#Nigerian culture

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The Realities of Leading a Soft Girl Lifestyle.

(no luxury materials, riches, or social status needed)

The concept of leading a "soft life" has gained immense popularity on social media. From the emergence of the "soft life" to the adoption of "soft girl era," individuals are striving to embrace and protray this lifestyle.

The merging of the "Soft Life" and "Black Women in Luxury" trends promotes an indulgent and opulent way of living. However, the problem arises when the boundaries between these two trends become blurred, as the Soft Life has become inundated with extravagant and unattainable daily routines and lifestyles, especially during times of economic decline and the widespread influence of social media.

A Life of Ease 🌹

The term "soft life" originated from Nigerian influencers, and it means rejecting the idea of constantly working hard and instead choosing to live without struggle and stress. This concept has gained popularity among individuals who believe in prioritizing self-care, relaxation, and enjoying the pleasures of life. Embracing the soft life means acknowledging that life is not solely about hustling and grinding, but also about finding balance and taking time to recharge.

In a society that often glorifies busyness and equates success with non-stop productivity, the soft life offers a refreshing perspective. It encourages individuals to slow down and appreciate the little joys in life, such as spending quality time with loved ones, indulging in hobbies, or simply taking a leisurely walk in nature. It emphasizes the importance of self-care practices, such as getting enough sleep, engaging in regular exercise, and nourishing oneself with healthy, delicious meals.

Living the soft life does not mean completely shirking responsibilities or neglecting one's ambitions. It is about finding a healthy equilibrium between work and leisure, and recognizing that constant stress and burnout are not sustainable in the long run. By prioritizing self-care and setting boundaries, individuals can maintain their well-being and find fulfillment in both their personal and professional lives.

The Marketing Scheme 📈

Due to the widespread fascination with living a comfortable and luxurious lifestyle, as well as the growing trend of promoting businesses highlighting affluent Black women, companies have cleverly targeted their audience and capitalized on this interest.

Their approach has transformed the concept of a relaxed and efficient lifestyle into a profitable strategy, enticing consumers to indulge in products endorsed by their beloved social media influencers or ones that are beyond the reach of the average individual's income.

📌 What We Want You To Focus On:

Strive for a balanced and stress-free lifestyle that fits your budget! We want to make it clear that you don't have to give up on things like a $300 facial or $100 yoga pants. We encourage everyone to pursue the life they want. What we're saying is, don't feel pressured or inferior if you choose to do an at-home manicure, light your favorite Target candles, and enjoy a glass of wine in your bathtub at home. The true essence of a fulfilling life is finding a balance between increasing your savings and reducing stress throughout the day. It doesn't require a specific price tag on the items used to do so.

Yes, Two Things Can Be True At Once.

Indeed, the well-known concept of "black women in luxury" is a way of leading a comfortable life, but the context of this aesthetic is solely dependent on financial means.

However, Living a stress-free life is primarily determined by an individual's behaviors and mindset rather than their financial status.

Life Tip: Having the right mindset leads to a luxurious lifestyle, but a luxurious lifestyle without a well-balanced mindset can lead to destruction.

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Do I have West African followers by chance? I’m curious about what dialect/s I should start with learning that are specific to the region. I was getting a little familiar with Swahili since a lot of diasporans I follow have set up in East or South Africa and I found myself picking up on words and phrases through them — but was sideswept to find out the language isn’t really spoken in the west😅. I’d appreciate Black People’s input on this in general, but if you’re West African or speak any of these yourself and have more personal insight, that’s perfect.

[brazilspill]

Brazilian culture and African cultures are so similar in a lot of ways

Just remembering sitting with some friends in high school whose parents were from various African countries and they'd be like, laughing at the stuff African parents do and I'd be like "My mom does that too!" and they'd look shocked because it was supposedly something Very African™ and there my Brazilian ass was going "Me too! :D".

Then when I was going on a trip to Cuba in high school and one of my friends, whose parents were from Nigeria, was going too.

All the other kids' parents just dropped them off at the airport and left. Only two moms stayed to wait for boarding -- my mom and my Nigerian friend's mom. The two got to talking and the mannerisms were identical, it was so funny. My friend and I were giving each other the sideye like "Oh god, they've teamed up".

[omenalafilm]

Polaroids from Pre-Production Meeting Monday 👀

We’ve got our director, Stephanie, working on story structure ✍️ Our cinematographer, Harry, applying for his visa ✈️ and our producer, Sydney, reluctantly posing for a photo 📸 This short film isn’t planning itself 😤

[howhow326]

New favorite thing: Ijaw owuamapu (water spirit) masks

[Photo ID: 4 pictures of masks from the Ijaw tribe of Nligeria. The top left mask is a stylized fish with a human face on it's back. The top right mask is diamond shaped with a upside down human face on the upperportion of the mask and a rightside up human face on the lower portion. The lower left mask is a human face with horns and a snake coiled around the horns. The lower right mask is a stylized large fish (maybe a shark) with a human face on it's back. End photo ID]

[batmanbeyondrocks]

IYANU Sneak Peek 🏹 A First Look at the Animated Series

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QUESTION??? So I am an artist who is trying to get better at all forms of art mainly painting and drawing. I had the idea to do cultures from all around the world paintings. Basically I saw traditional clothing from different parts of the world and wanted to do paintings inspired by them. I am not any of these things and I know other cultures are a huge deal. I am an African American woman and I wanted to do an Indian, Nigerian, Japan, Somali, Italian and Grecian culture paintings. If you are any of these ethnicities or apart of these cultures, how do you feel about me doing them? Obviously I would take the time to learn from different artists of that culture and I want to be as respectful as I can be. Let a girl know, kk love you 🩷

[keyki421]

There is something about the show Bob Hearts Abishola that I hate. The rudeness and ignorant views of Abishola and her family, completely rubbed me the wrong way. I found it crazy that some Nigerians were actually praising the show and talking about how authentic it is. If that is true, that is really sad. Cause the show portrays Nigerian culture as being cruel, harsh and heartbreaking at times. This show does not represent y'all in a positive light.

