#I’m not a doormat
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SERIOUSLY????
I’ve known this bitch for 10 years. She’s pulled crap like this before, I’ve called her on her attitude and she’s told me several times “I’m having a bad day“ or “I’ve switched meds” or “I’m not on my meds” or even “sorry, I didn’t mean to go overboard after rereading your post. Yeah, that was bitchy“ stuff like that. So yeah, it’s happened before, but not to this extent. Should never actually told me to fuck off before. So I don’t know if she’s having an episode or hard time or what. But I’m done. I have mental illnesses too, but I don’t treat my friends like shit just cause I’m having a bad day or issues with my medication. So… Yeah, girl bye.
Is it just me? Am I just taking this wrong and processing this to sensitively? And yeah, I know if I have to ask myself am I being too sensitive about this, usually I’m supposed to say the answer is no. But seriously though? I’m not crazy right? Overboard. Like I went to private messenger and find out what the fuck, and she’s blocked me across the platforms. So I was like what the hell. Whatever next time you fall apart, don’t message me.. Maybe this is why she doesn’t have enough people to turn to. It sad. But I’m not a damn doormat.
#bipolor#mental illness#attitude#oversensitive#is it just me#wtf#like wtf#i’m done#girl bye#I’m not a doormat#one time too many
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*sidles up to you* hey, whatcha readin?
#how to be perfect by Michael schur#and also#the saint of bright doors#vajra chandrasekera#because it just dropped on the doormat#and I’m excited
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why am i not allowed to be a homewrecker and get with satele shan all im saying i could treat her right
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The sorrows of liking the concept of being a brat and getting punishment but just being so utterly and chronically a good girl that you just don’t even think about being bad
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#lesbian#puppy sub#mtf puppy#petpl4y#mtf sub#sapphic nsft#nsft puppy#mtf nsft#puppyposting#If I’m a doormat does that mean you’ll step on me?
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ok. @ anyone wanting to ask for wardrobe drawing meme crud. I will repeat this AGAIN.
I suppose i will LINK my last post about this boundary. And if nobody wants to click that link, here’s a screenshot of the linked post:
And if that isn’t clear, he’s a screenshot of the boundary tags in the screenshot:
And if that isn’t clear, here’s an Image ID of the boundary tags in said screenshots: [[Screenshot of purple text on a black back background reading: “#Am NOT doing 1 or the last one.” END ID.]]
For the Record: #1 is “Underwear” and #22 is “A Fig Leaf.” I have already said several times that I’m not doing those prompts. Period.
This is the second strike.
I have three strikes. After that I’m closing this up and tossing out the rest in there too.
I am literally begging you guys to please stop testing me and crossing the one single boundary I ask for. Least of all try skirting around it, I’m not dumb. I genuinely have zero obligation to do this and I gain nothing from it.
#cozy texts#twstposting#(And on that why is it the same damn guy)#(Wait i know why. …bleh.)#I genuinely hate having to put my foot down.#This is why I genuinely don’t think I’m respected at all. It really is just a case of a content farm and people are just.#Willing to cross boundaries because! IDK? I’m a damn doormat I guess?#I don’t even expect anyone to read the above NOR these tags. Obviously that hasn’t been the case ever.
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shire horse fluttershy is so good…I love designs where she’s the biggest, she’s like a gentle giant. plus she can wrangle a bear, what’s not to love
I love gentle giant characters… needing the size and muscle to live in the woods and care for a bunch of animals aside I think her being the biggest of the mane six puts a lot more power behind her doing The Stare
#ask#you don’t want to see me when I’m angry 😡 ass character design#like yes sweetest and biggest doormat you will ever meet#the stare is probably jarring
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why are black people the only ones ever reprimanded for not fucking with communities who notoriously don't wish to unify with us
now tbh the whole "we only got ourselves" schtick is laughable considering the black community lacks unity in and of itself but the same could be said for every other racial minority
#They expect us to be the doormats.#That stupid black pick me bitch gon learn#Fuck her!#It’s giving she voted for Donald!#I’m not wrapping nothing up!#Fuck her too!#She’s clearly not a girls girl!#2024 presidential election#election 2024#early voting#us election#kamala for president#tim walz#harris walz#kamala 2024#presidential election#harris walz campaign#kamala harris#harris walz ticket#harris walz administration#Trump vance#harris walz 2024#trump vance 2024#harris walz rally#breathe#self care#maga 2024#trump2024#donald trump#healing
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“That’s not the job I’m being paid for” is my new favorite phrase at work. My therapist is a genius.
