#02 vents

[koushirouizumi]

#TheBeginningSpoilers #The Beginning Spoiler

Rui: "Boku wa..." On screen sub-title: "Let's go!"

[the-intersex-experience]

Welcome to a blog dedicated to intersex experiences. We are bodily a mixed poc, disabled, tfemmasc intersex, system. You may call us ᎠᏁᎶᏗ. lim/liminals, xe/xem & 🩷/🩷s work for prns.

this blog is safe for: intersex tfems/tmascs/tfemmascs. intersex poc. intersex systems. disabled intersex people. good faith/mspec mono labels, palestine people, etc!

This blog doesn't personally respond to/interact with: perisex shi/hir users, terfs. pro.ship, rad.queer, winter.punk. racists, zionists. "transintersex" perisex people, and endo/demo/mixedgenic systems.

questions / conversations are fine, but be aware our stances/opinions are unlikely to change unless we accidentally do something problematic without realizing. be aware we are not a medical professional or expert on everything intersex! we are a young intersex adult that wanted more intersex spaces to exist.

you can send things as "the intersex experience is", "the poc intersex experience is" etc. free to drop that part if you want to be more serious or vent/rant. please keep in mind all intersexism, harassment & hate will be blocked.

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other blogs to check out!! @our-transfeminine-experience , @our-transgender-experiences , @our-trans-youth-experience @our-transmasculine-experience

[amysubmits]

I didn’t want to engage with the argument itself but I saw this post about ‘doms’ who get with subs to engage in “trauma kink” play and how they need to be able to still react appropriately if the sub has an actual trauma response/panics/safewords etc during the scene. 

And someone basically said “If you have actual trauma and might get triggered, you shouldn’t be doing BDSM. I like trauma kinks but I don’t want to deal with someone getting triggered during a scene so I would never do a scene with someone like that. I’m not a therapist.”

And just wanted to say...regardless of what type of kink(s) you’re doing, or whether you know someone to have trauma or not...there is ALWAYS a risk that someone can get triggered during sex. Even vanilla sex. Even if they’ve never had a flashback before, even if they’ve never been triggered during sex or play before. Even if they’ve done this exact type of sex or kink 500 times before. 

Brains are weird. Trauma is weird. Sometimes shit is HIGHLY suppressed, so people have no idea that they even had trauma until it’s suddenly triggered. Obviously not everyone has sexual trauma, but literally everyone has trauma of some kind or another. The idea of an untraumatized person is just non-existent. If this feels wrong to you, then you have a really elevated idea of what ‘trauma’ means. It doesn’t just mean r@pe and war and things like that.  

I don’t really know anything about ‘trauma kink’ play so I won’t comment on that aspect. But if you think you can play with anyone and have a 0% risk of them getting triggered, you’re wrong. 

Very much my personal opinion here, but do you really think anyone should be cool with having sex with you if you don't’ care enough about them to want to attempt to support them if they get triggered? To me that’s basically admitting that you don’t see them as a complete human being. 

[walkman-cat]

if i get no sleep tonight im going to actually rosho bawl

[kideternity]

Watching some of the 02 era movies today and I really miss when they didn’t whitewash the absolute fuck out of Daisuke ):

[submarine-06]

I want to love someone romantically and I want them to love me back. But I'm afraid of loving since my romantic feelings don't last long. I want a partner to love. I don't want a partner to love. I'm scared of loving

[digitalgate02]

I do hope no one steals any of my Rui wild theories to make fake leaks or else i will never publish theories of anything else online anymore.

[veone]

I appreciate my anxiety being oh so physical because-

[rose-of-faraway-stars]

White powder

Chilly snow

This is the place I’ll often go

White planet

Metal sheets

Cover something underneath

Red and white

Brown, black, green

Colours

Colours passing by you’d see…

Before you think no I have not forgotten

The feelings, memories that refuse to go-

They’re rotten

Though suppose I get your drive

Why fight

We both wish this universe to thrive

Stay alive

Do we have to fight, to risk?

I don’t want violence

No I never really wanted this

Even eye wide open I failed to see

That really- maybe the catalyst was me

[icanonlyblamemyself]

DECEMBER PROMPTS II. messiah - 12/02/22 -- @nosebleedclub

[seis-moved]

i hate having crushes i cant wait to move on ^___^

[the-intersex-experience]

a personal intersex asian experience is having multiple perisex people find out we're both intersex and Japanese, then saying shit like "futanari irl!". losing my fucking mind over this. why is your first response to immediately call us both a porn category and the h slur in Japanese?

[koushirouizumi]

Two gif re-posts in one week.

[artcalledtheewhip]

[photoncatcher]

Nikon D610; 1/60; F/4.5; ISO 180; 105mm

24/02/2024