#I'm just a girl with priorities
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"I thought you didn't dance." "For you, I'll try."
#da:i#dragon age: inquisition#dragon age inquisition#gaming#inquisitor trevelyan#mage trevelyan#mira trevelyan#cullen rutherford#cullen x inquisitor#inquisitor x cullen#cullen x trevelyan#trevelyan x cullen#the winter palace#I'm just a girl with priorities
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Going into Alecto, I think it's important to expect that the series won't conclude with a clear lesson. Either about morality—what makes a good person, evil getting their just desserts, ect—or a thesis on decolonization. It's not that kind of story.
Deep down, this series is two drunk girls bearing their souls in a dark corner of the bar. An hours-long conversation that wheels wildly through pop culture, past trauma, theoretical physics, dreams and aspirations, global warming, hairstyling, friends, family, gender, personal insecurities, world history, favorite foods. It has a lot to say, and a lot of it profound, but it's not trying to teach anything. At the end of the night, the point was how fucking cool that girl was, and the potent electric potential for something lgbt to happen
#the locked tomb#alecto the ninth#ofc this is just my perspective#but I've been thinking of how the author said that the way she stays true to her story is by giving herself permission to not be a teacher#and that one of the driving forces behind her writing is the rpgs she played as a kid#and how everyone online made fun of the girl characters like they were weak and not good for anything#when she had played the game levelling them up and properly equipping them and beat the boss with them#and how she wants to be able to tell those stories where girls are just really fucking cool and get to have the adventures#so I'm kind of nervous about the idea that tlt is about the evils of colonisation or about taking on God as a symbol of the patriarchy#bc.... I think it might be exploring all that while really being about how girls are really fucking cool#and I'm worried about the potential fallout if a large portion of the fandom goes into the finale expecting those priorities to be reversed
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If y'all don't believe that transmascs experience misogyny let me tell you something that happened recently.
There was a post that was essentially making fun of "pick me gays", where they were saying that "I don't watch rupal's drag race, I don't like being called "gurl" and I don't do *insert stereotypical gay activity"". And in that post I commented that some people don't like being called "gurl" or "girl" because it makes them dysphoric and you shouldn't label them a "pick me" because of it. The responses I got for that comment were SO hostile for the sake of my mental health I had to delete the comment. Some people even tried to PURPOSELY trigger my dysphoria.
In that same post a cis man said that he prefers men who are masculine and he shouldn't be shamed for his preferences, and EVERYONE agreed with that.
If you don't see the hypocrisy IDK what to tell you.
#for the record I don't think people shouldn't have preferences#as long as you're not INSULTING people that don't fit said preferences there's nothing wrong with that#I also prefer mascs but I'm not gonna insult fems for being fem#what I am saying is that if someone saying 'please don't call me this' is more controversial to you than “I'm not attracted to these people”#you need to check your priorities#I have more right to my boundaries then you have to your dating preferences#this just proves that in a bio essentialist society people will be offended by those who are percieved as women setting their boundaries#if you are offended by a trans man saying “please don't call me girl” but you're not offended by a cis man saying “I prefer mascs”#you have some transphobia and misogyny to unpack#lgbtqia#trans#ftm#transmasc#gay#trans men#transandrophobia
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i am going to wind up on team #justiceforarmand but it's going to be so situational. justice for armand specifically during the period of time louis is all "oooh who needs labels." a very different kind of justice for armand on matters pertaining to claudia.
#usually i would be like 70 years???#that's just your husband. sit in your choices as u might say#obsessing over your first love isn't going to change anything about what you decided to do and who you decided to do it with#but in light of claudia i'm forced to be like hm. well if you just wanted to torment him by dangling yourself in front of him for decades#that would be valid. like you should probably do more and worse but the time for that was before he did the atrocities to your child#so. here we are!#press says iwtv#interview with the vampire#the thing is i love claudia in all mediums she's my girl#but this version is so vulnerable and actually desperate for louis to see her and choose her#whereas while that's not absent from book!claudia she is notably higher on both louis and lestat's list of priorities#and i think more of a player. not that show!claudia isn't shooting her shot but u would never catch book claudia joining the bad news cult#because she's that desperate to be loved#book!lestat genuinely wanted her to stop being mad at him for cursing her to exist in the way they do and go back to playing happy families#evil of my evil etc#louis is sick of their mutual misery but armand really had to fuck with his head to bring the madeline situation about#also i am faintly annoyed that we don't see her souring on the possibility of making friends within the coven more directly#like did she conclude they'd turned too inward to be friends the moment she got that dress?#anyway. regardless. does she not deserve love? and mass murder?
