keep track of your plot beats and what’s happened so far AND for your final summary, you boil down your detailed summary to its essentials, which is easier than writing from scratch, if you ask me.

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Biblical Femininity

The Bible offers quite a bit of wisdom and guidance on various aspects of femininity, highlighting the value and beauty of women as created by God. While there may not be specific traits and characteristics of femininity within the Bible, it does offer insight to how women can live in a way that honors God and reflects His design of the divine woman.

🎀 Dignity & Worth

It is written in Genesis 1:27 - "So God created man in his own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female, He created them." This verse emphasizes that both men & women are created in the image of God, highlighting the dignity and worth of women.

❣️ Strength & Character

Proverbs 31:25-26 praises a woman's strength & dignity - "Strength & dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teachings of kindness is on her tongue." This passage illustrates that femininity can encompass qualities such as strength, wisdom, and kindness.

🎀 Modesty & Inner Beauty

1 Peter 3:3-4 encourages women to focus on inner beauty rather than external adornment. - "Do not let your adorning be external - the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear - but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious."

❣️ Nurturing & Compassion

Titus 2:3-5 instructs older women to teach younger women to love their husbands and children, be self controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their husbands. - "The older women likewise, that they be reverant in behavior, not slanderers, not given too much wine, teacher of good things- that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphamed." This passage highlights the importance of nurturing relationships & demonstrating compassion in daily life.

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Quiet Time 8/20

What am I feeling today?

I had a bit of a nightmare last night and I also spent wayyy too much time in bed today. Got up around noon which is hours later than I wanted to. I just feel like I’m in a depressive episode. I just don’t really feel much lately, numb and out of it but I need to get back in the rhythm of things! I’ll work on a study for my heart today and I’ll talk through these empty feelings w my discipler.

Six Keys to Sexual Purity

Key #6 - Seek Accountability Partners to Help with Temptation

Having friends who are on the same journey is always a plus when you want to avoid temptation. You can help each other stay focused on your goals. Just remember to be honest, transparent, supportive, and trustworthy.

When seeking an accountability partner, you should have standards, set expectations, and establish boundaries. Your accountability partner should be someone who is of the same sex. Selecting a same-sex accountability partner is major because there are instances when temptation can arise when opposite-sex accountability partners connect. Your accountability partner should also be someone who will tell you the truth–even if it hurts. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Without counsel, plans fail, but with many advisers, they succeed" (ESV). If you're trying to live a pure life, you should seek counsel from someone whose life reflects the fruit associated with Godly living, not someone who isn't even trying to walk in sexual purity.

We want to offer you a few tips to make the most of your accountability partnership:

Tip 1: Plan and Set Aside a Designated Time for Check-in

Discuss expectations when you first connect. Identify a regular time to meet; determine how you'll meet (e.g., video chat, call, text); and decide how long you'll meet (e.g., 15 minutes, 30 minutes). Put the designated time on your calendar, and treat it as a fixed appointment.

Tip 2: Share Your Journey

Be vulnerable and honest with your struggles. We overcome the enemy by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony, and we love not our lives to the death. This means, to experience true freedom, you must share your testimony.

Tip 3: Choose One Thing to Conquer

Sometimes, attempts to overcome multiple issues all at once lead to failure. Instead, create accountability sessions that focus on one problem at a time. This method will help you better track your progress and communicate strengths and challenges to your partner without being overwhelmed.

Tip 4: Celebrate Your Wins

Base all of your communication around positive reinforcement. This doesn't mean you're both perfect and everything is great. This means every step in the right direction toward purity should be acknowledged and applauded.

Tip 5: Be Willing to Change Partners

If your partner starts to disappear or misses a scheduled time on more than one occasion, politely end the partnership. Take responsibility and notify your partner that the partnership isn't working out for you. Then pray and ask God to connect you with someone more compatible. Time is of the essence. There is no time to waste, especially if you're serious about your purity journey.

