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Nsfw // I sometimes check that one forum where (mostly) gay men post suggestive (or not) male celebrity pictures. So I checked the thread about Lando and it's basically all about his "huge bulge" and how "fuckable" he looks (I agree with both statements). But then I checked Oscar's thread and died laughing, they're all just saying how CUTE he is 😂 there are a few pics of his ass and thighs of course but it's mostly just CUTE BOY. WHOLESOME BOY. And it's so funny, those threads are generally so vulgar but Oscar is just cute boy and I think that's precious
#I only check this forum for education purposes of course#not my fault they find the best pics#lando's thread is obviously more full since he's been in the spotlight for longer#and he's more slutty so more content#and oscar is just :] cute boy#i aint tagging this post
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closed starter for @sharpayyyyy location: sharpay's apartment
The feedback and opinions he had given on the demos he had listened to of Sharpay’s first album had obviously been ignored, given the fact that she had still gone through and released each and every song shitting on Troy and also Gabriella. It wasn’t a surprise that the blonde didn’t want to listen to him, but it was slightly disappointing. As he had assumed would happen, a riff had run straight through their whole friend group once the album dropped. But that wasn’t even the worst of it, no Sharpay then had to go and perform those songs live at a party the very same day. It was a mess, and so absolutely and completely in character for Sharpay Evans that Ryan hadn’t even bothered to scold her on it all. Instead, he did the only thing he thought might affect her - he refused to acknowledge the stunt or comment on it at all, focusing instead on everything that was going on in his own life and work.
But he couldn’t ignore his twin forever, they both knew that. So after leaving his nightly rehearsal for Grease Live, with nothing else lined up for the evening, Ryan made his way over to her apartment. As the door swung open after a knock, he forced a small smile and raised a hand in greeting. “Hey sis,” he starts, feeling more awkward than he had in years around the girl. Being so busy with all of his different jobs at the moment, he hadn’t really had much time to actually process how he felt about everything Sharpay had done, and now he was realizing perhaps he should have done that before just showing up like this. Then he’d at least know what to say. But as it was, he instead found himself pushing off the inevitable conversation and just focused on getting himself inside the door. “You busy?”
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Quick glance towards the clock on the wall. ❝ What are you doin’ here? ‘almost midnight. ❞ He scrunches his face in CONFUSION.
@sudriics ♥️'d
#[ first time using his human verse babey ]#「 🚂 」 number one engine » ic#「 📺 」 under the spotlight » thread#sudriics
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marvel seeing the huge fan reception to these two and scrambling to pretend they got absolutely anything to do (in the first krakoa event they were even included in) other than sell variant covers, park the jet, and/or propagate gd’s deadpool/rogue ship is so fucking funny
#x#having the loudest twitter stans and/or longest cbr threads comprised of 5 people = non-stop stories and event roles#selling countless books for decades = crickets#people claim the x-office ignores fan response but like#they clearly are always watching#the issue is they selectively listen#and then the fans of the characters getting disproportionate spotlight under jdw will whine#and claim marvel finally giving stories to the neglected but more popular characters is just ~mcu synergy lmfao#p sure they’re getting a one shot or something under gail simone#which is so exciting and long overdue
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also 🥺🥺🥺 guess who’s bday it is today 🥺🥺🥺
#this is vee speaking#IM SORRY ITS JUST ANALOG ART I WAS BUSY AND I DONT HAVE A DRAWING SETUP RN LMAO#BUT HAPPY BIRTHDAY GIRLIE 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷#SONIC TEAM HAS BEEN WORKING OVERTIME TO LOWKEY RETCON ALWAYS BEING LEFT BEHIND IN THE STORY#AND WHILE IM A LITTLE SAD TO SEE THAT SLOW BURN PLOT THREAD DIE IT JUST MEANS SHE GETS MORE TIME IN THE SPOTLIGHT#AND PROPERLY!!!!! SO HERES TO HAVING YOUR THEMES BLATANT FOR THOSE WHO CANT CARE TO SEE THEM#HERES TO FURTHER TOUCHING THE HEARTS OF OTHERS WITH MAGIC AND LOVE#AND BECOMING THE INDEPENDENT AND LOVELY LADY YOU WANT TO BE!!!!!!!!!!#HAPPY BIRTHDAY AMY AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
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I'm so close to done with the background lineart I can almost taste it
#not looking forward to the tunnel. wdym you mean I have to do more perspective when what I've got#is barely hanging on by a thread#CTartcase#also the spotlights#fuck the spotlights all my homies hate the spotlights#camuncoli *why*
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☆》 Hi! I'm going to be adding in new tags and such [so ignore the tags for this post for now.]. Also, formatting for this blog is gonna look a little different in time :-]
☆》 Blog should be up and running again soon!!!
