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muirneach · 5 months

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i think the current player that mainstream tennis fans have decided to hate en masse is ben shelton which is probably the most obvious case of barely disguised racism in a while from the tennis community. heres this kid just having fun and really just starting his career in the past year but he’s black so they have to find fault with him. also i think ppl really hate confident players (like ben) in general which is crazy because you need confidence to win thats basic mental tennis knowledge

#literally how could you hate him hes such a sweetheart #super powerful player and lots of fun to watch what more do you want #i havent seen a lot of nepotism accusations because i think everyone knows theres no arguments to be made with that #since like 1/3 of players parents are tennis pros lollll #but i have seen a few. again its definitely the racism #tennis fans need to learn the difference between confidence and arrogance.. esp when they cheer for ppl like novak and stef etc etc #tennis

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ayrennaranaaldmeri · 11 months

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man the dev notes w/ the stormshore tabernacle convo. whatever they're there for it's kind of remarkable how so much of the notes there for her are just textbook abuser stuff.

#tbd #after all the advantages I gave you -- i have the visceral skin crawl reaction its the abusive parent anthem #things that make my skin crawl bruh #it's everything I did for you #child who i groomed #I'm being so magnanimous towards you giving you time == child who i groomed #look at how merciful i am even though my first instinct is that i don't like how you didn't obey me #the dev notes of that convo genuinely make it worse boooy #which well done but also i will throw hands #dming helm pls kill her again #anyway i think it's kind of fascinating that most gods in this game show themselves as these larger than life figures but mystra?#you are seeing the person who did that to gale you are seeing that person #that person came to him as a child #like that divine separation has just not been there #esp with the build up #where she first dispatches elminster and then again when he tells you about the grant but at the end it's just her in this human figure #i genuinely feel like it deliberately strips that divine separation away & its another layer of insidiousness on her part #it's grounded in the sense of the damage she'd done to gale idk i am waffling but its just something about it is worse when it's so..wow.#idk i think in this game? i think she's not written like the other gods in this game and i think it makes her worse not more sympathetic #bg3 spoilers #abuse tw

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deerlisteners · 1 year

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thinking abt felix being protective of areadbhar and feeling entirely normal about it actually

#deertalking #feposting #few3h #ITS SO. LIKE THE WAY HES DEPICTED IN THIS GAME DRIVES ME CRAZY #like i haven’t thought this through i don’t have a point here exactly #i’m just thinking abt the screencaps here from the king awakens & him giving ingrid glenn’s spur & his support w mercedes & the cat #where mercie points out the cat likes him & he goes ‘well i can’t keep it. It’s practically a kitten what if it has parents that miss it’#not to even mention wildflowers for the future!!!!#like. ROLLS ON THE GROUND #it’s abt ‘i’m not immune to emotions you know’ it’s about it’s about #it’s abt how he feels like his emotions were disregarded since childhood (esp after duscur) so he pushed away the #sentimentality because he’s seen where it got his friends (revenge quests & death wishes)#but he can’t help but follow his friends down those paths anyway because he loves them so much!!!!!!!#like him acknowledging the spear’s importance to dimitri bc it’s all that’s left of lambert but ALSO #in that moment it’s all FELIX has left of DIMITRI. ykwim #like felix babygirl my beloved y do u think it makes u sick to see areadbhar in the enemy’s possession……..#he is just so hypocritical i adore him. he might be the character of all time to me #bro is trying so hard to b a lone wolf but was NOT built for that he was built to be loved and cherished by his friends #and so he shall be. thank you #um anyway idk what my point here was. i just like thinking abt how much felix loves everybody #someday i will make a coherent felix post. today is not that day #dmlxposting #dimilix #yknow what yeah.

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guckies · 9 months

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Been seeing all the discussion about Tubbo being Em’s parents and…. 😬

It’s like we get a girl egg with all moms and it’s now feels like people are saying “she needs a dad!!” because a male is treating her like family…

I’m all for Tubbo being family to Empanada but being her dad?? It feels a lot like there are some misogynistic undertones there. Like family is not just parents it can be literally anything, same way Pepito has Foolish being grandma. Tubbo can have the same and be family in some way to Em.

But it’s like we have an all girl family but because the egg is interacting with others, people are inserting the males into it(the parent dynamic). Which just reads wrong when a majority of the island is male relationships and prominent male families where the girls are mainly just aunts to the children.

Have your headcannons but don’t try to insert them into the canon with your posts especially when a majority of the server relationships are male prominent.