These are just a few tips to get you started with your accountability partner. Please feel free to adjust as needed and create a mutually beneficial plan.

Reflection:

Do you have an accountability partner? If not, ask God to connect you with other Believers who can help support and encourage you on the journey.

I do!🙂‍↕️ Everyone who is a member of our church is assigned a discipler. They are basically someone who serves as a mentor, teacher, and someone to hold us accountable. We meet every single week and strive for daily communication because Christianity is not something that you can do on your own. You need the community and the church (although, this does not replace your personal relationship with God).

Proverbs 27:6 NIV

“Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.”

I think sometimes people struggle with this. We know that there are times when we make mistakes or need correction and when it comes from a friend it is out of love because they care about us, this is no malicious intent behind it and we shouldn’t treat as if it is.

Proverbs 15:22 NIV

“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”

This is very important! we might think that we know the correct way or that our plans are right, but we must seek counsel from God in prayer and from other righteous people. They may have advice or insight that you have not seen. Or maybe, some people refuse counsel because they either know that their plan is wrong or for fear that they’ll be given advice they don’t want. For the sake of your righteous, seek counsel no matter what.

Psalm 1:1-3 NIV

“Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither— whatever they do prospers.”

Our goal and our desire should be to delight in the Lord! Cherishing and reading His word night and day instead of being caught up in the wickedness of the world. I want to be this person again. I used to be so fired up for Him but I feel that my flame has dimmed considerably. I’m trying to reignite my passion and I’m making progress but I’m still a far way off. Please pray for my heart in this area.

1 Peter 3:15 NIV

“But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,”

Sometimes I think about this and the only reason I can give is that it’s the truth. Women studied the Bible with me and taught me so much and I witnessed my life and my character transform into something new and time and time again God has listened to me, and answered my prayers, and blessed me even through my times of hardship. I know that it is nothing I have done but all through God working in my life. I pray that all of you

1 Thessalonians 5:11 NIV

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”

‭‭there is great importance in this actually! There’s another scripture in Hebrews where it says we must encourage one another daily in order to protect our hearts from sin.

Proverbs 27:17 NIV

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

Just a reiteration that we cannot do this alone. That we need other people to hold us accountable and being open with each other so we can help one another in our journeys.

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DWC 1: Appearance

In the decade of monk training, Sun had little time for vanity. Naturally, some predisposition towards style was innate, but the golden eyed elf had spent so much time in a temple with the rare visitor. Until his pilgrimage to return to Silvermoon, he had not really worn much outside of his gi that his master required of him. When he did leave, he decided to make his weapon of choice, iron-spoked tessen fans, an instrument for street performance to fund his journey. Thus, his wardrobe was a mix of practicality for combat and some expression of his own style. He had gotten his nipples pierced, and found most clothing to irritate him, so if he could help it, he often went without a shirt. His hands and feet were often wrapped to make hand-to-hand combat simpler, and outside of that, he had hand-dyed garments of blues and golds to match the paintings on his fans. All of this was topped off with ornamental beads, awarded to him by his master for completion of his training, which he wore proudly, and were infused with oils to help him focus and keep relaxed; this aids his overall cheerful disposition.

Since returning to Silvermoon, he's found a mixed reaction to his attire. Most people do not bring it up, which he is appreciative of. Though, he does get the odd comment: Haven't seen a handsome elf like you around. By the Light, put a damned shirt on!

You think you're so tough, showing off like that?

These comments roll off Sun's back for the most part, and have died down over the weeks since he's been back. It likely helps that he's been on the streets of the bazaar with a bag in front of him, dancing along to an enchanted erhu that he brought with him from Pandaria.

His performances are often times meditations for him, and recently he used it to reflect on the very idea of his appearance. Many teachings and proverbs came back to him from the past decade. He did not need to justify his outfit. He did not need to plan it out with any sense of practicality in mind, or to impress the audiences who watched him dance. Feeling his own confidence when he moved; seeing his favorite shade of blue reflect in the midday sun; enjoying how the colors of his outfit matched the paintings on his tessen; all of this brought him joy. And as the crowd tossed their coins into the bag and clapped for him, he was resolved to not let anyone influence his joy. (First drabble for my boy, and first submission for this @daily-writing-challenge

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In Your Heart, Out of Your Mouth

“But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.”

