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So, I really love the selection of Tim Walz for VP and itās taken me a moment to articulate why. I mean, obviously, Dem bonafides, heās sharp, heās funny, etc etc. But everyone in the Veepstakes fits that bill, Harris was spoiled for good choices.
But Walz offers something that the other men in contention donāt that I think will be incredibly useful in combating Trumpism.
He offers an example and an off ramp to the section of men who felt like they were Republicans by default, and so support Trump by default. There are a lot of Trump voters who are full on obsessive, but thatās not who weāre talking to. Weāre talking to folks who grew up in Republican areas, or felt their hobbies didnāt line up with who a Democrat was, or didnāt feel represented by their image of a Democrat. You want to see it so you can be it, you know? Which is why Harris is so inspirational to a lot of segments of folks, but Walz is too.
He served in the military. He went to a state college. Heās your favorite teacher from your public high school. Heās your football coach who actually cared if you were passing your math class. Heās the guy you looked up to at school when your family sucked but this guy cared, and he helped you get out and make something of yourself.
Heās the neighbor who helps you jump your car. Heās your uncle who takes you hunting. Heās your Dad who loves teasing you at the Stare Fair. Heās you when he makes a mistake like his DUI and takes responsibility for it, and when he has the chance makes sure other can come back from similar mistakes. Heās you when you and your wife want so badly to be parents and IVF gives you the family you wanted. Heās you when he says āit had to be meā and used his standing and power to protect vulnerable kids sponsoring the GSA at his school.
He gives the real life example to these men that they can be that football, fishing, hunting family man who wants to provide for his family, be that powerful, respected member of the community and use that power to feed kids in school. That itās normal to enthusiastically work for a boss like Harris. That yeah those other guys are fucking weirdos, and youāre not a weirdo, are you?
That thereās a place in the Democratic Party for them. That they donāt have to default to being fucking weird.
I hope those guys see this example of masculinity and goā¦ yeah, thatās me. Thatās who Iām gonna be.
#us politics#tim walz#I think Harris made an excellent selection#who will support her and her agenda#and gives us some non-law school and non-Ivy rep thatās desperately needed#but his brand of masculinity I think is gonna be attractive to white men who donāt like being grouped with weirdos#and white women in their 50s & 60s who look at him and see their Dad whome they miss#Harris chose well
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Three different boys like Adelaide right now and they all play on the same basketball team together.
Boy drama.
#one of them has asked her to be his valentine#and sheās having a hard time deciding whether or not to accept#because heās best friends with one of the other boys who likes her#which is very sweet of her#and is certainly a factor#but I think ultimately is THEIR problem to sort out#she and the third boy have decided their friendship is more important#thatās a boy I know fairly well#and he is a GEM#a really really great kid#they may wind up at the same high school together#and it is my very secret hope that they date at some point then#because I think heād be an excellent early boyfriend#and help her seek out healthy relationships with kind people#but I of course plan to never tell Adelaide this opinion
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Headcanon that most demon royalty goes to some fancy private/finishing school. But that Stolas was homeschooled with a private tutor. It was one of the very very few requests his dad granted him and for years it was a tressure memory, one of the few times he /got to choose/ one of the few times his dad /listened/ to him. Only to realize when he enters society that it was another isolation tactic. That everybody had already spent years forming social alliances and building their reputations and social credit. And that there was no room for him to break into those circles, that he /did not know/ the proper unspoken social rules. That his wife has spent years building her clout and that he is once again. Alone.