#qsmp neg #qsmp discourse #just can we not have something for the girls?? also it feels even more weird when you do say that and people say well Tubbo’s gay anyway-#which how does that have anything to do with it??? like all for being strong family as in tio or smth like that #but pushing the hc of a gay dad in an all girl family feels like it has undertones i dont want to unpack rn #im not going to stop yall from having your headcanons but like take a step back and look at what the situation is and then think #also this literally happened when jaiden and roier were treating tilin and flippa like their children some people weren’t happy but not -#many weren’t watching multiple streams at the time so they’re wasn’t many complaining but its happened before #also happened a bit when bagi became richas mom #the only difference with those relationships where that the eggs choose and agreeds for them to be their parents #also it’s like yes we would love to see her parents log in more but literally they are all busy people and weren’t always incredibly active-#on the server apart from bagi which is smth the admins probably should have thought about if the new eggs were going to be taken care of #yes let em have her family and her lore but also let us have our female mums rep bc there is so little of it in qsmp #but calm down about em lore bc yall think its the most important thing out there when a whole losd of the eggs rarely have lore esp old eggs

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lcpmon · 27 days

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i need to practise walk cycles so i can animate the whole kälher family but that will take patience. something i dont have 😔

#gilly speaks #sorry thinking abt how the twins take elements from their parents gates #ermengarde has big bouncy almost rubberhose-like gate with a wide stride and fists swinging up and down #whilst william has a slouched sluggish gate with tightly clenched fists by his side that move in a very stiff motion #emmets obvsly got a bit of that big confident gate ermengarde has with less bounce and a wide stride. whole arms are also stiff #lngos gate is stiff but hes not slouched like his father and honestly his shoulder motion mimics ermengardes but his hands dont sway #i would describe the whole family to have a 'mechanical'' vibe to their walk and i dont mean like robotic. i mean you could watch them walk #and theyd be perfectly timed to the sfx of a steam train chugging along #ermengarde is definitely heavy footed and doesnt bother with the element of surprise so its fine #william is quiet despite his heavy appearing gate but he does shuffle a lot so most of the time u can hear him coming lmao #both the twins have loud and quiet steps depending on the context tbh #emmets def naturally quiet whist lngo has the loud footsteps but they both have a habit of accidentally scaring ppl by showing up #out of nowhere lmao #honestly the twins gates look similar but when you put them side by side you can see how different they are #esp when it comes to run cycles or any fast walking lmao

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kidfoundonstreets · 11 months

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I DONT HAVE THE IMAGES IRGHT NOW BUT YOU UNDETRNSAD?? YOU GET ?? YOLU GET? IM MADLY I NLOV WITH YOU TIWLIGHTRCADE MY GOOD FRIEND MY COMRADEMY RIDE ROD IE

#freak to freak communication you know ?#thank u . u r the best ever <3 #i really enjoy ur rants and talkings always always.. i hope we r buried skeleton together all for meotauls #anyway matty and ahshe silluy in the way that thjey absooltuely fucking hate eahcother nad ahse has dienfitley b #locked many things out as his life froze after his family died therefore he hasnt had time to process the anger towards matty #maybe he has had anger nad bitterness towards other things but i dont feel like matty is high on his priority right now esp #since he doesnt know wher eh eis but hes still a deep rooted issue - and its not thast he hasnt accepted his familys #death exactly (thouhg i guess that is it but in other wording) its that he hasnt accepted it ending like this #he has to think about his family dead to think about summoning them back yet still i do think he does have #many delusions where they are alive and the thought of going back to them is the only thing keeping him going really #sometimes i think about how even wehn hes crossed the line and killed so #mebody hes still going on it feels like a dead corpse being raked across the floor to lose another piece of who he is once again #kid's heart #BUT THAT ISNT WHAT I WNATED TO TALK ABOUT AURGHH!!#i think that in the past maybe possuibnly you have to be another level of ill to get this far #but ashe geeneeuinly thought of matty as a good friend who was close to him etc etc but on mattys side its harder #because theres no clear intetion ill make up my own i say he did value ashe in a way but #in the end what did indeed win out was his hatred and infeoririuty towards ashe - i dont think he even wouldve goen that far #if he didnt know ashe o rmaybe he wouldve done it sooner - he would spend time with ashe normally with the thought #of how hes using him bnack in his head then go home nad the feelings would pile up pile up pile up esp since his parents #would lay the pressure on thick meanwhile whenever he went to ashes house it wa s ashining exmaple #of what he didnt hvae #and because matty is selfish. it drives him insane #i find it kinda funny how ashe got his trust broken by him leaving such a scar yet now hes #lying to people as matty was as well #i can say more but im scared.

