#NOT a coping mechanism
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Friendly reminder if you're the type of person to mod that dog collar on Astarion, don't talk to me
#bg3#astarion#i know he's fictional but#his trauma isn't something to pretend like you're helping#he uses oversexualisation as a survival technique#NOT a coping mechanism#so throwing a vibarating dog collar on him is gross af#and just tells me they don't actually view him as a character with trauma#“but collars helped me!”#idc#he DISTINCTLY asks for no sex later on#fuck your collar kink#i like collars as a kink but NOT ON EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE#again i know it's just fiction but this is the part of being ace that really freaks me out with allos#you just don't seem to have any sort of understanding for a FICTIONAL character#i won't trust you with a real person#maybe that's wild but
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I’m about to save you thousands of dollars in therapy by teaching you what I learned paying thousands of dollars for therapy:
It may sound woo woo but it’s an important skill capitalism and hyper individualism have robbed us of as human beings.
Learn to process your emotions. It will improve your mental health and quality of life. Emotions serve a biological purpose, they aren’t just things that happen for no reason.
1. Pause and notice you’re having a big feeling or reaching for a distraction to maybe avoid a feeling. Notice what triggered the feeling or need for a distraction without judgement. Just note that it’s there. Don’t label it as good or bad.
2. Find it in your body. Where do you feel it? Your chest? Your head? Your stomach? Does it feel like a weight everywhere? Does it feel like you’re vibrating? Does it feel like you’re numb all over?
3. Name the feeling. Look up an emotion chart if you need to. Find the feeling that resonates the most with what you’re feeling. Is it disappointment? Heartbreak? Anxiety? Anger? Humiliation?
4. Validate the feeling. Sometimes feelings misfire or are disproportionately big, but they’re still valid. You don’t have to justify what you’re feeling, it’s just valid. Tell yourself “yeah it makes sense that you feel that right now.” Or something as simple as “I hear you.” For example: If I get really big feelings of humiliation when I lose at a game of chess, the feeling may not be necessary, but it is valid and makes sense if I grew up with parents who berated me every time I did something wrong. So I could say “Yeah I understand why we are feeling that way given how we were treated growing up. That’s valid.”
5. Do something with your body that’s not a mental distraction from the feeling. Something where you can still think. Go on a walk. Do something with your hands like art or crochet or baking. Journal. Clean a room. Figure out what works best for you.
6. Repeat, it takes practice but is a skill you can learn :)
#deconstruction#ex christian#ex evangelical#agnosticatheist#deconstructing christianity#agnostic#ex religious#exevangelical#religious trauma#trauma#cptsd#therapy#life skills#leftist#self healing#healing is a process#Emdr#emdr therapy#ifs therapy#emotional regulation#emotional health#heading#trauma therapy#religious trauma syndrome#anti capitalist#humanism#coping mechanism#coping skills#cult survivor#deconvert
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(✿◕‿◕) die (ꈍ ꒳ ꈍ✿)
#MY GIRLLLLLLLL <333333 you're doing amazing sweetie kill them all you deserve to#anyway. coping mechanism. the problems in my life i could solve if society just let me have a death note#this show really is an exercise in patience and suffering i get SO squicked out#by how much the horrible characters and situations mirror the insanity of what's happening in real life#also the revelation that some of the actors are Exactly as shitty as their characters are is. ugh.#but every time i'm like okay i can't take it i need to stop to protect my headspace#i think of kimiko and am like.... no... i need to see my gir....#hope karen gets jucy roles in other shows too PLEASE#the boys#kimiko miyashiro#karen fukuhara#theboysedit#tvedit
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"Self insert characters are cringe"
Bro I'm trying to survive capitalism with maladaptive daydreaming. Leave me alone.
#self insert#maladaptive daydreaming#no shame#cringe safe zone#im trying to exist in a hellscape okay#mom said its my turn to pick the coping mechanism
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There is no live action adaptations of Avatar: The Last Airbender...
#atla#Avatar the Last Airbender#atlaedit#animationedit#*mine#flashing tw#this is my coping mechanism#praying season 2 of the live action series doesn't get greenlit on Netflix#because if they ruin Toph's characterization i will literally start throwing rocks at people
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i can't choose one, so let's have both, i guess..?
«I am the Devil's Minion, and he grants my every wish.»
