#I LOVE COMPLICATED DYNAMICS
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Me: Anyone ever think about how because Tyler was tricking her, he accidentally ended up as the one person who was seeing Wednesday for who she is and not who everyone wanted her to be? Specifically not who he wanted her to be, because he didn’t even have another image of her to fall back upon? Weems saw her as trouble/her Mother, Gates underestimated her, Sheriff Galpin only saw her Father, Xavier as his childhood hero, Enid blatantly assigned her a social mask but Tyler looked her full in the face and took her as she was? From their first meeting to their last, seeing Wednesday as she is, as she comes, all her dark edges and bright ideas and meeting her as an Equal Opponent, never underestimating her, never covering her up…. Just her. Only her. (And that in turn blinds her to who he is, until she pulls his mask off by accident).
Me: Anyone else ever think about that?
#weyler#wyler#wednesday addams#tyler galpin#Grey’s meta#I’ve been rewatching recently and like Tyler really pays attention to who she is and that is a really big factor as to why he does manage t#trick her#Tyler trusts Wednesday as much as she trusts him#Which is implicitly#And in that that creates the basis for their dynamic and how evenly matched they are#As people as enemies as rivals as competitors with one another#And that affords some really interesting insight into both of them#Wednesday trusts Tyler because he meets her where she is#Whereas Xavier projects ideas onto her and gets mad when she doesn’t meet them#And Enid’s whole tangent at the end of Ep 6 exposes the mask she made for Wednesday to talk about her to other people instead of letting#Wednesday set who she is#Tyler doesn’t actively meddle or try to tell her who she is#Weems and the Sheriff only see her parents#Gates only sees the family legacy#But Tyler looks at her and sees Wednesday#His enemy who he happens to trust implicitly because oh he’s never met anyone like her#Can be tagged as ship and non ship#In that I know there’s a romantic angle here but it can also be viewed as a strict character analysis#I LOVE COMPLICATED DYNAMICS#SO MUCH
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Since book 7 part 5 (the part where we meet Meleanor/Maleanor 👀) is coming to EN this month, i would love to see your take on lilia’s proposal to meleanor! i mean they were like little kids right? it couldn’t have been that serious…i think the only reason she even brought it up again is because she could tell lilia still genuinely loved her…(even if he didn’t realize it himself?) but, oh well! Let’s think about silly childhood shenanigans to numb the pain! ^_^ (orz)
oh shit?! get ready for a doozy guys, it's comiiiiiing ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ
I chickened out of posting the whole thing (look, I get VERY carried away when it comes to these wacky kids and their Tragedy), but I do believe that it probably ended with Lilia getting embarrassed and just shoving the first thing he sees into his mouth to try and cover for it.
(we're just lucky it wasn't a frog this time)
#art#twisted wonderland#twisted wonderland spoilers#twisted wonderland episode 7 spoilers#twisted wonderland book 7 spoilers#twisted wonderland episode 7 part 5 spoilers#twisted wonderland book 7 part 5 spoilers#please excuse the Dissertation that's about to happen (i have too much headcanon about them)#they've been ambiguous about most of the fae aging/developmental stages (plus lilia and mel's species age differently)#so this is entirely me assuming based on context#but i think that lilia being ~99 was probably about the equivalent of 9-10ish?#(i don't think his age maps perfectly onto 'human age times 10') (if only because i absolutely do not believe general lilia is 29)#(but in this case it feels right to me)#and i think of meleanor as being just slightly older (like ~11-12ish)#so like...kids but not LITTLE-little kids#so i think lilia was serious in a 'i have a huge crush on you and i haven't thought beyond that' kind of way#and meanwhile mel was more cognizant of how their dynamic was basically#lilia: i would die for you#meleanor: that's dumb#(lilia 600 years later: man she was right. that was dumb.)#but yeah I think she might've assumed (or hoped) he would grow out of it#except whoops oh no it just got worse#and then raverne made things MORE complicated and you know honestly maybe getting murdered was kind of a relief#meleanor in heaven: well at least he won't accidentally raise my kid to have the exact same -- are you kidding me#(i have too many thoughts to express properly i'm sorry) (i just. love these morons a lot okay.)