Matthew 15.18-19 (ESV)

 

What you say reflects what’s in your heart, and what’s in your heart points to what you meditate on. It can be good or it can be evil, but what you believe, think about, and desire in your heart will overflow out of your mouth. Luke 6.45 states, “The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.”

Your heart is the center of your being. You cannot allow your heart to meditate on evil thoughts and works. This condition of the heart will only produce words out of your mouth that will defile you. You must always be on guard to protect it because it will lead you astray if you leave it unchecked and out of alignment with the Word of God. Proverbs 4.23 states, “Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.”

As a born-again believer, you must be watchful of the condition of your heart and the overflow that comes out of your mouth because it matters to God. If you want what you speak and the meditations of your heart to please the Lord, you must align your heart with the Word of God by having a genuine love for it and thinking about it consistently (Psalm 19.14). Psalm 1.2-3 states, a person is blessed when “his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on His law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water that yields its fruit in its season, and its leaf does not wither. In all he does, he prospers.”

To align your heart with the Word of God, you must be cautious about what you allow to influence you - what you see, what you hear, and what you think about affects your heart, which will steer the course of your life. When any thought contrary to the Word of God comes to your mind, be vigilant by actively taking it "captive to obey Christ” and think about what is “true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, excellent, and praiseworthy” by reading the Word of God daily (2 Corinthians 10.5, Philippians 4.9).

The confession of your mouth will also impact the trajectory of your life. What you allow your heart to meditate on will lead your mouth in the direction of death or life, good or evil, blessing or cursing. Proverbs 18.20-21 states, “From the fruit of a man’s mouth his stomach is satisfied; he is satisfied by the yield of his lips. Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” The choice is yours, but God advises us to "choose life, that you and your offspring may live" (Deuteronomy 30.19).

Joshua 1.8 states, "This Book of the Law shall not depart out of your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, that you may observe and do according to all that is written in it. For then you shall make your way prosperous, and then you shall deal wisely and have good success." The words of your mouth are determined by the condition of your heart, therefore, you must hide the Word of God in your heart for it to never depart from your mouth. When the Word of God is in your mouth, it will produce righteous fruit and make you prosper and succeed. You must determine in your heart to align what you believe and what you speak with the Word of God. Then, the good treasure of your heart will produce good out of your mouth.

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Proverbs Daily Reflection – January 29, 2025

Joseph had a vision (Genesis 37)—even when thrown into a pit and imprisoned, he held on to what God revealed to him. Eventually, that vision led to the salvation of an entire nation. #josephmekaelpageministries

The Power of Vision: A Biblical Teaching on Proverbs 29:18 Proverbs 29:18 (KJV) “Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.” Understanding the Verse This scripture reveals a foundational truth: Without vision, people are lost. The word “vision” here refers to divine revelation—God’s guidance for life. When people lack purpose, direction, and God’s…

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Dawn and Dusk: Scriptures, Devotions, and Prayers. Inspired by Charles Spurgeon's Morning and Evening

Bold Spirits, Patient Hearts

Do you ever feel perplexed about the decisions in your life? Have you felt confused about the right path to take? How often do you feel torn between one duty and another?

Wait patiently for the LORD; be strong and courageous. Wait patiently for the LORD! — Psalm 27:14

Waiting on the Lord may appear simple, but it is a posture that a Christian soldier only learns after many years of training. Marching and charging come easier to God's warriors than standing still. During perplexing times, the most willing spirit, eager to serve the Lord, may not know what action to take.

