#[ i obvs have a habit of posting these before i sleep ]

[mickmundy]

I literally did follow you for bushmed. And correct opinions. Anyway 18. From the unusual otp ask game (for bushmed obv)

What are the small gestures with which your otp says 'I love you'? Are those daily rituals? Is the other aware of the intention behind those gestures?

SLKDFSDKJSDKLFSDLFSLDKFSJ YOU'RE WAY TOO KIND EHEHEHE ;-; and OMFG YIPPEEEE YEAS.....

What are the small gestures with which your otp says 'I love you'? Are those daily rituals? Is the other aware of the intention behind those gestures? so this is actually like... one of my favorite kinds of intimacy... like the kind that isn't like Grand Flourishes but smaller, more subtle things... i think once they're together they're definitely aware of them, but before they're dating.. no way! SKDFKSDKF... but that doesn't stop them from doing them!

i think sniper shows his love for medic this way by doing things like:

waking up early (he always does) and feeding archimedes/tending to medic's dule. medic makes his own hours and his sleep schedule can be all over the place, so this is one less thing medic has to worry about!

helping medic out by doing some minor stitch work or general aid for the other mercs on the field or post-battle. medic's work is never done, but if sniper can help lighten the load a little bit, well, he's glad to!

defending him on the field... obviously! of course this also just falls within the realm of his Job Description, but if he's feeling flirty he'll wait to get that crispy headshot so that their blood sprays all over medic (it makes him giggle every time)... <3 HEHE

fishing him out of his lab when he knows he's been in there for too long and inevitably fell asleep sitting at his desk... ;-; sniper scoops him up and carries him to his room and tucks him in, lets him sleep... sometimes he'll nap with him but he's always afraid of waking medic up!

and i think medic would do things for sniper like:

Silently identifying "whats wrong" with him and just "fix it" without Drawing Attention to it... for example, massaging sniper's arthritic hands... he's not going to be like "HEY is your arthritis flaring up!!!" because he knows that'll make sniper feel like he's Asking for Help or that he's doing it as a Doctor and not as a Lover. he'll just take sniper's hands in his own Gently and start rubbing them/massaging them... and sniper Instantly Relaxes and just starts purring because it feels so good.....!

making sniper eat breakfast with him in the morning.... i've talked about how i think they both have crappy eating habits and often forget to eat, but medic reminding sniper reminds him to also do it for himself! breakfast is the one meal of the day that medic always remembers to eat because it's the first of the day and it sticks with him the longest. feeding sniper off of his own plate and making sure he has something in his stomach for the long day they have ahead of them!!

making sure sniper knows he can always excuse himself and take time for himself if he needs (and giving him that "Out")... if they're out with the other mercs and medic knows sniper's probably kind of at the end of his Social Wire he'll say things like "sniper, can you go and get me [something from somewhere]"; not because he needs the item Whatsoever but so sniper can have a chance to take a breath of fresh air, have a cigarette if he needs it, take a walk etc... :) sniper realizes what medic's doing after the first couple times and it means so much to him. obviously medic wants sniper on his arm all the time!! but he also knows sniper's nature and knows sometimes he needs a break. nothing wrong with that of course!! ^v^

also, this one is one of my favorites and i could make a whole separate post about this but: they both love making each other comfortable in their own spaces. medic making the infirmary more comfortable for sniper when he knows he’s coming, sniper letting medic have a little drawer in his van for his clothes and a spare pair of his glasses (i wrote a lil oneshot about this here) … i think medic and sniper are both mercenaries that value their personal space and their Spaces Themselves as their sanctuaries, so both of them know how big of a deal it is to the other! they want each other to be comfortable in their Homes (medic’s lab is Just As Important as his room even though it’s not his home)!

all in all i think they both know these things come from a place of love, but they just silently affirm it. neither of them need a lot of Reassurance that the other loves them, but these little things just shows the other that they're here for each other! ^v^ <333

[bots-and-cons]

Hey hey! I've been meaning to send this to you ever since I've discovered your blog and I didn't really know what I should do since I'm also like this irl but I've been taking breaks and getting better recently with my sleep and resting so I think you should too! I've seen that you're often or always tired/sleepy in your posts so I just want you to please take a break. I don't mean this in a mean way like I'm mad but I'm concerned abt you. Take a break as long as you need, answer asks when you're feeling better and energized, yk? Or at least if had your rest like a nap an hour or two so your writing brain may work afterwards. 8 hours of sleep is needed obv! Like sleep early n stuff, if u can, drop anything that may stop you from sleeping 8 hours or sleeping early, maybe even establish a schedule that can fit well with your personal life and doing this blog. I feel like you shouldn't feel pressured to answer asks especially when you're tired and sleepy. You and your health is your FIRST PRIORITY! never forget that.

—anonymous fan of ur blog !!

P.s. I hope this isn't too pressuring or giving off too much concern over you when I'm just a stranger on the internet ;-;

Oh I kinda feel bad for giving you an impression like this lol, and no worries, not pressuring or anything :D. My sleeping schedule is pretty good, at least in my opinion. I'm asleep every night before 23 (11pm) and if I have to be awake earlier then 8 in the morning then I'm usually asleep by 21.30 (9.30 pm) or 22 (10pm) at the latest. I usually make sure I can sleep 10 hours, because 8 is not enough for me, or at least it's not sustainable.

"Tired" is the word I usually use when I'm not really sure what I'm feeling, but since tired feels like the closest match, I usually go with that. It sounds better than lazy anyway. Since I can't answer shortly, you're gonna get a bit of a long answer here. I think calling myself lazy in this context doesn't really fit either, because this is not something I have to do, it's something I want to do. If you would believe it, I'm actually very bad at putting my emotions into words, at least in a way that would make sense to other people and not just me lol

I've been putting my own well being first, then school, then the blogs, and then other things. My well being of course encompasses a lot of things so that's a pretty general description, but I think you get my point. I've been doing a lot better lately and even though the school stuff takes time and a lot of effort, I like doing it.

I appreciate you showing concern for me but I don't think you need to worry about me (thanks though, it means a lot). Just remember to take care of yourself as well, and I'm proud of you for making a change in your sleeping habits :D

[terrortwinz]

1. I don’t really reread books - I like savoring in that first time read feeling for… ever. But I will reread my favorite book “The Host” by Stephenie Meyer any time. But I don’t make much of a habit of it so I can’t say I’ve reread it more than, like, 3 times.

I am, however, a preschool teacher so I can read “Pete the Cat and his Four Groovy Buttons” and “Dragons Love Tacos” from memory (in my sleep!) because I read them all the time.

2. “The Host” -Stephenie Meyer, “Little Women” -Louisa May Alcott, “Hunger Games” series - Suzanne Collins, “Romeo and Juliet” - William Shakespeare. My #5 tends to fluctuate. Right now it’s “Conversation with Friends” by Sally Rooney.

3. That’s a great question because I know I’m aging out of my old reliable Young Adult. I’m flirting with Romance and Mystery, but good ol’ fashioned Fiction is calling to me at the moment.

4. The aforementioned sections but always the children’s books for anything worth exposing my kiddos too and lately I’m taking an interest in biographies as well as humor.

5. Barnes & Noble and Amazon are basically my only two options for new books. I do love perusing Half Price Bookstore when I’m in town. I’m 100% devoted to physical books only. Audiobooks are reserved for long car rides or really difficult old books I’m assigned to read for a class.

6. I’m on summer break and decided to detach from screens (it’s obvs going well) and I read “Mollys Game” by Molly Bloom, “Wishful Drinking” and “The Princess Diarist” by Carrie Fisher in the last few days. I’m trying to pick the next book to read and I’m being too picky again.

7. No. I started reading for pleasure in high school when I was assigned to read “Speak” by Laurie Halse Anderson and it moved me for a long time. Then shortly thereafter the Harry Potter movement took over and it was really cool to read alongside my mother each year one would come out. (But tbh, the enormity of the fan movement leaves a sour taste in my mouth so I’ve been trying to deconstruct and forget as much as I can so I can possibly enjoy a reread in the future.)

8. Are kid books a viable answer? Because it’s “It Looked Like Spilt Milk”. If not then I guess it was a school book I was assigned to read in elementary school. One of my early favorites was “Where the Red Ferns Grow”

9. I don’t know. When I have the time, dedication, and motivation. I read more when I’m invested in a book. I read less when I’m consumed in other things (a tv show, video games).

10. YES. I LOVE smutty books. My favorites mostly come from Mia Sheridan. She has a gift. There this two-fer and I love them both A LOT. They’re called “Becoming Calder” and “Finding Eden”. In the first one, they’re teens in a cult - Eden is a teen bride for a cult leader (gross) but she is enamored with Calder, a teen in the cult. They sneak off together and flirt and ponder what they’re going to do as she’s betrothed as is her duty. In the second one, it’s like 5-years later post events of the first book and UGH it’s gooooood. I love it.

11. I’m getting into biographies and memoirs. One that I think deserves more of a push is “You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey” by Amber Ruffin. It is full of little stories or essays about everyday racism and it’s poignant to me because the setting is in my hometown of Omaha so I know it well.

12. Yes! I think I mentioned “Where the Red Fern Grows” as one of the few school books that resonated with me. Read it in 6th grade. The other major one was “Speak” by Laurie Halse Anderson. I read it in 10th grade and it fucked me up. I realized there was a new section of books called the Young Adult and it never existed before and now it’s got stuff and it wasn’t NEARLY as pretentious as fiction books at the time seemed. I became a reader.

13. Yes, ma’am. I have no idea how to direct you to my profile but I am always looking for new “friends” to piggy back off of and get new recs!

14. NO. Only as a last resort out of desperation because I have no other way to mark the page. I’m a habitual receipt or straw wrapper bookmarker.

