#AngelOfMusic

[bambithevideogame]

https://soundcloud.com/you/library?utm_source=mobi&utm_campaign=social_sharing

#PhantomOfTheOpera #AngelOfMusic #WarLocketteBand

[aroallo-culture-is]

aroallo culture is “don’t tag as asexual” at the bottom of every post

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[aspecpolls]

this is asking about the most commonly used flags!

aro allo, i like the flag

aro allo, i’m indifferent

aro allo, i DON’T like the flag

aro ace, i like the sunset flag but NOT the combined flag

aro ace, i LIKE both flags

aro ace, i DON’T like the sunset flag but i like the combined flag

aro ace, i DISLIKE both flags

allo ace, i like the flag

allo ace, i’m indifferent

allo ace, i DON’T like the flag

allo allo button/see results

(alloaro/aroallo flag. ID in alt text)

(alloace/aceallo flag. ID in alt text)

(sunset aroace flag. ID in alt text)

(combined aroace flag. ID in alt text)

[on-this-day-mcr]

On this day, June 9

In 2022: My Chemical Romance performed their sixteenth show of the 2022-2023 Swarm tour in Warsaw, Poland. This show was the only show of the tour to feature a faster version of "Na Na Na (Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na)" performed immediately after the regular speed version. At this show, Gerard Way wore a large olive green poncho, and a sheet of A4 paper was taped to the drums, potentially with "The Foundations of Decay" lyrics typed on it. (🖤)

Watch the show here!

ᴍᴀᴄɪᴇᴋ ᴋᴏʙʏʟᴀɴsᴋɪ

[edenfenixblogs]

chodesh tov!! i want to say thank you for your experiment tracking antisemitism. and please take care of yourself!

Thank you my friend! And thank you for understanding what I’m doing here. Chodesh tov! Shabbat shalom (in my part of the world at least). 🩵🩵🩵🩵

[altschmerzes]

hmmm how about “hesitation” or “hesitate” for the wip word ask game?

from "never been in love" the aro buck 911 fic:

It’s rude, and it’s horrible, and Buck doesn’t hesitate for a moment before he all but runs out of the house. He drives practically on autopilot, back to the apartment he doesn’t live in, the home that isn’t his. The place where he’s intruding on Maddie and Chimney’s life every night he stays there. They’re both out, it’s just him, alone in the apartment with his thoughts and with the links in his text history with Hen, taunting him from his pocket. He knows he shouldn’t have left like that, but he also can’t imagine staying, knowing that she knew what he was reading and what she thought it meant about him.

[angleofmusings]

2022-12-10 boston MA

[koshercosplay]

need u to know that i have been telling everyone at shul about the awful sweater with the letters out of order and yesterday my mom (Has Not Seen Your Post) showed me the listing for the cat earrings

INCREDIBLE

the cat [earrings] distribution system is hard at work

[songswiththesamename]

Fall Out Boy;

One Direction;

The Corrs;

[demiro-allosexual-culture-is]

10 and 18 for the arospec ask game if it isn’t too late?

10. Probably what frustrates me the most about amatonormativity is that monogamy and having children is expected? I think personally I am way more frustrated by aros misusing the term to call aplatonics who like romance "amatonormative" and hate on people for not prioritising friendship and family(Im extremely disgusted by both and any nonrose things so I must be these aros' nightmares or something lol), and Im very frustrated by platonormativity. I like romance sometimes, and I'm from a romance negative culture that frowns on romance and emphasizes arranged marriage instead, and that is something I want to avoid. Romance, however, under the right conditions I do want to engage in.

And I prioritise my sexual and romantic-sexual partners over everyone else, I don't want any other close relationships at all and of course Id value my partners and myself over other people. Thats just how I function. If I didn't have partners, I would prioritise myself over other people mainly. I can't say I feel very impacted by amatonormativity just because Im arospec, but again Im not living in America right now so obviously the way it is in my culture varies greatly from a theory created in the context of the western world.

But about the norms in my culture, I feel like its that people wouldn't understand my romantic-sexual or sexual relationships because its w other headmates in my system, so Id appear single since we aren't open about being plural irl. Some of my peers may think its weird that Im aro, bc they may think queerness is weird. But a lot of them are very careful about romance because of romance negativity and how their family may not approve (yes, even 'cis straight passing' romance), yet expect people to feel romantic attraction. Some of them just seem to resign themself to the idea of being married off in an arranged marriage because thats what their parents want. Maybe some genuinely want that for themself, Im not exactly sure? but I don't want that, and I have partners already.

