mid-life-problems

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LIFE IS BORING.

I feel like writing after a long time, buy I  don’t know what to write. Honestly i feel so bored, life was so much better before the pandemic. But now everything that was normal has changed to something tats hard to reach and get.

like before my notes used to be complete, my studies would be done and i would be ready for exam but everything is the opposite. I can’t meet with my friends normally or interact and focus in class like i used to.

it’s no use of complaining and i know but i just wish everything to turn to normal.

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No Advice in the world is the best advice, because no one in the world is perfect

Perspective of Life

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Who’s Fault Is It?

When a man shoots a person on the head with a gun and kills, then he is called a murderer and is blamed for killing/shooting the victim "Because he was the one who shot the man with a gun".

When a country is bombed we blame the terrorist for it, because they were the ones who bombed the country and killed thousands.

Similarly when someone rape a woman/boy/girl or a child, they are called "RAPIST". But why do people Blame the victim here?. Clearly the one who committed the crime was the rapist not the person who got raped.

If people can blame a man for shooting another, a terrorist for killing thousands then why can't they blame the rapist. Like is it that hard for you get logic inside your head .

Let me make it clear.

Here the rapist is the gunman and the rape victim is the victim who was shot. Then whose fault is it?. Is it the man who pulled the trigger or the one who was shot ?.

Now let's make another thing clear. Just like no one wants to get shot to death, no one wants to get raped either.

Rape is non-consensual sex, where the second party has not agreed to having a sexual intercourse with the first party. However the second party was forced to it by the first party. This is what RAPE is.

Don't teach the girls to wear less revealing clothes or not to go out at night. Teach the boys to control themselves and keep a safe environment for girls because that is their duty.

Now if you're smart enough you would understand everything however if you're dumb like the rest of the society where victim blaming is like a culture, then pray never to show up in-front of anyone.

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And that's how unimportant my Ideas seem to them.

I applied for a school event awhile back and while having a group meeting i suggested an original idea. Everyone liked it so i became ore determined to do it. Before i started putting my idea no one suggested me anything or any ideas. I simply had the name of the project with me and was making the ideas from scratch. I was put in a group with 4-5 other people to discuss a bunch of ideas for other things as well so i asked them for their opinion on my project,they helped me and supported my idea.

On the day of the meeting when i suggested everyone my idea they said that another idea presented by someone else ,who was not in charge of my project what so ever,was better. At that point i felt like all of my hard work was for nothing. My idea was totally thrown out the window.

like when i was doing everything by myself no one told me exactly how it should be and finally when i did present my work, they had a lot of opposition saying “this wont work” or “this will look better”. Of course i understand that they want the best for the team but it still made me feel bad as to how my idea was completely being rejected for someone else’s idea. like i didn’t even know this person let alone meet her/him.

In a matter of second that person’s idea was taken simply because it was a lot simple, while it took me about a week to plan everything and submit the plan.

i know i shouldn’t be selfish but i can’t help but think of it that way. I felt as if i was being ignored and not given importance to. My hard work had all gone down the drain.

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Sweet words can be nice.

But sometimes it's poisonous.

More than the sharp words.

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✨ 2020 ✨Is ✨like✨ the ✨Pandora's ✨ box ✨of ✨Chaos✨

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My Dad Made Me Mad.

Honestly I don't get people at all. Actually I don't get my dad. Like I've been busy and confused about my project. And my sis was helping me with it.

But my dad just had to come in and ruin my mood. Like I tried to explain to him my project and he just started to scold me for the way I spoke. Like bitch m busy and I don't have time for this, if your gonna help then help r else leave.

And then after scolding me for almost nothing he goes like "So what is it about" and I just lost the mood to even do my project or talk n went like "nothing" and them he scolds me for saying that.

Like I don't get this kind of shitty parents at all. Like you actually think that I would want your stupid help after you absolutely ruined my mood to study n do research.

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August 8th ,2020

What my thoughts told me.

On an empty day when the sky is dull, the ocean is gray and the wind is quite. I hear the call of the thousand thoughts in my head.

When life is good it says to me "It's a good day, and it's going so well, a smile on your face as you face your laughing family filled with love and happiness." But then it leaves me with a scary question, "How long do you think it will last, the smiley faces in these beautiful days, will they stay? Or will they leave you with yet another disappointing and sad memory."

Yet on a sad day you tell me "It's going to be alright, time will fly and so will the pain. One day when you remember these memories you shall laugh and think of it as a trivial matter."

And what I ask you today. Will you leave me the answer of it as I wonder about it from day to day. "When I am sad it's your comforting words, when I am happy it's your scary questions , then what will it be ..... When I am confused and stuck , unable to make my judgements rights and unable to take the next step as it scares me of the consequences?"

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A Quick Reminder!!! Alert!!!

I searched up Asian and looked at the images and honestly I was a little surprised.

So I just wanna tell you guys that the Asian community not only has Korea, Japan, China, Vietnam, Philippines and Nepal. But also contains Bangladesh, India, Pakistan. (Sorry if I accidentally left out any country.)

I've seen this and experienced this a lot. When it's a person with slanted eyes and fair skin then people ask them "O are you Asian , which part of Asian?"

And when it's someone with brown skin tone , beard or different looking then it's "O are you Indian?" Like it's always like that. Like why?. India is also an ASIAN COUNTRY. So why can't they just get that right.

Like they just straight up ask that. And what if the person isn't Indian. The person might be from Bangladesh or Pakistan. But no it's always "O your Indian". Not even "Which country are you from?".

No offense to Indians and the other countries that I have mentioned earlier cuz they are nice people and they have a beautiful culture as well. But I just wish people got this one thing right.

When your gonna ask someone their country then just ask "Which country are you from?" It's simple and doesn't offend people. Don't just jump into conclusion about someone's origin.

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Human Minds Are Confusing.

Homo sapiens, Human , Man , People....all different words but with the same meaning, referring to one of nature's finest yet scariest creation. A creation that has the ability to learn, talk, hear, understand, and create something new but everything in nature has flaws, nothing is perfect. Such is this creation, not only does it have the greater qualities but it also has flaws , flaws that can destroy what is given, flaws that will bring danger to the world and the nature itself. This flaw is human's greed, anger, revenge . The negative emotions in human can bring much worse of a calamity than a storm or a volcanic eruption. Emotions in a human are much harder to understand... In my opinion, harder than math.

In a world where humans, who have both the intelligence and emotions, i.e. positive and negative, what do you think will happen?.

It's quite complicated. Humans can make both good as well as bad decisions. And these decisions are taken by how they think and feel.

Now which one is better?... A decision made by the mind or heart?... Or perhaps a decision made by the mind depending on how the heart feels. Or should one consider the facts?.....but then again it is up to the mind to decide whether to accept the fact as true or false ... Or maybe it is up to the heart on how it feels.

Confusing isn't it. Well that is just how humans are. Apart from they're appearance and their body function ,their way of thinking is rather complicated and confusing.

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For something new

Well honestly i have been feeling like to write a lot. And i wanted to do it somewhere where m more free and unknown. So I’ll use this platform for my opinion and sharing my post freely without restrictions and hesitation,