#It's about the personal reassurance
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YOU think MK is a selfless forgiving good boi mc. I think he's self-centered, but that doesn't devalue the good deeds that happen as a result. We are not the same
#like to me. everything for MK is motivated by himself like#Protecting the city? That's what a good hero would do#And he wants to be a good hero and to protect *his* friends#Crying in 2x10? It's more about him failing as a hero/successor than it is about the innocent people in danger#to me anyways#Like any time he's ''seeing the good'' or ''forgiving'' an antagonist it is literally just him like#Saying the things he wants to hear/believe#Like#If Macaque isn't a bad guy then he can help and if he can help then maybe we can win#It's about the personal reassurance#Like. ''Forgiving'' DBK? Well that's easy. If DBK is a ''good guy'' now then he's not a problem for MK to deal with#And MK fucking LOVES not having to deal problems#Like it's easier for him to just ignore past history than it is to deal with it#4x14 is the ultimate example of this for me like#MK see's that Azure's crying and is then willing to be all like#''You still can. You're the only one who can'' to try and help#And it's like. Sure. MK doesn't *not* want to save/help Azure#But at the same time#Wukong was able to stop him so easily. In contrast to samadhi fire Mei where MK ran directly into the fire#Like the moment MK sees himself in you it's over okay#He's gonna be like ''you're just like me'' and self-centered about it#And it worked for like#Mei and Macaque and Azure#But it didn't work for Spider Queen#you know#lego monkie kid#lmk#lmk MK#lmk rant#For the love of god stop making MK Steven
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I need you to understand that the very straight and immediate line from someone's very confident "I don't like mice/I've handled mice before so I know what they're like" to joyous wonder as they hold the first calm, friendly mouse they've ever held and murmur "they're so soft/sweet/warm/gentle" practically to themselves is basically a drug
"I work at a petstore," says the young man with much disdain, "so I don't really need to hold another one. I know what they're like."
"These aren't petstore mice," I say, as I turn my hand over and the mouse holds on tighter. "They're not like any mouse you've ever held," I say, as I close my hand gently around the mouse and flip her onto her back for a second so I can touch her mouth and demonstrate how difficult it would be to get one of my mice to bite.
"I'm sure you've handled them extensively from a very young age, though."
"They haven't been handled before today, except to be moved into clean cages." She arranges herself in my hand and cleans her face. "Are you sure you don't want to hold one?"
He opens his hands, and she pours from my hand into his like a viscous liquid. She is soft and warm and sweet, and his entire face lights up when she hunkers down onto his warm hand and closes her eyes.
"....She's changing my mind."
"They tend to do that when you leave it open."
He took her and two companions home.
#mice#mouse#my pets#I LOVE bringing my mice to expos you have no idea how cool it is#the CONFIDENCE that they know what mice are about#the DISGUST I see from people can be unreal#but so many of those people come over to prove me wrong#and immediately 180#I don't know what people expect mice to feel like#my favorite are the little kids who accept the mouse into their hands#and handle them more casually than any adult#while their parent stresses and has to be reassured that the mouse won't jump#and the mice just. tolerate being manhandled. they just chill about it#they are not as chill about it with adults but little kids idk they just act different toward them#anyway I had a blast today#once again the mice were superstars there was not straight 5 minutes in a row#where I did not have a crowd around my table#I think the highest out count was 6 mice in hands at a time#personal#stories about ked's life
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im obsessed with how, in the beginning of episode 1, it's charles who says "do you ever think about death catching us and splitting us up", and it's edwin who says "I will never let that happen".
because of course edwin is the one who objectively has the most to lose if they get caught, and they're both very aware of this. when the night nurse ambushes them, charles steps between her and edwin immediately, and the second time he explicitly says do what you want with me, but leave edwin. it would be natural for him to be the protective one-- and a lot of the time he is!
but the very first time we're presented with the idea of running from death, it's charles who expresses anxiety and edwin who reassures him. because what scares charles most is the thought of being separated from edwin-- and, as always, edwin doesn't want charles to be afraid.
