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nando161mando · 7 months ago

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How to live a stress free life

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ohhcinnybuns · 6 months ago

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Thinking about 15-16 SKK hc, where Dazai likes to take every chance he gets to yeet off a building and yell “TRUST FALL!”

Of course, Chuuya has to jump after him because that’s his partner and he has to be the one to end the idiot before a fall does. So he grabs him and tucks the moron’s head into his chest to take the hits.

Sometimes, they land in trash bins cushioned by bags of rotting banana peels and fish; sometimes, they come out soaking wet from landing in a pool, or sometimes, Dazai calculates it so they land on top of a restaurant’s awning to say, “Wow! Chuuya, I knew you would fall for me!” just to watch his partner become flustered and grab him by the collar to shake him around like a rag doll while spouting curses at him.

Dazai obviously laughs about it but deep down, this is just one of the things he has learned to love about Chuuya. That no matter what, Chuuya is loyal and will be there to catch him if he falls. Dazai will be there too, after all, he can learn to breathe, eat, fall in love, and die with Chuuya.

#bungou stray dogs #skk #soukoku #bsd skk #just a head cannon #bsd dazai #bsd chuuya #they live in my head rent free #headcanon #two teenagers learning how to live a life and crushing hard #Dazai suicide tendencies #Chuuya telling Dazai he has found his family in the trash bags #Dazai telling Chuuya he looks hot and a mess #stress has always been a good look on Chuuya ngl

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ahalliance · 2 months ago

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i think the qsmp is very impressive for speedrunning the same love-hate relationship i have with the dsmp in under a year as opposed to the three it took for the other one

#truly the qsmp experience for me was just my dsmp experience but . 10x more intense . qsmp burned bright like a sun and fucking exploded #while dsmp just kinda died out slowly and by then i wasn’t interested in it anw #i think love-hate relationship is the only way to describe it because it’s like . it was incredible . i loved it . i still love it .#i dedicate my free time to working on a wiki for it and i think about the cubitos and npcs often . but jesus fucking christ the toll that #shit took on quite literally the everyone’s mental health . the constant stress and near psychological torment the ccs and admins dealth #with because of an insane lack of rp etiquette planning and communication . they couldn’t even talk to the people they were roleplaying #child death with . what the fuck #and looking back at it now it’s crazy to me just how MUCH happened in such a short amount of time . just constant shit happening . purgatory #lasted two weeks and it still feels to me like it lasted two months i’m so serious . you lived every single fucking moment #etoiles still brings up purgatory when he’s in a particularly stressful ‘damned if i do damned if i don’t situation’ . lord #and STILL i’m glad it happened and it seems like the admins and ccs would pretty much all agree seeing how they act . like even despite #how so much of it sucked . because so much of it was incredible and life changing and just a fucking adrenaline rush of fun .#i don’t want another qsmp 2 as much as i’d love to be optimistic as much as i want to capture the joy of the server’s best momenrs again #christ in hell . pay your fucking workers treat them as actual human beings and act like the international company you are #jay rambles

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alphacrone · 6 months ago

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i have a lot of weird memories from my first job out of college but one i come back to constantly is the time my boss took me out to dinner to celebrate something—my one year anniversary maybe? we were a SMALL ass company—and we ordered wine and she was this whole like fancy wine connoisseur or whatever (she THOUGHT) and the poor waitress brought out our wine in stemless glasses and my boss was SO APPALLED that she actually asked for a stemmed glass and the poor waitress has to be like, “ma’am we had an accident with our wine glasses earlier and all the stemless ones fell off the shelf onto me and broke” and my boss had to huffily drink her wine from a stemless glass and she asked me “isn’t this weird to you? doesn’t it make it taste poorly?” and i has to tell her, “im 23. i literally drink all my wine from solo cups.” and i’d never seen her so appalled in my life

#she was a wild one #former cult member of the cult that built the building we worked out of #believed in the medical medium and was weird about her lesbian sister #certainly didn’t believe in paying fairly or providing benefits #but the stemless glass debacle lives rent free in my head #she tried to sublet her apartment to me when she bought a house #and i had to explain to her that she didn’t pay me enough to afford the rent she was asking #the stress of that job literally nearly killed me several times #but i learned a lot about life and a lot about how jobs aren’t supposed to be

