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m3nt4lly1ll1 · 6 days ago

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I like how I got a new piercing and the first thing my friend says is complaining about the price as if it’s that bad (it’s not) (it was average price) (plus tip)

I’d have been fine if she started with “oh that looks cool” and then went “dam that price tho I know a place cheaper” but the FIRST thing she says was abt the money. 👨‍🦽‍➡️

#katvents #op is proship #anti proship dni #op is profiction #antis dni #the piercer said the color of the stud was maleficent black #bc it has green and pink in it like as a reflection #which is really fucking awesome #I gave him a $10 tip #he was cool #he did my industrial piercing too #I would have told my friend that but yk #here we are

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xxplastic-cubexx · 14 days ago

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BIRTHDAY HAUL courtesy of a very lovely friend of mine 🥺

bonus goofy pics of a bday snack i had earlier with my favorite menace …..

#snap shots #ew hand reveal #I CAN FINALLY BE THOSE PEOPPE WHO TAKE PICS OF THEIR PLUSHIES EVERYWHERE #my lovely friend (same one who got me the comics) told me about the taiyaki at the place i went to !!!#it was SO goof the crisp outer shell coupled with the chewy matcha layer and the cream cheese cream center bringing it all togethr.. perfect #ANYWAY COMICS I GOT !!!! i love this first class series so of course i got more …#this set does. have issues i already down but more issues i Dont #and i said i wanted to read more scarlet witch stories this year no …. hi dötter …..#i actually wanted to see if i could find the 2016 story since i heard that was exceplent but alas #AND OF COURSE I HAD TO GET MY BOY BOBBY !!!!!!!!!!! i love him thats my son #maybe next time.. i felt so bad for my dad he had to stand around so long while i browsed for like an hour 😭#time flies in comic shops i swear its limbo… MOVING ON #lest i forget illyana ….. ill admit i know very little of course however when i saw people talking of this new series #ofc i got the metallic magik cover I LOVE METAL !!! shiny..#i figured now would be the best time to read up … the art here is FANTASTIC #the vibes are immaculate too i love the horror overlay of it… i cant wait to see more of this series #and yk. read This one thoroughly i only skimmed it djAOSJWKS AND LASTLY excalibur.#flipped through it and saw charles was the protagonist AND he was in his chair.. a must buy i fear …#i tried looking for older comics but i never have luck with that but im excited bout these !!#maybe ill get the rest of the excalibur issues- or at least read the rest online. i feel like theres important stuff in there #related to charles at least.. hey does anyone know what issues hve Danger and that whole arc with charles? i wanted that but i forgot…#cashier was like ‘excellent choices’ girl ik….. i have perfect taste… idc if you just sayin that to be nice ik the truth…#ANYWAY !! im sure im running out of tags at this point so for now FAREWELL TEAM #today was a lovely birthday and i thank the lovelies of my inbox (and just following!) for all the love today !!#ok im stretching the tag limit now BYE BYE !! ill read these later for now im sleepy …#thank you so much again to my friend for these lovelt gifts i send her lots of love and care !!! ALL YOU DO THE SAME NEOW 🫵 if you may….

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clarabowmp3 · 7 months ago

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#So rn my parents are overseas at this gathering with family friends #And one of them got married + had a kid 11 weeks ago #All of this in the span of less than a year btw #And he’s 15 years older than me but rlly fun etc the kind of guy that feels at most 6-7 years older yk #And it feels wildddd cuz he was the rlly like mischievous (?) Kind of guy in our friend group #and it felt a bit weird to know he was expecting a kid since I found out a few months back but today my mum told me her name and everything #And I’m feeling super weird again like I can’t imagine him as a serious responsible dad buckling down yk #But also he can be serious when he needs to be so that coupled with his sense of humour means he’s going to be a great dad in sure #But it’s making me rethink whether or not I want to have kid(s)#maybe it’s just vanity but I feel like pregnancy would rlly wreck my body both looks and health wise #Like that is 9 months of commitment idk if I can handle it 😭😭😭#but sometimes i daydream abt what it would be like to have kids with the guy im 90% sure I’ll be marrying in like 7 years #and it makes me feel soooooo. like I want to do all that with him #and I feel like he would be level headed enough to help me through wtv insecurity or anxiety I’m feeling now #Idk idk #personal