So, what should one do during these times? Should one agonize in despair? Should one retreat in cowardice, turn to fear, or charge forward in presumption? No, the answer is to simply wait. But this waiting should not be passive. Instead, one should wait in prayer. Speak to God, lay your troubles before Him, voice your struggles, and invoke His promise of assistance.

In predicaments between different duties, it is wise to be as humble as a child and to wait with a simple soul for the Lord. If you recognize your own folly and are wholly willing to be led by the will of God, you can be assured of His blessings. However, this waiting should be done in faith. Express your unwavering trust in Him. Believe that even if He keeps you waiting until midnight, He will arrive at the right time.

Wait with quiet patience, even with gratitude to God for the delay. Do not grumble about the immediate cause, as the children of Israel did against Moses. Accept your current situation and wholeheartedly commit it to your covenant God, saying, "Now, Lord, not my will, but Yours be done. I am at my wits' end, but I will wait until You part the waters, or push back my foes. I will wait, even if it takes many days, because my heart is fixed upon You alone, O God."

Lord, in my waiting, strengthen my spirit. Guide my actions with Your divine wisdom. May my patience reveal Your perfect timing. Let my faith in You be my joy, my salvation, and my refuge.

Questions for Reflection

How can you apply the principle of waiting on the Lord in your daily life?

How might patient waiting strengthen your relationship with God?

What does it mean to wait on God with an attitude of gratitude?

How can you find peace in times of perplexity?

How can you express your unwavering trust in God during times of waiting?

What are the challenges you face in learning to wait patiently on God?

Can you recall a time when waiting on God resulted in a better outcome than if you had acted immediately?

How does the knowledge of God's perfect timing impact your decisions and actions?

In what ways can humility play a role in your waiting process?

Supporting Scriptures

Isaiah 40:31: But those who wait upon the LORD will renew their strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint.

Psalm 37:7: Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for Him; do not fret when men prosper in their ways, when they carry out wicked schemes.

Proverbs 20:22: Do not say, “I will avenge this evil!” Wait on the LORD, and He will save you.

Isaiah 30:18: Therefore the LORD longs to be gracious to you; therefore He rises to show you compassion, for the LORD is a just God. Blessed are all who wait for Him.

Lamentations 3:25: The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him.

James 5:7: Be patient, then, brothers, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer awaits the precious fruit of the soil—how patient he is for the fall and spring rains.

Psalm 130:5: I wait for the LORD; my soul does wait, and in His word I put my hope.

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Daily Devotionals for November 28, 2024

Proverbs: God's Wisdom for Daily Living

Devotional Scripture:

Proverbs 29:5-7 (KJV): 5 A man that flattereth his neighbour spreadeth a net for his feet. 6 In the transgression of an evil man there is a snare: but the righteous doth sing and rejoice. 7 The righteous considereth the cause of the poor: but the wicked regardeth not to know it.

Proverbs 29:5-7 (AMP): 5 A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his own feet. 6 In the transgression of an evil man there is a snare, but the (uncompromisingly) righteous man sings and rejoices. 7 The (consistently) righteous man knows and cares for the rights of the poor, but the wicked man has no interest in such knowledge.

Thought for the Day:

Verses 5-6 - Hunters in ancient times used nets in several ways to ensnare birds and animals. In the same way, flatterers can spread two sorts of spiritual nets, setting a snare for others. With one net, a flatterer manipulates people to do what he wants. With the other, he entangles them in pride. The one who has these nets set for him can escape them through discernment and God's guidance. Eventually, all flatterers will be tripped by their own nets.

An evil man's sin is like a snare, for it influences and entraps others to sin with him. This is how many people have fallen into a snare of drinking and partying, becoming addicted to alcohol, drugs, or crime. They may not have had an interest in taking drugs, drinking, or stealing until friends encouraged them to join them. For this reason, it is very important to choose your friends wisely. Bad companions will corrupt good people.

