#Asian people problems
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so... i did the mukbang thing..and i got some major hate. which is a given..I made the food and left it out like it was for someone and then it was gone...i know hwat it looks like no eating disorder just fucking annoying having food around and being a food snob hoggy and then lying about..because" I SAW YOU MAKING IT AND NOW ITS GONE YOU DIDNT EVEN SHARE WIHT ANYONE.."
ITS MY WORST HABIT not to share food...
all night it was about trust..i wasnt going to fucking touch...then it hit me like a fucking bomb...then it happened...now i know why she hates me so much// now im home alone..zero privileges..still broke and in some deep ass drama over fried rice..which all is the problem i blame myself because.... you know i commited to it like it was my job..nothing else to do..without one and just time wasting to free load...and not understanding the price and cost of cooking..setting off fire alarms and people..with no consideration for the impression left by these kinds of antics. i am deeply sadden and upset with myself for doing these things and not having any type of remorse after having been a part of the problem ive created for myself.
I really do hate watch..or hate watching them...because i have nothing better to do than be jealous of random strangers eating and showing off dumb things on the internet..(use with caution was very apparent..atleast to me) I really am sorry I cant fix the situation. And I know that I will have to be responsible for what ive done to create some type of resolution...i hate mukbangs...not every time you eat is called mukbang...i know it was mai who started it because of ronnie dropping off uber eats to the other old 509 apartment and then bringing it up after dinner and ruining her night with her friends..and now everything is mukbangs or sugar rush all over snapshat and tiktok...and i am getting disowned..and stealing internet. all in all very sad to hear..i am a complete fail. Sweetwater was never ment for me..it wasnt suppose to be..thats where the idea of no free amenities started... and i ended out of luck with a stupid mukbang. Asian people problems and i am all out of things so say to my daughter because of how she has been acting over all of this with everythings that has happened.
just dont ever do tik tok trends again its not viral..its just showing off. i get the hate now...its pretty serious to me now...and my mom is expecting something good...or atleast not this...but dad knows what he's dealing with and thats how its going to be from now on.. so say goodbye to the desktop AGAIN.. i got upset and didnt use my time here at sweetwater wisely and i have a debit to owe.
"cant sweet talk youre self out of this one"
I cant already see my friends faces..wow you did a lame trend.."WTF YOU KNOW THATS A BAD IDEA...remember bdub?!" you left the house at like 6 o clock and came home at like 12:30..trru not cool..irresponsible. "dumb fat joke?" "healthy food my ass bitch ate the whole thing..dont let your childern around ANY of it..theres nothing left..regardless of the money..WHERES MY DAMN MEAL?"
no matter how much i tell..or warn you..you act like a spoiled brat. THEY are working and they get paid for this watching children, helping around the job site..they get a lunch..you need to stop and think before you get yourself into a teary eyed mess again because this time i will not be apart of the arguments nor will i have anything to say to you. I will just let your father know how he will have to go about these situations and he will have to be the one to deal with them. Because i can not nor will i any longer..
"i dont have to pay for it..it was cooked and made by someone and left out...have some respect and allow someone else a turn"
"its not even the kitchen..or cooking its why it doesnt stop being talked about..if its constantly around and always going to be there..you should probably wise up"
"the cooking is fine..there is just no manners. People dont die from starvation they die from things like this. Diabetes" "and I dont enjoy fatten foods its distasteful" "No one should be told they cant when someone else does something so child like...no one is going to take care of you when you have to know what you are getting yourself into basically..like dont chicken out..cause thats how serious food fights can get...and trust me its not every one who gets caught just you..cause your lame." and makeup is dumb your like twelve why are you even cooking in the kitchen..who are you tryin to impress..im pretty sure you dont even know what you are committing to..and you have no idea how to fix if it goes wrong end up burning shit.. because thats the dumb kind of stuff that happens when you mess with dangerous things like ovens and stovetop and cooking.