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no because the thing about rupert is that he has been making terrible choices for years. he’s lost his passion, he’s lost his family, he fills his life with səx to get by, to feel something good. and then taggie shows up and she’s just so kind and sweet and beautiful and the realest thing rupert’s ever laid his eyes on. angel, he calls her, because that’s what she is to him. so of course he wants her. but that’s not all, because for the first time in forever, rupert has a reason, a push to want to be better. have you noticed how every time taggie is upset about something that happened or something he did, he immediately does everything he can to make up for it? It’s because before her, he didn’t care—or didn’t want to care—about hurting people or doing the wrong thing. but taggie makes him want to be good. for her. for himself. he is fully aware of his feelings for this young woman he cannot keep his eyes off, and when he seeks out cameron again it’s purely because he thinks he can never have taggie…but try as he might, he’s not able to move on. and taggie??? her mother considers her an idiot, her father considers her a little girl, she’s trying to find out what her place is, where she fits in, and rupert is the only person in her life that is completely encouraging and who believes in her potential (see how he compliments both her cooking and says she’s good with the campaign). he’s the only person who sees she’s twisting herself every which way to make everyone happy, and he’s the first to tell her she doesn’t have to be perfect all the time. and she’s fascinated, obviously, but it’s more than that. It’s rupert being silly to make her laugh, it’s her face falling when she realizes he has yet again been with another woman, it’s her anger when she finds out declan told rupert not to touch her. but they gravitate towards each other, because they’ve come into each other lives at exactly the right time. gosh season 2 cannot come fast enough
#sorry for the long post I just have so many feelings#I love when dynamics are so complicated ughh#rivals#rivals disney+#taggie o'hara#rupert campbell black#taggie x rupert#angelblack
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During a case many years ago, a witch made a poppet (roughly equivalent to the popular conception of a “voodoo doll”) of Edwin. They defeated the witch soundly and got the poppet, but there’s no safe way to destroy it. The only place Edwin and Charles trust as safe enough to keep it is inside Charles’s backpack, where no one but Charles could possibly get to it.
Charles largely forgets about it, buried deep deep down in the bag, until Edwin is held captive, less than a year after their jaunt to Hell, and there’s absolutely no way to get to him until the portal opens again at the next full moon, and he’s going crazy with worry, imagining Edwin in all sorts of misery without Charles not even able to so much as comfort him. He’s digging mindlessly through the bag when he gets to the poppet, and, he realizes, there is this one thing he can do.
He pulls it out with a care he wouldn’t give to a Faberge egg, because this is the most precious thing in the world, in any world, and looks at it for a moment. Then he reaches out ever so gently and strokes its hair. He murmurs reassurances to it - it’s alright, I’m sorry, I love you. He sings lullabies, curls around it and hugs it against him so, so carefully, tilts his head down and presses kisses to its soft curl-covered head.
He doesn’t let the poppet go for even a moment on all the days until the full moon returns, even as he’s preparing for battle, preparing to absolutely fucking obliterate the bastards that are holding Edwin.
Just as the portal opens, he finally places the poppet back in his bag, in the safest, warmest corner. He hefts the arsenal in his arms and strapped to his back and floating around him and charges through.
He tears through the stronghold in minutes, and he does literally mean through - he’s left a trail of smoking rubble behind him where ghost-proof walls used to be - and finally, finally gets to Edwin, and -
“Ah, Charles, there you are. Not to worry, I’m quite alright. There has been some sort of force - “
Charles doesn’t even hear him as he wraps himself around Edwin, and his body follows the same motions it has for weeks now, stroking hair, pressing kisses, murmuring muffled you’re alright I love you you’re alright I’m sorry I love you I’m sorrys into Edwin’s hair, which is even softer in reality than on the poppet, and Edwin says -
“Ah. That was you.”
Charles can’t see or hear anything other than Edwin, at the moment, but he can’t not see Edwin, so he has a very clear view as Edwin reaches his arms out and, with a few words, takes control of all the magical weapons and orbs and so forth that have been trailing after Charles.
And he hears when Edwin says “Well, then, Charles, shall we depart?”
And he feels it when Edwin lifts him as effortlessly as he lifted the poppet, holding him so he can keep his nose buried against Edwin’s neck as Edwin blasts his way out.
And he definitely feels it when, a few very loud minutes later, they’re back in their office, and Edwin’s head turns to meet one of his kisses.
“It’s alright, Charles. I’m sorry I left you alone. I love you.”
