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the tradwife movement is the same as it has always been - back in the kitchen, back to breeding - it just has better branding.
when i was younger, i hated pink. i was not like other girls. this is now something i'm embarrassed of - this was not me being a "girl's girl."
but it was expressing something many of us felt at the time: i literally wasn't what girlhood was supposed to be. this is a hard thing to explain, but you know when you're not performing girlhood correctly. it isn't as easy as "i liked x when girls liked y" - because there were other girls that liked x, too - but i never figured out exactly the correct way to like x, or to be interested in y.
now there is the divine feminine. this is the same rhetoric it has always been: women are biologically driven to like pink and ribbons and submitting to our husbands.
the problem is that the patriarchy found a better PR team. because yes, actually, i want every woman to have the choice to be a homemaker. i also want her taken seriously for her legitimate home-making labor. i want her to be recognized as also having a job, just unpaid. i want men to have this opportunity, too.
but it is no longer "i made this choice and I love it." instead it is a sixteen-paragraph rant about how selfish it is that my generation isn't having kids. instead it's long videos about how if you feed your children processed foods, you're going to kill them. instead it is "this is what womanhood is supposed to be. i feel bad for any other choices you're making."
the shame spiral is just prettier. it is large houses devoid of personality. it is the implication: if you don't have this, you aren't happy. the solid, everlasting assurance: women are actually supposed to be submitting. this is the default. this is the natural state of things. all other attempts inflict suffering.
but you can no longer say i'm not like other girls. you can no longer reject this image completely. you cannot find it revolting, even if you know that the underbelly is toxic and festering. sure, it is the same repackaged patriarchy. but the internet does not have shades of grey. you should support and reward other women! your disgust is actually internalized misogyny. not because you are seeing a vision of yourself the way they're trying to train you to be. not because you feel her ghost pass within an inch of your earlobe. not because your father will eventually ask you - why can't you be like her?
because they figured out how to make it beautiful: women will sell other women on this idea, and we will find the singular loophole in feminism. sure, she's shaming you in most of her videos. sure, she implies that a different life is obscene. but she just wants you to be happy! you'd be happier if you were listening!
and the whole time you're sitting there thinking: i'd actually just be happier if i had that kind of money.
#spilled ink#writeblr#warm up#this is an incredibly difficult idea to express#but i basically keep watching the same timelooped interaction:#someone makes tradwife content where she's like ''i think it's SO sad when ppl don't have kids EW''#and then the response is ''... go fuck yourself? i think ur life is miserable and bad ?"#and instead of being like ''oh we are all under capitalism huh''#the response is like ''you CANT say that. she made a CHOICE. she is ALLOWED to have KIDS and be HAPPY#unlike YOU who is UNHAPPY bc you don't have KIDS.''#like .... these are people who will throw the first stone. and then when you lob one back#they ask why you're so violent. they tell you that you're a bad activist.#and you're like. PARDON????? you implied being a woman meant i need to submit to my husband???#and they're like - well it's just my belief. so what if i'm invalidating your entire identity.
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#i thiiiink 8.#but i have one coming up in a few days and one next year#i'm also not counting ones that my parents dragged me to that i didn't really want to go to#they took me to a bunch of grateful dead or phish concerts that i don't particularly care about#and also took me to see weird al twice which was fine but like. not something i ever asked for or particularly wanted#ive seen a queen reenactment band‚ marina and the diamonds‚ car seat headrest‚ idkhow‚ MCR‚ death cab for cutie‚ hot mulligan x2#and i'm seeing PTV in a few days and MCR again next year#my friend bought the PTV tickets and i did a payment plan for MCR LOL i cannot afford these#but i promised my bf i would take him to see MCR if they toured again bc i went to the reunion tour with someone else#polls#submitted#queued#concert#concerts#music#shows#hall of fame
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johndave hi
#hs#homestuck#art#hamsterfather#john egbert#dave strider#johndave#pepsicola#if u submit johndave asks i will probably draw them#no promises but i just like them a lot
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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.
#polls#incognito polls#anonymous#tumblr polls#tumblr users#questions#polls about food#submitted june 24#I think this may actually be the one someone asked about when I was taking tracking questions#here you go anon.#milk#cars#food
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Mumbo Jumbo HC season 10 episode 23, min 24:46:
Scar: "Is he trying to bang us or smth?" Mumbo: "Definitely."
Help why did everyone act like this was a totally normal thing to say
#mumbo jumbo#goodtimewithscar#goodtimeswithscar#skizzleman#fanart#mcyt#mcytblr#hermitcraft#artists on tumblr#asks answered#comic#ty 4 submitting mwah
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I do like to be known as the husband of the cool art assignment lady! Buy our coffee--and now, OUR TEA AS WELL!
(Meme by @ctimemes)
#coffee company#ctimemes#making memes for me#anybody can be an unpaid intern#just submit memes via my ask#tea company
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Just wanted to share: I've recently commented on a fic from 2016, an AU that the author has not touched in years. It was the only comment on that fic at all. And I got a very sweet reply from the author and ngl, this made my day. 💜 Moral? Everyone should comment on fics, no matter, how old they are. 💜
Aw heck yeah!!!
Comments and replies are the best!!!