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superwingscentral · 1 year

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#this was in my drafts and im #i wrote it during 2 am aka the hour you should never trust about yourself #memes #super wings #dizzy #she has attachment problems she fears getting attached to people bc theyll end up go away #shes extremely protective of jett donnie jerome bc theyre her only friends who lasted long #shes protective of others too. its due to her nature and her job. but her longtime friends? extreme #off topic i think this also applies to paul to but more on the parental/guardian side #esp after kim disappeared #headcanons #<- in the tags

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broke-on-books · 1 year

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Am I ACTUALLY going to skip class next week to raodtrip 3hrs to my friends house so we can watch star wars with her DAD

#this last episode oh my GODDDDDD #i think i might omg #i can miss tony time right guys???#(thats what i call my phil class bc its kinda stupid)#i legit almost took a nap today and theres like 20ppl in the room #blah #also the star wars here is ahsoka episode 5 btw. not even a movie its a tv show episode #theyre releasjng it in fucking theatres but only 6 in the whole country and theyre already sold out #one is an hr from her house though if a miracle happens #but thats doubtful esp for 3 tix #also NELLIE IF YOU SEE THIS YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO TELL MY PARENTS

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todayisafridaynight · 1 year

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Underrated Sibling Moment is actually mitsu being like ‘i dont want to go back to the captain alone are you insane’ after ichi fumbles the loan collection and ichi has to ditch him for a few hours and mitsu can only kill time and Not think of The Inevitable until they can go back to sawashiro together as if that’ll save them from The Inevitable like if you get it You Get How Real That Was

#snap chats #the best part about getting a new phone. ‘’’new’’’#is that i can make goofy posts ten times faster now that i dont have to wait a year for the app to open #ANYWAY NO YK WHAT I MEAN #LIKE AS IF GOING TO YOUR PARENT TOGETHER WONT JUST GET BOTH YOUR ASSES BEAT #growing up it was the same shit with my sisters and i #if we were out of the house and knew mom was home we’d find any and every excuse to stay out until she was asleep #or she locked herself in her room to do work all night #STOOOPPP I REMEMBER THE WORST CHRISTMAS EVE EVE OF MY LIFE #my dad wanted to get lunch with my sis and i but our mom was home and in the kitchen and yk #we can’t just leave without saying where we’re going ig #bro when i say my sis had a whole breakdown because she did not want to tell our mom #it was painful like TRULY #SAME PLAY OUT TOO NOW THAT I THINK OF IT in the beginning she acted Not Mad #and then very quickly Was Mad and it was just awful all around #made it very gard to enjoy lunch ngl but hey.#after that I Do Not Lie she and i just hung out at the mall for the next eight hours LMAO #but yeah. the accidental story time is integral to understanding this feeling i promise #ITS JUST SO REAL ESP WHEN YOU FUCKED UP AND YOU JUST KNOW YOUR PARENT GONNA FIND OUT LMAO #the most evil shit is when your parent starts getting mad and thrn your siblings clear like roaches #LIKE OH OK. I THOUGHT WE WERE RIDE OR DIEHDVEC #anyway shout out my man mitsu i dont mention you ever but know i see you and ily

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applecherry108 · 1 year

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I…

So I grew up watching The Simpsons. And maybe I shouldn’t have, but hey, it was the 90s and parent-sanctioned family time to watch a show that was definitely inappropriate for little-little kids.

Anyways.

I knew Phil Hartman, voice of Troy McClure and Lionel Hutz died in 1998, when I was seven. I knew he died and was sad about it. I missed his characters.

MOTHERFUCKER I WAS TODAY YEARS OLD—30-FUCKING-2 TO BE EXACT—WHEN I FOUND OUT, FROM A YOUTUBE THUMBNAIL, THAT HE WAS MURDERED. IN HIS SLEEP. BY AN EX-PARTNER.

