#20:26

[beyazkuguu]

Dışarıya atıverdim kendimi. Beni biliyorsun, ev kedisiyim. Bulduğum ilk kalabalığa karıştım. Biraz da böyle yalnız olmak için..

[kitaplarinicindeyasayankiz]

...İletişimdeki "reddetme davranışının yarattığı zarar, "umursamama"nın yarattığı kadar fazla değildir. Umursamama, psikolojik bakımından en zehirli, en öldürücü ortamı yaratır.

"Bir insana dünyanın en dayanılmaz işkencesini yapmak isterseniz, onu 'umursamama'nın baskın olduğu sosyal bir ortama koyun," önerisinde bulunurlar. Onlara göre, "En acı ve istirap verici bedensel işkence bile, umursamamaya yeğlenir, çünkü bedensel işkenceyi yapan, işkence yaptığı kişinin varlığını kabul etmiş olmaktadır."

Toplumdaki ilişkiler genellikle "reddetme" yönündeyse, o toplumda cinayetler, kavgalar, sürtüşmeler çoğalır, genellikle "umursamama"nın ağır bastığı toplumlarda ise akıl hastalıklarında bir artma olur.

[thrassisfras]

It still boggles my mind that EMMA PEEL wasn't a feminine enough character for one of my old church leaders.

Because she fights. That was it. Because she knows how to throw a punch. She was too masculine of a role model for me.

This lady:

[darrenpillowscriss]

I forgot that Cody Walsh is canonically older than Margaret Encino.

[overanalysingfandoms]

Look how what Martyn????? Hmmmmm????

[laddertek]

✨Romance✨

Etho: Uhm, I'm gonna be here for...thirty minutes...just looking in your eyes... Zed: ...only thirty? 🥺

Check out Zed's extended hermit reactions to his villager riding a chicken on ZedaphPlays2!

[shih-coulda-had-it]

lead me, wind-rider

[sukibenders]

CLOCK IT!

[achillean-knight]

Did this like, way earlier today and utterly hated the outcome of it but hours later, I kinda like it? LMAOO Outfit and colours FOR the outfit are... subpar, but overall, I really quite enjoy this piece >:33!! I also have to admit, drawing ghost Mettaton I think is my new favourite thing

DAY 18 - STAR Skipped day 17 bc I didn't know what to draw 😭 My creativity has limits hhrg

[chronologically-challenged]

I think this fandom is too normal about Petronille. WHAT DO YOU MEAN SHE'S ONLY IN HER LATE TEENS/EARLY 20'S WHAT DO YOU MEAN?????

Like like!!!! We don't have a timeline on when Bonnie and Nille ran away from home, but it HAS to be when Bonnie was really young. Bonnie doesn't seem to remember their parents well at all, and the most we hear about them is that they were "mean". So like!!!! Depending on how old you see Bonnie (10-12ish) and how young you think the two ran away, that could range from 5 to 9 years give or take.

Thats!!!! A range!!! At the oldest Nille (say 24) she was 18 or 19 when the two ran away, which is an adult but still pretty young, but the youngest range????? Hello??? If Nille is 19 now, she could have been as young as 11 when she took Bonnie!!!! What!!!!

I don't think that's the case, but still??? If we take the average of those two, Nille would be 16!!! 16!!!!! And taking care of her sibling basically on her own!!! Nille is a kid who had to grow up too fast and take on the world to make sure Bonnie and her could survive!!! Nille's probably been fighting a good chunk of her life for their happiness and that doesn't even ACCOUNT for the abuse their parents messed her up with. And then after EVERYTHING basically sacrificed herself so Bonnie could have a chance to live from the King's Curse!!!!!

And after all that!!!! Suddenly, she's offered protection from 4 random adults who also adore her sibling and want to take care of the both of them??? What do you do with that??? Do you even BELIEVE that??? Can you even trust that someone else than you could be trusted with your baby sibling? That you can let someone else take that responsibility. The responsibility that you took on with your whole heart and soul to the point you made sure that even if you basically DIED for all that mattered, at least Bonnie would have a chance.

You've been asleep for months and woken up in a new reality where you're not your sibling's whole world anymore. They've changed. You weren't there for it. These people Iove Bonnie so much. But do they know them as much as you do??? They weren't there all this time!!! You should know your sibling better than anyone here!!!

And yet. Yet...

You don't know what to make of this. You're happy Bonnie's safe. You're terrified you don't recognize the new parts of them that have shown up without you being there.

Your sibling lives in a whole new world now. They love you. They would come back to it just being the two of you if you pushed it.

But if you do, you're not sure Bonnie would ever forgive you for it.

(Are you seeing my vision??? Do you understand why I'm not normal about Nille????)

[nukuome]

The individual panels vvvvvvvvv

[influenzabella]

I’m sorry. I can’t get over the fact that the midnight sun audiobook is 26 hours long. What the FUCK is Edward even talking about for 26 hours?

[sleepnoises]

Coping squares. Theoretically I need to do 56 of these and I am doing my favorites first (this is one third of my favorites)

[chalamet-chalamet]

Timothée will be on the Graham Norton show on December 20, 2024. Colman Domingo and Andrew Garfield will be fellow guests as well. 💥💥💥

[rawrsatthetree]

I do think it’s funny everyone fusses over Emmrich for his age difference with Rook but Lucanis and Neve seem a bit older as well. Like not in their 50s older but definitely older. Like they’re both very mid thirties to me: tired, established in their careers and reputation but their lives are still kind of a mess, have made caffeine a personality trait.

Like if I think about Rook being my age (26) someone that’s 35 is still like in the category of significant age difference and “older” to me.

[witchinatree]

i know the whole "do you think jon ever used his powers to Know what his parents looked like" thing is far more devastating than this but what if he tried using his powers to remember original sasha? jon and sasha always seemed closer than the rest, he picked her (and tim) to work with him and tolerated a lot more nonsense from her than anyone else (using his password to access his computer [161], debating his pronunciation of calliope [25], etc)

and ofc jon and martin became significantly closer as the podcast went on, but in the beginning he was cruel to martin when he gave a statement but accepting of sasha? idk i think their friendship was a lot deeper than we realized (ESPECIALLY since his first murder in season 5 was because NotThem provoked him about sasha) and i think jon wouldve used his powers to Know the original sasha, not sure if it wouldve worked though

so so sorry to distract from the post but can yall read the tags for me because i suffered immensely for this post