#dead boy detectives#payneland#mine#this was originally intended to go in a very different direction#my first thought was Charles and Edwin having each other’s poppers because who else would they trust like that#then I was thinking Charles has Edwin’s and for some reason Edwin lies about it working#the first time Charles tries to comfort him at a distance with it#so Charles goes ‘well if he can’t feel it anyway no need to hold back’#and every time he feels love for Edwin he lavishes it on the poppet#but the emotional dynamics that would be required for both of them to#keep quiet in this scenario#were too complicated for a tumblr post#so. here’s this
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season 1 tao's "once you get into a relationship, friendships don't matter anymore" vs season 2 charlie writing "charlie ♡ tao" on the heart locket + "wait, isn't that for you and nick?" "no."
sorry yeah I'm just lil emotional over the portrayal of platonic love as something that can be just as worthy as romantic love. i'm okay.
#my heart melted at this scene actually. their friendship is so important to me#also i love tao's complicated relationship with romantic vs platonic dynamics and what's expected of them#tao xu#charlie spring#heartstopper#heartstopper season 2#heartstopper spoilers#heartstopper tv#heartstopper netflix#william gao#joe locke#heartstopper s2#also charlie's 'no' was so gutteral i had to rewind and check that it was a real sound 😭
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Bros before Ho(oh my god is that Hanguang-Jun?)
[First] Prev <–-> Next
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#jiang cheng#WWX really was unhinged for saying he was going to always be at JC's side and then immediately asking about LWJ.#The D in ADHD stands for Distractible. The second D stands for DooowawawaWaaaah (ADHDers know what I mean)#Their conversation is such a knife twist in this flashback. WWX truly and genuinely does mean it when he says he wants to support JC#And that JC hopes for that too! Tragedies hit the hardest when you can feel the lost futures characters would have together#And I feel it here in this scene so painfully. There's complicated feelings between them but it wasn't what broke them apart.#The rumours and the twisted family dynamics that tried to pit them against each other likely wouldnt have worked.#It set the stage for JC to have an inferiority complex which then grows into his responsibility complex.#WWX even calls it out! That JC has to be the responsible one in the dynamic.#And it sucks to be in that unequal position with a sibling or a not-sibling.#You don't get the love *or* acknowledgement but you do get the pressure to be the 'better one' in the face of the other's misbehaviour.#But I digress. There was a world where they did became the twin heroes of yunmeng jiang and stayed together.#And we'll never see it. That world is gone now. And just like Lotus pier -even if they tried to rebuild it - they will never be the same.
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I can’t stop thinking about Siffrin and Loop as the knife’s edge between self-love and self-hatred.
To realize that there is a part of you that no one will ever recognize. That you can be so violent towards yourself and so compassionate, that there is a world where you destroyed everything you ever loved and a world where you were saved. To look at yourself and see that you have changed, are changing, every moment of every day, but some things remain the same. To know that you can try to kill the person you once were, but they won’t ever go away. Not really.
To find happiness and solace while knowing that there is still a part of you, somewhere, that is broken and lonely and unreachable, that may not ever know that kind of peace. At the same time, to feel like the people around you love some other version of yourself, someone brighter and better, someone you will always feel disconnected from. In both cases, to resent that broken part of you, that better version of yourself.
To discover, too late, that you can’t do this alone. You need people, certainly. You need people who care about you, who will look for you when you are lost, who will reach out to you in darkness. But even more so, you need the ability to call for help, to guide your people towards you. You need the will to save yourself.
And calling for help is an act of love. And regretting your mistakes is an act of love. And despising the things that have caused you pain is an act of love. It is looking out at the world, eyes narrowed, hands balled into fists, and believing, deep down, that you don’t deserve to suffer. And love is fierce, violent, and destructive. And love begets violence. And there is such a thin boundary between love and hate.
Loop loved Siffrin, and hated him. Siffrin loved Loop, and hated them. As they both loved and hated themselves. As they loved and hated themself.
And looking at your own reflection, at the wrong you have done, and offering forgiveness? Refusing, in the end, to continue to harm yourself? Acknowledging the role you played in your own suffering, and understanding that this does not invalidate the pain you felt back then? The pain you will always feel?
That is an act of love.
That is an act of love.