15. Refer back to 10 and 11.

16. Sadly only 4, and three of them were in the past three days. I’ve been haunted by “Conversations with Friends” for many months now and it made it hard to move on when I was still 😍😍😍 about that one. I did quick read a YA winter-themed books before I did a major bookshelf purge. It was meh.

17. I’m on this!! “Pete the Cat” (white shoes/groovy buttons/pizza party - all gems), “Dragons Love Tacos”, “Brown Bear, Brown Bear”, “Very Hungry Caterpillar” and “The Way I Am”

18. Generally no. The best I can do is like geography books or kids nonfiction fact books about animals. I can’t really get into historical books much.

19. Ummm I don’t know how to answer this. I tend to read books being turned into movie/tv projects because (the books are better always) it helps me find new things to read that largely won’t be a waste of my time. So while I do read popular books I also don’t? I can’t really answer this one fully.

20. I just need a better way of getting book recs other than books being adapted to the screen. I like a love story but lately I don’t want it being the whole story - I like the story to be largely about something else and the characters couldn’t help falling for each other during it. I like mystery too. A good thriller is fun. I like post-apocalyptic settings too. Lately I want to be challenged - “Convos with Friends” challenged how I view love and sex. “Such a fun age” helped me see other subtle forms of racism.

book asks:

book you’ve reread the most times?

top 5 books of all time?

what is your favourite genre?

what sections of a bookstore do you browse?

where do you buy books?

what books have you read in the last month?

is there a series/book that got you into reading?

what is the first book you remember reading yourself?

when do you tend to read most?

do you have a guilty fav?

what non-fiction books do you like if any?

did you enjoy any compulsory high school readings?

do you have a goodreads?

do you ever mark/dog ear books you own?

recommend and review a book.

how many books have you read this year?

top 5 children’s books?

do you like historical books? which time period?

most disliked popular books?

what are things you look for in a book?

[fmdhyeju]

restructuring task #3: wanted plots (+2 tracker points) feel free to message me first if any of these sound like they’d fit your muse or you can like the post, and i’ll come bother you tomorrow!

boom pow love — male-presenting, ‘90-95

your very typical ex-boyfriend plot. there’s no specific details that i have in mind, but hyeju’s not very different of a person even in a romantic relationship. a lot of the times, she acts like her boyfriend is just her best friend. she isn’t good with expressing her feelings and finds love confessions or anything considered sweet to be quite cringe-worthy. perhaps your muse thought the opposite and got tired of her looking like she was putting no effort into the relationship. or maybe you got bored of a romantic relationship looking no different from a platonic one. anything really works, and this doesn’t even have to end on a bad note because i hc that hyeju actually keeps in contact/stays friends with a lot of her exes because they end up ending on a “we were never meant to be in a relationship” kind of note. the age range is short on the younger side because hyeju has a tendency to not see those younger than her as romantic partners. very more likely to end up with those older than her or the same age

who? — anybody that debuted after lily, preferably those who debuted after 2015 but before that could work as well

hyeju is terrible when it comes to remembering people’s names and groups. you could tell her your name like four times before she finally remembers it and even then there’s a big chance she’ll butcher it. she’s that meme of “we love everybody in lily. members minah, minhee and hye....yoon”. like she’s just bad and there’s no excuse for it. perhaps your muse misunderstands this and thinks she’s a cold, intimidating senior. i’ve been told quite a bit that hyeju comes off intimidating at times, and she’s not really on a mission to correct that assumption tbh

mentorship — anybody that debuted after lily. however, before works if said muse wants tips on a specific skill!

with all the titles that come along with her position, hyeju’s quite a well-rounded idol. she’s participated in lily’s b-sides which means she has some kind of experience with songwriting. she’s the lead dancer and lead vocal which means she’s obviously somewhat talented in both aspects. has also choreographed some of her own solos before. she’s stated herself that she feels like a sort of triple threat because of how well-rounded she is. your muse might be someone who wants tips or wants to know how she manages all her time to have all these skills be at somewhat an above average level. hyeju’s not a great mentor, in my opinion, but she’s serious about her job and she’s been in the industry for close to a decade now so she knows how it works. if you ask for help, she’s not hesitant to offer it

[mxsmwndr]

ALL HONESTY I DIDN'T KNOW IF YOU WANTED PRE ZOM-Bz OR POST ZOM-Bz SO I DID BOTH LOL @theratunderthesea

—

PRE APOCALYPSE:

ETHAN'S LITTLE SISTER IS AMAZING AND SHE LOVES YOU!!!! Please let me have this because I'm in love with olderbrother!Ethan ok thx

Like lil sis will take your hand and drag you upstairs almost as soon as you step foot into the household

and Ethan gets JEALOUS but he refuses to show/acknowledge it because he loves his lil sis too much to be upset and it is precious

But basically you'll just spend the entire day upstairs with her on accident playing dress up and yea party and shit

Ethan pouts after, of course

But y'all quickly make up because he literally cannot stay mad at anyone especially you

And also his family loves you

And of course your fam loves him too

your dad/paternal figure tried so hard not too, but it was impossible because Ethan is literally PERFECT and had zero flaws and he’s so sweet and precious

But like back to school and all, you go to ALL of Ethan’s baseball games

Literally all of them, no exception

And if you can't make a game you'll make an excuse, like "I have a doctor's note, leT ME GO!!!" only to have teacher respond with "(Y/n) we've been over this, you cannot write yourself a pass to leave class early because you're 'Ethan's emotional support s/o'" "BUT MR/S TEACHERRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!

Oh also you always run into his arms after his games

And OH MY GOD Ethan blushes a hella lot

And if you kiss his cheek his face turns cherry red so you make a habit of surprising him with cheek kisses because Ethan is ADORABLE and SHY and WAY TOO PURE

But don’t get me wrong, he blushes when you hug him too

So you do it randomly bc again, HE IS ADORABLE and soft and shy and aidjdjdjdj omg

And y’all have movie nights together!!!!

It’s freaking adorable

Y’all just kinda cuddle on the couch and share a blanket while watching movies together

Cause Ethan would much rather stay in than go out tbh

And you love it

But the only problem is that he always falls asleep

Like even during scary movies or super cool action packed movies

ALSO UNRELATED BUT HE FELL ASLEEP EATING ONCE because you thought he could stay awake if he's eating but noooooooo the next thing you know he's snoring with a chip laying on his chin

And you obv took a pic

But wearing Ethan’s sweatshirts?!

Omg

His sweatshirts are SO comfy

And they smell like him so it's even betterrrrrrrrrr

And also since he's like 60000 feet tall you practically drown in them no matter what your height is and it's adorable

Um... what else?

Oh!

Ethan can cook kind of good lol

His specialty is mac and cheese

But his favorite thing to do is binge eat junk food that he bought with you in his living room

Or yours — he really just wants to cuddle on a couch with you so he’s not too picky

But yeah, Ethan is precious and you love him with your entire being

OMG YOUR FIRST KISs??

Ethan was SO hesitant

He held your cheek and whispered “can I kiss you?”

And you were like FUCK YES

It was so innocent omg

But on the contrary i feel like Ethan secretly has a dirty mind lol

Like I can imagine him laughing at some hidden meaning silently and no one notices except you and you’re like “wtf man plz just be normal for like 5 seconds”

But yeah. Ethan is all cuddles and blushes

DURING APOCALYPSE:

Oh wow

Poor babe has so much guilt, even though he couldn't do anything to save them all (family, friends, teammates, etc…)

And you remind him of this, of course, but Ethan is going through a phase of self hatred and it's rough for everyone

You're the only one who knows about it though

And maybe Harry because tbh he probably picked up on it

But that's all. Harry doesn't say anything about it, too, because it's not his place and he knows it

Anyways

You like to sneak junk food to Ethan

His eyes light up and he looks like a kid on Christmas Day

It's too cute to not do

He likes to cuddle

Sometimes he gets nightmares and will silently show up at your classroom door

No words are exchanged then, but you motion for him to lay next to you and before you know it you're big spooning your baby boy and he's snoring softly

So you smile to yourself and whisper an "I love you, Ethan" before falling asleep yourself

And you don't know it but he smiles too

And whispers “I love you too”

And then he falls asleep AGAIN while thinking of how lucky he is to have you

So yeah

Also, he promises to make a home run for you, and you can't wait to be there to witness it

Also mocking him playfully

Because again, this boy blushes WAY too easily

Um... I think that's all? Basically it's just innocent and precious and you both love it, though it would def be easier without the whole apocalypse ordeal

POST APOCALYPSE:

Everything is kind of slowed down now

Like Ethan is still hella guilty for not saving his friends (bc now he has even more friends he failed to save) but at least he has you right

Yea no

You’re great and all but Ethan is just SO mad at himself ok

So you take him outside one day

And he’s like wtf but you’re like “teach me how to play baseball” bc he promised a while back when y’all stayed in that school together

And so he does

But he is still hella confused

And you’re not to great but that’s okay because Ethan is laughing and smiling and actually looks like he’s his age instead of older like he normally does

And so it’s a tradition to play baseball together when y’all have a break

But that doesn’t mean Ethan doesn’t have bad days

But you’re there for him, and that’s all that matters

Also there’s lots of freaking cuddles omg

And sleeping together? Like not sexually but just literally sleeping because Ethan is so warm all the time he’s like a heated blanket and pillow and everything you need/want

And y’all still sneak junk foods to each other but it’s mostly you so basically you still sneak junk foods to Ethan

And it’s all good

So you’ll do this a lot when Ethan’s not feeling his best

But yeah. Y’all are precious. Like each other’s light in the dark world you live in

And of course he makes that home run he promised lol

[happytroopers]

I LOVE your writing and these little ask games , so, for my beloved Techie Pie (If you're still taking requests for this one):

Fears/phobias

Bad or petty habits

Grudges and vendettas

What gets them flustered

Ingrained habits/forces of habit

Side not I love his lil HUD

Fears/ Phobias

-Just in general, things he doesn't understand makes him uneasy. Especially when he can't even try to learn about them.