WHAT THE FUCK

#I assumed he was old and just passed away. maybe he was sick. how do you explain to a 7yo that a voice actor was MURDERED #and idk the state of the show nowadays but esp in its earlier seasons it was definitely meant to push boundaries and yeah #I don’t think I should’ve been to it before the age of 8 to 10 #at minimum. but also. SO much just flew over my head. and we know now I. autistic and my parents are autistic #and do you know how many echolalia swims we all have from that show? 😂😅#*stims goddamn you autocorrect. every day the apple company curses my tags. I miss having an actual keyboard god damn it #apple talks #to the tune of spam #my parents weren’t naive enough to think all animation is for kids like there were plenty of shows I hasn’t allowed to watch as a kid #but idk man. for some reason the Simpsons and the critic were a-okay #but king of the hill wasn’t?? honestly I think it had more to do with whether or not my dad in particular liked a show than whether or not #it was deemed ‘appropriate for children’#my mom tried to ban me from watching sailor moon bc she said it was just ‘little girls jumping around in short skirts being saved by the boy #like hi mom I’m gay. and also watched it in secret for several years. she never found out. I told her long after bc I thought it was #hilarious. mostly she was just mad bc my grandpa was supposed to be watching me lmao

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235uranium · 11 months

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every time i see the "kids and teens should actually get to interact with decent adults" post i just feel unimaginably depressed because people are talking about how these adults helped them at their worst points. meanwhile the ones i knew convinced me my ocd was my actual thoughts and continually exposed me to horrific things and gaslit me constantly

#☢️.txt #i also find it so fucking annoying when people on this site act like the reaction to this stuff came out of nowhere #a lot of the 'adults shouldnt talk to minors' stuff is coming directly from adults who got groomed and minors who recently escaped from #abusive/creepy adults. and yet people just wanna talk about how thats not the norm #and like yeah its not but maybe just maybe you can actually sit with how some of us did not get to have yr postive experience #of intergenerational friendship. and instead left with even more trauma #esp bc MANY of us talking about this are queer disabled people who got stuck in these situations #bc our irl situations were horrific and we had no one to turn to #i dont think its intentional but it gives me the same vibes as when you talk about how yr parents abused you #and ppl with 'normal' childhoods just go wow that sounds awful im so glad that didnt happen to me #or when they try to point out that abuse isnt normal and end up just sounding like theyre bragging

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caruliaa · 11 months

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i hate tht so much of my life has been me begging others to care about me the way theyre supposed to . i hate that instead of wishing i didnt have to i wish that for once theyd say yes

#aggh. tfw when u start talking more w ur parents esp ur mother who have deeply traumatised you in the past #and who you dint know if u can rly forgive even if they did ever apologixd #they r at least currently being rly nice and somewhat supportive #and you really need that rn after the most important person to u ended ur friendship with them #but then u think abt spending more time with them and do spend more time with them and enjoy it #and then u think aby how one day u r gonna give them they im queer accept it or bye #and you know they arent going to based on past reactions so it is def bye #but you realise ur starting to reach a point again where losing them from yr life is gonna be rly painful #and you dont know what to do bc its not that u cant stay in the closet for tht long #bc u can happily but u dont wanna like. come out and face tht regection later when it hurts more bc u got more attached #got just. fewlings r so stupid why do i like. care about anyone. all its ever gotten me is pain and hurt #its only ever made things worse caring sm i just wish i could turn it off #flappy rambles

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synth-spinner · 1 year

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thats fucking awesome actually that your parents like jp spiderman.... personally i think they should reboot the series and make a second takuya to have his own crazy adventures and make the link to original spiderman even more tenuous. it would be sick as hell

YEAAHHHH IT WLD BE SO COOL TO SEE MORE OF HIS COOL ADVENTURES and they should keep the absolute uncontainable whimsy of the original with as much old vfx + practical effects as possible and the power of family forever 💙 honestly love that guy and his wacky adventures and all the fun monsters n silly action scenes YAYYYYY and hes so awesome.. YIPPPIEIIEIEIEE

#ALSO its because my parents lived in japan for a good while and know enough abt japan to appreciate some stuff i wldnt get :3 #esp since its such an old show now so its like seeing old versions of places where they shoot at :3 #i guess theres also nostalgia there mayybe :3 #ANYWAYY i think takuya is so awesome guy so silly and cool but so failboy in a kindness way. you know ^_^#poweer of family :3 #synth speaks

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pepprs · 1 year

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ok two things. #1 i am IMPOSSIBLY exhausted. just took a nap for a couple hours and have been awake for a bit but i feel like ivr been whacked like a punching bag like good god. and #2 is gonna have to make me delete this post later bc i feel weird and bad and paranoid abt saying it lol but. it’s just fucking weird and bad kinda bc im literally 2 years older than / removed from the students who work closest with us rn (who i spent most of today tabling w) and it’s so awkward bc we’re at the same-ish life stages and ik we totally would’ve been friends if we’d gone thru the same programs together as students but they ignore me / don’t and can’t talk to me like we’re friends bc im a staff member and my attempts to talk to them are lame and weird so idk. it’s just a lot and stressful and sobering

