#I’m not a doormat
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SERIOUSLY????
I’ve known this bitch for 10 years. She’s pulled crap like this before, I’ve called her on her attitude and she’s told me several times “I’m having a bad day“ or “I’ve switched meds” or “I’m not on my meds” or even “sorry, I didn’t mean to go overboard after rereading your post. Yeah, that was bitchy“ stuff like that. So yeah, it’s happened before, but not to this extent. Should never actually told me to fuck off before. So I don’t know if she’s having an episode or hard time or what. But I’m done. I have mental illnesses too, but I don’t treat my friends like shit just cause I’m having a bad day or issues with my medication. So… Yeah, girl bye.
Is it just me? Am I just taking this wrong and processing this to sensitively? And yeah, I know if I have to ask myself am I being too sensitive about this, usually I’m supposed to say the answer is no. But seriously though? I’m not crazy right? Overboard. Like I went to private messenger and find out what the fuck, and she’s blocked me across the platforms. So I was like what the hell. Whatever next time you fall apart, don’t message me.. Maybe this is why she doesn’t have enough people to turn to. It sad. But I’m not a damn doormat.
#bipolor#mental illness#attitude#oversensitive#is it just me#wtf#like wtf#i’m done#girl bye#I’m not a doormat#one time too many
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People be like “you’re so sweet! Now how can I exploit this to my benefit” 🙃🙃🙃
#mine#text post#being awake at 4 am gives you a lot of quiet time to think about stuff#and really I should be meaner in general#I know people say ‘stay soft stay kind’#but a bitch is tired#even in being kind and setting boundaries people still take advantage#and treat you like a doormat#I’ve had to cut so many people off in the last two years and I’m just tirrreeddd#so here’s to the year of being meaner and putting all the kind energy into myself
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why am i not allowed to be a homewrecker and get with satele shan all im saying i could treat her right
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The sorrows of liking the concept of being a brat and getting punishment but just being so utterly and chronically a good girl that you just don’t even think about being bad
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#lesbian#puppy sub#mtf puppy#petpl4y#mtf sub#sapphic nsft#nsft puppy#mtf nsft#puppyposting#If I’m a doormat does that mean you’ll step on me?
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ok. @ anyone wanting to ask for wardrobe drawing meme crud. I will repeat this AGAIN.
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I suppose i will LINK my last post about this boundary. And if nobody wants to click that link, here’s a screenshot of the linked post:
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And if that isn’t clear, he’s a screenshot of the boundary tags in the screenshot:
And if that isn’t clear, here’s an Image ID of the boundary tags in said screenshots: [[Screenshot of purple text on a black back background reading: “#Am NOT doing 1 or the last one.” END ID.]]
For the Record: #1 is “Underwear” and #22 is “A Fig Leaf.” I have already said several times that I’m not doing those prompts. Period.
This is the second strike.
I have three strikes. After that I’m closing this up and tossing out the rest in there too.
I am literally begging you guys to please stop testing me and crossing the one single boundary I ask for. Least of all try skirting around it, I’m not dumb. I genuinely have zero obligation to do this and I gain nothing from it.
#cozy texts#twstposting#(And on that why is it the same damn guy)#(Wait i know why. …bleh.)#I genuinely hate having to put my foot down.#This is why I genuinely don’t think I’m respected at all. It really is just a case of a content farm and people are just.#Willing to cross boundaries because! IDK? I’m a damn doormat I guess?#I don’t even expect anyone to read the above NOR these tags. Obviously that hasn’t been the case ever.
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shire horse fluttershy is so good…I love designs where she’s the biggest, she’s like a gentle giant. plus she can wrangle a bear, what’s not to love
I love gentle giant characters… needing the size and muscle to live in the woods and care for a bunch of animals aside I think her being the biggest of the mane six puts a lot more power behind her doing The Stare
#ask#you don’t want to see me when I’m angry 😡 ass character design#like yes sweetest and biggest doormat you will ever meet#the stare is probably jarring
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Moment of appreciation for Dreamzzz showing having anxiety and a short temper as traits that aren’t mutually exclusive.