#showbound#starspeak // arthur talks#behind the scenes // out of character#Star of The Show // Silas Predicta#Spotlight Shadow // Vice#The Main Event // Virtue#What does our audience have to say? // Submissions#Glad to have you // Roleplay Thread#Reciting your lines // Character Study
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(71) Ace Attonrey-Turnabout Spotlight
This was really cute. The beginning was my favorite part. I love it whenever the actors interact with the audience. It’s always charming.
Story is fine, but the show is carried by Edgeworth. His actor perfectly portrays him. He has so many amazing reactions to the shenanigans around him. Easily the highlight of the show.
The scene where Maya talks with the spirits was strange. She can channel sprits, but i don’t think it means she can have full on conversations with them, unless I’m remembering incorrectly.
Also Larry and Oldbag are annoying as always, but that’s a given for the two of them.
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closed starter for @sharpayyyyy location: hyperion theatre
The first ending bow on a show’s opening night brings a feeling that almost nothing else can compare to. A sense of accomplishment and a rush of adrenaline as the crowd claps and cheers over the show you and your cast have put so much time and effort into creating for them. It’s always been a magical moment for Ryan, but tonight felt different than ever before. Maybe it was because it had been a few months since he’d put on a performance or perhaps it was because he just starred in a show with an international popstar as his co-lead, but he felt as if he were on top of the entire world. And nothing was going to bring him down. Not even his sister.
He really hoped that Sharpay would be supportive of him and be able to look past herself and the differences in their current career status… but he wasn’t about to bet any money on that hope, knowing the blonde girl far too well to not expect at least something to happen tonight. Of course he knew she would be happy for him on some level, but Ryan worried that his success was only going to make her realize the lack of her own. So it’s with a bit of hesitance that he pulls away from the bear tight hug his mother had him in and approached his sister. The family had been waiting for him in his dressing room once he’d finally come back after meeting some fans at the stage door. “How’d you like it?” he asks as he goes in to give her a hug of her own.
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❝ Are you the owl that we keep hearing near the sheds? You've been spooking us. ❞ Well, not him persay. A silly little ... big bird doesn't scare him.
@spookyowlman ❤️'d
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Dustborn Review
Don’t get me started on the Manchester Airport incident. The Hong Kong protests are just as bad, which is another prime example of police violence and corruption. No wonder Justice is portrayed as the bad guys in the game. Although, one of the main characters, Noam, looks nothing like a Hong Konger. Noam says that she misses her home country and she isn’t sure if she wants to go back. This…
#Dustborn#Game Review#Quantic Dream#Red Thread Games#Review#Spotlight by Quantic Dream#Video Game Review
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ᴛᴀɢ ᴅᴜᴍᴘ 𝟏 / ?
☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ behind the scenes. ⊰ ooc ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ on stage. ⊰ ic ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ beneath the mask. ⊰ headcanons ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ fanmail. ⊰ answered asks ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ pass the script. ⊰ ask prompt ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ shine the spotlight. ⊰ promo ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ intermission. ⊰ queue ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ character study. ⊰ musings ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ afterpiece. ⊰ dash games ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ between engagements. ⊰ dash commentary ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ break character. ⊰ crack ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ center of interest. ⊰ self-promo ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ cinematography. ⊰ video ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ artistic director. ⊰ my art ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ expository scene. ⊰ closed starter ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ curtain time. ⊰ thread ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ curtain call. ⊰ thread end ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ death at the box office. ⊰ dni ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ dramaturgy. ⊰ aesthetic ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ encore. ⊰ music ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ aesthetic distance. ⊰ wip ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ mise-en-scène. ⊰ art ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ improvisation. ⊰ open starter ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ melpomene. ⊰ introspection ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ dressing room. ⊰ visage ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ soliloquy. ⊰ one-shot ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ public address system. ⊰ psa ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ theater program. ⊰ pinned ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ slapstick. ⊰ meme ⊱ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ callbacks. ⊰ saved ⊱
#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ behind the scenes. ⊰ ooc ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ on stage. ⊰ ic ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ beneath the mask. ⊰ headcanons ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ fanmail. ⊰ answered asks ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ pass the script. ⊰ ask prompt ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ shine the spotlight. ⊰ promo ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ intermission. ⊰ queue ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ character study. ⊰ musings ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ afterpiece. ⊰ dash games ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ between engagements. ⊰ dash commentary ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ break character. ⊰ crack ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ center of interest. ⊰ self promo ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ cinematography. ⊰ video ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ artistic director. ⊰ my art ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ expository scene. ⊰ closed starter ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ curtain time. ⊰ thread ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ curtain call. ⊰ thread end ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ death at the box office. ⊰ dni ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ dramaturgy. ⊰ aesthetic ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ encore. ⊰ music ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ aesthetic distance. ⊰ wip ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ mise en scène. ⊰ art ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ improvisation. ⊰ open starter ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ melpomene. ⊰ introspection ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ dressing room. ⊰ visage ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ soliloquy. ⊰ one-shot ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ public address system. ⊰ psa ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ theater program. ⊰ pinned ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ slapstick. ⊰ meme ⊱#☾⋆⁺₊⋆ ⸺ callbacks. ⊰ saved ⊱
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#.ooc#/anyone wanna talk about....having threads with any one of the muses here?....#/*aiming spotlight at Yarik* I have a guy who will ruin your life right here
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//was thinking more last night about Sol's vision loss and how he navigates being a god of light considering she cant. you know. see light. but i think probably, its something similar to Kenny's ability to feel electricity. Sol can for sure feel light and color information. But it doesn't translate exactly perfectly. like, 'feeling' the color of something doesn't work the same in her head as 'seeing' a color would, this is an entirely different sense i dont think i could explain if i tried. Humans cant do anything like that. And it also isn't instantaneous. They have to analyze it in his head, remember what colors/shapes/etc. are associated with that sensation She is a young god, after all, and even though this is her aspect, and should come more naturally, it's just not the kind of thing that can replace eyesight. Which he doesnt want, and I also dont want. They are nearly blind and that's that, what's done is done and theres no going back. Vision is gone and thats it. it's gone. But this is one of the many ways he has to cope with that. It was more of a party trick before she lost her sight, but it's been helpful to have ever since. They're also insanely organized, which has also helped a ton.
#o:lore#some of the other sibs really gotta get out more. kenny really does try to hog the damn spotlight lol#and guess whos pacing around my head again looking for threads. thats right. kenny.#gotta put that man to sleep. he needs a nap anyway.
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Have a really hit a brand new low?
#]]???#]]H0K0#QUEUE#08/14/23#I thought my lowest was feeling so much emotion that I couldn't decipher it like tangled threads#Depression anxiety anger tearing at my flesh for spotlight#But now I wonder if this is it#My heart just feels hollow & impenetrable#I don't want anyone to speak with me#I want to encase myself in a thousand layers of crystal#For my sake & everyone else's#& maybe I'll do just that#If I can't be reached#I can't be hurt#If I can't reach#I can't hurt others#Just an intricate crystal chrysallis
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what's happening with James Somerton right now: a probably-incomplete primer
TW: suicide, including suicide as a threat and a manipulation tactic.