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melaises · 5 months ago

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#it is fuckinggg killing me that my roommate hasnt moved out by the end of may like she said she would.#she literally made a huge unnecessary issue of it only to. not do it #like what was the fucking point of stressing me out about “breaking the lease” -which she didnt! she later said she would pay it out instea #setting up a meeting with the landlord to state that this was her plan! for real! that she would be moved out by may! and not fucking going #how much longer do i have to endure her bullshit. like jfc way to get my hopes up and destroy them. as per fucking usual #is it so much to fucking ask for her to do the things she says shes going to do. or for me to live my stupid little life w/o her complainin #i cant fucking TAKE IT #AUGHG #she just filled her massive 80% section of the fridge with food so i can assume shes not leaving for a. while.#i cant wait for my lease to be up. so i can be free. i never want to see her again lol

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blackgirlslivingwell · 4 months ago

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Soft Girl Era! How To Realistically Live Your Best Soft Life

Living a "soft life" can mean different things to different people, but generally, it implies living a life of comfort, ease, and relaxation. In this video, we take a look at how to cultivate a soft life.

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damndude69 · 3 months ago

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#I do this thing where I keep comparing myself and my life to other people my age who live like ‘normal lives’ where they live with just #their partner and work decent-ish paying jobs #and don’t live near family/have large family obligations #like I make slightly more than minimum wage #my health stuff had been getting worse #my fiancé is disabled/chronically ill and working her ass off so she doesn’t have excess energy #which leaves a lot of house work on me #which is fine and I don’t mind #and our household is me my fiancé my 23 yo sister and we’ve all lived together for like 3 years now and my sister makes a lot more money &#helps with house stuff #/maintenance #but my younger sister and her 9 month old moved in at the beginning of summer because her baby daddy is a scum bag #and she’s 20 and really mentally unwell #so a lot of baby care falls on me & my fiancé #along with trying to help my sister with her mental health #which is like not normal levels of unwell it’s like serious shit and she’s completely unmedicated and going through a real hard time and not #adjusting to motherhood well cause she was 19 and shouldn’t have had a baby #and like she knows that but what’s done is done #she can’t move back in with my parents because her relationship with them is too fucked #and like there’s also complicated stuff safety and bad ppl in her life so that’s a stress inducing factor #she’s unemployed and I’m not sure will ever be able to work and can’t drive #not her fault just the reality we live in #also we’re the ppl who live closest to my grandmother who’s health has been rapidly declining so a lot of that has fallen on my other sister #and me to manage #I also have to pet sit a lot because I need the money #and when I come home I have to spend all my time getting the house back in order #also I’m about to be losing a days worth of pay starting September cause the kids I nanny are doing two half days a week of prek #which means less money & with these grocery bills and two more mouths to feed is gonna fuck me in the ass #so like yeah I don’t have the time or energy for hobbies I spend all my damn free time trying to keep the house clean or taking care of #The baby & like it’s just the way it is but it’s not comprable to how all the ppl I knew in highschool r living rn

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muraenide · 8 months ago

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I managed to get some replies out before I forgot how to write Jade omfg I am so happy but I'm still kind of on hiatus until mid-April at the very least.

#𖦹 ⋆꙳ ⁄ ooc.#// making adult decision is taking me all of my brain cells #// adulthood is a scam i swear to god #// career choices; social choices; financial choices; and how to move forward from where i am at the moment #// i wish we came with a guide on how to live life stress-free

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oceanmonsters · 4 months ago

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#when you haven’t had a chronic illness flare up in 3 years so you think you’re free bc in a lot of people they stop having flare ups as the #get older. but apparently the big age of 23 isn’t old enough. or maybe you’re just gonna have to deal w this the rest of your live long day #like I know in some ways I’m lucky to have an episodic illness that only affects me Sometimes (if you don’t count the migraines)#but man the mental toll. how whenever I feel a symptom I just cannot relax and start stressing about how I’m gonna get to the hospital if #this is a flare up. lmao.#anyway. fuck my life I guess.#also I missed the Spain France match because I was in the hospital but am lucid enough to watch the England game unfortunately. so great #timing also.#d

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myauditionfordrphil · 4 months ago

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Rant in the tags, ignore it if you want.

