#PLEASE be normal

[adriles]

they are Cancelling me for dealing with my grief as best i can . also for the vicious war Crimes

[throesofincreasingwonder]

You know what? I want a whole post for this:

Sex Repulsion is not the same thing as, or an excuse for, Sex Negativity

non-negotiable!

I am a sex-repulsed asexual. This means that I am uncomfortable and repulsed by the idea of engaging in sexual acts. This does not mean that I have an excuse to be repulsed by other people's sexual attraction or the right to police how other people engage in or express sexual acts or attraction.

Young queer people need to learn the difference between sex repulsion and sex negativity, and actively work to unlearn sex-negative attitudes. Asexuality, even sex-repulsed asexuality, is and should be fully compatible with sex positivity.

If you are uncomfortable with the idea of other people feeling sexual attraction or engaging in sexual acts that do not involve you in any way, that is not sex repulsion it is the cultural Christianity and you need to seriously work on that.

[astronautbeans]

for goodness sake can you people stop sending CCs asks about shipping i'm getting second hand embarassment please

shipping will ALWAYS be a fandom thing, stop asking CCs about these things?? they're not your friends, they're not going to cry themselves to sleep about it if you post a ship fic about them on ao3 that breaks a boundary, they're not gonna come praise you if you harass others out of talking about ships in private spaces COME ON PEOPLE YOU'RE BETTER THAN THIS

this is a fan space. tag your ships so the tags can be blocked. keep shipping away from them so they don't have to see it. don't send them anything ship-related if you come across it. if you don't like seeing shipping, move on. it's. that. easy.

[awkwardandeccentric]

I am so nervous for when Stolas’ world comes crashing down because of his internalized racism/classism. Not because of story reasons but because I just know people are going to be fucking weird about it.

“Yeah! I love the fact that this guy lost his entire family, his home, all his connections, and his ability to do work he loves and is great at for…*checks notes* micro aggressions!”

Please treat Stolas like you would treat any other character going through growing pains. Please. I am on my knees.

[itneverendshere]

people on tw already going down the “drew and fiona are dating” spiral bc of that new picture (him carrying her around). I BEG PLEASE BE NORMAL. let that man hang around women that are not his sisters or maddy like a normal human being 😭😭😭😭😭😭 always making up this shit, no wonder he’s never online 🫠🫠

[notfernintheslighest]

[misty-doodles]

Drunznoblade headcanons but agere!

Lol I adore adore age regression in writing and am here to normalize it more bc fuck you it's nice.

Techno is defo the caregiver, with Deam and Punz both being littles. Dream would have known he regressed long before he met either of them, having done so since his late teen years.

Dream regresses to around toddler-ish age, about 4 years old, and has a love for very soft things and toys. Talks a mile a minute but half of what he says is unintelligible.

Punz would only start exploring little space after having seen and helped Dream, and regresses to about 2 or 3. He is nervous and worries about being seen as a copy, but Dream n Techno obviously don't care. In fact, Dream is over the moon to play with another little.

Punz is nonverbal while regressed, uses a pacifier, and clings to Techno a lot of the time. He loves being carried about and being swaddled in Techno's cloak. His favorite nap spot is cuddled on techno's lap.

Techno is such a damn softy for his littles and we all know that. He would spoil them rotten and give them everything they could ever want, because he just loves this side of them. He won't say it out loud, but it's such a relief for him that there's something that can remove the tension from their shoulders in a way nothing else can.

[amid-fandoms]

i feel like the only person on here who selfishly wants dnp to not do anything drastic today just because im post surgery in the hospital and if i have a breakdown i will need another one 🥹

[ahopelessprincessreincarnation]

Dumb and hopefully short rant incoming, but as someone who may not be goth herself but does enjoy learning about and meeting people on the internet from different alternative subcultures involving music, fashion and beliefs against larger society atleast, I absolutely hate how gothic women are so sexualized and fetishized into this stupid archetype of "Omg Sinful Hawt Fem Dommy Mommy Gf!". When I say that, I'm not talking about like I don't know...normal girls who happen to be sexual workers and just so happen to be into a similar aesthetic or something, I mean like actual unconsenting women who just happen to want to present more outwardly as someone from the community and get randomly and inappropriately commented on by gross, pornsick/porn addicted men on the internet. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to/having a preference for that, but there's a difference between thinking a woman is beautiful because you like how they present while still treating them like the human being they are and those who just see them as a sexual object to be used for your pleasure whether the gothic girl in question wants to or not...(Again, sorry if I wasted anyone's time but I need to atleast just share my thoughts since it's been bothering me for awhile, you know?)