#helluva boss#stolas goetia#stella goetia#Other demon royality#Listen I dont know anything about the world building in helluva boss or if they have any type of schools at all#I am basing this off of other dramas involving rich kids there's always a private school social credit is everything#And stolas has such perfect weird home school kid who does not know how to act around people because they've just never socialized ever#And I love the angst of dtolas's life being a compounding series of isolation and misreading situations only to realize#What was wrong way too late but still clinging to the good memory because that's all he has#And it pairs well with Stella being an excellent socialite#And the angst of stolas being like okay yay! Time to attend events i can do this i might even make friends!#Only to realize he /cant/ and forget friends or allies this means he has no one he can lean on to help with the abuse Stella deals out#Owl in a cage is a very telling song#Vassago once again in the corner vibrating because he'd love to be friends! He volunteers pleaseeee#Stolas gaining a reputation for being really fucking weird but really good at his job and for thinking he's too good to talk to anyone here#Because he never fucking talks to anyone#I imagine the first few years stolas was out in society were filled with just. So many painfully awkward conversations until he just#Stopped trying because what was the point
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I am finally, FINALLY watching Interview with the Vampire (AMC).
Oh my God. Oh my God. It completely captures the spirit of the book, and even with the details of the book it changes, the ones it keeps are on POINTE. I am two episodes in and completely enamoured with this luxuriatingly horny vampire show.
#Interview with the Vampire#Vampire Chronicles#Anne Rice#AMC IWTV#Jacob Anderson#Sam Reid#i do love Sam Reid's take on Lestat#he is charming yes but he is at the core of himself an unfavoured son of a brute and ex-seminary servant to the muse of music#and above all a vindictive bitch#and they got some excellent details right too#he did try to keep his sister well after becoming a vampire#and he was first driven to suicide after the death of his brother (the wife and child thing was in the film)#and in the original book the family did own a sugar plantation#i do love how they've changed it to put a black man in a role of narrative control and agency instead of keeping them to the backdrop#for a story set in NOLA it feels right#also yes louis as the closeted gay man is a strong and correct choice! bravo#the whole 'the earth is a savage garden' line feels like a shot for the old school fans who devoured The Vampire Lestat (bk 2)#BECAUSE THAT'S WHERE THE PHRASE COMES FROM AND WHERE THE BAND GOT THEIR NAME#also don't think i didn't catch the line about the beautiful violinist because i still remember him!#in short this feels very true to the source#*he - as in Louis
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I have decided that I need to be more in the habit of reading weird fiction, and I have from now until the end of September without classes, so I've endeavored to read one piece of short speculative fiction available in lit mags online everyday until then.
In an effort to actually maintain that, and also because authors and lit mags are frequently the only ones promoting their own works and we should change that, I'm going to post them here, probably without additional commentary or I'll get overwhelmed and stop doing it. There will likely be no rhyme or reason to what the vibes are, because I plan to open a lit mag and read the first thing that catches my eye instead of trying to figure out which ones are actually my speed. This is an effort to read a lot of different stuff, after all.
If you want to read along, I'll post these under the tag "#sff shorts with megs"!
Here's the first:
#sff shorts with megs#megs is reading#if this goes well I may continue it into the school year but for now we're gonna start with the summer lmao#anyway this was the first thing I saw on the lightspeed home page and it was perfect. excellent start
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I am a slut for great dialogue. Most Popular Girls in School is my baseline for excellent dialogue. I want Than & Brittany's mixed messages back & forth from season 2 tattooed on my body.
#admin talks#yeah theres some stuff that hasnt aged well#but overall still fucking excellent series#mpgis#most popular girls in school
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Anyway, if Nani can ace one of Fon's long-ass no-lines shots like he did at the end of this episode, he can do anything šššš
#in drama anyway#comedy is a different set of skills#sky did as well obviously#but i never doubted him#high school frenemy#nani has graduated#listen there were so many of those shots in 10yt that didn't work#but this one was excellent
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Giving a complicated tragic childhood backstory to your favorite character is all fun and games, until you realize you need to account for how old all the other adult characters would have been at the time and realize that scenes that would work perfectly if one character was twenty three and the other was fourteen stop working when you need other characters who are played by adult actors clearly younger than they are to be in college at the same time so your story beats line up thematically.