The short version:
James Somerton is a former Youtube essayist who focused entirely on queer history, queer media criticism, and queer issues in general. He is also a flagrant grifter who has made tens of thousands of dollars via fraud, both directly (lying about his finances to beg for money and getting donations for films he never even started making) and indirectly (stealing whole essays and articles and books, reading them out loud verbatim for his videos without indicating they were anything other than his own work, and then using the prestige he gained from using their work to get Patrons and sponsorships).
The story as told James and James apologists was that James attempted to apologize twice, was hounded mercilessly on the internet for weeks, and then, driven to the end of his rope, he posted a suicide note on Twitter, was MIA for several days, and from then on has been avoiding the internet.
The actual story, as revealed yesterday, was that James used two sockpuppet accounts to defend himself and parrot his talking points (again, while publicly claiming to be trying to take responsibility for his actions), using one to try to rebrand the con under a different name and another to deliberately stoke the panic caused by his suicide note. He was not only aware of the pain and anxiety he was causing people, but he encouraged it on one alt while hornyposting about his favorite movies on the other.
He is an unrepentant con artist who successfully used a suicide threat to prevent further interference with future cons. The only reason he was caught is because he is apparently incapable of going more than a couple of weeks without trying to get back in the internet spotlight, allowing people to tie his alts back to him. He lies for fun and profit and he should not be taken seriously, ever.
The long version:
In December 2023, Youtube essayist Hbomberguy (Harry Brewis) put out a four-hour-long video about plagiarism on the internet, and devoted two hours to addressing as much of JS's plagiarism as he could. I strongly recommend watching the entire thing, as the first two hours build on the concepts that he uses later in the video.
He also blew the whistle on James' fraud surrounding Telos, a studio James founded using thousands of dollars of IndieGoGo money that never actually produced any films despite him definitely working on them! Any day now they'll be released! Don't you worry!
A day later, Todd in the Shadows, a guy whose entire thing is music reviews, posted his own video debunking multiple outright lies that James had told about history, especially queer history. A few more days later, The Ace Couple, who run a podcast about asexuality, released an episode detailing how they'd lost $1.5k donating to Telos.
I have put the videos, Twitter threads, Patreon posts, and Reddit posts by other people discussing different aspects of James' fraud under the cut.
Every other time James was caught plagiarizing, prior to Harry's video, he would lie about it. Either he'd have some excuse (easily proven to be a lie) or he'd retreat to his favorite deflection: "I'm just being harassed because I'm gay."
This last lie was one he'd use not only to deflect accusations of plagiarism, but all criticism in general, no matter how trivial. Every time, the critic or someone associated with them would somehow dox him, or harass him, or send him death threats, or threaten to falsely accuse him of sexual assault.
This happened to The Ace Couple (who'd tried to correct him on something extremely acephobic in one of his videos), Jessie Gender (who'd tried to correct him when he claimed that there were no queer content creators on Nebula, given that she and a bunch of other queer creators were definitely on that platform), and the person who first blew the whistle on him stealing from Tinker Belles and Evil Queens by Sean Griffin (who was accused of being behind death threats he'd received, and hounded so harshly they had to leave Twitter).
It is important to note that every time James faced potentially damaging criticism, or even just a threat to his ego, suddenly he would claim to be harassed by people connected to the critic, including threats to his life. There has never been any proof of any threats being directed at him, nor evidence that, if the threats were real, that they are actually from people connected to the critic.
In the original video by Hbomberguy, Harry makes a compelling argument that James brought on a friend of his, Nick, as a co-writer specifically as a shield against accusations of plagiarism. "How dare you accuse me of plagiarism! Nick would NEVER do that!" This is even more apparent given subsequent developments which I will get into.
When evidence started dropping about different aspects of his fraud (not only Harry's video, but Todd in the Shadows' video debunking his misinfo, The Ace Couple's podcast about their experience donating to his fraudulent film studio, and Dan Olson's tweet thread about James' obvious lies about his finances), he went into hiding for two weeks, and then put out the first of two apologies. He then deleted that one and put out another one a few weeks later. And then he immediately deleted that one.