Basically I will never relate to wanting arranged marriage, and the way I approach romance is not traditional bc Im demiromantic allosexual and nonfriending aplatonic(I can't perform friendship, which is expected as a precursor to romance), and polyamorous/polyerosous. I feel like because the opposite is expected, the way I require a sexual relationship to even feel romantic attraction and a desire to be in a romantic relationship may be frowned upon due to sex negativity and amatonormativity in general, and bc that deviates from the arranged marriage norm where I live. And I don't want to raise kids (not even as a single parent or coparent), and thats a 'step' often expected in romance and marriage, although my current partners don't particularly require that in a relationship. And all that is what I feel makes amatonormativity or an equivalent to it, impact me in my culture.

I think that either amatonormativity should be broadened to include similar enforcement of societal norms that aren't covered by just talking about white european or american norms, or other terms should be coined to refer to this. I feel like either ppl online are narrowing the scope of what amatonormativity includes, or they are being overly eurocentric and americentric about it. I feel the way Elizabeth Brake's theory is explained definitely doesn't fully explain the attitudes in my culture about romance and marriage. And that is very likely because it was formed in a western context.

18. I only ship romantic-sexual and sexual ships. I can't say Im really invested in reading about romance aspects but more so the attraction? I relate to feeling romantic and sexual attraction which is probably why I ship those ships. Im kind of repulsed by nonsexual-in-intent ships that are romantic so I never ship them. I avoid fiction where the romance is stated to have no sexual attraction bc it repulses me. Sometimes I get really bored of a ship once it becomes canon, like theres no more suspense or anticipation I guess? (example - Lumity in the owl house). I don't like slow burn because its extremely boring and often involves friendship, which Im repulsed by.

I think sometimes I may ship characters or focus on shipping just because it makes me feel sick to think about friendship, even in media. Considering the characters as romantically or sexually involved is not repulsion inducing so I prefer it. I also hate ships where ppl write them as telling each other they are friends as well as partners, or friends to lovers bc ew (plato repulsed).

Either way the main type of shipping I prefer is sexual self shipping because I have fictional sexual crushes(I never feel romantic attraction to fictional characters) I ship myself with, sometimes also fluff or romance-coded self ship content that I feel like I can interpret as having sexual attraction as the intent. I may also avoid canon or fanon ships of characters I have crushes on, if it causes me to feel jealous.

arospec ask game :

[aromantisk-fagforening]

ER is the emergency room (at a hospital), the small places are urgent care!

oh ok!

[aroallo-culture-is]

aroallo culture is bass guitar

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[aspecpolls]

non-ace aros, why don’t you feel comfortable in aro community spaces?

most discussions are about aroaces

i’m loveless and most discussions are still about love, just not romantic love

i’m aplatonic and friendship is too centered/prevalent

i feel too old to participate in the community

i feel too young to participate in the community

i’m arospec and don’t feel ‘aro enough’

multiple of these reasons

actually i do feel comfortable in aro community spaces

i’m the problem (other aspec)

i’m the problem (not aspec)

see results

[thenighttrain]

have we considered the option that she enter a #Girlboss #StrongIndependentWoman era

i honestly thought that that was what would happen but alas. so if she insists on picking another man then we can at least suggest some improvements 👍

[gwydion-aacblog]

211 , average 4.69 , autism and intellectual disability ( different different separate thing from autism ) .

never hear this before but if help understand … say gwydion more than 95% autism people and 100% not autism people .

hey I want to see something

take this quiz (https://dlcincluded.github.io/MQ/) and then tell me about your score.

EDIT: ignore the true / false by the questions. those are related to scoring but not part of the questions, apologies for the confusion

if you're autistic plus another overlapping type of neurodivergent, choose the autistic option. self diagnoses are valid.

choose other neurodivergent if you are neurodivergent but not autistic. again, self diagnoses are valid.

check out the monotropism theory of autism (https://monotropism.org/)

[altschmerzes]

consider the publicity. (ill explain) ppl will b like whats the longest chapter of a fic you’ve read? and then that’s the perfect place for us to give you a shoutout for 30k chapters

you ALSO make a good point. the pitch for Keep The Originally Planned Structure grows stronger by the moment 🤔🤔