#first time doing an ISAT analysis#this game changed me#hm I hope this is decent#I really want to do justice by these characters but I projected so hard onto Sif that analysis is a bit tricky#anyway i love them#their entire dynamic#complicated self love and self loathing I adore you#in stars and time#isat siffrin#in stars and time siffrin#isat loop#in stars and time loop#isat spoilers#in stars and time spoilers#madbard rambles
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requested by: @skatingthinandice: 7.02 + 7.08 "don't deserve a second chance" parallel
#911#911 abc#911edit#requestsedit#@skatingthinandice#7.02#7x08#athena grant#bobby nash#bathena#bathenaedit#amir casey#gifs#mine#thank you for the request🫶🏽#hope you like it😊#i just 😭😭😭😭#he really believes he doesnt deserve a second chance#BUT YOU SO DO BOBBY NASH YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING GOOD#also im really loving the dynamic between Bobby and Amir#this isnt just a redemption for Bobby but also Amir as well#in the way that Amir forgives himself for surviving the fire and losing his wife#but also that it doesn’t necessarily mean he has to forgive Bobby and thats ok too#sometimes things arent always black and white and its much more complicated esp when it comes to forgiveness and second chances
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more of my swap au.. hi siffrin!!! hi!!!!!!!
first au post
#in stars and time#isat#isat siffrin#isat au#in stars and time au#siffrin… housemaiden siffrin…. (normal)#im tweaking out#just wanna say i’ve been working on this au for abt. a month. and just never posted#i don’t want anybody to think i’m copying anybody LOL#hes my little goop.. love him#im very normal about him and odiles dynamic in this au!!! will talk ab them eventuallyy..#mirabelle and his dynamic aswell due to their complicated relationships with religion in this#ok i’ll stop yapping now#byee <3333
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Unhinged “trust me, I’m a doctor” scientist & their partner whom they perform questionable experiments on is my favorite dynamic
#ship dynamics#relationship goals lol#who do you wanna be/who are you in this dynamic?#I wanna be the test subject :) fix me up doc#uhh y’know what I’m dropping the guys I’m thinking of#if any of y’all reblog do the same cause I need more of this dynamic in my life#Frankenstein & his monster#Frank n Furter & Rocky#Medic & Heavy#this goes for all kinds of relationships btw#besties in STEM#love in the laboratory#complicated feelings from trying to balance adoration and feeling used#all of it#mad scientist#evil scientist#test subject#lab experiment#why do i like mad scientists lmao#200 eek#300 :]#400
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I don’t know why, maybe because I’ve been on a Garp kick lately.
But I do really think that Garp kind of became like a surrogate Uncle to the Roger boys and by extension Mihawk. Like I can just imagine Roger telling them that if they were ever separated from the crew or if something ever happened to him or Ray and they needed help they should go to Garp (I mean he entrusted his own baby to him it makes sense he’d also entrust his boys)
(for whatever reason Mihawk got this talk too despite him already traveling by himself and not being officially part of Rogers crew. But since Ray adopted him he’s Roger’s brat as well)
All this to say that Garp takes his uncle duties very seriously and what is an uncle if not an inconvenience and an embarrassment?
So Ofcourse he pulls up to Kuriagina during the timeskip (Hawain shirt and all) to visit his new grand babies (read Perona and Zoro) that he’s heard so much about. (read shanks immediately gossiped with him abou mt after stumbling upon them last time he came to visit Mihawk)
And because Garp is essentially the one piece equivalent of Florida man, this goes well for absolutely nobody
Except Zoro who is nothing if not a troll. And game must recognize game.
The monkeys love him tho, he communicates with them on a wavelength nobody can quite understand least of all Garp.
#have been very obsessed with the idea of garp going out of his way to troll Mihawk lately#I just think their dynamic would be amazing#Mihawk immediately calls and tells Shanks if he ever catches sight of him again he will take his other arm#Shanks of course thinks this is adorable#I love the idea that Garp just somehow collected all the little baby pirates from Roger’s era#Mihawk becomes a warlord and garp immediately starts parading him around marine headquarters#as the only one of his hell brood to be actually become a law abiding citizen#and the rest of the marines have to stand there like that isn’t the actual marine hunter#to new recruits and low level marines garp lore goes crazy#throwing thoughts to the void#one piece#dracule mihawk#this is my official petition for Garp to be a memeber of the goth fam#I love complicated family ties#hawkeye mihawk#mishanks#gol d roger#monkey d garp#monkey d. garp#roronoa zoro#zoro#Perona#goth fam#one piece goth family#goth family#one piece marines#silvers rayleigh#akagami no shanks#buggy the clown#garp the fist
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I've noticed there's a whole subgenre of Danny Phantom fics that will have Jack and Maddie be bad parents and I hate it since it feels like a a disservice to their characters. The two aren't perfect by any means and they make plenty of mistakes, but they love their kids more than anything else with them more than willing to risk their own lives to protect them. This is also why I've never vibed with fics that have Danny's parents rejecting or disowning Danny due to being half-ghost because for them to do something like that would be incredibly out of character. Hell, the show has several instances in which when they do learn Danny's secret, they don't love him any less with them fully accepting him.