"its money." "i would rather get money then someone buy her food..it just adds to the stress that this whole ordeal has cause...the constant harssing of missed and unanswered calls because of something your irresponsible children have done, its no misunderstanding..i understand very well..I know there is no one there to see everything going on constantly but there are multiple accounts of the same fighting, shouting, and damages being done..so I am very cautious and aware that these thing are not stopping after being spoken to openly.
easy to tell someone to shut the fuck up..but hard to take irresponsibility to something you did that no one knew about..but it was a poor choice.
funny to think..people think over night you learn how to make things right..fixing everything making people happy..it take age...and time..and experience honestly. it doesnt happen right away but it will happen and you will learn from it and "grow" you just arent that old enough yet to know whats wrong with what you are doing.
and thats why I will always be mad at this kind of dumb crap these kids get into...
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poc athlete supporting each other this olympics we love to see it
#this has been a great day to be southeast asian#and no i’m not going to shut up about it#you know what maybe yt people are the problem#olympics#olympics 2024#paris 2024#imane khelif#janjaem suwannapheng#boxing
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❝This is your only chance, Ai'Mook.❞
CHANYA AMARIT as VIVI and AYA ORAPAN as KAIMOOK episode 8 of LOVE SEA
#chanya amarit#aya orapan#love sea#love sea the series#vimook#vivi x mook#thai bl#wlw#loveseaedit#asianlgbtqdramas#th: love sea#girls love#thai gl#asian gl#bibi gifs#i have three versions of this same take#i used lossy for the first time in one of these#and also listen i see people are not pleased about the development of vimook tbh kind of wish their problems were resolved sooner#HOWEVER#this is by not even 20% as toxic as most bls couples#and people love a toxic bl pairing but suddenly bc it's two women some people can't handle that#mook deserves better? she does#i want vi to talk her feelings out? YES and she probably will if my hunch is right#but wanting a sunshine and rainbows couple just bc they are wlw is boring i want the yearning and the suffering it's what makes it fun#it's the best part actually
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I feel like I should say since there's been a recent uptick in a lot of communities I'm in/see stuff from a lot of white people pretending to be Asian, but you are not welcome here if you are in anyway stealing from Asian cultures for clout or the aesthetics of it
This includes if you're white and you give your self inserts Asian names, I truly do not care if your f/o is from an anime, you should not be using an Asian name under any circumstances. I hate that whenever I see someone using an Asian name online, I feel like I have to start searching their account to see if they're actually Asian or just a white person who likes the aesthetic of it bcs far too many white people will use Asian names here just bcs it sounds cool, with no regard for the actual cultural meaning behind it. Meanwhile actual Asian people will be mocked for their names, or treated like their names are too hard to learn to pronounce, or discriminated against based on their names
Asian cultures are not a fun little costume for people to dress up with. They aren't just a nice aesthetic, they aren't just a thing you can borrow from bcs you think it sounds cool
#my posts#selfship community#anti asian racism#like it's definitely a perpetual problem of white people not seeming to realize asian names are like#a thing that are tied to culture and identity#but it's gotten crazy lately with people pretending to be asian online for clout#just in the past like 3 weeks of things i've seen#we had the white woman pretending to be a japanese woman on comic twitter#the white woman who pretended to be korean to get a 'ownvoices' book published#(who btw. named herself kim chi. you cannot make this shit up)#and then the white guy pretending to be japanese to try to justify his hate of the new assassin's creed game using stuff around yasuke#like it's so draining. i hate how much this is a never ending problem#i hate how casually white people will use asian names#like worstie. i am a korean woman. but i am whitepassing and mixed so i never use korean names for my self inserts#bcs i have the privilege of looking white and people generally only knowing i'm asian if i say it#it feels inappropriate to me for me to name my self inserts a korean name#bcs that would then mean they experience the world in a different way than i do#even being whitepassing bcs of the way people treat korean (and other asian) names#if you are white you have no fucking right to asian names#idgaf if your f/o's an anime character. stay away from asian names bcs they are not yours to dress up in#vent a little bit sorry team#i've been dealing with white people doing this shit and being assholes to me about it for well over a year now. it's exhausting
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on my hands and knees begging keepblr to put more thought into tam's clothing than just. things you would see a kpop idol wear. like every moodboard i see of him has the shirts with the first button undone and the multiple silver rings on each hand and i just. c'mon.
