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u seem the type to have many friends. do u have any advice on not being lonely?
Believe it or not, anyone can still be lonely despite being in a sea of familiar faces. Being surrounded by many people is not the antidote to loneliness.
I'm sorry I can't tell you anything more useful than a few rephrased proverbs but if it's any consolation... everyone is lonely in one way or another.
And everyone has their own way of dealing with the emptiness it brings. Hmmm... It's a bit hard to explain the complexities of human emotions... So I'd recommend you watch this anime called, "Natsume's Book of Friends" (Natsume Yūjin-chō), its overarching theme is loneliness and how others from all walks of life may deal with it. Of course, at the end of the day, it's just an anime but at least it's something lighthearted and good for the soul to enjoy on days you're particularly too lonely.
#askcococaffeinated#I'm not good at giving advice but#I hope this helps you#also it never hurts to be kind#kindness is often a remedy to a lonely heart#when you put the needs of others before yours you kinda forget your own woes for a moment#its a little selfish in its own way but its endearing too#at least that's personally just something that works for me
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Ok, genuine question:
I suspect one member of the groups i listen to is the same type as me. Is there a shortcut or is it easier to know if someone has the same type as you? Like as if you had a radar to people of your type?
He's honestly so much like me I can't help but remember you telling me facts about my type 😭 I can't belive you're dragging me to the typology side of the force
But does he look like you when it comes to behavior or functions and stack? Bc you have to remember you can't type based on how someone acts - someone's functions are spotted when you ask the why and the how of their behavior.
If you type based on behavior you're not only mistyping the person but stereotyping the type in question. In you case ISFJ: closed-minded, very trustful, very caring, submissive, etc. These are NOT things that usually makes ISFJs be ISFJs, bc everyone of any type can be like that (even ENTPs, which are the opposite type.)
What makes ISFJs be ISFJs are using Si-Fe-Ti-Ne in their function stack. That's what you have to look for.
When you say he's "so much like you", is it because everything he does scream Si-Fe-Ti-Ne to you???
Does he look for comfort and security, staying is his comfort zone, having a large data of facts that are proven to be the best data, staying away from anything new and unreliable, chaotic and unreal because it's important for him to feel secure with what he knows it's more trustworthy (dominant Si - inferior Ne)? Or does he do that for other reasons? Does he do that bc of Ni reasons? Any other function reasons? See the motivations behind his behaviors.
Also check if his alleged Si is dom or aux. You have to see if his Fe is there as a tool and as a scale to the Si, not the opposite. See if he seeks out for the community (in this case the group he's a member of) to raise the sense of security and knowingness (Fe supporting Si = ISFJ). If he tends to repeat patterns proven to be the most efficient to make people get to social harmony, seeking the security and routine and physical things that bring "cozy" feelings bc he judges as more important to get that sense of "my group is feeling well" (Si supporting Fe = ESFJ), it's likely that you're mistyping him.
In case of an unhealthy type check if he seems to be in a Si-Ti loop as well. He'll completely ignore his Fe in this state. Same for grips. Look out for Ne grips as well.
Well any other questions you have you can come here and ask me bc you know i love to ramble :D
#i know i talk too much but you asked for it lol#i hope this helps you#I ALSO HOPE TO ACTUALLY BRING YOU TO THE TYPOLOGY SIDE OF THE FORCE#and no there's no shortcuts#even if you're of that type they might be very different from you so it's no use#you have to check for the functions and the stack regardless#it's sad but that's how it works#it won't be easier to spot people of your type#THANK YOU CAMILAAAAAA I LOVE RAMBLING#tio morcego tá tagarela#edit bc i thought of examples:#think Jesus and Hitler - do you think they're similar in personality? they're both INFJs#L from Death Note and Patrick Star - are they similar? “no Bat Patrick is dumb” yeah but they're both INTPs#Bubbles and Kylo Ren are both INFPs and they don't have anything in common. why? Kylo is in a Te grip while Bubbles uses her Fi really well#now if you think about the REASONS and HOWS they do/did things you will be how similar these people/characters actually are#same with the opposite situation:#don't you think my oc Victor acts EXACTLY like Tadeu does?#but Victor is an ESTP while Tadeu is an ENFP like they literally have no functions in common#they might do the same reckless and dumb shit but the reasons behind it are completely different#well aNYWAY
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Hiiiiii. Sorry, random person on the internet reading threads of power here. I've been going around begging people who have already finished it to let me know whether Kel gets his power back by the end of the book or not because I am IN PAIN. Would you be able a poor anxious reader out? I know there are more efficient ways to get this info, but I'm trying to avoid any other spoilers...
hello equally random person on the internet
lucky for you i devoured threads in like three days so i can actually answer this for you if you’d like!
