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Godamn, I haven't fronted in a good while. I plan to make more stuff, so don't worry, I ain't gone. Jus' a lot of shit has been keepin' me busy. I also noticed that y'all still enjoy a post I made a bit ago 'bout system positivity, an' I wanted to say thank y'all. I sure as hell didn't expect so many people to have seen it an' continue to see it, but I'm glad y'all love it. A few things have happened since the last time we posted, an' I'll keep it short an' sweet. We've been goin' through a lot, but we're slowly makin' our way to someplace better. We have a shit ton of new hosts, which surprised me, an' the others who posted here before have taken up to stayin' in headspace. Healthier for 'im anyways. My daughter has changed in ways I will not specify, an' now I have a kid. Not sure what the gender neutral term for daughter/son is without usin' words like kid/child, so that's gonna be odd if I bring them up. Either way, I love them greatly, an' they make me proud. As for myself, I managed to find myself a boyfriend- I have my doubts where this relationship will go, but hey, he makes me happy. Jus' hope I make him happy. Anyways, I'm back an' I hope y'all take care of y'allselves. There'll be more posts on the way.

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Saw a system ask meme an' I think that would be fun to do. Wanna try it, but I ain't too sure. Not sure what'd I even do for that. We'll see.

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AHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA-

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Go motherfucker go.

You are not prepared for this celebrity reveal!

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I'm gonna fuckin' cry. So adorable but the fuckin' name David Sprite makes me wanna go on a rampage an' this is a threat.

david sprite

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Please for the love of all things, if yous are a kinnie, DO NOT say yous are the kin's name to a fictive without Clarifying that yous are nothing more than a kinnie. This especially applies to singlets. This can apply to anyone in the system, but we see this happenin' to fictives the most. If there is a fictive that is DNI, no one cares if they're your "kin/comfort character". Do not invalidate the person warnin' yous, they may be a victim of that alter's abuse. Do not expect us to be canon compliant at all. Yes, we may be canon compliant, but there are plenty who ain't an' don't want to be reminded that they ain't. Chances are they are already feelin' like they have to be compliant to be valid. If yous meet a fictive who's canon source is problematic, do not make assumptions. There will be noncanon ones an' canon ones, so it's better to ask the other headmates. If they're canon complacent, jus' don't talk to 'em. Do not remind a fictive of stuff that happened in their source's lives. ESPECIALLY TRAUMATIC EVENTS. I cannot stress this enough. Do NOT try to pretend to be a character from their source when yous ain't. I've seen too many singlets do it, an' it's invalidatin' an' messed up. NEVER tell a fictive that the person that they say caused them trauma ain't a bad person or can change. That is not for yous to decide nor your place to forgive the person who hurt them. Please don't automatically assume how a fictive will act. This gets annoyin', but please don't joke about a fictives traumatic experiences in their canon. This shouldn't even have to be said, but guess what? People have done this. Don't assume that a fictive will wind up havin' a crush on someone in their canon source that either they have feelins for or who the fandom ships that fictive with. This is common knowledge, but too many people don't seem to know this. DON'T COMPARE A FICTIVE WITH THEIR CANON. If a fictive wants nothin' to do with their source, don't pressure answers outta 'em. They are tryin' to move on with their lives. If yous find a fictive of a problematic source, no one is forcin' yous to talk to 'em. Jus' move on with your life an' let them live theirs. Do not go out of your way to talk to a fictive who yous know is problematic. You're endangerin' yourself an' that system, an' it's messed up.

Some things about fictives

Written by: A Fictive

Yes we have a source, but that doesn’t mean we’re identical to our source

Or even that we like our source

We are not the characters/people from our sources. We are our own people

Please ask before talking about our source, some of us love talking about our source. Others fucking hate it

We aren’t your comfort characters and we aren’t always equipped to make you feel better or even to let you vent

Please don’t say you simp for our source. I would never want anyone to say something like

“OH MY GOSH ITS SHIGARAKI!!! I SIMP FOR YOU YOURE SO HOT”

We don’t always act like our sources

We have triggers. Just like normal people

We have likes and dislikes and fears, like normal people

We have feelings

We aren’t “canon” so don’t point to us as a reason for a character being “canonically” gay/bi/autistic/whatever

Don’t refer to us as characters we aren’t characters we are still people

We have crushes and enemies

Sometimes we have memories from our source. Those memories can be important to us

Don’t ever try to invalidate us, we already feel odd enough being in a system

Don’t hate us because of our source, we can’t control that

Just like we can’t control who we are so don’t hate us just because you hate the person/character we are from

We sometimes miss people from our source

[Please, other fictives feel free to add on]

[And to everyone else, please reblog this]

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Out of context quotes said by alters.

