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arkiwii · 8 months ago

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very sad still see the saria/silence divorce headcanon still going around

have you ever tried to consider that they never dated before lone trail because it would be unrealistic with the timeline and the events and also because it would be overshadowing the actual truth of why they couldn't get along

#i'll elaborate #firstly it's ok if you headcanon this i don't want to invalidate what people think #it's just that I think it's a fanon joke that have been going around for way too long #and I can't help but shed a small tear when I see people really headcanoning it #I personally think it's way more interesting if we consider that they never had something going on before Lone Trail #mostly because it's weird that they started dating in like some months when they barely knew or saw each other #but also because it adds nothing but just makes things even more harder for them #my personal headcanon is that Silence was maybe having feelings for Saria but like #you know these very premature feelings #like just “oh wow she's pretty and nice”#but nothing like really deep #but they never had anything going on before the diabolic crisis #and after lone trail after they made up and saw each other's true person #they start to actually get real feelings #I'm just complaining but I've been still seeing it around somehow and it's sad to me that this joke became a fact for many people #there's still a lot of fanfics about how they had been dating and now they're on bad terms #I think that going on the “they're exes” route is way too easy and actually hides the potential and interesting reason #of why Silence was mad at Saria #it's not because she hates Saria or blame her #it's because she's mad at herself for being so weak #really making them appear as exes just hides this really interesting truth and makes it all seem to be a sad love story #consider that they never had any of this and that this tension between them is because they blame themselves!!#their story is not a love story but above all a story about self love and acceptance #just my two cents enjoy my rambling i go back to bed now #(not putting this in the main tag I don't want to start a war I'm just rambling)

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tenwhiteandalusians · 3 months ago

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so no one was going to tell me if i got literally one episode further tenax drops that he’s the one who saved scorpus from his mom’s pimp AND that he’s intimately familiar with scorpus’ dick when he was younger. guys. guys.

#thinking about an INSANE divorce fic. as a follow-up to the 30k canon-compliant backstory i have not written #(really it could be an au of that because like. am i sentimental and would i want them to get emotionally divorced NO but i will get into #the variants of this later i have to tell you about them ACTUALLY divorced first before i get into the hot divorcee energy of it all)#where they fucked around when they were younger and then broke up because. yeah tenax can dream but scorpus needs certainty he is what he #is he wants attention and dignity and when blue offers for him he goes and we don’t need to know what the massive fight was but we DO need #to know that they stopped fucking and maybe they stopped talking too but now they’re Colleagues. putting the ‘because i can’ moment #into a WHOLE different light bc it’s very much a ‘you no longer have a say in who I get to fuck because it’s not YOU. because we’re not’#and thus we get an exes-to-lovers arc I still know you the best and yes I SEE the scorpus xenon andria potential & once again I am saying:#put that in a box we can’t talk about that right now I see it but that’s not what we’re here for. anyway I was TRYING to say the ‘I know u #best of anyone’ of it all and if you think I have stopped thinking about tenax goading scorpus & talking about his dick for a single second #I have not. I REALLY have not because that is top tier blatant manipulation to be like ohhhh poor baby you’re so old and rotting I can just #get a new chariot driver I don’t even really want you anyway 😇 and scorpus KNOWS It’s bait however. he’s gotta get his attention back.#anyway they are ugly divorced and it’s very slow burn but I know exactly how you taste & what buttons to press & how to grip your shoulders #in an argument until they fuck nasty on all of their riches or however this thing ends. not well for anyone but I WILL be getting them back #together. the other fun little big divorced energy thoughts i had were very much ‘divorced and arguing but it’s foreplay to threaten to #leave each other’ so they can have hot aggressive mean sex because they get off on arguing with each other. everybody in the stables starts #to see them arguing about chariot design & the brothers are scared they’re gonna kill each other & then suddenly scorpus is tongue-fucking #Tenax’s throat with a fist still in his hair and tenax has a hand pinning him back against the post by the throat and that’s all they see #before everybody clears the FUCK out. this is a regular occurrence at all times in all arguments it’s so fun I love the dynamic #OHHHH AND IT’S AN OUTSIDER POV FIC i said the brothers really i meant elia but also now that i say that. could be a fun five + 1 of #everyone watching them threaten to kill each other and then y’know. la petit mort. ALSO i know i see the calla/tenax too we can’t talk abt #that put it in the box with the chariot drivers we can have one (1) thing at a time. the calla note is because i want a calla pov of them #where she’s just like ‘freaks. right in front of my salad?’ and does not give a fuck at all. top tier. anyway. andria/elia/calla/domitian #(Domitian seeing them petition him would be so fun because he wants to puppet master everything he’d want to know SO BAD.) the 5th one idk #because I don’t have any idea about the third brother yet but maybe Tenax catching scorpus in a brothel again? and the +1 is their POV ofc.#(anyway for myself: the vibes i want here are geno/anna cat and mouse follow/unfollow divorce and win her back rumors)#scorpus/tenax #those about to die #scorpus #tenax

