#Also wtf is a radfem???

[ahoyimlosingmymind]

nowhere in my three word statement did I say criminalizing sex work was the solution. I 100% believe that many people end up with sex work being the only option because of abuse and broader structures in our society. Our world just doesn’t take care of people and citizens as it should. I never demonized sex- sex is fine and beautiful. I also never said women, I said “people”. (Though I realize the quote was about women.) The product of sex comes from people, (I am speaking specifically about prostitution. Not onlyfans etc) from our bodies, and I do find ethical issues with being able to buy someone’s body for a duration of time for sexual pleasure, especially when the person selling is there only because they have no other options. I never posed a solution for this issue, i just made a statement. there isn’t a world where criminalizing the sex industry would do any good for anyone, as people would just find even less safe ways to keep doing it.

I am, however, deeply concerned with a society that is willing to buy sex off of someone before offering an alternative, or trying to help that person make money in a safer way. I know not all sex workers would take those options, but I’m bothered by the fact that we have people who are completely okay with a system that leaves people so short handed that they have to turn to sex work, because it means that money can be made off of it. the amount of abuse that takes place within the sex industry is what makes me so angry that it exists in the first place. It’s all very dehumanizing. its exploitative, chosen or not. yeah, technically women have the right to sell sex. But how have we reached such a point where that’s seen and defended as being ethical? ESPECIALLY, when that woman is there because she had no other options?

I’m more angry at the people who see these people in the sex industry and see them as something to buy, to take advantage of. It’s not so much the workers who I take issue with, so much as the people who look at all of the broader implications of the issue, shrug their shoulders and ask for the price.

I’m sure I’m missing more nuance. I’m not trying to be a bitch; I’m literally a teenage girl, who’s learning.

[countessdankula]

r@dfems keep tawaif culture critique out of your mouth, there are many many things to criticise bhansali about in re heeramandi but do not try to use this advocate for anti-SW practices

courtesan culture in the subcontinent has been linked to etiquette, high culture, and arts for centuries. do not speak about what you don't know.

[haemosexuality]

if i made a rad centric sideblog would yall follow it. i want to start being an active feminist at least online again but i dont wanna do it here

[maslows-pyramid-scheme]

Dr Hilary Cass told the Times she wished to address the “disinformation” circulating about the findings and recommendations handed down by the Cass review when it was published on 10 April. She said she had received online abuse in the wake of the report and had been advised to stop using public transport. The report said the evidence base for gender medicine in young people had been thin and children had been let down by a “toxic” public discourse around gender. Cass told the Times: “I have been really frustrated by the criticisms, because it is straight disinformation. It is completely inaccurate. “It started the day before the report came out when an influencer posted a picture of a list of papers that were apparently rejected because they were not randomised control trials. “That list has absolutely nothing to do with either our report or any of the papers.” Referring to the online abuse she had received, she said: “There are some pretty vile emails coming in at the moment, most of which my team is protecting me from, so I’m not getting to see them.” She added: “I’m not going on public transport at the moment, following security advice, which is inconvenient.” The report said the now shuttered Gender Identity Development Service (Gids) at the Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation Trust, the only NHS gender identity development service for children in England and Wales, used puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones despite “remarkably weak evidence” that they improved the wellbeing of young people and concern they may harm health. The report recommended that young people struggling with their gender identity should be screened to detect neurodevelopmental conditions and there should be an assessment of their mental health, because some who seek help with their gender identity may also have anxiety or depression, for example. When the report was released, Cass stressed that her findings were not intended to undermine the validity of trans identities or challenge people’s right to transition, but rather to improve the care of the fast-growing number of children and young people with gender-related distress.

Another day, another woman who believes she can clear her name if she just Explains Herself. But here's the thing: it was never actually about the science, it has always been about ensuring others, particularly women, are too terrified to step out of line (and too alienated from other women to see themselves as the affected woman).