#I’m not doing supervisor duties if I’m not paid as a supervisor sorry not sorry#‘just this once’ will never end up being once#I’m not gonna be a fucking doormat anymore#ignore this
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#help#my in laws are inviting themselves to my house and then declaring they’ll be 4 hours early without asking#and this was a visit that was supposed to be my mother in law visiting and turned into her and my father in law here for an entire week#which then turned into a having to host my brother in law and his family for a day too#which are the ones now showing up an unscheduled 4 hours early without asking me#no one NOT ONE of these people asked ME if any of this is okay#in MY house where I live with MY baby daughter#I’m being treated like a doormat
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I remember breaking down a few New Years ago because my best friend broke up with me
This is the opposite of what I’m feeling now
Fuck yeah we push even harder in 2024
#txt#and fuck you for not being able to choose a side#you’re a doormat#I’m thriving Fox - or whatever you go by now#fuck you for suddenly ghosting me#you were an adult
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i am going to make a discord server that is so terrible
#doormat rambles#i want a place to have all my silly guys#we can all awkwardly do nothing#lanabenikosdoormat penthouse who wants in#i say that like i have it set up#i DONT but i’m working on it#if enough ppl want to join
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No amount of pleasantries and manners can make up for the radical, authentic kindness you can live with when you start training your ‘fuck off, I’m not interested’ muscle. People pleasers often end up in situations where they are nice out of obligation, so perceived kindness is less of an active choice and more like a reflect under perceived threat. If you know the art of telling people off, exiting situations and having firm boundaries you become a far more active agent in your own kindness. It also makes it way easier for non-creeps and people who aren’t abusive to talk to you, because they know you will assert yourself if you feel stepped on. Healthy people like that. The type of people who don’t like assertiveness aren’t necessarily looking out for your best interest..
#had. a chat about doormatism the other day and thought of this#as a hopefully somewhat normal person i’m honestly put off by people pleasers#a person that refuses to communicate is’t giving a person who wants connection much to work with#they are however providing the path of least resistance to abusers and egoists who don’t care about their needs#so ultimately your niceness is more likely to just leave you resentful and hurt#which in turn makes it harder to do actually kind things#but being a bitch grants you wayyy more interpersonal freedom
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Do you guys think the grimoire that’s in the underground tomb, the one that Lucifer nearly killed Luke for just Existing around, is the same grimoire that Solomon wanted to use to gain leverage on the demons?
#I’m personallyyyyy thinking yeas#very confused why he’d want to go to the Past to get ahold of it when he could’ve just done it himself in the present?? maybe just to avoid#the brothers knowing about it in the first place idk#Solomon definitely has a point about not just laying down and letting the two realms treat us as a doormat BUT#using like. Cold War tactics against the Devildom is just gonna increase hostility#and then no one is gonna be happy#obey me nightbringer
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Growing up as the “good kid” was the worst thing I ever did.
#it gave me the worst reputation#im tired of not being treated my age and like some sort of doormat#people apologize for swearing around me or talking about something dirty even if it’s just a joke#its so annoying I’m so tired of it#I’m never taken seriously#i hate the way I’m spoken to
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Tbh some women on radblr see all female socialisation as inherantly awful, and we should all be acting like men. Eg "niceness" - yes absolutely women are often way too people pleasing and sacrificing of themselves, but I've seen women on here act like the only options in life are that or being a total asshole. And that the second is actually Good.
oh yeah i wish ppl realise that there’s actually probably a way to still be nice while also not being a doormat 😭 like we don’t need to be downright awful to other ppl but it’s also naturally not great to bend over backwards to please others either. there’s a normal level of niceness that isn’t detrimental to us, it exists, ive seen it displayed in many ppl
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the older I get and the more I experience in life the kinder I want to be. there are way too many heavy things in life to walk around being mean spirited, and that just becomes clearer to me every day
#I really feel like each day I’m becoming better#and it’s sad af to see people not realize this#i don’t understand how u can experience all the trials and tribulations of life & witness everything others go thru as well and still choose#to treat people poorly#the thought of someone maybe having a bad day and then saying something to them that could make it worse??? horrifying!!!!!#anyway just gonna keep being better and better but also without being a doormat lol
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