#It girl

[aristocratic-student]

Love this approach!

Took me until about halfway through college before I realized “study” means “play with the material in a variety of ways until you understand it” and not just “read the assigned chapters and do the homework” and I think that probably should have been discussed at some point prior to that.

[chocolateg1rl]

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[hersfable]

𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐠𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐮𝐩 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐥𝐥 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝.

first level

start with the basics. eat healthier, exercise daily (this can be a 10 minute walk or an hour work out, doesn't matter; just do something) sleep 7-9 hours, shower every other day, and clean your space.

second level

journal daily. start simple with talking about your day or writing about your favourite things.

listen to subliminals at night. spotify has a lot of playlists.

meditate with affirmations daily. i listen to thewizardliz's affirmation video while focusing on my breathing and relaxing my body.

speak kind to yourself and others. don't talk down on yourself, try not to judge, remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes...

read books instead of doomscrolling. replace your social media screentime with reading a book.

make time for the people and things you love. even though you might be really busy with school or work, don't forget to be present. plan trips with your friends, eat dinner with your family, play that instrument that you liked so much, participate in team sports, be creative, etc.

third level

invest in a good skincare & oral care routine. this does not have to be expensive at all. i use the cerave cleanser and moisurizer and exfoliate 2 times a week. if you need to, use more but be careful it aligns with your skintype! brush your teeth two to three times a day, use a tongue scraper, chew gum, go to the dentist/orthodontist, whiten your teeths.

experiment with personal style. this includes hair, fashion, makeup, accessorizing, music, etc... don't follow trends if it's not what you actually like. have fun with it (for example, go shopping with your friends and try on stuff you would never glance at!)

shave your body. i personally use an epilator on my legs and a shaver under my arms. my mama advices me to not shave my arms or on my tummy, but honestly do what you think is best here.

pluck your eyebrows. i only pluck hairs that is going "outside" the shape of my eyebrows and just keep them looking mantained.

keep your nails clean. don't bite and don't get dirt underneath them. you can also polish them but you obviously don't have to.

these things are usually more expensive

get your nails done. in my experience it is around the €40-€80 to get them done in a salon. at home it's way less expensive because you only have to buy the equipment once and can use it for more than one time. i prefer doing them at home!

get an eyelash lift. i have gotten an lift for €35 but i've also seen people paint and lift them for more. it basically just lifts up your eyelashes and makes it look like your wearing mascara 24/7.

fake tan your body. i honestly have never done this, but after research, i found out it isn't damaging to your skin at all. you can buy self tanner at your local drugstore and at tanning salons.

[poleriri]

[regthomas1728]

I want to start a writing journal—more in the sense of getting to know myself as a writer and a person. I think if I’m able to know myself in a more personal way then I can know my characters in a similar way.

Journaling prompts to reinvent yourself ౨ৎ

how do I want the world to see me, and does it match how I see myself?

how do I show up for others, and how do they show up for me?

what about my life feels like love and what doesn't?

where does my time go, and where do I wish it would go?

who do I admire most, and what about them speaks to my soul?

is the way I live aligned with the life I dream of, or a I just coasting?

what qualities in others feel the most magnetic to me? Do I reflect those?

what’s inside my bag, and what does it say about me? (be honest, even the gum wrappers count.)

if I could script my perfect morning, how would it begin?

what passions have I ignored that I would like to reclaim?

what’s one small, powerful shift I could make today to move toward my dream life?

write a tender letter to the future version of yourself. What do you hope they’ve become, and what do you want them to remember about now?

As always, please feel free to share your own prompts and check out my insta for more of me! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

[coneyislandbaby066]

[digitalgirlguide]

cooling face masks, journaling under fairy lights, chamomile tea before bed, hot oil treatments, quiet afternoon naps, cloud-soft sheets, gentle hair brushing, organizing your space, baking as therapy, aromatherapy roll-ons, setting boundaries that protect your peace, plush bathrobes, lavender pillow mist, drinking tea while watching the rain, fresh-cut flowers, satin pillowcases, affirmations on sticky notes, late-night stretches, sleepy playlists, self-love moments.