#Don't worry. I made an excel document for this over a year ago#Was that unhinged? Yeah. But this is harder than you think it is#In unrelated news it is now reasonable to have a child in your 20s 30s or 40s depending on when the plot needs the child#Also people in their early 20s can be in grad school have already established careers and adopt children now. I've declared it.#Also: Hollywood stop trying to trick me into believing women in their 30s are the same age as men in their 50s. It's never gonna work.#I'm fighting for my life to make these age gaps normal even on a platonic level#Don't worry I aged the girls up and the boys down#But still this is a bit ridiculous#If you use the actors' ages it doesn't work. Garrison's actress is 16 years younger than Curtain. Why?#I mean I like the casting. But SQ is a teenager. We know Curtain has had his evil plans at least since SQ was born and lost his bio dad#and if the Whisperer is Garrison's invention that means she and Curtain were working together when SQ was born#If SQ in the show is 16 (the actor was older I believe) and Garrison is 37 (that's how old the actress is now she was younger at time)#That means Garrison was only 21 and Curtain was well into his 30s. And that's after you age SQ down and Garrison up for the calculations#So Garrison was likely (according to the shows' casting) even younger than that which begs the question what was Curtain doing?#Was he spending his 30s lurking around college campuses and high schools looking for a kid whose inventions he could steal?#What in the Marcus Cutter is that about?#All these jokes about Garrison being SQ's uninvolved divorced stepmom but nah she's really his estranged big sister#also this is very frustrating because the irl age gap between the actress who plays Number Two and Tony Hale only 7 years#but they're the ones for whom a 16 year age gap would have actually made sense because he adopts her in the books!#but now since Garrison is clearly so much younger than Number Two Curtain and Benedict I have to deal with this#(Don't worry I figured it out and made the age gaps normal. You just now have to believe Number Two is only a year older than Garrison)#It was the stress of living with her family that aged her and Garrison just looks naturally super young that's what we're going with.#And don't get me wrong:#I do like the actresses and actors they casted they're great but sometimes I google the ages and I'm like oh you cannot be serious#But we've (more or less) figured it out#Rant over#writing#writing struggles#tmbs
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hi fellow neurodivergent people
i hate to jump on the "i think i might have adhd" bandwagon, but if i think i might have adhd, how do i bring it up to my care team as a 28-year-old cis woman who was a massive overachiever until i couldn't keep up the ruse anymore?
#idk what happened when i got laid off it seriously is like my brain BROKE i cannot do anything#i have not done much of anything in a year. and i think it's bc my coping mechanisms were 1. self-medicate but ESPECIALLY do that while#2. overcommitting. because it kept me busy and distracted. i excelled in school because i could focus on it without it giving me anxiety#school was honestly almost the only thing that didn't give me anxiety as a kid. and i never felt quite Right like i didn't feel like i fit#in with my peers. i've always felt like a human being that isn't a person. like something's not quite right. i excel but i feel like i'm#doing it wrong because it's SO hard for me. i graduated my BA and BS programs with a 4.0#but it came with the cost of alienating all of my friends and family and becoming really reclusive and weird and distant and anxious#but i really just wanted to do well at the one thing i felt i was good at. which doesn't seem like something i should take note of#idk. my life feels like a claustrophobic box. i feel like i'm buried alive and i can't get myself out because i can't work#because i can't focus. but maybe i'm just stupid and lazy and want everyone to take care of me forever so i can continue laying around doin#fuck all. which i do a lot because i'm chronically ill. idk. like is there ground to stand on here. i literally have zero friends rn#and i feel so so so sos so anxious any time i am working because i worry i'm going to do something wrong or forget to do something or make#lots of mistakes that get me in trouble. i'm so scared of making mistakes it keeps me from doing anything at all. but i get so anxious bc#i'm not doing anything! i'm wasting time! and i can't focus on anything when i AM working because i have to get up and pace#like i HAVE to move around or i start to feel like i need to peel my skin off like i'm an orange#like. is it anything at all. or is this just me being someone who has Other Stuff going on
