#My friend and I might get married
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#aromantic#aroace#arospec#asexual#acespec#aspec#alloaro#aroallo#marriage#wedding#shitpost#my polls#poll#tumblr polls#This isn't really exclusive to aspec people#But I think they'd appreciate a bug themed divorce party.#I know I would.#In fact#My friend and I might get married#Not because we're gay (in love) but because we're gay (theatrical)#And willing to get married and divorced as entertainment.#The bug themed divorce party could have vows:#“Would you still love me if I were a worm?”#“No. That's why I'm leaving you.”#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#bisexual#pansexual#Gay#Lesbian
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Wardrobe Woes
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#Yes: there are people who read these comics who don't know much about mdzs. Several are my beloved and supportive friends B'*)#This comic in particular is one that I've been thinking about for a very long time and I'm so happy to finally be here!#I was trying to think about how to explain the social rules of the forehead ribbon and the reason lwj was so upset#and the metaphor of 'it's kind of like wwx accidently undoing lwj's bikini in front of a crowd.' came to mind.#of course there's a bit more to it than that but the point here is that - accident or not - it still embarrasses lwj#wwx doesn't get the entire context behind it (at the time. Now he *does* and it all makes a bit more sense)#But he knows he made lwj upset. He knows he doesn't want to put lwj in another embarrassing situation.#Not after all this. Not after everything. Not after realizing that his desire for friendship might be the kind of desire that ruins lan zha#Love the symbolism of the archery outfits being red during this moment of 'whoops only married couples can do that' moment.#What if we accidental proposed............accidental marriage....accidental kiss the bridegroom....accidental fall in love.#Guess we did inadvertently get the puffy sleeves and bikini outfits in the end.#wwx in an old timey bathing suit is so important to me. I'll die on this hill.#lwj's cute little box is inspired by @lazycranberrydoodles's cute fan art <3 I love it a lot
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i love liushen as much as the next guy but i dont know how theyd ever end up together. liu qingge as a person is not the type of guy to be in touch with his emotions like at all and shen qingqiu just doesnt ever really know whats going on esp when hes being hit on. doomed to be a couple of lesbians constantly going on dates and neither of them know it
#svsss#liushen#to be completely real this is said with the utmost love#i think theyre both hilarious#i relate to liu qingge im also not in touch w my emotions like at all#lesbian liushen would be catastrophic. uhauling it after their 3rd date and one of them is on reddit like#me and my gay best friend live together and kiss and might get married is she hitting on me#if anyone was recognizing their feelings first it might have to be sqq#we're just used to binghes level of insane like if it was just a normal person sqq might figure it out like at some point in his life#lqg isnt an emotions guy he likes to hit things work out drink beer go on paleo diets and hit things again#hes the ancient fantasy china equivalent of a gym bro. born too soon to hog the stairmaster at planet fitness
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swiftie gift exchange for @catastrxblues
#yeah if anyone saw this before no they didnt i deleted the og post by mistake#anyway nadine!!!! hi omg it was such a pleasure to talk to you to get to know you and talk with you#when you told me that you're current favourite songs were champagne problems and lacy ik i had to make a parallel for them#unlucky for you that means gifs (i am the worst at them so apoligies for the quality ad everything in between)#in my mind i also viewed lacy as the other girl the champagne problems boy married and lacy being a part of the evergreen friends group saw#champagne girl as an insecurity she might have gotten the ring but she could never beat the first love and option#while the champagne girl would be happy but deeply jealous of lacy and that's on GIRLHOOD#you didnt ask for the story and i am rambling sorry but yeah that was the vision for the edit anyways i hope you have great day ahead :) <3#taylor swift#olivia rodrigo#lacy#champagne problems#SwiftieGiftExchange2024#tsusermels#tsuserjen
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Jewish wedding life hack: worried about having too many books and not enough bookshelves? Ask the wedding guests to go get IKEA bookshelves as a gift! And maybe extra screws....
#jumblr#meme#personal thoughts tag#this came to me by me preemptively freaking out like 'what if i marry a jew one day and we have a million books each...'#this is my nightmare btw#the honeymoon will be setting up the shelves with friends#actually... i think i might do this. IF i get married#i'm piling books on my bed which seems like a very bachelor thing to do lmao
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at this very moment in India, the Supreme Court is hearing petitioners who wish to legalise same-sex marriage in India. these petitioners are being opposed by the Centre, which believes that marriage is only intended to be between a "biological man and a biological female". these 20 petitioners are fighting for the basic fundamental rights which have been promised to the citizens of India in the Constitution under Articles 12-35.
by legalising same-sex marriage in India today, people who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community in India also get the life and health insurance rights that married heterosexual couples currently get. their union is legally recognised by the State, which might not be important to some but is quite important to others.
by legalising same-sex marriage in India today, the Supreme Court would be granting the rights that queer people in India have been fighting for for years.
i really hope today is the day we finally get the rights we deserve.