#dead boy detectives#just a little thought#dbda#i particularly think a lot about like. when do you think edwin realized that charles was genuinely Afraid of being caught#not because charles is afraid of sent to hell (though he might be) and not purely because edwin would be sent there (though that featured)#but because no matter how it shook out-- if they got caught they would get split up#and that-- in itself-- is charles' nightmare scenario#imagine what realizing that must have been like for edwin#and then in turn i think about just how much charles *trusts* edwin#like his presence is the cornerstone of charles being happy#edwin's sincere esteem is what convinces charles that he isn't becoming a terrible person#and so: edwin is the one to reassure him that theyre never going to get split up#edwin will make sure. and so charles doesn't have to be afraid of it#just. yeah
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Drawing made while listening Underdog by Takayan !
+ comic of my slice of life


And this one is from 2023
+ random drawings



#my art#original art#i am not sure what to tag lol#the first character is kinda my persona#I'm not sure about the result but a lot of persons reassured me on instagram#im grateful to them !!#it is so sad I don't have any thought in my head#no hyperfixation and it is the void#last two pic is Nilou and Tighnari#pink hair with black sweat is from Tamon's B-Side#i love this manga it is so hilarious#the one with short hair w blue background is a doodle I made in uni because my ass wasn't listening#and the one with a lot of hand is because I was overwhelmed ):
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don’t ever tell a male SA survivor; “You’re supposed to enjoy it”
don’t ever tell a male SA survivor; "good game/job"
don’t ever tell a male SA survivor; “You’re a boy, you can’t get raped.”
don’t ever tell a male SA survivor; “that doesn’t count.”
don’t ever tell an SA survivor; “What were you wearing?”
don’t ever tell an SA survivor; “Did you close your legs?”
don’t ever tell an SA survivor; “They’re family, they wouldn’t do that.”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “I don’t believe you.”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “I know them, they wouldn’t do that.”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “You’re supposed to enjoy it.”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “We’re you leading them on?”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “We’re you rude?”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “You’re an adult, toughen up.”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “it doesn’t count.”
don’t ever tell a SA survivor; “it’s your fault.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “but you don’t act like it.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “But they seem so nice.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “They’d never do that.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “She’s a girl, girl’s don’t abuse.”
don’t ever tell a male DA/GA survivor; “Boys can’t be abused.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “But you have no scars.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “You’re just making things up for attention.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “you should’ve just fought/yelled back.”
don’t ever tell a DA/GA survivor; “It’s your fault.”
don’t ever tell an attempt survivor; “that’s selfish of you.”
don’t ever tell an attempt survivor; “I’ve had it worse/i know someone who has it worse.”
don’t ever tell an attempt survivor; “that doesn’t sound like an attempt.”
don’t ever tell a POC; “you’d be way prettier with lighter skin.”
don’t ever tell a POC; “but you don’t look american?”
don’t ever tell a POC; “you should try skin bleaching.”
don’t ever tell a POC; “oh, are you in a gang or something?”
don’t ever tell a POC; “but your skin is so light, you can’t be colored.”
don’t ever tell a POC; “can you give me the N word pass?”
don’t ever tell a POC; “your hair is distracting”
don’t ever tell a POC; “go back to where you came from.” [whoever says this, i live in your walls]
don’t ever tell an albino; “you’re white, not black.”
don’t ever tell an albino; “so are one of your parent white or something?”
don’t ever tell an albino; “you’d be prettier if you were normal.”
don’t ever tell an albino; “oh has anyone tired talking you limbs or something” [i will hunt whoever says this]
don’t ever tell a child; “you should take care of your siblings.”
don’t ever tell a child; “he hits you/is being rude because he likes you”
don’t ever tell a child; “you have to hug them!”
don’t ever tell a child; “it’s your fault we’re divorcing”
don’t ever tell a child; “you’re too old to be doing this.”
