#My friend and I might get married

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

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[stood-onthecliffside]

swiftie gift exchange for @catastrxblues

[shalom-iamcominghome]

Jewish wedding life hack: worried about having too many books and not enough bookshelves? Ask the wedding guests to go get IKEA bookshelves as a gift! And maybe extra screws....

[vadapavani-13]

at this very moment in India, the Supreme Court is hearing petitioners who wish to legalise same-sex marriage in India. these petitioners are being opposed by the Centre, which believes that marriage is only intended to be between a "biological man and a biological female". these 20 petitioners are fighting for the basic fundamental rights which have been promised to the citizens of India in the Constitution under Articles 12-35.

by legalising same-sex marriage in India today, people who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community in India also get the life and health insurance rights that married heterosexual couples currently get. their union is legally recognised by the State, which might not be important to some but is quite important to others.

by legalising same-sex marriage in India today, the Supreme Court would be granting the rights that queer people in India have been fighting for for years.

i really hope today is the day we finally get the rights we deserve.

[hyperfocusthusly]

Did anyone else wake up at 4am, frantically write out 1,000 words of plot outline for a Zukka themed Zuko whump or are you normal

[possamble]

realizing im kind of a weirdo about laios and marcille

[thebigbiwolf]

What is the best thing you've ever done

Several years ago I finally decided to leave a situation that was holding me back from finding someone I really love. The second best thing was moving to Colorado to go to college (I graduate next month and still can't believe it). The third would have to be staying at a Bleachers concert even though I was going to miss my flight back (another one of my partners suggestions), which led to me meeting and befriending their social media manager.

[bubaboos]

*a girl that is going to be okay.jpg*

[duskier]

ughhh

[onepiece-polls]

I love your polls and it’s great you try to be on both sides to give fair chance to everyone, but the way you talked about shanks/buggy is crazy They’re fine together but in canon they’re brothers and your shipping googles got so tight you actually sounded like you could believe they’re anywhere close to canon which is u know stupid af

lmao, okay, this came out of nowhere 😂 Like... I talked about that months ago. But okay.

Anyway, Shuggy is canon. They're making out behind you right now.

[lightblueminecraftorchid]

they call me the griever because halfway through a thing I enjoy I’m already sad that it’s closer to being over

[thorinlandscaping]

WOMEN MARRYING MEN you know you can keep your maiden name right? your husband can change HIS name. you can hyphenate. hell you can come up with a third, brand new name that you both chose. YOU DONT HAVE TO TAKE HIS NAME BY DEFAULT PLEASE WOMEN!!!

[a-deceived-pigeon]

5/6/24 12:17pm

I can’t post this on the other account because she’ll see it but do you ever have a conversation with a bunch of your friends about risk and money percentages to which your actuarial friend says that your risk is lower if you were married

THEN you say you wouldn’t mind a marriage of convenience and think about fake proposing to your other friend beside you who feels, though you are both whole by yourselves, like the other half of you, that you’ve had several dreams about marrying or being in a relationship with, and that you would happily spend the rest of your life with because each parting is tortuous and long and maybe can’t be fully explained by Midwesterner’s goodbyes but then you decide “No I can’t do that.”

THEN you turn to her and she took off her fidget ring and is holding it out to you asking you “Do you want to marry me?” as a JOKE, which you were going to do but STILL

And you really REALLY want to say yes and your eyes feel alight and you feel a smile but instead you go along with the joke and say “I was going to ask you the same thing!” And just laugh with her but then feel incredibly off put, thinking you were going to say “yes” and mean it happily to live and go through life together and wonder if any of it felt real on her end? Or maybe what that means for you?

Anyway!

~Nico

[callixton]

at intermission. having SO many thoughts. i think the staging and the scenic are genuinely brilliant. i think there are some really good choices being made by the actors and the comedy is clean as hell. i also think that it’s missing most of what makes company compelling to me and the core message Does feel misogynistic in this context but also not condemnably so bc they make it work well with bobbie’s characterization she just. should have so much more to her. i think my overall opinion is that this is a Very successful execution of what sondheim and furth wanted company to be. unfortunately i’ve always thought they were wrong about it and didn’t understand their own show

[oidheadh-con-culainn]

reading queer historicals does something to me because the characters are never totally safe but they find ways to be happy anyway. they find people they're safe around. they find ways of living in the world without attracting attention. ways to be happy that will let them exist even amidst a hostile society

and it's... i guess it's encouraging, sort of, when the world feels so hostile. to remember both that there has been progress, and also that we can find ways to be happy even when the world seems determined to make that as hard as possible. that it's possible to endure, and keep existing, and find joy, even when you can never be entirely safe

but

but i want to be safe. i don't want to have to fight to find my own joy. i don't want to have to build a future before i can live in it. i just want to feel safe