#I CAN RECLAIM THIS!!!

[squidfreak]

fag(got)dude & fag(got)dudette / faggettedude & faggettedudette

A gender under the Genderdude system where you're a fag(got)dude, you're both a dude and a faggot!

A gender under the Genderdudette system where you're a fag(got)dudette, you're both a dudette and a faggot!

A gender under the Genderdude system where you're a faggettedude, you're both a dude and a faggette!

A gender under the Genderdudette system where you're a faggettedudette, you're both a dudette and a faggette!

link to Genderdude & Genderdudette, link to faggot flag & faggette flag

[wis-art]

this piece is about being transgender

my ko-fi

[cartyrs]

HAPPY WESTON ARC ANNOUNCEMENT EVERYBODY. ciel gets to say a new word on xbox live

[bumpscosity]

i had a dream last night jerma casually said the f slur on stream looked over at chat and realizing what he just said started yelling "I CAN RECLAIM IT. I CAN RECLAIM. IT I CAN RECLAIM IT" before turning off his camera, saying "I HAVE TO LEAVE" and then turning off the stream

[secretmellowblog]

Every time I read Les mis I’m stunned by Grantaire’s accurate representation of “the kind of person who goes to art college then realizes they don’t actually want to pursue art as a career and becomes an aimless pretentious bundle of media-related information.” It’s so spot-on. That Type Of Guy is just timeless and has not changed since the 19th century

[growingupgerudo]

Darumakadorf

[aesthetic-otd]

Today's aesthetic is dykecore

[eggydaxy]

Cage cinematic universe (bc multiverses are sooo in right now)

[nemaliwrites]

feligami this, felinette that - who is thinking about FELIBUG WITH ME

Félix and Sentibug… taking back their humanity together…making sure no one else is used and discarded like they were….their birth may not have been their own but their lives can be

[die-tenebris]

don't wanna derail the post I saw this discussion on- it was all in the notes anyway, so it certainly isn't op's problem. I'm gonna say this with so much love:

Calling somebody a 'theyfab' is not punching up. If someone's being transmisogynistic, say that, or call them a bigot. Naming the tangible harm done to you will always be the most effective thing to do.

The cis people who created that term made it with the explicit intent to mock and insult people's identities. No matter what you mean when you say it, this is its origin and to most people, its only meaning. It describes nothing about the discrimination you face.

People afab are marginalized, especially if they're queer. You cannot "punch up" on a fellow oppressed group. I understand the specific vitriol that they inflict on you hurts.

You don't need a word to call somebody, you need and deserve adequate justice for the tangible harm done to you; and my heart aches that nobody queer- especially trans women- ever seems to receive that.

I'm aware I can't make anybody do anything, so I'm not gonna try to tell you not to use that word. I just want to say it can't ever address, undo, or heal any harm done to you. It can only redirect it.

[melissa-titanium]

REFERENCING THIS POST

[kaitobromota]

thh survivors posting

[crayycrayon]

WOKE malevolent

AROMANTIC lester

john doeSNT HAVE GENDER

the CUNT in yellow

o(TOP SURGERY)scar

dennis "the bEAR" collins

Kayne

noel fAGGOT

[gremlingirlsmell]

i thinkt the core issue is that femboy is effectively a transmisogynistic slur, it absolved trap as a more socially acdepted alternative, and it is similarly constructed to other transmisogynistic slurs like shemale. it's a degrading third-gendering term

that means most people using it, will use it as such. most people claiming to be attracted to "femboys" or calling people femboys, who don't self-identify as such, are fetishizing transfeminized bodies.

and the people using it as a self-identifier, can use it in a fetishizing way, or in a reclaiming it as a tma person way. and there's a lot of the first that are just transmisogynists, and a lot that are just eggs, and of course some overlap

[just-french-me-up]

Hyperfeminine characters 🥰🥰🥰

Hyperfeminine characters who aren't portrayed as stupid, vapid or vain 🥰🥰 Hyperfeminine characters who genuinely enjoy quote unquote feminine interests and aren't vilified or looked down upon because of them 🥰🥰 Hyperfeminine characters who are big on female friendships rather than thrown into jealousy and "cat fight" arcs 🥰 Hyperfeminine characters whose deep interest in fashion isn't considered superficial and silly, but interesting and respectable! 🥰 Hyperfeminine characters who aren't the butt of the joke and who are well-rounded characters with depth 🥰🥰

[notxon]

I think Pyro could do the funniest thing ever by saying a single, clear, distinct word, and never elaborating ever again