-He'll never admit it but The Force™️ kinda creeps him out- he knows everything available to him about midichlorians but like, the way midichlorians can interact with external forces, telekinesis, precognition, subtle mind control, and maker knows what else?? no thanks

-read the mission briefings about the night sisters and immediately put Dathomir on his DNI list.

-Asajj is his worst nightmare

-That being said he's very good at working through these fears because the more he works through them, the more he learns, and therefore the fear lessens.

-this also comes from the pressure of being the 'brains' of his squad, they rely on him to know everything, so he's always worried that one day he won't know something and it might result in his brothers being injured for worse

Bad or Petty habits:

-When he doesn't have his gloves on I feel like he's a nail biter (me? self projecting? never.)

-bad habit of taking things apart just to see how they work, then once he knows, losing interest and not putting them back together

-I have this running head canon that the Havoc Marauder had a medical droid. past tense. Tech took it apart one night when he couldn't sleep and has never gotten around to putting it back together.

-Along with the taking things apart, he'll keep spare parts around. And not in the 'I can logically use this again' but in the compulsive 'I can't throw away this part that only fits on this one kind of thing bc what if by chance I need it again someday' so he ends up a borderline hoarder of scrap metal, circuits, and tools.

-he's always the one to finish the Caf but not start another pot

-post war when they're not always eating rations, he's the WORST about eating other peoples leftovers and he's doesn't feel bad about it

-When someone manages to prove him wrong, he's like a lil petty towards that person until he feels as if he's intellectually one upped them again

Grudges/ Vendettas:

- more of a petty grudge but he keeps a running tab of all the stuff Wrecker has broken. Brings it up every time he needs Wrecker to doo something he doesn't want to.

-Obvs the despite "understanding" Crosshair, still holds a grudge that the sniper couldn't push through his program to stay with them- ESP after they escaped the downfall of Kamino

-other than that, I feel like Tech is kind of a go with the flow kinda guy. No use in holding too many grudges, wasted mental energy and this guy is many thoughts head full 24/7

What gets them flustered:

-if the object of his affection has any sort of physical contact? red in the face almost instantly

-If the object of his affection deliberately and obviously complimented him (like we're talking OBVI OBVI bc despite his big brain nature, he can be a bit obtuse with emotions), I just think he'd immediately go all mushy

-BUT OH BOY IF THE BJECT OF HIS AFFECTION ENGAGED WITH HIS INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATIONS, AND LIKE KEPT UP AND SHOWED GENUINE INTEREST... ohhh boy I don't even think he'd know what to do with himself. He'd say something smart thinking no one would answer him, but then you would answer him with even a little enthusiasm. And like his brain just goes ➿➿➿ and system reboots before he can managed a stuttered rebuttal.

-honestly I really think Tech would be on the shyer side with any romantic interest. Well, shy is the wrong word- less shy, more purposefully pretending not to have feelings- but secretly gets very flustered at most things you/the object of his affection does

Forces of Habit/Ingrained Habits:

-even if it's not his responsibility, any time they go to a new planet or environment he does all the research

-Even when Echo or anyone else has done preflight checks or system repairs, he'll always go behind them and double check them

-as we know, worst habit of thinking things he knows are common knowledge

-has a lot of just military habits he can't quite shake

[prinxlyart]

Do you have any camileda headcanons you'd be willing to share?

ÒωÓ D O I E V E R

Camilia loves her job at the hospital. When they first start dating (after a stable portal is made obvs), she just continues to do her daily thing. She worked hard for that medical degree damnit!!! But every single day after work she gathers up whatever stuff she needs to bring over to the demon realm and hops on over and just face plants on Eda’s couch. She has sometimes been so tired she’s accidentally falllen on top of King while he was napping. Whenever Luz sees her exhausted like this, she picks back up her old habit of karate chopping her moms back to help her relax (because that’s how they do it in cartoons). It helps her get out her ADHD energy by keeping her hands busy while she tells her mom about her day. Eda will usually take a seat on the other couch or an armchair and also listen in for a minute before removing Camilia’s glasses and hair tie to help her be more comfortable before getting up to go make dinner. Camilia wouldn’t admit it in the first few months of them dating, but that’s her favorite part of every day.

Camilia’s come home from work sometimes to see Eda in her human disguise and a nicer-than-usual outfit waiting for her in her porch and she knows Eda’s planned some kind of date for them for the night. It always warms her heart whenever she sees her do this because sometimes she needs some spontaneity in her life. Goodness knows she can’t rely on Luz to provide that for her all the time when she’s in the demon realm.

On that same note, there are some days where she walks up to Eda and buries her face into Eda’s neck and just hugs her because it was a really long/bad day and Eda just holds her for a while. Eda knows Camilia has some bad days and never holds it against her. Whenever she isn’t up to a night out, Eda just leads her inside and takes care of her, taking her glasses off and her bun out and telling her to relax on the couch and tell her about her day. Camilia has only cried once during these little calm-down sessions because she was so overwhelmed with how much she loves this woman; none of her previous relationships treated her like this. Eda finds herself making tea in the kitchen usually, sometimes dinner if she’s familiar enough with the ingredients (or if it’s something she can pop into her favorite human device: the microwave. She’ll never understand how that little box works but she loves it).

One days where their schedules don’t match up (sometimes Eda is at her human collectibles stand or delivering potions later than she expects) Camilia will try her best to make meals out of whatever Eda has in her kitchen. She and Eda have gone over what stuff is food and what stuff is potion ingredients v thoroughly, but sometimes she can’t remember and it limits her options. At that point she just hops back over to her own house in the human realm and whips up some chapea/chambre (@ my Dominican followers; is there a “right” word? Does it matter? I’ve read it just depends on what part of the country you’re from?). By the time she gets back to the Owl House, Eda’s walking through the front door and looks nearly dead on her feet and immediately perks up the moment she smells Camilia’s cooking. Eda finds it hard to admit out loud for the first several months that they’re dating that coming home to Camilia and her cooking is nothing short of paradise; she usually expresses her gratitude by engulfing Camilia in big sweeping hugs and peppering her face in kisses before they sit down to eat.

On THAT note - Luz can smell her mother’s cooking from a mile away and will barrel down anything in her way if it means she gets to eat her mom’s cooking. She has actually broken walls in the past from how hard she swings doors open. She’s dragged all her friends back to the Owl House on several occasions to try her mom’s food (they all love it) and their evenings are filled with so much laughter and love and warm food and full bellies; Eda will sometimes become strangely quiet during these moments. Once everyone’s gone home and she’s gone to bed she’ll be lying awake in her nest, staring at the ceiling and realize oh, that’s what a family is like. It makes her more emotional than she realizes and she’ll find herself either crying (happy tears) or kicking around like an excited little kid and stifling her own squeals of joy. She hates admitting to being a giant sap, but she’s finding that ever since Luz came into her life, she doesn’t actually mind that much.

Sometimes Eda will have nightmares that keep her from going back to sleep. Whenever that happens, she’ll leave a note for Luz on the kitchen table letting her know where she is before sneaking over to the human realm in the dead of night. The first few times she did this, she had to find Camilia’s bedroom window and toss pebbles at it to wake her up, but she’s definitely been given a house key by now (Camilia was beside herself at the time; she hadn’t given a partner a key to her home in decades and for some reason there was a thrill in giving this to Eda.). Eda will quietly enter the house and tiptoe upstairs and just kinda slip into bed behind Camilia and wrap her arms around her waist and put her forehead against Camilia’s back and just listen to her breathe. Sometimes Camilia wakes up and (the first few times this happened she was scared shitless and nearly broke Eda’s nose. She’s learned to expect it by now) she’ll turn over and wrap her arms around Eda and brush her fingers through the front of her hair. It only takes a few minutes for Eda to feel at ease enough to fall right back asleep as if nothing had ever happened.

They love dancing. They don’t ever go out anywhere to dance, they’ll usually just dance in the living room or kitchen. If they have the radio going in the kitchen while they’re waking up in the morning, they’ll dance around each other as they go about their morning routines. This always ends up with them dancing together and laughing, usually because one of them accidentally knocked the other in the counter or the table. If Luz is staying at a friend’s house, Eda will set up her gramophone and put on some records they can slow dance to. They just like being able to be in each other’s space. No kisses needed (always welcome, but not always needed), they just love the intimacy of simply existing with one another in those moments.

I could go on but I’m struggling with whether or not they decide to actually get married. Would they get married in the human realm? Would Camilia leave her job to go live in the Boiling Isles with her daughter and her girlfriend? Would they even care to make their relationship recognized by legal documentation? Part of them would like to, for sure, but it’s not like...A necessity? Eda certainly has her human ID but I don’t know if she’s ever forged any American legal identification documents (birth certificate/passport). Camilia would never forge an identity for herself in the Boiling Isles, but she’s certainly not like. A resident. She and Luz are undocumented citizens of Bonesborough but literally no one cares.

Maybe Luz would pull something like Steven universe and just...throw them a wedding anyway because MOM PARTY!!!!! No legal documents, just a celebration with all their family and friends. We don’t know what Luz’s extended family relations look like; I have no idea if Camilia has any family she’d be leaving behind in the Human Realm or if everything she loves is living in the Demon Realm.

Far too many variables for this post anyway, maybe another post if y’all are interested in seeing more 🤷🏻‍♀️

[viterbofangirllovestheuntamed]

ship ask game: wangxian, lan xichen/jin guangyao, lan yi/baoshan sanren

Thanks, anon! Appreciate the ask!

WangXian - SHIP IT!

I mean, it's a classic!

What made you ship it? *motions to all 50 CQL episodes* Seriously, though, for all the censorship issues, I really like how the series was forced to dig a little deeper into their relationship since they couldn't rely on obvious horniness. The sense of devotion in both of them is so strong, practically from the get-go!