i’ll keep it vague on the off chance you don’t want the specific specific detail (and if people following me also don’t want it—idk how many people follow me who also want to read threads, though)
but, i will say this: things do look up for kell as the book progresses. it does get very shit for him before it gets better, but things do look up for him
#i don’t like saying the spoilers outright#on the off chance that someone doesn’t want the exact spoiler#i do like being vague tho!#i hope this helps you#even if it isn’t entirely specific#the fragile threads of power#steph answers questions
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Heyyy do you have any tips for writing? I wanna start but I’m kinda nervous 😭 - your writings are so good 🤍
THANK YOUUU SM 🫶🤭
For tips it’s hard because I maladaptive daydream so it comes pretty easy for me as I just write whatever’s in my head- 😭
But I’d say just start writing and see where ya thumbs take you, everyone has their own way of writing things out due to different perspectives so just have fun with it ! Don’t be nervous!!!! ❤️, the good thing about writing is that there’s no specific rules that you gotta follow so you can literally do just about anything 🤲
a thing that helps me when I write though is to write down key moments you want to happen in your story / facts about the reader or character to help come with ideas on where to start off(like bullet point stories) I HOPE THIS MAKES SENSE ! or if you need ideas shuffle your music playlist and base it off of the song 🥴 that’s what I do for pretty much everything I write
also if your like me and have bad grammar, grammarly will definitely be your best friend 😔
last thing, never trust tumblr drafts 🙏 write in your notes or on a google doc
#I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU#IM KINDA BAD GIVING TIPS#I WISH I COULD BE OF MORE HELP#IM SORRY#ILY ❤️🙌😔#﹐ maka’s asks ₊˚੭﹐
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I've spent years rewriting stories that just didn't seem right to me and now that I found myself a story I do want to commit to writing I don't know what to do with it so I needed this :3
a collection of motivational insights regarding content creation and creative hobbies
and of course the classic
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#ra speaks#it’s a silly joke/pun dw#we stay silly :3#edit:#woahg. that’s a lot of notes. hi everybody o/#10k. stop clenching your jaw and drink some water.#15k. eat some fresh fruit this week! I’m having kiwis tonight :]#20k. quit sitting like a shrimp it’s bad for your neck! sit up straight and do a little stretch every now and then#25k. I’m up at 2 AM but I’ll get to see the sunrise today :] if you can’t see that I hope you admire the sunset later today#30k. do something fun you haven’t done in a while. I haven’t drawn in months - I think I’ll paint a cat tomorrow :3#40k. I just slept 9 hours straight for the first time in weeks :] remember to ask for help when you need it! no glory in senseless suffering
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URGENT HELP🚨🚨🚨🍉🇵🇸
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look at you, you're gorgeous!
#and nothing bad ever happened#this might've been what aziraphale imagined when he asked crowley to come with him#I have returned to tend to your wounds good omens fandom#hope this helps you heal#good omens#good omens 2#good omens spoilers#good omens fanart#good omens 2 fanart#aziracrow fanart#aziracrow#ineffable husbands#ineffable idiots#ineffable husbands fanart#neil gaiman#david tennant#michael sheen#aziraphale#crowley#my art#digital art#fanart
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the memes and jokes about biden dropping out are all great but PLEASE dont turn away and forget the victims of him directly funding a genocide. these are real people that are still being impacted by his cruelty, their tragedies are still ongoing and they need our support more than ever.
if I can suggest a Palestinian family to support, I'll highly recommend Yusuf and his family—who has been vetted for [here]. The GoFundMe breaks down the costs, including the urgent need for an eight year old child to have a kidney replacement, but only €8,404 is currently needed for his family to pay crossing and coordination fees!!
#update with new GFM!!! thank you all for your generosity towards wafaa to help her finally reach her goal!!!#im beyond words in how much this means and i hope you all will have the same energy and motivation to help this family as well!!
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Hi, I hope you're doing well. I'm writing to you with a heavy heart and an urgent request for help. My family is in a very danger situation due to the ongoing war, and I've launched a GoFundMe campaign to save them. Could you please reblog my campaign post from my profile? Each share could be a lifeline for my family. 🙏 Feel free to share it in any other social media platform if you would like. Our campaign has been verified ⭐️ by operation olive branch, and is entry number 26 on their spreadsheet. Also with ⭐️ Project watermelon,line 249/(212) on their spreadsheet. From the bottom of my heart I want to thank you in advance for all of your support and kindness.