[honeytonedhottie]

it girls guide to haircare, from glossy curls to flawless braids⋆.ೃ࿔*:･💕🧁

your hair is your CROWN 👑 and the prettiest hair is always the healthiest. so in this post i wanna explore tips, routines and recipes that can help you to have healthier hair and start ur haircare journey…💬🎀

BUILDING A HAIRCARE ROUTINE ;

when it comes to building a routine of any sort, consistency is key! the main components of building a MEAN hair care routine are the following ; cleansing, deep conditioning and nourishment. think of ur hair like a garden that you have to water and nourish and in return it'll grow and be beautiful. thats the way that hair is! it needs tender loving CARE to be as beautiful as it can be.

wash 1-2x a week depending on how much u need to, but avoid washing it every single day because it strips ur hair of its natural oils and will give u dry and brittle hair. and thats NOT hot…💬🎀

🧁 cleansing ; opt for sulfate-free shampoos to keep your hair clean without stripping away natural oils.

🧁 deep conditioning ; deep conditioning is a NON-negotiable. choose protein-rich or moisture-based deep conditioners to keep ur hair strong and soft.

🧁 nourishment ; use hair masks on a weekly basis, always use a leave in conditioner or serum to lock in moisture and shield your hair from heat or environmental stressors.

so all in all, wash ur hair once a week or as much as needed, make sure that u choose moisture based, protein rich conditioners, and use hair masks weekly and invest in quality masks and oils to nourish ur hair and give it that extra UMPH.

THE GLOSSIEST CURLS ;

to achieve the glossiest prettiest curls ever, start with damp hair. apply a curl-enhancing cream, and comb through for even distribution. you can also try the LOC method, where you leave in, oil then cream ur hair. this particularly works great for hair that loses moisture.

if u have curly hair, sleeping in a silk bonnet or on silk pillowcases can help you to avoid having frizzy hair and using silk scrunchies is better for the health of ur hair + avoids breakage.

for defined curls and coils that pop, hydrate first by starting on freshly washed or damp hair. apply a leave-in conditioner for hydration. use a curl-defining cream or custard to clump and hold ur curls, make sure that ur working in sections! use a diffuser to dry your curls while keeping their shape intact and finish with a lightweight oil or shine spray for that extra glossy look.

FLAWLESS BRAIDS ;

to get sleek, flawless braids, start by detangling your hair completely. smooth your edges with a gel or edge control, and section your hair evenly. keep your braids tight but not too tight to avoid tension on your scalp. finish with a hair oil for shine and to nourish your scalp. if you’re rocking feed-in braids or box braids, don’t forget to hydrate your scalp regularly to avoid dryness or flakes.

GENERAL TIPS ;

🧁 always work in sections when ur doing ur hair bcuz it makes the process easier + more effective 🧁 deep conditioner instead of regular conditioner 🧁 wrap ur hair at night with a bonnet/sleep on silk pillowcases

AT HOME HAIR GLOSSING ROUTINE ;

for hair glossing at home, combine conditioner, olive oil, and a tablespoon of honey in a bowl and mix it together. be generous with it as u apply it to your hair. leave on ur hair for an hour. after washing ur hair blow-dry it. 

MY PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS ;

❤︎ i use the glossy pearl hair mask and it smells SO good, it smells like literal baby powder and it keeps my hair so incredibly soft.

❤︎ i also really love the gisou honey infused hair mask, it smells like honey (duh) and is really nourishing for my hair + leaves it nice and shiny and soft.

SILK PRESS SZN ;

the basic steps to having the best at-home silk press are simple! first, wash ur hair with a moisturizing shampoo. opt for a sulfate free shampoo that will hydrate ur hair, and not strip ur curls of their natural oils. make sure to wash shampoo ur hair 2x and make sure that theres no residual shampoo left!

deep condition ur hair and let that sit for about 30 minutes, then rinse out with cool water. the next step is also a big nonnegotiable with silk presses - using heat protectants. PROTECT YOUR HAIR. step four is to blow out ur hair with a round brush or a hair-dryer brush, after you've done this smooth some serum into ur hair for that shine and frizz free silk press that we're going for. lastly, flat iron ur hair.

so all in all these are the six steps to getting that perfect silk press at home...💬🎀

wash hair with a moisturizing shampoo

deep condition ur hair and let it sit for 30 minutes

dry ur hair and apply a heat protectant

blow out ur hair with a hair dryer brush or a round brush

smooth some serum into ur hair

flat iron ur hair

[theglowsociety]

Your environment holds energy, and if it’s heavy with negativity, it can weigh you down emotionally and mentally. Cleansing your space is an act of self-care, helping you release stagnant energy and invite positivity, clarity, and peace.