What are your favorite things about the ship? Oddly enough, my favorite thing is their neurodivergent symbiosis! I'm totally stealing from someone else's post/ observations, but Lan Wangji helps Wei Wuxian by reminding him or helping him both with his daily physical needs (eating, sleeping, etc.) and by giving him an opportunity to let the ADHD genius hyperfixate and stream-of-consciousness ramble to help process his thoughts. In turn, Wei Wuxian learns of Lan Wangji's autism-coded quirks so that the latter isn't constantly having to explain himself. He doesn't demand that Lan Zhan be different, instead rejoicing in his differences. He also happily takes the burden of speech (and occasionally providing a distraction) for his introverted and sensitive soulmate!

Is there an unpopular opinion you have on your ship? I think their actions are a bit selfish at the end of the book. Like, yes, y'all have worked your asses off for your happy ending, but like... Lan Wangji, your brother has been helping and supporting you all your damned life are you really just gonna peace out on him?!

XiYao - DON'T SHIP IT!

OKAY HEAR ME OUT.

Why don’t you ship it? YaoYao is constantly trying to prove himself better than others think him, is trying to constantly prove that he has a place among the upper echelons. I think that pairing up with the Chancellor of the Morning Sun™ only makes him ramp up those pressures on himself as he tries to prove himself worthy of breathing the same air as Lan Xichen... or at least lie/pretend that he is a better person than he really is because otherwise he thinks Xichen would dump him in disgrace. I really liked his romance with Qin Su (before the reveal, obvs), and while both she and Lan Xichen saw the worthiness in YaoYao before he had climbed his way to the top of the ladder, Qin Su's status- while still a genteel lady- would not incite the same level of self-consciousness. Not to mention that she seriously FOUGHT for the relationship, even to the point of damaging her own reputation. Lan Xichen, with his sect riding on his shoulder, just can’t do that, and YaoYao needs someone to fight and flip the bird at the cultivation world for his sake. And on Lan Xichen's part... sorry, but I truly think that sensitive-but-stalwart Nie Mingjue was his best chance for happiness. Lan Xichen is a people-pleaser and has an intense dislike for conflict, going to great lengths to avoid it. YaoYao's own people-pleasing encourages these bad habits or even bring out the worst of them. YaoYao, for better or for worse, is a manipulator (I am one too, so I say it as a fact and not a criticism) and it's all too easy for him to keep Lan Xichen from experiencing pain or discomfort... even when he needs to experience them to grow.

What would have made you like it? The thing is, because of the above reasons, I don't know if anything could make me like it without altering their personalities. I guess the closest thing would be to throw Nie Mingjue into there and make them a throuple... but only if all of them are emotionally healthy and capable of true trust.

Despite not shipping it, do you have anything positive to say about it? I think that their ship is absolutely necessary for the sake of the story and tragic foils/parallels, but because it's a bad relationship that I think is not good for both of them. It's a truly, truly fascinating dynamic, and I do like watching it! I just don't think it's healthy.

Lan Yi/Baoshan Sanren - *shrugs*

I mean...

Why don’t you ship it? I'm not particularly hostile to it or anything, there's just not a lot there to work with. CQL gave us some little hints, but neither their personalities or their backstory are fleshed out enough to give me yea-or-nay vibes.

What would have made you like it? A sumptuously-costumed 50-episode series with gripping emotional storytelling and phenomenal acting? It worked for WangXian...

Despite not shipping it, do you have anything positive to say about it? They're two powerful and badass girlbosses; relationships have definitely been built on worse!

[sinkix]

♡ Haikyuu!!│Boys as your Roommate HC’s Pt.2│Ft. Kuroo, Bokuto, Kenma & Kageyama ♡

Since the last one did well I decided to do another 2am shit-post consisting of my bby HQ bois as your roommate so I’m v sorry if it’s messy and seems like rambling but honestly what did u expect. <(￣︶￣)> The more I write these the more I just want to summon satan and make them come to life man I love them sm.

You can find Pt. 1 here

E N J O Y ~ <3

◃:✮.❃⭒ ◃:✮.❃⭒ ◃:✮.❃⭒ ◃:✮.❃⭒

Kuroo:

So. Damn. Annoying

But in like, the best way possible??

Constantly teases and irritates you while cooking or when it’s your turn to do the chores.

“(Y/N)-kuuun I think you missed a spot”

Proceeds to show swabbed finger with the tiniest speck of dust on it with the biggest shit eating grin he can muster

You have constant competitions who can clean more thoroughly and rip into each other as a result.

I mean there’s worse things to compete over I suppose??

He likes to make it a habit of waking you up by throwing his HUGE ASS BODY ON TO THE BED IF YOU OVERSLEEP.

WHOLE BED JUST CREAKS AND DIPS UNDER HIS WEIGHT.

Wraps his arm around you and gives amazing cuddles tho so its worth it

Borderline suffocating you though just so you get up.

Also, don’t wake Kuroo when he’s had only a few hours rest

just, don’t. If you value your safety.

Last time you tried to haul him out of bed in this state he threw a pillow at you and BITCH WENT TO GRAB THE ALARM CLOCK NEXT but u dashed out the room before he could lob it. 

Speaking of which, pillow fights. 

so many.

 Y’all are always throwing random stuff at each other just to startle one another

You both make a conscious effort NOT to aim for the head though so I guess its ok???

The aroma of coffee always greets you in the morning and it’s become hella comforting since you’ve just come to associate that smell with him.

His bed head is 1000x more extreme in the morning which you tease him relentlessly for and def has bags under his eyes but it looks cute.

sleep deprivation but make it chic.

He is much more of a night owl i’m making it canon idc - however usually has to sleep early due to club activities starting first thing in the morning.

He wakes up especially early because he knows he not only has to haul himself up at an ungodly hour but Kenma as well since he NEVER gets up on time otherwise.

Kenma lives a few blocks down from you guys and you often kick it as a three.

Sometimes he stays over just to save the extra effort of Kuroo going to his place.

It’s always v chill with the three of you as you get on really well and just play mario kart till 2am.

which again, big mistake. They end up nearly being late to practise so it’s kinda counter productive lmao

worth it though.

Kuroo is a salty loser js and will definitely wave his arms in front of you or shove his ass in your face to block the screen so he can overtake you.

Sometimes forces you to go on early morning runs with him but it’s actually really nice since you watch the sunrise together while sitting for a water break in an empty field

Almost poetic if it wasn’t for the constant teasing and bickering like an old married couple.

Kenma is VERY thankful you have become his new victim for those morning run routines.

Bokuto:

SCREAMS FROM THE ROOFTOPS EVERY DAY

MY GOD

Actually pretty quiet in the morning?? Like the lil owl is just waking up so he usually just mumbles a good-morning and rubs his eyes its so damn cute

Usually pretty good about getting up on time but some days he needs a kick up the backside to get him out of bed.

He fully made you drag him out of the covers once before he was even willing to entertain the idea of getting up.

those 30 seconds felt like a 30 minute workout since he is so HEAVY.

I feel sorry for the neighbours on that day tbh

“Bokuto-san wake up.” 

“NNNgg-aaagGGHHHHH AGGAAASHIII”

“It’s (Y/N) you dumbass G E T U P”

You aren’t safe for long though because ONCE HE’S AWAKE HOMEBOY IS RARING TO GO.

Frequently makes y’all pancakes for breakfast with a frilly pink ‘best chef’ apron on and it’s fucking hysterical. 

actually has several aprons and one of them has a stock image of abs printed onto the front.

Pancakes is the only thing Bokuto is competent at so don’t expect anything else without the kitchen combusting

His pancakes are SO damn good tho like bitch who taught you to flip like dat.

Does a lil shimmy with his body and throws it back each time he flips so it basically aggregates as a performance too since hes so extra

One time the pancake landed on the floor and he was in emo mode for a whole day LMAOOO

boy was spiking while mourning the fallen soldier.

Akaashi was so confused as to why he walked into practise in such a solemn mood.

had to stifle his laughter once you told him the reason.

For some reason you have this tradition to play board games on a Friday night

Obvs you have to let him win and be a cocky ass bc otherwise he will be sad until the next morning.

sis will be in a slump while brushing his teeth over losing a game of monopoly.

Doesn’t expect you to come to practise with him but is always grinning like a dork the whole way there when you accompany him.

His game is always A1 on those days so Akaashi is eternally grateful.

Often tries to make you go to the gym with him SINCE Y’ALL BEST BELIEVE BOKUTO BABY AIN’T SKIPPIN LEG DAY.

Actually a really good workout partner though, he’s so hype and encouraging.

Grocery shopping is a nightmare, y’all come back with 3x as much as what was on the list while Bokuto just looks really sheepish and guilty like a dog who shredded up the sofa.

Kageyama:

Your conversations are very minimal at first until he adjusts to living with you.

Hella private with his living space and his bedroom

You always suspected he’s got some like weird alien cult meeting from Fiji going on in there with how shady he acts sometimes.

After a while though he’s pretty chill and doesn’t mind TOO much when you invade his personal space or go through his stuff.

I’d still be careful though an angry Kags is not a pleasant one.

He’s a minimalist, so if you ever get decorating done it’s usually you that takes the reigns since as long as it’s got a roof, a stove, a bathroom and a bed he could literally not give a fuck.

Unexpectedly easy to please over the smallest things, make a meal for him after a long day of practise and it’ll be hard for him to contain an appreciative smile.

Do NOT pull him up on it though bc he will get defensive 

just embrace it bro you won’t see it often.

V good at getting up on time and hella quiet in the morning when going about his routine, it’s easy to forget he’s in the house a times so at least he’s considerate.

Honestly doesn’t care whether you come to practise or not it makes no difference to him. Though the closer you both get he will sometimes wait for the moment you walk through the door and mentally slap himself for doing so.

