#Mod Aby

[asexualconfessions]

the constant “aces can have sex asexuality is having little to no sexual attraction” is insufferable to me because I could not give a shit if I experience sexual attraction, my asexuality is entirely because I do not want to have sex with or be viewed sexually by anyone ever. and I could say “oh I probably don’t experience sexual attraction if I can’t even recognise it” but to be frank I don’t want to fucking define my aceness differently and I’m sick of being constantly excluded for the sake of a more inclusive tagline especially considering that within all the fandom spaces I’ve been in prize aces that have sex as the best type of ace you can be, the least annoying ace, the least killjoy ace. and all the activism spaces I’ve been in have a sex positive goal that would probably be better for most people but would completely leave sex repulsed aces by the wayside and I know it’s not favourable aces fault I know there’s friendly fire from sex repulsed and adverse aces too, but I just constantly see this “sex is perfectly natural and your bitching about it is actually sex negative and regressive and you just need to accept the way the world is” attitude and it’s just arghhh I hate it! I hate fucking everything! And I’m not even sex repulsed I’m sex adverse! fuck this is a ramble but it sucks that I’m excluded from the common definition of ace and it sucks that a lot of peoples utopia has no room for people like me

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[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Abinary Ambinary Pride Flag

Amabinary/nymambinary/nymamby or ambiabinary/ambiabin (ambiaphorian/abinambinary or amaphorian/ambiaby/ambiaby) [apisambinary/ambiapsgender/ambips/ambiaps]: being ambinary and abinary/aphorian.

Ambinary: experiencing both binary genders.

Abinary/aphorian: experiencing a genderness that is completely unrelated to maleness, masculinity, femaleness, or femininity, and is nowhere in between those things.

This can be for any reason. Some examples include: genderfluid, pangender/omnigender, multigender/polygender, plurigender, varsex/intersex/altersex/aldernic, GNC/PNC, system member plurality/medianity, centrigender/circa-binary, "both neither", gendervast/gendercollector, cusper/evenic, cross-aligned/cronant-aligned, liaspec/mesospec exospec/abiaspec, bonusbinary...

[ed-culture-is]

Ed culture is getting pissed off when people with other eds say they wish they had your ed instead

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[frontlinebicepsoftheninth]

in light of a second migration to this site i just need to speak my truth which is that harrow is a redditor gideon is a twitter user and ianthe is a tumblrina hope this helps

[airs-headspace]

I almost sad bought a ton of SIMS 4 stuff, because my biggest thing is I want to have all the possible build items/build locations, but I don't necessarily want the game play... I am not very good at playing the SIMS!!! (However, I want all the build opportunities because I DO use it to try and envision homes for my characters in stories. This is it's biggest use to me!!! To learn how to BUILD HOUSES!!!)

However I think I will sit on this a little bit, things that are on sale are on sale until the 19th. I got excited because all the expansions are 50% off, and I was like "that is actually a STEAL" so maybe I will just buy the Xpacs, and then wait on everything else... aughaerggoj

And like I know that there's no "right" way to play the SIMS, but I also just think I do everything wrong HAHAHA I should look up some challenges and see if I can do them with Abiteth... I will do a think 🤔🤔

Although (and this is me being a verbal problem solver LOL) I think it would be a good idea to grab all the Xpacs that are 50% off rn. I'm legit scared to reopen the game because I've had to reinstall mods and what not and OFDUHGAGJJI GUYS I'M STRESSED OVER NOTHING!!!

[wiredsmi1e]

guyyyyys what should i do on the sims while i work on my comms !!!!

[kos-mos]

Wanted to get into new horizons modding because i got an itch but good lord the state of it is just awful

[116t98]

Ok someone’s gotta fill me in on the highlights of Zach’s anniversary stream bc I missed it and it’s not uploaded as a past broadcast

[shatinn]

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[asexualconfessions]

I used to think that most people only had sex when they wanted to have a kid. It seemed pointless to do any other time..

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[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Fem Abinary Pride Flag

Femabinary (femaby/abyfem/femmaby), abfem/femab/femmab, femaphorian/femmaphorian, or aphorinine/aphorem/aphoremme: a term for feminine abinary people; abin+fin (abinarine and fem in nature).

[ed-culture-is]

"Recovered" ED culture is mourning the metabolism you had before the ED, and trying to still love yourself

[honestlyitsjustsam]

They wasnt lying when they said the city would be overwhelming

There are approximately 20 active quests rn, SO MANY NPCS ARE TALKING AT THE SAME TIME, going to the city with 10 of my companions was a biiig mistake we dont fit in anywhere and their banter keeps getting triggered!! Im getting infodumped about the lore and Gortashs voice is so hot so yeah i am overwhelmed as fuuuuck

now now i always thought “why would anyone wanna sleep with that squid called emperor?”

i kinda

kinda

Kinda see it now…

[gingergofastboatsmojito]

Apologies

IMO Carmy apologizes just fine and not just to Syd, has always done that actually.