Whether it’s lighting sage, burning incense, using crystals, or simply decluttering and opening windows, creating a harmonious space allows you to thrive.

Your home should feel like a sanctuary—a reflection of your highest self. Make cleansing your space a regular ritual, and watch how it transforms your energy and mindset. Peace begins where you live

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[pisces-core]

[thefemigirl]

✤ 15 Outs This Year

( 1 ) Unnecessary Spending Sprees

( 2 ) Seeking Approval from Others

( 3 ) Engaging in Harmful Habits

( 4 ) Allowing Fear to Control Me

( 5 ) Shifting Blame for My Shortcomings

( 6 ) Waking Up Late or Inconsistent Sleep

( 7 ) Delaying Tasks and Goals

( 8 ) Spending the Day in Inactivity (Excluding Rest Days)

( 9 ) Mindlessly Scrolling Through Social Media

( 10 ) Underestimating My Own Worth

( 11 ) Staying in Toxic Connections or Relationships

( 12 ) Neglecting to Plan My Day

( 13 ) Speaking Negatively to Myself

( 14 ) Overworking and Overcommitting

( 15 ) Relying on Negative Influences for Support

[meowlfoy]

[theglowsociety]

From Dreaming of Luxury to Living It: The Ambitious Woman’s Guide

Luxury isn’t just about the things you own—it’s a lifestyle, a mindset, and a way of celebrating your hard work and ambition. Many successful women start with a vision of the life they want to live and create a roadmap to get there, proving that luxury is attainable with the right mindset and strategy.

If you dream of living in luxury—whether that means designer fashion, lavish vacations, or simply a life of comfort and abundance—your journey starts with intentionality and smart planning. Here are 10 tips to budget your way into the luxe life:

1. Define What Luxury Means to You

Luxury is personal. For some, it’s owning high-end designer pieces; for others, it’s time freedom or spa days. Get specific about your vision of luxury so you can allocate your energy and resources toward what truly matters to you.

2. Set a Luxe Life Goal

Create tangible goals, like saving for a designer bag, upgrading your home decor, or building a travel fund. Having a clear focus makes it easier to stay motivated and track progress.

3. Budget with Intention

Design a budget that prioritizes your luxury goals. Use the 50/30/20 rule: 50% for needs, 30% for wants (including luxury), and 20% for savings. Reallocate unnecessary expenses to build your luxury fund faster.

4. Invest in High-Quality Staples

A luxe life doesn’t mean buying everything new—it means investing in timeless, high-quality pieces that elevate your lifestyle and last for years. Start with items like a classic coat, premium bedding, or a statement bag.

5. Master the Art of Saving and Spending

Open a separate account for your luxury goals and automate savings into it monthly. This creates a guilt-free fund to splurge on luxe items when the time comes.

6. Look for Pre-Loved Luxury

Shopping secondhand or vintage is a savvy way to afford luxury without breaking the bank. Explore consignment stores and online platforms like The RealReal or Vestiaire Collective for authentic, discounted finds.

7. Create Multiple Streams of Income

Ambitious women know the power of earning more to support their goals. Side hustles, freelancing, or investing in passive income streams can give you the financial boost needed to afford luxuries.

8. Learn to Negotiate and Earn Rewards

Use cashback programs, rewards credit cards, or loyalty points to save on purchases. Negotiate for discounts when buying high-ticket items or booking premium experiences.

9. Prioritize Experiences Over Things

True luxury is about how you feel. Invest in experiences that elevate your life—think fine dining, spa retreats, or cultural events—rather than splurging on items that lose value over time.

10. Embody Luxury Daily

You don’t have to wait for a million-dollar income to feel luxurious. Light a scented candle, drink your coffee from a beautiful mug, or wear a silk robe at home. Creating small moments of luxury boosts confidence and reminds you of what you’re working toward.

Living a life of luxury isn’t about reckless spending—it’s about aligning your ambition with intentional habits. Start small, stay consistent, and watch how your dreams transform into reality. Ambitious women don’t just dream of luxury—they create it, one smart choice at a time.

Your luxe life awaits—are you ready to step into it?

[aquaglow]

you can always find me in my garden, singing to the bumblebees 🌿

[inmyglowupera]

I may be biased, but mediterranean food is just on another level ✨

This post made me a bit emotional.