While his first apology was rambling, vague, and dramatic (lots of sniffing/crying), and his second was more measured, thought-out, and totally batshit (lots of hilariously and bizarrely implausible excuses for why he'd done what he'd done), they had roughly the same points:
Not ALL of his stuff was plagiarized! Actually, a lot of it wasn't! No specifics as to what, though!
Most of the stuff that was plagiarized was just a failure to properly cite sources, as he had no idea that putting someone's name in your end credits or video description (without specifying what parts are attributable to that person or disclosing that you are using their words verbatim) is not sufficient credit,
Also, he totally had permission, in some cases, to use their work verbatim prior to publishing the video (this is not true, and is disproven both in Harry's video and his own screenshots);
He definitely didn't commit fraud with Telos and would soon have a good explanation for where the money went! (he did not)
He was going to keep the videos up so that he could either donate the funds from any monetization to the fund Harry had set up for his victims or to "help Nick's portfolio" by showcasing his work;
He lost his best friend (i.e. Nick) over these allegations, who absolutely definitely wasn't a scapegoat, except Nick was also responsible for a lot of the stuff James was being criticized for;
He was going to keep the videos up so he could either donate the advertising proceeds to Harry's fund for his victims (first apology) or to "help Nick's portfolio" by showcasing the work he'd done; and
As a result of this entire ordeal, he had attempted either self-harm or suicide (he merely alluded to "doing something stupid").
Again, his response was to 1) downplay the severity of his actions or flat out ignore allegations against him, 2) come up with ridiculous excuses for his behavior, 3) throw Nick under the bus, and 4) claim to be in mortal danger. As far as I am aware, he has never taken any concrete action to make amends to any person, not even donating money to charity.
This was coupled with some kind of attempt to profit: monetizing his apology videos, closing and then reopening his Patreon right before the monthly charge cycle happened (totally to let people unfollow him, not at all as a grab for that money), creating a new Patreon under a different name, and changing his Twitter and Youtube handles to distance himself from the controversy while gathering new followers.
At one point (I forget if this was on Twitter or Instagram), he also said that someone had broken into his apartment due to the notoriety he'd received from Harry's video. I believe that was after his first apology, when people started to point out that he'd just changed the name of his Twitter and Youtube channel and had restarted a new Patreon under a pseudonym. (BTW, the pseudonym he used for his new Patreon was "The Gay Raconteur"; this will be important later).
It had what I think was the desired effect: any attempt at pointing out that he was rebranding his grift now came across as weirdly fixated on minor things he was doing, which certainly wasn't worth putting him in physical danger. (Again, he has never provided any proof of this happening, nor provided any evidence that these people allegedly threatening him were, in fact, in some way inspired by Hbomb).
So along comes March 5, 2024, and James posts a suicide note on his Twitter, saying that he is going to set up his videos to automatically publish (for Nick's portfolio), provide in some way for the ad revenue to go to a suicide prevention nonprofit, and then kill himself.
The immediate response from the internet was compassion and totally chilling any further criticism, since you might be callously criticizing a dead person. Harry and Kat worked for a couple of days to get a wellness check for him while a substantial section of the internet called them murderers.
On March 6, a day after the note was published, Nick tweeted that that he had cause to believe James was fine. Kat confirmed that James was safe on March 11. Due to the drama of the "suicide attempt," however, the chill on criticizing James stayed in place for months.
And then yesterday Lady Emily, one of the cowriters for Sarah Z., drops two more bombs:
James has not one but two alt accounts that he was using to rebrand and start over.
The first one was created between his first and second apologies, and originally was for "The Gay Raconteur" until he changed it to "Will"/"thatgayyouknow" and, later, "The Achillean Boy."
The second one was much older, under the pseudonym "Mikey JB," and used stolen pictures from Grindr instead of his own face. However, it is pretty obvious that it is, in fact, a sockpuppet account and not just some other person who happens to like James, as detailed below.
