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"You are the average of 5 people you spend time with" -Jim Rohn

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Be Fearless…

What good has fear ever done for you? It has constantly stopped you from reaching your highest potential. Fear was embedded into our minds as we were growing up by society. The constant “be careful” and “watch out” has gotten us to the point where we dwell on each step we are about to take in life. Control your neuro-associations to overcome your greatest fear that you imagine in your mind as it is merely only a picture that you’re allowing to control you life.

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It is your decisions that determine your journey, not you conditions! Stop looking backwards and enjoy the ride to your destination.

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Love is not supposed to hurt! Statics have shown the 1 in every 3 women have been a victim of domestic violence by their intimate partner. This is a very touching topic for me as I have witnessed and dealt with domestic violence in my own household as a child. Not many people or friends that know me are aware of this fact. I know this though that those women being abused are not cowards but they are fearful and they are embarrassed. Fear seems to hold us back in every aspect of our life but fear is not what we were born with. Why as young kids are we fearless? Why are kids ready to try everything? If we think about this, we know fear was never there but we were conditioned to it by society on a daily basis. Conditioned in a way that fear holds us back from breaking through or trying something we may want to. These women don't ask for a beating everyday but they don't know who'll help them, who'll provide for their kids, or if someone out there is judging them negatively. So if you are someone who is being abused or someone who knows of another being abused, please be a voice for that person. Please say NO to domestic violence. There are resources out there and gentle people that are willing to help and show you the way. It won't be easy but it is an adjustment for a new life ahead that has so much to offer.

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"Let go and Let God" -Bob Proctor

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It may feel like no one's listening to you in the beginning but don't ever give up because someone out there is listening and for that someone you maybe the only source. There are people out there looking for what you have to offer - some that are actually looking for you actively and some that are not on board yet. Regardless let your voice be heard, you may change a mindset or two, maybe even more than that. Keep your head up and continue your efforts.

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"...Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living" Commit to going that extra mile for your goals and so what if you fail, that's okay but what's not okay is you not coming up with another game plan and trying again and again and again until you reach your goals. No one said it was going to be easy but it'll be worthwhile. How often do you hear yourself saying that I'm not going to live like this anymore but yet you continue to live that way. What does it take for you to move into action? Get it out of your head and put it into action because as long as it stays up there, it's merely only a thought. Failure is a part of life but if you keep trying failure will lead you to success. Believe me, I know that there are times when you fail and you don't know if you want to keep going. When that happens though, I remind myself of why I started this journey in the first place and all of a sudden I get that strength to try again and I will keep trying until I get to where I see myself. So all of you reading this, you're not allowed to ever give up. Right when you feel like you're sinking and you want to give up, great things will happen so keep trying. Remember, YOU'RE A BEAST !!!!

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It All Starts From YOU

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Girl, Don’t Fool Yourself !

Today I want to focus on a very trending topic of all time  - Break-Ups.  I’m not the one to mostly write on stuff such as this but lately I’ve been seeing and hearing different stories through Facebook newsfeed, friends, and strangers. Before you start reading this, let me just tell you that I am not here to sugar coat shit for you or tell you how to get your ex back. Now we’ve all been through a break up but how we deal with it is always based on individuals, as I always say, it all starts from YOU. Some of us have mutual break ups and others have no idea what hit them but regardless of what it is, I think we should all agree that break ups are never easy. 

