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[Quanti generi di diversità?][Irene Biemmi]
"Quanti generi di diversità?" di Irene Biemmi affronta le discriminazioni legate all'orientamento sessuale e all'identità di genere. L'opera interdisciplinare offre nuovi approcci per contrastare l'omofobia e la transfobia.
Combattere l’omofobia e la transfobia: strumenti e strategie per una società più inclusiva Titolo: Quanti generi di diversità? Promuovere nuovi linguaggi, rappresentazioni e saperi per educare alle differenze e prevenire l’omofobia e la transfobiaScritto da: Irene BiemmiEdito da: Firenze University PressAnno: 2024Pagine: 140ISBN: 9791221503616 La sinossi di Quanti generi di diversità? di Irene…
#2024#Barbara Mapelli#Federico Batini#Firenze University Press#Floriana Fabbri#gay#gender#Gender Education#gender studies#Giuseppe Burgio#Irene Biemmi#Irene Dora Maria Scierri#Italia#LGBT#LGBT equality#LGBTQ#libri gay#Margherita Graglia#Matteo Mammini#nonfiction#omofobia#Paolo Gusmeroli#Prevention of Homophobia#Promuovere nuovi linguaggi#Quanti generi di diversità?#rappresentazioni e saperi per educare alle differenze e prevenire l&039;omofobia e la transfobia#Saggi#Saggistica#Transfobia#Vera Gheno
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Honestly, the "gay voice" and the "tranny voice" are both so fucking beautiful and stunning. Frankly, those are the voices I would rather hear than somebody who is complaining about the way queer people exist and speak. Those voices are what I want to hear serenaded to me, to hear express joy and pain and love, and hear exist. Those are the voices that are most gorgeous.
#queer#lgbt#lgbtq#watching a video by somebody with a 'gay voice' and it's refreshing. like a pitcher of ice-cold lemonade on a 100°F/37°C afternoon#it's just weird because people who complain about 'stereotypical' queer voices act like it's a crime???#like its a genuine horrific experience that somebody has a voice that is deemed 'stereotypical'#i was a section leader with a guy with THE gayest voice and i adored that his gayness bled into the way he spoke#i just loved the idea of being So Understanding of yourself that you let it overcome you#and at the time i was starting to internalize so much transphobia and homophobia...#...and i prevented myself from existing so boldly. part of me envied him for his unapologetic gayness#i thought that kind of openess wasn't to be afforded to me because i hadn't earned it
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sorry to ramble in your inbox (feel free to ignore this ofc) but you are the only person on my dash being realistic about misogyny rn
I'm so annoyed by the posts like "men are being ignored by women and that's why they aren't supporting us". Because the feminist movement for over a decade has had a focus on supporting men, especially with mental health. And there's a whole month (this month!) that is focused around men's health (mostly physical but with some mental as well). And women are all over the internet encouraging men to do things like go to therapy. The list goes on.
and the fact that they know (or acknowledge) none of that shows how much posturing it all is.
"complete strangers made generalizations I didn't like on the internet so it's their fault I'm a misogynist" I am going to scream.
god i can’t stand how much the feminist movement centers men. I feel like honestly part of the problem is ppl don’t see women as a marginalized group even when women are clearly facing really brutal oppression, bc subconsciously they think that’s how it’s supposed to be.
And like , when they acknowledge women as oppressed, its never acknowledged as being done by men— there’s always some invisible boogeyman doing it: ��the government” or “capitalism” or “society”. All these very vague gender neutral concepts.
The fact that it’s taboo to actually acknowledge women have an oppressor and that oppressor is MEN drives me insane. Among leftist groups it’s at its most hypocritical. They are so clearly able to understand oppression, and the dynamic between oppressed and oppressor…until it’s women. Then suddenly we’re equal apparently.
And that’s something men want, that’s why they push so hard for this narrative that “men’s issues are different but just as bad” (even tho that’s 100% fucking false lmao) because it means that they’re distanced from accountability, and women aren’t suffering anymore than them so really those bitches should just shut up about it.