Sometimes plays music in his room but it’s always really quiet and hard to decipher unless you press your ear up against the door.

The boi plays some BOPS though which is really surprising???

Usually takes charge of stuff like grocery shopping, cleaning etc. 

Control freak™️ here to assist your household services. 

He’s pretty dense though with these matters and needs some guidance at times lmao

Will not get the item on your list unless you CLEARLY SPECIFY AND INCLUDE THE WHOLE DAMN TITLE OF THE ITEM

You’re surprised he doesn’t request you illustrate the fucking bar code.

In the end you sometimes end up caving and just either going with him or going in his place.

Once he warms up to you y’all like cracking little jokes at each other and pulling one another’s leg.

if you get up even the slightest bit late he’ll just throw a lil “good afternoon” with a smirk on his face.

Sometimes he will come and chill with you on the couch to binge watch shows and it’s just a really relaxed atmosphere.

has really good taste in movies and series??

Honestly just a hella respectful roommate as long as you respect him and his privacy in return.

You once stuck his knee-pads in the washing machine on a high temp and they came out ready to fit a 6 year old.

You still suspect he holds a grudge to this day.

He also tried to give them to Hinata and never have you seen him more genuinely offended lmao.

Kenma:

The pair of you always end up oversleeping and it’s a genuine problem ur the definition of a disaster duo.

If it wasn’t for Kuroo strolling into your sleeping quarters most mornings you guys would sleep till the suns ready to set again.

Bless up Kuroo.

Constant video game marathons and y’all always compete to top each others time

It’s basically just the speed-run side of YouTube but under one roof.

Cannot and will not cook he is too LAZY for that.

Only thing he will do is stick an apple pie in the oven.

He’s courteous though he leaves you like,,, a 1/8th slice

smh.

You mostly get take-out or you’re the one that ends up cooking.

Veeryyyyy quiet, only noise in the household is the occasional snicker or lil conversation.

he has such a soothing voice hnnnnnnnnnggggg

The only time it’s remotely loud is when you play video games but even then the volume is quite low.

You usually end up crashing in his room from playing games till the crack of dawn and Kuroo frequently scolds the two of you.

you don’t listen though lmao.

For some reason you both end up in a hugging position when you wake up and neither of you have addressed it.

Except for the sus side eye look Kuroo gives the pair of you when he finds you like this.

He knows if he mentions it you’ll both infiltrate his apartment and choke him out with a console cable lololol.

You order most of your groceries online bc Kenma’s social anxiety will skyrocket and not allow him to be in a store full of more than 10 people, poor bby.

It works out for you too since why tf go there when you can have it delivered to your door.

You often binge watch anime together and he has GREAT taste mind you.

You made him watch a romance anime once and he secretly enjoyed it.

Since then he will very awkwardly request to watch them occasionally and you can’t help but smile.

The only time you clean is when you have to, like bins brimming with trash before you decide to take them out.

You accidentally broke his fav controller once and he didn’t talk to you for a week LMAO.

Still handed you one to play split-screen though so you knew he wasn’t entirely resentful.

[inkykeiji]

hi clari! i don't wanna sound rude or anything here buut that anon was so so insensitive. like do they know that you've been having a hard time?? i'm sorry i don't wanna be that person that big deals everything but i just can't stand it when anons demand smthng to a writer just bcs "they haven't been doing anything" like i've seen so many writers go bcs they feel pressured and bcs anons who keep asking and asking when are they going to post, when are they gonna write this or that, when etc. i'm sorry u have to deal with this anons. you don't deserve it. you have been dealing with problems these past few weeks(?)/days(?) and i just wanna make it all go away. this anon doesn't know how much effort you put into answering every little ask you got sent. pls bb, never apologize for smthng that you can't do right away. this blog is really not your top priority. you have a life outside tumblr and i don't want you getting stressed just bcs some anon can't search the tags. you don't have to do the masterlist right away, i know how hard it is to link everything. pls clari you don't owe us anything. you know i admire you so much for being patient with us. i'm really sorry for making this a big deal. pls get some rest first, do the things that you need to do(not this blog), sleep, eat or shower if you need to.

please my sweet, precious anon i love and appreciate you so much!!! <33333

i read that ask that same way the first time when i just kinda blazed through it quickly; but then i reread it slower and noticed that they actually said ‘you haven’t been doing that as much lately’ as in you haven’t been adding things to your masterlist as often/as quick as you used to (or at least this is how i’m interpreting it!) and they’re right! it’s a bad habit i’ve fallen into that i’d like to correct. also, tone can be very difficult to read over text!!! i think their last sentence, where they specified that they aren’t rushing me but simply asking me to add it to the masterlist asap once it’s posted so they can find it easily, indicates that they didn’t intend for the ask to come off in any way rude or insensitive, and thanks to that sentence, it didn’t!! <33 (putting the rest under a read more bcoz this is getting long hehehe and it’s just me rambling about how much i love u and interpreting tone over text)

tone can be kinda funny like my mom, for example, who is one of the loveliest angels i have ever had the pleasure of encountering, is a businesswoman and obv much older than i am, so she TEXTS like a businesswoman: ‘would you kindly remember to take the pizza dough out of the fridge? thanks.’ or ‘i am requesting that you kindly empty the dishwasher for me before i arrive home from work.’ — to us in this generation, these texts come off sounding passive aggressive lmaooooo but because she’s my mom, i know what tone she’s actually using and what her true intentions are.

this is something i had to remind myself of often when i began working, because my clients were much older than i am and they send emails in a very blunt manner—which, to them, comes off sounding normal, friendly, and polite, but to me & most people from my generation comes off sounding cold and condescending. i actually had one guy concerned with my use of exclamation points; which, to me, makes me sound friendly and excited (periods feel so harsh!!!! tho i wasn’t sending business emails with a thousand exclamation points hehehehe just one or two) but to him made him worried i was upset, yelling, or rushed. anyway i’m just rambling now but it’s very interesting to think about!!

but either way, i really really appreciate this message babie <33333 you’re such an absolute sweetheart and i love you lots!!!! you’re totally right in everything you said pertaining to people who actually send messages like that and i agree!!! rest assured that any time i get a message similar to what you’re talking about i just delete it (and if it’s really rude i block the anon as well). this blog means the world to me though and believe it or not it truly is ONE of my top priorities because it is so important to me, but i know you know how special it is to me, and i understand where you’re coming from/what you meant completely and totally!!!! i appreciate you more than words could tell you my sweet sweet anon <3 thank you so much for this message bb ily ♡(˃͈ દ ˂͈ ༶ )

[stay-neurotic]

stolen from @themysticgay :)

Name/Nickname: rachael/rach

Gender: *ferengi voice* fe-male

Star Sign: aquarius

Height: 5′4″

Time: six pm

Favourite Band: king gizzard and the lizard wizard, baby

Favourite Solo Artist: devin townsend

Song Stuck in my head: it’s fucking Faith of the Heart lmao

Last Movie: white christmas

Last TV Show: enterprise

When did i create this blog: fucking 2011. nine years ago. jesus.

What did i last google: “coochy coo” okay. i wanted to tell my friend to give the baby they’re looking after a coochy coo from me. but i spelled it “coochie” out of habit at first and had to google the correct spelling to make sure i did not make some Unfortunate Implications

Other Blogs: @vorta-whore where i post my fics. @stayneurotic from the one time i wanted my blog to be private b/c of some drama but then only like 5 people followed me there so i gave up lol. sometimes i vent stuff there when i’m feeling angsty. @neuroticramblings which was like, for an RP i did with my fiance about our OC faun/satyr pairing a few years ago. and @sisterastoria which is from my ghost (the band) RP days. i ran a pretty popular askblog for papa emeritus iii back then too, but i went through a real bad breakup and handed it off to a friend cause i couldn’t keep up with it anymore.

Do i get asks?: yes! but not enough!

Why i chose my URL: from a quote i like. it’s really just a more eloquent yolo: “Stay neurotic. Stay frustrated. Stay emotional. Stay excited. Your life is happening.” i have a complicated relationship with my own emotions and neuropathy and it’s just comforting sometimes to remind myself it’s ok to be Not Perfect and let myself feel things openly.

Average hours of sleep: NOT A LOT LOL. maybe 6. i stay up way too late nowadays.

Lucky Number: 64 which i’m sure is a popular one

Instruments: none, but i’ve always wanted to learn to play drums.

What i am wearing: grey & black pajamas and a grey cami. plus a comforter around my shoulders which really ties the whole look together.

Dream Job: author/novelist ;_;

Dream Trip: i have said this before but i REALLY wanna go to colorado to the red rocks ampitheatre to see king gizzard do their three-hour marathon set......barring that though i can point to the honeymoon we were supposed to go on last month which has been indefinitely postponed lol. flying to california, staying in san diego for a few days, hitting up the zoo and all the dope shops and doing some horseback tours and getting cbd massages and room service n shit. and then a few days in an air bnb cabin in the forest, just the two of us.

Favourite Food: potatoes!!!!! in any form

Favourite Song: oh man. i don’t have just one. let’s just say it’s crumbling castle right now because that song is 10 min long and i have never ever ever fucking skipped it in my life

Last Book I read: warpath.......dont even wanna get into this again...............but i will say. puttin a jem’hadar elder who’s kind of awakening to his brainwashing and havin a wee mental breakdown because of it, on a ship alone for hours w/ a hostage who’s like, a younger woman and she’s smart enough to play it cool while planning a badass escape even though she’s obviously terrified of him, but things escalate until he ends up like, backhanding her and then later on chokes her and hangs her from the ceiling by her wrists and gets real close to her face to taunt her and whispers in her ear while shrouded and shit........god bless

Top 3 Universes i want to live in: s t a r t r e k, uhhh, pokemon obv, and...can i say star trek again

too lazy to tag. anyone who wants to do it, do it!!