 With my first break up, I reacted as though my life had ended and that there was no way I could ever continue living. I stood at the corner of the street balling my eyes out.  Yes, that was me and now here I am laughing while I write this.  I soon realized that wasn’t the end. Life has a lot to offer and when they say, there’s plenty of fish in the sea, believe it! At first it takes time because it certainly isn’t an overnight process but you really need to be true to yourself; what I mean is for you to be truly honest to yourself. Remember who you are, know your true identity and most importantly hold on tight to your self worth. What you allow to happen to yourself is exactly what you deserve so stop fooling yourself.  Your break up is done, it can’t be any clearer than what it is, you’re not with him and he’s most likely not coming back. If he does than that’s great but maybe at that time you may not even want him anymore so don’t hold on to that hope, let it go.  Be vulnerable because you putting a show on for people that you’re tough and are having a great time aren’t you. Ask me why, you know what, don’t ask me I’ll just tell you in simple words that you’re not being transparent. You’re continuously lying to yourself to the point where now you believe that your lie is a reality.  How do you allow yourself to feel so empty? How dare you not honor your own dignity? I see and hear of plenty of girls, who are, from what they say “can’t get over it��.  You mean to tell me that you gave one person so much control over you that you don’t know how to move on? Seems pretty ridiculous on many different levels. Most of you are probably furious with me at this point that I don’t really know how it is but I do and I know of every single excuse running in your head right now. I’m no relationship advisor but I’ve been there and I have experienced it to the extent where it felt like I was trying to hold onto the running water in the palm of my hands; you are all aware of exactly how hard it is to do that. I’m asking for you to stop humiliating yourself for no good reason and take control of yourself. When I had my son, my priorities immediately shifted and I knew that my steps would be followed by my son so I molded my mind in turn molding myself to an individual that is on a constant basis aware of my thoughts, emotions, and actions.  Ask me a question about my life and I will never reply with “I don’t know” that’s just truly lame.  Whether we want to share it or not, we always know the answer but maybe we haven’t really thought about it. No doubt you were hurt and that your heart was broken but pick those pieces up, put them back together, and stop abusing yourself by fooling yourself because you are one beautiful person.  There are a thousands of articles and websites you can go to that will only make you live a lie because we are all in the business of making money one way or another but be the judge of your own destiny.  Stop relying on people to show you the way, find it and follow it.  Listen to your intuition that little voice inside of you that you’ve been ignoring. If you fear the “what ifs” in life than you might miss the best moments and opportunities life is placing right in front of you. And one last thing, don’t never ever settle for anything or anyone that hasn’t made you their priority.  Life is full of experiments, you’ll never know what could be or would be if you don’t give it a try. Trust me when I say this, you won’t be disappointed.

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What book are you reading to better yourself and attain more knowledge??? Do something your future self will thank you for !!!

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Success with an Easy Button???

Most of the time we tend to look at successful people and automatically think, how lucky is this person to have all that he/she wants.  We wish if we could be that person and wish if we were that lucky.  How is success achieved? How does one become successful? I am by no means perfect or where I desire to be but I am peaceful and grateful for all that I have and each day I work towards what I want. There certainly isn’t an “Easy Button” by my side and boy I do not wish for one either.  You see, if it’s easy than nobody would want it. Ahhhh, you must be thinking what does she mean “nobody would want it.” If it’s easy than it’ll be something everyone has it. We as human beings always want something more and something different so would you want it if everyone has the same old thing? I certainly don’t want what’s easy to get. I like a good challenge because in trying times is growth - “You either change for inspiration or desperation.”  This quote is so impactful and true for us, who are trying to get ahead. Success is created from within, you imagine yourself to be the person you long to be, you get yourself in that mindset, and you believe in yourself. Who cares what people think or talk about. People will talk whether its for the good or the bad but never treat people badly, be always kind.  Success is practiced everyday by discipline and creating extraordinary habits that are also implemented on a daily basis. Ask yourself if that’s what you want? And if it is than why are you not on the road to success? Shatter your limiting beliefs and believe you are capable of achieving your innermost desires. Don't fall into a trap when you tell someone your goals and they are not as excited for you as you thought because not everyone is going to have your back.  People you thought might life you up might not do as you expected of them but you know, what can get you through that? You should never set those expectations for people in your life, it doesn’t matter if its your immediate family or your best of friends.  Believe in yourself and keep your eyes on the goal. Don’t you dare stop until you get there.  This process has made me a firm believer.  Ordinary people like you and me are making things happen everyday so let’s not wait anymore, let’s just go for it and do it.

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SIMPLE is the name of the game so you confuse me when you say it’s COMPLICATED. Stop it and tell your mind to shut up and get it right.  Always remember there’s someone else in a worse situation than you are so be grateful for what you have and stop complaining about what you don’t have. Instead of complaining, work towards things you desire. If you’re not waking up everyday with a goal in mind than you’re still sleeping.  It is so easy to blame external factors for the things you don’t have but let’s really dig deep within and find out what’s holding you back from getting what you want.  Stop wishing and start doing.

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We have all been there. We have looked back in the past and said, “wow, what was I thinking? Biggest mistake of my life.” Tell me you haven’t done that? All I have to say to that is, it was a biggest lesson learned in life.  See I could look back and say that I made the biggest mistake by having a kid with such a deceiving person but that doesn’t change anything nor do I feel that way. My son is the biggest blessing in my life and without him I wouldn’t have half of the motivation that I have to keep going.  My passion wakes me up everyday feeling blessed that God has given me another day to work towards my dream.  I have purpose in life and no one or nothing will stop me from getting it.  I can’t stress enough about how important it is to move on from the past life lessons, put it behind you and grow from it.  I’m not asking you to forget your past because that made you who you are but I’m asking you to let it go, put the burdens down of the past and keep it moving.  If anyone hasn’t told you than listen to me because who you are is better than who you were. You are amazing and you got this !!!