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girlivealwaysbean · 4 months ago

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pata hai last kuch din i was very busy with my project kyunki final dena tha and binding karni thi etc to wo karwayi then i went to the bookfair bekaar tha then parso submit karne jaa rahi to subah accident hogaya (bhai ki bike skid hogayi and we fell down) and now i have a big ass blue bruise on my upper thigh and my parents don't even know lmao and kal ek science conference thi to i had to sit in an auditorium for 6 hours listening to accomplished people speak. that's what you missed now your turn

omg i knew everything in this except for the accident cause i stalk your blog vigorously everyday are you okay!!!!!!!!!! did you get tetanus shots!!!!!!!!!! also on your upper thigh oh no that's where future jiju is supposed to write MINE na as per our beloved song guilty as sin?

#did u have fun at the conference it must've been cool huh women in stem and all that #bookfair being bad is so sucky i was so excited for you to go i thought you'd send pictures too of books we like #also u already know everything i posted everything and every thought #i ate chinese but it didn't feel that good because my sister isn't here and we didn't eat it together watching #koffee or splitsvilla and i realised that it's not just the chinese food it's the whole hanging out that i love sm :((#kal well i told you pata hai the brownie place we met it's kinda new and cool types so uske bathroom mein #there was a button and it said press at your own risk and when we did it became a dj like the lights went out and #there when flashing spinning disco lights and party songs were playing mere mein wo aaya hum toh naye andaz hai apna purana #it was sooo cool im adding it to the list of places you'll visit when u come here!!!!!!!#also the food was soooo shockingly reasonably priced everything was under 200 rs!!!!! which is big for a dessert place here #and like great quantity great taste too my stupid people from office used to say it's awesome but i didn't believe them and never tried it #because they're all losers lol but i grudgingly admit that they were right #also ummmm hmm okay pata hai i realised ki oh okay im happy with who i am #like bachpan mein i used to feel very sad and loser like because dad was too strict to let me go out raat ko and everyone in school would #go to this club we went to kal and i always felt i was missing out and i wanted to be all cool and fun too #but it was kinda so boring and normal and i was like wow okay i didn't miss out i was spending days and nights reading books being in #fandoms and i was actually very happy!!!!! so like yay idk small thing bt yk i realised that oh it was okay and everything will be okay too #i kinda want to talk to that guy now like i weirdly feel like im longing for what could've been? which is ridiculous because #we were 11 and i barely talked to him back then because shy and friends would tease and i didn't realise it was a crush #i don't want to DATE him because like tbh i already know we're very different people but like wouldn't it be fun to idk make out once #then i got the urge to download dating app but i resisted the urge and won i don't think im made for casual things #me and my bestie were laughing about this yesterday too she was like i just don't understand how people can have sex one day and then #not give a fuck about each other the next day like idk if we have sex im having your kids and i was like ikrrrr like bhai sex is toh very #big im going to be attached if we hug i literally did!!!!! so we decided no more casual/situationships for us #phew okay more rambling on whatsapp love u bye this became too long #saumyuuuuuu

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microwavestim · 14 hours ago

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what's the word for a best friend but like the kind that drains all your energy if you have to interact with them

