#woman women loveyourself

[tvandrea13]

[cocoabuttavasa]

ms.beautiful 🧚🏾

[astrogirlythings]

I am only up against the best version of myself . ♀️

Respectfully, other women are not my competition. I will never compare myself with them & I hope that they don't compare themselves with me too.

[icyyysworld]

I want nothing more then a peaceful life

A life where my every want and need is taken care of

I never have to worry about a bill, about whether I have enough money to take care of my needs

I never have to worry about having a roof over my head or clothes on my back or food on the table

I will have more then enough for myself, and more then enough to give

I want to be able to wake up everyday and love what I do for a living, start of the day with a smile on my face unconsciously, unconditionally

I want to be surrounded by people who love me, who love themselves, who want nothing but the best for me and nothing but the best for themselves.

That’s all I want, is a peaceful life.

[samantabrzozowska]

"Send your kisses to God

and to the whole universe!"

With love Sam

[thirteen-31]

[the-love-within-you]

Just because he is treating you better than the last, doesn't mean he is the one. Know your worth.

Something I wish I knew

[febuary30thday]

Women

Okay, but like- why are women so- AAAAGGGHHH. Like- PLEASE. ONE CHANCE! PLEASE!

Plus size women, skinny women, any body type, single mothers, mothers with husbands, models, black women, white women, Asian women, Hispanic women, Latina women, trans women, demi-woman, lesbians, bisexuals, cupioromantic women, asexual women, aro women, political women, Arabic women, Islamic women, Muslim women. Hindu women, Shinto women. Stripper women, hr women, football women, tennis women, baseball women, and news reporter women. Clingy women, happy women, deep-voiced women, high-pitched-voiced women, messy women, and neat women. Any and all females I want to say, that if you don't feel appreciated by anybody, just know that I appreciate you.

All of you.

I literally want to give you all hugs and provide you with never-ending comfort and hot chocolate, tea, coffee, or energy drinks. I want to sit by an open flame and chat with all of you as we laugh about everything and are just living life to the fullest while we still can.

I love you all, forever.

If you see this post, hello fellow person. Appreciate women with me today too.

[floreonava]

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[max-rainet]

[damoreschool]

Just. Plain. Awesome.

A friend sent me this after a tough therapy session today.

[icyyysworld]

Law of mirroring

( PSA: this is a post directed to myself but if this helps you then that’s great too ;)

(Also law of mirroring and law of assumption is basically the same thing I just like to think of it as the law of mirroring it helps me process everything more❤️)

The world is your mirror

What you belive and feel to be true about yourself and the world around you will be reflected back to you

So let’s break this down

What do you believe?

Your not worthy, your not chosen, your ugly, your stupid, et

All that is reflected back to you in your everyday life,

Your stuttering, you doing and saying stupid things is because you belive your stupid

You constantly have acne, eye bags, you feel your hair never looks good because you “perceive yourself to be ugly” and because you focus on that, that’s what keeps showing up

You believe your not chosen, other girls getting more attention then you, other girls pulling more guys, other girls getting the car they want the money, the grades and things they want and you feel you always come second that your never on top,

so because when these “circumstances” show up you allow yourself to internalize it and be bothered by it and focus on It and complain

Rather then choosing to believe a different story, focus on feeling good about yourself inside and choosing the solution to change rather then keep persisting in the same story there for keeping you in the same cycle

So now that we know this what do we do?

We change the perception and the story.

Hair? Stop saying oh my hair is ugly, my hair is short, my edges are thin, stop persisting in the story the mirror is telling

Tell yourself your hair is long your hair is beautiful you have thick healthy manageable hair

Whenever you start to feel bothered by the story the 3d is showing you, remember that you created it, and you can change it, by simply affirming and persisting in something different

Whenever you look in the mirror affirm “this is just a reflection of my inner story that I created and I can change it simply by focusing on what I want and telling myself that I have it or will get it”

There’s 2 ways things can go

Example: “looks in mirror”

my hair is so =ugly/beautiful

(pause, and catch yourself in the moment and decide not to repeat the old story and focus on the new one)

My hair is gorgeous I have my Dream hair, my hair grows so fast and so thick eyc,

Just simply catch yourself and choose to persist in a new story

And that’s with literally anything just simply become aware of your inner world(story) and choose to change it and that’s it

It’s so simple that’s literally it.

[malkahpariyz]

Remember:

Everyone else’s story is not your story. Whatever they needed to learn is not what you need to learn. Their journey is not your journey. Their wrongs are not your wrongs. You’re not guilty of whatever they have been guilty of. Their faults are not your faults.

So don’t let others project their faults onto you. Don’t let them tell you that you’re things that you are not. Don’t let them assume you need to learn things that you do not need to learn or that you have already learned.

You’re going through something very different than what they ever been through. No matter how similar the emotions, it’s a completely different experience and lessons to be learned.

Learn them on your own terms, void of scrutiny, judgements, labels, persecution, and assumptions.

♥ Paris Dior

[cocofetti]

This!!! Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in being accepted and liked by others. WHO ARE YOU AND DO YOU LIKE THAT WOMAN?! That's what you need to be concerned with, becoming someone that YOU like and want to be around! Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can ever put on without taking a thing off. And it will carry you rather than any opinions that will come your way. Go where you are loved, black woman. Go where you are cherished, black woman. And if you are struggling to find that place outside of you, please don't forget to cultivate that place inside you.

I think there’s definitely some black women who can’t relate to what I’m going to say (which is good as some have moved past seeking validation from men) but specifically to my young darker skinned black girls. I feel like many of you are too concerned with who doesn’t like them / find them desirable instead of focusing on themselves so they can become a quality woman and be in spaces where quality men are and engage with those men that value them / find them desirable. It’s difficult seeing others around you recieve more compliments or praise but this is the world we live in & we must make the most of our experience.

We know that Black men are highly fetishised, colorist and some suffer from self hatred. We know that some non black men are point blank anti black or their insecurity towards black men (which even hinders how they interact with women in their own race who engage with black men) makes us so called “undersirable”. I made a post earlier (in my misogynoir tag) about how being a “desirable” woman in this society has little to do with beauty or your attributes and it’s not something BW should obsess about (because no matter how we look, having a counterpart who is said to have the largest penises and our prioritisation of these men as an outlet of our racial pride, means we’d never have that label). Please understand that.

You can never go wrong focusing on your growth and happiness which will in turn attract the best men ...

[missmagicalelf]

As you all know today is #internationalwomensday and I can’t help look at all the artists, writers, characters and the women in my life that have inspired me to be better do better in my writing and in my life so remember keep doing your best, be strong and give lots of love💪💖🤗👸🏻