#I wanna move out so bad

[desire-mona]

my parents keep petting my cat's backside while she's in heat, which if you didn't know, essentially means theyre getting her off. when i told my mother that this is what she's doing, she said she can do what she wants! and the best part is that i cant do anything about it because they actively dont listen to me when it comes to *my* cat, so i just have to wait until her appointment to get spayed.

[zildyllic]

godddd i just can't do this anymore i really don't want to go to work tomorrow but i have to and ik i've just gotta suck it up bc ik it'll be fine once i get started but i just hate this city and i hate seeing people from secondary and i just want to do something that i actually like and live with all my friends and my partner and i just miss that when i was at uni

[scoobydoozombieisland1998]

thought we were to the point where my mom could be home while i smoked one (1) tiny joint while i was out with the dog and not get upset but i do not think this is the case

[theonlythingimfuckingisstupid]

they should be a mom who isnt my mom

[shadowglens]

someone please give me strength, i’m about to start trying to put together a budget for myself

[klassyfeels]

PLEASE can the singapore gov allow me to buy a flat.

[cherrysnax]

idk how I’m supposed to focus on school when I have to like navigate this shit at home 😭

[snufflesthecat]

I’m done with college but at what cost. Now I have to pay student loans and this is the US,,,,,

[xgoldenlatiasx]

man I Hated public school but I wish someone could’ve been able to tell me how much getting homeschooled in high school would’ve completely and utterly fucked me over

[cinnabunnsss]

Man I can't wait to move out and have my own place. I know I probably won't have the money to any time soon but still. I can't wait to not have to walk on eggshells every time my mum is in a mood and not have to deal with my dad deadnameing me every chance he gets.

[green-alien-turdz]

Cringe garbage that I despise how it turned out

[housecow]

the difference between these two 🥺 both??

funny story though. my roommate is still taking food but my memory is so bad when it comes to things i don’t eat myself (adhd)

when i talk to friends and family about the situation the first thing they ask is, “are you sure you’re not sleep eating?” which is adorable. they wanna believe, even if for a second, that maybe i’m not truly at fault for making myself into such a cow 🥺 i get it bc im getting very fat even with the thievery but at the same time. im literally being gaslit

[nulltune]

ME @ U ALL......! YOU ARE ALL SO LOVELY BTW UBUBUU.... 2025 WILL BE MY YEAR OKOK. am thinking of a soft restart (?) kinda thing bc i have an insane backlog >_> 200+ drafts..... oh my hoarder ass.... and i have not been here for 💀 A While. will make a proper post asking if anyone would want dynamics/plots to stay tho! :3c

[harbingersecho]

[irradiatedsnakes]

the problem is i get genuinely, unpleasantly freaked out by Scary Face Images a la smile.jpeg or cartoon cat or whatever which makes enjoying creepypastas and internet horror videos and stuff a real fucking minefield

[naivety]

okay i need feedback from the autism mentall illness website um. this is going to read like an AITA post. brother vs half-sister (who are currently my dependents do to their own individual disabilities + ptsd/depression) spat i will skim the details on but i'm worried my sister will discount my take since i'm not autistic myself so. am i crazy to call it ableist to look at an autistic person (23) who is clearly going through it dealing w long term depression, a world that doesn't give a shit abt him, unemployment, very self-isolated and burnt out barely leaving his room because the world is an ableist dumpster fire with zero opportunities for him, and then bring up childhood abuse he's suffered and his diagnosis as reasonable factors on top of this to worry he'll [checks notes] abuse my cat just to hurt me or even worse have a breakdown and kill me and his other sibling in a violent episode, a train of thought i probably wouldn't even be having were he not [checks notes] mad at me for the first time in my life?

like i don't have any other read on this kind of fear-based characterization other than ableism. like those are very real things in his life but she never points out any current violent behavior, of which there are none, only the one (1) instance of him lashing out when he was like 14 and Officially Diagnosed Low Empathy she thinks is a concern and Hateful Looks toward her since he stopped getting along with her, that's it. i tried explaining to her why i, someone who's lived w him his entire life, can vouch for how unlikely he is to do anything like that, especially when it's again not based on anything he's actually currently doing except for isolating in a way that is much more indicative of him potentially being a danger to himself than anyone else, and being cold towards her specifically, and i thought she had let it go, but when i brought it up off-hand in a conversation tangentially related, she continued to defend and justify her Concern about the potential directions his behavior could lead to because [checks notes] other people in similar situations have lashed out and killed their entire families according to. true crime books or videos she's watched on youtube as far as i'm aware. ignoring the fact that her and i have had the same or Worse childhood abuse and have acted similarly isolated in the past, or for her literally just as currently as him, and she's not expressed any worry past or present about either of us doing anything like that, in my opinion obviously because i haven't cut her off due to our differences like he decided to. like am i big sibling biased because this is pissing me off so bad.