#just got off the phone w my bsf of 5+ years and its like #you get me like no one else but idek who u are anymore and this relationship doesnt really serve me anymore #but thats not a reason to throw out 5+ years of just getting each other and that special connection we have #idk #phone call totally drained me and now im laying here upset like she said smth to me otp to hurt my feelings #she said smth to me the other day that triggered my ed #she thinks shes the only one with issues like im glad you can joke about your eating disorder but like bear in mind that i ALSO have one!#which you know about because it was something we bonded over when we met #and you dont know how my eating disorder is going because you dont listen when i talk. so i have stopped talking.#but it isnt going great! and when you brag about how skinny you are because of this or that #and complain about how you genuinely hate people who “lack the self control to be anorexic”#that harms me mentally #and you dont care because you arent joking #i recently got my christmas gift from her #which took a while to get me because she ordered it on christmas eve. and then kept forgetting to give it to me once it arrived #but she literally used the gift that she bought me and told me when she gave it to me like huh !!!#and i wasnt even upset about this when she told me because if she had asked i would have let her #but i told my mom and sister and they were soooo mad. and then i was like wait maybe thats weird #like i can understand that what she did was socially unacceptable but i didnt mind because it was her yk like thats my bsf. but now im upse #AND THE OTHER DAY i told her i dont read much fanfiction and she was like #well thats because you arent autistic so u dont know what its-#-like to be consumed by an interest/hyperfixation and have to consume every form of media associated with it #like YES I DO !!! all of my friends autistic or not think im autistic except for her #its this weird dynamic in her head where im the token neurotypical to her token autistic like idk if she just likes being the only autistic #but i feel like im so clearly autistic because idk how to mask. not that im trying to make this a “whos more autistic” contest but like #i think she likes being the manic pixie autistic chick and its so weird but im not diagnosed so im not gonna go to bat on that one w her #whenever i tell my roommate about things my bsf does my roommate is always like “im scared of her” or “real friends dont act like that”#and its always a reality check because i dont think twice when she treats me like that #but the people in my life are starting to hate her lowkey....#my mom was deadass like wow i dont think shes a good friend

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adore-gregor · 3 months ago

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#yk when i said i'm back to being active on tumblr well yeah 😅#i had to write a seminar paper for uni and it hasn't been going well because i got sick and didn't get much done #well i got an extension luckily but it still was a struggle the topic was just rly difficult to write about #i'm almost done now at least some 300 words i still have to write and then proofread and work on better formulating but yay #i should get it done today but yeah i'll manage so i'll be back when i'm done the latest tmrw #but seminar papers are for real my least favorite part of uni 😅 it's so time consuming and can be a real struggle ugh #i rather write an exam lmao #but anyway i needed to rant ://#my money got stolen 🙃😫#sometimes life just throws some shit at you ugh #like having to write this paper and not having a social life anymore isn't enougj #i don't know how it happened? i mean i don't know for sure but i can't explain it another way #like the money was in my wallet the day before yesterday and yesterday the whole day i didn't use my wallet qnd then it was gone??#maybe while i was at uni football but that's crazy it was not some public place but in a school gym lockerroom??#or maybe someone stole it from my backpack on the street idk?? but i didn't notice #but that was money i got for my birthday from my dad and aunts 😪#and i wanted to buy something nice with it and ig i will anyway but it sucks :((#it was not a little no i had 150€ in my wallet 😭 at least my credit cards are still there ig #but i realize now how stupid that probably was to carry so much money with but i thought it was safe fr #like i have lived in austria all my life and this never happened to me 😫 and it was not like i was walking around with my wallet openly #i mean i will be fine it would be a lot worse if that happened to someone who is just barely getting by but i'm still upset #and my mom told me that apparently it happened to a friend of her as well when she was in my city but like i never heard that before...#from any of my friends ... or maybe it really is that more dangerous with thieves in my uni city but like i wasn't aware #bc i mean in general austria is like a very safe country comparatively and feels like it never was on my mind #maybe it's horrible bad luck but in the future I will be careful to carry any cash with me 🙃

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roman-o-cheese · 2 months ago

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Sometimes I just desperately want to be an asshole but I cannot let myself because I hold myself to a high standard

#I have a friend who canceled in coming to my birthday party literally the day before and obviously that really hurt #my 18th birthday and all….#he literally told me he was going weeks in advance and randomly was like ‘’sorry I have work :/‘’#and then proceeded to go to the renaissance faire instead of my birthday party😭#yk like any good friend would 😭#not like I took you on a family trip or anything…#his birthday party is this weekend and the little rat in my brain is telling me to just cancel last second #I won’t #because I know I’m better than that #but the parasites in me 😭😭#we’ve already talked about it and I’m over it I think #but sometimes it just #AUGH

