#you can’t control others

[genderfluid-jew]

I think one of the easiest ways for me to mistrust a book and all it’s saying is to see how wrong it gets history about Jews.

This came about because I’m reading a book on indigenous activism and theory and it’s really good!

Too bad I can’t trust anything about it because I’m their little “history of colonialism” section they went “the three largest religions of the world-Christianity, Islam, and Judaism (collectively called the Abrahamic religions”.

Bestie. Jews are .2% of the global population. If you’d done a basic google search it would’ve told you the largest religious groups are Christianity, Islam, irreligion, Hinduism, and Buddhism, each of which have over 5% of the global population as adherents. It takes about five seconds to check that and see if you’re being accurate.

If your book is trying to be a reputable source of information and you can’t even put 5 seconds of effort into basic factual double-checking, you are not worthy of my trust about anything else you say.

[randomalistic]

Wait you guys are actually buying Disney products I thought it was a joke

(READ TAGS FOR FULL CONTEXT Sorry it’s long dies

[housecow]

im getting so many seemingly normie followers… im torn between faithfully keeping y’all’s secret and being incredibly suspicious some of y’all are using my blog to further ur own self hate

in either case, hmmm!!!!

[wormswurld]

ARTRICK PISSSS😭😭😭😭 fucknejejdh i need more

okay 😊

- pat and art playing a shooter game and they’ve both been downing mountain dews and different sodas though art has had the most between them

- everytime patrick looks over at art he sees him concentrating on the game.. his cute little pink tongue peaking out between his lips as he leans closer to the screen, patrick admiring art’s cute expression as he notices art’s boxers are hugging his thighs snugly

- art’s starting to feel the sodas catching up to him but he really wants to prove to patrick he’s gotten better at the game during break

- art starts tensing up as he becomes hyper aware of how uncomfortable his bladder is

- patrick notices how uncomfy art is and asks is he’s doing alright but all art can do is brush it off and say he’s okay (even though he’s so close to pissing himself but the level he’s on is almost over..)

- “come on man, you’re literally clenching your legs together like you’re about to piss yourself”

- art just rolls his eyes as he slightly adjusts himself making sure not to move too much to agitate his already full bladder

- “i told you i’m fine pat, why are you looking at my legs anyways? you perv..”

- now that flips a switch in patrick’s brain and he starts to move closer to art, resting his hand on the inner part of his warm thigh, slowly moving his hands up and the down the expanse of his skin making art sharply inhale

- “you’re right artie, i’m a perv and you love it” and patrick starts nibbling on art’s flushed ears reveling in his distress

- “pat stop- please.. you’re right i do gotta go just….fuck”

- and art just gets cut off as patrick’s starts pressing his hand into arts belly, right above his bladder.. teasing him with pressured touches with balanced with kisses on his neck

- poor baby art starts twitching as he shakes his head back and forth trying to warn patrick before he releases all over himself

- “shhh shh it’s okay baby just let go, let it out, i won’t mind..”

- and that’s all it takes for art to starts whining as he pisses himself, the wetness spreading throughout the tight fabric clinging to his skin

- “good boy artie, you did so good for me..”

[starlightwayfinder]

aros when the story explores the role of relationships and their effect on sense of self and fulfillment, the acceptance of impermanence and change, the perceived emptiness and isolation that comes from having a different emotional experience than the people around you, the struggle to balance independence with connection to others, wanting to be loved but not at the expense of being ‘imprisoned’ or tied down, choosing to be true to yourself at the expense of meeting others’ expectations—

[quietwingsinthesky]

Dean is such a paradox for me because on the one hand, I have been actively triggered by him in the show, there are moments where, intentionally or not, the writers managed to create a portrayal of manipulation and abuse and control issues that it sets off actual alarms for me. And on the other hand, I would not have him any other way. There is something — not comforting, that’s too soft a word — about knowing where Dean’s actions stem from, having seen and learned all that we do about his childhood neglect and parentification and the trauma he goes through repeatedly in the show, and that he doesn’t come out clean. He comes out a goddamn mess who ends up hurting the people around him in reaction to his own pain!

There’s a reality there that’s. Almost nice, actually. Distressing to watch, but it is a fucking mess, it’s a good mess! He’s got zero healthy coping skills and a healthy relationship with say, his brother, is terrifying because it leaves him open to abandonment!

I’m not sure I’m wording this correctly. There is a way to be a good abuse victim. Take the pain, martyr yourself on it, and then, even if you have no support or idea how to, then you have to become a Good Person who never hurts anyone the way you have been learning to your entire life. Simply toss everything that shaped you out the door and emerge a saint with a tragic backstory. And Dean is not that. And that’s so fucking good. Everything that he has gone through continues to effect the way he treats the people around him, and he can’t fight the behaviors he might recognize as harmful because he also sees them as protecting him (or protecting Sam by keeping Sam with him.)

And sometimes, idk. It feels good to see a guy who didn’t heal the “right way.” Who mostly didn’t heal at all, just keeps the wound open because it’s easier that way.

[erytherion]

Reading the webtoon and…

Does this imply that Kim Dokja also tried to write a questionnaire for her to fill in since she wouldn’t speak to him, that either he 1) never gave her in the end (especially if he couldn’t find her after she was released) or 2) gave it to her and she STILL refused to answer?

