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Absolutely. Maybe it’s just my experience, but the amount of effort people are putting into demonizing women that prioritize their success and building of worth is very icky. Any person that tells you to focus on seeking attention from the outside world, and not building yourself up (aesthetically, financially, education, etc.,) is not someone you want by your side. They may not explicitly hate you, but their advice will lead to misery and self hatred or even hatred of the world. This is a mindset women should always have, not just now that we have a literal misogynist in power, but overall.

Credit to: @Scorpionlafemme

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As much as this realization would be great, with the increase in women advocating for “traditional” roles and a return to conservative “femininity” and unfortunately the large group of women voting for a person wanting to take their rights, humanity, and dignity away this realization seems far away. We have a generation less than 15 years old advocating for the subjugation of women (thanks to men with microphones). In my own state, I have seen various women vote against their own rights, we voted no to issue 1 (regardless of gender), we elected Bernie Moreno (this is extremely hard since we had come together to fight for the rights of women to have abortions, yet have elected a disgusting person who is against these choices). Not to be accusatory but the arguments that many republicans give about women not having children while they are young (while also complaining about the problematic state of teenage pregnancies, most likely being impregnated by men the age of Moreno) sounds very pedo adjacent. Welp, the election is over, all we have left to do now is aim to create and advocate locally for our own rights.

I really do hope in my heart that women will take these next four years to focus on their wellbeing and safety. Men don’t care about you, and will never do.

maybe this election and men's reactions will make women realize men love rapists more than they like us but many of you are stupid so idk

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Also, love your content @quinntheestallion btw.

These women who pine after the trad life act like getting married and pregnant at 21 is illegal. Like you could literally do that if you want. They just refuse to make the same choices traditional women made.

"Choices" traditional wives make:

1.Marry the first guy that comes along (long courtship where you agonize over compatability and attraction is a modern luxury). Trad wives didn't date around endlessly, they married Todd from church because Todd from church asked first. That's it.

2.Live whatever lifestyle he can afford to give you and do what your husband says (as a woman, specific desires and ideals for how you want your life to turn out is modern luxury). If your husband's salary always runs out two weeks into the month- that's just what you have to live with.

That's it. That's tradition.

"Im forced to work becsuse of the economy"

No, you CHOOSE to work because you're unwilling to do the above. You could be married, barefoot, and pregnant in some man's house by January if you really wanted but you aren't choosing that. Because the above scenarios never actually represented choice but the absence of it.

If you have ideals for what kind of man you want and strong opinions on how you want your life to turn out- you are not trad. You are a modern women with modern sensibilities pining after a delusional fantasy aeshetic. Just shut up

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Though I agree with the statement, we still can’t deny that the general consensus among the people who follow her are that she is what “traditional” women should strive for. Many do not know about her work, and family background or simply disregard it. I love Nara, and have followed her way before her popularity rose. When I say dangerous, I mean how some SAHM wanna be content creators will stitch her videos as evidence of the benefits of being a SAHM. Nara’s background (family history) is why she is able to be a model (get paid well compared to models coming from less fortunate backgrounds), and sometimes stay at home baking or making food is more than $100 dresses. Even with that being said, I will be honest and say I love Nara and her look/aesthetic.

These women who pine after the trad life act like getting married and pregnant at 21 is illegal. Like you could literally do that if you want. They just refuse to make the same choices traditional women made.

"Choices" traditional wives make:

1.Marry the first guy that comes along (long courtship where you agonize over compatability and attraction is a modern luxury). Trad wives didn't date around endlessly, they married Todd from church because Todd from church asked first. That's it.

2.Live whatever lifestyle he can afford to give you and do what your husband says (as a woman, specific desires and ideals for how you want your life to turn out is modern luxury). If your husband's salary always runs out two weeks into the month- that's just what you have to live with.

That's it. That's tradition.

"Im forced to work becsuse of the economy"

No, you CHOOSE to work because you're unwilling to do the above. You could be married, barefoot, and pregnant in some man's house by January if you really wanted but you aren't choosing that. Because the above scenarios never actually represented choice but the absence of it.

If you have ideals for what kind of man you want and strong opinions on how you want your life to turn out- you are not trad. You are a modern women with modern sensibilities pining after a delusional fantasy aeshetic. Just shut up

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The fact that this is the dreaded reality for many women living in the third world or underdeveloped nations, and to hear this from a somewhat privileged person is insulting. This is the reason why people like Nara, who romanticize the traditional lifestyle are dangerous to young women. If she wants to be a woman with no means of ever escaping a bad relationship because she relies on her husband, so be it. No one is holding a knife to your neck and telling you to go to your little desk job. The misery she feels is the result of the capitalistic nation she lives in, her anger is directed in the wrong direction. Pathetic

These women who pine after the trad life act like getting married and pregnant at 21 is illegal. Like you could literally do that if you want. They just refuse to make the same choices traditional women made.

"Choices" traditional wives make:

1.Marry the first guy that comes along (long courtship where you agonize over compatability and attraction is a modern luxury). Trad wives didn't date around endlessly, they married Todd from church because Todd from church asked first. That's it.

2.Live whatever lifestyle he can afford to give you and do what your husband says (as a woman, specific desires and ideals for how you want your life to turn out is modern luxury). If your husband's salary always runs out two weeks into the month- that's just what you have to live with.

That's it. That's tradition.

"Im forced to work becsuse of the economy"

No, you CHOOSE to work because you're unwilling to do the above. You could be married, barefoot, and pregnant in some man's house by January if you really wanted but you aren't choosing that. Because the above scenarios never actually represented choice but the absence of it.

If you have ideals for what kind of man you want and strong opinions on how you want your life to turn out- you are not trad. You are a modern women with modern sensibilities pining after a delusional fantasy aeshetic. Just shut up

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Women’s biggest predators are men

Men’s biggest predators are other men

The common denominator is men

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When life gives you lemons …

Throw that shit in people’s face(s)

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Hello,

Welcome to my little blog. Below I have gone the extra mile to give you an introduction to myself and what I believe in. On this blog we are open minded, respectful, and courteous. It is okay to disagree, as long as you are disagreeing with the statements (no personal attacks).

I am an immigrant living in the US (Ohio) 🌷

I am on a weight loss journey, and will most likely reblog or like images that can be triggering to others but I find motivational. 🌸

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The Kim Porter

Justice for Kim

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