It’s disgusting and intentional and I encourage any woman reading this to stop caring about “mens rights”. They already have rights.
It’s like, think about how offended ppl were when straight ppl requested their own month. Think about how blatantly racist it sounds when white ppl try to imply they’re oppressed for being white.
now unpack why you don’t feel that way with mennn
#ask tag#sexism#sorry this is only kind of related to the ask 😭#I hope more ppl are anti sexist on ur dash anon#Also ok i generally dislike using racism as an argument when it’s about smth that isnt about racism#bc I’m indigenous and it annoys me so much when ppl just use it as a “gotcha”#Like the amount of times white ppl use anti-native and anti-black racism as an easy gotcha move is crazy#BUT when it’s about sexism and hypocrisy in talking about women’s oppression#I’ll bring it up#Bc also the way sexism and racism function is way more similar than anyone talks about#Not identical but the whole hating you from birth outcasting you for your appearance making you seem uneducated and uncivilised#While simultaneously preventing you from getting an education so you stay uneducated and therefore easy to control and keep down#Fetishizing and killing you as a powerplay#Keeping you from voting keeping you from seeing any significant power#Unfair imprisonment (like how despite less women ending up in jail they tend to be there for more minor crimes with longer sentences)#Being systematically forced into poverty and having your body systemically controlled#(Note - specifically talking about cis women here. For trans women it’s a mix of some of this and a lot of really brutal homophobia)#Anyway#Oh also police brutality especially against female DV survivors#It just shocks me how ppl talk about sexism
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some folks are discussing fandom infighting, but I haven’t still seen any examples of wolfwren stans sending hate. I scrolled through every comment on the Ahsoka casts’ posts (yes all of them) and the only hate I saw was homophobia aimed at wolfwren.
does anyone have examples & links to wolfwren fans being toxic? so we as a community can block them + make sure they understand they aren’t welcome in the fandom? I have dozens of tangible examples of the vile hate people have sent to wolfwren stans (x x x) and a long list of transphobes/homophobes if anyone wants a block list.
#wolfwren#to be completely honest#I’m tired of the “both sides” argument once again when I can’t find any actual hate towards cishet ships#and i mean actual HATE & not silly “RIP [shipname here]” or “those characters are fam not romantic.”#so if someone is doing it I want to know so we can prevent them from being in the community because they are not welcome.#also- don't forget being called homophobic is *not* the same as discriminated against for being gay.#yes it hurts to be queer and called homophobic BUT that doesn't mean you weren't being homophobic. anyone can perpetuate harm#just like any women can be misogynist & have internalized misogyny- any member of the LGBTQIA+ can perpetuate homophobia + transphobia.#nobody gets an “out” for being in the community. if you are queer and called homophobic it's perhaps time to reflect#on if you do happen to have any unchecked biases from the comphet society around you.#text
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why are you as a straight man going into confined spaces. what use do you have for entering manholes
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trying to hold it together but… just read about Nex Benedict (may their memory be a blessing) who was a Native non-binary teen murdered in their high school bathroom in Oklahoma.
thinking of Akira Ross, a Black queer woman murdered in Texas, less than an hour from me.
thinking of all the queer & trans young people in the south who die at the hands of bigots.
just feeling really fucking sad and sick to my stomach.
#i just#a child murdered by other children#because of the hateful ideology being spread rampant#because of the system of colonialism + capitalism that necessitates gender heirarchies to continue its function#because of white supremacy#i’m just crying because like what the fuck else can i do#i will burn insence and candles#i will say a prayer#and i will ask to be given the opportunity to prevent the loss of another precious queer life#i’m just fucking#so overwhelmed with grief#tw murder#tw transphobia#tw homophobia#cw death#nex benedict#akira ross#southern queer
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I just wanted to remind all the homophobes that we can’t “learn to be straight” and we WERE in fact born this way, we didn’t just wake up one day and decide “hmm maybe I’ll be gay for attention and to be not like the other girls” so shut the fuck up!!!