don’t ever tell a child of divorced parents; “it’s your fault”
don’t ever tell a child of divorced parents; “pick a side”
don’t ever tell a child of divorced parents; “did you ever consider that you should’ve stepped in?”
don’t ever tell a child of divorced parents; “well if they never got together in the first place, they wouldn’t have had you”
you never know what a person is going through and don’t you dare shame a person for something they can’t control.
if you say any of these things you’re disgusting and you need to not only get educated but stop being a dick.
keep in mind that i am aware that these prompts don’t apply to everyone of a certain minority. But this is me teaching to simply be kind and pay respect and mind to a person’s experiences, minority, etc. there are multiple prompts that can be added but I will refrain to using those out of respect, and also due to censorship.
#sa awareness#sa#domestic violent relationships#sa survivor#sa survivors#domestic abu5e#DA#abuse awareness#poc#colored life’s matter#colored lives matter#black lives matter#person of color#albino#albinism#child abuse#child abuse awareness#mental health awareness#mental health#child of divorce#divorced parents#this is all to spread love and education#i hope someone finds comfort and reassurance in this#if anyone wants to talk about literally anything#don’t hesitate to reach out#my heart to goes out to everyone reading
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i dont think i will ever forgive what the internet did to DID because please explain to me how "your sense of self is so torn apart you think youre multiple people" turned into "youre actually multiple people"
do you understand what i mean? please understand what i mean
#kostik speaks#yes cat 3 are real things ive been told and things that honestly really traumatised me and ruined my relationship with myself & disorder#some reassurance im not the only person who finds this super upsetting would be nice#my mental illness: causes harrowing feelings of disconnection from my life and a tendency to disown and/or reject my identity#some people for some fucking reason: reinforces the mental illness in ways never thought possible#i love and appreciate everyone who knows about my bullshit and yet doesnt deny me my personhood or treat me like some freak#i got really triggered about this yesterday so ive deleted the bulk of the tags i wrote (dehumanisation trauma when)#but i stand by this and ive been assured i make sense so sure. posting#this is the real reason i hate giving my disorder by name if you even care. it is specifically this treatment#did tag
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Peter has a lot of people he dated cannonly. So imagine when he’s dating Wade, he tells him about his previous lovers. Wade knew them. Well, most of them.
Like he knows about MJ, Gwen, Black Cat and probably Cindy too
What he DOESN’T know is that he apparently wasn’t the first male Peter dated and there was still more. (I’m still shocked) (Shut up Wade)
One day, the pair happened to team up with the Fantastic Four for a day. They decided to help the team and the entire time, Wade notices how touchy Johnny is with Peter and how much he actually talked to the Spider the entire day.
So after they spilt from the team, Wade decided to ask the question.
Wade: When were you so close with Johnny? Like I’m totally not jealous and I know you teamed up with them several times in the past. And I read from one of your many comics that you even became one of their members in a different universe but I didn’t know you were specifically closer with Johnny
Peter, ignoring the comic part and answering everything else: Oh I used to date him. Stayed in the same apartment too for a few months to save money before I moved out and decided we weren’t quite a fit together. I thought you knew?
Wade, absolutely dumbfounded and incredibly more jealous about the fact that Johnny lived with his baby boy before him: Babe, how could I possibly know that.
Then that night when they had their nightly patrol meal, Wade asked if he dated more people. Wade knew most(He thinks?) of his exes but was curious of anymore he doesn’t know. Peter hums thoughtfully before deciding to list out the names
Peter: MJ, Gwen, Felicia, Betty Brant(search her up if ydk) , Cindy, Johnny, Harry, Mark/Stephen(there’s actually a comic panel with him mentioning it) …uhh who else was there… *tapping his chin as he thinks*
Wade, nearly choking on his bite of chimichanga but swallowed it in the end cause he refuses to waste any bits of his second love before yelling: YOU DATED THE MOONKNIGHT? AND YOUR EX BEST FRIEND HARRY?? AND YOU REMEMBER BETTY FROM THE COMICS?