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snixx · 6 months ago

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life went forward and the world moved on but I never got over among us (2018)

#but no one:(( will play it:(( with me:((#i miss amogus with my ex best friend and all her friends #she was just like me fr she loved introducing all her friends to each other its another reason i loved her so much #and why i struggled so much when my high school best friend started making friends outside of me who didnt like me #one of them even gave me this long ass lecture on KAVYA YOU DONT NEED TO BE FRIENDS WITH ALL YOUR FRIENDS' FRIENDS YOU KNOW #oh and you cAnt jUst Ask pEoPle tO bE yOuR fRiEnd (jokes on her we're friends now. kind of ive been ghosting her for a while but not the po #Int 💀)#and look i learned that. sort of. but i still struggle with it sometimes #like at least with my best friends i always wanted to know about and be involved with everyone in their lives you know #which ive realized now is not practical #but im still this hopeless romantic who wants to be friends with all my friends friends and all my friends to be friends #even if i barely have the energy for it anymore. i guess losing her drilled that in #also another thing i realized is. its good to keep your friends separate sometimes because if the chain breaks you dont lose a whole system #which wasnt even a point of consideration for me back then because like i said. hopeless romantic. why would we ever fall out #but yeah it was hard having to accept that sometimes the whole world doesnt want to be friends. and people are allowed to dislike each othe #shocking i know #anyway what am i even talking about how did i get here #liveblogging.pdf

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hsslilly-blog · 2 months ago

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shirt with a heart and child of divorce written on top but then there’s a picture of huntclaire. you wouldnt get it. i do

#child of divorce but theyre married and love each other but actually they’re divorcees #theyre like those couples that get married and then get divorced and then get married again. actually that’s so chic #you should be divorced by the time you’re 27. a little divorce makes life more exciting #do not consider red carpet diaries at all when writing claire but if i were to consider it #she wouldve broken up with hunt sometime after hollywood u and then it would’ve been kind of a divorce #<- well my timeline for hollywood u i mean. that would be in 2016 #they get back together but they have even stronger + weirder divorcees vibes #claire is actually a divorced woman. when you think about it. that’s also a great descriptor for hunt but in a different way #so theyre like when you put two spiritually divorced people in a relationship #this makes a lot of sense to me. actually #they have the most loving relationship ever which is gross and disgusting. but when you look at them they have this weird vibe about them #theyre like bitter exes who know too much of each other and one of them is way too comfortable saying stuff in public #what do you mean theyre together and in love #huntclaire #actually i need them so be super fucking weird about each other in public #claire is too familiar with a guy who does Not seem to like her at all. why is she saying this stuff. claire thats tmi #he would do anything for her. he will still argue with her over the most mundane things ever.#her coffee order sucks and he’s not saying all That Stuff to a barista. kill him on the spot.#claire gets an extra cookie bc she threatened to cry #they’re just kinda stuck together idk. something something his line about the universe bending to get them together. he’s bitter about it #it’s also a form of foreplay but i don’t know what the tag limits are #just know that claire is weird about that as well #i mean tbf of course is foreplay what else would this be. how is this dynamic feasible otherwise #it’s*

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foxgloveinspace · 4 months ago

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I mean this in the nicest way possible: I wish I was a better friend.