Both accounts, both between apologies and after his "suicide," talked about how criticism of James was unfair because the plagiarized stuff was "like a decade old" and repeating the same excuses that James had also made.
The "Mikey JB" account not only supported James, but actively threw Nick under the bus, saying that a criticized part of a video "reeks of his co-writer."
On March 6, the day after James' main Twitter posted the suicide note, The Achillean Boy account was hornyposting about Ryan Phillipe. James didn't even take a day or two off of Twitter. If he had been completely off Twitter for a couple of days, that could have been an indication that he really had hurt himself and was unable to access his phone, or at the very least unaware of the panic. But he wasn't. He was aware of it and did nothing. Actually, no! Worse than nothing!
On the same day (March 6), the Mikey JB account was actively contradicting Nick saying he was okay (they "haven't spoken in months" so there's no way Nick could know if he was alive) and saying that "people like you" i.e. his critics, "drove him to it." Not only did he ignore the panic he'd intentionally created, he actively drove it.
He saw people going emotionally through the wringer over the idea that they might have somehow caused his death, and intentionally made them keep thinking it. He say people calling his critics "murderers" for "driving him to his death," and he joined in.
Why am I explaining all of this? I want to make a couple of things extremely clear, and the context is necessary to my ultimate points, namely:
James Somerton didn't merely "credit people improperly;" he conned his followers out of more money than some people make in a year with the Telos con, while raking in thousands more per month on Patreon and buying expensive equipment, while claiming to be near insolvency and in desperate need of money.
James Somerton has never taken full responsibility for his actions or attempted to make amends. He has only ever tried to dodge responsibility, particularly by throwing Nick under the bus.
Every time he has ever been criticized, for any reason, he has lied about threats to his life to gain sympathy and quell criticism. This is a standard part of his MO. He has done this over and over and over again. At this point, I think if he says the sky is blue, someone should go out and check first before doing anything.
"But BB, what if he really is getting harassed/threatened or really is suicidal?"
So, okay: people who are attempting to manipulate you may use legitimate problems as a tool. It doesn't need to be fake to be effective - in fact, it might be more effective if it it's true. An abusive ex who says "if you leave me, I'll kill myself" and genuinely means it and actually attempts it (and possibly even succeeds!) is a lot harder to leave than someone who says the same thing but is clearly just bluffing, because the threat is real.
My rule of thumb in these cases is to treat the threat like it's real, without caving to the intended manipulation. Whether your ex is lying or telling the truth when they say, "I'll kill myself if you leave me," the appropriate response in both cases is to immediately call a mental health service or supportive family member. If it's fake, it's inconvenient for them; if it's real, you reacted appropriately. Your response needs to be the same regardless.
You don't get back together with them because it's a real threat (presumably you wouldn't do that if you knew it was fake and they were never in any danger), and you don't tell them that they're a piece of shit who should be dead (HOPEFULLY you wouldn't do that if you knew for a fact that they were telling the truth).
In this case, I am extremely confident in saying that he was coldbloodedly lying the entire time and was never once threatened, and certainly not to the degree he claimed to be. But even if he wasn't, that does not and should not change anyone's behavior in terms of holding him accountable.
And I mean actually holding him accountable: making sure he doesn't try to start a new con on new people, continuing to point out that he hasn't paid anyone back for his previous con (so long as it's still true), that sort of thing. It doesn't mean people should tell him he should go die for real or, I don't know, try to get him fired if he gets a job at Tim Horton's or Target or something else that's not fraud. That would be wrong regardless of whether he's actually in danger or not. The point is to avoid being cruel without negotiating with terrorists.
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Links:
It's like Breaking Bad, but backwards: a brief history of how Somerton successfully screwed himself Dan Olson's Twitter thread about the financial fraud My Year With James: Todd's post explaining the backstory of his video (Patreon-locked) DJSO#: Dan Olson's breakdown of James' second apology (Patreon-locked) Lady Emily's Twitter threads revealing James' alt accounts, part 1 and part 2
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