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my beloved imac from 2014 with a cracked screen that i conned my dad into giving me so i had a computer on which to do stupid freelancer shit for him but use primarily for personal use (file storage, use appletv to play streaming sites on our actual tv, play sims) seems to beā¦ā¦engaging in behaviors that for lack of a better way to put this best resemble when my elderly cat started having seizures after a hard summer of kidney problems and we had to be like. oh itās the end the end? obviously less emotional than that but. you know. sheās had a long good life and maybe itās her time. thatās okay. all things end. anyway. all this to say we are trying to coax her into not just waking up again but pretty please just giving me two files that are the backbone of the recurring stupid freelancer shit i do every month. please baby i have hand problems i canāt build those templates again. please.ā¦ā¦ā¦
#also rip to my photos backed up there rip to my huge sims 4 cc folder#but those. well. everything is temporary all things end. i lost all my photos in 2017. i lived. besides most r still on my phone#bc that was a long term work in progress iāve just been out of space on here for months LOL#but christ the system i have for those was a pain in the ass to set up and it wouldnāt be any less work this time#so evaās trying to salvage them.ā¦fingers crossed#we knew she was getting old but i kind of thought sheād last forever for her limited uses#like no she canāt take new software updates but she ran mostly smoothly!!! mostly!!!!#but wow she is. hmmmmmmm well sheās dying. Sad!#ok thatās all. pray for my stupid fucking powerpoints and their stupid fucking linked excel sheet#at least i donāt keep my writing on there LOL lotta school stuff but thatāsā¦oh shit some of that might only be on the comp#oh wait no i think i used google drive for those so i could bounce back and forth w my ipad. ok good i had some good essays probably#but my 100k of fic work recently (guys itās insane iām writing a BIG FICā¦and iām doing it patience mode im fucking drafting the WHOLE THING)#THAT i back up. that i would be sad to lose. i am so glad i am not losing that. that would be worse than the freelancer bs by FAR#but wow i donāt want to remake those. but if i must i mustā¦ā¦#evaās tryingā¦#a ten is blogging
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Iām glad Iām getting $200 out of this house/dog sitting thing cause it is painful seeing my momās friendās kids (who are more like my cousins than my actual cousins) stuff everywhere. Like trophies and huge posters of them in their high school sports teams uniforms. Like omfg, my mom could have had kids to actually be proud of. It must hurt her inside even though sheād never say it. These kids grew up wealthy and with stable parents and I know thatās most of why they turned out so different from me (plus they were not homeschooled lol..), but ugh. I wish I could do something literally anything at all to be proud of š
#itās not any better that my ACTUAL cousins all also excelled in pretty much everything they do#my oldest cousin has already traveled the world sheās in a good school and sheās on track to be a well known wildlife photographer#idk much about the younger ones but theyāre still going to good schools studying forestry and shit.#this is the one thing I CANNOT start thinking about or I just spiral š Iām so disappointed#but also their dad makes half a million a year and I donāt even KNOW what their mom makes. so really?ā¦..#idk.
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#hi!!!!!!#i feel like i should update here bc despite the stress it caused me this place got me through some of the roughest parts of med school#so if anyone at all is still around thank you <3#im updating to say match day was friday and im very excited to have matched into my dream specialty in a program im very excited about!#im thankfully moving much closer to my family which im stoked about and ill have excellent opportunities here so im super grateful#im graduating med school in two months which is surreal#i will be a literal doctor like who allowed that im just a young girl#anyways thank you to harry and this place for giving me stuff to look forward to during the rough patches#idk what he's up to these days but i hope he's well!!!#anyways byeeeeeeeeeee hope you guys are doing great
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lowkey my therapist wants me to eventually try and reach out to and rekindle dead friendships and i don't know what she's cooking with this. will this lead to disaster and more trauma or will this heal me.