#delete later #I know I’m not a good friend #but i think it’s trauma related #and I know that’s not an excuse #but a reason #and I’m just… also tired of people leaving me #I don’t strike up conversations anymore cause I was the friend who always did so #I was always the one making the effort to be in other peoples lives #and it sucks. ya know.#and sometimes I say dumb things that then like….. makes people not want to be around me I fear #and like…. yeah…. that’s part of life #but I’m just so tired of being alone #I want friends. I want people to send post cards and letters too #and I wanna hang out with people #and I want them to tell me things I want them to tell me how they are feeling #like. online friends are great!!#don’t get me wrong!!#but I know I’m not a great online friend either.#and when I try to be I fear I come off as flirting. like sometimes I am. don’t get me wrong #but I wish I could just… go to a friends house and sit with them and hold their hand when they are having a bad day and have the same done #for me!!!#I am always giving…. I am always giving parts of myself to people who don’t give themselves back #I still know my ex-best friends favorite color but I doubt she knows what mine was when we where friends #if you read this far just…. ignore it oof.#it’s just a rant #sometimes I rant in a tumblr post cause reading rants back in old journals is. bad. for my mental health #my adhd just picks the emotions right back up and then I go through it again. so it’s best to tumblr rant #I’ve also been having complicated gender emotions again #I don’t hate the idea of being a woman/girl as much as I used to. and it’s throwing me off a bit #I mean it’s right on time really… I have a gender crisis almost every four years…

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xannerz · 1 year ago

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i think the other frustrating thing is like. people online forget that politics and war is complicated. it sucks, it's tedious. civilians are being hurt and killed as a result of fascism and greed. this isnt a saturday morning cartoon. you can't always be spoon-fed tl;drs on who's the good guy and who's the villain. this shit is fluid, and often just looks like this:

#like. ex: ukraine is actually an azeri ally. they're buddies.#but even as a diasporan armenian watching her country get attacked by azerbaijan i dont support russia attacking ukraine #and even now. despite ukraine having been an azeri ally. azeris are driving in the streets celebrating russia for helping armenia back down #like. this is shit is messy. it has layers.#my friends were talking about how armenia and india want to work together more. and my friend (who's indian!) was concerned #b/c while she supports armenia - india's current govt is fascist and we collectively. obviously. dont support that.#like!! none! of this! is clear-cut!!!#meanwhile my other armenian friend and i were like absolutely. like muslims in india are fighting to survive.#and armenians are also afraid of suffering through a 2nd genocide #what choice do we have if we have to buy arms from india #when no country will sanction aze or intervene in a substantial way #we've had 3 years of politicians saying 'someone should do something!!' and then crickets.#what would you do?#xangoeswah

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caimitos · 6 months ago

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saw a post about projecting your ethnicity onto a character and started missing vespa ilkay. so so bad

#pov u grow up in a 3rd world country(/planet) where healthcare workers are exported by the thousands like cheap produce to richer countries #it's your ticket out of poverty as long as you can deal with the loneliness the separation from everyone you know the discrimination etc #ive never talked about my hc that vespas mother was one of them sending money every month visiting every couple of years until it just stop #like why return to the swamps when youre doing fine working on a richer planet w much better living conditions #cost of living rises every year. sending home a % of your salary used to be enough to support your husband and daughter and then it isnt #you know how it goes #vespa is also dead set on this path until ranga realizes that hemorrhaging healthcare workers leaves them with little to none of their own #students on scholarships or in community/state universities are bound by return service agreements and are forbidden to leave the country #until theyve rendered a few years of work on ranga to pay back their tuition + as a really shitty solution to the brain drain problem #this is real in my country btw but my professors say a lot of ppl do break their rsa's and fucked off to work in other countries LOL #our state unis can barely afford decent facilities they do nottt have the budget to chase down their own alumni in other countries!#but the mental image is a bit funny #vespa ilkays first crime: tinakasan ang rsa #i do also think it lines up with her having a network of med friends everywhere in the galaxy (heart of it all) you kind of go into pre/med #expecting most of your classmates to leave to work in other countries eventually. mine are aiming for the usa / uae / europe / japan etc #anyway whether vespa breaks her rsa or not she leaves ranga asap decides to switch careers and the rest is history #i also deeply love the fact that she's superstitious i'm very sad it wasn't highlighted more (i've only heard s1-3)#as someone who did grow up in a rural area and went to more albularyos/folk healers than doctors in my childhood. (they never failed me)#lots of folk illnesses (ex. balis; pasma) local medical superstitions (dont eat noodles in hospital; youll have a really toxic shift) etcc #theres also a lot of potential in tying her past as a rangian + med student + assassin to me idk how to word this properly #being raised on cautionary tales of not to touch/disturb anything in the swamps then being given free reign to poke & prod at things in her #lab classes (now with the proper ppe)....she was having so much fun with the curemother prime too lmao #years of walking hanging bridges docks boathouses in ranga etc gave her great balance & stealth #cracking open alien shellfish in the swamps to cutting open bodies for studying then for assassination....#I MISS HER SO MUCH BALIK KN SAKEN 😭😭😭😭😭😭#i get why most people + the canon focuses on her being an assassin bc people find that cooler i guess #but vespa being a swamp girl > 3rd world med student > assassin is so personal To Me. the whole pipeline. eugh.#skl.txt