[skys-archive]

Actually insane how many transphobic people are on the trans website

[the-celestial-bitch]

terfs really have 0 braincells

[creaturebloom]

got shown a radfem post "based on my likes" so i reported it as inappropriate content just like for funsies i know it won't do shit bc tumblr just loooooves to let radfems and neo nazis hang out on their platform 🙄

[naomiknight-17]

I was accidentally following someone with "cis men DNI" in their bio and I do not remember ever seeing them or following them on purpose nor do I recognize any of their recent content like????

Wtf where did this person come from

[underestimated-heroine]

Constantly see posts about DNIs that aren't necessarily bad for how some people use DNIs, just out of touch and spreading weird contradictory misinformation. Need to find that "advice for being on Tumblr" post where I elaborate on this a bit and just reblog it whenever I see another one.

[spacelazarwolf]

them describing you as "aggressive" and saying it's "very concerning", like, considering the context of this conversation (gender), that's so... wow. okay. of all the words they could've chosen, or just not say anything at all.. ? wtf.

yeah like. the language used on that post and the posts that have been made abt me since have been………..interesting.

- othering me from a category i am objectively a part of (“afab queer”) and disregarding my trauma for the sake of grouping me in with Abusive Dangerous Cis Men Invading Women’s Spaces (hmm wonder where this rhetoric comes from)

- somehow insinuating that i said we HAVE to let cis men into every single space ever and let them talk over us???? piss poor website etc.

- “you’re literally out here saying this shit to an afab nonbinary person” hey bud i am also afab and nonbinary. even though nonbinary is not a term i use for myself it’s still an umbrella i am begrudgingly placed underneath as a genderqueer person.

- insinuating it’s transphobic to ask if someone who was being actively transphobic is cis?????

- also literally blatantly advocating for “afab queer spaces” that “cis men” shouldn’t be part of as if that isn’t terf rhetoric with a new coat of paint, while accusing ME of terf rhetoric for saying……that feminist activism should involve cis men???

- the utter irony of reading terf talking point after terf talking point while this person tries to call ME a radfem is just. absolutely fucking wild.

[eclecticwordblender]

since @actualadvocacybruh refuses to get off my tumblr.

1. men don’t go around ripping off other men's pants? my brother in christ!?!?! men rip off everyone’s pants without consent and more as an overwhelming majority as any statistic on sexual violence would tell you.

2. men don’t have to be "screeching" about their spaces or sports being invaded because they are not the oppressed sex and continue to hold powers in those spaces regardless. and they still whine btw, about more women and queer people in their offices etc.

3. "real problem" "disposable meat for the tyrannical capitalist system" 😭😭😭😭😭😭 wtf do you think women are? except we also get paid less and are those disposable meat in addition to our care labour responsibilities and our entire personhood is also not recognised sooo…..

4. buddy i wish i had the privilege to never have interacted with a man. like you right now. but y’all are so obsessed with unnecessarily offering your two cents in women’s spaces and bothering women who clearly don’t want to do anything w you. how and why do you think i became a radfem? after interactions with men and gendies obviously.

5. yeah i care about women and that is why i don’t think feminism should be about men and gendies.

6. why would my feminism only care about white women from america when i am, myself, a south asian?

7. also, the men you so desperately defend hate all of you gendies w a burning passion, it simply doesn’t threaten their safety so it isn’t all that political to them.

[delphientropy]

BLOCK LIST

BIG LIST OF A BUNCH O PEEPS I BLOCKED

as well as why! i'll add on as i go!:)

we do NOT condone harassment, please just block.

includes: pro/endos, radqueer, transID, anti good faith, and more!! XP

first off, so were on the same page, what are these and why are they bad?

pro/endos: try to demedicalize a dissociative disorder, claim you can be a system without trauma, more info here 👉 [X] [X] (both are carrds that link multiple sources) (sorry they didnt save ill put it in later)

radqueer: these are people who transIDs (transage, transrace, etc. these people claim to identify as a different race or even pretend to "transition" into being disabled like transautistic) or ARE them.