It also has a bit of a white savior complex as well. Cause Bob is portrayed as a loving and caring person who listens to others. While Abishola is egregious, rude and harsh. Caring nothing about other people's feelings, even her own son. The interaction between the son is what really kills me. If I grew up in a household like this, upon my 18th birthday I would become a ghost. I would leave my family and never look back.

I'm was shocked when I looked this show up and saw that there were 4 seasons and the show was being renewed for a 5th. It's crazy to me that this show got renewed but an extremely popular show like SWAT got cancelled by CBS.

[everyendeavor]

Fascinating story written by the son of his mother’s experience with an online Romance Scammer from Nigeria.

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[lotannawrites]

Native on Friday🌟

To God be the glory! I am alive for another Friday

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[annachum]

Some places in Sothryos ( part 2 )

Naath

May be loosely based on Canary Islands, Naath aka Island of Butterflies is known for its wild butterflies, wide ranges of fruits and tropical landscape

Summer Isles

Summer Isles is located in an island between Westeros, Essos and Sothryos. May be loosely based on Cape Verde, Summer Isles has huge shipping ports and also has great seafood dishes. The denizens of the Summer Isles in general hold special connection with the seas

Yeen

May be loosely based on Nigeria, Yeen is one of the Sothryosi kingdoms in Northwest Sothryos with huge shipping trade. It also has beautiful fabrics and gemstones

[culturevixen]

Let me take you on a journey of rediscovering one of the most loved Nigerian dishes—Egusi Soup and Fufu! Picture this: you’re in your cosy London kitchen, cold outside, but the warmth of palm oil and spicy peppers is about to make your kitchen feel like Lagos/Abuja in the middle of summer.

Egusi Soup: A Bowl of Pure Nostalgia

I remember watching my aunties make this when I was little, but now it’s my turn to revive those flavors. Let’s start with Egusi Soup, the crown jewel of Nigerian cuisine!

What You’ll Need:

• 2 cups egusi (ground melon seeds) — this is where the magic happens.

• 500g of assorted meat (goat, beef, tripe)—you know it’s not a proper Nigerian meal without all the meat!

• 200g stockfish or dried fish (trust me, this adds that unforgettable flavor).

• Palm oil—a Nigerian kitchen must-have (or you can put olive oil ify you want to be healthier), about ½ cup.

• 1 onion, chopped—because onions make everything better.

• 3 Scotch bonnet peppers or more (if you can handle it)—for that fiery kick!

• 2 tablespoons crayfish (ground)—this is where we’re elevating the game.

• A bunch of ugwu (pumpkin leaves) or spinach—keeping it fresh and green!

• Salt, stock cubes, and locust beans (if you want to go all out traditional).

Let’s Cook:

1. The Meat Situation:

First, we have to get those meats tender. Season with salt, onions, and maybe a stock cube or two. Let it simmer until it’s nice and soft. Throw in your stockfish during the last few minutes. The smell? That’s the scent of home!

2. Fry That Egusi:

Heat up your palm oil, and as soon as it’s warm, add the chopped onions and let them get all soft and fragrant. Then in goes the ground egusi—fry that bad boy for 10 minutes while stirring. This part is essential! It’s what makes the soup rich and full of depth, kind of like our heritage.

3. Spice It Up:

Now add the blended peppers, crayfish, and locust beans. The aroma? It’s everything! Slowly pour in your meat stock while stirring like your life depends on it (seriously, no lumps!). Add the cooked meat, and let the soup come together for about 15 minutes.

4. Green and Gorgeous:

Time to add the ugwu or spinach! This is what gives the soup that beautiful splash of green. Let it cook for another 5 minutes. Taste, adjust your seasoning, and then let the soup simmer a little longer until it’s thick and luscious.

Fufu: The Soulmate

You can’t have Egusi without its perfect partner—Fufu. This is the part that always brings a smile because it’s the simplest yet most satisfying thing to make.

Here’s How You Do It:

1. Boil Water:

Pretty self-explanatory, right? You want it hot and ready.

2. Mix & Knead:

Slowly pour in your fufu flour while stirring like you’re in a dance-off with your pot. Keep stirring until the mixture comes together in a smooth dough. Knead it to perfection, no lumps allowed!

3. Shape It:

Roll it into little balls and there you go—pillowy goodness, ready to be dipped into your delicious Egusi soup.

The Grand Finale:

Now, sit down, tear off a piece of that fluffy fufu, dip it in your Egusi soup, and take a bite. The flavours hit you all at once—the rich, earthy taste of egusi, the spicy warmth of the peppers, and the tender meat… honestly, it’s like a hug from the motherland.

Each bite is a reminder of home, culture, and history. Rediscovering these dishes feels like reclaiming a part of myself, a connection to my roots that’s so beautifully intertwined with every flavour. So, whether you’re in Lagos/Abuja or London, this is a taste of Nigeria right on your plate! Enjoy, or as we say, “E ku orire!” (Well done!).

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[sabbyywabbyy]

✨️Fashun show fashun show at lunch ✨️

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Drew them based on the 2nd image, 2 women with geles, iros and bubas; traditional Nigerian outfit

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Rema samples Sade in new snippet