#purrs #aldo one of the interns who will be working w us this year just found a living situation that is like… EXACTLY the kind of thing i think i #would want and she was telling me all abt decorating her apartment and getting / buying stuff for her cat and having all this freedom and…#RRAUGHHHH im so proud of her and happy for her bc her situation was rly hard before this and she told me all abt it and it’s exactly what #she needed and deserves but it’s just so WEIRD bc i need the exact same thing and still live w my parents and share a room and can’t drive a #and am literally like… ‘in competiton’ w students im working w for resources and also im about to be a grad student and idk how to act #arojnd undergrads or if i get to / should sympathize with them or like talk abt anything bc im also a staff member and a semi-supervisor of #theirs and i know things they don’t and have power over them and it’s like. aughhhh it’s just bad. i feel really horrible saying this but i #just need time to pass. i need to not be going thru the same life milestones undergrads are going thru. i need to be 3-4 yrs in the future w #where no one ever knew me as a student (a couple of them did just as a senior when they were freshmen etc!). so that it’s not weird anymore #and there are no blurry lines that make us confused abt how to interact w each other or make me feel so fucking bad abt myself lol #<- which i literally shouldn’t like i have no reason to and it’s ridiculous and childish to. but idk. imjust depressed and exhausted i think #delete later #also for the second semester ina row im about to be an instructor of a class with someone i literally… took a class with as a student in the #class 💀💀💀💀💀 like she and i were classmates in spring 2021 and my co-instructors were O UR instructors and nowi am also an instructor. and #its just so fucking bizarre and uncomfortable aughhhhh #i just feel very lonely abt all of it. and im isolating myself again which isn’t helping esp bc the guilt has been gnawing at me hard lately #not to say this but it’s even weird on here. like a lot of you guys are in college rn and… i work for one. and it doesn’t matter but also it #just feels weird and i feel weird abt complaining abt the semester or being like yeah the semester is so hard haha fellow kids. which im not #bc it legitimately is hard for staff too it’s just… a lot. idk. idk how to explain it

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lespuni · 2 years

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The way media functions around cheating is very voyeuristic and the way that people suggest we deal with it (here) is very Christian. Surely nothing bad can ever happen with that mix. Surely that number 1 tag in Tumblr's search page isn't inane

#truly the way we obess over others life is crazy #never can have aw! that sucks and then go back to drinking tea as you play mind sweepers #if there's no special exception it sucks and all but hm maybe examine y you need people to crawl through the saraha backwards under glass #and what this mimics...#its such an insanely personal thing and therefore insignificant to like... serious domestic problems to fret over in sns #but moreso im sighing with how the voyer aspect makes it a no naunce topic esp with the current climate #cheating as an always permanent bad action is going to degrade the minds of so many people #esp lgbt people who already think that for many pre-marriage equality you just suffer in silence with ur parent #or lavender marriage it all away or people biphobia that occurs from cheating fear is completely separate from how we #obess over cheating and how cheating is pemdas for abuse situation and how-#sigh sigh grumble grumble smth' smth' we live in a surveillance conservative nation that loves the internet #*completely separate and def not being fueled

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sunshinesalmon · 20 days

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#vent #okay i love my mother a lot. but Sometimes. sometimes #its just so. like she complains about her mom reminding her to do stuff completely obvious when my mom is almost 60 #and they live in different states #this gets on her nerves every time she talks to my grandma i swear #BUT SHE DOES THE SAME TO ME ALL THE TIME #i’m 23 i’m moving across the state. away from my parents. ive lived alone before #’oh you need to put these papers in your document box’ okay cool sure thing #’oh and you need to take that box with you. you’ll need it’#oh the box with my social security card old paystubs important medical information and passport? that box? i’ll need that box??#that never occurred to me thank you mother #its not even like just reminding me to take it it was like her tone was like ‘dont you dare try to leave it here you have to take it’#like? i never considered leaving it…? its mine????#shes stressed about quite a few things rn esp her parents and brother which always leads her to smothering me for some reason #so i KNOW its not that she like. thinks im stupid or something #but when she gets stressed she turns to my to do list and problems as a way to get away from her own #and then out of nowhere shes bombarding me with stuff i need to do and im like. Girl #fix ur own shit first i got mine

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