anti good faith: good faith identities are basically identities made in good faith. this tends to encompass "contradictory" identities such as lesboys and other mspec identities. anti good faith people police gender and sexuality identities and invalidate these peoples experiences and try to exclude them from spaces or tell them what THEIR sexuality is. dont be misguided into thinking you're doing good if you exclude these people, its splitting up the lgbtq+ community, and thats what they (TERFs, anti-lgbtq+) want us to do.

now onto the blocklist!:)

radfems, TERFs, and transmeds

pach1-pach1 (deleted his dni but befor it was deleted it said that they support vivzie, are anti xenogenders and neoprns iirc, and anti good faith. a reply on my post abt telling ppl to block them also said theyre a transmed, so did another account. theyve also been seen harassing anti endos despite claiming to be it himself) (they own syspunk-is-anti-endo-losers as well)

radfem-vex

mint-fem

PRO/ENDO

boosystem

domni99

pluralpolls

youokaybro

plural-blocklist

eunoiasys

circulars-reasoning

citadelofmarks

inclusysboxes

thestarpletsystem

bunfart90

alterhuman-culture-is

interstellarsystem

bokuwaamdalla

brainmade-culture-is

fictive-culture-hub

navelgazed

pluralprompts

astrophale-and-fischl

syscourse101

aura-dragonfly

parsnipkit

phantomhunt

funnier-as-a-system

funnier-as-a-fictive

multiplicity-positivity

analog-transid (also transID, as implied in the name) (they run the blog alters-in-a-box which is one of those alter pack things)

freezingnarc

whore-hangout (its 18+ as implied keep yourself safe)

notteserver

cardsoffools (harassed me and told me to kms 🫶)

fools-temps (run by cardsoffools)

the-bride-and-the-ugly-ass-groom

RADQUEERS

stashys-radqueer-userboxes

1nklingsanitized

bisexualsafespace

radqueer-empire

maskaphiliax (also transID, also they have alfreds playhouse in their banner so please be safe)

ANTI GOOD FAITH

kowalapantheon (also a.. "plural aligned singlet?") (headmate blogs are nonexistent-loli, trans-obsessive-love-disorder, ex-harmful-transpeaceful)

forced-silence (18+, lots of violence, please beware on their page)

zomb-bunny (also think they harassed someone??? i cant remember or find the post)

starry-city-sys

endopropoganda

parxgender (also ace exclusive, anti pan/omni, and anti mogai)

yourfavehatesmspeclesbians (because god forbid someone have a complex relationship with gender and sexuality.)

mspobjects

the-party-city

pollingsystems (also doesnt believe in transandrophobia. wtf.)

OTHER

anti-lies (spreads misinformation that can be paranoia-inducing)

theinfernalcollective (claims that bullying isnt valid enough to be a system) (TRAUMA IS TRAUMA.)

disys (same as above)

permababy (transID, doesnt label themself as radqueer but does reblog it)

problema-non-grata (pro transID discourse blog)

thefakersystem (demonizes systems and those with personality disorders, anti good faith, fakeclaimer (literally, fakeclaims EVERYONE.) harasses people minding their own business, overall the worst asshole i think ive ever blocked. dear fucking lord.)

cringey-systems (dumbbb dumb baby fakeclaimer doesnt think systems are real dumb idiot baby man who reblogs systems and calls them fake because they have no life ♡)

ALTER PACKS

(people who make ID packs for people to "create" their own headmates, all are pro endo, radqueer, and transID)

build-a-headmate

alterpacks

headmatestickerbook

naris-alter-shop

brainpal-gachapon

[mithliya]

shocker: the implausible stats are implausible because crucial information was left out. these are automatically inaccurate stats

Look, I'm all for hating men, but please fuck off if you specifically hate men of color more than white men. I cannot believe I'm seeing radfems popping up and saying shit like "I trust white men more than men of color, white men come from a safer culture".

White men have done, and are still doing absolutely horrific things. You are stupid and racist to think that they are more valuable than any other man. The only reason that a white man would treat you (the white woman) any better is because white women are put on a pedestal of purity and innocence. But they still see you as a stupid object to put their sperm into. You still aren't human to them.