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alright nero damn
#WHERE do i even start with this ohahnd m#ok first of all TOM why is your voice so fucking low???????????????????? like girl.........#i know he's being quiet but it's also so LOW. so murmuring...... so .... IntimateTM#the way they act so TETHERED to one another. the way greg is like OH YEAH for a second i forgot#i am bound to you. so am i gonna be okay bc are you? are WE?#YOURE GONNA GET CASTRATED ON PAY SHUT THE HELL UP NERO!!!!! I KNOW HE AINT SAY THAT ON ACCIDENT#he's still thinking about nero sporus he hasn't forgotten what he said to greg in that office he still feels the same way#greg is his sporus now and forever i'm suprised he didn't drop the sporus right there tbh#but i think i can keep you girl i KNOW that is all you are thinking about. that is a top fucking priority for you. you want to keep greg#at all costs. your job yeah you want that and all but the Real reason you want it all is to keep greg with you just SAY that#i mean. you did but still#also stop looking at him like that by talos!!!!!! it gets worse by the day i s2g#tom [looking at greg like he's his entire world]: die#ALSO THE WAAAAY HE TOUCHED GREG TWICE AFTER#cant just touch him once huh. touching his face tenderly is NOT ENOUGH i Must touch his shoulder too. more touching. he is mine btw#tomgreg
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prize listing for the oresama teacher manpaku gacha is up!
A tier: framed illustration reproduction
B tier: 30 cm acrylic stand
C tier: 12 cm acrylic stand
D tier: round can badge & clear card set
W chance: signed print
purchase benefits: mini can badge
runs from may 20th to july 4th. prizes will be delivered in late august to early september. each roll is 770 yen. official site here!
#oresama teacher#official art#merch#tag later#KAWAUCHI I'M COMING FOR YOUUUU (i'll just be buying on mercari after lmao i'm not wasting money with this gacha shit)#THE FACT THAT YUKIOKA GOT AN ACRYLIC STAND BUT NOT AKKI? GIRL YOUR PRIORITIES#new kosaka art too... baby...
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like it's been so absurdly long that i believe i've grown like three more virginities but tbh i have just realized that i will literally always prioritize school over dating in every way possible. such is life
#like. i'm talking to girls on apps but frankly it's just not my priority.#idk. maybe i'm just turning into a loner weirdo#but like also every time i've dated a girl with potential she pushed her way into my life or we were thrown together by the universe so
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update: a lot of stuff got in the way. umineko writeup is like a third done. pickle route chapter is one section away from completion. both of these entered the backburner because i have four weeks to get 20000 words of my phd novel done for assessment and i'm barely at the 8k mark
#:)#girl who overpromises a lot because she's not well versed in managing her newly-developed chronic fatigue yet <3#unfortunately the priority is the project with a tangible deadline with financial consequences if i don't meet it#so please continue to bear with as i keep trying to figure things out!!!#i'm gonna start going back to campus once or twice a week soon so hopefully that'll get things rolling smoother!#*delusional* i just need to ease back into a steady work schedule and everything will be okay........#(i get my ct results on friday so i fear this post will age horribly....................)
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happy international women's day
#bobtalk#i'm not going to pretend that i'm not upset about her not being there.#like we've known. we've known that she wasn't going to be there. but man! still!#god forbid women do anything!#it makes me a little crazy that pretty much all the major aspects of the p3 games are making it in.#except the ability to play as a girl. like come on. come on man.#be for real.#(well it's not just 'play as a girl' she has her own social links etc. it's just. the foundation of the route. that you are a girl.)#the main reason people wanted a persona 3 remake so bad is because there was no definitive version! features were split between games#and like reload was fun! i had a fun time playing it! it killed some of the original art direction but it was pretty too!#but like. this is just another p3 game to the pile. man. sorry to be a hater. but i am hating.#they really said take this really shitty port of portable if you want to play femc's route so bad. enjoy your ugly upscale and bad music!#whateverrrr. whatever. priorities. whatever.