Peter, clenching his fist to calm down and not punch the man: Yes I dated Harry. A year only. Mark was quite short. Like a month or two? And Betty was my first girlfriend, of course I remember her. I still catch up with her, you idiot
Wade’s mind blanked for awhile and Peter had to drag him home. It’s difficult to carry a man a hundred more pounds heavier than him while swinging and calculating equations in his head so he doesn’t die and kill his love too. (Even if said lover can’t die so mostly he’s trying to save himself)
#Wade’s still flabbergasted#and the more he thinks about it#he gets jealous and want to shoot himself#Peter had webbed all his guns to the ceiling#and reassures the man he’s the last person he’s dating#wade may or may not had cried#marvel#marvel universe#marvel headcanons#peter parker#spiderman#wade wilson#spideypool#spiderman x deadpool
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Yes Solar being revived with a sacrificed BM and getting the bloodcode could be used for horror, however have you considered he is just a lil guy. cfvghb I've been thinking about Blood Solar for a bit and got possessed and made this. Just like when I hit Silly Eclipse with the blood beam Solar isn't automatically turned into a blood crazed monster he just- needs a new diet and has more feral tendencies. The murder isn't a problem until he's starving </3 So it's manageable, Solar is clinging to that fact and trying to pass this off as not a big deal even though everyone else is freaking out about it. It isn't without it's problems though, obviously he can't go hungry, but there are consequences to using only one BM twin where it's a miracle they're still functioning. Solar is very clingy and protective with their siblings, especially Nexus who his code has claimed as their "other half", which yeah leads back into being violent when they're threatened.
#solar and silly clip deal with the same thing#but while clip freaks out about it more openly but is reassured by others who know it's not the end of the world#solar is stuck handling it better personally but being surrounded by ppl who have only ever dealt with bm as a monster#and thus are in fact treating it like it's the end of the world#basil art#sun and moon show#tsams#blood solar#sams solar#tw blood#cw blood
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we both deserve to be happy
in case anyone is wondering, it gets easier. it gets so so much easier and i hope you find the love you're looking for
#this is like deeply personal and intimate but im posting it for the people who might need to hear this#there isn't really a more profound way i could say it. just that love is everywhere and it will be there for you if you look for it#it's true that things won't ever be the same and that's a good thing. never go back#ive been wanting to make more art about my grief and post it on tumblr for people but like. tbh. ive kind of processed a lot of it now#its kind of hard for me to tap into those old emotions again but hopefully this is still helpful for some people#my art#grief#love#idk#i just wanted to post this to reassure people who are scared to make the next step. i am so happy right now and i hope you will be too
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#natalie scatorccio#shauna shipman#shaunanat#shorccio#jackienat#taylorccio#jackieshauna#shackie#jackieshaunanat#shauna x nat#jackie x nat#jackie x shauna#yellowjackets#*#i’m obsessed with this moment. earlier in the episode we see nat sitting outside just staring at jackie’s bones. she’s clearly been thinkin#this over. that they can’t just leave her there. a visual reminder of what they did. making them all feel sick#that jackie deserved better. that in death. even now that she’s just bones. she deserves a burial or something. and nat takes initiative.#comes up with a plan and shares it with the group. but even then she looks to shauna for permission or maybe reassurance? maybe it’s out of#respect. they all remember how shauna reacted when it was initially suggested they get rid of jackie’s body. this is hard on all of them#jackie’s death and what they did. but they all know it’s affecting shauna the most.#maybe nat is even hoping shauna will want to help or that someone else besides natalie is feeling the way she is. that she won’t have to do#this alone. that someone else wants to honor jackie or feels as sick as she does about it. and they clearly do!! so many of them feel that.#i mean maybe only shauna and taissa are feeling it as strongly as she does? but shauna is kind of in shock and sick with guilt and grief an#in no place to meet nat half way here. she’s retreating into herself. and tai doesn’t even remember eating jackie. think she’s still#processing that it even happened. that they all aren’t lying to her. and also dealing with the knowledge that she’s having memory gaps.#dissociating. so nobody that is present there with natalie is feeling the way she is. lottie seems to think it was necessary for their#survival (probably true and nat even tells jackie’s bones as much.) but lottie doesn’t seem to be feeling guilty and when she takes a mug#out to natalie while she’s wrapping the bones. nat seems angry at the way lottie is handling it. and travis offers to go with her but it#reads to me like he is worried about nat specifically and not that he’s feeling that bad about what happened. i think nat is just feeling s#alone in this episode. and the one person that gets that is shauna but she’s just not in an actionable state. just tells nat to take the