[floralege]

ship meme thing for allllllla our ships xoxo orumad

omg  the  whole  SQUAD  let’s  fuckin  DO  THIS  !!!   @orumad

who is the most affectionate ?

cilla  and  daisy  are  EXTREMELY  affectionate,  they  just  love  holding  hands,  kissing,  just  being  close.  mick  loves  having  his  arm  around  del’s  waist,  and  he  gets  progressively  more  affectionate  as  the  drinks  go  around.  pru  is  affectionate  with  bee  in  a  very  Horny  Girl  way  24  /  7  so  her  affection  actually  becomes  very  sweet  when  she’s  drunk  /  high.  we’re  not  at  all  surprised  that  caia  and  lauren  are  the  queens  of  affection,  but  mostly  to  each  other.

big spoon  /  little spoon ?

considering  that  she’s  a  vampire,  elliot  needs  SOMETHING  to  feel  like  a  Big  Man  (  ugh,  boys  )  so  he’s  def  got  big  spoon  energy.  liam’s  big  spoon,  but  he’s  always  poking  fern’s  back.  romy  is  big  spoon  for  molly,  but  that’s  probably  an  ego  thing  because  she  def  bottoms.  WHY  am  i  soft  about  duffy  platonically  cuddling  vee  their  whole  lives  until  one  day  it  doesn’t  feel  Very  Friendly  ?  big  soft.

favorite non - sexual activity ?

hunting  sport  (  re:  stupid  humans  )  for  gid  and  rome,  but  at  some  point,  that  turns  a  lil  sexual.  before  he  got  swept  up  into  work,  grady  loved  watching  tracy / hepburn  films  with  cecile.  liam  and  fern  genuinely  loving  jamming  and  shit  talking  together,  cilla  and  henry  love  spontaneous  date  nights,  emmy  and  dom  drink  and  plot  together  that’s  almost  foreplay.  emile  and  marilyn  taunt  each  other  mercilessly,  but  they  really  do  enjoy  getting  to know  one  another  without  that  pressure.  camille  and  emile  are  the  masters of  non  sexual  intimacy,  so  they’ll  just  stare  at  the  sky  or  make  more  awful  bets  with  one  another.

who is most likely to carry the other ?

Big  Ivor  carries  Little  Cecile  and  yes,  we  love  it  !  dusty  probably  carries  vee  and  lucas  around  constantly.  in  a  sad  way,  molly’s  probably  carried  romy  out  of  many  bars  :(  johnny  drags  cam’s  tiny  ass  out  of  clubs,  sadie  and  del  are  both  going  Through  It  so  they  carry  each  other  out  of  many  los  angeles  night  clubs  where  they’ve  started  shit  and  don’t  want  to  deal  with  it.

what is their favorite feature of their partner’s ?

gideon  fully  believes  that  rome  is  the  most  beautiful  creation  of  all  time,  though  he’d  fuck  himself  with  a  chainsaw  before  ever  acknowledging  it  aloud.  hannah  is  genuinely  attracted  to  freddie’s  inherent  goodness  and  idk,  probably  feels  some  connection  with  that  sort  of  brokenness,  too.   pru  loves  bee’s  nose  and  will  do  the  bradley  cooper  nose  touch  thing  from  a  star  is  born  when  she’s  drunk,  probs  to  bee’s  annoyance.  jack  literally  believes  is  kimber  is  SO  fucking  cute  and  wonderful,  it  aches  her.  mick  is  obvs  taken  with  the  eyes  AND  the  boobs.  call   it  fucked,  but  emmy  loves  when  dom  goes  ice  cold  on  someone  ---  just  not  HER.

what’s the first thing that changes when they realize they have feelings for the other ?

johnny  and  cameron  likely  bickered  more  often  and  tbh,  i  feel  like  one  mick  realized  he  had  legit  feelings  for  delphine,  he  acted  super  weird  and  the  whole  family  noticed.  fern  was  probably  very  gentle  about  it  but  liam  went  full  tf  is  up  with  you,  kid  ?  cameron  and  freddie  always  inherently  had  feelings  for  one  another,  so  it  was  just  there  from  the  get  go.  

nicknames  ?  and  if  so,  how  did  they  originate  ?

most  of  the  nicknames  are  just  ones  everyone  sort  of  had  growing  up  ?  pru,  bee,  vee,  mickey,  duffy,  del,  etc.  like,  i  don’t  know  if  any  nicknames  are  singular  to  any  particular  ship  tbh  they’re  free  for  everyone.

who worries the most ?

fern  worries  about  liam  more  than  she  lets  on�� and  it’s  probably  her  inner  saboteur  that  has  her  cope  with  that  by  drinking  with  ethan.  gideon  worries  about  lauren  CONSTANTLY,  because  he’d  legit  die  if  anything  happened  to  her  or  caia.  he  doesn’t  worry  about  rome  necessarily,  but  he  gets  wind  of  her  endeavors  without  him  and  hopes  she’s  staying  safe.  jack  wonders  if  she’s  going  to  fall  into  old  habits  the  longer  she’s  around  pru,  del,  and  co.,  so  she’s  worried  about  disappointing  /  hurting  kimber  because  of  that.  arlo  knows  coco  has  her  shit  together,  but  he  can’t  help  but  worry  !!!  she  doesn’t  need  his  concern  and  he  knows  she  can  handle  herself  but  he  does  !!  want  to  help  !!

who remembers what the other one always orders at a restaurant ?

bee  probably  remembers  the  food  at  fancy  restaurants  that  don’t  make  pru gag,  so  she  always  reminds  her  what  to  get  ;  dom  can  be  upsettingly  charming  when  he  remembers  what  daisy’s  favorite  dessert  is,  and  she’s  never  convincing  when  she  pretends  to  be  annoyed  that  he’s  already  ordered  it.  on  the  flip  side,  emmy’s  known  dom’s  drink  order  since  they  were  sixteen.  grady  remembers  the  gist  of  cecile’s  favorite,  but  ivor’s  always  the  one  who  rushes  to  the  kitchen  to  let  the  chef  know  exactly  what  her  preference  is.  simon  has  em’s  thai  takeout  order  MEMORIZED.

who tops ?

shocked  to  learn  that  bee  wasn’t  kidding  about  the  occasional  topping  !  though  daphne  def  topped  her.  mick  physically  tops,  del  does  it  emotionally.  molly  tops  romy  which  is  amazing  for  their  height  difference,  and  olivia  and  esme  def  battle  it  out  every  time,  LOVE  that  for  them.

who initiates kisses ?

cilla  is  big  on  kissing  often,  so  henry  tends  to  arrive  at  parties  with  some  trace  of  her  lipstick  on  him  every  time.  with  everything  going  on  in  the  press,  dom  and  emmy  are  wise  to  play  up  their  affection,  but  behind  closed  doors,  he’s  definitely  the  one  to  initiate.  dusty  probably  drunk  kisses  lucas  every  time  and  it’s  just  never  mentioned  ever  again.  jack’s  horny  on  main,  so  she’s  always  all  over  kimber.  meg  initiates  kisses  often,  though  mostly  as  a  power play.

who reaches for the other’s hand first?

cameron,  always.  johnny,  freddie,  cecile,  etc  ---  doesn’t  matter,  she’s  holding  their  hand.  duffy  gets  VERY  excited  about  holding  vee’s  hand,  so  he  tries  it  often.  jimmy  probably  tried  to  hold  sadie’s  hand  once  and  she  elbowed  him,  but  caia  loves  all  form  of  affection,  so  she  got  very  flustered  when  he  first  grabbed  hers.  simon’s  learned  to  place  a  hand  at  the  small  of  em’s  back  when  they  attend  events  together.

who kisses the hardest ?

unless  she’s  drunk,  pru  has  no  idea  how  to  be  soft  so  she’s  always  kissing  with  a  bigger  plan  in  mind.  liam  probs  kisses  rough,  too.  simon’s  big  on  heady  kisses,  and  if  ivor  ever  gets  the  chance,  HELL  YEAH.

who wakes up first ?

cilla’s  only  an  early  riser  if  she  hasn’t  gone  to  bed,  so  henry’s  usually  the  one  trying  to  make  sure  she’s  up  before  noon.  dom’s  always  up  early,  and  while  daisy  was  the  type  to  mumble  sweetly  for  him  to  stay  longer,  emmy  usually  doesn’t  stir  unless  she  wakes  up  in   a  Mood  and  pulls  at  him  to  stay  behind.  bee’s  always  up  before  pru,  and  pru  thinks  that’s  a  complete  crime.

who wants to stay in bed just a little longer ?

gideon  obvs  doesn’t  sleep,  but  when  he  allows  himself  to  rest,  he  demands  WEEKS  of  going  undisturbed,  so  imagine  a  pale,  lonely  freak  vampire  sitting  in  the  woods  and  staring  at  the  sky  motionless  basically.  meg,  unlike  bee,  happily  sleeps  in  late  and  takes  her  sweet  fucking  time  to  do  it,  though  with  sid  she  always  skips  out  before  morning.  ivy  doesn’t  believe  in  anything  before  one  pm,  so  surprise  surprise  that  nora  started  suggesting  breakfast  dates  for  nik.

who says i love you first ?

since  they’re  all  stupid  soft,  gonna  go  out  on  a  limb  and  assume  it  was  mostly  mine  idiots  who  said  it  first.  except  for  obvious  ones  like  sadie,  who  ran  to  the  hills,  and  gideon,  who  believes  love  is  too  weak  to  encompass  it.

who tells their family/friends about their relationship first ?

listen  EVERY  CHARACTER  IN  EVERY  GENERATION  IS  TOO  CLOSE  so  nobody  needed  to  be  told.  someone  gets  together,  and  by  the  time  they  home,  the  information  has  fully  been  spread.  

what do their family/friends think of their relationship ?

