#worse: queer discourse
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sneegsnitties · 4 months ago
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DONT! TELL! CONTENT! CREATORS! ABOUT! THE! WEIRD! SHIT! YOU! ARE! DOING! TO! THEIR! CUBITOS!
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this is like the #1 thing u dont do. come on man.
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if-loki-was-a-fox · 22 days ago
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it's always a little frustrating to me when aroallo people don't understand or care about asexuality
I know that aroallo-ness has it's own struggles, amatanormativity and heteronormativity hate us all in unique and intersecting ways and it definitely sucks for aroallo folk (especially with how I've seen plenty of people talk about how they get the least explicit canon rep in fiction out of all the aro/ace combos) ...but sometimes it feels like a lot of aroallo people start taking that frustration out on aroace/ace-ness, instead of amatanormativity/heteronormativity and the aphobic/uncaring allo folk who enforce it. Y'know, the people who actually dislike aromanticism and asexuality, and who really don't give a shit about nuanced and varied aro rep.
(presumably there's also alloace people out there who are the same about aromanticism too -- I'm just talking about aroallo people because that's what I have personally been seeing, and I don't want to just make shit up about the alloaces.)
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amirmeavid · 7 months ago
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what you don’t seem to understand is that statistics and surveys are JUST as subjective as things like theory. you seem to put things like surveys in a “practical, unbiased truth” category and things like memoirs or theory discussions about people’s actual real-life lived experience in a “impractical, biased falsehoods” category. but that’s YOUR personal judgement, not a universal opinion, and you can’t treat it like it is. statistics and surveys can be just as hypothetical and flawed as “personal experience”. in fact, most of the surveys you pull statistics from were questions answered by individuals about their personal experiences. so like, stop trying to push this arbitrary divide between “theory” and “evidence”.
'what you don’t seem to understand is that statistics and surveys are JUST as subjective as things like theory.'
Dude, Fite-Club I know this is you. You're the only person who will ever make a claim that statistics are AS SUBJECTIVE as something that is PURELY subjective.
I'm not saying statistics are perfect. But trying to argue that RECORDED TRENDS OF LARGE NUMBERS OF PEOPLE are not less subjective than SINGULAR PEOPLE's experiences is only a claim you could make.
'most of the surveys you pull statistics from were questions answered by individuals about their personal experiences.'- Its almost like theres a difference between 'trends' and 'singular individuals'.
'stop trying to push this arbitrary divide between “theory” and “evidence”.' ...Ah yes. The notoriously 'arbitrary' divide between 2 factually different things.
Theory- An educated guess presented as an explanation for observable patterns
Evidence- Observable patterns.
If your theory does not align with observable patterns, it is WRONG.
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tweltchy · 6 months ago
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catboynutsack · 29 days ago
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I love being a pathetic little Tumblr meow meow irl. I've had multiple people get kicked out of friend groups I'm in over and over bc they showed their true colours--aka they couldn't resist bullying someone so pathetic when coming across them and when everyone realizes that they weren't as progressive as they thought they're immediately excommunicated from the friend group.
#its 2 am and i cant sleep and i have a fever so im poasting#its always queer discoursers who go feral on sight for some reason#i get that my identity is like. THE queer discoursers worst nightmare. but its happened THREE TIMES#i have a PROTOCOL AT THIS POINT#literally just step back and dont respond and let them cannibalize on themselves as they try to either double down or make excuses.#they just tell on themselves worse and then leave after throwing a fit bc they couldnt lie about being progressive anymore#for those curious. the labels i personally like and share with others are polyamorous. asexual. he/they/it boydyke. femme transmasc.#basically if tumblr has had a hate campaign against a queer group im more than likely part of it. and ppl see this and assume im weak.#except im not! i would be dead if i werent resilient bestie! im like the problematic coquette cockroach in your walls!#and you cant exterminate me bitch! bigger people in my life have tried and failed! my own mother almost took me out more than once!#you think some mean words against my identity will make a genuine dent in my psyche?? for more than maybe two minutes??#sure yall can genuinely trigger my cptsd snd make me cry and panic. but so can my upstairs neighbors toddler when she jumps too loud.#so can the toddler that loves upstairs when she jumps too hard when playing. are yall really gonna stoop to a toddlers level?#to insult someone you dont even care about their existence besides that you disagree with their identity?#im terminally online and even i think this type of person needs a hobby at this point. and thats sad#its not a bother outside of the general turbulence it sometimes brings but the fsct that its happened 3 times makes me think its not over 💀#like once is chance. twice is a coincidence. thrice? in three separate groups ???? yeah nah this is a concerning pattern at this point lol#fool me once shame on you. fool me twice shame on me. fool me three times? why are you lying to me so much 🥺
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faeryton · 4 months ago
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some of y'all are monsters ngl
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soullessjack · 3 months ago
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how it feels to see identity/label/neopronoun discourse in the big ‘25 after you already spent half of quarantine arguing about it in the comments section of picsart infographic posts on instagram
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storm-of-feathers · 2 years ago
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okay hi im drunk so bear with me
but you motherfuckers have to understand that a social class is out of your control. there is not a single thing you can goddamn do to change your social class
so trans men being denied access to medical needs ie medical needs around a uterus (something that is very serious and exhausting to have.) isnt saying "oh men are oppressed" its saying "even when trans men are read as women they are still denied bc theyre not women enough. they are also denied mens healthcare post transition bc theyre not considered men enough. the same thing applies to trans women in the reverse. its not about who has it worse, but how we can band together to fight this."