[serctcnia]

MHA fans try not to ship the kids with the adults challenge... IMPOSSIBLE.

[phlurrii]

How do you figure out the characteristics that go with certain natures? Like, for example, Meau being "docile" and her characteristic being "mischievous". I'm trying to do something similar with my own OCs and I'm stuck on this one part.

So… so I highly suggest not… not doing what I did. You see, I spent 36 hours doing extremely complicated glitches and game breaking bugs to pry 2 legal mews, one shiny and one not, out of the original Pokémon Red. Back when Natures and Characteristics literally did not exist. At all.

So when I yoinked these goobers out of the game and transferred them to Sun and Moon? They generated their Nature and characteristic for the first time. These fucks are ancient both in and out of game world.

But yea, that’s how I decided their natures, I told and then shut up XD

Realistically though, if you don’t want to have the game decide for you, I recommend looking at what their nature boost and debuffs stat wise, as well as what berries they like if they have that nature. Find the best suited one for all 3 categories ^^

[audioroleplayconfessions]

Hey everyone, I don't usually share my thoughts but I've gotten a few asks saying that they hope certain content creators who's audios they dislike get caught doing something like grooming a minor so that they can have a "good" reason to dislike them. I always filter them and I consider them a violation of the targeted harassment rule. This kind of ask is pretty rare and obviously most of you don't have this kind of mindset, but please don't think that way.

The point of this place being anonymous is that you don't have to worry about justifying critical/negative opinions. If you dislike a VA just because you think their content is bad/overrated/whatever you can say that. You don't have to hope that a child gets sexually preyed on so that you can justify disliking someone. That's not cool or rational. It's valid to just dislike someone for subjective reasons without needing them to be a target for full on cancelation.

This place has been a little more dramatic and aggressive than usual and I'd like it if people settled down a bit, it's getting stressful for me. - Ringmaster

[bag-of-bones-and-hearts]

millie and Blitzo friendship where they match each others freak

lemon boy ahh friendship

[custom-emojis]

regarding my last ask, i was kinda hoping you'd make an announcement about palenstine. just doing a stream doesnt raise much awareness because not everyone in the server will take part. an @everyone would go much farther

dude i so desperately want to believe this is bait and you're not actually this fucking stupid. but just in case you are this stupid, riddle me this. how in the world is me doing a charity stream across multiple platforms that is actively raising money for the red crescent and sending that money to go directly toward humanitarian aids. Less helpful than me just doing an @ everyone ping (which, btw, does not actually ping everybody in a server as big as mine. you need to use role pings or it just pings online members) with a bunch of links or talking in depth about something that is soooooo outside my lane. There is Palestinians who are using their own voices to talk about their genocide, why the fuck would I throw mine in?

Please listen to me. Please listen and understand and get it through your head. A stream that is being advertised across MULTIPLE PLATFORMS that is likely to attract my older fans with disposable income is EONS more useful than a fucking ping in a discord server that I know for a fact will likely be cleared and not even looked at.

"just doing a stream doesnt raise much awareness" Even if that were true, "awareness" is not going to buy medical supplies. "awareness" is not going to buy food, its not going to buy Esims for when the internet is shut back off or more infrastructure is bombed. Even if that were true, me doing a charity stream and raising money to do directly to those who need help is more effective than a ping or a reblog chain on tumblr or some "awareness" online. Please, please, for the love of god, look into how to do activism outside of tumblr and the direct realm of the internet.

[pand1on]

if you're new here matilda and team dark have a familial relationship PLEASE dont be weird about that

[irl-donut]

IM IN LOVE WITH YOU

non para socially, right anon? right????

RIGHT??