#how i understand it these people's version of a good life is leaving everything from before behind#no1 liked being stuck in that school#it's not fair for me to drag someone back into something they wanted to leave behind (and they did so successfully) just bc i'm struggling#also how am i going to do this with an antisocial prick as smn that's v sensitive esp to rejection#im not a little ray of eternal sunshine that excels at taking the initiative even w unwilling parties#i'm like oh ur asking me why i gaf. ur asking me why im doing this well im so sorry for bothering u in ten years im going to mention u in m#privated suicide note thankies#or the ridiculous option of blaming my therapist āum she told me to do it actually it's not like i WANTED to do bakaā
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#freeze response is all well and effective until youve been sitting in the same position staring at the same spot for a solid ten minutes#goddddd i (nuanced) my parents. god fucking damnit i know they care i know the school cares but this is not a care that can be helpful to m#because i cant take an offered hand and i am too prideful to ask#and i hate to struggle in front of an audience! so i will live with my hate and fear and guilt and shame until enough time has passed#for me to be rid of them. i know i need help for fucks sake i of all people know best that i need help.#but every time i have seen a psychologist i have come out drained and angry and tired#and with everything going on. i dont want to waste myself on something that probably wont even help#if anyone irl finds out that i have npd or bpd i will get dragged through the muck for being Like That. the stigma is high enough.#nobody is going to be nice about it. obviously. every problem i have had is my fault. i self impose my own social isolation. (irl that is)#im not going to tell myself to a stranger who does not understand and will report my every move to people who care about/cause my pain#however the good thing is. they cant make me talk. the power of silence is excellent.#ā[second deadname] dont you think you should get some help about that [redacted]? if there's a problem you should deal with itā#you cannot say that when every fight in this fucking family ends with me going to comfort my sister and dad going to comfort you#and then promptly pretending it never happened. you can't tell me not to ignore my problems you fucking taught me to#anyways. i am going to finish my homework and ragework on the mama animatic and probably pass out in class. again.#personal posts
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a n y w a y s listen to nagisaās new song itāll change your life
#this new v tuber singer dude is excellent at singing ngl. his voice is very upbeat and goes well with the song#[āenojun version waiting room intensifies]#ok but. is it s e r i o u s l y just me or did they actually use a ukulele for this song#idk but that ukulele-sounding instrument reminds me of this guy who would walk around playing his ukulele at school back in the days of yore#the backing track also sounds familiar somehowā¦ like one of those kindness movements/life insurance commercials maybe?#no idea wh y but i can picture nagisa singing this by the beach. yāknow. nagisa singing at the nagisaā#this song is def gonna make me laugh or cry (or both) when it gets an mvā¦#it could be either hilarious or heartbreaking with no in-between#but man. nagisa. his long time crush comes back home looking (presumably) like a maiden in love and heās just.#ā:( iām not the one who made her like this :((( but sheās super cute thoughā#i m mad coping with the thoughts that hiyoko started to fall for nagisa with the distance between them (absence and the fonder heart or sth)#a n d that she only seemed fine when she went back bc she didnāt want him to see her upset about having to leave for the city b u t.#auasusuxuxuxuxhaughhhhhshhshshshshsh im c o p i n g#if hiyo ends up with one of the lips im gonna write a nagisa x the leftover lip enemies to lovers manifesto d o n t t e s t m e o kā#aaaaaaauauaaaaaaaaaaa im sorry i lied when i said i was done with my 2k23 nagisa crisis iāll be done after this. maybe.#the dude from gamushara
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iām this close š¤ to writing like a 15k+ seblos s4 entire rewrite fic to scrap the cheating entirely while still hitting all the emotional objectives & the fight/misunderstanding/reconciliation bits i can tell they were trying to get at š
#hsmtmts#high school musical the musical the series#seblos#i have an excellent idea that would work so well if i do say so myself#thereās like nobody in the fandom anymore but when i tell u im so close to doing thisā¦
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