#so i just needed to get this out bcz it's literally being weighing on me since forever and I can't help but cry about it #i know medical procedures are jarring and overwhelming but it's just too much for me I'm not a strong individual in any way #but I've tried not to show how much this whole ordeal has been weighingbon me and tried to be strong not shedding a single tear #i cry when someone raises their voice or is mad at me #for my parents who've been nothing but caring and loving towards me #i honestly feel like a burden on them bcz they've been working so much constantly running errands and doing my stuff #it's overwhelming not being able to wake up from bed on your own wear shoes or even eat yourself #i can't even do the most basic of tasks like getting dressed or drinking water by my own without needing any help #especially since the glucose has been off and i can't help but think if the people with chronic issues who basically have to live this life #hats off to them bcz it's been 4 days and I'm already on the verge of a breakdown #i for once actually talked to someone about this and they said that I'm being horribly pick me-ish and begging for validation #and i should think about my parents for once and don't get self absorbed when they need my support bcz it's difficult for them also #and yeah i guess that's true to some extent #anyways I just needed to get this one out bcz the anxiety and the stress has been piling up for days and yeah ig it just got worse #i would've wrote it down in my diary but don't have it on me #feel free to scroll by or give some advice or opinion #thank you for bearing with me for these past days bcz no matter how strong i try to be at the end of the day I'm just 16 #going through my first big procedures #somi.exe

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nerdyfangirlingbooks · 4 months ago

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Every now and then I remember the times I would mention to my flatmate that I was thinking of buying myself something reasonably expensive (that I had been eyeing up for months and had budgeted for) and she'd tell me that I shouldn't spend that much money on something I didn't need and it would be stupid etc etc while she regularly impulse bought things that cost at least as much and she would use once (while complaining that she was under a lot of financial stress and couldn't afford <$3/week for 2 months for a rental washing machine when ours broke). She is... perhaps not my first call for financial advice

#like I get that you're financially stressed but also it feels a bit rich to complain about it when you're on student allowance (not loan)#and your parents still contribute to things for you even though allowance is supposed to be for people whose parents can't afford to help #and you get multiple scholarships a year even though you're technically not eligible for half of them anymore but then as soon as the money #comes in from those you spend it all on a brand new dress for your sister's hen's do picnic because you can't wear the same dress as you #will for the actual hen's night or the wedding. Better buy a full price one at an expensive store instead of looking in a single op shop or #borrowing one from one of your three sisters who are all roughly the same size #god life must be so tough for you getting the same amount of money as the rest of us on student loan except you only have to pay back half #like the only money you have to live off is the same as what the rest of us get + scholarships (plural) plus what you earnt in your summer #internship? how could you possibly survive??#anyway I am NOT a fan of people who are like 'oh you say you have no money for rent but you have a phone?' because that's bullshit #and the whole 'millenials need to stop eating avocado toast so they can buy a house' thing is also bullshit #however. If you pay $60/week for a gym when you have access to the free uni one (or any other gym in the country is like $20)#and you buy uber eats multiple times a week for like $30+ each time despite having a premade meal in the fridge. and you get multiple #scholarships which mean you are arguably among the more well off students. AND you impulse buy things that cost over $100 regularly #then maybe the problem is not that you don't have enough money to split the rental costs of a washing machine (<$3 each/week)#maybe you are just bad with money #which is fine like it's not like it's unfixable it's just annoying when you act like you're worse off than people whose only money is what #they get from student loan each week so they eat beans on rice for dinner for a week #because that's all they could afford (yes I know people who did this. Yes she complained more than them)#so no I don't think I'm gonna be taking financial advice from you babes because one of us has entertained the idea of a budget to help with #finances and it's not you xx #(she turned down offers of financial help/advice/books to borrow from multiple people multiple times. I 100% get that you might not want to #talk to people about it especially your friends but we had multiple books on finances lying around the flat which she always said she didn't #need. And then she'd continue to complain that she didn't have enough money #god forbid you suggest something like going to a cheaper gym (or worse. The perfectly fine free uni gym!)#again. Her gym cost $60/week for most of last year until they brought in a student discount which was 'only' $45/week #the next most expensive gym chain I can find costs maybe $30/week for the highest membership level #to get what she was getting she would only need like a $20 membership #BUT to be fair she wouldn't get such strong culty vibes at any other gym #lol anyway sorry for the rant. I could keep going but apparently you can only have 30 tags and this is the last one