i would get it if i saw it applied more to other characters who canonically wear a lot of rings (sophie/fitz with the cognate rings + panic switches), probably accessorize a lot based on their character (biana), or might like something to fidget with (dex). but to see it with just tam, who is one of the few characters who hasn't been mentioned to wear rings in canon, makes it feel like those ideas came from...somewhere else.
#(that somewhere else being stereotypes)#i know sophie describes them as “like kpop idols” canonically but i think sophie just doesn't know what asian people look like 😭#i promise you there are asian men who don't dress like kpop idols 😭#but like the fact that i mentioned this to other asian people in keepblr and they knew EXACTLY what i was talking about#tells me that this is a widespread problem which is why i'm mentioning it#tam song#keepblr#kotlc discourse#mine
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Just realized that my dad could've been a real green flag with his golden retriever energy had he not been raised to be toxic by a bunch of pathetic humans in the name of 'parents'
#desi teen#desi dark academia#desi tumblr#being desi#desi tag#desi#desi things#desi academia#desi girl#growing up desi#desiness#desi humor#india#indian#desi problems#desi people#desi post#desi parents#toxic parents#brown parents#parents#asian parents#desi family
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can i make a post about being irritated by antimaskers as a disabled person without annoying people trying to condescendingly explain accommodations for my disability to me! btw!
#like how poor is your reading comprehension that you don't understand that what i'm mad about is antimaskers' BAD FAITH invocation of#a disability that i have#like with these customer freaks i am making good faith attempts to accommodate them and they are rejecting those attempts and#refusing to work with me to identify and enact an accommodation#and instead just double down and harangue me for wearing a mask and keep insisting i take it off#which like. does not make me feel like these are good faith attempts to request accommodation#and are more likely antimasker customers trying to badger me into compromising my safety with like#a weaponized invocation of disability that if i'm being honest feels very flippant about the actual difficult lived reality of disabilty#so to be honest it feels VERY annoying to be condescended to by people on here lack reading comprehension and think that i#simply do not know enough about accommodations!#also to the person who brought up sign language in the replies it's actually a know language education and rights problem that#many Deaf/HOH don't know ASL or their contextual sign language and may not have access to opportunities to learn/practice/use it#so tbh i'm sure that person meant well but it did make me feel the exact same strangled rage#as when white people speak a bit of mandarin are like 'oh teehee i guess that makes me a better asian than you' like fuck OFF#at least no one has pulled a full how dare you say we piss on the poor yet but can people actually read things somewhat or at all#and not try to tumblrsplain hearing disabilities to me!!!!!!!#i'm soooooooo irate when i should be having pizza movie night with my beautiful girlfriend i think i'm gonna turn off reblogs on that post#the horrible temptation to reply really rudely then block#personal nonsense#eta: also to be clear the sign language issue is that even if i hadn't studied asl (i have)#it wouldn't actually be a silver bullet for communicating with people who rely on lip reading#so like......that just comes off very ignorant to act like i'm too stupid to think of that#or like it's a simple solution that people with hearing disabilities are just forgetting about
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i feel like amaurotine society's conformity is something that often gets overlooked in the english-speaking fanbase. not just in the way people bend canon for the sake of their azems, but i mean that it seems, at least for an american audience, that the ancient way of life is so odd and unlike what we're used to that it seems almost alien. unfortunately i'm also east asian so i can assure you that amaurot is real and is located in seoul, south korea. hell on earth.
#xivposting#part of hermes's agonies comes from a very east asian idea of conformity#and when you have Problems and are not cishet..#honestly im struggling to even come up with a coherent angle for this particular thought bc im kind of overwhelmed by Every Angle#obviously this is a japanese game written by japanese people so theyre probably speaking on japanese society#but when i tell you korea is far worse about conformity#everyone in seoul dresses in exactly the same style and i am not joking
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astrid leong aesthetic.
