#// LOOK AT THEM UR HONOR

[idontmindifuforgetme]

used to daydream about fairytale reconciliations after pretty much every platonic or romantic fallout i ever had, but sometimes it’s healthier to just accept that someone will never own up bc they don’t think you’re worth the trouble. anyone who truly cares would move mountains just to make sure that they communicate w you if they truly want to rectify the situation. but sometimes it’s their ego getting in the way, sometimes they have a narrative of you in their head they’re determined not to break, and sometimes they just don’t care enough about you to even consider it. they don’t have respect for the friendship or relationship in its posthumous state bc it was nothing to them, or at the very least it doesn’t eclipse their pride or their desire to appear correct in a situation or just outright the need to be done w the situation rather than be a good person. still guilty of this but i’ve been getting better at just nipping the delusion in the bud and just being okay w accepting that someone truly does not care. until they prove they do that is the assumption i go w every time. and it is saving me a lot of heartache

[linoyes]

[leafsfromthevine]

something something, "i'm only me when i'm with you," etc. etc.

[crystallizsch]

[gunsatthaphan]

"doesn't the little wizard resemble me?" 🧙🏻🪄🔮

[inkskinned]

what is considered "beautiful" by society is inevitably sexist, racist, ableist, classist, transphobic, and bigoted. it targets and attacks any perceived difference, and it particularly villainizes women of color while co-opting aesthetics; as if features and cultural norms can be worn as accessories.

and the scary thing! you can see all of these things, know them to be true logically, and also know that you are treated better if you are perceived as beautiful. if you have ever been treated as "ugly", you know exactly how much society reviles you if you don't manage to scamper along and perform to their rules.

and how are you supposed to balance that? do you want a nose job to fix your broken nose, or have you just recently been seeing videos about how many people look better after nose jobs. do you want to lose weight to feel good, or is it that when you lose weight people treat you better. do you want to wear this outfit, or is it just the thing that's least likely to get you harassed. do you want to get lip injections for your reasons or is your whole reason that you don't feel beautiful unless you get those lip injections?

and the definitions shift. the goals get more specific. in the way that you only become aware of your tongue when someone mentions it; parts of your body are introduced as problems. i had never heard the term "hip dip" until about a year ago - and it was in the context of how to get rid of this. i'm 30, i know this shit is invented, and yet! i still find that strange voice saying but do you think someone is going to notice?

how the fuck am i supposed to say "this is my genuine choice i am making for my body" when i also know that years of my life have been spent socializing me to accept this as my inevitable fate? how do i know i'm actually doing this out of love for my body - or am i doing it for how i want others to see me, which will be lovely enough to feel loved? how am i supposed to recover when my unhealthy habits are seen as self-discipline but if i relax i'm openly mocked for "letting time win"? how the fuck am i supposed to say "i'm doing it for me" when i'm also very aware that i'm doing it to stop myself from being teased or demeaned? is it my choice if the other option is being bullied?

we are living in a hostage negotiation - either consent to the demands or spend the rest of your life being treated like you're a despicable person.

[rouge-the-bat]

oh my god the designs on their clothes literally match... 🦊🌈🐲

[minminambus]

My long overdue posting of this comic… Go get him, Minimus!

(Text-less version below the cut!)

[chrliekclly]

charlie bringing ovr beers for th twins is a complete throwaway moment nd it is also so so special to me

[nothingbizzare]

Jorno and Fuggo they are chilling together talking about bugs

[crismakesstuff]

WIP 🚧

invincible music au sketches I need to finish fully one day

goth/punk debbie and metalhead nolan

[lexxieannie]

wlw birdflash 🫶

[sad-emo-dip-dye]

[robertbelcherjr]

Gumshoe goes MWAH when he kisses Miles

[ghostrob]

[sinnabee]

some doodles from work last night! also (as u can see) im thinking about making some acrylic charms;;; lemme know in the tags or replies if you're interested!!!! if i get enough people interested, i would then probably do a poll to see which design yall like more. ideally i'd make both (the set and the single charm) but if y'all wanted some of the other doodles on this page, i could think about that too;;;; :D ANYWAY. yeah lemme know!!!