#Blame my dad not me
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Me: *Has a schizophrenic parent, and currently diagnosed bipolar, and has been smoking weed for years*
Me: hehe ^_^
Me: *experiences symptoms of schizophrenia*
Me: :o!!
#me rn#im in my early 20s so#I reckon symptoms will get worse#blehh :3#still gonna smoke anyways#that’s a problem for future me#tbh#schizophrenia#tw schizophrenia#Blame my dad not me#not the weed either…#experiencing symptoms!!#tw mental health#actually bipolar#bipolar tag#sooo yeah#mental health#mental health memes#is this relatable
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wondered when exactly Damian started casually chatting with his hallucinations of Alfred in Robin (2021)
figured isolating himself in a dark tower carrying pictures of Alfred and the weight of his death would do the trick! (Detective Comics (2016) #1032)
#damian wayne#alfred pennyworth#batbabyart#'not-great-dad Bruce' rant ahead but. Bruce aware of Damian's guilt and allowing it to fester for so long still boggles my mind lol#there's a couple headscratchers i can think of but the worst instance had to be the Pennyworth RIP comic#Damian confessing his regret and leaving in tears while Bruce SAT there going 'he knows there's no blame :l'#when Jason already loudly blamed Damian lol!! and Bruce silently blamed Damian too!!#(ofc lots of internalized hurt and blame with grief but still)#ANYWAY the Alfred and Damian photos from that tec issue were so cute so this was partially an excuse to redraw them haha#this used to be Damian's og outfit+vest combo but it looked too silly to me sdgf
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me getting into slipknot: woah these guys are so crazy, i really like their drummer. hope that doesn't affect anything deep within me.
me 10 months later with red and black hair and a transed gender: fuck.
#slipknot#murderdolls#joey jordison#1#i blame my dad#he just HAD to tell me joey was also in murderdolls and just HAD to give me cd's#posting from beyond the grave
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Me : -holding back tears-
My fam: what’s wrong
Me: the croissant… it looks so sad
Them:
Me: -crying-
The croissant:
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Look I know Lucifer isn't the best dad ever but I feel like people who say he's a bad dad are purposely ignoring the context of the show. It is very much implied that he thought Charlie wanted nothing to do with him, and Charlie thought he wanted nothing to do with her. Lucifer’s still dealing with trauma from Heaven and his fall and probably will for the rest of time plus he's dealing with what would probably qualify as clinical depression, and simultaneously dealing with trauma, clinical depression, and autistic traits (which Lucifer absolutely has; I do not say, as an autistic person, that Lucifer is a massive autistic mood for no reason) is a fucking NIGHTMARE.
I'm not saying Lucifer shouldn't take responsibility. He should. But he's already doing better than my dad frankly. Lucifer hits me in the daddy issues, I wish my dad made an effort to be more active in my life. Lucifer is fucking trying, and that's better than a lot of people can say about their dads.
#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel lucifer#like i said hes definitely not the best dad but hes also not the worst. hes trying#thats both better than he was doing and better than a lot of people get#(i do think stolas is a better dad but his and lucifers circumstances are also completely different)#if lucifer hadnt bothered helping charlie then yeah id say hes a bad dad#but he put his instinct to avoid the thing that gave him trauma (heaven) at all costs aside for charlie#he was able to acknowledge that yes hes been a shit dad and could be doing better#he made an active effort TO DO BETTER#he actively made a change about himself for the sake of being there for charlie and that alone is better than most people can do#he wasnt a bad dad on purpose. he thought charlie didnt want to see him and acted accordingly which made his mental health problems worse#and his mental health problems being worse made it harder for him to function let alone be charlies dad#again im not saying he shouldnt take accountability just that people dont acknowledge why he was absent for so long#(me being me i blame lilith for making lucifer think charlie didnt want to see him and making charlie think lucifer didnt want to see her)#maybe this is littered with bad takes and my perspective is clouded by daddy issues. idk lol
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“Yes,” says Edwin. “As inconvenient as the biannual reinterments are, one has to admire his commitment to remaining on this plane of existence until the Rapture.”
“We knock him down, but he gets back up again,” says Charles. With a grunt of effort, pulls the heavy, metal-bladed spade out of Edwin’s cast-iron umbrella stand. He swings it up and over his shoulder and trudges off to the Lady Defoliana Paraquat memorial garden, whistling Tubthumping as he goes.