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the fact that alfred was the one to put up jason's memorial is so important to me
#alfred's military background and his sudden shove into parenthood are things i think about a lot#alfred using the term 'soldier' as something honourable. as something to take pride in.#alfred putting 'a good soldier' on jason's plaque to show his care#the voice in bruce's head referring to his children as his soldiers sounding suspiciously like alfred's#bruce initially refusing to acknowledge jason's existence after his death bc it's the only way he can keep going#& alfred saying 'i will not let you do this. if you will not acknowledge him in your daily life i will make you do so every night'#because alfred doesn't know how to acknowledge the absence of a child either#besides going about your life and praying hoping wishing that they return somehow safe and sound#but he knows how to honour fallen soldiers.#and he will help you in the only way that he can.#sorry i just have so many thoughts about this#(justice league 19)#alfred pennyworth#jason todd#red hood#bruce wayne#batman
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rich boy get your ass up and FIGHT!!!
[1st year au]
#jjk#jujutsu kaisen#satosugu#stsg#sugusato#sgst#gojo satoru#geto suguru#first year satosugu#fanart#mika's art#i hope you can all read the ‘at least help me at a distance with your blue orb or whatever’
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I Saw the TV Glow is such a uniquely, devastatingly queer story. Two queer kids trapped in suburbia. Both of them sensing something isn’t quite right with their lives. Both of them knowing that wrongness could kill them. One of them getting out, trying on new names, new places, new ways of being. Trying to claw her way to fully understanding herself, trying to grasp the true reality of her existence. Succeeding. Going back to help the other, to try so desperately to rescue an old friend, to show the path forward. Being called crazy. Because, to someone who hasn’t gotten out, even trying seems crazy. Feels crazy. Looks, on the surface, like dying.
And to have that other queer kid be so terrified of the internal revolution that is accepting himself that he inadvertently stays buried. Stays in a situation that will suffocate him. Choke the life out of him. Choke the joy out of him. Have him so terrified of possibly being crazy that he, instead, lives with a repression so extreme, it quite literally is killing him. And still, still, he apologizes for it. Apologizes over and over and over, to people who don’t see him. Who never have. Who never will. Because it’s better than being crazy. Because it’s safer than digging his way out. Killing the image everyone sees to rise again as something free and true and authentic. My god. My god, this movie. It shattered me.
#i saw the tv glow#I saw the tv glow spoilers#it is SUCH a queer story#the disassociation. the hiding in fiction to feel alive.#the horror of watching time tick by and knowing you’re not who you’re meant to be#the unique paralysis of staying put in hell because it’s safer than what might be over the horizon#the tragedy of trying to help someone who isn’t ready to be helped#god it’s so much. god. rarely do I walk out of a film and just stare soundlessly into space#anyway. please see this movie. although I sort of hope if you’re reading this post it’s cuz you already have#eta: I used he because the main character never quite vocalizes another pronoun#but this is SUCH a trans story. suuuuch a trans story. it is not even a little subtle#it’s so good and so so painful
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It's so funny that everyone immediately called Eddie gay for doing the Risky Business dance and he is but he also just beat for beat recreated what Tom Cruise did in Risky Business and. well.
#‘ryan did it sexier and better’ okay first of all tom is 19 here and is supposed to be a child dancing around his living room#furthermore. no. I love ryan but no. hope this helps.#it’s not supposed to be sexy it’s supposed to be freeing and awkward and funny you’re just attracted to a 37 year old over a 19 year old#I’m very glad you’re all more sexually attracted to the 37 year old over the 19 year old who looks 12 but don’t lie.#911 abc#Eddie Diaz#tom cruise#risky business#911 poasting#just as an aside: if you want to grasp how long tom cruise has been a movie star—thee movie star#he already had a star on the walk of fame by the time ryan guzman was born
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Michael Afton draws FNAF tape girl for Vanessa,,
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#michael afton#vanessa fnaf#vanny fnaf#phone guy#phone dude#tape girl#fnaf 3#fnaf help wanted#security breach#fnaf fanart#PHONE GUY MENTIONED 🔥🔥#ALL THREE of the phone information folks in FNAF!#I like to think Michael would draw these dudes like this#in the survival logbook he draws himself super simply#a faceless night guard SO I could see he draws phone guy with a phone head#IT FEELS fitting to me#the phone guy design is classic WHICH I promise I’ll give him a human design in time ☎️❤️#BUT there isn’t any real established object head looks for phone dude or tape girl#SO I MADE MY OWN!#so I hope you like them I THINK the designs as very cute#Idk If I’ll draw them again maybe just for fun#VANESSA was hoping Michael drew tape girl as a full human#so she’s a lil disappointed with what he actually drew..#SHE just doesn’t get what he’s cooking 🔥🔥
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Autism and ADHD Gift Guide
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#autism#actually autistic#adhd#adhd post#gifts for autism and ADHD individuals#this seems very helpful!#I hope it helps you all!#neurodiversity#actually neurodivergent#feel free to share/reblog#neurodivergent_lou (Facebook)
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