#manifesting that this will be the day that same-sex marriage is finally legalised in india#this affects me in so many ways#i might be an american citizen which means i do have the right to same sex marriage in america#but my indian sister is queer#my indian friends are queer#and they deserve the right to marry whoever the fuck they want#just like me#and i really hope they get to do that#news#same sex marriage#india#india news#gay marriage in india#gay marriage#gay#queer#bisexual#trans#lgbt+#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lesbian
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Did anyone else wake up at 4am, frantically write out 1,000 words of plot outline for a Zukka themed Zuko whump or are you normal
#what has this place done to me#I read a post about what if aunt Wu told Sokka he was going to marry Zuko#and was like well Sokka would freak out obviously and now somehow Zuko is being grumpy in a forest and it getting b e a t up#very skillfully and heroically of course#and Sokka thinks his ‘just friend I promise’ might die and realise he has the dreaded feels#I will write it properly#because it has captivated me#zukka#zukka fic#zuko#atla Zuko#sokka#atla Sokka#atla Zukka#my writing#fanfic#avatar the last airbender#zuko whump
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realizing im kind of a weirdo about laios and marcille
#possramble#ignore this im just babbling but#the thing is that like. i don't ship laios and marcille together. their relationship is so so important to me in that laios comphets himsel#and THINKS that he might be in love with her but he isn't and that's my insane obsession#platonic soulmates for real but they're so sweet together that i fully expect them to be shipped together#like i get it. that's almost the appeal for me. if dungeon meshi were any other series there'd be an epilogue where they get married#convention dictates that they're meant to be together as the male protagonist and his beloved female deuteragonist#but dungeon meshi DOESNT do that and i love it so fucking much they're the comphet besties ever for my strange little brain#like if i ever did an arranged marriage au it would absolutely be laios and marcille having a platonic political marriage and then just#the most insane mutual pining with marcille and falin while laios and marcille struggle their way into becoming best friends#the imagery of the king and his beautiful court mage being tender to each other and everyone thinking they're in love is like catnip to me#like yeah they'd be like that and have no idea people think they should be together and the subversion makes me so obsessed#the more people ship them romantically. the more i enjoy their platonic dynamic it's like some sort of weird comphet fetishism idk#people think they're in love and im outside the window like YES... YES!!!#but also the second i see stuff of them kissing on the mouth or fucking im like oh god no i went too deep in here i gotta get out#don't wanna see that. i'll go feral over the idea of laios and marcille being arm-in-arm like king and queen but they would not fuck.#i want marcille to be his default comphet beard and dance partner/plus one at official royal events but they're not kissing.#she's there on his arm because he's scared of the other noble women tryna get him and being a baby about it#and people see them muttering to each other and laughing and generally being very sweet and think that they're dating but they're not.#she's actually covered in hickies from falin underneath her dress and is gonna get dragon dicked right after the party is over#like she's in her bedroom and falin's helping her take her ridiculous dress off while listening to her complain about politics#and falin is the person she goes home to the person she falls asleep to and wakes up with#they're a triad of utter devotion to each other but only farcille's side of the triangle is romantic#it's almost like an open secret because they're not trying to hide it at all but people assume and are surprised to find out#like people are so right about her relationship with the toudens but with the siblings' roles switched#love of her life & irreplaceable life companion. does anyone get it#anyway. i don't know what's wrong with me#it bothers me that they're not the undisputed most popular het ship for marcille on ao3#it's unnatural. marcille being paired with any other man should be a fringe case.
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ughhh
#noel.yap#just gonna be pathetic for a moment here#helping a friend pick out engagement rings and im spending this whole time thinkjng about myself which feels awful#thinking about how my moms not gonna be there like wowwww okay#i never even cared much for getting married but now that might never include her thats so not fair#i have to get out od this thought spiral but did you know everything ever is about moms dying bc i swear i see it in everything#and of course my ocd latching into this bc it is somehow my fault shes sick#because it always is#anyway#👍
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The one that got away
Still haven't seen the new Percy Jackson show but I have seen some fan reaction and here's what I'm getting:
In the show, there's a lot more Poseidon+Sally interaction. In the show, Sally Jackson is the woman he loves.
In the books, Sally is the ex who very much dumped him.