This fic has enchanted me body and soul so I'm doing some scribbles for it 🥰💛
#dead boy detectives#dbda#payneland#charles rowland#edwin payne#fic rec#my art#maybe at some point i will even *gasp* draw some things from it that aren't just charles and edwin#but can you blame me i mean. lookit them.#anyway READ THIS#am hoping to do at least a scribble or two for each chapter!#ALSO fun fact: my dad saw me drawing the first one and called my spade a 'confusing inaccurate hybrid of a french and english shovel'#so apologies to any other shovel aficionados out there
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forget the fact that alastor looked lucifer in the eye and said fuck you, HE LITERALLY THREW A PIANO ON TOP OF HIM, he THREW a PIANO to the king of hell himself
#hazbin hotel#alastor#hazbin hotel alastor#hazbin hotel episode 5#hells greatest dad#hells great dad#hazbin hotel lucifer#lucifer#like dude he can kill you if he wanted to#have some respect dude#please#this is hilarious#i need to see more of them fighting 😭#i just noticed this#idk if anyone has done this yet#but i cackled for like 20 minutes#yes i was going frame by frame#this is my fav song from the show#can you blame me?
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it's funny how u can do/like something as a kid and then 15 years later ur family will still think of you like that
#my dad still claims i have a huge sweet tooth and gets shocked when i turn down sweets#i *do* like sweets but i have to be in the mood and it depends on the sweet#if ur offering me cake im less likely to take it cause i dont really like cake and i say this whenever cake is brought up in conversation 😭#moms side of the family called me tenderheaded for the longest time and my grandpa probably still would#i still wont take thw blame for that one i firmly believe everyone was just really rough on my baby head#kae.txt
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feel this in my bones ….
#watching the piano teacher and when walter klemmer played schoenberg’s piece in the audition#i was like fuck is that a schoenberg piano piece omg *feral noises*#(very sorry that i turn out like this pls blame my dad who raised me on exclusively classical music and 80s rock cds)#random rambles about music#twitter
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what if sister imperator had arrived to papa nihil’s show earlier. what if he saw her in the crowd during moac and was just smiling up at her like a fucking idiot because he loves his girlfriend sooooooo much. what if imperator had the chance to tell nihil about the pregnancy and he kissed her face one million times. what if nihil was so excited to have an ugly baby with sister and have a little family with someone he genuinely loves more than the world itself. what if nihil couldn’t keep his hands off her bump and presses his face against her belly to talk to baby copia in there about how he can’t wait to meet him. what if nihil was holding baby copia and crying because he looks so much like the love of his life. what if nihil was the one that sang baby copia lullabies when he was restless. what if nihil was the parent that copia clung to at all times and toddled after him all over the ministry while him and sister are supposed to be working. what if nihil always joined tiny copia during his naps because he didn’t want him to feel alone. what if nihil was the one to took him out to the theaters to watch all the nerdy action movies that sister doesn’t like. what if they had the little family they were meant to have…………
#UGH. they should’ve had their happy ending#makes me sick 2 my stomach#the napping thing is 100% just an excuse for nihil to nap but i didn’t want to ruin the sweet thing i had going AKXBSKCHKDHF#nihil being a dad to copia makes me so sad because mr alan WANTS nihil to be a dad#it’s not nihil’s fault he didn’t even know#that’s his little c too :-((#anyone that starts blaming sister for this will be stomped to death. this is an official warning just in case#ghost#sister imperator#papa nihil#papa iv#ramblings
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Au where Sophie get fostered by Tiergan instead of Grady and edaline
#OK OK HEAR ME OUTTTT#Imagine Sophie being super nervous cuz#you know#wylie blaming her for his dads mind breaking and stuff#so like hear me out…#enimes to siblings ✨✨✨✨#we get more Wylie#because my boy deserves the page time#AND#MORE TIERGAN AND SOPHIE#I MISS THEMMM#HE WAS SO SOFT WITH HER ☹️☹️☹️#I like to think that wylies anger grows a bit more in th second book#but at the end hen he finds out there’s hope#for his dad#he starts to think he been bit of an a hole#and they start becoming better friends#then siblings ✨✨✨#WHICH ALSO MEANS TAM AND LINH#WOULD LIVE WITH THEM#SOPHE GETS MORE SIBLINGS 🗣️🗣️🗣️#keeper of the lost cities#sophie foster#tiergan alenefar#wylie endal#kotlc fandom#kotlc#kotlc au#kotlc thoughts
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This idea has been clawing away at my brain. I was shuffling ideas around in my brain and trying to figure out what request called to me more when the thought of Daryl trying to teach his kid how to do kid things hit me in the face with the force of a runaway train. Like, just imagine him finding a bicycle while on a run and bringing it back for his kid and trying to teach them how to ride it. Maybe he takes you and his kid out for a day to a lake (that he's made sure is safe and has traps to alert him of walkers) and he tries to teach his kid how to swim. Maybe he teaches his kid how to build a fort with the blankets and pillows in your shared home. Maybe (most definitely) he takes the kid to catch bugs and keep them in little jars with holes on the top for breathing. Basically doing everything with them that his father never did, and while he's having fun with his kid, he's subconsciously allowing his inner child to heal as well.