Because that is so so so so awful. It was already bad but if he tried so many ways to get her to speak and she still gave him no response, regardless of her reasoning… isn’t that still directly choosing to cut herself fully out of his life? Why in the hell did she lie for his sake and allow him to visit her if she wanted to never speak to him again?

I know everyone claims Kim Dokja is just like her in sacrificing himself for loved ones, but at least he tries his best to stay with them and to keep them in his life. He still chooses sacrifice, but it’s not because he intends to never return. He always returns (even if much later than planned).

The only time this differs is with 51%, when he STILL tried his best to stay with them - at least as much as he could.

I sometimes like Lee Sookyung, but I am mostly still SO mad at her for completely ignoring her child since he was 8 years old. Especially when he must have looked like shit any number of times from being mistreated and bullied by family, friends, army, employers.

But maybe that’s just the fragment in me being eternally pissed with her. She DOES love him, but like he says in the webtoon in this chapter - maybe such truths are painful enough to be false anyways, because they’re just SUCH bullshit. That’s not how affection should work, if you actually care about someone and want them to be happy.

[angelnumber27]

It’s so embarrassing and heartbreaking being in so much pain over losing someone while knowing they don’t give a fuck if you live or die. Your favorite person becoming a stranger is a special kind of hell.

[luthorao3]

i’m in the mood to read/write the most self indulgent sci-fi swarla au. underworld as a ship, part of a greater human flotilla, carla at its helm. lisa with her own tiny cruiser, which she spends more nights in than she does back at her apartment on the greater populated ship (too many memories). perfect mental image in my head of betsy tearing up and customising her fleet-issued standard citizen uniform so that her belly’s showing. plot? unrealised, just let me enjoy the aesthetic. 🥹

[amrv-5]

Going to walk into the fucking water 🙏👍🚶➡️🌊

[rigginsstreet]

Not to be sad on main but like if in season 2 timeline after the fight at the Byers steve planned this whole scenario to publicly humiliate billy and get back at him and finish their rivalry once and for all

But once it’s been executed billy doesn’t look angry and embarrassed like Steve was expecting. He just looks…really sad. And still embarrassed but not in any way steve can enjoy. He looks scared. And what Steve doesn’t know is billy had gotten into a real bad fight with neil earlier that day that already left him shaken and downtrodden so this hit him at the absolute worst time and there’s no glory in it for steve when he sees billy sneaking off to the bathroom or his car or wherever. Is pretty sure he saw tears sun the guys eyes and Steve thinks he SHOULDNT feel sympathy for him after what he did to his face. Fuck that guy. But it doesn’t stop this remorse eating away at his chest, pulling him in billys direction to check on him

[housecow]

Would you recommend getting fat to others? I'm on the fence about it so I'd appreciate anything you have to say

this is very hard to answer, but i’m going to be honest. and keep in mind i have been big most of my life—being fat is all i’ve known and most likely all i will ever know.

you WILL be treated differently by people when you’re fat. i cannot speak to this as i don’t have a reference point from being skinny, but plus sized ppl always talk about these things. you will be treated worse. people won’t look at you in the eye, they won’t hold open doors for you, you may get dirty looks and comments. if you’re used to getting attention in a certain way, that may cease. if you have anxiety and insecurities based on how you look, you’ll think every whisper between passerby are about you and how fat you are. your family may make comments if that’s who they are. this can all be incredibly difficult to handle.

that being said—i haven’t experienced this all too much. i used to be insecure about myself and my body, but that’s fading as i get older. i’m also “lucky” enough to have a figure that holds the weight “well,” according to some people, and that combined with living in TX (many fat ppl) means i haven’t experienced much of what i described above. im also lucky enough to have a family that doesn’t comment on my size.

you need to be confident in yourself and your decision. i want to say you should get fat, but it’s something you need to decide for yourself. does it match your lifestyle? can you see yourself happy in a fat body several years down the line?? it is hard to lose weight, if you decide to, and you should always just look to be comfortable with yourself, imo. if that means gaining weight and getting fat, do it!

[itspileofgoodthings]

one of my favorite things about getting older is that I’m just more sure and more confident in taking control in social situations and making other people feel at ease. I really love it!

[depressedhatakekakashi]

Kakashi: *shows countless times in canon he cares about his students and wants to train them, but a lot of that training is outright skipped for ‘more interesting storyline’

Weirdo’s: nah, Kakashi didn’t teach any of his student’s anything and didn’t care about them at all.

[literaila]

On a scale of one to ten how emotional was readers reaction seeing megumi alive again

8.7 but she never really believed that he was gone. call her crazy but her son isn’t going to blindly submit to some manic gym bro from the heian era

megumi takes back his body and she’s basically jumping up and down with yuji and applauding. a standing ovation for her son, obviously.

and then later she goes home and cries herself to sleep because a. she’s really proud of him and b. the world is a terrible terrible place

[quietwingsinthesky]

the doctor is emotionally manipulative. he’s very good at it, and even better at justifying it both to himself and the people he’s doing it to. he can see when his approval, his affection, is valuable enough to someone that withholding it will be an effective way of getting them to do what he wants. this is one of his best flaws, that he’ll do this to people and do it to them for his own definition of what’s good for them.

(gestures vaguely) twissy.