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sluttyten · 6 months ago

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yall I want TDS3 tickets so badly 😭 but I don't know who to even go with and I'm not going by myself.... but I'm also seriously thinking I'm just gonna go ahead and try to get tickets on friday anyway

#last year i went with my mom and she enjoyed it #but im not entirely sure she wants to go again #and then my best friend doesn't like kpop at all lmao #but I don't know i might be able to get her to go w me but #i dont know how she'll feel about the traveling in chicago by ourselves thing #bc when we last went there together for a concert we were with her ex and he did the driving #so my last option is my brother lol because i asked the other day if he wants to go to chicago #and he did say yes so i told him attendance at the concert is mandatory #kpop is also absolutely not his genre of music #even though he listens to a little bit of a lot of stuff like country and pop and broadway musicals #like dude you'd love the theatrics of kpop and the gaybaiting they do? thats something he might like #and then one of my choices was my moms best friend bc she said after she saw my moms videos of tds2 #that she wanted to go see a kpop concert because she loves showmanship so she saw the eras tour and #fell in love so i think she would like kpop. she loved the wrist light things TS did so lightsticks are definitely #something she'd enjoy and the choreography #i really think it's just the language barrier that's preventing my brother and best friend from wanting to go #and the language barrier that keeps my mom and her best friend from probably enjoying the music as much #because my mom loved one direction so a kpop boyband isn't too far off from that #oh also i think my friend will tell me no because i've already turned her down for plans like a week or two before that #because i won't have PTO to use at work because i'll have just gotten back from a vacay that uses i all #and then i'm gonna turn around and take 2 days off for a concert (travel time sucks)

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sidereumvulpes · 11 days ago

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Uhgg I love my girlfriend.. she's so pretty and I don't get to talk about them enough. I want to talk about my angel, my heart, my very tall wife<33

#she's like a foot taller then me and I love it so much.#even if I'm cursed by short jokes #im so gay #I WANT TO BUY HER MORE FLOWERS BUT THE ONES I BOUGHT HER LAST ARE STILL GOOD AND HEALTHY #HOW DO I TELL HER I WANT HER FLOWERS TO DIE FASTER SO I CAN BUY HER MOREEE :[[#uhghh she feels the need to pay back unconditional gifts and I just wanna spoil them #tormented by my partners want to get a job. like- no baby it's okay I can support us!! just stay home or go out with your friends!!!#wish I could be my standard of husband in this economy. I need a better job 😞#like- it's okay love I'll work and when I come home I'll cook dinner and wash up everything afterwards :[[#You want a massage? ofc baby. not feeling well? I'm here love. Cute new dress or wanna get your nails done? take my card. treat yourself.#I wanna do more for them :[[ she's so sweet to me even after being mistreated by some dickwad ex. She deserves the world<3333 #i miss my wife tails

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sillyfreakx5 · 2 months ago

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WHY THE FUCK IS EVERYONE FROM CALIFORNIA

#uhh more venty shit down in the tags #likee tw for csa or grooming or whatever idk #like uhh my bf (a complicated topic) is from california #and uhh yeah basically i have an ex gf that i broke up with bc I'm a shitty person #and i cheated on her with predators multiple times ykyk #and a) wanted to avoid guilt b) obviously staying with her was wrong c) she's a really good person and i wanted to feel worse so ykyk #and uhh we're still close friends #she really should hate me bc stuff but oh well that's a vent for another day #and yeahh a while back when she came over and we started talking mental health shit #and i impulsively was like “hey how about we troll this bloke that has been trying to get back in contact with me?”#uhh he's like 38 or something and uhhh we sexted for like a day .#while i was dating my current boyfriend.#wow i really am a shitty person #and then yeah we had been texting a little for like the previous 3 days #so me and ex gf kinda went along with whatever he was saying #until he called and realised there was 2 off us and blocked me #ANYHOW YEAH HE WAS FROM CALIFORNIA #and after that event i randomly started feeling intense hate for ex gf every once in a while???#I'm not exactly sure why but oh well that did happen #and anyhow yeah a few months ago #like just before i broke up with her i think #she recommended the song dogbird by madds buckley #i nearly cried when i listened to it lmao it's far too real #i really recommend it #but yeah i was already like pushing her away at that point and that song is basically about that #(also very sapphic)#and yahh this morning i was feeling Sad and i randomly remembered this song and i was like “damn that's on topic ima listen to it again”#it's even realer than i remembered lmao #and yeah guess where the girlfriend-that-was-pushed-away was mentioned to be from in that song?#FROM FUCKING CALIFORNIA