each  ship  has  their  own pros  and  cons,  and  while  certain  people  have  LOUDER  opinions  (  fern  loves  bee,  doesn’t  understand  why  pru  let  her  go  ;  if  cameron  were  alive,  she’d  be  politely  and  quietly  apprehensive  about  camille’s  friendship  with  clem’s  son, the  same  with  daisy  and  henry  /  cilla,  etc.  )   but  it’s  usually  either  we  hate  this  (  meg  @  pru/bee,  sadie  @  mick/sadie  )  or  we  love  this   (  fern  @  pru/bee,  mick  @  jimmy/caia,  dusty  @  duffy/vee  )

who is more likely to start dancing with the other ?

lauren’s  always  the  one  who  gets  elliot  dancing,  grady  would’ve  sat  in  the  corner  at  his  own  wedding  if  not  for  cecile  while  simon  LOVES  to  dance  and  always  guides  em  and  asha  out  to  the  floor.  pearl  will  pull  ANYONE  out  to  dance  with  her.

who cooks more/who is better at cooking ?

cameron  is  a  horrible  cook  and  has  set  freddie  and  johnny’s  respective  kitchens  ablaze  many  times,  marilyn  has  specialty  dishes  but  she’s  too  lazy  to  cook  often.  ivor  knows  the  basic,  but  he  whips  them  up  for  cecile.  nora’s  excellent  at  cooking,  but  for  some  reason,  only  nik  and  coco  have  ever  tried  it.  

who comes up with cheesy pick up lines ?

simon  is  often  too  hetero  for  his  own  good.  clementine  is  guilty  of  this,  too,  but  she’s  cute  enough  to  get  away  with.

who whispers inappropriate things in the other’s ear during inappropriate times ?

BIG  ROME  AND  GIDEON  ENERGY.  also  big  dom  and  emmy /  daisy  energy.  jack  and  kimber  are  definitely  guilty  of  this,  too.  jules  probably  whispered  something  indecent  to  bella  at  cecile’s  wake  (  big  ow  typing  that  !  )  and  it  made  bella  feel  so  normal  for  five  seconds  that  she  was  sort  of  always  endeared  after  that.

who needs more assurance ?

given  their  history,  hannah  and  freddie  need  a  lot  of  reassurance  from  each  other.  that  was  obviously  a  problem  for  mick  and  look  how  THAT  turned  out.  immediately  post  rehab  romy  needed  a  lot  of  validation  from  molly,  which  became  messy.

what would be their theme song ?

MOST  OF  THEM  HAVE  SOUNDTRACKS  AND  SONGS  BUT  THERE  ARE  A  LIL  TOO  MANY !!!!!!

who would sing to their child back to sleep ?

cameron  could  NOT  sing,  but  did  it  all  the  time  for  daisy  and  henry,  so  bless  freddie’s  patience.  fern  walked  in  on  liam  softy  singing  one  of  his  inappropriate  songs  to  pru  once  and  loved  it,  a  la  baby  emma  and  baby  got  back.  duffy  does  this  constantly  for  his  daughter,  and  vee’s  definitely  caught  him  a  few  times.  emmy  would  never  sing,  but  she  def  played  medieval  choir  music  over  bastien’s  baby  monitor  and  dom  was  full  ????  over  this.

what do they do when they’re away from each other ?

most  of  the  time  they  literally  do  not  shut  up  about  the  other  person,  for  better  or  worse.  or  it’s  messy  and  they  don’t  consider  them  enough.  it’s  VERY  one  or  another,  which never  turns  out  well.

one headcanon about this otp that breaks your heart.

AGAIN  too  many  to  choose  from  but  the  way  we  wrote  charlie  out  and  put  johnny  in  as  daisy’s  father  ?  astounding,  10  /  10  because  that  works  a  little  TOO  well  for  the  dynamics  that  played  out  with  gen  two  and  makes  cam’s  death  hit  a  little  HARDER.  also  we’ve  been saying  this  for  years  but  ivor  /  dom  interaction  pls.  the  scandal  of  it  all.  

one headcanon about this otp that mends it.     

soft  concept  is  the scooby  gang  (  there’s  no  freddie,  just  gay  daphne,  a  shaggy  and  scooby,  and  velma  )  having  elaborate  halloween  plans  every  year,  even  if  it’s  just  to  have  a  movie  marathon.  costumes  are  often  required,  and  dusty  LOVES  some  good  riddles,  so  she’ll  get  every  stoned  and  hide  clues  around  the  apartment  that  lead  to  the  snacks.

[iampikachuhearmeroar]

y’know the next time i go to the doctor (bc i have to get new prescriptions for my meds etc), i think i might ask about adhd and get to working on getting a referral to a therapist.

i think i should sort this shit out bc i can’t seem to focus on anything anymore and plus thinking about my behaviour in high school and some things that happened in primary school, i think i could’ve possibly had it but not known it bc i was undiagnosed.

like my old memories on fb seem to reinforce it bc everyone always described me as “hyper” or “crazy” in those lame “like this status and i’ll tell you what i like about you/give you compliments!” etc posts that were a trend when i was in mid-to-late high school. and it was mostly bc i did things without really thinking about the consequences, and covered it up with something like “live in the moment dudes!!!!!! why are all of you so up yourselves??? chill the fuck out and do stupid shit!!!” and then say weird outrageous shit like a show off. and as ive said before my marks were topsy-turvy asf bc i was always more focused on my english or drama assignments (especially with finding more & more ridiculous & complicated sounding synonyms for easier words in those said assignments; spending hours on dictionary/thesaurus.com and freerice.com).... while other subject assignments (mostly maths, sport & geography, religion, and sometimes science), as well as class work went completely undone.

i also had frequent habit of dramatically walking out of class in crying fits and stuff like that. then i’d spend the rest of that particular lesson having people comfort me or have a friend walk me down to the office and wait in “the purple room” in the school office that was really a counseling room for one of the teacher’s and the actual school counsellor. i had these meltdowns so often, in fact, that i was eventually given a “purple room card” that allowed me to go to that room in the office and chill there until i calmed down, or w/e the card said when i finally found it on the floor of my room in like 2015. and obvs in year 4 (outside of high school) i got sent to anger management in year 4. but by years 11/12 i’d learned to not have the meltdowns during classes bc it was seen as a disruption to the class (and it was in a way, when one of my friends would usher me down to the office and sit in that purple room with me... like they didn’t need to skip class with me) and also my own learning, so it was much better to do it at hone in my room at like 2am lmao.

although, sometimes those meltdowns were actually caused by my period pain (bc as i’ve said before on diff posts that my period pains in high school were unbearable), but i covered that with “oh but i can’t handle my workload!!!! 😭😭😭😭😰😰😰😰” and other stuff about idk feeling lonely???? which also led my year coordinator at catholic school to making a group for girls in my year group called the sunshine group (which i was then pretty mortified that she put me in bc “I AM the leader of the black parade and a killjoy! this is offensive!!!! 👩🏻‍🎤👩🏻‍🎤” although the rest of the group was mostly girls that had had fights in their groups or whatever, it focused on self-esteem issues and spreading happiness through the year group/school, by making cupcakes and doing laughing yoga or meditation. like it was a good initiative i’m ngl in hindsight lmao).

then i remember a guy in my homeroom making fun of me in like year 9 religion or something; bc i was obsessed with moshi monsters and obvs neopets (as usual) which he deemed as being “for babies” and not proper computer games like idek call of duty??? that he played. and the moshi monsters thing happened after i found their spinoff toys in big W bc they had the website on their tags. and one of my best friends decided to point out i wasn’t just “into moshi monsters” but instead i “was “OBSESSED” with moshi monsters in high school” a few weeks back now at our other best friends wedding planning dinner. although i do admit, in hindsight, that moshi monsters was probably aimed more at kids aged like 8-12 or something like that and not 14/15 year olds lmao.

and i remember the dude i had a crush on making what now seems to be as a jibe about me being “obsessed with harry potter. i mean, like, super obsessed with harry potter. like you’re too invested man” (when, ironically, he was my level of HP obsessed but instead with old cinema & game of thrones.... knowing all the behind the scenes shit or w/e).

and finally, i’ve had sleep problems for ages.... where i can’t go to sleep until like 1am or later so i have to dance it out to for while before i go to bed. like is that normal???

but yeah. idek maybe it is adding up and i should really see about it with a therapist. again i’m not self-diagnosing it’s just a musing.

also: don’t reblog this, please

[5am-raining]

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐬 📖

Daily habits and routine is something I’m ~really~ into and passionate about. Tbh, I don’t have my schedule/routine very put together. I’m constantly struggling with time management, I don’t get enough sleep, I barely have a social life (and kind of prefer it that way, lol), and I wish I had more time for my hobbies. I will most likely cut back my schedule next quarter, bc this summer has been a bit too busy for me. That being said, I think about this kind of stuff a LOT and I’m always looking to improve my routine!

So here’s some very basic quick tips that came to mind after getting this ask. Hope it’s helpful!

𝚆𝙾𝚁𝙺

Do everything you can do have things laid out the night before (outfit, shoes, meals, bag, keys, coffee set up, etc.)

Even better, have some of your things laid out Sunday night before the work wk starts.

If you commute, try to make the most of your down-time (listen to podcasts for fun, or audiobooks for school, get social media scrolling out of your system before you get home).

Try to utilize the fact that you’re out & about & dressed to get errands done, or socializing in. That way you have a more free weekend.

Take your lunch break alone, or if you have breaks in the middle of your day utilize that time for something you really care about (drawing, writing, reading, something you've been meaning to do for yourself that you can do during this time). You're not obligated to small talk w/ co-workers every day.

𝚂𝙲𝙷𝙾𝙾𝙻

Keep a study routine & don't break it! It's tempting to blow off your hw to make tumblr posts (I'm talking to myself) but you'll regret it! It's best to keep a schedule & reward yourself w/ downtime after you've finished your work.