Verse 7 - A wicked person is selfish. His world revolves completely around his own desires. He does not care about the poor, and he has no interest in helping the needy. The Bible tells us that "the poor shall never cease out of any land" (Deuteronomy 15:11). As long as sinful man reigns on earth, he will make decisions and actions that create poverty, and thus there will always be poor people. Only Christ can establish true justice and provide abundantly for all His subjects, thereby eradicating poverty. Only when Christ returns to earth and reigns during the Millennium, will poverty cease because the Lord told us we would always have the poor to minister to. "For ye have the poor with you always, and whensoever ye will ye may do them good: but me ye have not always" (Mark 14:7). We are called to reflect God's heart to the world and the poor, to be compassionate as Jesus was. The strong are to help the weak.

We cannot truly follow Christ and ignore the needy or the helpless. In Israel, "the poor, the orphan, and the widow" described the most destitute and helpless of the people. Today, the most helpless among us are unborn children, murdered by abortion in atrociously painful ways, usually for convenience or out of the ignorance of their parents. The Bible teaches that we are to overcome selfishness, not encourage it. We must do all we can to reverse the laws in our countries that allow abortions so freely. "So ye shall not pollute the land wherein ye are: for blood it defileth the land: and the land cannot be cleansed of the blood that is shed therein, but by the blood of him that shed it" (Numbers 35:33).

Prayer Devotional for the Day:

Dear Father in heaven, thank You for Your great mercy and compassion toward us. Lord, create in us that same heart of compassion that You possess; not only for Your children, but also for the poor and needy. Use us to reach out and help them both physically and spiritually. Give us heartfelt love for those who are suffering in the world, and anoint us to share the gospel with them so that they might know You. Forgive us for our selfishness, and deliver our land from the curse that abortion and murder bring on a nation. May this evil cease in this country and all other nations in the world. I ask this in the name of Jesus. Amen. Good Morning World and Happy Thanksgiving; 11/28/2024 6:59:27 AM. From: Steven P. Miller, @ParkermillerQ,   gatekeeperwatchman.org, TM, ‎Founder and Administrator of Gatekeeper-Watchman International Groups., #GWIG, #GWIN, #GWINGO, #Sparkermiller, www.facebook.com/gatekeeperwatchnan www.facebook.com/ Instagram: steven_parker_miller_1956

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Un breve resumen: judíos y musulmanes en Marruecos

🇪🇸 El primer capítulo de "Judíos y musulmanes en Marruecos: sus mundos interrelacionados," editado por Joseph Chetrit, Jane S. Gerber y Drora Aarussy, explora la rica interacción cultural y política entre judíos y musulmanes en Marruecos. La conferencia "Uncommon Commonalities: Jews and Muslims in Morocco," organizada en junio de 2019 en Nueva York por el "American Sephardi Federation Institute of Jewish Experience," reunió a académicos de diversas partes del mundo para examinar esta interacción. La presencia judía en Marruecos se remonta al siglo VIII a.C., con la guerrera/priestisa Kahina resistiendo las conquistas musulmanas. Durante la Edad Media, la vida judía en Fez se vio enriquecida por correspondencias con estudiosos en Irak, conservadas en la Geniza de El Cairo. A pesar de enfrentar restricciones y el impuesto de jizya, los judíos marroquíes mantuvieron una vibrante vida cultural que incluía poesía, música y rituales compartidos con sus vecinos musulmanes. La colonización francesa en el siglo XX trajo cambios significativos, y aunque la comunidad judía marroquí ha disminuido de más de 250,000 en 1956 a aproximadamente 2,500 hoy en día, su influencia persiste en las comunidades judías en Israel, Francia, Canadá y Estados Unidos.

El capítulo también aborda la profunda influencia mutua en el ámbito lingüístico y cultural, destacando la interacción a través del "Darija" y el uso de múltiples lenguas en la vida cotidiana. Las mujeres judías adoptaron proverbios musulmanes y poesía oral beduina, mientras que el poeta israelí Najara (1555-1628) fusionó melodías árabes con poesía litúrgica hebrea. En el contexto político, la caída de Granada en 1492 y la posterior expulsión de los judíos de España llevaron a una migración significativa hacia Marruecos, aunque la recepción no siempre fue acogedora. Las fuentes históricas y crónicas reflejan un panorama complejo de desafíos y adaptaciones para los refugiados. A pesar de las dificultades, los judíos en Marruecos lograron establecer comunidades prósperas y transformar sus tradiciones culturales.

