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why does my phone's autocorrect only fuck me up when I'm talking to her???? super homophobic :((((((

istg the amount of mistakes I've made in one conversation with her is my 13th reason smh

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This is a longshot, would you be willing to help me get my insulin? I'm down to my last pen and its pretty much close to being empty.Nt asking for much only need $370 rn to save my blood sugar. please help me with a small donation or share my pinned any help can save my life.Please help & Blessings ❤Thanks

I don't have money rn but if anyone can help pls do !!!!

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(gets flustered w masculine women) does this mean I'm a double heterosexual, a lesbian, or still an aroace that just wants friends/qprs?

my sexuality is currently a ginormous question mark

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If the school dress codes were actually worried about "distracting outfits", they would've banned neon/bright colors and colorful patterns, which are way more distracting than a fucking tank top.

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I want to help but I'm literally in the same situation so I'm reblogging this so it can reach someone who actually knows how to help <3

So I doubt anyone is going to see this, but on the off chance someone does, I could use some help.

So a question to the aromantics and/or asexuals. How do I tell my girlfriend of 2 years that I think I may be aroace but still want to be in a relationship with (although in a slightly different way)?

Like I've tried to tell her I'm asexual, but I don't think I was direct enough. And I am way too terrified to bring up the fact I may be aromantic.

Not to mention, how do you know if you're aromantic?

Like I'm freaking out, and could use some advice from someone who is experienced with this.

Plz help.

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i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

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love

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the urge to turn all my normal WIPs into a murder mystery/thriller bc romance plot isn't an option

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any aroaces out there looking for an aroace/platonic partner?

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All know spells from Harry Potter

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The world has told me my love is not normal,

Because it does not fit into the categories any love should fit.

But as different as my love is, it is still love and it is still immortal,

Even if it is not the same way the "usual" love ought to be.

(what I feel like every time someone questions how I feel love as an aroace/how queer love works)

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straight people say queer parents can't be good parents, but it's always the straights who have a problem with boys/girls being kids and playing with dolls/trucks

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when you're aromantic but George Weasley exists

I swear he makes me actually believe I am capable of loving someone romantically

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"love is love" until it doesn't include sex

"love is love" until it lives in separate beds

"love is love" until it is queer platonic

"love is love" until it does not comply with compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity

love IS love, for aspecs, for sex sepulsed folk and for platonic relationships

"love is love" apply to more than same-sex relationships in a world where romantic and sexual relationships are considered more valuable

Remember to advocate for Asexuals and Aromantics this pride. Because we are also here, and we are also queer

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actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

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pls rb if you think cuddling doesn't have to be s3xual

im tryna prove a point to my bf's mother help me out

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LOVE. COMES. IN. ALL. FORMS. AND. FROM. ALL. TYPES. OF. PEOPLE. LET. LOVE. BE. LOVE.