(A little more of a personal experience under the cut, TW: mentions of suicide)
As someone who has in fact experienced hate from my family about being part of the lgbtq community it’s hard and really discouraging to hear comments about how “no one actually likes gay people they just pretend to” or that “gay people need to drop the act and just be normal” and threatening to disown me and saying that I’m going to hell just because of who I love. And this might be a little personal but it’s the reason I tried to off myself twice in middle school FUCKING MIDDLE SCHOOL, no 13 year old should feel the need to off themselves to avoid the hate from family just because they like someone of the same gender. Fuck homophobes.
#fuck homophobia#sending love to all members of the lgbtq community#gay#lesbian#queer#asexual#bisexual#pansexual#demisexual#suicide prevention#more serious post but I had to say this
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there was a tornado by my work (i'm fine) so i haven't been able to check yet is robbie playing tonight please say yes. you can lie if you need to
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for someone who claims not to be homophobic there sure are a lot of y'all feeling way too comfortable throwing around homophobic language specifically targeted at lfjr
#like why do you feel the need to insult a man for not letting himself be limited by toxic masculinity#are we really back in middle school where guys are being called gay to insult and degrade them?#idgaf if you don't like him#there's just no reason to use homophobic language on him#bc he won't care as he probably will never see it#but other people see you say these things and lemme just say it's not a good look#also if you constantly have to double down on the claim that you're not homophobic maybe it's time to stop and think#like if people keep calling you that maybe just maybe you're out of line#you CAN be homophobic even if you're queer yourself bc homophobia is more than just 'lol i hate gay ppl'#being queer is not a magic armor that prevents you from having to face any consequences for asshole behavior#also not tagging anything bc this is literally just me venting about toxic fans so i don't have to keep it inside lmao
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wish i weren't mildly allergic to longform television. i need to rewatch bbc merlin and throw up blood again
#would help if bbc merlin were good.#well it is. except it isn't. you know how it is 🖤#anyway... i miss watching merlin commit crimes against humanity out of internalised homophobia#and then doing an 'I could not prevent it :(((' routine to rival the vampire armand#WHILE everything around him did indeed conspire to make that his fate!!!#bbc merlin
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Two things that are simultaneously true:
1. Gender and sexuality are complex and can be fluid. An identity isn't always fixed and can change with time for many reasons
2. It is not acceptable to force others to change their gender or sexuality and the mantra that they (queer people) can change if they only "try hard" is both cruel and homophobia and/or transphobia
#queer#lgbt#lgbtq#homophobia#homophobia tw#transphobia#transphobia tw#when i first came out as trans i was told this story about how my dad's therapist had a lesbian client with homophobic parents...#...how her parents were *so close* to coming to terms with her lesbianism and she got a boyfriend and look! she changed so why couldn't you!#the thing that was so fucked up about that story was that it was presented as 'oh you don't know who you are! you'll change!'#and i was never listened to until i went 'so far' in my transness that changing was impractical...#...it never enforced that my sense of self is dynamic but that who i was is something to be 'fixed'#i think a lot of queer people are hostile to the idea of gender/sexuality fluidity because it's framed in such a way...#...that tells them that their queerness will eventually be 'cured'...#...so any notion of 'identity can be fluid' reads like 'your queerness is a flaw and a horrible thing'...#...but that's not the solution to people whose identity has fluctuated and changed...#...it isn't their fault that queerphobes latched onto them as 'case studies' to prove that queerness is curable...#...a queerphobe would latch onto ANYTHING in order to prevent you from living...#...'oh lesbians married men in order to protect themselves? why can't you do that?! why must you insist on marrying a woman?!'...#...that's an example of how they'd just latch onto something else if 'identity is dynamic' didn't exist#the context of 'identity is dynamic' is often one of the most important factors in if it is meant as queer-afirming or not ime
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CW: homophobia, sexism, racism, ageism, incest, emotional abuse….
Men have such a victim complex about relationships because of the association of the “nerd” stereotype with maleness. It really has lowered the bar for men so much.
