#Change Can Be Good

[sweater-daddiesdumbdork]

Big life changing things are happening and I need all the good vibes for these very positive changes to go through.

Things are happening in my little corner of the world. I'm scared, excited and ready to work for them.

[trust-over-love]

Glad I can say I’ve experienced it. Not everything is forever though, people change. Now to love myself & do better for myself & the kids.

I realized I’ll always be in love with you because it was never about looks or what you could give me. I fell in love with your soul so your mistakes never changed the depth of my love for you.

[adjit]

I think we need to get more comfortable with the idea that sometimes shitty, racist, homophobic, bigoted people are still incredibly talented.

I feel like every time I see a post addressing someone’s shitty behavior the post also takes the time to mention that they’re not even good at [x] anyway. And that’s just not always true? Equating being good at a skill as being morally good is just not necessary. Someone can be a fantastic writer, can have a beautiful singing voice, can create breathtaking artwork, and still be a horrible person.

I know part of this is probably just the instinct to dislike everything about a person when you dislike them, but I also think this mindset leads to people defending creatives way past where they should, because if bad people create bad art, then if this person creates art that I like and resonates with me, then they can’t be a bad person!

And you know. That’s just not true. Those two things are simply completely unconnected and I think it’d be healthier if we all started disconnecting them in our heads.

[morningsaidthemoon]

streamer au ??????? video game au ???

[happytakes]

2024.03.11 | Something inspiring to start your day. Remember you're more than your history. You can change your future and you can start now.

[factual-fantasy]

Its finally here! The first look into my Amazing Digital Circus AU that I've been cooking up for the past few weeks! :))

The main thing that is obvious here is a lot of the abstracted members are back. Which is all thanks to Caines efforts in keeping the circus members happy and sane! More on that later I imagine- <XD

Some designs are going to be tweaked a bit further. Gummigoo and Kaufmo aren't quiiiiite where I want them yet.. but none the less! I hope this post made you laugh and I hope to post a bit more about them sometime soon! :))

[shepscapades]

Surely this will have no negative consequences whatsoever!

[autumn-may]

Mostly spoiler free summary of my viewing experience

[egophiliac]

(looks at upcoming card releases)

I'm in danger :)

[cup-o-stars]

Happy B-Day to the Corasante!! ❤🕯🎂🕯❤

(Featuring way too many drawings)

[ratedn]

Welcome to the bisexual club

two prides ago i identified as pansexual

last pride i identified as lesbian

this is my first pride identifying as bisexual!

change, especially in young queers, is good! don’t feel bad for changing how you label yourself, it’s your feelings that matter. you’re never less queer for changing your identity. look on the bright side and see how far you’ve come to fit into the person you are now, and recognize it may change again, which is perfectly fine.

happy pride to everyone!

[visenyaism]

if pointing out that the age of getting a phone decreasing along with the prevalence of short form video as the dominant form of social media content during the most significant collective educational gap in recent history all of which happened during one of the most significant windows of psychological development in a human lifetime has had a deleterious effect on the attention spans, self-regulation, impulse control, social skills, tech literacy, and actual literacy of zoomers and gen alpha. if pointing out that that is a real and serious problem makes me a boomer and an old crank who has fallen for “kids these days” propaganda someone find me a porch and a rocking chair so i can yell at you to get off my lawn

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

going through my old journals as part of therapy homework and i'm reading a section written in the emotional wreckage of a full-on breakdown when i get hit with this line:

There is never a satisfying answer to ‘Why didn’t they love me?’

like wow babe. good fucking point

[ask-the-rag-dolly]

anyways good episode

[stuckinapril]

don't stress about that opportunity that fell through or that friend you lost or that thing you really want to happen but isn't. as long as you keep your chin up and try try try again, better things will replace your losses. i'm looking at my life rn and actually marveling at how every single thing i stressed about, whether it be an opportunity or a person, got supplanted w another thing that is so much better. it really is true that loss makes space for better things. these days i don't get sad when something doesn't work out. i get excited that i'm now open to so many other possibilities out there, so long as i actively seek them. you never lack. you just transition.

[astrmastr]

based on a dream i had some nights ago

it was a pretty fun experience this was me after