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friendlynaborhooddisapointment · 6 months ago

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the dream would be a 15hour week workday at a low stress job not that far from home but not too close it feels intimate to your home, a small mangable appartment that wont fall apartwith furnishings i like,bills that arnt stress inducing in a way that make me think about money all the time, and just chill and do my hobbies when im not doing all the other things people have to do in their adult to not be that sad life like cook and clean and talk to people

#would be cool to publish and stuff #but again dont want to turn my hobbies into somthing more stress inducing then perfecting my craft already does #cant belive the dream is the bere minimum #25 hours a week max #but still its really just the bere minimum #oh to live the bere minimum #life always finds a way to make things difficult #and it would be cool to be able to get rid of some of the more consistent stuff like money stress and work stress #so when there are more difficult things to worry about its not pilled up on the stuff thats day to day #i know some people like having alot to do but that is not me #but yeah feel free to make this your dream too i think its ok to just want to exist stress free enough to properly enjoy the mundane #cuz the mundane is pretty neat #and everyone acts like its this terrible thing but it happens everyday #the sun sets the sun rises but i still get excited when i get a good view #want to enjoy that without worrying about everything i have to work for to become successful #i think we are alowed to not want to work for things we dont care about that much just for the bere minimum of existence #would be totally diffrent if it got u up there but #it doesnt?#but im totally chill if giving like 25%-50% gave me just enough #not saying that would be how much i care just now much energy i give #and honestly alot of work can come out of that much energy #giving your 100% is stupid and uderrated and your 100% will become worse and worse #ofc still fine to do it but all the time is crazy people still gotta use some of that energy to live life outside of the hustle #offical hustle hate post

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skyburger · 7 months ago

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WHAT THE HELL NOBODY EVER TOLD ME TWO OF MY FAVE VILLAGERS GOT A LINE STICKER TOGETHER. ive loved tabby for YEARS like since 2019 at LEAST. and these stickers are from 2018 how did i not know !!! i love tabby and boots so much 😭😭😭 TABBY AND BOOTS ANIMAL CROSSING I LOVE YOU SO MUCHHHHH OOMFS FOREVER AND EVER

#im so happy any official content of tabby is awesome shes my fave i looooove her so much SHES SO SILLY!!!#and boots was one of my starting residents on acnh so he holds a special place in my heart #in case anyone was wondering which im sure you were not. my other starting villager on acnh was rocket and shes soooo silly i love rocket #not enough people love her like shes so silly. u are all HATERS #anyway i love talking about my acnh villagers I WISH I HAD MY ACNL ONES WRITTEN DOWN. the only ones i remember are tabby and kyle #but my acnh ones atm (and when i say atm i mean they will be probably til the end of time)#are my guy sherb (found on one of the ticket islands)#stiches (who i also found on an island i think?)#chai (i have her amiibo card shes so cute.)#tammi (another island find)#stella (man i really did just take the first villagers i found on an island and kept them huh)#rocket and boots (starter villagers)#tabby (I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO TRADE HER TO ME ON REDDIT I THINK? and then they were like oh if shes ur fave u can just have her +#like for free. AND THAT WAS SOOOO AWESOME)#bea (i think she was also a ticket island thingy find)#and finally... tom (ok he has a fun story.#i think it was margie who lived on my island at the time and listen she was SUCH a sweetheart i wanted to keep her forever #(she replaced drift who i found on an island and he was mean to me so i have beef with him. still. like four years later.)#but them tom showed up as a camper and i got this crazy hit of nostalgia and i remembered my guy tom was in my childhood city folk town #and i was like. I MISS MY BOY. COME BACK TO ME. so he moved in)#umm only other villager we had was chadder which i think my little brother picked when we shared the island #i think i remember him saying he got chadder because of dantdm...? i dont remember the details #but i got the sanrio amiibo cards which i need to stress i had wanted for YEARS. i was so fucking happy when they got a rerelease #to the point where like. i couldnt get them at first because they sold out super fast. so #i bought them from someone in twitter dms im so serious. and it fucking worked thats how i got them #anyway i wanted chai to move in because shes my fave of that set (i love cinnamoroll) but i needed someone to move out #which i always get so sad about :( but my brother offered to take chadder so i felt a little better abt it #and then i think we forgot to like. have him come get chadder in boxes. so chadder went off somewhere hope hes living a good life #thats it i think. i wish i kept a list of all my villagers ever but considering ive been playing for a decade or so now that would be. crazy #muffin mumbles