Well, we talk to some people, an' honest to god, our conversations are the fuckin' weirdest. There are all out of context quotes by someone in this system, an' I couldn't tell yous the context even if I tried.

"My hobbies is drawing, writing poems, voice acting, MEMEING, being gay, role-playing, and harrassing people in DMs with pictures or raps."

"Only real men are solidified."

"I dont care about the ballerinas"

"listen. im stucky bot crunchy.." "gushers!"

"No, you overpriced piece of rotten ham."

"EAT HIS MORAL AMBIGIOUS FINGERS"

"hes a nasty little bread boy aint he mr deets"

"Never take Lucky's lucky charms."

"my fuckin caprisun aj is gone im going to sob the rage of a thousand screaming donkeys right after fiona removes puss n boots from the narrative right after takin a royal shit in her shoes i mean how the fuck did she find the right shoe size her feet must be fuckin gigantic and its alarming how she and shrek can find anything in their size can you imagine the pants thick thighs big waist no ass lookin motherclucker"

"I could oppress the youth if I wanted to."

"im gonna cry what food kingdom does seaweed belong to"

"i pimp slapped beethoven you see me yeah hes my bitch now"

"i have been baby too much i kill people now"

"i will delete you"

"shut up you committed tax evasion"

"Petition to include Grandmothers."

"PINATA"

"dont make hair live a life"

"leave the scooter boy alone"

"The war criminal strikes again."

"RATTLE ME BONES AND CALL ME PELVIS"

"i feed the boneless on a saturday evening"

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Fictives and their canon.

So, I've seen this complaint from fictives within this system about our canon, myself included. We've met a lot of fictives from several systems.

Ones who are nothing like their canon selves, ones that are completely canon compliant, some from alternative universes, some from roleplays, some who don't remember their canon lives, some that changed their names from their canon selves, and even some who don't even look like their canon selves, and just share a name.

And they are all valid. Each and every one of them. But what comes to mind is the fact that how do they get past their canon selves?

For instance, a lot of the fictives in our system have this whole existential crisis about who their canon selves are and most aren't even canon compliant. Which messes with us because we have this entire mess of "we have to be exactly like our canon". And it's confusing.

So to every fictive out there who have gone through those worries or have been invalidated for being non canon compliant, you are what feels natural to be. You do not have to be exactly like your canon selves. Just do what feels natural. You don't owe it to anyone to be anything. Trust us, it just causes more problems to be someone that doesn't feel natural being.

Remember, you're valid and loved. - 🐊

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I hate the wifi we have.

Found a system blog worth following and because the wifi is slow I accidentally clicked unfollow when I tried to follow. 🐊

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Already made a comment on here, but in all honesty this is a system's biggest dream come true. For reference, this was my comment: You stare at the doctors in disbelief. "A shapeshifter?" The doctor looks at the held clipboard, uncertain at his own diagnosis of the situation. "Finally," A voice chimed in your head, "Move out of the way." -🐊

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One sentences to describe each of the alters in our system.

I thought it’d be funny to describe each of our alters in a very vague way that still captures them an’ their energy, an’ I hate that I still somehow managed to do it. Fuckin’ enjoy, but first here’s the trigger warnin’s.

TW: Mentions dogs, sexual type jokes, jokes on being British, mentions of disabilities, jokes ‘bout bein’ a furry/scalie, mentions of violence, mentions of g/ns, mentions of conspiracy theories, mentions cats. 

DISCLAIMER: All of these are jokes, an’ none of it is meant to be harmful, an’ no one in our system is offended to be described in this way an’ even thought it was funny. So if anything yous find offensive, feel free to shoot us a DM, or if you’re bolder, leave a comment. There’ll be no judgement.

Spirtit animal’s a golden retriever.

Rambles and stupidity.

Creepy goth girlfriend in a romcom.

Librarian.

Separation anxiety.

Dr. Jekyll Mr. Hyde but nice.

Uses substitute cuss words.

Gets told the wrong meanings to protect innocence.

Rat man will bite yous.

Needs hugs all day.

Where’s Waldo type beat.

Cowboy in denial.

Stop biting me, you lil’ shit.

Disaster and not having fun.

Therapist man, take me by the hand.

Head pats are deserved.

Jesus fuck, are yous okay.

Daddy but remove the dy.

Stop becoming a buff teletubby, PLEASE.