#pedanti liveblog#Danny Phantom#Danny Fenton#Jazz Fenton#Jack Fenton#Maddie Fenton#I love episodes that just focus#on the familial bond of the#Fenton family#They're dynamic is messy#and complicated#and not always easy#but they all love each other#more then anything else
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I so desperately wanna know what lee sookyung and persephone's relationship is like. they share a son, I have GOT to know how lsk feels about that. is there grief that her son allowed himself to be adopted by another set of parents, when he struggles to connect with her? is she relieved that he has someone at all? does she try to tell persephone stories about his childhood, only to find there's only a small pool of stories she can tell, the rest of them colored by suffering and her absence? did they mourn him together?
#orv#you can't hand me a complicated parent and child dynamic and expect me to feel normal about it#i think about kdj and lsk and i CRY#him getting adult adopted by hades and persephone makes me so emotional#because he gets to feel the experience of reliable parents that are in his corner supporting him and protecting him#but at the same time i really feel sad for lsk about it#because she does love her son and want good things for him#and they both want to connect with each other but there's this wall between them#they want to break down they wall but they don't know how#so how does she feel about him getting another set of parents? does she feel replaced?#or is she glad to be replaced because at least that means he has someone?#god. i don't know. im just haunted by them
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Seeing the flashbacks in 7x08 sheds so much light on Bobby's reaction to certain events during the show.
Why Bobby treated Buck the way he did after the embolism and the lightning strike. It's so much more than just being an overprotective parental figure.
The first time was this fear that Buck was in front of him, coughing up blood and dying. He couldn't save his father from dying, but he sure as hell could try and save Buck. And do everything in his power to make sure he remains safe and out of danger.
And then Buck dies after being struck by lightning. He sits vigil at his bedside when he knows there's a chance that Buck will pull through. And he comes back. So, of course, this time, he treats him differently; of course, he overcorrects and gives him slack in his performance review. Of course, he's gentler with him, Buck woke up. And his father didn't.
Their relationship is so complicated in that Bobby views Buck as his son, but he's also been this trigger for the trauma he experienced with his father.
What happened with his father also reinforces why Bobby struggled so much with being unable to sus out Jonah. Bobby put on his headphones and didn't notice what was happening in his house.
#911 on abc#911 spoilers#911#911 abc#bobby nash#evan buck buckely#all this to say really that this was one of my favourite episodes of this season#The parallels abound#and it makes the Bobby and Buck dynamic that much more intense and complicated and good#I also would love to see Bobby being able to give Eddie more advice in the future about the ones you cannot save#and how you cannot use people to fix your guilt over the losses you've suffered and things you wish you did differently
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i thought it’ll be interesting to sketch svsss demon fam cause it’s kinda fun to try to picture their family resemblance
#svsss#mxtx svsss#luo binghe#tianlang jun#zhuzhi lang#lbh&tlj&zzl are my favourite complicated family tbh#i just love their dynamics so much#lbh is so tense zzl is alarmed and tlj is just chilling#good for him#scum villian self saving system#art#人渣反派自救系统#ilaneya#fanart
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Every Day I think about the tension between okarun and jiji after momo almost gets got by the evil eye. like there are so many scenes immediately following that where nothing is even said or really indicated but the vibe shift between them is PALPABLE. and it’s so interesting to me bc we as the reader know that from okarun’s side this is in large part bc he’s beating himself up about how he needs to be stronger to be a better guard dog, but none of this ever really gets made clear to jiji so he just sees his crush hurt at his hands and one of his best friends gone distant in the aftermath. and the added dimension of the momo of it all really fascinates me bc like, it also ends up kind of being this moment where it becomes sort of obvious that momo will almost always come first for okarun in a lot of ways. like you can just feel how in these moments jiji feels like an outsider looking in at the two of them, and how that hurts him.
#to be clear this is more a discussion of like perceived dynamics than definitive statements about their relationships#I just. the vibe between the three of them is both very simple (they’re friends and they love each other before anything else)#and deeply complicated (they’re teenagers with crushes that they don’t know how to articulate/navigate)#Dandadan#jiji enjoji#okarun
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