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sillyfudgemonkeys · 7 months ago

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Kyoshi, when she first sees Yangchen: ?????!!! MOMMY????!!! Yangchen:

#rise of kyoshi #shadow of kyoshi #kyoshi #yangchen #jksadjflljaf #it's such a sweet and sad scene but this is how my brain likes to remember it TT0TT #in my defense kyoshi is even more of a mess of a human in my head #things I want in a 3rd kyoshi novel: kyoshi seeing her parents spirits. addressing how rangi almost killed her ex-classmate TT0TT #tbh just gimme more rangi school days stories too #i know i post more of how much of a mess rangi is but kyoshi is equally messy they are so beautiful and dumb it's great 10/10 would recomme #yangchen was SOOOOOO confused when she first popped in kldjflkdsjadf;#yangchen: kuruk??? is she always like this??? kuruk did you even help her??? kuruk KURUK GET BACK HERE!#yangchen: what was your interaction with kuruk like??#kyoshi: *sobbing* I was mean to him ;w;#yangchen: I can't believe I reincarnated as masochists like twice in a row???? TT0TT

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genderfluid-druid · 2 months ago

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“what happened to him?” “he read a book so bad he returned it to the library a third of the way through, but now his brain won’t stop chewing on the potential it had 😔”

#f**rth w*ng isn’t even a case of “this would be so good if it was good”#but it is unfortunately a case of “this would be such epic catnip for me if it was good”#i fear i may have to check it out again and hate-binge it to get it out of my system #ugghhhhhh i’m not even gonna enjoy a single minute of it #but i need to convince my brain there’s nothing there! it was never going to get good! trust me dude it wasn’t!#negativity #i just want to pick it up from the start of the bonding scene and rewrite it completely #without the fuckin. deus ex machina all-powerful mythic rare ancient dragon #and without any intervention from xaden #and just focus on violet and the feathertail #i read the wiki and that kiddo has TIME MAGIC?#yeah fuck off you do not need anyone else’s help #with TIME MAGIC and a bonded human who has even an ounce of competence and brainpower #you do NOT need a fuckin legendary dragon’s help #that could’ve been SO COOL C’MON #you’re really gonna build the whole core of your story around how Violet is not strong but has a sharp mind #and then get her out of her tight spot by introducing a BIG STRONG DRAGON #instead of letting her work with the tiny smart-but-not-strong dragon????? come the fUCK on #ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh it could’ve been so cool #ughhhhhhhhhh and then the first flight was the most fuckin lackluster bit of storytelling i’ve ever read #like yeah cool okay i love how she’s having to work with Tairn to keep her seat. that part was fun #but then the fucking handwave of “wow it’s amazing being on a dragon’s back”#you could never be toothless and hiccup #god #anyway #had to get my rant out #it pisses me off when dragon stories are bad XD

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absensia · 8 months ago

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when talking about the challenges of writing and the journey of improving as a writer, something I notice in myself is how it can feel like there's a wall between myself and the character I'm writing, not because I don't know them well enough to write them, but rather, because I know them too well and so (especially in the context of roleplay where you are responding to a potentially novel and unexpected situation) there's just this knee-jerk knowledge of how Char is going to react/what she is going to say/what she is going to think, without me really having to think about it too much, and that feeling... that reflex of just knowing what Char is gonna do, can be hard to trust sometimes, tbh.

#think I've talked about this before but it's just interesting... how after so many years of research and development #writing Char has just become so natural that it borders on feeling thoughtless when it comes to writing her reactions/dialogue #there's a weird persistent feeling of “I should be putting more thought into this” but... no #each time I read back whatever I write - it's like “yeah no that tracks that's Char that's right”#the feeling of disconnect comes when Char surprises even /me/ in the moment of writing... but u know what THAT'S PART OF THE FUN #like sometimes she really does surprise by how ... for ex. how passive she can be or how egregiously she is willing to push ppl etc etc #me: you really want to say that / char: did I stutter? no. get to typing go go #sighs dreamily anyways she's my darling she's my gremlin i made her w my brain and hands and now i sometimes can't believe her :')

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evature · 4 days ago

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The real question is...why is this girl occupying my thoughts...

Why does tumblr have a 30 tag limit