Shouldn’t yous be on a shelf somewhere.

 No hand headass.

Please stop doing what yous hear.

Chill your shit.

Don’t call the Ghostbusters.

Stop making us leave places.

Why are yous baby.

Professional dad.

Go to furry jail.

Furry with kindness.

Stop speaking England, I can’t understand yous.

Horny and unafraid to step on yous.

Blind boy deserves love.

Get off your phone.

Mom friend.

Fuckin’ nasty.

Stop buildin’ shit that is dangerous challenge.

Witty lil’ shit.

Stop being obscure challenge.

Child.

Mom child.

What are yous thinkin’?

Good mom.

Stop endangerin’ yourself.

Gonna be a scalie, I swear.

STOP COLLECTIN’ TRASH.

Always observing, judging silently.

Flat Earther, need I say more?

Stop tryin’ to be my therapist challenge.

Please don’t shoot me.

Is this the real life, or is this just fantasy?

Kitty.

Moody teen.

Little Shop of Horrors gone wrong.

 Has an affinity for circles.

Okay, edgelord.

 Anxious and afraid.

 Why are you such a problem child.

Bees and war.

I’m so lonely, oh so lonely.

Emo headass.

Sir, this is a Wendy’s.

Who the fuck even are yous.

Stop kissing everyone.

1/2 Braincells were lost to the war.

Cha cha slide motherfucker.

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Well shit, this makes sense an' I don't know how to really take it in. Thank yous for this.

screenshots of an infodump from a discord server bc i don't want to rewrite it for an informational post (yes i had everyone's permission to leave their names and avatars in the screenshots)

please keep in mind i am in no way a trained professional and this is mostly conjecture based on my own lived experience and research from various sources.

- basil [they/them]

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This.

Calming masterpost:

crisis/urgent support lines and sites

hotlines/crisis lines for depression, domestic abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, teens, pregnancy, lgbt and more

mental support community - a forum where you can post that you are in a crisis right now and need peer support as soon as possible

imalive crisis chat - online one-on-one chat for if you’re in at risk of hurting yourself etc

self harm alternatives

si urges alternatives

relaxation/anxiety relief

do nothing for two minutes

interactive silk art

guided relaxation

watch a dream

100,000 stars

thisissand - create sandscapes on your screen with your mouse

calming gif

the quiet place project

the quiet place - find some quiet

the thoughts room - a super calm page to unburden yourself from bad thoughts

the comfort spot - a place for anonymous venting with out anybody judging you for who you are

the dawn room - my personal favourite, especially good for when you feel alone

know that it will be okay - when a moment is too hard for you - come here.

music and sounds

my anxiety relief playlist - on 8tracks

my positivity/recovery playlist - on 8tracks

‘stay strong’ playlists - on 8tracks

coffee shop sounds

rain sounds

calmsound - nature sounds

rainycafe

comfort food

one minute cookie in a mug

brownie in a mug

several cookie recipes

25 hot chocolate recipes

loads and loads of snacks - 533 quick and easy recipes for a range of snacks on studentrecipe

lots of different in-a-mug recipes

chocolate pudding in a mug - my personal fave (lil tip: add mini marshmallows for extra gooey yumminess)

advice and tips

how to be okay with yourself

25 resolutions

life hacks

more life hacks

a hella ton more life hacks - so many life hacks dude soon ur gonna never have a day-to-day stress again

school masterpost - school sucks so bad but hopefully this can help ease the stress

how to love yourself

how to bypass restricted wifi omg

alleviate menstrual cramps

boost your confidence

love yourself!

self help after anxiety

stop biting your nails

stop procrastinating

stop skipping breakfast

videos and movies

cure to sadness (video)

the movie blog - a blog dedicated to movie masterposts you will never be without a movie to watch again

cute roulette - THE BEST PLACE ON THE INTERNET ITS LITERALLY JUST A HUGE ROULETTE OF VIDEOS OF CUTE ANIMALS WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT FROM LIFE

random acts of kindness caught on film

disney movies

movies for angsty teens

distractions etc

rice questions - answer simple questions and donate free rice to people in poverty!!

click to give - just click a button to donate (it costs nothing) food to animals shelters, people in poverty and homeless veterans; mammograms to fight breast cancer; therapy for people on the autism spectrum; alzheimer’s and diabetes research; a book to a child; protect wildlife habitat

break something - good for anger

loads of cute games

how to make a blanket nest

learn something new - a masterpost of hobbies

exercise like a superhero

nice words

things to do when your sad

slap a bald guy with an eel - this is ridiculously entertaining

watch a dog lick your screen - it loops, so you could literally watch for hours if you want

calmingmanatee

daily puppy

how to make a comfort box

download free books

extras

emergency compliment!

lots of compliments - they even include ur name aw

huge list of bloggers who have put themselves forward as willing to listen/chat without judgement

getting anon hate?