#astrid leong#crazy rich asians#china rich girlfriend#rich people problems#the young family#rich aesthetic#old money#old money aesthetic#aesthetic layouts#aesthetic#it girl#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#girlblogging#girlblogger#femcel#old money girl#iconic#sofia richie#rich girl#aesthetic girl#slay girlboss#lana del ray aesthetic#material girl#materialistic#money aesthetic#rich girl lifestyle#it gal#love#strong female characters
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Anime-onlys being mad at character(s) because they've got limited info about said character(s) and the character(s) did something wrong to another character or simply not being in the same wavelength with the characters they like more onscreen :
Manga readers who have read the manga many times for years before the anime release, have had discussions and lots of analysis, have had more contents about the characters and now can read nuances behind the characters actions :
I'm gonna kill you 😠
#they want all watchers to have the same opinions or put themselves in the characters shoes but they refuse to see where the watchers opinion#..s are coming from why they have those opinions in the first place#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#dunmeshi#toshiro nakamoto#shuro#kabru dungeon meshi#btw if shuro was a girl people would've hated him more actually#ryoko kui#the way shuro acts anyone would've taken their indifference to eh they don't mind#because he never voiced his feelings yh there's such a thing as tact but there's also a thing called speak up#if your culture is making you shut up and not voice your opinion than maybe that's the problem why do i gotta be all#i was raised wrong i shoulda seen that you were asian and uncomfortable bruh bRUH#also idk about others but with kabru we don't see his motivations until ep21#before that he only came off as someone with fascination for the touden siblings#and I don't hate either of them i don't think they're ALL WRONG but to say that they did nothing wrong to invoke audience neg reviews#is a little much
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Tell me if I’m being dramatic but I feel like trans Headcanons in fandom hardly revolve around anyone except young, skinny white people. It feels like a large reflection of how western trans communities view trans people who aren’t exactly like them; as nonexistent.
#I might be crazy or I might be exaggerating#but MAN.#for example I’m trans and Chinese and if I had a nickel#for every time I see someone say ‘why don’t eastern countries have a transgender problem’#I’d have a bucketful of them#you’ve suppressed us so far people have to ask why we don’t exist#so far that zionists are using your lack of knowledge and focus on white queers#against Palestinians! because hey shocker there are trans people everywhere!#in Arab countries! in Asian countries! in African countries!#it doesn’t matter if our government doesn’t like it. we will grow in the harshest conditions#we will thrive whether you see us or not#quotidianish
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i think its funny when people point out whitewashing for art of daisuke or draw him like super tan when this is what he looks like in game and That is what ryosuke looks like… like hes hardly even that tan he’s literally my skin colour. we’ve lost the plot so bad
#mouthwashing#daisuke mouthwashing#why do people act like skin shade is proportional to racial representation#this doesnt apply to white people so why should it apply to east asians#where a good amount of them are fair skinned???#now when people start drawing him as a white ginger straight up That’s a problem#but personally ive hardly seen that either#and if someone did i dont think ppl should make a huge deal out of it#its like if one artist is a bit racist the WHOLE fandom needs to know about it like bitch i dont care i dont wanna see it#yall are far too sensitive fr relax a little
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Genuinely such a fucking trip to hear my father parroting white genocide bullshit. Oughhh the white people are disappearing from these places oh noooOooO I “wonder why”... Disrespectfully what do you think you achieved by marrying a Japanese woman from Japan and having three entire half Japanese, Not White children with extremely obviously Not White names that you agreed to give them? Do you think that perhaps, maybe, this is what is happening to make white people ~mysteriously disappear~ ? Genuinely what the hell are you on. Look any of your three children in the face and tell us any of us looks convincingly white. No one can even tell I’m mixed race at all do you think anyone would be counting me as part of the white population when conducting the census to find where the white people have disappeared to. Do you need the white people to carve a mysterious message on a tree detailing where they’ve gone that you can also ignore so you can keep puzzling over this mystery
#AAAAAAAAUGHH#MOTHERFUCKER!!#Con stop yapping#my white traits are that I am slightly paler than many of my full East Asian peers and that I have stupid fine hair#historically we have continued to have incidents when people (in japan) will suddenly find out I’m not full Japanese and this is some kind#of a problem bc they couldn’t tell or whatever#buddy.