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possibly-eli · 6 months ago

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hey guys i think im out of the trauma spiral my ex-quadmate put me in <- he is, in fact, not out of the trauma spiral his ex-quadmate put him in

#minding my own business when i out-of-nowhere remember the multiple times she caused me to panic by dumping a lot of heavy #terrifying things onto me which made me terrified of enjoying any free-time i had because “what if something goes wrong while im away”#it threw me full-force back into my “im going to sleep all the time” phase because. at least towards the end i was terrified all the time #because at any point something could go Wrong and i would have to fix it #she broke the promise we made about telling each other about any quadrant stuff #and entered a moirallegience with someone without fucking telling me #she got mad at me for doing what she wanted because. fucking thats just a thing shes allowed to do #left me to think she killed herself twice despite the fact she was watching me the entire time while i fucking panicked #and then said she “didnt want to/didnt enjoy it” as if it just HAPPENED and she didnt fucking Plan that #knowingly put me under tremendous stress despite knowing i have a cardiovascular condition that has placed me in heart attack-range before #reportedly shit-talked me behind my back the entire time we were together (and i whole-heartedly believe the person who told me #because thats the kind of shit she did)#and nobody else in her system even thought to say “oh yeah lol this is like. bad. this guy is being abused by our sysmate”#i went for almost an entire year in invisible on discord because i was terrified of people messaging me #i STILL have all discord sound notifs turned off because it makes me panic #i barely spoke with my friends and had to constantly check discord /while in school/ because of her #and like. even disregarding all the shit she did to ME. she was just a fucking awful person #just. genuinely terrible to be around #but yk #whatevs

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ningtual · 2 years ago

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can't believe all my roommate's friends were so actively working against me when it came to who gets the big room with the balcony attached to it and in the end she actually got it....

#we agreed to make it fair by drawing lots for it #but i ended up suggesting to use the spinning wheel generator so that it's really up to luck #and i can't believe i shot myself in my own foot with this bc she actually got the big room #even though in the beginning of the year i asked if i could have it when the other roommate moves out #(we knew for a while that she'd move out in summer)#but then my roommate asked if we could draw lots maybe and i said yes bc i didn't wanna be an asshole 😭#but now she actually got the big room and now i kinda regret not putting my foot down and claiming it #bc on my side everyone told me i could just say that i've been in the flatshare the longest and therefore i could claim the room #but idk i wanted to be nice and look where it got me #it's not the end of the world bc my current room is still nice it's just the smallest #but i'm really complaining abt nothing ig #at least i'm saving money on rent 😅#but the big room would have been saur nice tbh....#and the fact that my windows still fave the balcony and now the roommate who constantly invites friends over has the balcony .........#you see where i'm getting at 😵‍💫#let's hope i'll get some good sleep the next few week before it's too cold to be on the balcony CJSJCHS #but yeah with her friends working against me i also mean that a lot of them smoke so apparently they told her that she should get the room #bc she smokes and has friends that smoke as if i am not worthy of a balcony bc i don't smoke like 🫠#idk i felt like i was the only nice on in the scenario who was willing to play fair even though i didn't have to and her friends were still #lowkey pissing on my leg behind my back yk #she was nice about it but her friends get the side eye from me abt the whole thing 😶#sorry for the rant #delete later #000

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todayisafridaynight · 2 years ago

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SORRY TO TAKE SUCH A HARD LEFT BUT HOW DO YOU THINK JO FOUND OUT ARAKAWA WAS DEAD

IM GOING TO SCREAM IF I TRY TO THINK ABOUT THAT NOOOOO I GOTTA GET BACK TO YOU IN 5-7 BUSINESS DAYS WITH THAT ONE............