:) tag - all the posts that i’ve tagged for making me happy

7cupsoftea - free, anonymous, confidential talks with trained listeners

get a hug

Calming songs, playlists and instrumentals:

Sing Me to Sleep

The Boulevard of Broken Dreams

Boost your Mood (peppier and happy songs)

The Driving Mixtape

Study

Summer Nights

It’s Going to be Fine

Calm & Collected

Once Upon a December - Piano (song)

Clair de Lune (song)

The Moon is a Harsh Mistress (song)

Calming/distracting Websites

The Quiet Place

Rainymood.com

Calm.com

Soundrown.com - calming sounds to mix and match

A website to distract yourself

A recovery masterpost

A post of interesting things

Ungruntle yourself

Press a magic button and fix everything

Play cute games

Almost every movie your little heart desires (i suggest you use with adblocker)

How to love yourself

A website that compliments you

Crafts and activities, easy and fun DYI projects

Glitter calm jars

A list of things to do to curb anxiety

Make a blanket nest

Silky summer legs

Lots of food recipes; mostly desserts  

For bad days masterpost

Make some microwave snacks

Five minute fudge

Make a phone case

A bunch of hobbies!

Self care list!

Pretty gold-dipped feathers (for decorating or anything)

What to do when:

You’ve been triggered

You’re having an anxiety attack

You’re having a panic attack

Your face is red and puffy after crying

You just had a fight

You hate yourself

You want to avoid being stressed

You want to get over your ex

Meditation and breathing

Guided Meditations

Do Nothing for 2 Minutes

Calm Down

Meditation Tips

90 second relaxation exercise

Simple things

Pretty Tree

When You Feel You Have Lost Everything

See Some BLOOD

Press a Button to Make Everything OK

Calming Manatee

Calming Gif

Make Something!

Jump into a Sofa Fort!

Make a Comfort Box

Glitter Jar Or This One

Other Nice Things

A Page To Help You Recover!!!

Coping Skills & Distractions

The Quiet Place. Shhhhh

For When You’re Upset

The Nicest Place on the Internet

Player 2

10 Most Relaxing Online Games

Talk To Someone That Will Listen

Not Having a Good Day?

How-to Love Yourself

Ground Yourself X X  X

Mood Chart

Do Nothing For Two Minutes

Rainymood

The Comfort Spot

Weave Silk

Seed Plant Breeder

This Is Sand

C.A.L.M

Calming/Relaxing Music:

Soft Piano: x, x, x, x, x

The Sound of Waves: x

The Sound of a Storm + Waves: x

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To all DID/OSDD systems

I see y’alls asses out here really sayin’ that y’alls traumas ain’t severe enough.

STOP THAT SHIT.

Y’alls traumas are severe enough. Every human being is different. Every human being’s ability to handle trauma is different. Every trauma is different.

Yous get gaslit? Fuckin’ hell, you deserve a hug after that.

Natural disaster? You’re gonna get through it, I believe in yous.

S3xu4l 4bus3? You’re strong for survivin’ that.

Physical? Please take time outta your day to care for yourself.

I don’t care what happened to yous. I don’t care ‘bout your story.

YOUS DESERVE THE CARE YOUS NEVER GOT. LOVE YOURSELF.

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I can speak on the behalf of most of our system, and that this is very appreciative. We agree with this a lot.-🐊

Things I want to catch on in sysspaces in 2021

-Tags like #didama or #deardid/osdd/systems so singlets have a space to ask questions without singling out tired systems

-communism

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Hello.

Era gave me the go ahead to talk on here. And I’d like to say hello, my nickname is Crocodile. Era’s teaching me how to be the new host, which means he will let me use this as well. I’m a fictive as well, and I am 23 years old. My pronouns are He/Him as well. I don’t have that much of a negative trigger.  I will mark my posts with a -🐊.

I hope that I can provide some entertainment compared to the heaviness that Era usually goes into. It is nice to meet you. And one more thing, for all of the likes and followers, thank you for your time. He never expected anyone to even look at these, so it was a nice surprise. Have a wonderful day. You deserve one.

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Fuck

I did not just type out “scools” instead of “schools”. Nope. Didn’t see jack shit from me. I swear I’m smart-