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"european trans women on this site talking about their petty little problems with "transmisogynists" like. fucking excuse me???? im a TRANS MAN living in AMERICA do you even give a shit about the shit thats happening over here??? you are NOT allowed to voice ANY of your lived experiences if i decide that they make ME look bad!!! this is INFIGHTING! this is MISANDRY!! now is NOT the time for you fucking evil tra- uh.,, trans radfems, to be WHINING about how we 'oppress you'. we don't. now shut up and let the MEN talk."
-actual post i saw on my tl just now (obviously paraphrased with key subtext lol)
#in case anyone was curious i will outline the issues in order:#1. the condescending mansplain scold-y tone. very prominent among misogynists cis and otherwise#2. announcing youre american at every given opportunity (used here for pity points). like. okayyyyyy#2.5. implying the state of the US wrt anti-trans rhetoric and legislation alike arent primarily targeting transfeminine ppl#and that trans men are effectively caught in the crossfire with legislation and otherwise are not NEARLY as socially affected#3. passive aggressively pretending as if the utter state of the US doesnt have ramifications on all other countries :/#3.5. effectively ignoring or undermining any non-US folks that may be affected by anti-trans political rhetoric (youre not us so who care)#4. asking for trans women to stop talking about genuine problems and grievances for the sake of “trans unity”#aka the “i dont want to think about your problems and i dont want you to make them my problem either” response#sounds like unity to me :)#5. “infighting” is basically a dogwhistle at this point; it deliberately muddies the waters. it makes it harder to talk about like#yknow. the actual infighting?#like i saw a reasonably popular artist get mistreated by some transmed prick earlier.#but its only “infighting” when women do it. otherwise everyones all “oh i cant believe theyd say something like this to you"#i can. ive been mistreated by scumlord transmeds from day one and the majority of them were guys#fucking hate that it happened to you of course but yeah no shit a lot of guys are assholes.#6. just call me a fucking slur if youre going to. it makes it easier for the both of us wrt determining tone#bonus: (less serious but still funny to point out) the way usamericans refer to anyone non-american and non-asian as “european”#we have countries actually. its not just some writhing coalescing amalgam of 'states'. YOURE the odd one out lol#again its not serious#its just like. im welsh. and welsh roma at that.#im not european in the same way that like a dutch or a german person is#half of europe hate my people for existing and then usamericans have the fuckin gall to call me a “privileged white european”#half you americans dont know shit about us or the ways in which we're mistreated#half you late teens he/him fags are using words that come from my fucking language#“its polari” where dyou think polari came from huh. dyou think it was just made up as a fun little code language?#queer ppl started to use it because it was already in use by other criminalized folks!! us!!#and for the record we're still effectively criminalized in the UK! theres a fucking mountain of legislature that targets us#ok yeah this is too ranty im turning off rbs on this bitch#usamericans are just on thin fucking ice at this point
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I've been reading the third Crazy Rich Asians book, and if they ever make it into a movie or show, I think Chloe Bennet should play Scheherazade - a character who has both brains and beauty and who comments on past experiences as being both white and Chinese
#crazy rich asians#chloe bennet#scheherazade#agents of shield#marvel#daisy johnson#rich people problems
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It’s 2024 and I’m still (not so) politely asking for a crazy rich asians sequel
#give it to us dammit!!!!#that and the astridcharlie spin off#crazy rich asians#china rich girlfriend#rich people problems#kevin kwan#booklover#booklr#honestly#truly is That Film#film tumblr#film adaptations
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