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[ID: Two page comic in color of Vash and Wolfwood from Trigun Maximum. The first page has a black background and the upper half, behind the panels, is splattered with stylized red blood, scattered bullets, and lifeless hands. In the first panel, it focuses on Vash's boots, showing him stepping through the panel and into the bloody scene. The second panel shows his bloody footprints and the third panel shows his face, his down-turned eyes looking downwards. It's a neutral, vague expression with confliction. At the bottom of the page, the back of Wolfwood's head and shoulder is seen, blood dirtying the white color of his shirt and side of his face. Vash's hand reaches out to him from the right side of the page.
The second page shows the entire scene in full, half the page in light and the other in solid black. At the center, Vash leans down onto his knees as he wraps his arms around Wolfwood's shoulders into a hug. Wolfwood's back is turned away from the viewer, his left arm holds onto his bloodied punisher and his right hand sits on his lap. Light casts from the left side of the page, showing the bloodied surrounding, but the held up punisher casts a shadow on the both of them, shielding them from the light. END ID]
#vashwood#vash the stampede#nicholas d wolfwood#trigun#trigun maximum#tw blood#<-- should i add that to the original post... if it's effective?#anyway this was a direct sequel to the previous post... i had a lot of thoughts when i drew it but my brain is failing me rn#something something about being granted that bit of mundanity and then running into some situation that whiplashes u back into the identity#u were built and trained to be. that at the end of the day its not possible to just be without dirtying your hands again#he's used to it but ww will forever be someone too kind too tender hearted to really be eased out of the cold lifestyle he's forced to live#and i personally dont think trimax vash could look at wolfwood with disdain or disappointment when catching him after the fact#he knows where wolfwood's heart lies he's seen the way wolfwood killed to protect and he thanked him for it too. i think him understanding#ww deeper in that way would just make his heart wretch so all he can offer is a comfort and arms to return to.#to reassure that he can still be loved even with the blood on his hands#i also think i drew an illustration when i first got into trigun depicting this same ish message....#i'm just very particular about this Subject. i need ww to be loved i need him to be reassured even if he'll still refuse to believe he's#worthy of it like AUGHHH. ok.#ruporas art
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OH but Rogue goes to get that mani-pedi with Wade and she fills him in on the drama, admits that she was pining over their universe's original Logan, Jean found out and got all weirdly possessive over Logan even though Rogue never intended to even think about making a move, and even now that their Logan is gone Jean kinda lords it over her. Then she's swearing Wade to secrecy with a sacred ritual of the time honored pinky promise
and wade's promising he'll never ever ever breathe a word of this to anyone and would NEVER EVER break a pinky promise. but he's also vibrating with the need to tell her that while he and logan are definitely for sure getting married someday, they are also in a fully open relationship
#wade voice OKAY THERE IS A LOT TO ADDRESS HERE#1) rich of her to be possessive of her side piece#2) youre allowed to have crushes on people#3) ok my pookie has a real complex about being treated as a replacement for the other guy so imma need you to reassure me that this crush#involves you acknowledging he's a new different person who just happens to be similar and your feelings have grown naturally from#interacting with him and learning about their differences mmmmkay?#4) girl. Girl. you should get it. it being my man. i can bring vanessa and we can go on a doubledate and then swap dates itll be so funny
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Chicago!