Signed, someone with anxiety and a short temper
#seriously i’m pretty sure this is the first real example of this i’ve seen in a piece of media#most other times a character is one or the other but never both#so i love that mateo has both traits because YES!! NOT EVERYONE WITH ANXIETY IS A COMPLETE DOORMAT ALL THE TIME!!#dreamzzz#lego dreamzzz#mateo christopher garcia#mateo garcia#mateo dreamzzz#dreamzzz mateo
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why are black people the only ones ever reprimanded for not fucking with communities who notoriously don't wish to unify with us
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now tbh the whole "we only got ourselves" schtick is laughable considering the black community lacks unity in and of itself but the same could be said for every other racial minority
#They expect us to be the doormats.#That stupid black pick me bitch gon learn#Fuck her!#It’s giving she voted for Donald!#I’m not wrapping nothing up!#Fuck her too!#She’s clearly not a girls girl!#2024 presidential election#election 2024#early voting#us election#kamala for president#tim walz#harris walz#kamala 2024#presidential election#harris walz campaign#kamala harris#harris walz ticket#harris walz administration#Trump vance#harris walz 2024#trump vance 2024#harris walz rally#breathe#self care#maga 2024#trump2024#donald trump#healing
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“That’s not the job I’m being paid for” is my new favorite phrase at work. My therapist is a genius.
#I’m not doing supervisor duties if I’m not paid as a supervisor sorry not sorry#‘just this once’ will never end up being once#I’m not gonna be a fucking doormat anymore#ignore this
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I'm sorry but what I said about consent to sexual content in any form is actually fucking basic human decency. Just because it's done for the funnies doesn't make it okay. For the love of god figure out what the person's boundaries are and make sure you know for a fact they're okay with it. If you don't have a definitive yes don't do it. < not to you obviously. It's just upsetting man I also wanted to say the bunnies you sent me today made me squeal with delight... your painting skills are wonderful and I want to answer it so BAD but I lost my fucking clarks. I accidentally deleted the layer they were on and my undo button on goes back like 10 times and I didn't notice until wayyy later... lost media... fml
Our shared layer… and our lost clarks
#I’ll send the full final tomorrow#the summer bunnies look like ass rn because I forgot to add blue to my take home pallet and can’t finish it before adv tomorrow#so they’ll be done for the critique when it’s due. but not before#my spring bunnies are my favorite :3 I like how they came out#also. about the. thing.#it’s. I forgot that I can ask people to stop. which is weird#frankly I don’t think I should have to#but either way. like. it’s probably weird and not normal that I got used to being ignored when telling the anon to stop#but I think it fucked over a little bit of my boundary setting (<bad at it already) so I’m pretty used to just letting people do whatever#I’m not even a doormat I’m a really old tapestry that fell over and became a rug#but hey! I just remembered that people might actually listen when I tell them to stop now! smile
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My dad said fugo looked like a fucking mosquito. 💔
#I’m so sorry my little greasy weak spineless doormat wet dog in a cardboard box on the side of the road babygirl 💔💔💔💔💔😔😔😔😢😢😢😢😢#Constantly posting about fugo bc he’s literally me fr#(Which I also say about narancia BUT they’re both literally me fr)#((2 in 1 shampoo ahh 😭))
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i am going to make a discord server that is so terrible
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#doormat rambles#i want a place to have all my silly guys#we can all awkwardly do nothing#lanabenikosdoormat penthouse who wants in#i say that like i have it set up#i DONT but i’m working on it#if enough ppl want to join
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:(((
#feel like nobody ever hears what i have to say#or people talk over me#or when i talk about myself i’m boring and irritating everyone#just have spent so much of this year thinking i wish i didn’t say anything at all#stop embarrassing myself stop annoying people stop being a springboard or a doormat
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#dont mind the doormat#the self loathing is strong today#I want to cry scream and shout but nothing comes out#why are therapy waiting lists so long#I’m scared
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#help#my in laws are inviting themselves to my house and then declaring they’ll be 4 hours early without asking#and this was a visit that was supposed to be my mother in law visiting and turned into her and my father in law here for an entire week#which then turned into a having to host my brother in law and his family for a day too#which are the ones now showing up an unscheduled 4 hours early without asking me#no one NOT ONE of these people asked ME if any of this is okay#in MY house where I live with MY baby daughter#I’m being treated like a doormat
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I remember breaking down a few New Years ago because my best friend broke up with me
This is the opposite of what I’m feeling now
Fuck yeah we push even harder in 2024
#txt#and fuck you for not being able to choose a side#you’re a doormat#I’m thriving Fox - or whatever you go by now#fuck you for suddenly ghosting me#you were an adult
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