#I'm all for stories about exes who became for-real friends#Riker and Troi on TNG#Chloe and Daniel on Lucifer#adaptation#Percy Jackson#Percy Jackson TV series#when the adaptation adds to the original#Poseidon is never shown as too stupid to understand that Sally makes choices to protect Percy#including marrying Gabe#but it still had to be an ego hit#he's gotta be like 'okay so many she didn't want to settle down at the bottom of the sea for my albeit divine ass'#'but COME ON'#don't get me wrong I don't think book Poseidon doesn't care about Sally at all#but she's not the love of his life#she's one of his many girlfriends#yeah he respects her and might love her in his way#but her getting older and marrying Paul is something he very much takes in stride#kind of like Riker and Troi in early TNG 'cool bro I'd love to see her happy'
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I love your polls and it’s great you try to be on both sides to give fair chance to everyone, but the way you talked about shanks/buggy is crazy They’re fine together but in canon they’re brothers and your shipping googles got so tight you actually sounded like you could believe they’re anywhere close to canon which is u know stupid af
lmao, okay, this came out of nowhere 😂 Like... I talked about that months ago. But okay.
Anyway, Shuggy is canon. They're making out behind you right now.
#Anon please 😂#Calling me stupid because you think I think shuggy is canon#but all the while claiming that the fact that they are brothers IS canon#My dear... neither are canon. It's all in our heads.#as far as I know only the marines said Shanks used to see Buggy as a brother#and what the hell do they know about the relationship between two pirates?#sounds like historians talking about queer relationships by saying 'they were REALLY good friends'#And... I don't usually talk about my ships on this blog but that was for the shipping war#shipping goggles was what the tournament was ABOUT...#But come closer... come look at my main blog...#I assure you you can only enter that blog with shipping goggles on 😂#This is all meant jokingly from my side of course#I don't see any ship but the confirmed ones as canon#even though some might be canon TO ME but that's something else entirely#Why not... you know... let people ship what they want to ship however much they want to ship it?#Do you see me taking offense to people who don't want to ship something?#No everyone is free to see relationships as platonically - even if they're canon confirmed to be married#I just take offense to people calling other people stupid because they don't agree with them on fandom things#Especially when they're claiming THEIR headcanons are actually canon#Honestly imo anyone talking about 'shipping goggles' is just trying to make people who enjoy shipping feel inferior#I'm sorry you can't believe we're all equals no matter what we ship or don't ship#anon#ask#not a poll#I hope you all get that this is not an invitation for you all to send me more messages about this#I don't want to start a discussion#I just want you all to respect each other#shuggy
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me a week ago: i love my job!!
me now, after having a mid-year review that amounted to you’re doing an excellent job and you bring such a valuable perspective to our practice but i don’t have the ability to give you a raise right now but don’t worry bc i just hired a new CFO to try to figure out money so we can maybe give you a raise later this year: *breaks into a cold sweat as i crack open indeed dot com*
#like how have you hired FOUR new employees in the past year (two new providers a new admin assistant and now a CFO)#without having plans for people to level up?#also i have talked to a friend who got hired at a similar practice a few months after me and she’s already making way more than me!#and you know who else makes more than i do?#my 19yo nephew who didn’t even finish high school. to be fair he’s grinding way more than he should#but also so am i!!#my disabled ass is working 6-7 days/week almost every week and i can barely afford to LIVE in the city where i live!!!#anyway don’t mind me i’m only apartment hunting#while also knowing that my paycheck is about to be hundreds of dollars lighter every month bc my health insurance is about to kick in#right now it’s either looking like we are gonna have to live in the world’s shittiest apartment (not even in the nice part of the city) or#we might just have to find something outside the city. which would be farther from work and friends and everything#yes i am having a full mental breakdown every single day and it’s only gonna get worse bc i’m due to start pmsing any second now#and also my last day at my hospital job is this weekend#bc everyone (including my boss) has encouraged me to quit and focus on only the one job#so now that’s also at least a few hundred bucks more i won’t be making every month#godddddddd#i hate it here i hate it here#did you know? having a fulfilling job still sucks if you aren't fairly compensated???#this is also what happens when you are part of a hot girl profession where everyone else is married to husbands with tech jobs#so they don't have to worry about money like this#anyway anyway anyway#i have never had anxiety so high that i feel as if i might puke before and i used to have a panic disorder so this is a fun new experience#a nice cherry on top of the typical summer depression which is also beating my ass yet again!