Use apps like Forest to keep a pomodoro. It's a useful way to avoid using your phone, connect w/ others on studying, reward yourself, & keep track of time spent on a given task!

Completely remove distractions from the room when you're working. Make them hard to reach so you don't reach for them.

Make your study space cozy & inspiring, passively pampering yourself w/ nice music, a blanket, & a candle burning makes a big diff.

Get accommodations if you need them!! Advocate for yourself. If you're studying w/ friends & you study better alone, make that happen! Don't make something hard even harder by not listening to your own needs.

𝙼𝙰𝚁𝚁𝙸𝙴𝙳 𝙻𝙸𝙵𝙴

Obv it's super important to have a strong relationship first & foremost. It's hard to build any kind of "good routine" around a relationship if you're already having issues. I'd recommend the Gottman books. They have a lot of great content!

Make the most of your time together. When my husband is really busy, I'll try to go on walks w/ him when he's already out walking the dog. We commute home together on school days if he can get off in time.

Do little things for each other. Even if you don't have much time, getting them a snack while you're out, or doing a chore for them is a nice way to boost your relationship.

Have a daily/wkly routine you do together. My husband & I always have dinner together. We watch TV while we eat, but we’re talking & making jokes during, before, and after. It's a comforting way to connect.

If your relationship is really struggling bc of your schedule, it might be time to reevaluate the things you're putting first.

𝚂𝙾𝙲𝙸𝙰𝙻 𝙼𝙴𝙳𝙸𝙰 / 𝙲𝚁𝙴𝙰𝚃𝙸𝚅𝙴

I hate to be a broken record, but schedule & routine! I admit that I am not good about this when it comes to social media/creativity. I tend to reach for my camera & spend a long time scrolling when I'm burnt out,  or when I'm creatively stifled & I just want to make something pretty. Unfortunately, it's hard to make time for creativity when you're busy, so I've been getting my fill by making it school/work-focused through this blog. I'd like to draw & take film photos more, but it's something I have yet to build into my life consistently. Here's a schedule for social media I've recently started implementing:

□ 1x daily posts to IG/Tumblr (themed based on the day)

□ Scheduled time to scroll/queue, don't spend too long on that it's a huge time-suck

□ 1x wkly vlogging (any more is too much to edit)

□ If it's not benefiting you in some way, stop doing it. I use social media as a creative outlet/coping mechanism. I have no intention of getting "famous" or making $, it's literally just for myself & to socialize.

Some other categories to consider:

𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚖𝚊𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎

𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚎𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚔 / (𝚙𝚎𝚝) 𝚖𝚘𝚖 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎

𝚜𝚘𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎

(If anyone wants me to cover those too, lemme know).

P.S. Please follow my Insta 5am.raining if you like my posts! :)) It needs some love. 😭

[gemmusings]

because i’m trash, catch me posting a request before my face reserves have gone through and pls give me a big btvs inspired friend group for my boy grey.  i can’t help myself i just love the group dynamic and the complexities and the hijinks. i’m gonna give a little description so even if you haven’t seen the show anyone can be involved! but obv things are going to change and not be supernatural and involve so much resurrection. if there’s any characters i haven’t included that people want pls i’ll add whoever!! 

basically most of them have been best friends since high school, with a couple joining later on when they all went to college, but they’re tight as glue even when their dating history is pretty drama filled and group-incestuous. they’re basically a found-family at this point despite it all. they should all be 25-28 maybe? except dawn who can be a fair bit younger? 

(also bit of a disclaimer but i love spuffy so do with that what you will)

the buffy → open → always got the weight of the world on her shoulders. takes on all the projects (those projects are people only half the time). takes no bs. joined the group late but was basically the missing piece. dated angel and riley but really nothing fit.

the willow →  open → big ol nerd. level headed but a secret slytherin underneath her deep love for her friends. a late bloomer but pretty unstoppable when she knows who she is and what she wants. been besties with xander since they were in diapers.

the xander →  reserved for rhea → the glue that keeps everyone together. a goofball. always coming in with the quips and dad jokes but v easily feels lost and left behind. has a habit of falling for the worst people and only realising when it’s too late.

the angel → open → broody and dark past. made a lot of mistakes. dad’s probably the owner of some big corporation or law firm that’s done some awful shit and he’s doing some pro bono work to try and balance it out. protective but a huge martyr.

the spike → grey ----, 27, face, played by gem. → seemingly cold and unaffected but soft as hell. acts like he hates everyone in the group but is always there regardless. hides behind sarcasm. loved buffy as long as he’s known her but is far too chickenshit to do anything.

the giles → open → the dad friend. probably one of those people who just keeps going back to uni to do degree after degree after degree. always has someone sleeping on his couch. a cynic who drinks way too heavily.

the dawn → open → buffy’s younger sister. a few years younger than the rest of them. basically has no reason to be so close with them all except that they’re always around and buffy’s too protective of her. basically, a ‘we look after our own’ even when she’s constantly getting into trouble they have to bail her out of. 

the anya  → reserved for louise harrison/mac → been to jail for graffitiing the word ‘whore’ on an ex-boyfriend’s car and smashing the windows.  doesn’t get pop culture references. adventurous but doesn’t always get that there are consequences to her actions. crushing real hard on xander.

the tara → open → the sweetest softest bean. loves crystals and horoscopes and houseplants. has a shitty family so these people are basically her everything even if they’re exasperating. basically old marrieds with willow.

the riley → open → all american boy. grew up on a farm somewhere so he’s sweet if not slightly naive and desperate to find a place for himself in the group, having never felt anything like he did when he and buffy started dating and they accepted him.

if you want to chat my discord is gem#0531

[ghouls-dream]

Oh God what about a soft hc with the ghouls when their s/o has a nightmare?

The nameless ghouls soft HC for when their s/o is having a nightmare comIN ON DA WAY :") . I feel like this is the most wholesome post i've ever written so I hope you like it, sunshine <3

Aether: Aether gives out the impression of a really mature person, very responsible and extremely devoted when it comes to relationships. He's extremely caring, always trying to make his s/o feel protected and happy. So whenever his s/o is having a hard time or, in that case, a nightmare he'd wake up, a little surprised. Aether will go next to their partner, look over their partner and start whispering stuff like "Baby it's fine... Hey, shh... Baby I'm here, shhh" and most deffinitely will spoon them. As being said before - he's extremely protective and will wait until his s/o is asleep so he can drift off as well.

Rain: Maybe this is the ghoul that would act like a mom the most. Rain is a water ghoul and water is naturally "related" to intuition so even before his s/o starts dreaming of the nightmare, he'd already be awake. I imagine him brushing his partner's hair gently, kissing them softly so they can go through it easier, but if that doesnt help, the ghoul would try to wake them up. Of course he'd whisper some stuff like Aether and try to calm his s/o. Weird thing for him is that Rain will refuse to fall asleep after his partner had a nightmare, even when they're already peacfully sleeping. His caring, motherly love will suddenly unlock and he'll most likely stay up all night, cuddling them.

Dewdrop: Now here gets interesting. Since Dew is the craziest, most energetic and was problematic (as a child ofc) ghoul, he'd be used to nightmares. He's the one to always stay up at night, read scary stories and watch horror movies which caused him to have a hard time, while sleeping. (Not to mention his rough childhood, probably filled with fights. for some reason i imagine that Dew would be a really damaged angel) So he has experience with that and whenever his s/o is having a bad dream, Dew would always drag them closer, kissing their arm and cuddling them tightly. Even his tail will naturally curl around his partner's leg in order to protect them.

Mountain: I relate Mountain to Earth (obvs) and so I'd say he's a really stable and grounded person. He can keep his cool in every situation, no matter how tricky or dangerous it might be. So in that order I think that Mountain would wake up really easily (he's not a heavy sleeper) and will firstly look at the door if there is anyone. After he finds out it's his s/o having a nightmare he'd sigh in relief and, really much like Dew, will cuddle them. He'd start brushing his partner's hair gently, whispering that everything is okay and that it would be over soon. I feel like he'd spoon his s/o and squeeze them a little bit harder than necessery thanks to his protective nature.

Swiss: I imagine Swiss as a really heavy sleeper, unlike Mountain. He'd need at least four alarms in the morning or a cold bucket (Aether :") ) in order to actually wake up. So if his s/o is having a really bad dream there are two options: A) Swiss will wake up very shocked and maybe a bit scared and as soon as he comes back to his senses and realizes the situation, he'd bring them closer and sing softly into their ear, while kissing them in order to calm his partner. That is IF IT'S NOT OPTION B) where he'd sleep throughout the whole thing and after finding out about it, the ghoul would feel really bad, promising that "next time I will wake up, I swear!".

Cumulus: Cumulus is like the mom-mom! I imagine her waking up really confused from the sudden bed moving and the weird sounds, maybe even thinking there's earthquake (ofc she'd think the worst :"))). But soon after she finds out her s/o is the in fact the one causing this, she'd look over them and much like Rain try to wake her partner up. In fact, she'd do a lot in order to wake them up (and by that i dont mean jumping on their head lol) - softly asking to get up or light kisses around their face, as well a little rocking. After they wake up Cumulus would ask them if everything's okay, what were they dreaming and after all that she'd spoon them softly, cuddling them gently and start brushing their hair in order to calm them.

Cirrus: She's the one that would wake up immediately. In fact I think that Cirrus is the ghoul that would have the hardest time falling asleep at night and usually would have the tendecy to stay up a lot. SO whenever her s\o is having a hard time sleeping, she'd already be awake. Cirrus is very affectionate and sometimes agressively protective (not towards her partner ofc) over her "babe", so she'd quickly spoon them and start whispering sweet stuff in their ear. She also has the weird habit of curling her tail around her partner's leg and gently brushing it with the end of the tail in order to relax them easier.