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autistic-katara · 1 year ago
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jesus christ rhat opinion is so stupid but its not that serious and i dint wanna argue rn
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wild-at-mind · 2 years ago
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If you ever see me becoming one of those transmisandry people, please fucking call me out immediately.
#it shouldn't happen though i am too triggered by MRA-lite material#i can't see that changing any time soon even though i haven't had exposure to the content for like 10 years#the transmisandry discourse on this site melts my brain it's awful it's just online stuff being argued about more online stuff#this is not the same as me saying i will never be treated badly for being transmasc i am not stupid i know that happens#and i am fully committed to fighting the patriachy which has nothing whatsoever to do with my individual manhood or anyone else's#it's a system and yes gender and how we fit into the patriachy is made extremely complicated in trans circles and that's ok!#i promise it is you don't have to design a new system that cis women and trans women are using to do oppression on specifically trans mascs#we're all being fucked over by the patriachy and how the fuck does it help to be divided#but in reality let's face it i can say this all i want but the real reason i'm never going anywhere near being a transmisandry person#is because i was exposing myself to MRA-lite content at a formative age and harming myself in the process#even if i didn't know i was a trans man guess what it would have harmed me just as much if i did have that awareness#and honestly when i see transmisandry discourse all i see is that fucking triggering stuff again#all it does is nitpick whether patriachy is real with tiny examples it doesn't talk systemicly and it doesn't help men in the slightest#it pays lipservice to marginised men but it has no interest in talking about the fact that men are usually simultaenously#oppressed and oppressor at the same time- this is not accusatory it is just factual#it's true of the queer community too and basically every community#but we can't seem to talk about it without just harming each other and blaming and not seeing each other as human#the internet makes it all so much fucking worse this stuff can't exist without it#anyway i'm super rambling but these are genuinely very triggering topics for me i have unfollowed people i LOVE becuase of this#and i still love them! unfollowing on a social media isn't a referendum on that i just can't see that stuff and i need it gone from my dash
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comradecowplant · 1 year ago
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I would like to thank The Morning Show for feeding the millennial sapphics who always thought Elle Woods should have been with the intimidating brunette woman, I feel seen & heard 😌🙏
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thatoneautisticfreak · 2 years ago
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Trans radfems on here are fucking on something man 💀💀💀💀
Theres this one mf who doesn't know why they keep getting called transphobic when they legit keep misgendering trans people and do some shitty ass trans gatekeeping to justify said misgendering and transphobia. Like. Darling. You're being labelled as transphobic because you are.
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deancasforcutie · 8 months ago
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Reminds me of the time I took a class in Queer Memoir (probably the most current/only 21st Century Literature I got to in the lit program) and was instantly dickslapped by how Like That book reviews are compared to the ("my esteemed colleagues" aside!) reverence and decorum of academia. We were like "??? why are they dictating the 'right way to be queer' these texts supposedly aren't that's so fucked up and homophobic" and now I'm posting about it into the void of the Homophobically Erasing Queer Text And Authorship Website
reading a romance novel where the protagonist feels the need to stop and inform that audience that it's okay for her, a 27 year old, to hook up with a 31 year old because despite the age difference both of their brains are fully developed. the Discourse really has done incalculable damage.
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hazbinbabbling4ever · 2 years ago
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So I've been trying to understand the takes in this post more, because it's always better to try and understand what the other side is saying before forming an opinion and yadda yadda, and the hot takes I've seen in this post as of now are:
Oh noes alphabet soup bad, labels bad, let's all say faggot or queer instead;
People who dislike slurs aren't allowed to do so because... ?
Super young people with no trauma dictating to older people what they should do.
Well... These are interestingly out of touch takes.
Posting faggot and queer like 2am gunshots to keep property values on my blog low and scare away assimilationist LGBTs who want to replace my empty lot full of native wildflowers with a 5-over-1 because they're too traumatized by their upbringing to accept the reality of our diverse marginalized community
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