brb here when i get some proper sleep for i still have a wish to rant on Eric Bogosian being actually a scary smart researcher in my bloodstream
#art is a coping mechanism#this gives me serotonin#fan art#interview with the vampire#daniel molloy#eric bogosian#devil's minion#iwtv armand#iwtv art#iwtv fanart#iwtv spoilers#amc iwtv#iwtv#assad zaman#armand de romanus#vampire armand#armand#armandaniel#gimme aaaaall the tags#since i've made this profile public let's be unapologetically embarrassing the way eric's interviews often are#the man's my muse i guess
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again, and again, and again
#artists on tumblr#fanart#one piece#one piece fanart#trafalgar d law#trafalgar law#don quixote rosinante#don quixote corazon#heart pirates#penguin#shachi#bepo#let me use angst it’s my coping mechanism rn#mint archives ; art
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Screw you. Pancakes your Polites >:(
#I have totally healthy coping mechanisms#epic the musical#polites pancake#greek mythology#odyssey#epic musical#epic the musical fanart#polites#cyclops saga#jorge rivera herrans#epic the musical cyclops saga#art
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Skywalker Siblings Part 3
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#probably the last part of this scene#but I’m still using Star Wars as a coping mechanism so who knows what will happen next!#drawing Yoda came so naturally to me#should i be concerned#Star Wars#starwarsblr#luke skywalker#leia organa#force sensitive leia#princess leia#yoda#han solo#kinda his hand is there#I was like I should take a break from drawing faces let me draw A STARSHIP
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#polyjamorous 😂🤣☠️#poly memes#memes are my coping mechanism#memes#funny#lol#polyamourous#polyam life#poly life#polyamorous#polyamory#bamababygirl7🥰💞
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Dc x Dp Prompt #6
“I’m a twin”, Damian said one night. He could feel the narrowed eyes of his family drilling holes on his back in disbelief. Not that he could blame them. Damian had never so much as implied being raised with a companion, much less a sibling.
“I had a brother”. Damian paused to recollect himself. He had not said his brother’s name out loud in over 8 years.
“His name was… Danyal”. Damian hated the way his voice wavered, but he could not help it. Danyal was everything to him, his other half. Their heart beat as one and when one heart stopped beating, the other one died with it. At least until his family put his heart on metaphorical life support without ever realizing.
“Where is he now?” His father asked, voice filled with knowing grief and a hint of betrayal. It had in fact been 6 years since Damian first showed up on his doorstep.
“Up there”. All eyes shifted towards the specific star he was pointing to. “Right before he died, he promised me he’d guide me from the stars. Unfortunately, the stars are not visible in Gotham, so my brother is unable to be of much help unless I leave the city.”
“Your brother is Polaris, the North Star?” Tim questioned warily, most likely in attempts to not offend him. Damian was aware of how stupid it sounded, but Danyal had promised, and his brother never broke his promises.
“Yes. Danyal is with the stars now, just as he always wanted”
#dc x dp#dp x dc#dpxdc fanfic#dc x dp prompt#dp x dc prompt#dc x dp crossover#dp x dc crossover#ghost king danny#demon twin au#danyal al ghul#batpham#they are not in Gotham at the time of this conversation#I’m thinking they’re visiting the Kent’s on their farm but tbh as long as the stars are visible it can be anywhere#Danny did in fact reincarnate as Polaris#sort of#Polaris is more of a title the Realms gave him the day he was crowned#he is the star meant to guide them through a new era#or something like that#But Damian does look up at the stars for guidance whenever he sees them#and before he knows it he’s accidentally begun praying to Danny#it’s his coping mechanism for being unable to speak about him to anyone#but back to Danny - he regained the memories of his time as Danyal Al Ghul when he died in that portal and became a halfa#well it was more he regained the memories of ALL his previous lives but his most recent one holds a special place in his heart#if only because he knows his brother is still alive on whatever earth he was born on#as bad as it sounds Danny can’t wait until he gets to reunite with Damian#he hopes Damian forgives him for not guiding him though#fun fact! Danny was once known as the god Dan-El in one of his previous lives#he’s ALSO the reincarnation of the Greek Titan Astraeus (and he’s pretty sure Dani is his daughter Astraea)#his previous lives are all so interesting (he still can’t believe he was raised an assassin or that he was a god in multiple lives)#but in all honesty it’s even weirder feeling so old and so young at the same time
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The most insane take on anything I’ve ever heard is that The Magnus Archives is a fan fiction Alice wrote about Chester and norris.
#tma#tmp#tmp alice#the magnus archives#the magnus protocol#the magnus pod#tma fic#it’s a coping mechanism ig
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#twitter#proship#trauma#tw sa#writing#writers on tumblr#writerscommunity#spilledink#fiction#coping mechanism#therapy#mental health
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i've done my part and voted. what's left for me to do now other than post destiel election memes
#it's a coping mechanism#i'm terrified#destiel#spn memes#spn#supernatural#us politics#nov 5th#please vote#vote blue#kamala harris#harris walz 2024#emily yaps
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You call what you did “special treatment”?
#marveledit#tvedit#agathaallalongedit#agatha harkness#rio vidal#agatha all along#agatha all along spoilers#marvel#marveldaily#agathario#userelysia#marveladdicts#dailymarvelqueens#userquel#dailymarvelgifs#captainsamerica#usermelanie#userzo#userraffa#userrlaura#wlwedit#usergal#mine#yes my coping mechanism is giffing sad shit
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I was having a normal day but now all I can think about is the phangenda💀
#wtf is happening guys 😭#making memes as coping mechanism yet again ✌️#dan and phil#dip and pip#dnp#daniel howell#phil lester#phangenda
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