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truly no idea what is going on ever but i will say that my cis hot boy characters are more often like ... my least favourites of the bunch ngl. so like if you came here for that, you're kinda out of luck lmao
#delete later.#this is not me saying i don't like them at all. because i do like them. thats why they are here#but they are usually soooooo far down the priority list like i cannot stress this enough. how little i care for them in comparison#in comparison to most of the others i mean#i think the only exception is like. MAYBE noah. because he's like an honorary girl i guess#idk the context for any of the discourse btw. i just got here and i see people complaining and i'm like yeah this is my contribution i thin
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most people: jealous of 5sos gfs/wives
me: jealous of the orchestra from the feeling of falling upwards
#i swear i'm not trying to be like 'i'm not like the other girls'#just realising these are people just doing their job and i. hold them to expectations they never did need to meet#and i could respect that not everyone knows their stuff. but#happy 2 years tfofu#i'm trying to be. content or whatever#but i do have priorities. and one of them is playing 5sos songs orchestrally. one day. not necessarily with the band that's okay
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ok fr last one but there's actually a bootleg of my school's anastasia and i'm linking it bc you all NEED to understand that my infatuation with this one girl's voice which started when i was in the 6th grade and still hasn't really worn off isn't based on nothing
#brielle's the one in the n95 mask (the video is too grainy to actually make out any of the ensemble's faces but she stands out)#and i'm the in my 'teenage tboy's diy first short haircut' era in every scene she's in#apart from everything abt the girl who plays anya. the tea on everyone else is that our director liked the boy who played gleb's voice so#much that she actually lowered some if not all of his parts to be in his range. the guy who played vlad was a total diva and uhm. the phras#'peaked in high school' has been tossed around at him a lot. and the fact that he came back to sub the year after he graduated isn't helpin#his case. also he pressured the girl who played anya's grandmother into wearing old age makeup + spray her hair grey bc he decided he was#going to wear it and since she's supposed to be older than him she had to too and used to waltz into the girls' changing room whenever he#wanted. everyone was like super shocked during auditions though bc we all thought he was a shoe-in for dimitry esp since seniors get#priority casting bc it's their last chance. but at callbacks (we had singing auditions via video and dance auditions in person and callback#were tacked on to the dance auditions) he kinda flubbed his song and then this freshman. who was with us via google meet bc he literally ha#covid at the time absolutely blew him out of the water and i remember walking away w brielle like 'holy shit [first name] [last name] just#lost a part to a freshman' (he's the kind of person you just have to full name otherwise it sounds wrong). that said i do think he made a#much better vlad then he would've made a dimitry and while he is. a lot. he's always been nice to me and i did briefly idolize him and his#stage presence way i did anya's singing voice but that faded when i got into hs and started actually observing his prima donna ways#(the one production we were in together before in middle school we didn't have any scenes together). the girl who played the grandma#actually shouted me out in cast circle and that's the only time that's ever happened to me. also i'm p sure her dad is/was dating someone m#dad and by extension myself work with so that's. Oh My God. like she (the one who works for my dad) brought him w her to a comedy show as i#think her bf but i'm not 100% sure and when he found out what school i went to he mentioned his daughter went there and despite the fact#that i basically have a script for when people ask me that question bc i do NOT pay attention to most of my fellow students and don't know#anyone i was like 'holy shit' bc i actually did. hm what else. the guy who played the tsar and i used to shittalk bad period dramas#backstage during the first part of act 2. also during the press conference scene i need you to picture all the bolshevik soldiers and#romanov royals doing the macarena behind the curtain bc that was absolutely what we were doing back there. speaking of the press conference#the really high singing w/o a clear source was actually anya standing behind the curtain on the other side of the stage bc she's the only#one who physically could sing the part. also in regards to the bolshevik soldiers. we were originally supposed to have wooden rifles but fo#some reason our director took them out so we had to just walk menacingly towards the romanovs. you can't rlly see me that well in that scen#but that jacket would NOT stay closed and for 2/3 performances i had to awkwardly hold it closed the entire time. luckily the one that was#filmed was the one where i was smart enough to bring safety pins and also saved like all of the ballerinas bc their costumes all started#falling apart at once backstage.#romeo.txt#theatreposting
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The reason baggy sweatpants are great is that I can just put them on over the top of my pajamas and I can go to the shop and everyone *thinks* I got dressed this morning but actually I'm still in my jammies and nobody knows my secret >:)
#chough chatterings#16-year-old me would be horrified lmao#back then i was like 'i'm gonna be a fashionable goth kid FOREVER i will NEVER wear trackies i will wear corsets EVERY DAY'#and now i'm like girl ain't nobody got executive function for that#i do kinda miss being a cool goth kid sometimes though#i was hot as a teenager/in my early 20s and now i'm like the most average person ever lol#i used to be the kind of person who never left the house without my makeup and now i wear it maybe once or twice a year?#but honestly i have too many other things i wanna do in my life and looking hot is so low on the priority list it just doesn't make the cut
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shaved my legs so I'm a different person now
#I was impressed that my dinky armpit-hair razor actually held up to the furred terrain it was dealing with#we've had water shortages 3 years in a row so the legs just weren't a priority. this might be the first time in a year or so#exciting stuff lol#also today I got crowded into a corner in the metro by a guy who was in the ladies carriage (?)#he was a good two heads taller than me. no mean feat. and stunningly well-proportioned#like a Greek statue tbh. just someone god took his sweet sweet time on y'know?#but like we're in *ran and he wasn't even supposed to be in the ladies carriage let alone literally squashing me into the wall#so I escaped under his arm#and got my first set of non-ooh-look-an-Asian-tourist looks from the other women in the carriage#the looks ranged from /poor helpless you what the hell was he doing/ to /goddamn girl you want to get away from THAT?/#yes ma'am I'm practising to be a monk you see. and also I'm not interested in getting arrested on my morning commute.#and t h e n (adding to the confusion we all had about him) he wedged himself into a newly vacated seat in between two chadori women#and got out a crochet hook and headphones#clarifying: no room to move either of his arms where he'd chosen to sit (also he's! not allowed to sit there!). barely room to BREATHE.#and this man really goes no no the commute needs Enrichment. sat there crocheting.#two things: he was diverting attention away from me which I always appreciate bc I'm tired of getting stared at everywhere#and: am I in love with no-social-cues Adonis who I'll never see again? Have I just been away from people my age too long? wth#thought
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Tag drop: Seele (Honkai: Star Rail). Listen, I used to write her and I miss her a bit, and also: there's Belobog people around. And also, well, she's much more interesting than people give her credit for. Also, prepare for some 'rewriting', because Belobog's pacing in specific ways kind of blew a little bit much.
