#Atlanta dating

[guavagyal]

one thing I miss about dating is looking up a person's birth chart and seeing the ways we are compatible.

[msterpicasso]

@mmmmaigal

[mytransdate]

I will seduce you with food if not my beauty

Hey there ! I moved to the A-town a few years ago after growing up in the western suburbs. I've ben working as a cook in a downtown restaurant and I live the hustle and bustle life style of working late and going out with friends. That said, it's been hard dating as a transwoman. Well serious dating that is. I am looking for a soul mate. We'll see what happens. LMK if I caught your attention and maybe made you hungry to learn more about me.

Send a message to Cindy

[thatlibraa]

Date night with my girly @merakiroseco ✨🖤

[alexiacharlotte355]

[noahschnappinfs]

hoping that noah and other cast members attend charli xcx and troye sivans sweat tour in Atlanta which is on his birthday 🤞🤞

(actually i saw someone say this in another blog but I wanted to say it here as well)

…was this a sign after all? brat summer for noah isn’t over

[chromaji]

just learned fumbling is not alain's part-time job. it's actually a 9-5 that he's devoted to

[gaywatch]

So, Brittany... Are you planning on attending Taemin's concert when he comes to the US next year? 👀👀👀

He's not coming anywhere near me 😭😭😭

[tamsavage]

Thought Dump - 10/24/24 -The Tell All Edition

So look ... I don't have a therapist yet and I have just been thugging it out. I have been a little more quiet than usual, but my mind is going a mile a minute. I have to dump this mess on you guys and hopefully you all won't run away from me.

I believe that I am going thru a depressive cycle right now. I only noticed that it may be an issue when I saw my clothes from my AUGUST trip to the Dominican Republic were not put away. They are clean and folded but just sitting in the chair in my corner. So weekend goal is to put up my shit.

I am starting to think that the men I like do NOT like me. Now don't get me wrong, these men LOVE me but they don't necessarily like me. I always discuss how LIKE and LOVE are two different things. And for me one is more important than the other.

Too piggyback that notion, love is an action word in my world.

My Dad came to visit and I learned so much about him. my family and why I have been trying to date men like him for all my life. The damn psychology people really know their shit.

My feelings aren't hurt, I am just disappointed. I am tired of saying that about my experiences.

When you really begin to work on yourself, there are just some things that are no longer worthy of your time. Also it makes your phone bone dry. People sometimes do not like the new you.

I had to admit to myself that I want a thoughtful and caring person as a partner. I am a hopeless romantic and I need a bit of romance in my relationships. I have been functioning like a fuck boy for so long that it is my default. But that never ever gets me the things that I want.

Last thing that I want to say is that, I want what I want. I have always felt like I never get what I want. But I am not going to stop until I get what I want.

That was a lot this week. I hope you all enjoy.

[cinematicnomad]

Hellooo love your blog

Do you have any great date stories?

that is a really good question! do i have any great date stories?? i don't know, to be honest. a lot are very standard: coffee dates, meeting up at a bar, going to the movies, etc. here are just some random Non-Standard dates that have popped up from my memory:

an ex used to go out of his way to take me to the bookstore whenever we were together. the last time i visited him in atlanta he made it a big surprise and didn't tell me where we were going until we were there, and then he let me ramble at him about whatever book grabbed my interest and bought whatever i picked.

i went on a date with a girl where i went over to her house to watch an episode of the last of us live. it was v awkward but v nerdy and sweet.

my first official date with my high school boyfriend was to the IAEA ball at the hofburg palace where his sister was a literal debutante and he wore a tux and i had on a floor length strapless red gown. we got drunk off tequila sunrises and mojitos and danced the viennese waltz in the big hall and i went home with him and his family at 4AM and snuck into his room to hook up after we'd all gone to bed.

i went to the wonder exhibit at the renwick gallery with a guy from tinder once as a second date. it was a GORGEOUS exhibit and then we wandered around DC for the rest of the day, stopping in at kramers bookstore and the national portrait gallery and ending up in adams morgan.

and not fun, but this past fall i got coffee with a guy from hinge and then my wallet was stolen! and i'm pretty sure he was involved lol so i put a pause on dating after that 😅

✨sleepover friday✨

[guavagyal]

I hate the superficiality of dating in Atlanta, and Georgia in general. it's like if you aren't looking like you belong on Love & Basketball/Hip Hop, people just assume

you're only good for sex

you don't deserve a cute, well thought out date

you don't deserve a deep, romantic, long-term relationship

you don't deserve to get gifts from them, not even on your birthday

you don't deserve to be taken on cute trips

you don't deserve to meet their family & friends

sometimes I wish characters in books or video games were real and I could date them. I know it sounds lame, but I can't vibe with the people in my area. they all suck and only want me for sex and to boost their ego.

[msterpicasso]

@1elyse

[betterstllbemywindingwheel]

Putting this is tags / think there must be about three people who are still here that was told this. This was told to my face in the Oct and it happened in Nov

[mytransdate]

Melissa's a tarnsfem living north of ATL who's got beauty and the brains

Don't want to boast, but I am both pretty and smart and so I have high hopes for my future. That same future involves a prince charming. For now, I am living in Sandy Springs, Georgia, about 20 minutes from Atlanta. I won't lie, I am pretty demanding and have high standards. Think you have what I want and need ? Come chat !

send a message to Melissa

[maiteo]