🇺🇸 The first chapter of "Jews and Muslims in Morocco: Their Intersecting Worlds," edited by Joseph Chetrit, Jane S. Gerber, and Drora Aarussy, explores the rich cultural and political interactions between Jews and Muslims in Morocco. The conference "Uncommon Commonalities: Jews and Muslims in Morocco," held in June 2019 in New York by the "American Sephardi Federation Institute of Jewish Experience," gathered scholars from around the world to examine these interactions. Jewish presence in Morocco dates back to the 8th century BCE, with the warrior-priestess Kahina resisting Muslim conquests. During the medieval period, Jewish life in Fez was enriched by correspondence with scholars in Iraq, preserved in the Cairo Geniza. Despite facing restrictions and the jizya tax, Moroccan Jews maintained a vibrant cultural life, including shared poetry, music, and rituals with their Muslim neighbors. French colonization in the 20th century brought significant changes, and although the Jewish community in Morocco has decreased from over 250,000 in 1956 to approximately 2,500 today, its influence remains in Jewish communities in Israel, France, Canada, and the United States.

The chapter also addresses the profound linguistic and cultural influence between Jews and Muslims, highlighting interactions through "Darija" and the use of multiple languages in daily life. Jewish women adopted Muslim proverbs and Bedouin oral poetry, while the poet Israel Najara (1555-1628) blended Arabic melodies with Hebrew liturgical poetry. In the political context, the fall of Granada in 1492 and the subsequent expulsion of Jews from Spain led to significant migration to Morocco, although the reception was not always welcoming. Historical sources and chronicles reflect a complex picture of challenges and adaptations for the refugees. Despite these difficulties, Jews in Morocco succeeded in establishing prosperous communities and transforming their cultural traditions.

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Why Fame Demands Spiritual Protection

Why Fame Demands Spiritual Protection

January 24, 2025

In today’s hyperconnected world, the level of scrutiny and attention that comes with fame is both unprecedented and alarming. This thought was prompted by a tweet I came across recently, predicting Elon Musk’s death in six months via a Tesla explosion. The casualness of this prediction—whether intended as a joke or a serious claim—was appalling. It shocked me deeply, not just because of the morbidity but because it made me wonder: how much negative energy do high-profile individuals encounter daily?

For people who don’t rely on the power of Jesus Christ for spiritual protection, this negativity must inevitably seep into their lives, causing harm we might not immediately recognize. Fame, it seems, opens a door to more than just adoration and success; it subjects individuals to the thoughts and words of millions—not all of them well-meaning. It’s terrifying to think about the sheer volume of careless, even malicious, words spoken into the universe about public figures.

The Power of Words

Growing up, I was always taught that “life and death are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21). Words, whether spoken in jest or in anger, carry weight. They hold the potential to shape reality, even when we don’t realize it. Personally, I make it a point to instantly rebuke any words spoken against my life and destiny in the name of Jesus. But what about the words I don’t hear? What about the thoughts and comments I’ll never know exist? These questions are troubling, especially when considering the vast audiences that famous individuals reach. Celebrities live under a magnifying glass, and every move they make is analyzed, critiqued, and sometimes maliciously attacked.

Fame as a Double-Edged Sword

Fame opens people up in ways they might not anticipate. It’s not just about visibility; it’s about vulnerability. When you’re a public figure, people feel entitled to say anything about you. Whether it’s a harmless rumor or a death prediction, the sheer recklessness with which people wield their words is concerning. And while public figures may seem distant, the energy of those words can still reach them—affecting their mental, emotional, and even physical well-being.