White men are a menace to women of color, just as you think that "immigrant men" or whatever are a menace to white women.

All men are shit. There's no specific color of man that's better or worse.

[redditreceipts]

Trans male here, though I know my identity would not be taken seriously here, I find myself wanting to rather get she/her’d by radfems then deal with the horrific misogyny I receive in online trans spaces. Trans men are constantly referred to as “cunts” and “bitches” and we’re not allowed disagree with trans women on certain topics. Are there any accounts you know of that document and discuss the way trans men are treated in the trans community that don’t sugarcoat it?

Also question, are you guys gender abolitionists? as I feel I makes a lot of sense to be that along with being a radfem.

hey :) sorry for the late answer, i was quite a bit busy the last couple of weeks

and first of all, I am not really in favor of using the pronouns of a person that they feel dysphoric about as long as they are not horrible people, but yeah, idk.

Referrring to people as their body parts is such a disgusting way of talking. They talk about you that way, but have a meltdown and threaten to kill themselves if you tell them they're male 😭 wtf

and yes, I am a gender abolitionist. I think that gender is a superstructure built to justify sex-based oppression, I have made a post about it :)

Another thing that I sometimes think when reading accounts like yours: I always find it strange how you are not allowed to mention the biological sex of the person you are interacting with in queer spaces, but it is totally okay to treat that person as a stereotypical member of their biological sex. Like, isn't talking over a trans man or intimidating him or sexually harassing him a much more severe form of "misgendering" than using the word "she"? I mean, I am not a trans man so I don't know, but I'd imagine that I'd feel much more dysphoric after being sexually harassed by a male for being female than if someone called me "she/her"? So that's what has always confused me a bit about trans-affirming spaces.

And no, I don't know about any blogs about misogyny towards trans men. You can be the first though! Or you just send that stuff to me, I might post it a month later, but I'll make sure to post it! <3 Here is my star-and-cat themed image collection :)

[radfemtasy]

Tw: mentions of r@pe and abuse.

Alright, radfems. If you're on discord, look out for this guy Aru (aruws/Aru#3166) and KraziKai (don't know if he left discord or changed his username). On July 2022, I (then 15 years old) was playing with userphone until these guys showed up on nowhere and started being creeps. Look at the messages:

(Yep, I've deleted my account because I was focusing on my exams. And no, I'm not married, I just took partnership with someone via a discord bot. Yk, them and their usual commands.)

Aru sent me a friend request and I thought it would be a normal conversation, but oh boy! I was so wrong! Him and that Krazi guy opened a group chat, invited me without my permission and first started asking about r@ping me. I was like WTF and they immediately said that it was 'autocorrect'. Imagine asking about r@ping me and saying it's autocorrect. They also threatened to kill me and naive me didn't know how to report. Mind you that I was 15, yet it was still my fault for not taking any action. They said that they would do horrible things to me and my mother.

Even if I did try to fight back, they'd still threatened me. I wondered why I hadn't left the group and blocked them.

At the end, when I told Krazi that I'm from India, this Aru guy left after sending a lot of 🤮 emoji and blocked me. Not only a racist, but he's hell of a moid. Krazi left because I refused to show my face. Now I can't help but laugh at these two for being hypocrites.

I don't have the screenshots of the DMs because I deleted them a long time ago, but yeah you can figure out their misogyny from these screenshots I've sent. Also, discord is shitty for not taking any action on them after I had sent them a reply.

Anyways, if y'all are on discord, don't forget to doxx them. I hope Aru and Krazi contribute to the male su!c!de epidemic. Wanna see these two moids jump off a building.

P.S: I think Aru is from Albania after he said 'albanian trapstars'. Who knows!

[vulvaluv]

She’s a veterinarian technician, in school full time, still cooks & cleans on top of that — and her loser boyfriend who is 13 years older calls her lazy. I hope this girl runs for the hills:(