#snap chats #id shit and cry if aoki was the one that told him in a condescending/bitchy way yk what i mean #like as if to jab at jo like 'oh dont worry about dealing with dad- since you were too incompetent to do it i had someone else handle it'#not that word for word im SURE but yk what i mean. just GENERALLY thats the energy #the timing of this ask is soooo funny i was just talkin to my twit friend bout arasawa #and how youve been inspiring me to draw it more again as of late and this is NOT helping !!!! i am ADDING IT to my LIST #cause i want to be in pain i guess (;´༎ຶ▽༎ຶ`) I JUST SEE IT SO CLEARLY IN MY HEAD EGUUUGHH #im still gonna chew on the idea of How tho im still gonna chew on it cause i have other stuff lined up Obvi but..... OUGH PAIN...#verrrrry awkward when i post a thing in liek an hour cause that shit gon be a lil cute so then i just got this in the back of my dome ☠️☠️#thank you........#throwing up as i remember aoki being like 'you're acting strange lately' brb #OUUGHHGH dying.#LIKE IM JUST THINKIG OF ALL THE EMOTIONS JO WOULDVE BEEN FEELING- /ESP/ IF HE WAS IN FRONT OF AOKI #how would he even cope... i mean judging by the eye scene Not Well butu OUUGHvLKJVALKJ #ITS THE CONFLICTED FEELINGS AGAIN CAUSE LIKE he SHOUULDNT care as much as he does right...#arakawa was just his boss... but if THAT was the case why not take him out when jo was first asked too.....#aoki is his priority in life right...... arakawa wasn't supposed to be anyone important BUT THEN HE DID BECOME IMPORTANT #making myself throw up #anyway this is why jo shouldve been allowed to rip tendo to shreds. in my humble opinion. <- sobbing #NAWWW IT THE WAY I HAVE TO GO OUT WITH MY SIS RIGHT AFTER THIS WELKFJALFKJLKVJ #I CANT BE NORMALLLLL

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roimp · 2 years ago

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told irl friends about hands guy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

#mt friends who are not in my class btw #basically my 'school' cat amigo friends #they are killing me because why did j tell them about this like 1 month late which yk fair because this is something-#-i would normally tell like immediately after jt happened #but idk i jist didnt and now i have done it so ya now fun talks over there ajsgskdhd #if i didnt have tumblr to ramble about hands guy i would have told them immediately ya #gargi is keysmashing

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girlivealwaysbean · 2 years ago

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spending my whole life trying and trying and trying and trying to be good enough for people who don't give a fuck about me

#im so tired living seems pointless why am i doing this what is the reason #the firm i work at is going thru a merger so it's releasing all the interns except 2 #i went into her office and said that id like to stay here bc my dad said so bc i got in cause he was friends with the head #and she said ill think about it based on performance ive not decided yet #and this other guy he went in to tell her that cool he'll leave and she told him that she was hoping that he'd stay #he literally does nothing but play games on his phone he doesn't work at all #i have no idea what he has that i don't #but just. im stuck like this forever right never ever good enough for people i like or care about #not for parents they have a diff fav child not for ex gf not for bestie who has a boyfriend much better at loving her than me #not for that one guy who rejected me in interview bc i don't read the newspaper and didn't know the date of the finance act #im so fucking sick of this i never even wanted to this fuckinh course and obviously even my best isn't enough and ofc im not good enough #for anyone in this field and ill just struggle and struggle and struggle all my life just to earn some fucking money so i can live away #from my sociopathic parents #and the worst part is that i can't stop feeling like maybe it IS me yk maybe i am the problem maybe im not trying hard enough #but how else am i supposed to handle this i prioritize my studies and lose all my friends i prioritise my friends and fail in d #exams #and the trauma keeps on coming every fucking day bc sociopathic parents but i jsut push it down and say not rn i will cry at night anx then #never cry #i wish someone would just tell me that idk you're wrong you're not made for this you really do have some mental illness and you're really #trying your best and do something that's easy and that you love doing #oh god this is now a ventpost #mes

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jiminshoney · 1 year ago

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well

#not sure any1 will ever read this cuz this blog is so dead #I miss writing nd posting so much #i still use this acct to read n find other fanfics lol but ik its been literal years since ive posted #actually I doubt anyone will ever see this which is why i feel kinda safe posting this #ive been writing a lot n i wanna come back to this blog but #i feel so insecure ab my writing these days and ik my old readers are probably off tumblr or #have long forgotten me #but idk in case anyone does see this... hi person. i hope u are well #ive written so much of wyb my friend told me to post it but lmao #like I said idk if its good n who would read it anyway yk?#i miss this blog tho. a lot