For those who have not anchored themselves in Jesus Christ, the onslaught of negativity must be overwhelming. I believe that prayer and faith in Christ—calling upon His name for protection and strength—are essential for anyone navigating fame. Without it, the constant barrage of opinions, judgments, and even outright curses can create an unseen yet deeply felt toll.

My Personal Reflection

As someone who will gain more notoriety and public recognition in the future, I often wonder how I’ll manage the inevitable wave of attention. Will I be able to shield myself from the negative energy that comes with it? Is fame something I’m even prepared to handle? These questions linger in my mind, reminding me of the importance of building a strong spiritual foundation now, before the storm of attention arrives. I’ve learned that rebuking negative energy isn’t just a practice—it’s a necessity for maintaining peace and clarity. My strength will always come from my faith in Jesus, who is my refuge and shield (Psalm 91:2).

Accountability for Loose Words

It’s not just the targets of negativity who should be concerned. Those who speak loosely, carelessly throwing out harmful words, should be equally afraid. Life has a way of reflecting back the energy we put into the world. You can’t consistently talk negatively about people and expect to lead a prosperous life. Galatians 6:7 reminds us, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.” What we sow in words and actions will come back to us, whether for good or ill.

As a society, we need to recognize the weight of our words. Fame does not strip people of their humanity. If anything, it amplifies their vulnerability. Whether we’re speaking about someone in jest or anger, we must remember that words have the power to build up or tear down.

A Call to Action

To anyone reading this, whether you’re famous or not, I encourage you to examine how you speak about others. Be intentional with your words and mindful of their power. For those navigating fame or aspiring to achieve it, prioritize your spiritual protection. Ground yourself in the Word of God, and seek His guidance and strength to shield you from negativity. As 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”

And to those who feel tempted to speak ill of others, consider the energy you’re inviting into your own life. If we all chose our words more carefully and spoke with Christ-like love, imagine how much lighter the world might feel.

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Vibrant Hope: Building Healthy Relationships

Sunday 15/9/2024

Ephesians 4:2-3 (NIV): "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace."

This passage emphasizes the importance of humility, gentleness, and patience in relationships. It encourages believers to actively work towards unity and peace, suggesting that healthy relationships require effort and a Christ-like attitude.

Types of Relationships

- Friendships: Bonds formed between peers based on mutual respect and shared interests.

- Family Relationships: Connections based on kinship, including parent-child and sibling dynamics.

- Romantic Relationships: Intimate partnerships that often lead to marriage.

- Professional Relationships: Interactions in the workplace that require professionalism and respect.

- Community Relationships: Connections within a church or local community, fostering a sense of belonging.

Scripture on Good Relationships and How to Maintain Them

Colossians 3:13-14 (NIV): "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity."

How to Maintain Good Relationships:

- Practice forgiveness.

- Show love and compassion.

- Communicate openly and honestly.

- Support one another in times of need.

Related Scriptures

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 7 describes love as patient, kind, and not self-seeking. This is often read at weddings to exemplify romantic love but applies to all types of relationships.

Proverbs 27:17: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." This verse highlights the importance of having friends who challenge and encourage us.

Application

Believers are called to embody Christ-like qualities in their relationships. This means:

- Actively practicing humility and patience in daily interactions.

- Prioritizing forgiveness to overcome conflicts.

- Engaging in community service to strengthen bonds within the church.

Prayer Points

- For Humility: "Lord, help me to be humble in my relationships, putting others before myself."

- For Patience: "Grant me patience, Lord, to bear with others and to approach conflicts with love."

- For Forgiveness: "Teach me to forgive as You have forgiven me, releasing any grudges I hold."

- For Unity: "Help us to maintain unity within our community, fostering peace and love among us."

- For Growth: "Guide me to build relationships that sharpen and encourage me in my faith."

By focusing on these scriptures and principles, believers can cultivate strong, healthy relationships that reflect Christ's love and teachings.

By Pastor AK Mannah