#womanhoods

[wormy-wizard]

I work at a movie theater.

And personally? To be in the tickets booth, and see young girls, teenagers, adult women, coming in to see Barbie,

the most highlighter pink outfits, some of them coming in with the dolls they’re dressed as, laughing to each other, cheering for each other,

to see the men they’re coming to see it with, dressed in pink, cheering them on, taking their pictures with smiles and cheers in the lobby at the photo op

touches something so deep in me

I can’t say any nuances of the movie that haven’t already been said, but like, fuck man, love is so deep and so kind and to be able to see glimpses of it from behind my little ticket desk makes me a little less nihilistic.

[litaesthete]

hearts in trees ♡

[twinwound]

mary shelley writing about a monster rejected and abandoned by its creator and dedicating it to her own father i need to smoke a blunt with her i need to give her head

[metamorphesque]

Brief Poems, Vera Pavlova

[devouringyourson]

the substance is absolutely fucking bonkers grisly gorgeous horrifying and disgusting it's cured my body dysmorphia and it's given me 7 new disorders it's me on my period it's me in my dreams it's me alone in the shower it's me chewing 5 gum it's my ego it's my mother it's my future it's my worst enemy it's EVERYTHING

[feral-ballad]

Taylor Byas, from I Done Clicked My Heels Three Times: Poems; “Painted Tongue”

[Text ID: “my mother and I becoming each other, / her bruises and scars passed down, / family heirlooms that will take / me decades to stop wearing,”]

[mistybunny]

"if hell is a teenage girl then heaven is a woman"

[bi-dykes]

Girlhood is abruptly switching from this to this and then back again

[rrinnna]

“she takes care of herself”

[kysanity]

Tanerelle

[adacayifedaisi]

Behind Convent Walls (1978), Walerian Borowczyk

[feral-ballad]

Taylor Byas, from I Done Clicked My Heels Three Times: Poems; “Men really be menning”

[Text ID: “I try to hide the sharpest edge of myself—”]

[hamoodmood]

Another man another disappoinment

[captainjonnitkessler]

Things I wish women were learning from true crime podcasts: how to spot early warning signs of abusive relationships, how to escape abusive relationships, how easily domestic violence can escalate to murder, how incredibly unlikely it is to be the victim of a crime done by a complete random stranger as opposed to friends and family

What women are learning from true crime podcasts: I am in CONSTANT danger and every day I survive without being murdered by a serial killer is a miracle. I should react to everyone I meet with distrust and paranoia and live my life as if I am in mortal peril and if anyone suggests that might not be healthy then they just don't understand what it is to Be A Woman In Today's Society

[contagious-watermelon]

Why do I keep seeing transmascs and trans men insisting or implying that all trans men are "female socialized," or "understand the female experience," or "navigated the world as a woman." Because yeah, sure, that can be true for some people. especially if you weren't gnc at all as a kid and didn't crack your egg until well into adulthood, it makes sense.

But they don't stop at saying they had that experience. It always comes with an addendum that trans men, as a group, all can relate to this experience. I don't know about the entirety of my demographic, but I never got even a little bit of what some of them talk about. I didn't even believe that women were scared of going out at night until I kept consistently seeing them say it, online or wherever, for years. I never realized catcalling was a thing until I saw some women complaining about it on reddit.

But they posit it as some sort of, you're safer than cis men, right? You know what it's like? Which, on top of being patently, demonstrably false in the case of myself and many other trans men, holds some unpleasant and often outright hostile implications about trans women. And they always deny it, but if you can't even conceptualize someone like me who grew up gnc, and never got the bulk (or any?) of whatever we consider to be 'female socialization,' what does that say about what you think trans girls went through, growing up? I don't want to speak for them, as I've never experienced that firsthand, but I can guarantee that (if you're even a little bit obviously trans) people don't treat you like a cis kid of the opposite gender. By and large, they don't get treated like cis boys.

It just makes me mad that we're taking this inaccurate framework that (ever so conveniently) puts trans people into the box of our assumed birth gender, and trying to fancy it up and use it with a faux-progressive veneer; never mind the way that transphobes use it to bar trans women from being athletes, or using the bathroom, or having access to any gendered resources they need. It would be bad enough to try and dust it off and use it even if it were largely accurate, due to the aforementioned connections to outright transphobia, but it literally is patently false. Not in all cases, obviously, but why are we trying to revamp this untrue, inaccurate generalization and pretend that we can make it 'trans-inclusive?'

[genderqueerdykes]

how do people not understand that when we hurt and fail trans women we hurt and fail all women because we've hurt and failed some of our most vulnerable, disadvantaged women. there is never a situation where you can uphold women withhold upholding trans women as well because trans women are a vital part of that population. you can't step on a trans woman's toes without stepping on a cis woman's toes or genderqueer woman's or intersex woman's or queer woman's or butch woman's toes as well. when you exclude trans women, you exclude all women. we all lose. love and include trans women or leave.