#there's something so comforting and reassuring about seeing Blue and Neil in person together or is that just me#fan expo chicago#meet and greet#neil newbon#no big neil#nobigneil#neilblr#blue owlz medic#fan expo#astarion#keep it neil#baldurs gate 3#astarion ancunin#convention#games convention
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Okay honestly these two episodes were absolutely a blast and had so many fun moments to them.
but dude the amount of COMFORT in this scene is unimaginable i love it sm gary is such a good guy...
Everybody deserves this type of love and comfort istg it's so good.
the fact he gave her a early invitation to the bakery just to give her even the smallest amount of comfort to her while she's afraid of cake's whereabouts and even giving her a LATTE AND GIVE HER REASSURANCE HE'LL HELP HER WITH THE SEARCH AFTER HES DONE MAKING SOME FOOD IN THE BACK...
I love u gary, we all deserve a gary in our lives and give him all the love and comfort possible back to him for his efforts.
#adventure time#fionna and cake#fionna and cake spoilers#fionna the human#prince gumball#its just everything in this scene man.#the night time vibe#the comfyness of the dialogue...#i love this show man#it has so much fun in it but these scenes where its just a regular town with regular people#going through their lives some are good some are bad some are in between#but there's always that PERSON#that person that truly cares about you and you do back#and it makes you feel like life isnt actually as bad as it is...#Gary is that#hes that reminder even when things go wrong#there is always a person who wants to help you in times of stress with comfort and reassurance.#this goes for online friends too <333
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I think I'm in the "conscious incompetence" stage of being a social animal in the real world and it sucks so majorly. bro what do you do after you realize you're bad at socializing and then in-person interaction gets harder because you know you're failing at it now.
#Robin processes emotions on main#I WANT to get good at socializing#I used to be better and I'm now worse >:[#in some ways. in some ways I've improved (e.g. am kinder). but I used to have more confidence and an easier time staying present#now I'm always shutting down and running away#literally I leave the room and go calm down in my room#I want to learn to regulate that impulse and become a chill person to hang out with. but How#I've been struggling lately with punishing myself for running away (not physically but with like. spirals of self-recrimination)#I think one good step would be to get mindful about praising myself for small steps again. I'll change faster if im kinder to myself#also I think seeking reassurance from the people I'm around more often even if it seems silly would be good#ALSO. a major problem I'm facing is that I am living with my parents. and my little sisters. and I don't... I... it's rough.#I used to parent my 15 (then 9) y/o little sister when my parents were gone and I still struggle with feeling Responsible For Her#so every time she's a little cringe I end up feeling like it's my fault and I'm gonna be punished for it and I don't know how to deal with#—how to deal with it#BIG SIGH#I'm TRYING to become a good adult who can help others rather than just living in desperate self-defensive survival mode forever#but it's so hard bro#and another issue is that I'm growing further and further apart from my parents' fundamentalist brand of Christianity#and feeling more and more incapable of making friends and bringing them to visit me. because I have to be perfect around my parents#how can I make friends if I can't offer them hospitality??#how can I be a fully realized adult if I have to hide in plain sight??#I need to move out so bad. even if I'm lonely at first I HAVE to move out#in related news my seasonal job is Over and I'm looking for full-time work! please pray for me if you're the praying type or just#send me encouraging words#that would help#<33333 I will be ok it's just a bad situation rn
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who else wanna kiss up his baby belly

#hes so cute#lol i love abs but i think its cute he doesnt have them#im pretty sure i wrote about it before lol but giving him hickies there i know he would lovveee#i also know hed be the type of person to try to workout for you and work on his body but then when youre hooking up#youre like#reassuring him that you like his tummy and he gets all whiny and breathy and squirmy#my beomgyu praise kink agenda needs to be pushed#EVERYWHERE.
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