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they call me the griever because halfway through a thing I enjoy I’m already sad that it’s closer to being over
#blue chatter#trying to work on not doing this#and just enjoying the thing in the moment#this happens to me a lot with school breaks and such#like ‘oh I love being on spring break but I’m sad bc I’m already 3 days in’#‘oh I love summer vacation so far it’s too bad it’s already a month over’#and I’m like NO!!!!! blue!!!!!!!! you’re missing the point!!!!!!!!#you have the joy *right now* and you are SPOILING IT bc you’re too busy looking ahead to when it will be gone!!!!!!!!!#it happens with friend visits a lot. it’s less bad now but it still happens.#like. the first time I visited friends over spring break I woke up in the early morning of the last morning and just cried#because I only had a few hours left before I had to get on the plane home#and I start hurriedly stuffing seconds and minutes into my mouth and refusing to swallow#because maybe if I just cling extra hard then the time won’t pass-#but it does pass. and that’s okay. and I know that’s okay because life had more joyful things after that moment#had I stayed there on that day I would have been frozen as a much more miserable person#my friends themselves would have been very different people#I mean. fuck. between then and now two of us figured out our genders. both of them got married. they moved somewhere else now.#there’s a lot of little joys that got left behind there. a church they loved. a local park. mountains and windy streets.#but I wouldn’t hold ourselves there. which I try to remind myself when I start crying about lost time again#because yeah. this will end someday. human lifespans aren’t infinite.#but the future is full of life I still have to live. there’s no saying that I can’t have good things again.#and this period of my life is rapidly rushing towards a much more uncertain future and I know that and it’s scary#I know I have about 11 months to make several very adult decisions that will determine a lot of my future#but no matter what I choose this period of my life is not wasted#and I don’t need to hurriedly optimize every second and mourn losing them#and I know that. and I still feel sad and mourny. but that might be more indicative that I’m hungry or smth.
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WOMEN MARRYING MEN you know you can keep your maiden name right? your husband can change HIS name. you can hyphenate. hell you can come up with a third, brand new name that you both chose. YOU DONT HAVE TO TAKE HIS NAME BY DEFAULT PLEASE WOMEN!!!
#sorry. my work gets a lot of bachelorette parties and i have to get their initials and one thing that always happens when i ask brides#their initials is that they go oh it's XY and then their friends go hehe NOT FOR LONG#queens you can KEEP YOUR NAMES#some of them look happy about it which like yayyy! i'm glad you're happy to be taking his name#but some of them like frown or go :/ and i'm like THERE ARE OPTIONS QUEEN!!!!!#anyway coming from someone who will not ever change their name legally even if i wanted to. i might be biased.#but this is one of those small things that pisses me off like i know it's easier to share a family name when married based on my parents#experiences with having different last names for the first 12 years of my life and all the problems that caused with school and banks#but it doesn't have to be the man's name? honestly it pisses me offffff that it's still a normal thing to assume a woman will take a man's#last name. there's a lot of these kind of things that piss me off but this one i encounter a lottttr.#anyway.#ratspeaks
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5/6/24 12:17pm
I can’t post this on the other account because she’ll see it but do you ever have a conversation with a bunch of your friends about risk and money percentages to which your actuarial friend says that your risk is lower if you were married
THEN you say you wouldn’t mind a marriage of convenience and think about fake proposing to your other friend beside you who feels, though you are both whole by yourselves, like the other half of you, that you’ve had several dreams about marrying or being in a relationship with, and that you would happily spend the rest of your life with because each parting is tortuous and long and maybe can’t be fully explained by Midwesterner’s goodbyes but then you decide “No I can’t do that.”
THEN you turn to her and she took off her fidget ring and is holding it out to you asking you “Do you want to marry me?” as a JOKE, which you were going to do but STILL
And you really REALLY want to say yes and your eyes feel alight and you feel a smile but instead you go along with the joke and say “I was going to ask you the same thing!” And just laugh with her but then feel incredibly off put, thinking you were going to say “yes” and mean it happily to live and go through life together and wonder if any of it felt real on her end? Or maybe what that means for you?
Anyway!
~Nico
#I am molding TOO WELL to my fandoms now#getting asked to marry as a joke?#and I wanted to say yes?#like?! urgh#but I don’t THINK I have a crush on her#I mean#I would know right?#there are many types of love according to the Greeks#it might not BE romantic#if I’m being an idiot about how I feel please just tell me#I don’t understand emotions#just bare with me here#yes she is the one I write about#take a guess who’s who#love#friends#life partners#mxtx fandom#mxtx novels#mdzs#tcgf#svsss
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at intermission. having SO many thoughts. i think the staging and the scenic are genuinely brilliant. i think there are some really good choices being made by the actors and the comedy is clean as hell. i also think that it’s missing most of what makes company compelling to me and the core message Does feel misogynistic in this context but also not condemnably so bc they make it work well with bobbie’s characterization she just. should have so much more to her. i think my overall opinion is that this is a Very successful execution of what sondheim and furth wanted company to be. unfortunately i’ve always thought they were wrong about it and didn’t understand their own show
#it’s so. frothy like this#company is not frothy. to me#i think i don’t like company as a straight comedy is what i’m learning. tragicomedy pls#also affirming that merrily is my fave sondheim bc company depends on interpretation so much#high school girl behind me ranting to her mom about how bobbie might be gay or aromantic and she’s not old enough that she needs to get#- married anyway?! I LOVE YOU <3333333 can we be friends#anyway bobbie’s character is like. too clear here which makes her feel more shallow. i don’t think you should really understand them until -#- the climax. but that’s also personal opinion#ted talks#company
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