My guy friend was making a joke about how he’s not attractive and supposedly can’t get women. His sister had to remind him that he has slept with multiple women before and has had multiple girlfriends before and has had “friends with benefits” and his longest relationship was over 3years! He was able to get these women in spite of the fact that he clearly has a misogynistic sense of entitlement to women. 🙄
His sister who is more conventionally attractive than him but has still never dated had to remind him of that. 🙄
This man has also:
. Mocked women’s asses for not being big enough
. Made jokes about being entitled to blowjobs
. Mocked women for not giving good enough blowjobs
. Mocked women’s vaginas for not being good enough (especially older women)
. Publicly shamed, blamed, and guilt tripped a woman who rejected him for his suicide attempt (common manipulation tactic)
. Publicly shamed and guilt tripped his ex girlfriend in the middle of game night because she hadn’t sent him nudes yet! 🙄
. Uses misogynistic slurs as long as they include “white” in front of them
. Laughs at rape scenes in movies
. Makes incest and beastiality jokes about the south and mocks southern accents (he is from TN)
. Makes homophobic jokes about politicians he doesn’t like being closeted gay (he is straight)
. Makes racist jokes about black penises (he’s white)
. Has a misogynistic homophobic lesbian fetish
Yet he still has more sexual and romantic experience than me. So he’s basically a typical straight male. 🙄
His name is William Thomas Lasley and he lives in Hermitage TN
#male privilege#straight male privilege#sexism#feminism#relationship advice#feminist#misogyny#misogynistic#racism#stop racism#stop homophobia#homophobic#rape culture#this is rape culture#what misogyny looks like#what rape culture looks like#body shaming#body positivity#mental health#mental health awareness#gaslighting#manipulation#emotional abuse#nerd culture#geek culture#suicide prevention#suicide awareness#male loneliness epidemic#white male privilege#just girly posts
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Someone needs to write "5 times patpran thought korn & wai were together + 1 time they realized they were wrong" and it's just korn and wai doing increasingly sussy things but it turns out they really are just homies who kiss the homies goodnight. They go get tested for stds together. They pretend to be dating to get discounts at restaurants. Etc. In the end it's revealed that they actually had sex one time but neither of them rly liked it and that's how they know they're not gay
#PLS IM DYING AT KY OWN IDEA#patpran are like oh no...their internalized homophobia is preventing them from realizing theyre in love w each other..#so they try to meddle#only to be gagged in the end when kornwai are like huh? youve been trying to get us together? we already tried it tho#it was mid
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Hi gays! Happy pride! To celebrate we turned the recently outed lesbian character into a fucking demon that costs $10 :)
#girlbob.txt#overwatch#WHAT EVEN#also she looks so bad they didn't even try#the homophobia of this#is so strong#god. okay to prevent people saying stupid shit i'm making this not rebloggable
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#This shit right here#Imperialism is built upon racism sexism homophobia and so on.#If I perpetuate these systems I'll be insulated from the worst of it.#The overarching system of classism is obstructed by the more tangible systems.#Perpetuate those systems all you want classism will prevent y'all from getting a seat in the lifeboat.#Greetings from America
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#I know I keep joking about this despite half of the drug scenes I've written not yet having been published#but also I got CJ high off opium in I'm Not Going Anywhere and I gave Ed Weed in the fic we don't talk about#and the divorce court weed and cocaine scenes are imminent#not next week and not the week after that#but soon#also when i finally publish heathers au its gonna be coke city#thats the only way i can get Ed to fuck Izzy when Stede is his roommate#when Stede is new and they have to maintain a professional relationship and Izzy is Eds husband it is so much easier to get them to fuck#than when Jack Izzy and Stede are all new#if Jack is the hottest guy on campus and is down and fun#and Stede is eds soulmate and has internalized homophobia preventing him from admitting he is gay but is willing to cuddle during movies#then why is he fucking Izzy#i needed to weaponize drugs daddy issues and Jack's douchebagarry
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