#I’m not a doormat

[icequeen1371]

SERIOUSLY????

I’ve known this bitch for 10 years. She’s pulled crap like this before, I’ve called her on her attitude and she’s told me several times “I’m having a bad day“ or “I’ve switched meds” or “I’m not on my meds” or even “sorry, I didn’t mean to go overboard after rereading your post. Yeah, that was bitchy“ stuff like that. So yeah, it’s happened before, but not to this extent. Should never actually told me to fuck off before. So I don’t know if she’s having an episode or hard time or what. But I’m done. I have mental illnesses too, but I don’t treat my friends like shit just cause I’m having a bad day or issues with my medication. So… Yeah, girl bye.

Is it just me? Am I just taking this wrong and processing this to sensitively? And yeah, I know if I have to ask myself am I being too sensitive about this, usually I’m supposed to say the answer is no. But seriously though? I’m not crazy right? Overboard. Like I went to private messenger and find out what the fuck, and she’s blocked me across the platforms. So I was like what the hell. Whatever next time you fall apart, don’t message me.. Maybe this is why she doesn’t have enough people to turn to. It sad. But I’m not a damn doormat.

[supervillainny]

*sidles up to you* hey, whatcha readin?

[lanabenikosdoormat]

why am i not allowed to be a homewrecker and get with satele shan all im saying i could treat her right

[harmonious-indulgence]

The sorrows of liking the concept of being a brat and getting punishment but just being so utterly and chronically a good girl that you just don’t even think about being bad

💙

[cozymochi]

ok. @ anyone wanting to ask for wardrobe drawing meme crud. I will repeat this AGAIN.

I suppose i will LINK my last post about this boundary. And if nobody wants to click that link, here’s a screenshot of the linked post:

And if that isn’t clear, he’s a screenshot of the boundary tags in the screenshot:

And if that isn’t clear, here’s an Image ID of the boundary tags in said screenshots: [[Screenshot of purple text on a black back background reading: “#Am NOT doing 1 or the last one.” END ID.]]

For the Record: #1 is “Underwear” and #22 is “A Fig Leaf.” I have already said several times that I’m not doing those prompts. Period.

This is the second strike.

I have three strikes. After that I’m closing this up and tossing out the rest in there too.

I am literally begging you guys to please stop testing me and crossing the one single boundary I ask for. Least of all try skirting around it, I’m not dumb. I genuinely have zero obligation to do this and I gain nothing from it.

[firbolgfriend]

shire horse fluttershy is so good…I love designs where she’s the biggest, she’s like a gentle giant. plus she can wrangle a bear, what’s not to love

I love gentle giant characters… needing the size and muscle to live in the woods and care for a bunch of animals aside I think her being the biggest of the mane six puts a lot more power behind her doing The Stare

[ephelayer]

what i really like about the tokyo babylon ova is how they highlight subaru’s kind hearted nature and how that narratively foreshadows the tragedy of being too kind in the manga. i kind of like to think that regardless subaru remains to be kind and caring but perhaps in a less naive way post-tokyo babylon ;w;

[cyarsk52-20]

why are black people the only ones ever reprimanded for not fucking with communities who notoriously don't wish to unify with us

now tbh the whole "we only got ourselves" schtick is laughable considering the black community lacks unity in and of itself but the same could be said for every other racial minority

[kasumingo]

I remember breaking down a few New Years ago because my best friend broke up with me

This is the opposite of what I’m feeling now

Fuck yeah we push even harder in 2024

[lanabenikosdoormat]

i am going to make a discord server that is so terrible

[ch-falk]

No amount of pleasantries and manners can make up for the radical, authentic kindness you can live with when you start training your ‘fuck off, I’m not interested’ muscle. People pleasers often end up in situations where they are nice out of obligation, so perceived kindness is less of an active choice and more like a reflect under perceived threat. If you know the art of telling people off, exiting situations and having firm boundaries you become a far more active agent in your own kindness. It also makes it way easier for non-creeps and people who aren’t abusive to talk to you, because they know you will assert yourself if you feel stepped on. Healthy people like that. The type of people who don’t like assertiveness aren’t necessarily looking out for your best interest..

[brontes]

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[viriborne]

Do you guys think the grimoire that’s in the underground tomb, the one that Lucifer nearly killed Luke for just Existing around, is the same grimoire that Solomon wanted to use to gain leverage on the demons?

[peppermint-candy]

Growing up as the “good kid” was the worst thing I ever did.

[mithliya]

Tbh some women on radblr see all female socialisation as inherantly awful, and we should all be acting like men. Eg "niceness" - yes absolutely women are often way too people pleasing and sacrificing of themselves, but I've seen women on here act like the only options in life are that or being a total asshole. And that the second is actually Good.

oh yeah i wish ppl realise that there’s actually probably a way to still be nice while also not being a doormat 😭 like we don’t need to be downright awful to other ppl but it’s also naturally not great to bend over backwards to please others either. there’s a normal level of niceness that isn’t detrimental to us, it exists, ive seen it displayed in many ppl

[babybvg]

the older I get and the more I experience in life the kinder I want to be. there are way too many heavy things in life to walk around being mean spirited, and that just becomes clearer to me every day