#seele. [ we tell them “things will be better tomorrow.” everyone knows it's a lie; but it gets them to sleep with some hope. ]#seele: ic. [ he always says “humanity's endless conflicts”; but you don't get peace by offering everything up on a silver platter. ]#seele: inquiries. [ that's not the only thing you won't have heard of down here; princess. ]#seele: countenance. [ to all those thugs and gangsters in the underworld; i'm like a spectre always haunting them. ]#seele: introspection. [ the chief's right. sometimes a sharp blade is the only way to get people to come to their senses. ]#seele: meta. [ she got used to people losing their homes. and she got used to people losing their lives. but crying alone was useless. ]#seele: little notes. [ they only eat half their meal; throw the rest away. do they know people below haven't got enough food to eat? ]#seele: wishes. [ where there's hope: there's the will to fight. ]#seele: etc. [ a young girl smiles subtly. “how? right here; right now; i am alone… but it feels... very lively.” ]#seele: underworld. [ what's more important than miracles; seele. is to protect people's hopes for miracles. ]#seele: overworld. [ oleg saw how a look of gloom passed over her tender face. “let's go back. i don't want to come back here again.” ]#seele: sampo. [ wildfire has countless issues on its place right now. we don't need a side order of koski. ]#seele: sampo. [ so we're there; now it's real. now that you have me; do you want me still? ] inominati.#seele: bronya. [ they go their separate ways: one stepping into the light; and the other into the shadows. until one day; they meet again.#seele: natasha. [ i learned quickly that tantrums won't get you anywhere. she knows how to give you a taste of your own medicine. ]#seele: oleg. [ i probably owe my life to the chief. ]#seele: hook. [ don't let her appetite for chaos fool you; i think that kid's going places. ]#seele: v. youth. [ everyone in the dark side of town knew that fearless homeless girl. everyone wanted to avoid that wild; stubborn rascal.#seele: v. underworld. [ just what we all need: more lies about a world that never was and never will be. ]#seele: v. present. [ can you imagine the consequences if we told the people what happened here? they'd be devastated. ]#seele: v. future. [ ... priorities? what do you mean? are you saying rebuilding the underworld isn't one of your “priorities”? ]
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tonight. I complete the balding gay boyfriend collection. I will right the wrong to which I was made to bear witness to. I've three of four men romanced already. all that remains is kissing that sad little wizard...and moonrise towers is just on the horizon.
#bg3#thoughts about media#I got jantar to act 3 and then paused his campaign to speedrun a campaign in which I'm romancing gale.#gale is very cute. and silly. I've never met a man more polite about his desperation to get pegged than he.#I'm getting better at breezing through the game honestly. I'm almost at moonrise and it's only taken 30ish hours.#once I get the wizard kisses- I will go back and fully finish jantar's campaign.#I just realised it would be SOOO easy for me to be the change I needed to see.#it's making me more confident about finishing all the romances honestly.#not sure which of the girls I'll pick first. I'm inclined to choose lae'zel because she's probably my favourite girl.#...but because of that I also sort of want my honour run to be completed with her romanced.#I've decided I'll romance SH with the durge since she'd probably be the only person not offended by the stupid romance implications.#it's not even the story I have made up for MY bhaalspawn- but I still don't want to see anyone get upset :(#so really- I have just two characters left to come up with.#I'm not sure if I'm going to romance minthy yet.#the origins are my priority. halsin just got lucky that astarion isn't bothered by him.#*sigh* in a better world... barcus would be amongst the men we could kiss in this game...#want that grumpy gnome so fucking bad.
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