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softdrafts · 7 days ago
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You don't have to be non binary to recognize this.
You Don't have to be outside the gender binary to refuse to view the world under binary-normativity. Ppl under Gender Binary are totally valid! What is not valid is thinking the WORLD should be binary, bc it shouldn't. Sex & gender Binary views of the world excludes intersex ppl and ppl under the non binary / genderqueer umbrella.
And if may I add, this binary world - view is used a lot by transphobic movements that you may know the names. Binary (perisex) normativity may also contributes to reinforcing gender roles, that are pretty binary too, obviously.
Still don't get it? I'm gonna simplify:
Binary nomartivity view of the world reinforces the idea of just existing binary genders and 2 sexes. Binary normativity is used by transphobic movements to invalidate ppl like intersex folks, genderqueer/enby folks, and any binary transgender that doesn't want to transition. Binary normativity may also makes you think that your gender needs to have a correlation with your sex (reminder: in the binary view of the world, there are just two sexes).
Being against the binary view of the world is not wanting to exclude binary folks, is actually recognizing they exist BUT ALSO RECOGNIZING enby, genderqueer and intersex ppl exist. It's not exclusionary, it's actually the opposite of it.
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softdrafts · 8 days ago
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softdrafts · 9 days ago
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THISSSSS!! I HATE TRANSMEDICALISM SO MUCHHHH omg being transgender was never about your hormones. This is stupid.
"But it harms the community"
you know what harms the community? Being f#cking ableists, or saying to trans folks they're not "trans enough".
Lmao you guys really think you are the gender cops.
The only parts of transmedicalism that aren’t rooted in transphobia and exorsexism are the parts that are rooted in ableism. But y’all ain’t ready for that conversation.
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softdrafts · 9 days ago
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this may sounds obvious but I wanna say it anyway
It's just crazy how gender roles, assigned at birth, are EVERYTHING to society. Ppl k¡ll in name of gender roles. Ppl establish transphobic movements that perpetuate gender roles. Ppl will do everything to keep things binary and consequently, to maintain gender roles as they are.
Ppl just ....want control.
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softdrafts · 10 days ago
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THIS. And may I add, all these ppl "anti recovery" piss me off too... Now talking specificaly about mental health, I know inadequate and abusive treatment can cause trauma. But wanting ppl to deny psychology /psychiatry as a WHOLE is not healthy. We shouldn't ABOLISH treatments, we should advocate for them to get better... Ppl with mental disorders shouldn't DENY science, we should APPROPRIATE and decolonize the scientific narrative. We need to advocate for an active role in these spaces in order to our needs being seem, denying them is exactly what ableists want.
I look at ppl who are "anti medication" the same way i look at anti vaxxers tbh.
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softdrafts · 12 days ago
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I wasn't going to talk abt this here but maybe this makes sense for someone else too:
Do you ever get tired of fighting against all these transphobic discusses and really just wanted to exist? Like, having to make ppl BELIEVE in your EXISTENCE is so fuckng exhausting.
I saw a transphobic on Instagram wording her transphobia in a fancy way just to say the most stupid thing ever. And she talks about it like it's just a regular opinion. Bc hating on our existence is literally this for them. An opinion.
I'm definitely not mentally healthy enough to debate with them. Bc it's exhausting. Bc it hurts. And bc while they talk Abt their stupid "opinions" like it is nothing, I talk about mine like it is everything to me. Bc it is. Bc it's not an opinion, it's my life. And I shouldn't have to come to the point where I have to make u believe that my life is worth living.
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softdrafts · 19 days ago
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my brain created another talk between Bens someone help me
[CT Ben] can I ask you something?
[CC Ben] sure, go ahead
[CT Ben] How do you feel about girls?
[CC Ben] Hmm. This is a...weird question. Well...I have female friends if that is what u're talking about, but it's not like I feel something or have an opinion about them being girls...
[CT Ben] Dude, no. I... I'm talking about having that type of feelings for... girls.
[CC Ben] ... Oh. This is about romantic feelings.
[CT Ben] yeah...
[CC Ben] I don't think I've ever felt this way about a girl in my... whole life.
[CT Ben] ...
[CC Ben] Honestly...I don't even know if I'm capable of liking them in that way.
[CT Ben] ...
[CC Ben] ... but I guess u already knew all that.
[CT Ben] ...I was kinda in denial.
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softdrafts · 19 days ago
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JWCT Ben icons // part 2
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silly icons for u all
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softdrafts · 20 days ago
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JWCT Ben icons // part 1
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number 5 is my fav,,
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softdrafts · 20 days ago
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context: this post
[CC Ben] * saying something really clever and important abt being who you are, gender identity, sexuality, taking your time, facing difficulties and dealing with trauma *
[CT Ben] ...
[CT Ben] bro you eat bugs
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softdrafts · 20 days ago
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okay let's go be imaginative together for a moment :
Bro JWCC Ben talk with JWCT Ben would be the most dramatically insane thing ever
This kid would give this man a lecture. And a hug.
And when the conversation gets paranoia/ trauma - themed I think that kid would just say something like "I thought we would get better at dealing with it, not at feeding and mockering it" and having to face that it is true would break that poor man.
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softdrafts · 21 days ago
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part 1
JWCC Ben Icons // part 2
Cute gay gnc jungle kid who eats bugs you'll always be famous.
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(And yes I can do it with JWCT scenes too!)
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softdrafts · 21 days ago
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JWCC Ben icons // part 1
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The gay & trans flags in the icon on the middle are my hcs for him and yes I'm talking about JWCT too
a lot of the pics here are scenes from this edit
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softdrafts · 22 days ago
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JWCC Benrius is like a "comfort" ship for me and here is why
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They care deeply for each other
One is able to feel when the other isn't alright.
Complementing the last topic, I need to add that Darius knows when Ben is trying to hide how he is feeling from him.( This is not a headcanon I'm just interpreting it based on the scenes we have of them )
Their personalities match each other insanely well. And I'm not just talking about the whole " dino nerd / jungle boy" dynamic (which is amazing by the way). I'm also taking about how even the way they deal with their problems is really similar. Both of them feel the need of being good enough for saving their friends and both try to repress their trauma deep down, and in Ben's case, he even creates a whole persona (jungle boy) for helping him on doing so.
They both have a connection with dinosaurs.
They both give me ADHD / Autistic vibes. And obviously that makes me like them even more
They feel more vulnerable around each other in a lot of scenes. Sometimes they just feel slightly more vulnerable and sometimes is the most explicit thing ever. It feels like they can't hide themselves in the other's presence, not totally.
the hand on shoulder and the hugs. IT'S SO CUTEE
The fight scene. I love the fight scene lmao.
Gonna stop here before this post gets to long
feel free to make your own list of it
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softdrafts · 24 days ago
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I have a lot of posts abt benrius, I know.
But that doesn't mean the opinions and interpretations I share here, mostly about Ben, exist to justify me liking this ship.
I just identify with CC Ben's character and that's pretty much it
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softdrafts · 24 days ago
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Real
"We also wanted to make sure she had her own story" peace and love you did not do a good job at it luv 💜
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softdrafts · 24 days ago
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and that said
JWCC Ben you was always the real one to me
Really don't fw the notion that CT Ben is the #REAL Ben and CC Ben wasn't cause just.. it's not true? Ntm kinda disrespectful to the CC writers who set up the whole "S1 Ben was real but he had fears, post s1 Ben is a form of masking that slips to rereveal the real Ben who's no longer constantly terrified but is still that same Ben." Thing.
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