#thanks for submitting!#💜#ao3 shenanigans ask#ao3 comment#fanfiction#archive of our own#ao3#fanfic#writing#fandom
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"Riddle dressed like Heather Chandler with signature croquet mallet from the cover picture." - idk which of my identities thought about it
Like this?
#you submitted two asks and one was on anon so i kept your identity a secret just in case#i liked this promo image better because of the variety of poses lol#i went at this ask a little too hard lol#twisted wonderland#twst#twisted wonderland fanart#twst fanart#riddle rosehearts#twst riddle#cater diamond#twst cater#trey clover#twst trey#heartslabyul#cheekindraws#thanks for the ask!
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the plot on earth: happening. everyone crowing around the lore: okay but tell us more about pixie office shenanigans please
Once, a new Pixie intern accidentally ordered Blue-White paper with 97 Brightness instead of Cream-White paper with 98 Brightness. It sent the entire Pixies Corporation into an uproar, and they tried to take over Fairyworld as a result. Y'know. To ban Blue-White paper from existence.
It took weeks for Jorgen to resolve it all and bring the Pixies back in line. After that event, interns had to take a 2-course seminar on the differences of printer paper quality before being tasked to order more printer paper.
Bitties Series: [Start] > [Previous] > [Next]
#fairly oddparents#fop#fop a new wish#fop timmy turner#fop timmy#timmy turner#fop sanderson#sanderson#asks#itty bitties fop au#its one of the few takeovers that didnt involve Head Pixie#the incident was SUCH a shock that it just. sent all the pixies into a FRENZY#Timmy was also shocked by the news but more in the 'Oh for fucks sake i JUST printed that 60 page report. now i have to do it ALL OVER AGAI#the office was a mess afterwords and timmy got a horribly long lecture by HP for submitting his report in the wrong printer paper#sanderson avoided the lectures because he's a smart pixie and knows better than rely on the office printer paper#he has his own secret stash of personal printer paper that he uses#so he was the only pixie who turned in his reports in the proper format haha
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do you ever get reminded of a ship, remember a piece of fanart of it that you loved, then after a day long search realize that you just imagined it? and then try to draw it yourself?
prllb btbtt ALT VERISONS
#since im submitting this to radar: hi! my main blog is stupidusernamepolicy. this is my art sideblog#rick and morty#rick & morty#gravity falls#stan pines#stanley pines#rick sanchez#stanchez#rickstan#stanrick#admin draws#fanart#inspired by spinetrick slightly in the color palette because i didnt wanna do a style copy. but i first imagined it as it being THEIR art#dont. dont ask. i have a weird brain. ive done this shit before.#if im not alone PLEASE sound off. its funny but im also like. please dont let me be the only one.#anyeays. i always loved this ship#i know rick ford was the big thing but i personally think its much funnier if theyre rivals and cant stand each other#bc of science ego and personality differences#all the while rick is canoodling with his brother#i feel like theyre a great match in that theyre kind of immature old conmen who are both game for pretty much anything#RIGHT before i posted i caught a shading issue and also that i forgot stan's five o clock shadow. HA#imagine i posted this yesterday before those fixes. god what a nightmare
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Trick or Treat! :D (I know it’s the last day and I hope I’m not too late 👀)
Ta-Da! I found you some cookies!
Actually I don't know how old these are, maybe don't eat them...
#If it's not clear#its the Evo Smp cast as cookies in a tin#ya know technically this was submitted an hour after my cut off..#but thats a dumb made up rule so#Treat for you!!!#hermitcraft#hermitblr#orbboart#ask game#trafficblr#evo smp#grian#pearlescentmoon#yeah im not tagging everyone
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Uhaul sturgeon from @lilylikesplants
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a mysterious slugcat comes along, she offers you a large orb, it is filled with nutrients.
"may it help you in the coming cycles"
"Woooow...... are you one of those random (but benevolent) gods?"
#rain world#rain world au#rain world oc#rw pioneer#slugcat#slugpup#artificer's pups#ask blog#no worries the huge lore post i mentioned earlier is coming next#i just wanted to submit something smaller and quicker to draw in the meantime#im falling behind the posting schedule so hard *pain*
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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.
#polls#incognito polls#anonymous#tumblr polls#tumblr users#questions#polls about the internet#submitted june 9#asks#tumblr#tumblr culture#anon ask
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Hello I have a question about Mychael but also kinda concerning the game? Though if it’s too much a spoiler nvm!
My question is will we be seeing him go full Yandere and possibly use his weapon on someone in game or will it be more of a if you make certain choices is when those Yandere tendencies come to the surface? Or is it something that will really only be hinted at because of the rating?
Also how do you feel about people creating art of the more violent persuasion? He seems more of a mental yan but I could be wrong!
I'll say depending on your choices, sometimes you wouldn't even realize he's a yandere in the first place. I'm trying to keep it vague to avoid spoilers but trust me, but he's still a yandere at the end of the day; even if he doesn't show it!
And I don't mind any depiction of Mychael, even if it feels out of character for me personally, I like seeing people draw him in their own interpretation!
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tell us a story :3
last year i accidentally sent my prof a yami breeding kink drabble from black clover instead of an essay i was assigned. jesus christ i still remember the comments 😭😭😭 he was like ‘??????’ AND I FAILED PLEASE. never again, i dropped that class so fast i couldn’t face him nuh uh. he got it
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