Might write this if enough people want to see something like this. However, this idea is free of use. You wanna write it, go ahead!
#i blame the new chapter of blood ties by murda for my dad!daryl brainrot#that series has made me fall in love with Daryl as a dad way more than before#but anyways#krys rambles ★
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Do you guys know about jenny. She's from thebes. Do you know about her.
#listen I'm mentally ill and i hate my dad#can you blame me for these posts#the mountain goats#jenny from thebes
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on fathers, homes, loyalties, and defectors
The Raven Boys ch 7 // Dream Thieves ch 5 // The Raven Boys ch 36 // Dream Thieves ch 5
#pynch#decladam#adamedit#ronanedit#declanedit#trcedit#Pynch#Decladam#Adam Parrish#Ronan Lynch#Declan Lynch#TRC#okay so this one is more obscure lkajfdhglkaj i might be reaching but HEAR ME OUT#the Pynch connection is obvious#being exiled from your home#no matter how terrible an environment it was Adam still finds himself longing throughout TRB and into DT to go HOME#even though it was awful and even though he chose (in the end) to leave it was still his home#that's a yearning that he and Ronan share#but i was also very struck by the forgiveness bit#before my reread i'd forgotten that Ronan says in their parking lot brawl that he will never forgive Declan#nobody specifies at that time what Declan DID but we get it later in DT ^^ he didn't fight the will#Ronan blames him for their exile - for the fact that they can't go home#and he blames Declan for hating dad#for turning his back on their father and making accusations against him#for betraying the family#the same thing that Adam knows his mother will never forgive him for now#am i making sense here????#quote posts
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"Him? Oh, you know, he's kind of a loser." - probably everyone except for his younger brother.
Germaine is based on the layer of hell (Dante's Inferno) for material wealth before self, others, and god. So basically very materialistic and possessive of his belongings. Unfortunately, his younger brother qualifies as a belonging in his mind. So he does his absolute best to keep his brother safe and sound and scratch free - which is a bit tough in a post apocalyptic setting but he mostly manages.
Also a fact I just like to mention: he is incapable of lying.
#my characters#germaine wellington#welp guess who watched an anime recently (its not complete) and the dad of the mc made em think of a loserman big brother oc#its me! correct! the dad just reminded me a bit of germaine and i blame appearances mostly but also the dad was kind of a loser (i love him#and germaine does practically raise tremaine which further messes up their absolutely awful codependency#like yeah both brothers would kill for many reasons (survival and resources mainly) but !#if tremaine lost germaine hed probably cry and become incapable of moving on and eventually just dying w no reason to live#but if germaine lost tremaine hed go insane cause no no no thats HIS brother and hed start blaming everyone#and lose all rationale and logic while hes actually one of the most logic based in the group#hes a loser but dont let him lose things or he loses it more#but when hes really mad at tremaine for whatever reason his best friend is like uh huh what are you gonna do about it#and germaine is like........... we both know i will sigh and accept it and probably pat him on the head next i see him#which is incredibly honest and exactly what he does because yeah hes mad but even mad he cannot say#im gonna slap some sense into him because thats a lie he wouldn't hurt his brother#everyone in their group knows he cant lie so when he gets hesitant after being asked something they just know#hes trying to plot the best way to skirt the answer bc its apparently Not Good#he looks angry and annoyed often but its just resting bitch face#he lights up when he sees tremaine and he lightens up a little with his best friend#like lil smiles for his bestie and brother but when talking ABOUT his brother? he lights up and beams because hes so proud#of the coolest and smartest thing in his life (his brother)
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Kind of have a special request for help this time because it isn't for me it's for my sister. She just had surgery yesterday and was supposed to stay with our dad while she was in recovery for two weeks because where she currently lives doesn't have adequate access to a bathroom close by, but he cancelled on her last minute because he assumed they were already moved into a new place.
They have a place they can apply to move into, but they won't have the money for the application fee until next Friday. They need $40 just for the fee and we can't help because we have less than $20 and won't have anything more until next Thursday.
(technically myself and my husband also could use some help getting food and drinks but I'm more worried about my sister having a safe place to recover from invasive surgery)
Anyway, once again, reblogs are appreciated and I'll do emergency commissions in exchange.
PayPal is [email protected] if you can help!
#personal#emergency commissions#shit like this is why im no contact with my dad because he constantly makes promises and then goes back on his word at the last minute#refuses to hold himself accountable for any mistakes and just#pushes the blame for everything onto other people all the time#i think the real kicker is thst me and my siblings are adopted#him and my mom had to Choose Us#after my mom passed he made it very clear that he never actually wanted kids#and only agreed to it to make my mom happy#but he hadnt wanted us so its rly no surprise he does shit like this all the time#anyway fuck my dad but if yall can help me help my sister thatd be great
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