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vanity-complex · 1 year ago

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#feeling it tonight ladies #in two months I went from being married with a career in nonprofit management living in a house #to a single barista living in a studio apartment #I am full of anxiety and fear and sadness because I feel like I’ve lost everything #but also I’m exited that this stress and prsssure has melted away and I am free to determine my own life #it’s so frustrating how anger sadness fear joy and excitement can all coexist

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sk3l3t0n444 · 1 year ago

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i wanna play animal crossing but i get really stressed about the amount of stuff i can do and how i dont know what i should do and it always reminds me that i should be working on shit :(

#its sad that such a calming game stresses me out #i just want animal crossing to be my real life #where i can just feel free #where i have no deadlines and i can just do things at my own pace however i want to #ngl i would do anything for a hug from Isabelle #idfk im just so tired of the real world...i just wanna be free to live how i want to #idfk anymore i just want a damn break from the real world...i want a world where i dont dread waking up every morning #one where i feel welcome and not like im shut out and shivering in the rain #it feels like everybody knows something i dont...something thats vital...it feels like everybody was taught how to be happy and i wasnt #i feel like an outsider in my own life...like im a side character and i only exist happily when someone else needs me #i feel like a doll who is forgotten about until they need a filler character #i feel like i only exist to give others a reason to be like they are...like im only alive to be the person who is a memory #idfk i just havent been wanted in a long time...and i know that you guys care and whatever but i just want someone irl to want me...#i want a reason to get out of bed in the morning...is that too much to ask for?#idfk im just gonna try and sleep #sorry for being a pathetic little shit #idfk im just really sorry about this #i feel bad for existing at all ngl #anyways sleep time for me...and by that i mean im gonna play games on my phone until i fall asleep

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ironmanstan · 2 years ago

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the dichotomy of man (need to get out of this fuckin house but if i go then i can not see my cats)

#JUST realized this and now i want to kill and explode and throw up #WHAT THE HELL WILL I DO . WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO ABOUT MY FISH ok i can probably take the fish with me #but MAN #thats such a FUCKING HASSLE #ill just stay here this is fine <- tormented by the horrors. ball and chained to familiarity #the gamer speaks uwu #guy who is terminally stressed and sick about change but desperately needs it to live a life #oooo i need to be in a hamster ball everything new can just be out of arms reach and i will be safe and contained forever #no more new experiences and life changes ill cry we should all just die actually so i never have to break out of my shell #sometimes im like im therapized i dont need to go to therapy i am sooo normal and then i say shit like all that n im like nvm #the desperately averse to change braincell is funny like is it the autism. is it the ptsd. probably both #bc i sure did like have a moment of like i should just drop out of school all of this is too much i cant do it anymore #wired in juuust the right way where i can live so much better than i ever have but itll stress me out enough where i still feel the urge #to throw it all away bc it is strange and weird. and then i have to resist that urge constantly bc ill be fully like cidal again if i do th #its so weird actually. oh u have friends? u take meds? u have irls now? strange and unfamiliar and scary get rid of it all <- the insanity #anyway sucks how there isnt a word i can use in place of men/women when im like 'women will x' but for being nonbinary #nonbinary mfs doesnt hit the same . enbies doesnt hit the same either #nonbinaries b like i am free from the horrors and then go down a whole spiral at the very thought of moving out of their nightmare house #vent #i guess oops what did this turn into

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