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zemnarihah · 2 years ago

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what if i i skip my high school best friends wedding on saturday and instead go to a show of all woman fronted metal bands

#goddDDDD i do not want to go to this fucking wedding. it just makes me so SAD like shes so young and shes known him barely any time at all #and she already barely talks to me anymore so like. i know this is. basically the end. shes not gonna have MORE time for me yk. i told #my mom that. bc shes the most level headed person in the world and i was like im probably being silly so i better have my mom talk some #sense into me. and i was like yeah i just feel like once shes married im probably like never gonna see or hear from this friend again....#and my mom was just like. yeah probably.#so:/#also its a mormon wedding so i cant even go to the ACTUAL wedding so its like. idk. i guess ill stop by the reception for at least a little #bit. bc like. i might as well. itd be kinda fucked up not to. she used to be LITERALLY my best friend like we had our first kisses within #like a week or smth of eachother we were like. perfectly in sync we told eachother everything. and now thats. a stranger.#perhaps i can still go to both. and maybe the show will cheer me up lol. bc i KNOW i will be bummed out after that #the other issue is. I no longer have a single stitch of clothing that would be appropriate to wear to a mormon wedding reception. honestly #ANY wedding for that matter. which is kind of a triumph but also very inconvenient #whatever let me stop complaining abt this

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sleep-safe · 8 months ago

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Something you can do on the flip side of this, and I've had great results, is to ask people how you can better support them. It makes them feel cared for, it makes you remember that taking care of each other is a mutual endeavor. How they receive love is often how they show it, too. You might discover they've been showing you care that you weren't picking up on.

"No one remembered my birthday-" Well, but did YOU tell anyone it was coming up and you wanted to celebrate it with them?

"I wish someone would see through it when I tell people I'm fine-" Well, but have YOU considered not lying when people ask you how you're doing?

"I am so resentful of my friend because they keep doing this thing that really bothers me-" Well, but have YOU directly communicated that the thing is bothering you?

"I am burning out because my friend keeps expecting me to help them with serious struggles-" Well, but have YOU tried to establish the boundaries you need to feel okay?

"No one ever asks me about this thing I really care about-" Well, but have YOU brought it up yourself?

"I miss my friend but they haven't texted me-" Well, but have YOU been reaching out to them?

Sometimes people are mean, uncaring assholes, in which case you get to be mad. But sometimes you just need to communicate better. Try communication before you assume someone doesn't care!

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tr0ubl3d-tr4n53nd3r · 2 months ago

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I've been added to a discord server and I fear they dislike me.

They talked about weed and I essentially bragged that I took a personal stance against it. Nobody has talked since.

I'm truly the life of the party 🤷🏻‍♀️

#i need to make friends #all my current friends are really likable and when we go to college im going to be the clingy one who hasn't met anyone new #we're so close i literally haven't had to make a new friend since second grade. all new friends are just like- befreinded by someone else #and added to our group #i have such a bad superiority complex though... like with not doing drugs. when its brought up i get weird and start bragging that i dont #and it makes people not like me. i think its like a fear. like i dont want anyone to do them and get hurt so i try to make it sound bad to #idk #i think something is wrong with me though. i cant talk to my school friends because they dont use discord and my sms app doesn't work #and my two online friends ignore me. idk what i did to one of them and the other is getting sickly and is too weak to talk most of the time #i love being around people but i keep to myself #im doomed to be the therapist friend. nobody comes to me (except patches) unless they want to vent #and im so fucking hurt by it. everyone i care about has told me that nobody cares about them and theyd be better off dead #i always had to talk them off the ledge #its not easy to ignore it too because what if someone dies? thats even more traumatic and it would be my fault #it made me feel usless though. I really was alone in the world #but yk thats why i loved talking to skele'uhn. they still actually talked to me when they didnt need to vent.... but #when i started to vent to them they ditched me. i was still just a therapist to them. fuck me i guess

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