Sometimes he just admits his wrongdoing though, and this tone was set very early in the relationship.

This is almost better than saying "I'm sorry" if you ask me BUT only if followed by an actual change in behavior. THAT'S THE PART HE FALLS SHORT AT, NOT THE APOLOGIES PER SE. (keep reading if you wanna know why because there’s a scientific explanation for that, it’s not his fault yet it is his responsibility to overcome it)

Brigade | 01x03

Braciole | 01x08

Braciole | 01x08

OK, OK! He didn't say "I'm sorry", true. He just admitted his behavior was not OK, which still counts. And then he tried to redeem himself by offering to share his lifelong dream with her. Whether that's even better than an apology or not, I'm not willing to debate, some may think it might be. I'm not one of them, I think a change in behavior is the best apology

BUT to be fair:

Syd didn't apologize either for leaving the take-out option ON, she just offered him a second chance, which means that at that point neither one of them were apologizing with words, they were BOTH using actions instead.

The reason being, the feelings that started brewing beneath the surface, they didn't wanna acknowledge them, they deliberately chose not to and intended to move on. The decision was made. They decided to "keep it profesh", thus they couldn't voice them out because if they did they were gonna upgrade them to "real/official" and they were nowhere ready for that nor were they willing to do it, for that matter. So, in fact, at that point, they probably even decided they were never gonna be and gave up before even giving it a second thought.

In his case the progression of that was quite obvious:

<That's why C showed up shortly after, btw. It just fits the timeline they both tacitly started building since Braciole.>

AND BECAUSE LOVE FOR CARMY MEANS THIS↓

"It always gets fucked."

In her case, I can only guess because the sadist completely deprived us of her juicy background story pretty much, but I could bet an obscene amount of money on Syd having a similar idea of what love might entail, that's why no matter how loving and nurturing she is, she doesn't really let anyone in - refer to her tattoo for symbology pls -

She puts up walls:

More about that here:

Luckily in S3 they are getting flimsier by the minute, but still.

Back to his apologies

Pasta | 02x02

In Pasta he apologized and taught her the "Sorry" sign, even when he wasn't the one who did anything wrong because it was Syd who fucked up the lacto ferment.

Then he did apologize when appropriate a few days later:

Sundae | 02x03

Bolognese | 02x08

Omelette | 02x09

Omelette | 02x09

The Bear | 02x10

Tomorrow | 03x01

Apologies | 03x09

So as you can clearly see, he has no problem apologizing to anyone when he means it, his problem starts after the apology because even when he meant it, even when he's truly repentant, he fucks up, which IMPO is actually a trauma response → linked to his C-PTSD to be more precise. He self-boycotts because his brain is wired that way after years of enduring abuse. Meaning, Carmy has ABI (Abusive Brain Injury), which is a type of non-traumatic brain injury (although it could also be TBI if the abuse was also physical) that leads to damaged brain tissue resulting from years of consistent psychological and sometimes physical abuse, like the one he suffered when around Donna and Eleven Madison Dickhead. His 2 main abusers.

In other words, he's wired for failure till he overcomes his trauma, which as I keep saying, will happen in S4 because he has already started his healing process and had his breakthrought in 03x10.

You can read more about the correlation between ABI and abuse here.

Why he doesn't apologize to the C person?

Glad you asked, I already answered that question a while ago:

But it could also be because Syd didn't greenlight him in 03x01 or because C actually told him: "Never apologize". OR because:

I'm going to stick to the theory of it being a denial by-product, though, as I explained in the 1° meta above about GUILT being his main driver just because it's very IC of him. However, it wouldn't be a stretch if it were a combination of all these factors.

Bonus track: He doesn't have a problem with saying ILY either (if he really means it that is, he won't take it lightly), the problem is being on the receiving end of those words because they usually are the preface of a very painful story for him, a story where he usually ends up getting hurt and disappointed.

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[bbmsxlene]

why do you create a event if you, yourself are not going to participate?

girl, you knew you such a busy person then dont do it.

simple as that.

and go on dc to bitch about me. i also have screenshots about bitching about you and each other.

oh my days how do i manage to get hate even when im inactive

me and abi (a mod in my dc server since you apparently are in it!) were bored one night and decided to create it, just for fun 😭 it’s NOT that serious, if you want to participate then do it, if you don’t want to then don’t, simple as that

why yall mad about ME flopping

also excuse me??? it’s literally MY discord server can i speak about the asks that i get or do u expect me to stfu and take it 😭 ??? heelp